Candi_G_String Archive

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16	Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM. Yes, I am, too. Sex should be reserved for the ultimate celebration of a relationship in which, above and beyond everything else, you know as an absolute, rock solid fact of the universe like gravity that he will be there for you when you need him, no matter what. After many mass shootings, there are stories about a man who threw himself over the the woman he was with to take any bullets that might hurt her. That's the only kind of man who deserves to have sex with a woman. The piece of crap OP …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/20 07:16 PM
3	Is it rude to say "i want to be financially independent so that a relationship is a pretty thing in my life but not a requirement." I ❤️ love this! You have exactly the right attitude that I wish all women had. You go girl! One of the big fem lib fallacies is that we have to give up using the power our sexuality gives us over men if we want to have power as respected, competent professionals. What a load of bull. I love to spend the day in the office supervising and managing men based purely on my work skills, then go out at night in an insanely sexy dress and entice a guy into asking me out for a steak dinner, after which I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/20 03:08 PM
15	Is it rude to say "i want to be financially independent so that a relationship is a pretty thing in my life but not a requirement." Yes!! You are absolutely right. OP's experience is an example of the really screwy double binds society uses to dis-empower women. A woman who seeks out and uses rich men for their money is condemned as a gold digger. A woman who seeks out a better job so that she can eventually become a rich person on her own also gets put down. What's really going on is that a patriarchal society fears the powerful woman because she's a threat to men. There's nothing wrong with a woman using the power of her s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 08:09 PM
2	Is social media dating even worth it in 2020? YP groups meet so sporadically that its difficult to build relationships when you see people maybe once a month Overall, Liz's advice is excellent, but I did want to pick up on this one line in the OP. Don't try to develop a relationship over time, solely at the YP meetings. Use the meeting kind of like you'd use an OLD initial contact. If you chat with someone at a YP meeting for a few minutes and she seems interesting say something like, "I'm really enjoying talking to you. I'd like to continu…	/r/askFDS	12/03/20 05:40 PM
53	Mood. I decided when I was very young that I was going to be the one in charge when dealing with men. I've been doing martial arts for years and encourage all women to do that. It's very empowering to know that if a man tries anything assaultive, you can leave him with crushed balls and a couple of broken arms. And, of course, FDS is loaded with tips on how not to get manipulated into letting your boundaries be violated. We can do things to tip the power balance back in our favor in relationships, eve…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/20 10:22 PM
62	HELL YA!! Men can't be relied on, but be careful in saying a career is more reliable than a man. Many people have found themselves out of work after giving many years to a company. We have to rely on ourselves, on our inner strength. Neither a man nor a career can be counted on to always be there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 07:31 PM
1	My ex was visibly frustrated that I disregarded his existence after I ran into him at the gym Frustrate the hell out of him and enjoy every minute of it! If you have a pretty good idea of when he's there, drive him crazy by wearing some especially sexy workout gear, doing some very suggestive stretches and flirting with someone while he's watching.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 04:31 PM
6	The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used. What you say is so true. These are two very different things: Peaking at how closely you fit the stereotype of what is physically desirable. Peaking at how hot and desirable you are. Yes, a young women who looks good in a bikini can stroll down a beach and take her pick of a dozen shallow, drooling males who are slaves to their hormones. If she chooses the right beach, some of those shallow jerks will be rich and she can exploit them easily. She really can do that more easily than an older women…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 04:27 PM