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Can you show me where? I think I’ve read all the comments in this post and see none of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 04:01 PM
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Literally no females here are complaining about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 03:32 PM
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Take into account that this man has been divorced once and knows what kind of consequences he could potentially experience if he doesn't cover all his bases.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 06:17 PM
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I got an apartment with my husband before we were married. We were planning to get married in the future before we even considered it, though. Within the first few months of moving in, we were officially engaged and then married within that first year of living together. I, personally, wouldn't move in with someone unless there was a mutual agreement that marriage was in the near future. My husband felt the same way. We discussed all of this before looking for apartments so that our expectations…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 02:51 PM
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I feel that all of those requests are very reasonable and I would sign it. Having a list of basic expectations also takes a lot of guesswork out the picture, which is convenient.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 02:35 PM
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I have a friend who tried the private school to put her daughter in at almost 5 and they also said she wasn't ready because of her young age. If you want your kids to go to preschool, you have to pay and it's 5-10k a year. There is a free preschool program that is gov funded, but only for those who fall at or below the federal poverty line (which is 19k per year for a family of 3).
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 12:40 AM
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The compulsory age for school where I live is 6. The 5 year olds must be 5 before Sept 1 of the school year in order to start kindergarten. One of the children I care for had a birthday right after the cutoff date and got a waiver for starting kindergarten early, but was kicked out after the first week because they were almost a whole year younger than all of their classmates and weren't "ready", according to the district.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 12:02 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I completely agree that being a stay at home mom is a sweet gig. I was just pointing out that children do exist before they come of age for school.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 03:49 PM
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Kids don't start school until that are 5-6 years old. When my oldest started school, I was pregnant with my next child who won't start school until they are 5-6. Each additional child I have will extend the time that I'm doing 16 hour days by 5-6 years from the birth of that child.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 01:20 PM
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You will find out when he will pop the question when he does. Pressuring him into marriage will make him resent you. Just leave it alone and let him do it on his own time. No guy wants to be nagged about marriage. That will make him not want to marry you. Focus on being the best version of yourself and making him want to secure that commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 08:37 PM
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I guarantee you he would love it if you went down on him while he's playing a game. My husband loves it and doesn't care one bit of he's distracted.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 02:30 AM
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It's usually just an excuse and not a valid complaint.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/16 03:32 PM
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It's a minimum 5 year contract after training for 35P mos. My mos required a 6 year contract when I was in.
/r/askMRP26/09/16 02:21 PM
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I'm not gonna lie, your husband sounds like a loser. He's almost 30 and has been reliant on other people for his entire life. One job and one possible future job does not make him successful. It seems like he has delusions of grandeur. OP, I was in the Army, too, and took care of a man who was older than me and couldn't seem to get it together. We got married when I was only 19 (he was 26) so he could have tricare and BAH with plans for him to take over as the breadwinner after he took off with …
/r/askMRP26/09/16 02:03 PM
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That's not too specific of a type and I think all those things are reasonable. One idea I have is that you could show up a bit early for class and make conversation with others before class starts. You could also try to meet guys at the library.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 10:19 PM
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To be honest, he sounds like he is weak and wouldn't make a very good leader. You could leave that door open, but I wouldn't wait around for him if he's not showing interest in you now.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 08:49 PM
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How specific is the type of guy you are looking for? Can you give an example?
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 08:29 PM
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It makes sense that he might not consider himself to be needed if I can do things for myself. In our case, I am a stay at home mom and rely on him 100% for provision. The economic value of being handy seems to help offset the fact that I don't go to work. He doesn't have to come home after work and fix things and I don't have to ever nag him for any reason. I agree with you that there is no reason to have a feminist who doesn't contribute anything to a household and only takes resources.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 06:03 PM
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Interesting perspective. When I first started dating my husband, his brother gave him grief about me being "kinda like a dude" because I know how to fix cars and can do things like basic plumbing and electrical. Luckily, my husband appreciates my usefulness and doesn't see it as a bad thing like his brother did.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 05:08 PM
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That's what I was thinking, especially for the younger girls. I would encourage them to do cheerleading so they could get some exercise and get down to a healthy weight.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 04:02 AM
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The question I have is what do you do after you've been reduced to every other weekend dad and butt rammed with child support?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 12:07 AM
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Have you talked to him about RP and what your long term goals are? I like being super open with my husband about what my expectations are and that was an important thing that had to be made clear before we got engaged and married. I am a little suspicious of him quitting a good job before getting saddled with child support. The best indicator of someone's future actions are their past actions. This might not be relevant to you if you don't want bio kids of your own. I get that his ex is crazy, b…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 04:11 PM
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That seems odd that he would quit a good job. Does he have kids that he has to pay child support for? I can tell you have a good work ethic, as successful as you have been on your own.. Does he also have a good work ethic?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 02:21 AM
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Has he always been unemployed/underemployed or is this a new thing? I would be wary of patterns where a man consistently relies on other people for sustenance rather than taking charge of their lives. In a situation like that, it would be unreasonable to expect a man to step up as a leader when he is at the mercy of others for his financial needs.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 01:53 AM
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Yeah, I mean by having to be the provider while he's unemployed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 01:12 AM
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Is it possible that you could have some cognitive dissonance with trying to convert to RP while at the same time having to act as the "man" of the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 12:04 AM
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OP caught him flirting with an ex online. That's what I was referring to. Do you and your exes flirt on steam? If so, I would see that as a red flag. Having friends of the opposite sex isn't an immediate red flag for me. Flirting with other people at all when you're in a relationship is a red flag for me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 11:55 PM
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Are you sure he isn't just covering his tracks better? In my experience, guys like that keep doing the same thing and just learn to hide it better. It's cool if you feel you can trust him, but proceed with much caution.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 07:30 PM
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Just curious, why are you still with a guy who continues to talk to his exes? That's a huge red flag if you want commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 06:46 PM
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It's a good idea to have kids before 30, not only for energy reasons, but for genetic reasons. The quality of our eggs decreases over time and around 35, the risk for birth defects skyrockets.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 10:48 PM
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The loss of sex drive I've seen in friends was typically due to them perceiving their husbands differently. There was some disappointment/resentment regarding the share of workload. I don't work outside the home, so I don't easily get overwhelmed with the rigors of motherhood and house wifery. I'm not responsible for providing for the family, just for keeping the household, which is what I'm naturally good at. My husband also is a very active father and enjoys playing with and reading to the kid…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 10:40 PM
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For science! The first couple months of a baby are hard because you don't get much chance to sleep and you can't really have sex anyway because you are healing from birth. I had some scar tissue that I had to get used to and let heal up. After I healed, pretty much everything went back to normal. I breastfed for a year, so my boobs would occasionally leak during sex. Of course, being pregnant has a permanent effect on your boobs and they are no longer perky like they were before. There's no way …
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 09:26 PM
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Once per day is ideal, with the occasional day off if we don't have time or opportunity. I'm late 20s, married and have kids. I'm currently quite pregnant and that makes things uncomfortable at the moment. Pregnant frequency is closer to 4x/week.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 08:36 PM
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I think personality is much more important than a man's actual age. I am married to a man who is 2 years older than I am, but before him I was with guys 6-20 years older than me. My husband is my youngest mate, but also the most stable and family oriented, which is why I picked him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 07:45 PM
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