| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Mid game fundamentals | Fundamentals | CandidInevitable757 | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 02:40 AM |
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| 4 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?Yeah it’s whack how sometimes your success and failures are not attributable to what you did at all, just a matter of right place or wrong place at the right/wrong time. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Trying to get back into dating, is cold approaching still relevant or is their a better way?By far the most common experience for me is to have a nice engaging interaction for a few minutes, get her info, then never hear from her again. Girls are generally too agreeable to reject you to your face so they ghost instead. I think many enjoy being hit on so they go along with it, but when they get home they think “I don’t know him he’s just some random guy” and go back to the apps or their friend groups where they’re more comfortable. | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How can I initiate car sex?What do you mean no date beforehand man if you want to do that hooker is your best bet 😂 | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 05:24 AM |
| 2 | A small tip from a girlThe IG thing is split dead down the middle some girls hate it some prefer it | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 01:46 AM |
| 1 | At the gym it’s happened twice now a girl and me look at each other a lot for multiple days I sense she might be single and seeking attention or something but don’t approach her then weeks later she shows up with a boyfriend probably a guy that approached her at the gymOr she had the bf the whole time and is looking to cheat | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Great first dates…not leading to seconds“Am I letting momentum die if I wait two or three days to reach out?” Yes! Absolutely! Text her the next day man everyone’s attention span is 12 minutes now you can’t be letting her sit around while other guys message her wondering when you’ll reach out again. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 04:55 AM |
| 18 | do women prefer if a man is super jealous if another man is hitting on her and gets defensive or is that a turn off to her?Jealously over flirting means you’re insecure lmao men don’t let women dictate what you’ll tolerate | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 08:46 AM |
| 2 | What are the subtle yet impactful things that a woman does that are very seductive to a man?If she’s looking away, look back at him, smile, giggle a bit, then look away again. | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 04:53 AM |
| 1 | I keep running into this same pattern when it comes to dirty talk/sexting, and the girl ghosting me all a sudden.The psychology of it is she knows she will be pressured into sex if you meet and women are very fearful of that situation. Especially since it’s impossible to know if you’ll actually vibe face to face and then she would have to turn you down - a nightmare scenario for her (women hate confrontation). | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 06:39 AM |
| 2 | [FR] High interest to nada! I feel so high from it but it ended very quick!Yeah I totally notice this with irl cold approaches too | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Expensive dates sub-communicate low value and desperationLevel 1: Take girls on expensive dates to impress them Level 2: Take girls on cheap dates to know they’re into you Level 3: Take girls on dates you want to go on regardless of the price because you’re prosperous and do what you want | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | What’s your best day game tips?My #1 tip is it gets exponentially easier the more of it you do within a certain time period. The ease also wears off over time if you don’t do it so keep it up. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with anxiety any time a girl over 7/10 talks to me?For me I simply fumbled them over and over until it didn’t sting anymore | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 05:09 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys keep going?I’ve been hitting the flaking a lot too. One thing to help is making the dates happen ASAP so they don’t have time for excuses to come up. Otherwise it means your attraction level wasn’t high enough. Have to flirt more/better. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Best cities to find a wifeObjectively speaking Provo, UT. Home of BYU. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 10:42 PM |
| 0 | How do you know when a girl wants you to touch her or kiss her?The mindset of figuring out what she wants and doing that is wrong altogether. Puts you in a submissive role. Do what you want and if she’s enjoying it (laughing, smiling, not pulling away) keep doing it. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Girls tell me I’m very attractive but don’t wanna go outHow can we tell you what to change if you don’t tell us what you do | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | What has your experience been with San Francisco?If you’re coming from the Bay Area you’ll find hot girls everywhere due to your standards being pile driven deep into the ground | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | What has your experience been with San Francisco?I went to Berkeley man my dick inverts every time I think back to those dark dark days | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | What has your experience been with San Francisco?Westwood, Mauna Loa Club, White Rabbit. This is for white girls btw | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 08:05 PM |
| 55 | What has your experience been with San Francisco?I was left perplexed with how unattractive the women were. I would seriously spend the whole night on Polk St, Market, etc. and not see a single girl I was into the whole time. Incredible. Marina had cute girls for sure. Ultimately the slim pickings of the dating scene were a deciding factor in my moving out of the Bay Area, along with the hopelessness of ever buying a home. | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl exampleLittle know fact the rules for dating apps are actually: 1. Have attractive pictures 2. Don’t have unattractive pictures I’m 5’10” and I floundered for years on the app till I finally fixed that. | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl exampleNonetheless 90% of my dates comes from the apps and some are legit cute ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Whats your BEST opener you use to force yourself to say sometthing when at the spur of the moment you come accross a babe walking your way?Clothing/accessory compliment almost always works. She chose to wear that thing out of many other options so she’s probably very fond of it and appreciates that you are too. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Whats your BEST opener you use to force yourself to say sometthing when at the spur of the moment you come accross a babe walking your way?“Spur of the moment” | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Almost exclusively attracted to sporty or athletic women, advice?Approach at the gym it’s great. What makes it smooth as butter for me is to talk to her on your way out, visibly holding a sweater or something. This makes her feel comfortable you won’t be sticking around for a long time possibly making her feel uncomfortable. Going at regular times is also good for establishing familiar faces. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to approach women at shopping malls, stores and the street?No it isn’t normal and you’re right most guys aren’t doing it. But if you want to get more action than the normal guy (or you do right now) you’ll have to do something different. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 03:02 AM |
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