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are you responding to the title or my post?
/r/AllPillDebate07/06/23 02:50 AM
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Lets stay focused and not get sidelined. The intention behind my previous message was not to specifically advocate for seeking therapy. What I wanted to highlight is that relying solely on Reddit or any online platform for professional help may not always lead to the support one might expect. It's important to keep that in mind and avoid getting frustated about not receiving professional advice through these channels because this isn't the place for that. If you'd like to stay on topic and discu…
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 10:03 AM
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yes, you missed actualy engaging with any of my points. But that's OK.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 09:56 AM
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Sounds like therapy. Thats what a therpist is for..... to aid with emotional processing. A therpaist will never attempt to steer your life for you or tell you what to do. If they did, that wouldn't be therapy, that would be coaching which is something else entirely. You visited the wrong kind of professional if you wanted that kind of help. Also bare in mind that I said"professional", I wasn't specifically referring to therapists. There are a range of professionals out there.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 04:42 AM
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Internal thoughts don't influence external behaviour?. Thats what people can see, not your mind. It's not only women who do that, I do that and I'm a man.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 03:06 AM
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How dare they offer advice on getting over hatred!. Stop hating? But hating is our cardio! I've got my own hate-pumping playlist, an Olympic-level grudge-holding routine, and I'm in the top percentile of hating enthusiasts. Thanks, but no thanks, let's keep the haterade flowing.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 03:04 AM
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I see what you did!. Ah, my friend, you seek guidance on ignoring them. Though I won't be paid, I'll humor your request. Brace yourself for a comprehensive guide you won't read. In this endeavor, I shall craft a masterpiece, knowing you'll disregard it. Embrace the irony, as I revel in this one-sided dance of words.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 01:38 AM
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But that is the thing, if you pick a non sexual thing to compliment A guy who is scared to talk to women will struggle to even give valilla compliments. How about before learning to that, just starting by throwing out some jsimple "hello's"?. If they smile and say hello back its a green light and means they are open to meeting a new person. If they dont say hello back or act impartial or indifferent, thats a red light. Don't initiate further conversation. No one can call you creepy for saying he…
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 01:24 AM
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is that what you did?
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 01:12 AM
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Your biggest obstacle is your fear. Are you prepared to challenge this fear? Because that will involve actually doing things that you are afraid of. You can't preemptively remove fear. It can only be met head on.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 01:11 AM
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Not the professionals I have visited. That sounds more like reddit counselling. Have you actually visited a professional before?.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 01:02 AM
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are you replying to my title? or my post?
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 04:35 PM
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Social conditioning instills fear in women towards male strangers due to historical context, media representation, gender stereotypes, personal experiences, and cultural norms. Women's past vulnerability to violence, portrayal of male strangers as threats in the media, traditional gender roles, firsthand encounters with harassment or assault, and societal messages emphasizing caution contribute to this fear. Men can also develop fears when interacting with women due to societal stereotypes and e…
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 04:28 PM
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We would be rich, lets pitch it to vice
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 04:12 PM
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Well, let's be honest here, the gents around here don't quite strike me as the ideal candidates to brainstorm a battle of the sexes scenarios. Frankly, I'd rather have a battalion of fierce, determined women fighting for my country than a pack of jaded, anti-effort men steeped in the depths of negativity.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 03:46 PM
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I'm curious as to who you think truly embodies the essence of naive foolishness? Is it those busy bees who can't spare a moment to assist random souls in unraveling their digital existence?. Or perhaps it's the daring souls who place their hopes in the virtual hands of strangers, expecting them to untangle the mess that is their lives?
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 03:32 PM
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Then they all just say "just be a picky eater bro" at ya and ignore everything you tell them.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 03:25 PM
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It seems we've entered the perplexing realm of assumption-ception once again! Just like a hall of mirrors, it can be quite a dizzying experience. You know, humor can be a bit tricky sometimes, and interpretations can vary. I understand that you interpreted it in a different way, and I can't control how you perceive it. Let's break free from this loop-de-loop of assumptions and enjoy a more straightforward and laughter-filled conversation, shall we? I promise, no more reflection-induced headaches…
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 03:20 PM
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Be a picky eater then.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 01:32 PM
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I must say, your assumption about my assumption is like a hall of mirrors, and I don't know about you, but I prefer to keep my head out of those twisted mazes. The point was indeed about their tendency to push away help and evade advice, not about their sanity but it seems though we embarked on a misinterpretation rollercoaster and our conversation took an unexpected detour!. That reminds me a bit of when incels evade advice!
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 01:23 PM
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which one would you recommend ?
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 10:03 AM
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You couldn't give away free advice to these people. If there was an institution that rehabilitated incels and you lead any of these guys there and paid for their stay......they would find a way to escape. They'd jump out the window in the middle of the night and run for the hills.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 10:02 AM
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What percentage of the lads in this sub do you think would be able to handle that level of extreme danger and stress?. These are guys who make rage posts when a girl ghosts them for gods sake. I would hardly imagine they have the mental capcity for any type of actual seriously grueling events.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 09:51 AM
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As a person who used to not recognise hints, I can attest that its quite a steep learning curve and requires getting to know a lot of girls on a platonic basis. But then again....there is very little in my life that I have found easy to learn. I wish everything was easy.....but it's not.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 09:47 AM
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You dont hate the chess peices, you hate the chess player.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:08 PM
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Your goal is to become a deadbeat? ? ?
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 11:50 AM
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Well, if all you're looking for is a sexual relationship, having a wife might not be necessary. Getting married comes with a lot of responsibilities and commitments beyond just sex. It can be challenging to commit to someone if you don't genuinely like or care for them. Unfortunately, some guys who are primarily interested in sex might rush into a relationship without taking the time to get to know the person. Before they know it, they feel trapped or dependent on their partner, similar to how a…
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 11:44 AM
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get out of bed ya lazy so and so
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 11:36 AM
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As someone who has lived and travelled for over 15 years. I can say right now, that living off $5k in any country these days is a stretch. It's doable, but you won't be able to do much. $8 - 10k would be my advised bare minimum
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 05:07 AM
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He is saying that whites have lost their sense of community and comradery. The loss of community and camaraderie is not limited to white individuals alone. It affects people of all backgrounds, and this absence of community can be observed in major cities. The rise of leftist movements, such as antifa and feminism, in liberal cities could be attributed to the yearning for a sense of belonging that traditional social and religious structures may no longer provide. Similarly, the increasing popula…
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 02:19 AM
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very true, and the reason why no one has a rebuttal. duh....never thought of that! I am the firthest thing from a feminist, but does this post anecdotally prove that men are incapable of rational thinking and think through a lens of gender bias and envy?. the answer to that is a clear no. That also gives the answer to the OPs anecdotal question.
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 01:53 AM
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No my friend, there. were no suggestions, assumptions or implications ....at all. There was only one question. Let me rephrase it and clarify my intention. I was not suggesting that all women lie about their virginity or that you should be better off with a promiscuous woman. My question was focused on the challenge of determining whether someone is telling the truth about their virginity While you may trust the women you interact with, it's important to acknowledge that societal pressures, cult…
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 01:43 AM
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to a degree it matters if you are rich, white, tall, etc but more importantly as long as you're unique gives you an automatic niche. absolutely everything about you matters. Every inner and outer quality you possess, whether positive or negative, can hold varying degrees of significance to different individuals. Every skill, knowledge, mindset, attitude, and moral value you possess or lack has an impact on your life and the way you interact with others. These aspects collectively shape your char…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:10 AM
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let’s say he’s an athlete or DJ or whatever, she can add context to it and her emotions begin playing a role I'm a DJ, as you would expect, I have had reasonable amount of offline success with women. On tinder, I have phtotos of me playing at big festivals....no matches. I knew I had to step away from this app because I simply wouldn't have enough time and energy to devote to this game without neglecting other areas of my life which were more important. Instead, I'd rather invest my time and ene…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:53 AM
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Ah, the depths of darkness, where even black pillers dare not tread. It seems you've discovered a level of gloom and despair that exceeds their somber expectations. Congratulations on achieving the status of being too dark for the black pillers. Perhaps it's time to form your own shade of pitch-black philosophy. Keep embracing the abyss, my friend
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 05:28 AM
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because trust me Ah, the master of the uninformed persuasion! It's truly remarkable how you effortlessly navigate the treacherous realm of preaching without even a hint of practical knowledge, relying solely on your untested theories and untried techniques. I suppose we should all take a leap of faith and trust your expertise in the art of not actually doing it.
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 05:24 AM
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Its not that they would lie to you in particular, if they are gonna lie about it, they would lie to anyone who asks. And it still doent answer the question.....how could you know if they are lying or not?
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 03:21 AM
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Very nice perspective
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 07:42 PM
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I wasnt trying to make a gendered comparision. I don't give a shit about what percentage of men or women do this or that. Its banal. That shit is for feminists and blue haired people who see gender as a victim pissing contest. I was asking you how could you possibly know any girl can be a virgin just because she says so. All you have is their word.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 07:38 PM
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Its not that you have to.... There is no other option. tinder is not a surrogate for social skills and status. Using Tinder or any dating app cannot replace the value of developing social skills and engaging in real-life interactions. While someone may succeed in getting a date after spending years swiping, it's important to remember that they still need to meet the person face-to-face and present themselves authentically. If someone struggles with interacting with women in general, simply getti…
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 07:31 PM
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there’s no knowledge to gather No one on Earth can teach you anything because you believe you already know everything, right?. Wow, the extent of your self-righteousness and arrogance is truly a unprecedented art form, only rivaled by your uncanny ability to condescend fellow men and gaslight other peoples abilities. Okay, my friend, it seems that you don't acknowledge or value different perspectives in any conversation. I will gracefully exit this discussion as any attempt to coerce will only e…
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 07:17 PM
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The incel movement, rejecting the age-old pursuit of moralistic grapes, prefers to sourly gulp down a cocktail of bitterness, blaming the vineyard instead of examining their own taste for toxicity
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:47 AM
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It's just sour grapes in action—grapes they couldn't reach, so they convince themselves they're sour anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:29 AM
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Before casting judgment on the sex lives of others, perhaps those with empty diaries should take a moment to flip through the pages of their own book. Those who have no sex lives themselves are often the most enthusiastic judges of others'. Perhaps they should focus on becoming their own greatest conquest, but its easier to sit back and trash other peoples relationships than it is to form your own.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:16 AM
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sourgrapes101. even a guy who has one sexual partner gets called a "blue pilled cuck". simply the fact that he has sex puts him in the "sell out" zone. A betrayer to the incels.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:13 AM
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Personally speaking, it matters not to me, it would matter not to most people I know. but you were stating that it has been an issue for you, so I took you on your word. Its no one business whether you are a virgin or not, it doesn't even need to be mentioned. I'm not sure how you would find a virgin woman, or how you would know that someone is a virgin. Girls may lie about being virgins due to societal pressure, cultural expectations, or fear of judgment or stigma surrounding their sexual exper…
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:06 AM
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He wasn't making a comparison based on demographics. He simply mentioned that the stereotype of Asian men doesn't apply to him and his friends, and he felt that you were unfairly generalizing them, which was condescending. It's understandable that he wouldn't be concerned about the data if it doesn't reflect his own experiences.His personal experiences don't invalidate your data, and your data doesn't invalidate his personal experiences. For example, the fact that most CEOs are men doesn't mean …
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:51 AM
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If you really think that this is an issue, then dont tell anyone. Or ipay for it, so you're no longer a virgin. TBh though, if you're a virgin at 33.....you're not a virgiin because you are a virgin. There is something else you need to draw attention to, what that something is.....I have no idea because I don't know you. Only you could locate and address this issue.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:40 AM
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Is it their fault? Or their responsibility?
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 07:45 AM
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your bot is shite lads
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 06:29 AM
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I thought this video was interesting. The reporter goes to a stand off between the far left and the far right in Melbourne. He disagrees with both sides and I think he does a good job of showing how both sides are a bunch of idiot low lifes. He makes a good point at the end about how they are both so small and insignificant to the rest of the populus, most of whom would be completely unaware that either group even exists. Most interesting was his point about how the only reason either side has a…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 04:23 AM
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If a "race war" does break out, it's only going to involve the most race obsessed people on all sides. Hopefully they wiill all die then and leave the rest of us who do know how to get along alone.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 04:12 AM
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Stop putting the responsibility of my life on to me!!!
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 07:53 AM
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Objectification can have positive or negative effects based on context and intentions. Negative objectification ignores autonomy and dignity. Positive objectification in healthy casual sex happens when individuals willingly appreciate each other's physical attributes, respecting consent and empowerment. On the other hand, negative objectification disregards emotional needs and boundaries. It leads to harmful behavior, disrespect, and negative experiences in relationships. Entitlement in successf…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:07 AM
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To answer your question "What is personal development and growth?" Personal development and growth refer to the continuous process of improving oneself mentally, emotionally, and behaviorally. It encompasses various aspects of an individual's life, including their beliefs, values, skills, knowledge, relationships, and overall well-being. At its core, personal development involves self-awareness and a willingness to actively work on enhancing one's strengths and addressing areas for improvement. …
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 03:04 AM
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Hey, it's totally okay to feel the way you do, but I want you to know that having no romantic experience in your early 20s is neither normal or abnormal and definately not something to be overly concerned about. Everyone's journey is different, and people reach different milestones at different times in their lives. Your family may be trying to reassure you that it's okay to be where you are. It's important not to dwell too much on what you perceive as a lack of experience. Putting pressure on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:36 AM
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I wouldn't describe it as special.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:19 AM
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there ya go, answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:20 AM
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Its also because victimhood and blaming all your shortcomings on something else is a trending mindset. If I push you into a ditch, theres no denial that you falling into the ditch was my fault. If you lie in the ditch and not get up. That is your fault. You can keep pointing out over and over again that I am the reason why you're in the ditch, but that isn't going to get you out of the ditch. I was responsible for pushing you in. You are responsible for getting out. This isn't just men who have …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:41 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:28 AM
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I don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:17 AM
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ok thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:16 AM
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I beleive you are referring to the phenomena of when confidence manifests into competence. Though I don't think its possible to completely eliminate fear or anxiety. Eric Clapton said he feels so nautious that he sometimes pukes before going on stage, despite doing it many time. As someone who has perfomed at concerts and festivals, I don't expereince the same level of nautia as Eric reports to, I mostly feel OK, but there is always a twinge of nerves and I usually have to go and empty my bowels…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:56 PM
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I think where the disconnect is that you are referring men with elite level looks who can do no wrong in womens eyes. My post would assume that the people reading this are not of that level and therefore would not have the luxury. Myself included. For what its worth, the traits I mentioned in the original post are based on my own personal experiences from times when I have unwillingly blew it with women. I beleive we are all prone to being our own worst enemy at times when it comes to meeting wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:03 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:56 AM
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Talking/approaching girls,going to social events/meeting women Is that not a form of personal growth?.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:01 AM
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I see where you're coming from, but let me explain why those points in the original post are actually relevant, especially in the initial stages of attraction. For instance, imagine a guy at a party who's desperately hitting on every girl. It's like he's on a mission, right? But that level of desperation can be a major turn-off. People need their space and don't want to feel overwhelmed. Or think about a guy who's constantly bombarding you with messages and demanding attention. It can quickly be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:20 AM
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Absolutely, I totally get where you're coming from! Fear of the unknown can definitely hold us back, and comfort zones can be pretty darn cozy. It's like a warm, familiar blanket that we don't want to let go of. We're wired to seek safety and avoid risks—it's human nature, no doubt about it. But here's the thing: those very aspects you mentioned, like fear and staying in our comfort zones, can actually manifest in the scenarios I talked about in my original post. They can fuel insecurities, anxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:10 AM
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Don't tyou think that these solutions you mentioned are already widely promoted across modern media? The importance of physical appearance, grooming, and personal development is often emphasized in various platforms. When it comes to unattractive personality traits, I already mentioned a few in the original post like anxiety, insecurity, and fear of rejection. Dealing with these traits can be tough and might need some self-reflection, therapy, or personal growth. It's important for folks to focu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:05 AM
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I totally get where you're coming from, but hear me out. The things I mentioned in the orginal post are actually pretty darn important when it comes to attraction. They can make or break a potential relationship. Like, if you're trying too hard to be someone you're not, it's gonna come off as fake and turn people off. And let's not forget about treating people like human beings, not objects. Nobody wants to feel like they're just there to fulfill someone else's needs. Lastly, desperation and bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:55 AM
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What specific solutions do you have in mind to address the concerns of men who want access to sex? Could you provide more details or examples of the types of solutions you believe would be effective?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:38 AM
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Suspicion can of course arise in certain scenarios. Guilt and behavioral patterns surrounding cheating can sometimes show up in body language and behavior, which can lead to a sense of distrust. However, it's important to remember that not all situations are the same, and it's not always easy to detect infidelity or abusive behavior solely based on nonverbal cues. I do want to gently steer the conversation back to the original topic we were discussing, which is the ability to interpret body lang…
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 08:17 AM
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It's still not connecting for me. Entitlement situations where sex isn't the subject would really help Ok, Let's dive into some everyday scenarios where entitlement can rear its head: Job Opportunities: Imagine someone who thinks they deserve a high-paying job without putting in the effort or gaining the necessary skills. They expect success to come to them just because they think they're worthy, without actually working hard or proving themselves. Social Status: Picture a person who believes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:06 AM
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Yeah, I totally get what you're saying. Treating women solely as objects for sex can definitely hinder someone's chances of getting intimate. However, it's important to consider that there can be other factors at play too. Things like personal insecurities, fear of rejection, communication issues, or even just not meeting the right person can also impact someone's ability to engage in sexual relationships. It's essential to recognize that there's no one-size-fits-all explanation and that multipl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:43 AM
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While the study you shared provides insights into the cognitive dissonance experienced by feminist women when their desires conflict with their feminist attitudes, it is important to remember that attraction preferences can vary among individuals. The study's findings highlight a specific scenario but do not disprove the general statement made in scenario one, as individual preferences can differ. People are diverse, and their attractions and preferences are influenced by various factors. Theref…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:38 AM
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I can't think of a situation where men who have difficult access to sex would still develop a feeling of entitlement to sex. I'll give you some hypothetical situations.... Unfulfilled Expectations: Limited sexual access can create entitlement through unrealistic or unmet expectations fueled by media, societal pressures, or personal beliefs. When expectations aren't fulfilled, frustration and dissatisfaction arise. Internalizing Societal Norms: Men with limited access to sex may internalize norms…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:12 AM
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I appreciate your perspective that men with easy access to sex may feel entitled. However, I'd like to explore further and understand why you believe this is only the case for men who have easy access to sex. Could you please elaborate on why you think men who don't have easy access to sex wouldn't develop feelings of entitlement?. I would like to revisit the point you made about objectification removing uncertainty before making a move. Upon reviewing the previous responses, I realized that I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:32 AM
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Confidence can indeed play a significant role in attractiveness, and it's not limited to any specific gender. Movie tropes often depict characters undergoing transformations that boost their confidence, highlighting the impact of inner self-perception on external desirability. You make a great point about how external changes, like new clothes or a makeover, can influence a person's internal confidence and subsequently affect how they are perceived by others. It aligns with the original post's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:15 AM
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How can we determine that feeling entitled leads to easy access to sex? How do we define and measure the notion of "easier access" to sex? Is it solely based on frequency or are there other factors to consider? How do we account for individual differences, cultural contexts, and other variables that influence sexual encounters? Can you provide reasoning that supports the idea that objectifying women removes uncertainty before making a move? How do we ensure that this approach respects the autono…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:12 AM
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Thanks for sharing your perspective. If you'd like to discuss the original points and share your thoughts on how over rating sex can influence our behavior and connections in sexual relationships, I'd be glad to hear your insights.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:31 AM
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I get where you're coming from, but I think it's a bit oversimplified. While looks can matter to some extent, there are many other factors that come into play when it comes to sexual relationships. I'm open to discussing various factors that contribute to attraction and sexual relationships, but I'm not interested in solely focusing on a single factor. If you're willing to explore a broader range of influences, I'm more than happy to engage in that conversation. What are your thoughts on taking …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:28 AM
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Hey there! It seems like you're still not directly addressing the points and scenarios mentioned in the original post. I understand your perspective that individuals may have general attractions and that some people may be interested in casual sex. While those points are valid, it's important to note that the original post was specifically discussing the fear of not obtaining sex and its impact on behavior and connections. The focus was not solely on romantic connections or casual sex, but rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:14 AM
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I understand that you have a different perspective, but let's try to focus on the points in the original post. It seems like you're micro-focusing on a semantic aspect that is not directly related to the main topic, I feel that will derail this thread. The original post discussed how the fear of not obtaining sex can impact behavior and hinder meaningful connections. It would be great if you could address the scenarios presented and provide your thoughts on how fear can affect pursuing sexual re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:34 AM
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Thank you for sharing your perspective, but I must point out that your post seems to be unrelated to the points I raised in my previous message. The discussion I initiated was focused on the impact of the fear of not obtaining sex on behavior and the formation of healthy relationships. The views and beliefs you have expressed in your link are not aligned with that topic. I would kindly request that we return to the original points of discussion. If you have any thoughts or insights related to th…
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 03:59 AM
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Thats interersting. Could you elaborate on the specific path and plan you mentioned within the black pill ideology?. What criteria or methodologies are used to determine the effectiveness or success of this path and plan?
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 03:00 AM
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20 years on social media and I've never heard a woman talking about a guy having a horse cock. I feel like I'm missing out on something.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 08:25 PM
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While it's true that rumors or claims about sexual activities may sometimes attract attention or curiosity from others, it's important to consider the ethical implications of such actions. Spreading rumors or engaging in manipulative tactics to gain attention can undermine trust and create a toxic environment. It's essential to prioritize open and honest communication in building meaningful connections based on mutual consent and respect. Regarding the differing reactions to derogatory language,…
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 06:56 PM
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Thank you for sharing your perspective and providing additional context regarding scenario 2. I understand that in certain circumstances, individuals who have experienced a painful breakup may resort to objectification as a defense mechanism or as a response to feeling rejected. It's important to acknowledge that different individuals may respond to similar situations in various ways based on their personal experiences and coping mechanisms. While scenario 2 may be one possible reaction, it's es…
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 06:39 PM
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Thank you for sharing your perspective. I appreciate your input. I want to clarify that the scenarios I presented were loosely based on personal experiences and observations, as well as insights gained from studying relationship dynamics. They were intended to illustrate how fears and insecurities can impact behavior and mindset, drawing from a range of possible situations. Personal experiences can vary greatly, and it's important to acknowledge that everyone's journey is unique. By sharing thes…
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 06:32 PM
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Thank you for your response. I'm genuinely interested in understanding different perspectives and exploring personal growth and self-improvement. However, I would like to engage in a more focused and fact-based discussion. You mentioned that subscribing to the Black Pill philosophy has nothing to do with personal growth or self-improvement. To better understand your perspective, could you please provide specific reasoning to support this claim? I'm interested in exploring the potential limitatio…
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 06:26 PM
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No
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 06:19 PM
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I understand your concern about the limitations of addressing anxiety alone and the importance of letting go of the necessity of obtaining sex. It's true that simply trying to make anxiety go away may not be the ultimate solution. I'd like to share a quote from renowned psychologist Carl Rogers, which aligns with this perspective: "Curiously enough, when I accept myself just as I am, then I change." - Carl Rogers Rogers emphasized the significance of self-acceptance and the transformative power …
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 05:53 AM
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I appreciate your perspective and the points you've raised. Let's keep the discussion centered around the original points to ensure we stay on track. The focus of the conversation is on how the fear of not obtaining sex can impact behavior and hinder the formation of healthy relationships. While it's true that confidence can influence attraction, Personal characteristics alone don't guarantee fulfilling relationships. Genuine connections rely on mutual respect, effective communication, and share…
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 05:45 AM
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I understand your viewpoint on the different scenarios. It's true that many average individuals may find themselves in scenario 3, where frustrations can arise due to difficulties in forming relationships. These frustrations can sometimes lead to scenario 1, where negative behaviors driven by fear and insecurity come into play.While scenario 2 may be less common, it's important to note that fear can still be a factor for some individuals, even if it's not the primary driver. Fear of rejection, f…
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 05:32 AM
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Constant exposure to demoralizing propaganda can indeed have the opposite effect of what is intended. It may lead to feelings of hopelessness, negativity, and a distorted view of oneself and others. It's crucial to approach such information critically and consider its potential impact on our mental health.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 05:30 AM
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I appreciate your input, but there may be a slight misunderstanding of the original point. The points don't imply women can't see negative behaviors. It focuses on how fear of not obtaining sex can lead to behaviors that push potential partners away. While some women prioritize looks, the original argument remains relevant. Thanks for your concerns and allowing me to clarify. Feel free to share your thoughts on the original points.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 05:26 AM
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do you think the black pill community encourages helplessness in men?
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 05:00 AM
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Based on your perspective, it seems like you've found enjoyment in certain aspects of life despite acknowledging the challenges. However, do you think that subscribing to the Black Pill philosophy might inadvertently limit your ability to explore new paths of personal growth and self-improvement? Could it potentially prevent you from fully embracing proactive and empowered approaches to certain aspects of your life? I'm curious to hear your thoughts on this potential conflict and how it might im…
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 01:14 PM
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but consequntially, most people who swallow the black pill remain miserable and defeated
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 12:26 PM
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you havent met the women who date the loser guys I know. I'll give one example. One guy bagged this 40ish woman who was very ugly and had never been married and her family were about to disown her because of it. The dude I know is a cpmplete loser, insecure, untrusting of women, treats her like crap, hits her, never takes her out anywhere nice, makes her pay for half of everything even though he earns ten times more than her, uses her as a free taxi service everywhere. If she could find another …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:14 AM
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IVe met plenty of men who are complete assholes to their non-young partners and they put up with it because they know they are unlikely to find another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:03 AM
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Would the same logic apply to the millions of MGTOW guys who allowed themselves to be used and abused by women?
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 08:52 AM
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A slut is a girl who will fuck anyone. A bitch is a girl who will fuck anyone but me. It is possible that someone expressing the sentiment "ran through whore" may be experiencing feelings of jealousy or frustration towards the sexual activity of the woman in question. They might feel resentful that other men are engaging in sexual relationships with her while they desire the same opportunity.
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 08:33 AM
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Thank you for sharing your personal journey and reflections on the importance of looks in attraction. It takes courage to acknowledge and reassess our beliefs based on new insights and experiences. Your realization that both men and women have standards for looks and other qualities is an important one. It's true that societal expectations and communication patterns can sometimes create misconceptions and hinder understanding between genders. Recognizing that men and women share common elements …
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 08:23 AM
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I find your insights on the Black Pill philosophy and creating meaning in life very interesting. However,. I was specifically interested in understanding how the Black Pill philosophy can be useful for personal growth and embracing new possibilities, as you mentioned. Could you please provide further elaboration on how subscribing to the Black Pill philosophy can be a useful tool in overcoming challenges and pursuing personal growth, despite its predetermined outlook? Thank you for considering m…
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 08:12 AM
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what would you say to black pillers who abandon these things?
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 07:57 AM
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Regarding question 3, could you please expand on your viewpoint and provide more insight into why you believe embracing a more optimistic and growth-oriented mindset would be detrimental? Additionally, I'm interested in understanding how you think this perspective aligns with exploring new possibilities and opening doors to new experiences, as mentioned in the original question.
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 01:48 AM
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Thank you for your response. While I appreciate the philosophical perspective you shared, it appears that you didn't directly address the questions I posed. I was particularly interested in understanding the potential impact of subscribing to the Black Pill philosophy on personal growth, exploring new paths, dismissing opportunities, embracing optimism, and adopting a proactive approach. ​ I would appreciate it if you could elaborate on your statement and explain how it relates to the specific i…
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 04:29 PM
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I get that feeling from lots of other things like my hobbies, looking after pets, traveling and experiencing new cultures you dont sound very black pilled to me, tbh.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 04:23 PM
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Thank you for sharing your perspective. I understand that some individuals view the Black Pill as a way to see reality more clearly and avoid being misled by societal expectations. While there can be value in questioning societal norms, my concern with fully embracing the Black Pill ideology is that it may limit one's willingness to explore new possibilities and avenues for personal growth. How do you believe one can strike a balance between acknowledging the harsh realities and remaining open t…
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 05:02 AM
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It is important to approach questions about attractiveness and dating with sensitivity and recognize that individual preferences can vary widely. Attractiveness is subjective, and what one person finds appealing may differ from another person's perspective. While some people may have personal preferences based on physical appearance, it is not accurate or fair to make broad generalizations about the attractiveness of individuals based solely on their skin color. Attraction is influenced by a var…
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 04:42 AM
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I looked up AfD because I have never heard of them. According to their maifesto... The AfD believes Europe's external borders are insufficiently protected and proposes the creation of a national German Border Police Force under the German Federal Police. They aim to reestablish operational border crossing points within Germany's own borders that can be strengthened as needed based on security assessments. They suggest deploying members of the German Armed Forces to safeguard the "green border" w…
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 04:21 AM
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A red fem agasint a rad incel. Where is my popcorn?
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 03:46 AM
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I understand. My points made you uncomfortable, but you have no intellectual rebuttal. You're now in fight or flight mode.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 02:06 AM
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Theres no narrative. Why are you coming at me so defensively?. We were not talking about making money. I was responding to the dudes claim about technology changing the game, if that is so then its smart to move with the times or get left behind.... I don't think I've said anything controversial or unfair, do you?
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 07:40 AM
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No one is forcing anyone to identify with a group that does have pedos and violent assholes in their ranks. Maybe they are a tiny minority, but you allowed that minority to tarnish the reputation of the group, now if you choose that label, you have that stigma whether you like it or not. If you belonged to a political party or a social club that was tied to as much bigotry, misogyny, homophobia, violence, and sheer ignorance, you'd resign in protest. To do otherwise is to be an enabler.
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 07:29 AM
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do you make enough to sustain yourself in future with 15%. inflation per annum? Do you own your own house? if you get cancer who pays for the hospital? do you get free health care?
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 05:31 AM
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I'm uncertain if we'll find common ground on this topic. I reject the premise that the sole purpose of self-improvement is to attract women. Relationships are just one aspect of personal development, not the only one. I've already mentioned twice that for this question, I'm focusing on the financial and health aspects, not relationships. As I mentioned in my OP, To me, improvement means survival, strength, financial stability, and comfort. Relationships are secondary. If I don't improve, I could…
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 04:28 AM
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you didnt answer the first one. I asked if you think the only purpose of improving is to impress women. You gave me an indirect answer about what you think other people think. I was asking you what YOU think. And the rest of the questions have nothing to do with why people give improvement advice as a way to win over women. I already stated that i wasnt referring to the relationship side of improvement, why do you keep steering it towards that?. My questions were pretty clearly related to financ…
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 12:45 AM
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you still have not answered a single one of my questions.
/r/AllPillDebate16/05/23 07:59 AM
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"I have been developing my career for a while" You are not anti-development. I was asking people who think development isnt a thing how they survive. "When you don't have a girlfriend or many friends it's very easy to save money"./ That's true. But if you have the ability to develop your career, you know you already have it in you to develop other areas of your life, if you desired.
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 04:23 PM
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I see, interesting. Thanks for sharing. Sounds like skating on thin ice.
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 11:21 AM
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why do you think i was talking aout making money?. you said social media and tinder have changed the game. I said tinder cant turn a nobody into a somebody so there is no. benefit to using it and its not even worth talking about.....but social media CAN turn a nobody into a somebody, so it is intelligent to take advantage of changing times and turn oneself into a marketable product on social media. People certainly can make money from social media, but not everyone is making money from social me…
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 07:56 AM
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I stopped contributing to retirement savings and health insurance How is that going to impact your future? Are you abandoning your retirement? if so, how will you support yourself when you are old?. I know you said you dont think you will live long, but we dont know how long we will live. What if you have an accident or a disease? is there a free healthcare option in your country?.
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 07:47 AM
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I guess I don't get the point of the development/improvement thing. I work so I have money, not to impress women Do you think the only purpose of improvement is to impress women?. I wasnt even talking about the realtiomnship element of improvement, I was referring to the financial side. If you're not interested in any sort of improvement, then you're not interested in improving your financial situation. My question was how is it sustainable in the future with 15% inflation each year? And if impr…
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 07:44 AM
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and you learned code to be able to make 90k a year, so you self improved before. You dont sound like someone who is anti-improvement, I was asking people who are against it as a concept and refuse to do ay sort of improvement. I see it being dismissed in black pill circles all the time as pointless and nothing good will come of it
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 07:16 PM
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thanks, thats two people now confirming they live in the lap of luxury. this makes things a lot more clearer to me now about incels. you're lucky to have the privelege to do nothing and get unhealthy. ht but at the same time I don't envy you, if i had that privelege I might have became complacent and lived off the spoon, but the fact that I can't has forced me to consistently have to improve my situation.
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 07:11 PM
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I really was not even considering the women side of improvement, i was just talking about people who are against improvement in general, how do they surivive?. How do you survive?
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 07:07 PM
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thank you, I did wonder how incels afforded the luxury to just give up on life. Now it makes sense if you have people to support you. You're lucky. Will they always support you?
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 07:05 PM
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There are plenty of skills you can learn. You know you're lying to yourself. You just don't want to learn anything. Social media turns nobodies into somebodies, but the graft of learning a unique skill and the effort required to market and brand yourself is more work than you are prepared to endure, so you will stay mediocre for the rest of your life, and keep floating round tinder where all the other unmarketable guys go. Thanks for wishing me luck. my life is not built on luck, its built on ha…
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 02:38 PM
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If they have wives and kids and are in happy relationships then they were not weak or incapable. Nobody is forcing you to use tinder. Social media has changed the game though, i'll agree. Social media can make somebodies out of nobodies. Tinder can't, so it's not even worth talking about. Any man who is not using the power of social media to elevate themselves and promote their skills, talents or art is going to be socially disadvantaged and probably finanacially too. If you stand back and do no…
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 02:26 PM
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i get that, but that didnt answr any of the questions I asked.
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 02:14 PM
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The sexual market has been and always will be brutal for weak, incapable and unexceptional men since the dawn of time. The sexxual market always will be brutal for weak, incabeble and unexceptional men The rise of incels proves a failure of society to produce strong, capable and exceptional men. I don't agree that it is a failure of the market, the market always has and always will respond to strong, capable and exceptional men. Nothing has changed in human needs and wants. All that has changed …
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 11:44 AM
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