Candicore Archive

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1	When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date? A lot of people are saying to give this dude another chance, but if you have to give the benefit of the doubt on the first date, how much more in the oncoming dates?	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/26 04:26 PM
1	men DO care about a woman’s income Me personally, I can pay my own way with friends, roommates, and by myself when I’m single. I don’t see the point in splitting rent with someone who’s supposed to be my romantic partner, and surprisingly it doesn’t mean splitting domestic labor either. I know it works for a lot of people’s situation, but it doesn’t work for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 04:20 PM
1	men DO care about a woman’s income And what about Lauren? Jeff met his wife when he was "broke" (compared to now), and married her. Now that he's substantially wealthier, he married Lauren (not of the same education nor income level).	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 05:36 AM
1	men DO care about a woman’s income Most marriages are between average people with average incomes, so it's more of a statistical fact, not a diss. Most people are average income earners. I agree with you that they meet through workplace, college (degree is important, income not so much), etc. It's proximity. Ex: doctors marrying nurses (lower income but same workplace), wealthy men marrying flight attendants (lower income but regular mode of transportation, similar to meeting a romantic partner on a train or bus). How many wealth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 05:19 AM
1	men DO care about a woman’s income From my dating experience, I kept my job (6 figure income) a secret, because when I told guys I was dating my occupation, they would say "wow that's great, so you're going to be my sugar mommy?" 🤢 In my experience, the men who cared about income were the ones who were performing lower than me in terms of income (no high earner was saying that to me, that's for sure), and were often very transactional (wanting to split bills, rent, etc). And what I see in my friends and irl, it's usually the less…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 04:40 AM
2	When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date? I can see the appeal, especially for online dating, then following up with another date. It does make sense.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/26 11:09 PM
-2	When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date? Me personally, I'm not going to waste my time for a coffee date, much less split a coffee date. But if it works for you by all means.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/26 10:57 PM
6	When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date? Maybe. Hope I get proven wrong, but from my experience, I haven't seen much generosity from men who split on coffee dates. Those who split tend to split everything like their love, time, bills, rent, etc. I'm based in the U.S and gen z for context.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/26 08:54 PM
6	When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date? I can understand relationship, but this is a first date all about first impressions. What relationship is there? He couldn't pay for coffee? and they want to carpool using her car? This the type of shit I do with my friends. Not a partner.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/26 08:32 PM
-3	When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date? I think it's a bit unsafe for him to pick you up from your house to then go hike. From what you've posted about him, he seems low effort and cheap. Coffee date, hiking, what's next a walk in the park? IMO I think you're wasting your time, but I wish you luck and hope he proves me wrong. 🍀	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/26 08:12 PM
5	When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date? Who's courting who?	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/26 08:09 PM
-2	When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date? Me personally, I'd take his behavior consistent with someone who's not generous nor considerate. Don't bring it up to him. Drop him and find a more generous man.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/26 08:02 PM
3	Would women still get married if they were legally mandated to frequently have sex with their husbands? As the incredibly higher libido partner, I'd LOVE a law saying sex is mandatory in marriages. I want my husband to have sex with me at LEAST 5 days a week /s I married my husband because I love him, not because I mandate sex from him. I wouldn't want to force what's not freely given	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 07:39 PM
1	The stigma around financially-providing relationships I share the same beliefs as you. I was a stay at my own home gf, and now a SAHW. I've always been provided for by my now husband. However, I also believe in protecting myself. Despite my bf paying all my bills, travels, and rent, I still stayed at my apartment. My only caveat is: You don't have any rights as a gf. So a lot of stay at home gf's are in vulnerable situations because their partners can leave them destitute at any time. A wife would be entitled to assets, alimony, and property.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 08:21 PM
2	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women You sound like a wonderful husband. Your wife must be lucky to have you	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:38 AM
3	Men only need sex to assert themselves over women. As a high libido woman, I really desire sex. I agree that desire for sex (intimacy) is a natural need. I believe casual sex to be dangerous in the sense that women are more likely to be assaulted/coerced by a practical stranger (it's already a risk with a man you know, much less a person you barely know).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:11 AM
–	Do you feel like a lot of women’s tests are rigged? Like...what? I'd love to see studies done on "bitchiness"	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 03:32 AM
13	Bad men should be unselected. This Responsibility Falls Mostly on Women. The Freedom of Sexual Selectors and Responsibility. I might get downvoted for this, but I agree. I see too many women willingly choose men (because it's ultimately their active decision) who are clearly unfit to be fathers, husbands, partners, etc. Of course I'm not talking about the sociopaths who hide their deceit well. IMO 99% of red flags could be seen through dating seriously, observations, and discernment. My other hot take is that the women who choose these kinds of men and then complain, are also "red flags".	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/26 09:35 PM
1	Trying to cope with cheating. Thoughts or advice? I agree with the not feeling sorry enough to tell OP, even if it was the first year of the relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/17 10:08 PM
3	Trying to cope with cheating. Thoughts or advice? Ohhhhhh, although it is still bad, it is better than what I thought 😅 sorry. I stick to my original post then. This can be worked through.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/17 09:48 PM
3	Trying to cope with cheating. Thoughts or advice? EDIT: nvm this situation can be worked through. I thought it was the first year of their marriage.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/17 09:37 PM
6	Trying to cope with cheating. Thoughts or advice? Woah, he didn't take you seriously the first year of your MARRIAGE? And his reason for stopping is that he took you more seriously? If he took you more seriously, like he said, why didn't he tell you after the first year? That is so suspect!	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/17 09:21 PM
18	Trying to cope with cheating. Thoughts or advice? This was not an isolated incident. You said he had REPEATED sexual encounters with 2 women and 1 ONS. That is not a mistake. This was planned and INTENTIONAL. I'm not one of those people who think "once a cheater, always a cheater". I will forgive cheating if: 1.) my husband only did it once 2.) told me immediately afterwards. To me, this shows remorse and the fact he tells me afterwards shows honesty and willingness to face the consequences of me knowing. Your husband, as far as I know, did it …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/17 09:04 PM
3	Boyfriend sets poor boundaries Okay, if you're not going to leave him, then it should be HIM who has to regain your trust. So far it seems he's very untrustworthy and even hid his son from you on purpose. All relationships take work and it should be equal effort on both parts. For you, you should just trust that he's not doing anything. If you don't trust that and you're not secure, then what's the point in being in the relationship? ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I always say for this: trust but verify. So if he tells you he's not doing anything,…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/17 07:06 PM