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Totally agree The post that lost me was the steroid one where he was trying to recruit for his personalized weightlifting program or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:44 AM
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Just here to confirm that the site sucks. I'd rather just stick on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:38 AM
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Strongly disagree and furthermore, how would you know what women like in bed if you're a virgin? Anyways, if you don't want to get a girl and/or get laid, knock yourself out. I'm strong (play offensive line) but still, a fat fuck at 6'2 265 and I still manage to get laid both in ONS and LTR scenarios. If you're 6'5 225 and 12% body fat, you should be able to get laid by just showing up to bars and clubs and swiping on tinder. If you aren't willing to do that, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:34 AM
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Yeah women want to feel large and in charge... In their careers and in public. Women (in my experience) love to feel small, vulnerable and dominated, especially in a sexual context. That's why things like spanking, choking, hair pulling, and degrading dirty talk are popular. I'm 20, this isn't boomer thinking. Regardless, if you aren't getting laid, and you aren't physically deformed, super short, mentally challenged, or something else that drastically alters your dating prospects(living in a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:54 AM
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8, 11 with oral if you count it I'm 20 now and lost my virginity at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:29 AM
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I agree with the view, that sometimes I don't fault men, but not your reasoning If a man isn't being sexually satisfied, especially if sex only dwindled after marriage and his wife won't work with him(assuming it's not for a medical reason) , I think that's a way better reason But to protect his money, absolutely not. Being rich doesn't give you a pass to be unfaithful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:27 AM
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I'm guessing you're either ugly, freakishly skinny, or are a complete shut in/introvert since I'm 3 inches shorter and my height has helped me tremendously. Women I've dated/hooked up with always tell me how they like how big I am and how I tower over them. Something is getting in the way of your success and it's definitely not your height
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:22 AM
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LTR for both. For one night, it often is just who's "hot enough" and available
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:19 AM
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Usually if I see this, it's women who see cheating as an unfortunate event but want to "work through it". Or rich and powerful men who cheat on their wives who would never leave them, because they have all the power in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:59 PM
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I don't love the whole "RP is Amoral thing" which, fair enough, but some people use to justify fucking dudes girlfriends, cheating etc. I get that "if I didn't do it someone else would", but without a moral code what are we doing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:29 PM
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Love her body, she's cute, always horny, very enthusiastic in bed. Not much to complain about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:36 PM
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Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Don't get me wrong, I have the usual worries, being cheated on, being lied to, etc with my gf of a year. But there's some things casual dating and ONS can't give you. Especially if you're LDRing a girl who really adores you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:33 PM
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Depends on the situation. If it's a girl who's hooked up with guys that he knows before dating him, I feel bad If she just has a generally high n count, as long as he's happy I don't really care
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:28 PM
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In college, I'd say 15+ is high Out of college, 20-30+ is high. Male Straight I think mines above average but not insane for my age (8 at age 20, 11 including oral) I think it's a good number. Wouldn't want it to be any lower because I think it's good I had the casual sex experience before settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:55 PM
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I disagree because niche game flourishes in college. It's how me(football player) and my freshman year roommates (artsy types) all got laid first semester despite the fact that we were very different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:38 PM
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A man without sex will do just about anything to get it I've done some dumb things to get sex (stayed up until 3:45 when I had an important exam at 9:00 among other things) when I was more inexperienced I think it's biological. Sex trumps all because that's why we exist, to spread our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:29 PM
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You must be real cynical. Kids are shitty Shit like that happens My "friend" and a girl in my grade catfished me as a "joke" in 6th grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:57 PM
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Yes. They, by definition, aren't my biological kids
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:45 PM
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Yeah they'd snatch them up. Think about how gender ratio works in college. Schools with more women than men are biased towards hookups and tech schools with more men than women have a better relationship scene. https://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/07/fashion/07campus.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:02 PM
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At a university bar. So pretty typical I'm currently 19 she's 21, we were 18 and 20 when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:54 AM
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I can confirm that while I don't know how common this is, I've seen it happen. Basically, first couple weeks of college two girls start making out in front of me and a friend and the straight one of the pair says that she does this to get guys interested. We both ended up getting laid that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:53 AM
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This isn't particularly directed at TRP men here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:54 AM
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Non virgin. How is this even a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:02 AM
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I agree but it makes you seem cheap That's why I feel like coffee, drinks, or maybe lunch are good first date options since you dodge the whole expensive dinner cliche.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:54 AM
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Well the next weekend she actually got really drunk and emotional so it cancels out I guess? Had a good Valentine's day/ last couple weeks. Guess I got lucky (so far at the very least)
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 01:22 PM
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Yes I'd consider myself purpleish?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:07 PM
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Yeah I'd say my brother has high levels of natural sociability, and me and my neurotypical cousins are at least average. It helps immensely that we are all pretty tall: my brother standing at 6'5, myself at 6'2, and both cousins right around 6ft as well as at least average if not above average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:21 PM
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Yes, very relatable. I thought I'd be the one breaking it off with girls, but generally it's been the other way around Probably not, because girls are much more receptive to relationships once they've gotten being wild "out of their system" once they are a junior or senior, and even more out of college Can't speak to this since I generally enjoyed hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:31 PM
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My understanding is that TRP doesn't concern itself with outliers whatsoever. It's appealing to the lowest common denominator. If you miss out on a couple unicorns, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:11 AM
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Depends which family members- Myself, 19, my brother, 23, and my cousins, 21 and 23, don't really have any problems with women. My cousins aren't ladies men as far as I know, but one of them had a very attractive girlfriend for a couple years at the very least. The exception is my other 2 cousins, both ASD and 25 I believe. Both have never had girlfriends or girls been interested in them at all. But it's clear as to the reason. Very smart guys but the ASD makes it hard for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:53 AM
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I was 15(too early lol) and stumbled upon TRP looking up something about girls not liking me/how to attract them. Read the sidebar voraciously and most of the top all times posts too I was a real asshole for a couple years as I continued to have no success with women. This was mostly because I was young for my grade(I looked 13 at 15) awkward and anxious with girls, and very skinny(I used to get told I looked like a giraffe or a velociraptor). I also forgot the first step with women- talking to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:38 AM
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I recently made the mistake of getting unbelievably drunk and both puking and getting emotional in front of my girlfriend about a week ago, I'll let you fellas know how it works out
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 11:36 PM
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You're getting the order flipped. Women (and men) with mental health issues are more likely to be promiscuous. The issues predate the promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:10 PM
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Assuming you're a 5 or 6 or better sure. Definitely not regardless of how you look though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:51 AM
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That being said 215 shredded (possible at your height)> your current body
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:20 PM
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As a fatass (6'2 260-265, 25%), you're pretty correct. I do fine but that's because I carry my weight well, I bet I'd do better if I was 210 and shredded.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:19 PM
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Exactly For me, it took me a bunch of times with the same girl (the 6th girl in fact), to not either lose my erection or nut super quick due to nerves/ how new everything was (sometimes both). Those first 5 ONS or casual week long hookups didn't do much for me even though objectively I was an "experienced" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:57 PM
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And it takes continued success too. 1 casual hookup can only boost confidence for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:53 PM
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Also I'd rather not have to deal with girl being like "Omg we'll never work out because my mercury is in retrograde and you're a Scorpio rising" or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:06 PM
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Astrology sure IG 90% of the time they just want validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:26 PM
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Any girl with astrology or her IG in the bio is a swipe left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:08 PM
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I'm entirely with you on this point. At my absolute best, freshman year of college where girls are probably the most open to hookups, I had 13 hookups with 7 different women in about 12-13 weeks. That number probably isn't even replicable because it happened during covid, where the people in my dorm all hung out together and so the girls had limited options of which I was one of the better ones. I also spent a pretty big amount of effort making those hookups happen In contrast, the amount of sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:05 PM
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I mostly do it to be and feel strong (along with for my sport) although looking good for women is a welcome addition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:15 AM
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He could always try various supplements/drugs. Not gonna repost it here but check my post history for a bunch of things I use, as I used to have the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:48 AM
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No doubt As a cherry on top, now theres stuff like "senior contributors" simultaneously endorsing injecting steroids while also somehow being against the vaccine. And getting upvotes. Like fair enough if you want to do roids but be logically consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:30 PM
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The core tenets of TRP to me, when you boil it down, are basically to be interesting (think all of the game tips they have) and be the man women want to sleep with. There's a lot of good there, especially in the sidebar or in the top all time posts That being said, I've read it less and less over the past few years because of the far right slant to a lot of the posts. Things like talking about how you refuse to be vaccinated will get you a shitton of upvotes (and called a cuck for letting "the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:15 PM
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As a dude who's had casual sex and now is in a relationship, you're absolutely right With the girl I'm dating now, we hooked up exclusively for about 4 months before my friends were like "dude, what are you doing? Just date her" Early on, before we were exclusive I hooked up with other girls basically just to prove that I could. So for pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:58 PM
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You seriously overestimate how dedicated people are. There are guys who spend hours on this subreddit and still don't approach women. Lifting takes a few years to show significant progress. In that time, most people will have quit when women aren't lining up to fuck then.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/21 07:24 PM
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Because people are lazy. Depends what you mean by jacked but I certainly look like I lift.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/21 03:55 AM
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Counterpoint- you see them with super fit chicks all the time.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/21 03:54 AM
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I feel you my man. I play offensive line so I had to gain over 30 pounds this off-season to get to my playing weight of about 265 and 110 pounds since my lowest weight of about 150. Key is to focus on getting enough protein, but after that, eat literally anything you want. It's not great for you, but it's better than spinning your wheels at the same weight.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/21 03:52 AM
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I love all that shit. But my sexual needs generally need to be taken care of before I can enjoy that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:08 PM
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Absolutely not, because my dream partner has sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:31 AM
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I read Into the wild for my high school a couple years ago. Found the whole story pretty interesting, so when I went to make an alt account for stuff like this, I took his name, Chris McCandless, and turned it into CandleLess
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:29 AM
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https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/dopamine-and-addiction/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:41 AM
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https://www.addictionhope.com/blog/effects-porn-brain/ Once the brain’s normal reward system is bombarded with high levels of dopamine it starts to shut down. The dopamine receiving neurons shut down their receptors to protect against overstimulation, but the sending neuron keeps sending Frying dopamine receptors isn't correct, but it is similar to how drugs work. If you've ever done a drug that works on the dopamine receptors, like any amphetamine, you know what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:44 PM
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Didn't read the title either, I don't think sex work is a cakewalk of a job
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:15 AM
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That implies people want to see me have sex enough to pay for it to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:15 AM
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19M If you're counting strictly PIV sex, body count is 8, but it's 11 including girls I've gotten head from but never had sex with. Honestly, I don't mind the number as long as it's not something insane or if she had fucked a bunch of my friends. The girl I'm currently in a sort of undefined relationship with was apparently a virgin before she met me, but honestly it's not really a positive or a negative
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:09 AM
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Not enough demand outside of gay porn Also- guys need to be able to get it up and keep it up for hours. Also gotta have an above average dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:06 AM
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Yeah I tried my best to limit the negative effects of it Either way, sorry you've dealt with this a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:23 AM
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I'm on the football team so I'd be down lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:22 AM
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Yeah I'm fine with that. It would imply she likes me about as much as "Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:01 AM
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I'm not proud to say that I have done this once technically. Long story short, agreed to a bet where if I lost I'd need to ask this girl to our high school dance. Lost the bet, but immediately felt like an ass and refused to ask her. My friends went ahead and asked for me, and I had to explain what really happened to the girl after. For me, basically didn't think I'd lose the bet so I figured it wouldn't be a problem at all. Definitely regret it though and it was a pretty shitty thing to do rega…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:58 AM
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Or just accept being fat and go "woe is me". Don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:39 PM
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How tall are you? Unless you're 5'0 there's absolutely no reason 1300 calories isn't shedding weight. Actually, even if you are 5'0, still, eat less. Go to 1000 calories if you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:38 PM
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I've been fat and I've been skinny. You literally just need to put the fork down to not be fat. If you aren't losing weight with what you're eating, eat less
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:27 PM
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if you're fat Dude it's not hard to simply not be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:51 PM
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Not really. You only need 3-4 hours a week to get a good physique and once you have some muscle, it's 90% diet. A friend of mine who doesn't work out much has one because he's 6'4 and 170. I workout all the time for football but I don't because I'm 6'2 and 255.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:51 AM
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Bold take. Anyways, having a six pack isn't easy, but it's simple. Anyone can do it, but it takes discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:33 AM
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Probably yeah. If the woman who's following FDS is a 10/10 it would probably work. But a woman like that would never need to look for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:07 AM
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That all women want relationships Truth is, when I went off to college, I was shocked by the amount of women who were perfectly happy hooking up and never talking again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:19 AM
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Law 30 of the 48 laws of power: Make your accomplishments seen effortless. Your actions must seem natural and executed with ease. All the toil and practice that go into them, and also all the clever tricks, must be concealed. When you act, act effortlessly, as if you could do much more. Avoid the temptation of revealing how hard you work—it only raises questions People would rather have the "naturally" attractive dude than the guy who worked his ass off to get there. People also don't want to he…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:17 PM
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Attractive men are the gatekeepers, yes. I'm currently a (male) college student and while it isn't always the case, it's pretty common that guys will hook up with girls for a long time with no intention of getting into a relationship. If you aren't a top 20% man though, this doesn't apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:43 AM
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A couple things- Asked a girl to prom "as friends." Let a girl I had a crush on and her friend cheat off me on these reading quizzes we had everyday back in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:14 AM
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Sure, but if you are tall with a good face and body you'll be just fine with an average or below average dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:21 AM
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Also if you cum too quick or not quick enough it's a symptom of being "porn-sick"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:15 AM
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Honestly, not really. Mostly just flings/hookups for me so far, although I'm 19 so plenty of life left to live. Closest I've been to being in love is the situation I'm currently in. Basically, a FWB that I hook up with around twice a week. Not sure if I want that to turn into a relationship or not. As far as what got me into this sub, I stumbled upon the Red Pill when I was like 15 on Reddit. Took it real seriously for a while, which I credit in part for making me dedicate myself to working out,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:06 AM
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Interesting you mention choking because it's been women in my experience who want to be choked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:30 PM
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Sex without a condom and without pulling out with a ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:27 PM
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I've seen one. He turned down a girl who is a solid 5. I play football with him, he's still a virgin as a sophomore, but that's probably because of anxiety or something because he never talks to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:34 AM
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I've had hookups where the girl wanted nothing to do with me after, but that involves some plausible deniability about their intentions so not quite the same. To answer your question, unless I was really horny no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:10 AM
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Sure, I guess why not. Probably wouldn't be as fun as a normal hookup, but wouldn't turn it down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:07 AM
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Other than maybe being a little more social nah. And he wasn't an antisocial guy before, he tried to shoot his shot with a lot of girls, many of whom just didn't find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:19 PM
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I personally know a guy just like this. We all play football, he used to be 6'0 290 but lost about 70 pounds since he can't play anymore. Still has zero confidence but the reception from women is night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:57 PM
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Even better if you have abs and are big though
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 06:59 PM
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First of all- fats don't make you fat. Eating too many calories makes you fat Second, as someone who's been anywhere between 12-25% body fat, and and anywhere between 150 and 265 (currently around 255), I definitely looked better to women when I was anywhere between 205-230, when I looked big, but but without any belly or significant chin fat. I would have looked significantly better had I been 12% instead of the 16-20% that I actually was. Being a little chubbier isn't the worst thing in the wo…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 06:59 PM
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Gotcha yeah. As far as squat and deadlift go, my all time rep PRs were 360x5 and 405x5. I'd love to get a dexa scan at some point, not sure where they are offered. It's entirely possible that I'm in the upper 20s/higher than I thought given that my fat distribution does generally go to my legs. So even now I don't have a huge gut or an insane amount of face fat, although I certainly am a bit chubby in the face. Especially this last 20 pounds, there's a noticable difference. I'm a football player…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:39 AM
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I was probably 20% when I was 235, closer to 25% at the 255-260 ish I am currently. Never done a dexa scan, this is based on estimates I've gotten from the navy body fat formula, so it definitely could be wrong. I'm a fairly strong dude though, I can bench 225 8 times and squat and deadlift at least 405 although I haven't maxed in a while. It is worth noting though that I definitely looked better at 235 than 260. And I'm sure once I cut after I stop playing sports, I'll look significantly better…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:17 AM
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I disagree, as a 6'2 ish 235-260 pound man I haven't had too much issue with women, and the majority were skinny. Might have been your body fat. I was/am anywhere between 20-25% body fat so I didn't look horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:54 AM
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Real talk dude, as someone who's 6'2 and pretty average looking, if you get in shape, you're going to be just fine. I didn't lose my V card until 18 so I feel you. How much do you weigh now?
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:59 AM
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As someone with a babyface, you need to put some muscle on. I'm 19 but have been told I could have passed for early to mid twenties many times because I'm a big guy and clearly work out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:25 AM
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It definitely is, but depends on the weight you are and how tall you are. I know many natty 315+ benchers, but they are all 260+ pounds Now to be aesthetic and bench 315 is attainable, but will take dedication and 5+ years of bulking and cutting. I myself have shit genetics- started benching the bar at 15, and I'm benching around 275-285 at 260 about 4 years later. I'm tall with long arms, so it's probably my worst lift. Give me a year or two more and I could probably hit 315 then cut and look g…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 05:56 PM
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I've seen 2 that were really bad. One was a girl who's maybe a 3 or 4 out of 10 and overweight who said she only liked dudes over 6ft. The other one was a girl who was around 6ft who said she wanted a guy who was rich, muscular, plays football and at least 6'3. She was cute, but not cute enough to be asking for that. Not sure how much she actually stuck to those standards though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:18 PM
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Pretty high value actually. I'm a bit on the chubby side but give me like 6 months to cut and I'd basically me an athletic, tall, feminine, somewhat good looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:17 AM
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Spoken like someone who's never played in the ante up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:05 PM
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I used to disagree with you, but then I put a lot of time into nba 2k20 during quarantine. I went from shooting 25% maybe with a primary shooting build to shooting 65% with a build that is purely made for defense. I also put time into learning how to dribble and found myself becoming a good point guard. Me and my friends beat many legends(highest rank in the game), and I actually was up either 9 or 11-0 against a pretty well known YouTuber in a game of 2v2s(I lost after I missed a wide open layu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:07 PM
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Basically "speak softly but carry a big stick"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:08 PM
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That's because a majority of the women don't have the conversation. Might be justified, but holy shit is sex better when you talk a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:57 PM
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It sounds like he wasn't gonna listen regardless of how many times you repeated yourself unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:52 PM
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I'm with you. I'm sure that's not fun for you. Similarly, it once took me 3 times of asking for feedback before a girl told me I was being too rough giving head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:52 PM
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Theoretically that's possible. For reference, I'm a true rate me 5, 6'3, and about 260 pounds and 23-25% body fat. Probably a little above average, but nothing special
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:19 PM
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I absolutely agree with this Never got laid in high school, played a lot of video games, and didn't drink Flash forward to college, and I had consistent casual sex almost my entire freshman year. I also barely played video games, and went out twice a week Granted, I'm tall, but I'm certainly not Chad seeing as I'm chubby although I workout, and I don't have a spectacular face. YMMV though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:26 AM
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I think every man has. Shit I once stuck my dick in a girl who claimed my friend knocked her up, and that she got an abortion a week after, when there probably was no baby. Didn't use a condom either. Twice Not my proudest nuts for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:37 PM
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I really don't understand why males think we need huge penises, if anything we need vibrating fingertips Probably the proliferation of small penis jokes just about everywhere. Especially after breakups, where the go to insult is saying he had a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:46 PM
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I've become much more purple pilled since coming here, although that probably is due to me obtaining more experience and growing up a little
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:27 AM
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Great, so we're in agreement. Women don't actually want men to be emotionally available
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:17 AM
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Exactly. Hence the common refrain from some men "if she just wants to give me a handjob, she can stop and I'll do it myself"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:55 AM
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100%, and although I'd think it was a little out of the ordinary if a woman insisted on a HJ instead of a BJ, assuming they knew what they were doing and put effort in I'd be fine with it. But yeah, most women's HJs is the guy equivalent of being with a dude who fingers you super hard while you're dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:46 AM
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I don't mind handjobs, but they have a bad reputation for a reason. From your other comments it sounds like you actually put a little effort into the technique, even using lube. Most girls don't. I've only gotten a couple HJs and it basically consistented of getting my dick grabbed and pulled. Yeah it felt nice, but it's obviously not preferred. If a girl doesn't want to have sex, a BJ is 1000x better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:37 AM
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I'll be honest, I have no idea what we're arguing here because I agree with everything you said with the exception of saying that gaining muscle takes low effort. Efron's physique is definitely not comparable to Pitt's
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:47 AM
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Absolutely. After the first 4 years of serious gaining muscle growth is hard to come by naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:17 PM
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Well said. At the worst, by getting jacked, girls who like big dudes will like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:09 PM
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Hell I'm not lean whatsoever(offensive line) and by being just big, I've appealed to a niche of woman who want to feel safe/protected. Like one girl told me I felt safe cuddling post hookup and another said she liked how I was twice her size. About half the lineman on my team seem to experience this too. Some of these dudes are 290-300 pounds, and if they didn't lift they'd be fatasses without any female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:07 PM
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There's a cap to how much muscle you can gain in a given year, which goes down the more muscular you get. On the contrary, losing weight you can do incredibly quickly. So mass is significantly harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:59 PM
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Sure, but they'd look worse if they were fat and didn't work out. That's all it is. Some guys go from a 2-5 some go from 5-8
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:56 PM
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Sometimes, sometimes no Answer from a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:42 AM
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Lol I had a girl say something like "you must have a big dick to talk like that" I'm perfectly average. Below average if you listen to some of these people in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:40 AM
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80 American men Small sample size? I don't doubt the average is bigger than 5.2, but 6.2?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:36 AM
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You aren't getting first date BJs in US college?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:32 AM
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I believe it was 0.4. A lot more than I thought it was ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:29 AM
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Technically it might be higher due to the slight correlation height has to dick size. Even still, no guarantees. Heard through a friend's girlfriend (for some reason) that a kid I played football with, jacked, good looking, and tall, had a micropenis. Some people get unlucky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:27 AM
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Boring 1000% percent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:24 AM
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Generally yes. Like during a toothy BJ
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:21 AM
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I'd consider myself a relatively attractive dude- a tall athlete with at least a solid face. My other friend is worse looking and shorter, but probably average looking. That being said, this exact situation happened with myself and two friends of mine. 3 girls gathered around my one hot friend, just like Dave, and started asking him questions and flirting, with barely a glance at me and my other friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:16 AM
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For the most part, you're right, but broke women and short women don't want short broke men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:10 AM
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It's only a challenge if they choose to be virgins. Most male virgins don't have that choice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:08 AM
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Probably shy/nerdy guy getting the hottest girl in the school. I was very nerdy until late high school, so that was always kind of a fantasy of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:05 AM
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I have no idea. Certainly not my solution. A lot of men know that they need to touch the clit but just not how
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:18 PM
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That's a big reason why I put the effort in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:27 PM
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You're absolutely correct. The point stands that some women are too afraid to communicate if they want clit stimulation hard, soft etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:18 PM
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all you have to do is ask them Some girls yeah, but a lot of girls have no clue what works
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:53 AM
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Sounds like he needed it and was too embarrassed to go to the doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:50 AM
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Good for you man. Pretty tough to do all that shit when you nut in under a minute And I'm someone who gives good head. Girls want to be fucked sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:48 AM
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This is basically me. It's laughably easy to get Cialis online nowadays so really why would you risk it? I've had some terrible sexual experiences that would have been amazing had I been on cialis and some other substances
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:46 AM
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Strongly disagree. Most of the tall women I know go for mainly tall dudes. Hell I had a girl tell me her "type" was only dudes 6'3 or taller
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:00 PM
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Good for you. I have. My 6'5 brother has been dating a 5'9 girl for almost 2 years and my parents who've been married for 25+ years are 6'1 and 5'11
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:57 PM
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The basic premise isn't wrong, but heightism is way worse towards short men than towards tall women. It's much rarer to see men demand short women than women demand tall men. Women are also exceedingly cruel towards short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:52 PM
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A lot of us simply are in difficult circumstances for relationships. For example, I didn't have my first sexual experience until my freshman year, not because I wasn't attractive, but because I went to a small high school. That also applies to the many thousands of men who don't socialize much outside of work or go to engineering schools without many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:46 PM
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My junior year in high school I wasn't looking where I was going and ran into a girl in the hall pretty hard and refused to apologize for like 10 minutes because I thought RP dudes weren't supposed to apologize
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:37 PM
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Nothing wrong with having a thick ass. Girls love it
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 11:06 PM
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Yeah I'm speaking solely from my experience as a man who's probably in the top 50-20%, and my friends who are probably higher
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:25 PM
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I don't necessarily disagree, I'm just saying that the extraordinary lack of standards that a lot of men have doesn't translate to relationships, only casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:44 PM
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Yeah I agree. It's like as long as we think we can upgrade, we can never be happy. And I actually really liked this girl. Just thought I could maybe do better looks wise, which is nitpicking seeing as I thought she was cute regardless. Who knows if I actually could too I think part of that is I wanted to be able to flex how hot my girlfriend is which only works if she's hotter than I am. Idk why that's an instinct Always gon' be a bitch that's badder out there on the tours But you ain't never go…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:08 PM
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You're talking to the wrong guy seeing as I'm a college student. My parents have some money, but I certainly don't have a trust fund or anything that would allow me to "beta bux"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:05 PM
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I believe men's pickiness comes when the time comes to pursue a relationship To give an example from my life, I had a FWB with one girl from college for around two and a half months this semester. I didn't try to make it a relationship because of that nagging feeling that I could do better. Part of that is definitely influenced by tinder, in that I was matching with hotter women, even if they wouldn't necessarily be as compatible with me or even answer to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:46 PM
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This is exactly why I am currently rifling through just about every way to last longer in the bedroom. Giving oral is great and will satisfy a girl, but it just doesn't have that same raw display of power.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 04:02 AM
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It means you have zero qualifications for talking about what women want
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 03:59 AM
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Respect for being honest. You must be massive at 235
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:18 AM
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I also do. If you get a number and an address, it's basically a done deal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:17 AM
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Chads are incredibly rare. They are even more rare on reddit, and even more rare on subs that talk about dating because they have no need for it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:13 AM
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This was me until 16-17. I was always tall, but had a Babyface, so I looked young anyways And yes, it took college to shock me out of that and accept that I'm a sexual person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:07 AM
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I suppose you're right, but it's as close as I can get to an unbiased rating, seeing as IRL people sugarcoat things and rateme gives everyone 7s. Anyways, my point is essentially that me being tall essentially gives me a +1 or 2 to my true rate me attractiveness rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:53 AM
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Agreed, tealistically no one here is fucking 10s. At best 8s
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:57 PM
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I like the post but that's a real shitty analogy only because the fat dudes move big weight and keep their mouth shut, and the skinny dudes doing high rep accessories are the dudes who fuck around and don't make progress. Like you make big gains if you lift big weight for 4-6 reps, it's not "pussying out" I know it's not the point of the article, but it takes away from the actual point.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/21 05:49 PM
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Eh fair enough I guess I sort of understand because I've also not given advice to girls about their technique, but that's only because a strong gust of wind can get me/most dudes off. Figured it would be different for girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:06 PM
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Hmm interesting, guess I never thought of that So there's nothing men can do to help then, if what you're saying is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:53 PM
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Maybe I'm missing something here, but why don't women just communicate more as to what feels good and what doesn't? I understand that some guys just don't care about their pleasure, but that can't be the vast majority of guys right? Coming from someone who's had more success satisfying women when they give me advice then when they don't. Seeing as women like vastly different things in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:07 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:01 PM
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Not saying any dude who's 5'7 can do it. That's pretty obvious Just sharing an anecdote. And yes, if you aren't at least average looking it won't work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 09:05 PM
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Exactly. Clearly some people like him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:28 PM
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Exactly. Pick your niche and stick to it Personally I know a dude who's 5'7 and skinny, but an artist and solid looking and he pulls with girls in that niche
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:57 PM
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Ever heard of blueface? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.billboard.com/amp/articles/news/8527456/blueface-slept-more-than-1000-women Women definitely like rappers Pretty irrelevant seeing as most rappers aren't masculine, but still
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:38 PM
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Chris and Liam Hemsworth come to mind. Both pretty muscular too. Actors, not musicians, but close enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:36 PM
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Prince is the rare example of a short ugly dude who had a 12/10 personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:35 PM
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Strongur.io It uses the fact that your lifts are roughly correlated with your muscle mass to give an estimate. In my experience it's usually around what the navy body fat index gives you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:38 PM
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There's something that you're forgetting here. Is porn the symptom, the cause, or both, of sexual dissatisfaction Personally I watch way more porn when I'm not sexually satisfied, although I do think that a ton of porn use isn't good for the brain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:00 PM
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It's possible. I had no idea that the number was 22% though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:18 PM
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Because we also want sex before marriage which christian girls don't usually give up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:11 PM
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Exactly. I actually met a couple girls in college who were solid 8 or 9/10 who were either virgins or would turn down attractive dudes who would try to pull them Because for them, they know they can basically get any dude they want. So why give away sex for free?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 10:05 PM
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Absolutely insane lifts. According to a website I use, you're around 15% body fat with those lifts. Definitely not overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:13 AM
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IMO plates are easier to keep if you make them cum
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:18 PM
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I'm getting a server error
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 07:50 PM
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Yeah I get a little sleepy, but it's great for me because I can sip on drinks all night and have zero anxiety but still be able to walk and function. Also so I can get it up. Twice a week isn't ideal, but it works with how much I go out to parties in college. Probably won't even take it at home, so I figure whatever tolerance I have will go away then
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:26 AM
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Sure. But think about how someone working with depression gets zero sympathy, whereas someone who has a broken leg gets a shitton
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:26 AM
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Exactly. I use football because it's more common, but PTSD is a great example. Again, because it's not visible, it's treated as a personal failing, not as a disease
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:23 AM
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Depression is weakness. Society, and by extension women, don't like weakness in men For another great example, look at literally any football team ever. Every dude who's played has had at LEAST one concussion(unofficially), but unless you are forced to come off by training staff, you're a pussy if you take time off Similarly, because depression is an unseen illness, you don't get any sympathy for it. It's not a broken leg or something, where it's visible and easily fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:03 AM
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Yeah Jordan Peterson isn't red pill. Just trad-con. Red pillers don't advocate for traditional marriages like he does
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:55 AM
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Honestly man I'm sorry. If I were you I'd get a prostitute at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:53 AM
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There were parties but it was weird. Mostly underground and limited in number, so you had to know the people. Made it weird trying to meet girls.
/r/seduction12/05/21 04:32 PM
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No doubt. I've been taking it twice a week 3g each time since I'm an above average sized dude, but I plan on reducing that significantly once I'm home. The rebound anxiety the next day is a bitch
/r/seduction12/05/21 04:31 PM
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Pro-tip Try the anti-anxiety drug phenibut. I usually mix it with alcohol which actually isn't recommended, but it helps with some of the anxiety that comes with approaching girls.
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:04 AM
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I'm missing the words "probably" and "For you to be attracted to them" out of that quote. How does that change the meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:38 AM
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Haha well I'm not entirely sure. I'm sort of average looking but tall, around 6'3. When I've posted stuff to lookism or truerateme, I usually get anywhere from 4.5-5.5. My body is solid but not great. I have the muscular dad bod look that some girls like, but I'm not ripped by any means. I'm pretty big, but I'm like 20-25% body fat I also don't have terrible pictures on my OLD profiles. 2 of them are top 20% and I think the other one is average, just have it in because I don't take many pictures…
/r/seduction12/05/21 12:36 AM
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By the way, I quoted your exact words. In fact, when you just clarified your position, you said the same quote I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:26 AM
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You seem to think you've stumbled upon something new here. As shown by your unwillingness to consider a 600 pound partner, you too consider physical attractiveness at least somewhat when selecting for a partner. Therefore, you also require your partner to be "at least somewhat attractive." At best, giving you the benefit of the doubt, the only thing you've said is that your standards are lower than the average persons if you really enjoy their personality. Which is true, but hardly groundbreakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:26 AM
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You said "if a partner needs to be at least somewhat physically attractive to you, you're shallow" Therefore you're shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:15 AM
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Would you date someone who's 600lbs? If no, you're full of shit. If yes, your opinion is so far outside the ordinary I'm not worried about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:34 PM
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I meant last September. All of them go to the same college as I do. Some from tinder but most from parties/get togethers.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:32 PM
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18M 8, 11 if you count just oral All starting this September more or less
/r/seduction11/05/21 10:57 PM
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And my point is that in college, the only self improvement required is to be either good at sports or high status enough to join a frat, and to workout, which he did as a football player. And obviously have the confidence to make the most of it. Grades are essential for post college life, but purely in college they don't really matter.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 05:14 PM
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Yeah definitely, that's just not the point of the post
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 03:15 PM
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You'd be surprised with the sheer amount of dad bod positivity going around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:20 PM
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No shit. Girls don't care about that though so neither did Steve
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 01:44 PM
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That's literally the point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:09 PM
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If you're fat you aren't a true incel though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:08 PM
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Great, as you should. It's still not Only hot women Like you so confidently said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 12:22 PM
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That's about all you need in college
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 04:24 AM
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I personally know a girl who's 5'0 flat and overweight who exclusively is into 6ft+ athletes. So no, not just hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:20 AM
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Is this the case for all sex or just casual sex? For (unmarried) relationships I would think a lack of sexual satisfaction would be a deal breaker I'd agree. Not sure why women would be in a FWB or otherwise casual relationship without orgasms The definition equates sexual satisfaction to achievement of orgasm, but is this necessarily the case? Do women enjoy sex even when they don't orgasm? Not a woman, but I believe they do, just not as much Why does this gap exist? Are men responsible for thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:15 AM
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Well of course not, but in those cases they already gave you years of good memories which then make helping them a more desirable outcome. That's what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:44 AM
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Nice guys do get laid, but it's not necessarily because they are nice. Especially in a casual sex context.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:05 PM
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Yeah haha I've been lifting for 3-4 years so that's how I'm able to not be a total fatass at 250. Thankfully cardio isn't too important to me at the moment so I'm still able to lift heavy MMA is a really cool sport though so I don't fault you at all for focusing on that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:27 PM
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All relationships are transactional. Just depends what you're exchanging
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:14 PM
2

Oh yikes, I guess that makes sense then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:25 PM
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I suppose I'm being hyperbolic lol I just don't get how you can like the opposite sex but not enjoy oral sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:19 PM
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I'm tall, work out, not ugly. Plus I make an effort to make sure the girl cums as well. Weird flex but I hooked up with a girl who had just got out of a lesbian relationship, and she said "where'd you learn to eat pussy like that" so I can't be horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:11 PM
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Yes. You're weird if you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:10 PM
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When people say they "gained 15 pounds of muscle" what they really mean is they gained 15 pounds and didn't get visibly fat. In that case, they didn't gain 15 pounds of fat free mass either, so I have no clue how that's relevant at all Regardless, again, sub fat free mass in for muscle and my post is still 100% correct.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/21 04:54 PM
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Exactly. Being 5'4 probably brought you down from top 8% to top 50/60%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:50 PM
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Yeah no shit. We use muscle as a colloquial term for fat free mass. That includes bones, water, shit, and muscle. Sub out "muscle" for fat free mass and my entire post still makes sense
/r/TheRedPill08/05/21 03:28 PM
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Oh I know lmao. I'm just saying I forget that I'm actually pretty chubby because I spend so much time around dudes in my position who are way fatter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:07 PM
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I actually laughed a little bit when I saw this because I play football and I'm actually considered on the skinnier side. Funny how expectations change outside of certain environments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:53 PM
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It's like a passive +1 to your attractiveness. I'm nothing special, and I'd be fucked if I was 5'4, but because I'm on the taller side I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:52 PM
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Oh I'm definitely pretty fat. With how unreliable body fat measuring is I could be 25% and I wouldn't be too surprised. I can squat and deadlift 360 and 405 for 5 reps, plus I can do a solid amount of chinups, so there's muscle underneath, but I'm not winning any beach body competitions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:48 PM
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Yeah I was gonna comment but you hit in on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:49 PM
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By taking the passive approach you lose any right to complain about lack of attention, however frustrating that is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:47 PM
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Lol as a dude who's not horrendous at getting IOIs I really only notice girls making excuses to touch me/be around me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:44 PM
1

How much fat compared to muscle?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:40 PM
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Yeah I gotta thank my lucky stars my dad married a volleyball player Like I think it's pretty funny how if you take me, and subtract a foot of height, I'd go from someone of above average success to an incel. For no other reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:35 PM
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The first time I saw a female friends tinder is when I realized why it was such a crapshoot getting hookups on. She had like 5 invites over (college campus) in like a day of having it active.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 08:10 PM
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I have the app so it notifies me every time. Maybe subscribe if you haven't already. Depends how clingy she is, If she's like a stalker then yeah, I'd have to bail eventually But if she's just a hot woman who's maybe a little too into me, I don't think I'd mind much. If she's significantly hotter than me, than I really wouldn't mind.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 08:07 PM
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Are you either fat or really skinny? Do you put effort into your appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:37 PM
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IMO that is kind of true with really short girls. But you also pick up the ability to pull tall girls easily. So I think it balances
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:39 PM
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I'm 6'3 and it's literally that easy And I'm a guy who's gotten anywhere from 4.5-5.5 on truerateme This dude is probably better looking. How he stumbled through life not getting laid baffles me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:38 PM
1

Kratom ever make it hard to get it up? Otherwise I'm definitely grabbing some. Looking for something that'll take me to a solid 10-15
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 01:35 PM
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Nah of course not. I'd probably hook up with her if she glew up Just like how I'm assuming the girls I simped over early in high school would appreciate my attention more now that I'm not 5'7 and skinny fat
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 01:20 PM
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Imma keep it real here- I'm one of the dudes cursed with terrible stamina in the bedroom So as much as I love hitting it raw, that's not always the best option, until it either it gets better, seeing as I already quit porn, or until I find a silver bullet medication wise These numbing condoms are no joke though. I see you last 30 minutes normally so you're probably good, but anyone else reading this who wants to last a bit longer could try them out Same goes for phenibut in my personal experienc…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 03:15 AM
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Great post. There's also condoms with numbing creme in them and some supplements that delay cumming to help while you work on this type of stuff
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 02:47 AM
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Sweet I'd like to add that some of the EC's are either larping or just have zero social awareness. So I don't doubt what you're saying whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:55 PM
1

Generally true, but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:01 PM
2

Well yeah but isn't that obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:49 PM
2

Vice versa what? I'd agree it's obviously ideal to be the best someone's ever had
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:26 PM
2

Casual sex. You have more sex, but with only 1 girl. That's totally incomparable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:11 PM
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I should probably add that I'm a broke college student so I'm not gonna spend a shitton of money on dinner for a first date Also the whole no BJs thing would put me off Oh and waiting 3 months for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:39 PM
1

Also "porn sick limp dick"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:05 PM
1

It sounds like he's a real shitty redpiller if he's old fat and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:04 PM
1

If you have the link on hand you mind linking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:02 PM
1

That sounds like WAY too much effort unless the girl is a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:00 PM
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The answer is yes. Unfortunately for dudes who aren't tall
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:58 PM
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It's the same thing. Let me rephrase this so it's clearer In my case, you're very good at sex but not best she's ever had In the OP's case, she's very attractive but not the most attractive her boyfriend has ever seen. In both cases, it does no one any good to mention either the better sexual partners, or the more attractive girl If you still can't see the analogy that's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:36 PM
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Think about it this way. Odds are, unless you're an absolute sex god, your partner has likely been with someone who's better. Would you rather they say "oh wow, that was amazing" or "that was really good, I've had better though"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:15 PM
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Shit you guys sound happy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:13 PM
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Agreed. Lonely men would be the main consumers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:34 AM
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Once AR/VR sex comes out, we're fucked. Porn already takes up a shitton of time and energy, imagine if you could fuck someone with literally zero effort I bet incels would cream their pants at the news
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:33 AM
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I always found that fact pretty funny I know you want this for life Taking pictures with all my ice But I can't have no wife I just want you for the night Lil Yachty, One Night I bet he got laid a thousand times off that song too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:29 AM
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Absolutely. The more they try, and the less success they receive, the worse they get, and therefore the more toxic they get Someone who's had success at one point has a base of self esteem to fall back on that incels just don't have. So each rejections stings worse. They do definitely need guidance. There's some guys in the incel community beyond help, but some can definitely be fine with a little help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:17 AM
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I'm in college so it's basically cheating with the amount of parties and drinking going on. So don't sweat it too much. You definitely shouldn't be expected to be getting laid every week otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:05 PM
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Not necessarily at all. Like it's fun to not only look back and think "hey, I'm good looking enough to pull that girl" or to tell your friends about who you hooked up with. Especially at clubs or college parties, that's part of the charm. It really only becomes a problem when it takes over your thoughts/life and your are unsuccessful. Like when all you can think about is how you're getting laid next. I've been there and it's a pretty frustrating place to be. I'm assuming this is what causes peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:57 PM
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Me too my man. It's smooth sailing right now because I'm relatively successful at the moment, but there's no telling how the future will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:49 PM
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I can confirm this. Like half the time I actively went out trying to sleep with someone, I was doing it more for the validation and affirmation that I can pull, rather than the actual pleasure of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:53 PM
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I might be strong, but I'm not knife or bulletproof. And there's literally no telling what the assailant has
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:39 PM
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Nah. I'd call the police but I'm not risking my life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:35 PM
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Yes of course. I'd make sure to not eat them out just to waste their time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 12:49 PM
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You'd really be surprised Some women genuinely just hate men. Just as some men genuinely hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:48 AM
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I agree with this as a dude. Unfortunately, the loudest people are dumbasses who say stuff like "When I say all men, I mean ALL men"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 12:50 AM
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Oh damn, it got banned? That's a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 12:00 AM
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"she's not yours, it's just your turn" Like TRP 101
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:56 PM
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As a dude, it's pretty simple to me I expect girls to be down to give head. I'm also down to give head. I also have a vested interest in making sure the girl has an orgasm, which is way easier when going down on her. Pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:54 PM
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Ah yes. I'd love to have to be hard on command(absolutely no BJs as foreplay, no sir) last exactly long enough to make her cum but not too long, or else I'm "porn sick". Oh, and only on their schedule, while they fuck other dudes and I don't fuck other women, because that's what a HVM does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:52 PM
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If you're gorgeous, you'd be getting matches
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:43 PM
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It was very irritating on my end for sure. Especially because I'm generally pretty vanilla, but would totally be down for whatever if she just came out and said it. Yes, absolutely a safe word is best for these people. I wasn't dating her, we were good friends, but only hooked up twice. I think the second time she actually told me a safe word, but it's been a while so I don't recall. If I were to date her, that would be essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:17 PM
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A lot of it is common sense to be honest. Keep your options open, be tall, dark, muscular and handsome. Be rich. Don't be too available Some of it is garbage but if you cut out the trash it's good advice For the record, women attention skyrocketed for me and my brother as soon as we got tall and started lifting. So fufilling the checklist helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:57 PM
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I love being attracted to women when I'm successful, and hate it when I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:54 PM
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In my experience, it goes 2 ways 1 is when it's at a party. Usually there, there's some flirting, then usually making out(sometimes asked for, sometimes not).Then one of the two people suggests you get out of there, go back to either your place or their place, and it's more or less assumed consent unless either of the parties says anything. Maybe a "this ok?" Or "should I grab a condom" thrown in 2 is my experience on tinder. There, I invite a girl over to watch a movie, start cuddling, then aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:32 PM
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Depends entirely how hot you are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:27 PM
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Agreed. In my opinion, most of his advice will probably work, but he's still the last dude I'd get advice from. The website you linked actually does a great job of analyzing scientific studies, I've been a pretty avid reader for a while. Also for beginners, they have in depth guides for all 4 of the main lifts Also- calling people autistic and saying vaccines cause it puts me off from whatever else he says And yes, greg probably does have better genetics and probably does train for strength, but…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/21 01:17 PM
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Keep in mind Greg nuckols can also lift more than GLO without gear.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 07:25 PM
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Yes. They are skinny, attractive, with insanely high status. Remember, women will fuck any dude with high status Look at dudes like Lil Uzi Vert, Kodak Black, Lil Wayne, or Young thug. All ugly as fuck, but clearly get laid die to their status. Boy band members are attractive so they do even better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:02 PM
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Thanks, glad to hear people appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:54 PM
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So first of all, yes, it's a good sign if gay dudes are into you But he's talking about respect here
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 04:57 PM
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Nihilism is more black pill IMO
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 04:55 PM
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You aren't kidding about fat women and latching on to you. It's the female version of simps latching on to whatever hot girl treats them like a person
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 04:55 PM
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I suppose that's true. Not my thing but it definitely works for a lot of dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:35 PM
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Oh absolutely nothing. It's just if a girl won't have sex with you unless she's high, that weirds me out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:14 AM
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I don't disagree with anything you're saying here However, you need to understand that this means that this isn't "dating down". Dating down would be if your dad never move upward and stayed in that shitty job
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:50 AM
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Not necessary but it helps
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:42 AM
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That's not the question though. That's fine at 20-25, but would it be fine at 50-55? IMO probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:40 AM
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Some of the most average dudes I know get laid by smoking hot girls out. Kinda scummy but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:38 AM
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she saw his hustle and saw he could do great things in life So your mom saw potential and it paid off. A more interesting question would be What if he ended up in a deadend job making 50k a year. Would she still be with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:37 AM
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Well I'm strong and in solid shape but not lean so I can play football Think like Jason Momoa or Zac Efron in those pictures where everyone said they had a dad bod That's also why I said I'd wait for after graduation, so I'll be done with football and can get lean/get that yoga body Didn't realize student discounts are a thing though, might need to look into that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:17 PM
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Great suggestion. I'm just gonna make a mental note to join a yoga studio when I graduate college I'm absolute garbage at yoga but if cougars like tall and ripped(hopefully by then) dudes than hopefully it won't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:59 PM
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Funny seeing you here Uncle Vasiliy But yeah, this is why there's 1000 posts about "where are all the good men" and "why do I keep getting ghosted after sex" over there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:46 PM
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I concur. The girls I've met with mental health issues were always great in bed. And yes, they were a little crazy, but entertaining nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:49 PM
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Yes he is. A man who's straight up average across the board is average. A dude who's "average" but 6'3 and charming isn't actually average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:59 PM
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Fat is too fat for me when it starts to affect either the general shape of the body- particularly when fat is added around the waist, or when it affects facial attractiveness. Nothing wrong with a girl who's a little heavier as long as she has an otherwise attractive body and face
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:58 PM
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So therefore looks matter to you. You can say personality matters more to you than the average girl, but to say "looks don't matter to me" is just incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:32 PM
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Every man you listed as an example has at least 1 attractive trait which makes them better than average. Either height or sociability essentially. So for a dude who's truly average, they aren't necessarily getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:17 PM
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Would you bang a 600lb dude with a 10/10 personality? If not, then looks still matter to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:15 PM
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I'm purple pill but closer to red pill so I'll respond If it works for you, that's great. I'm sure there's some people who work better under those types of arrangements
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:12 PM
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As far as the booty call example goes, I'll generally go out with my friends and then invite the girl over later, usually around 1 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:03 PM
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I don't care that much because #1, my N count isn't particularly low (8) and #2, 90% of girls at least have a few hookups under their belt. Plus you're never gonna get a real answer out of a girl so not even worth asking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:25 PM
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Not common. Someone would need to have sex with a new person every 2 weeks consistently for the entirety of college to get up to 70 or 80. That's with zero long term relationships ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:23 PM
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Just gonna copy and paste what I said earlier in this comment section Even giving you the benefit of the doubt and saying you are 8% body fat which is probably underestimating things, you have 152 pound of muscle For comparison, I'm someone who trains for mostly strength. I've trained for around 3 years seriously So I'm around 20% body fat at 6'3 and 250 pounds. So I have around 200 pounds of muscle. Before you call me fat, that's true, but assuming I cut right now which would take around half a…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 08:06 PM
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You're 6'1. You should be 200 pounds lean after 6 years
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 08:02 PM
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Don't listen to GLO. Idk why he's being a dick here. Hop on over to gainit or weightroom or fitness subreddits, they have big FAQs that are full of advice for you
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 04:02 PM
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Also not OP but that gives him an FFMI of 24.59 if he's 10% body fat. Totally achievable
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 04:01 PM
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Yeah I broke down why this isn't correct in one of my comments. Basically my fatass lifting for strength could have almost 40 more pounds of muscle than this dude while also being cut in 6 months if I decided to cut
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 03:59 PM
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Sorry man, you have a solid physique, but to have that after 6.5 years of lifting basically disqualifies you from giving advice Even giving you the benefit of the doubt and saying you are 8% body fat which is probably underestimating things, you have 152 pound of muscle For comparison, I'm someone who trains for mostly strength. I've trained for around 3 years seriously So I'm around 20% body fat at 6'3 and 250 pounds. So I have around 200 pounds of muscle. Before you call me fat, that's true, b…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 03:56 PM
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I completely agree. And I'll add, it really isn't entirely your fault. I've heard horror stories from girl friends of mine or hookups. Anything from dudes taking advantage of them while blackout drunk, or going in for her first time with zero foreplay and causing bleeding. One girl literally said "yeah I don't think girls can cum from sex" In reality, I'm assuming she hadn't had a dude who was willing to put the necessary time into foreplay to make that possible, seeing as I didn't have that iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:19 PM
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Same here man. This last hookup I had, it was supposedly this girls first time with a dude in 3 years after getting out of a relationship with a girl. So she was all worried she wasn't doing things well enough So I had to deal with the fact that I couldn't get it up as well as a girl who thinks I think she's ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:38 PM
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Exactly man. I was all nervous about busting quick and ended up playing myself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:43 PM
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Yeah it was part of a somewhat questionable effort to find an over the counter cure for Premature Ejaculation. Did not work at all at 1st plat levels. Basically had a limp noodle down there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:37 PM
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Yeah idk. I haven't had much issue getting it up sober, but it still has happened once or twice. And like I can usually get it up anyways, porn in my experience makes it harder though.If anything getting it up then nutting too quick is the bigger problem for me. Guess it affects different people differently though I'm assuming you've never been high on cough medicine but it literally makes it impossible to feel your dick, and alcohol obviously affects sensitivity so that's what happened in the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 04:45 PM
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Yeah and honestly as the guy I feel terrible. Made a post about my experience on the pornfree subreddit actually. There definitely is more pressure on dudes. Probably my least favorite part of being a man If I nut too quickly, take too long to get it up, take too long to nut, it's all my fault. It's basically flipping a coin every time I have sex seeing if the girl cares about it or not. Especially with cumming too quick. Some girls don't care, but the ones who do you'll never see again after.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:58 PM
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Totally agreed. I've experienced all 4 of those issues before. Alcohol and porn are probably the most common ones. You'd be surprised though. Some girls really take it personally. I had trouble getting it up last Friday and the girl I was with was convinced I didn't think she was attractive even though I literally stayed the night and went down on her at least 5 times. Like I wouldn't go through the trouble if I thought she was ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:11 PM
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Glad to hear that I hit the nail on the head I myself don't last long at all, like a few minutes at most. So jackhammering for an hour is out of the question. For some women that's a huge problem, but for some I was actually one of the better dudes in bed according to them(they mentioned this first, I didn't ask for it). A lot of that comes down to communication, like you said. I've always said at the beginning of any hookup to feel comfortable telling me to change spots, go harder, softer, slow…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:20 PM
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Absolutely man. I play football so I'm on a team with dudes who even if they have beta traits, are all strong and athletic at the very least. It's incredibly powerful and part of why everyone should play sports or at least lift. There's just nothing like knowing you could beat the shit out of 99% of people who step to you. I'm a naturally sort of shy and anxious dude, but lifting cured me of much of that Could not agree with that last sentence more
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 01:33 AM
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Lmao love it Big women deserve love too I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:24 AM
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Exactly. The best thing I've done recently is allowed myself to hookup with multiple girls. I think I finally realized that I don't owe these girls anything. If I choose to give my commitment, great for them, but that's my choice. For a long time I used to get pissed when girls wouldn't be down for multiple hookups too. Now I'm realizing that they don't owe me anything. Life started getting a lot easier when I realized that As to your point, I think that's why TRP advocates for lifting and appro…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 01:17 AM
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Absolutely. I cringe at the dude I was my junior year in high school when I discovered TRP, grew to over 6ft and gained 30 pounds. I was a complete asshole to women overcompensating for the person I was earlier. That was definitely too much, but better than I was before. And yeah, you gotta swing in the wrong direction before you can find out where the right balance is. Especially with abundance. It's so hard to fake the confidence you have when you know you're getting laid regardless if this pa…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 01:06 AM
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Only part that sucks is that it no longer shows up on google searches.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 12:47 AM
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The issue with FDS is they want Alpha bucks. They want a high value man to simp for them. Basically the same thing as betas who want to turn the hot party girl into a perfect wife.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 12:46 AM
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You know, while you aren't wrong, I disagree with the premise here Women generally do consider a man's failure to get hard as a reflection on them. I myself have had that issue twice, and both times the women asked #1, if they weren't attractive enough for me, and #2, if they weren't good enough giving head for me to get it up. And generally speaking, it isn't their fault. In my case, I was high on cough medicine one of the times, and incredibly drunk the other time. Both which reliably cause ED…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:24 PM
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I'm in northern US, so idk maybe it's different. I'd agree that on average, most people don't call each other out for being fat. However, my point is that the minority of men who do is more than the minority of women And yeah, in asian countries especially fat shaming is much more accepted. Who knows, maybe it's why they are so skinny
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 09:56 PM
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Personal experience Do you expect a double blind peer reviewed study on the subject Matter of fact, where do you get your information?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 09:21 PM
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Nah, you aren't getting the point. I never implied that all men don't sugar coat things, I simply said that more men are honest to their friends about shortcomings/why they are single than women are. You're the one trying to say that just because it's not literally all men, it doesn't count
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 08:58 PM
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Not even that men are better, but men don't sugar coat stuff to their friends like women do. Like if a dude asks a friend how to get more women, one of the first 3 things is always either lose weight if they are chubby, or start lifting if they are skinny
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 08:43 PM
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I disagree with the last point, but that's only because it's generally harder to date with women than men. Idk if you've seen bi women talk about their tinder experience but it's night and day if they include men or not
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 08:42 PM
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It's women flirting for validation aka having a "flirty personality"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:45 PM
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Mutual conversations and eye contact is literally just being a friendly person. Now if you're making excuses to touch him and complimenting him, then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:34 PM
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Unattractive or below average-average, pretty often. Straight up ugly, not that often
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:12 PM
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I have zero idea, he was just the first TRP dude I thought of
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 09:55 PM
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They can be friends. The guy needs to be getting laid frequently or find the girl unattractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 06:31 PM
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Exactly. When they say they want dad bods, they mean the very end of a bulk where the guy looks big and a little fluffy. Not dudes who are actually chubby
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 06:29 PM
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I disapprove and might talk to them about it, but I'm not gonna snitch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 06:27 PM
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It is. In his case it doesn't matter seeing as his entire brand is red pill content. That's like telling Rollo or any of those RSD guys to not talk about game
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 01:31 PM
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Sure, I agree. Use someone like Kevin or even maybe dwight for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:48 AM
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You must have been working with some good looking dudes then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:55 AM
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Yeah I think you just like big women. Nothing else to it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 02:26 AM
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She's not even overweight. Maybe not in excellent shape, but she's pretty skinny. Remember in the weight loss episode is says she's 135 and she's 5'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 02:25 AM
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Dwight is average. Micheal is very good looking for his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 02:19 AM
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He's a good looking 6'3 dude. Unless you're friends with models, yes, he's attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 02:19 AM
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Amen brother
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 02:14 AM
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You can't just ignore the Halo effect as "people being dumb." It affects everyone. Yes, including you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:29 PM
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it is very hard to believe that a 20 year old is having sex all the time Lol, you really think promiscuous 20 year old don't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:54 PM
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I'd love to see some sources on that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:46 PM
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Nah just the attractive and non religious ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:09 PM
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What do you mean, there's plenty of 20 year olds who get laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:59 PM
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Definitely. I don't know the details so maybe the abuse only happened after she got married, but that might have happened to my mom's college friend. I understand abusers can hide who they are for a while, but sometimes these relationships go on for years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:25 PM
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Only thing I can think of that would cause divorce that you wouldn't see beforehand is someone who becomes an alcoholic or drug addict a few years into marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:07 PM
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Well obviously, with all other things equal of course
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:45 PM
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Ignore the upper weight classes like 275+ and 242, those dudes are definitely not aesthetic
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 01:52 PM
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Actually olympic lifters are a better example for what I'm trying to say, although powerlifters in the lower weight classes generally look good. For example, this is Jonny Candito who is 5'9 and competes in the 183 weight class https://i.ytimg.com/vi/vJJI74hcrs0/mqdefault.jpg This is Dimitry Klokov, who's 6'0 230 https://outalpha.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/klokov.jpg Both have pretty good physiques
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 01:52 PM
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No doubt. I'm saying if you hold creepiness levels equal the hot guy is cute and endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:44 PM
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Nah. I could definitely lose some weight and I kinda am like your friend in that I don't shoot my shot with hot girls much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:07 AM
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Let's ignore hookups then. It's still easier for the average girl to get into a relationship. Just by sheer numbers, they are gonna be able to find someone. Guys don't necessarily have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:06 AM
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Run through enough dudes and you're bound to find someone who wants to date. Case in point, one of these girls is currently in a relationship. Fact is, the average woman is generally more desired than the average dude. For hookups especially, but also for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:31 AM
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Hot awkward guy- cute and endearing Ugly awkward guy- weirdo Halo effect. Fact of life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:46 AM
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I've seen the tinders of a couple of my female friends Within a couple hours they had multiple invites to hangout. From good looking guys too. And I'm assuming we're around the same attractiveness seeing as I hooked up with one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:18 PM
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Exactly. If you fuck other men, I'll fuck other women
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 02:00 PM
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Sure it happens. Not nearly at the rate that it happens to men though. I know OLD isn't exactly representative of "real life", but it takes me 5-10 messages on a college campus, where women are the most receptive, to get 1 hangout. I guarantee that wouldn't be true for you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:45 PM
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"undetectable." Men aren't dumb. Mental illness can be recognized without you saying it specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:38 PM
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Oh ok no arguments here. Shitty form will kill gains like no other. I assumed he was talking about shying away from heavy lifts and doing more accessories, which could work, but beginners shouldn't necessarily be doing.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 01:26 AM
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Yeah Klokov is an absolute animal. Probably juicing as well if I'm being honest, but a smaller version of that physique is probably my goal
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 01:21 AM
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Ah gotcha. So we're both essentially saying the same thing- that heavy weights are the base of any program, but MMC is great for accessories to bring up weak points and assist for compound lifts. Like hitting abs for a better deadlift
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 01:20 AM
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Yeah honestly man maybe I am. I suppose we're splitting hairs if we both agree that heavy lifts and accessories/ mind muscle connection have a place in training Have a nice day
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 01:17 AM
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Try squatting your max while worrying about mind muscle connection. No doubt it's important, but it's not something that should be the main focus of your training
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 01:12 AM
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They hit accessories hard, but the meat and potatoes of any bodybuilders program is compound lifts "Everybody wants to be a bodybuilder, but nobody wants to lift no heavy-ass weight" Ronnie Coleman, 8 time Mr Olympia winner
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 12:42 AM
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You're also totally ignoring my point about powerlifters. They don't give a shit about engaging their muscles, yet they all are huge
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 12:33 AM
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Muscular engagement is irrelevant. The most important thing is volume. Yeah obviously it's important to not ego lift so you work the right muscles but all this crap about "feeling the muscle" doesn't mean anything. Do lots of volume of compound lifts with some accessories for back especially and you'll be big without ever worrying about muscular engagement Also- strength and muscle growth are linked very heavily. Show me a guy who can bench 405 and I'll show you a dude with a a great physique
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 12:32 AM
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Is it good for lifting? Probably not. But seeing as there's gym bros who binge drink 3 times a week and still are big, you'll be fine
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 05:07 PM
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There's a shitton of cookie cutter lifting tips on here, but if you lift heavy weights and cut/bulk effectively, you'll be muscular. Sure, feel and contraction is important, but if you're benching 135 you aren't gonna be big no matter how much you focus on "muscular contraction" Look at any powerlifter not in the superheavyweight class, and you'll see someone with an appealing body
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 05:06 PM
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Remember that RPers are also generally not religious and don't become attractive until later in life. So the NAWALT women they could attract at 18 aren't an option for them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:02 PM
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Yeah 5x5 is bullshit because you never hit upper body, and bodyweight is hard to progress on because it's hard to hit legs effectively You probably aren't looking for a new program, but if you're trying to get bigger and stronger check out Nsuns.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 01:43 PM
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Honestly just use one of the fitness or weightroom programs. Most dudes starting out don't know shit about programming
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 04:27 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:23 AM
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HS, definitely education College, probably 50/50 right now, but first semester sex was more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:17 AM
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For a short dude that's a bit optimistic. But as a dude who's 6'3, I didn't hit those lifts until I was like 210 which is when I stopped looking skinny
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 02:14 AM
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Depends what you mean by "big". I'd rather get big first then cut down, then fuck around because I'm afraid of gaining a little fat. Trust me, I've been there. No one cares how lean you are until you're at least a little big
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 02:12 AM
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Haha I just gave it a read. Absolutely hilarious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 03:23 PM
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Nah I hooked up with this girl like 5 months ago. Definitely not the same one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 02:55 PM
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Do you mind linking me to what comment you're talking about? I'm blanking on it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 01:38 PM
1

Tough to know, maybe 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:03 AM
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Both honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 06:10 PM
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Huh that's interesting. I wonder why that is. For me, my guess is that the girls who are attracted to me like feeling tiny. Not to say that I haven't attracted any tall girls, but only a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 04:59 PM
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Yeah we're in agreement here. I know it's not the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:31 PM
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Nah I'm not saying everyone is an exception, BMI works for most people. I'm just saying it's more likely for men to be exceptions rather than women because more men do heavy strength training. Being overweight is taxing only when it's extreme. Someone who's ripped and BMI 26-27 is healthier than someone Bmi 22 but skinny fat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:23 PM
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I've always had a poverty bench lmao. I'm 6'2-6'3 with long arms, but still. At that point I think I was benching 2-3 times a week. I was squatting 365 too. For whatever reason, I've always had much better lower body lifts. I'm chubby now- like 20-25% body fat- so the bench is around 270-275, but I'm 250 now so not much better comparitively. Squatting 360x5 and 405x5 for deadlifts. I'm curious, how much do you lift?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:19 PM
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Dude I agree with you 100%, it's just still annoying. Like half of the reason I'm on here is to vent about annoying stuff And you're right, it honestly doesn't matter what girls say to each other. That's just my pride talking I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:51 PM
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I'd appreciate literally any verbal rejection so I can stop wasting my time. I also know that my college roommate got absolutely flamed by a bunch of girls for not hooking up with them again, so some consistency would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:58 PM
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Yeah that was a big generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:54 PM
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I'm a dude, and this only applies when older dudes go for younger girls in college/high school. Like when 18 year olds prey on 14 year old freshman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:36 PM
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I'll give you credit, I actually had no idea dick size and height were correlated- a quick Google search told me the correlation was between 0.2 and 0.6, weak but still definitely present. I'm getting 18% for men over 6ft, but 20% is close enough I guess I don't think you can ignore minorities to bring the average height up. For white dudes, sure, it's around 5'11 As for 6 inches being average, we could argue all day about this, it depends which study you use. Your study gives an average around …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:02 PM
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6 ft with a six inch dick is 3.48% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:19 PM
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14.5% of men are over 6ft. 24% of men have a dick bigger than 6 inches. You're also forgetting the 3rd 6, which is 6 figures, which only 21.71% of men make. If those are all independent, a man who fufills all of them is .75% of men. Lmao at basically average Oh and I've also heard it with a six pack- which is also very rare, although I'll give you a pass on that because if you don't have a six pack you aren't putting the work in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:14 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersectionality#:~:text=Intersectionality%20is%20an%20analytical%20framework,%2C%20physical%20appearance%2C%20and%20height.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:50 PM
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That's entirely possible, and if that's what she needs them I'm not the guy lmao I moved my hand down there earlier after making out and she didn't want me to finger her at all. She got her clothes fully back on while I cleaned up. It's been probably 2 months so I'm pretty sure I offered, but I'm not positive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:25 AM
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dipped before I could make it up to her I love going down on girls and using my hands. She wasn't going for it and left. At that point, the lack of orgasm is her fault seeing as the vast majority of girls don't cum from just sex. Hence, why I said her loss. If I refused to do those things, then yeah, you'd be right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:18 AM
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Good question. I suppose there is none. I have a lot of people on snapchat I never talk to. Maybe that's a generational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:59 AM
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First of all, this is all over snapchat Second of all, I'm not actively waiting, I'm hooking up with someone else at the moment, I just have that deep back in my snap feed. Even if they were to snap me back, I wouldn't be interested. I suppose I could unadd them, but what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:53 AM
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The funniest part about that case/ your comment is I actually happen to play football. Taller/bigger than the other dudes I assume this girl was with. Unfortunately for me, I happened to nut real quickly when we met up, and she dipped before I could make it up to her. So that's my theory as to why she ghosted, but no way to know for sure. You'd be happy to know that I didn't open it until the next day (was busy fucking someone else) and responded with "oh lol I had a really fun night" in the mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:38 PM
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Yep. In the 1st 2 situations I saw these girls around campus with different dudes within a couple weeks. I'm assuming with the first one, she got bored of whoever took my place after a month and sent a feeler out to see if I'd take the bait. That's just how it is. Sucks, but no amount of complaining will solve it Next year when covid ends I probably will be doing the exact same thing. Should be possible once I have parties and can meet more girls. And honestly, if I don't, the girl will. It's ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:02 PM
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Basically try to find the right girl and avoid red flags. Also date for a really long time before marriage. If I get fucked over, then I'll probably stay a bachelor for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:25 PM
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Do you live in a big city? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:34 PM
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Bro you're handsome as fuck. Also that's a great profile. 7-8 IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:28 PM
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Ulterior motive? What's wrong with a dude trying to meet a girl with romantic motivations. It's not ulterior, it's obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:27 PM
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I second what someone else said in this thread: the sub is pretty funny but the mods are absolute degenerates
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:11 PM
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Yeah absolutely. And that's totally fair. If you're a woman who likes sex, and the guy your seeing makes you wait but not some random girl, it makes sense it would piss you off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 01:44 PM
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I don't follow a lot of the harder red pill philosophy. Stuff like "women are basically teenagers." I'd also like to have kids someday and therefore might get married, even though obviously marriage has a ton of risk. I guess you could describe me as red pill aware rather than red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 01:43 PM
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Huh, that's weird. Guess it goes both ways then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:26 PM
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Because I've been explicitly asked to choke women, even when it's not something I've said I'm into. I've also had women degrade themselves during sex, again, when it's not something I've said I'm into. Not all women, but it's definitely a thing that some women like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:32 PM
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A lot of women like choking and jackhammering. Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:06 PM
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And there's absolutely nothing wrong with waiting. Dudes who want good sex/a slut in bed need to realize that they'd have a better shot at it with a high N count woman, or possibly with a woman who's been in lots of LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:37 AM
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I actually agree, the problem comes when it's been a while. Granted, I probably wouldn't wait 2-3 months for sex, but let's say that I did wait. In that scenario, if it's been 2 months of dating, I'd expect that she isn't having sex with anyone else. If it's been 2 weeks, totally different story. Sleeping with someone else while not sleeping with me implies that I'm less sexually attractive then the other guy, which would be a real killer for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:36 AM
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Trust me I know. I've dealt with 2 girls who either were virgins or very low N count. One of them was incredibly neurotic, and was basically afraid of any type of intimacy. Also came from a catholic family (her mom once said "if you take the birth control pill, you're going to hell") The other one made it very clear that she didn't like going all the way very soon in a relationship, that was after probably 3 hangouts and 2-3 weeks? We are both in college, and we had very different expectations, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:24 AM
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Sounds like you're telling a homeless man "I know it's tough, but I have problems too. Sometimes my bentley won't start and I need to drive my audi instead"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:22 PM
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IMO its rampant casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:18 PM
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Wasn't like she rubbed it in his face, but yeah it was mentioned in front of my dad And my dad is a tall, solid looking guy too. Just not Christian Laettner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:24 PM
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Oh no doubt. I definitely stand out at parties lmao. Hurts me a little that I'm around 20% body fat but still, being 6'3 and 250 helps for sure. Just wanted to clarify that it's not like I can walk into a party, say I play football, and have a girl on my arm in a second, which is what it's like at a D1 school, especially the best of the best. It also helps that the average dude at a liberal art school is shorter and skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:23 PM
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It's influenced a lot by my upbringing. In my parents marriage I saw a lot of great things. I've had a great upbringing in general. That being said, there's a few things that I see that are blue pill, and in a bad way. For example, my dad relies heavily on covert contracts. He's a huge people pleaser, and he's also a bit jealous now that my mom makes more money than him. Both of my parents have let themselves go as well. Both of them used to be college athletes, and now are obese and out of shap…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:37 PM
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The deleted comment said that I have an advantage over the average dude because I'm an athlete. At bama, if you're on the football team, you're automatically a top tier dude. Not the same thing at a D3 school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:29 PM
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Yeah obviously all things equal, I'd rather fuck an 8 than a 6. Just saying there's mitigating factors
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 03:00 PM
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Looks and sexual performance do not always go hand in hand. The girl who was the best at sex for me was someone who had probably 20+ bodies and was maybe a 7. Whereas I also had sex with a girl who was probably better looking, but was a starfish and made zero noise and gave zero direction or feedback. Like it's nice to brag about I guess, but an enthusiastic 5 is better than a disinterested 7
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:32 PM
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Not entirely, my parents have had a very successful blue pill marriage, but some elements of red pill theory definitely apply For example, my mom told me that short dudes annoy her(she's 5'11) She also was happy to mention that she made out with Christian Laettner at a party back in college when the documentary on him came out Don't think she's cheating, and my dad made more money than my mom for a while, but she actually makes more now. The cock carousel thing no, because she's been dating my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:28 PM
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Figured I'd share this story So I go to a small liberal arts school, and play football. Once, when I was very drunk, I hooked up with this girl who was like a drunk 3-4. Just not attractive. Obviously doesn't end up leading to anything. This girl tells me a couple months later that her goal is to hook up with a member of every sports team at the school. So basically one hookup with me immediately raised her standards, when in reality, she's lucky she got 1 team done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 12:23 AM
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Haha on tinder I thank my lucky stars if I get a response for every 3 women I message.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 12:20 AM
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I'd bet my life savings it was absolutely insane
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 12:13 AM
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All of these things ideally would be clean and simple. Way too much attention to these things or way too little might be a problem, but otherwise not that important
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:55 PM
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Men need shaved pits to be evolved?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:48 PM
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When we talk 20/80 we aren't talking about relationships, we're talking about casual sex. You're right, and a lot of people would be happy with an LTR with frequent sex, but that's not what 20/80 is referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:00 PM
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No it doesn't. It's 16.8 and 5.5 for 3+ sexual partners. I'm not counting men in relationships because I'm talking about casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:59 PM
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I'm at college right now so the pool is small, but reasonably speaking I have one FWB, 5 matches on tinder, and a couple girls on my snap that I matched with on tinder a while ago. No idea how good those options really are / if I'd be able to get laid using them. I'm talking about purely people on campus for reference, I have 50+ matches from surrounding colleges. It's a lot more scarce around here without big parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:46 PM
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That's including dudes in a relationship, which I guess technically fits the multiple times a week thing, but only 23.4% of men have sex with more than 3 people in a year. Pretty close to 20/80
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:42 PM
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Gotta do what you gotta do in a pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:01 AM
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It's just lean enough to not look fat, especially with clothes on. No arguments here though my man. I'm playing football at the moment but when I'm done in a few years I'm getting shredded and getting that mean up to an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:22 PM
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Yikes, tough critic. A 2 puts me at a 4.87, which seems low IMO as I'm able to get casual sex. A three or a four would put me around a 6 which I'd have no problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:08 PM
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I like this calculator. I'm gonna round down to 6'2 because you said barefoot in the evening, average ish face, muscular but bit chubby (250 @ 20% body fat),no hairloss- actually thick wavy hair. Idk about skin but I'm tan and don't have pimples. So basically Face 5/10 Muscles 6/10 Height 10/10 Hair 10/10 Skin 8/10 I'll take the 7.22/10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:18 PM
1

You think more than 20% of men are having sex with multiple people at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:53 PM
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You can not wear a seatbelt and never get into an accident. But it helps people avoid accidents on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:52 PM
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That's totally fair. I've heard that snow bunnies are basically either looking for dudes who look like Kelly Oubre or Michael B Jordan Nah I'm white, ethnically greek to be specific. Just figured that's at least better than Indian or Asian dudes, because there's no one who fetishizes them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:24 PM
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I mean at least y'all have snow bunnies?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:59 PM
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That's like my dad. Love the guy to death, but he used to play lacrosse in college and run a 6 minute mile, messed up his knee, and is now like 270. He does some cardio now, but can't lose the weight.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 01:47 PM
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As a tall dude with a stutter, I can confirm it sucks, but if you're confident people don't care
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 11:35 PM
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The tricky part about hooking up with friends IMO isn't the actual hookup. I had absolutely great sex with both of those girls, in part because we knew each other so communication was easy. The tricky part is seeing them with other dudes, even worse, guys I'm friends with, after(This was because we all go to the same college).Even though these girls owed me nothing, I was still a little jealous, ngl. And you're right, if they had said "hey, I just want to hookup, then go back as if nothing ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:06 AM
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Yeah unfortunately this girl was a friend of a pretty close girl friend of mine. I'm actually cool with her now, but damn did it sting in the moment I actually hooked up with the friend who introduced me to her to begin with which was a whole nother can of worms. That taught me another thing- if you actually care about being friends with a girl, don't hook up with her. I'm cool with her as well, but it's just not the same thing once that barrier is crossed. You're right though, the secret to sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:54 AM
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Haha yeah you were taught well That being said, my first month of college was a real wake up call. Kept hooking up with girls then was confused why they dodged my texts the next day or acted distant when I saw them in public. Then I realized- I was just the random hot guy who happened to be around when they wanted a hookup. This hit me especially hard when I lost my virginity, and I saw the girl with another dude the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:40 AM
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That's very well thought out and also explains the fact that fat women still do well so props. And you're also right about tall and big women- I'm assuming that's why tall women don't date short men either. They usually end up with an absolute unit of a man. For an example, look at Mehki Becton (6'7, 365 NFL player) and his girlfriend- she's not fat, but an athlete and not super skinny. In that case, because she's an athlete, the only way to get someone more outwardly masculine is an even bigger…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:50 AM
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Very interesting to think about. And yeah, I'd definitely agree with your theory
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:37 AM
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Oh lol I think you're misunderstanding me. Nothing wrong with it at all. Just a fun thought experiment to think about how something so arbitrary could make such a big difference
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:31 AM
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I don't think it's that being tall is his whole personality, it's just as a tall dude you hear from women "OMG you're 6ft whatever" "I like that you're twice my size" etc. Or, you also hear women think a dude is cute but then be like "oh he's only 5'7?" Makes me wonder how I'd do if I was 5'9 instead.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 10:52 PM
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Maybe the first couple times, but I think most guys who get casual sex realize after a bit that both parties don't really care about the other party
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:43 PM
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As you should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:40 PM
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There was a post I commented on a while ago that was simply "when was the last time you've seen/touched a boob outside of porn." Out of like 20 comments around half hadn't seen one in the last year so yeah, normal is questionable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 08:13 PM
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For real bro. Plus Becky is way less annoying to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 08:08 PM
1

I recently got this and it's nice, but doesn't really solve my problems
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:01 PM
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Not surprised at all. His days on tik tok were numbered from his first post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:05 PM
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Haha it's this 40 something year old dude who gives zero fucks. His tik tok name was snortcough, but apparently he got banned. Didn't realize until 2 seconds ago. Really can't say anything nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:07 PM
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There was a tik tok I saw a while ago that touched on this. Basically, women are bad at sex too, but they never realize it because men can cum from just about anything. So they never have any incentive to get better. Men who are bad at sex at least have the incentive of getting better to satisfy their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:41 PM
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I improved my looks while also hitting puberty so idk if it counts, but I went from really skinny to pretty big and it definitely had a big positive impact with dating and also with just life in general
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:30 PM
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https://www.pinterest.com/pin/766949011525075580/ Without the gross facial hair he has in some of his pictures he doesn't look terrible. Wouldn't say he's good looking, but to say he's less than a 5/10 wouldn't be accurate IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:28 PM
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Confidence isn't something you can just choose to be. It's a result of succeeding, and therefore realizing that you can do that thing. If you are constantly failing in anything in life, you aren't gonna be confident For me, being confident with women is knowing that many women like me, and therefore approaching to see if this particular woman likes me. What allows me to be confident is first, past success, and second, looking at myself objectively and seeing that I have traits women like. For ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:23 PM
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Technically yes, but I'm D3 so it's not like I'm playing at bama(unfortunately)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:44 PM
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Yes, but only if you don't want to hookup with that girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:11 AM
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I'm talking exclusively romantic success. Obviously dudes don't care, but you can be in a great social group and it doesn't matter if you're not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:19 AM
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Yeah, that's sort of why I don't think that the advice of "get more female friends" is the answer if a guy can't already get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:42 PM
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Gotcha. I suppose they are slightly different, but even in that scenario a dude who's just straight up unsuccessful isn't going to do well, whereas a dude who's temporarily down on his luck might.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:05 PM
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And those women can introduce you to other women on the peripheral of those groups and circles. Direct quote from a parent comment Introduce, setting up, we're talking about the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:04 PM
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Depends if they are ugly or not. I've gotten set up with a couple of friends of girl friends of mine, but I'm also not ugly. An ugly or otherwise unattractive guy will just be an orbiter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:34 PM
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That makes sense. I myself don't have good stamina and that's definitely been an issue with women, although I imagine the bigger issue is the dying energy wise after. I assume you mean dudes who will go at it for a minute then roll over and go to sleep? Just weirds me out that dudes don't put the effort in to satisfy their SO, even if it's using toys or something
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:23 PM
1

Hmm, so would you say that that's what causes a lot of dead bedrooms? I'm also kinda curious, what is it about these men that makes them so bad in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:13 PM
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Mine was 2019, I couldn't find the 2015 one. You're right though, lesbian is undefeated when it comes to women. Top 1 in both years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:21 PM
1

Yeah that should be enough haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:52 AM
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Can you link where you're getting this? I was definitely wrong about lesbian being first, but I'm looking on the pornhub year in review and the top 4 for men are japanese, amateur, mature, and milf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:29 AM
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Not if you have socks on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:10 AM
1

Don't knock it till you try it But honestly me too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:10 AM
2

Sounds like you could also divide people as either "likes pussy" or not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:08 AM
1

Is it really? Learn something new everyday. I know it's the most popular for men as well though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:27 PM
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I think it was pretty clear I'm talking anecdotes, so feel free to tell me to fuck off if you want studies. I don't think that's something that's even possible to study.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:41 PM
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It would hurt if someone said they didn't find me physically attractive but grew to like me after a long time. Basically, if a woman wouldn't be comfortable having casual sex with me, I wouldn't want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:35 PM
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So a dude fucks 1 guy and a 100 girls, marries a girl, and is still gay? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:33 PM
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You must be friends with some really progressive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:31 PM
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Fuck a dude and see how it feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:28 PM
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Wasn't just his body because he had a model-tier face as well, but yeah, being ripped as fuck definitely helped. I plan on getting there as soon as I'm done with football- I'm an offensive lineman so being ripped isn't exactly in the job description.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:42 PM
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Yes I'd take it today
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 09:20 PM
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There's two types of chad's- the status ones(the ones you refer to) and the looks ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 09:17 PM
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My experience with "chad" is a teammate of mine that I played baseball with in high school. This guy was only around 5'11, maybe 6ft, but was around 170-180 and completely ripped. Abs and veins everywhere. He also was really good looking, off the top of my head sort of like Zac Efron. For context, my own mom saw him when dropping me off at school and said "I bet he does well with the ladies" The main thing I remember about his experience is that he had to put it literally zero effort to get girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 09:11 PM
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I'm not sure why people don't believe you. I know a couple guys I play football with who are just as you described- tall, 250-300 and strong but soft in the belly obviously. They both have skinny and relatively attractive girlfriends. Just as some women love the skinny artsy dude type, some women love the offensive line body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:58 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:23 PM
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Like 5'7, fat ass, big tits and small waist. That being said I've been interested in girls as short as 5'2 and as tall as 5'9. Plus I've had crushes on girls who are over 6ft so my standards are flexible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:22 PM
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If she's a virgin or really low N count, and also incredibly attractive/ better than other girls I could reasonably get than sure. The average girl, absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:20 PM
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Probably my brother and my parents. My dad is very much blue pill, and my brother is probably purple pilled. Also just seeing who got laid in high school and who didn't. It was clear there was a pattern there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:19 PM
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Short, ugly, fat or really skinny, anxious/lack of confidence, lack of personal grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:15 PM
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Best way to get closure is to fuck someone else. Only thing that really helps.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 07:40 PM
3

Is time having fun really time wasted?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 07:24 PM
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TRP is a toolbox. If I'm successful in my career, with women, and lifting, I really don't care if I'm wasting a couple of hours a day.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 06:38 PM
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Exactly the key is to have broish attributes that cancel out the nerdiness. Then you look like clark kent instead of a random nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 01:16 AM
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The bar is only low for hot guys
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 12:47 AM
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Don't forget- if a woman can't cum it's the man's fault, but if a guy can't get it up it's his fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 12:47 AM
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I've certainly regretted hooking up with a girl while very drunk. Did I get raped? Absolutely not
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 12:40 AM
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I have alpha and beta traits. I'm tall, muscular, and not ugly. I also get too invested in girls too fast and I'm definitely not "chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:56 PM
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It's not below 25%. At my college 25% said they had never had a hookup- this included all 4 grades. Hookup including making out and oral as well, so the number is probably higher
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:54 PM
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Well I'm 18 and no doctor would give me one, plus sperm retrieval isn't cheap. Condoms are way cheaper. Or just vetting for non crazy chicks who take the pill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:52 PM
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Or a bartender who doesn't drink
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 09:48 PM
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Well yeah that's the same thing. Both genders do terrible things to optimize their mating strategies. And yeah, I love ethics and morality too, but if you expect everyone to abide by them you're gonna have a bad time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:21 AM
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Men will stop lying about intentions as soon as women respond well to honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 04:17 AM
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Personally I'd say I'm around a 6. So there's some truth to this, but yeah, the 3s and 4s still want "hot" guys. Had a 5ft 4 tell me she only liked guys who were over 6ft. Definitely not just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 04:15 AM
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Exactly. It also varies in effectiveness depending on how attractive you are. Like a 5-6/10 doing that would annoy me but an 8 would get my attention quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:48 PM
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Yeah asians and latinos throw the average off because they both are usually shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:50 PM
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I have made the mistake of hooking up with a girl who's probably like a 3/10 and I was able to not only get an erection, but cum from head. So I don't need to be very attracted to her This was in the dark though so that helped
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:38 PM
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For white dudes I think the average is 5'10, and most dudes round up to 5'11. So there you go
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:35 PM
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Well yeah, but some women like harder stimulation, some can barely take any etc. Not a problem if we communicate but some people don't like to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:09 PM
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Hey at least you're honest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:04 PM
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Yeah this definitely works if you make sure to spend enough time so that he knows you're interested. As with all game, it's a fine line between doing too much and doing to little. As a dude this would piss me off if you did it too much, but used sparingly would probably work on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:59 PM
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I have no idea. The whole r/deadbedrooms subreddit baffles me a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:53 AM
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It's because men assume that you'd naturally be attracted to the man you chose to spend your when life with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:29 AM
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Rappers are a bit exception in america. https://www.wikicelebs.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Kodak-Black.jpg Like this dude for example
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:49 AM
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Nah honestly if a women has a cute face it doesn't matter to a lot of men. I myself have hooked up with girls who had chests that were barely bigger than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:46 AM
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Yes, my self worth is definitely based in my sexual attractiveness. If you ignore sex, I'm an athlete at a great college, getting good grades, with a great family, a solid social circle, from an upper class upbringing. I have absolutely no reason to be unhappy. But if I'm not getting sex at the moment, I usually am. Even if I'm getting sex, if I'm not performing well and making the girl cum, I also feel like shit. I also think about if I wasn't tall, if I'd still have any success with the opposi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:42 AM
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I totally agree with everything you said, all I'm saying is both of the top 2 guys would still get laid if they weren't rappers, although obviously not as much. Kodak black probably wouldn't for obvious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:34 AM
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Yup. "Fix your problems or I'm leaving" in a lot more words
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:27 AM
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https://static.billboard.com/files/media/g-eazy-june-6-2019-billboard-1548-compressed.jpg https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/ac556b9/2147483647/strip/true/crop/2799x2344+0+0/resize/840x703!/quality/90/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fef%2F6b%2Fcbd3e2b341d0acbeeee67a2540fc%2F3083367-et-0621-blueface-5-gmf1c.JPG G easy is 6'4 and Blue face is 6'3. So not solely for the clout. Here's a picture of kodak black (5'7) for what fucking someone for the clout…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:23 AM
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I mean at least they are good looking. It would be even worse if they were ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:19 AM
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I'd definitely be embarrassed. Mostly because I know being a pornstar will probably limit her potential job opportunities and limit her selection pool for partners. Also, there's the ick factor of having naked pictures of your daughter for anyone to see
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:09 AM
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Seriously though, what's the point of saying stuff like that if you aren't going to share. That's like how little kids handle secrets
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:51 AM
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Lucky man. I've met women who suck at communicating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:25 AM
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Women in my experience are pretty terrible at communicating what they want. Like they want you to magically know what they want you to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:22 AM
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Personally, yes. I always incorporate foreplay of some sort. Ideally she'd already cum by the time we got to PIV sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:19 AM
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Not a chad or an incel so I'll answer this A- I was really unpopular in middle school but haven't been bullied very harshly. B- nope, none of these C-Yes, but nothing diagnosed D- I have a social group, but covid kinda fucked with it as I'm back on a college campus without a lot of my friends who couldn't go back E- not all the problems, but it would definitely improve my life F- no, my N count is 5 right now and more hookups wouldn't solve anything. Maybe a relationship, but who knows G- I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:13 AM
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Yeah definitely. Some women are into just big dudes- think offensive lineman, but those guys would 100% look better if they lost weight, even though they already are insanely strong/lift
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:04 AM
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At big schools sure, but you're also forgetting that most sports teams are comprised of almost exclusively muscular tall men. Especially football and basketball
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:44 PM
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Don't worry this guy can make the women he passes cum from mere eye contact but he can't share it cause it's too dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:41 PM
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Lmao. Yeah bro me too, I can make girls cum in 2 seconds without even touching them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:29 PM
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Yeah I've seen multiple girls on tik tok claim to fuck G-easy too. Him and blue face are everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:03 PM
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Absolutely not. In both cases they are compensating for something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:02 PM
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Yeah to be honest, when I said ugly, I was thinking more along the lines of dorky guy. That's also why I thought of Ted. I mixed the two things up. I'm sure we can agree that that trope is everywhere though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:12 PM
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We can debate this. In my opinion Robin, the slutty pumpkin, victoria, and stella were all better looking than ted. But hey, that's just my opinion, attractiveness is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:54 PM
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That's exactly what I'm talking about. IMO ted is a solid looking dude but he had no business taking home the women that he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:30 PM
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Yeah he's in grown ups, bedtime stories, 50 first dates. I'd rather not go searching for a thousand examples but here's the tv tropes article for this trend, which actually applies to Ross as well. https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/GiveGeeksAChance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:28 PM
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Also a lot of tv shows like HIMYM. Took ted like 20 years to get robin but he did eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:37 PM
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Most comedies. Especially those involving someone like Adam Sandler. Also teen comedies like Superbad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:36 PM
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Well sure, you're right in that sense. I'm talking about movies and tv shows though. They always sell the nice guy getting the girl in the end even if he's ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:33 AM
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Haha that's half of my sex life post TRP too. My first hookup literally was a girl whispering to me "wanna hook up" during a pong game
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:39 AM
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I don't think it's "looks matter" as it is "looks is a necessity." Our culture tries to tell us that if we just are nice and get a good job women will love us for who we are, which isn't true, as many women over at r/niceguys can attest to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:30 AM
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This even goes past marriage and kids. Eventually it becomes who's kids are more successful. My mom constantly likes to mention the schools me and my brother went to, and how we played football, get great grades, etc. And interestingly enough part of that goes back to the fact that my mom married a tall, solid looking, intelligent dude. So yeah, it would make sense why that one didn't work out, she definitely wanted bragging rights. And there is no right answer because a girl with all guy friend…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 06:10 PM
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Yeah that's just silly. She could have been attracted to you, but she doesn't get the oohs and ahhs from her friends so she'll throw the whole thing out even though you're still a solid 6 inches taller.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 04:23 PM
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And it's definitely a status thing. Girls want to be able to tell their friends how tall a dude is. How tall are you btw, I'm curious how delusional this girl was?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 03:25 PM
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I met this girl in college this year who is 5ft flat and not attractive. She's adopted and has a 6'6 adoptive father. She proceeded to tell me that because her dad is so tall she only likes guys who are 6ft+. Girls forget that a guy being 6ft is less than 20% of all men, and being over 6'2 is about 5%. So realistically, unless you're a top 20% girl these standards don't make sense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 03:23 PM
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My brother is actually a good example of what these women expect. He's 6'5 or 6'6, like 250, used to play football, but has/used to have nerdy interests like fantasy novels, legos, video games. First of all, that type of dude doesn't make it to 30+ unmarried most of the time. If he does, why the hell would he want someone who's 35? Case in point, he's in an LTR of a year and a half at the moment
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 02:31 AM
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Wow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 01:40 AM
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If she's cute and otherwise fits my selection criteria then yeah I would. I honestly have no idea if there's a cutoff because I've never seen a girl who's >3 inches taller than me (I'm 6'3). IMO its a neutral trait. I've had big crushes on girls who were taller than me when I was younger back when I was shorter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 11:17 PM
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I'd add that Micheal Cera was literally the poster boy for "goofy teen beta" in Superbad. Even his roles aren't attractive. But status trumps everything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:05 PM
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I'm thinking someone like pete davidson. Like he's good looking but he's not perfect like a lot of people in the industry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:02 PM
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No, it isn't being oversimplified. Sex isn't the only way to show intimacy, but an otherwise loving relationship with kissing, hand holding etc, but no sex is still an issue. It seems to me like you're trying to hand wave sex as a need by pointing to other forms of intimacy, conveniently forgetting that sex is one of the most important forms of intimacy available.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:37 PM
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Way to completely miss the point. There's a difference between needing something to survive(what you're talking about) and needing something to live a fufilled life(what I'm talking about) Furthermore, a relationship includes sex. Therefore, if you need a relationship to be fulfilled, you also need sex. I don't know what's so hard to understand about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:50 PM
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First of all, don't call me hun. Second of all, no, you can't get sexual intimacy/relationships from friends, especially not family. If you seriously think you can satisfy a need for intimacy- which includes sex- from family, then we might as well just stop talking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:42 PM
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I can see where you're coming from, but there's also an issue when there's too few girls in an area. IMO it would probably be best for average dudes in a small city, like Providence or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:33 PM
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No, but I also live in a town of a few thousand. Probably wouldn't get that many matches in a city but who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:15 PM
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On the heirarchy sex is linked with intimacy and relationships, both of which masturbation doesn't provide. Masturbation is the fast food of sexual satisfaction. Technically it fills you up, but eat nothing but McDonald's for your whole life and you're gonna feel like garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 02:47 PM
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Generally for straight men you don't count oral sex as sex for the purposes of an n count. So that's probably what he's saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 05:01 AM
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Maslow's heirarchy has sex right above having a roof above your head. So sure, you won't die without sex, but a life without sex leads to your brain screaming at you that you're failing at the most important thing you have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:53 AM
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Debatable. I definitely don't look like a supermodel, but I've gotten laid off of OLD which is like 80-90% looks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:37 AM
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You can ask away, and most girls don't even know themselves. I've only gotten specific feedback from 1 girl out of 5 which made the experience way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:10 PM
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Yeah I used to worry about it this stuff but so many girls refuse to communicate it's not worth my time. I try my best, but if it's not happening and she won't help me out, I'm not gonna lose sleep over it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:08 PM
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That's the girls fault then. If you're unwilling to try to help men make you cum then that's on you. Every girl is different so there's no one size fits all solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:07 PM
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Lol this response is great. Same thing if a man can't get hard. No one blames that on the women. It's clearly a problem with the dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:05 PM
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If you have never had an orgasm with someone else, and you've slept with plenty of men, then either you aren't helping men by telling them what makes you cum or you're choosing men who don't care about your sexual satisfaction. Or you have a medical condition. Male porn addicts have trouble orgasming in bed, and no one blames that on the women they sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:04 PM
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Depends if you're getting laid at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 04:49 PM
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Yeah that's fair actually, I wasn't thinking particularly hard when I included wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:32 AM
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Yeah that's true. Do you mean facially or are we counting height and wealth and stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:25 AM
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Yeah IMO you need to be above average for that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:44 AM
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Are you saying with any girls including 3s and 4s etc.. or just desirable ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:17 AM
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My dad is a pretty blue pilled guy but it worked out for him- he married my mom when she was 25 and he was 29 so he didn't marry someone who was 30+ years old or a single mom or anything. I think he did well with women as a young man, but he was always the "nice guy" in comparison to his friends. Stuff like not finishing his Masters and using the money on a ring for my mom. My Mom is somewhat purple pilled, she's 5'11 so she's mentioned that looks matter, and that height is very important, parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:03 PM
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The men getting laid just say "come over and let's chill. " No dinner required
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:41 PM
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Yeah my first couple lays were off of playing the "awkward top 20% dude" card.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 02:33 AM
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100%. I've had women tell me "my dad is tall so I only like tall guys" or "OMG you're 6'3! That's my ideal guy height." One girl also told me she liked how I was twice her size
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:39 AM
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I'm around 6'3 and I would never ever wish to get shorter. If I asked anyone around my height they'd say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:36 AM
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Yeah this is 100% accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:33 AM
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Yeah frat boys don't need a guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:27 AM
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Unfortunately nah, that's usually not how it works. The nicest guys I know are either virgins or have had sex once with a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:27 AM
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9/10 times women who get deadbedroomed either have let themselves go after marriage, or way more common, are married to porn addicts. That's a huge issue that isn't really talked about. For men who get deadbedroomed, it's usually that their wives aren't that attracted to them. Obviously this is from my understanding of the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:23 AM
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Agreed. If women hate sex this much then why TF do so many have huge N counts? I'm of the opinion that N count isn't even a huge deal, but those 2 things don't match
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:09 AM
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Definitely possible. I was talking more about the casual hookup culture that is common among younger people nowadays. Not ONS or among people you don't know, but definitely not expecting commitment. Totally possible that if you're talking about seriously dating with the expectation of commitment that we are talking about different things. I still think however that there are more RP or PP guys than you'd think, but I have no way of proving that so no point in arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:07 AM
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And yeah, it's definitely a spectrum. Not sure what percentage of TRP subscribers believe that women are teenagers at heart. Hopefully that's low, but maybe I'm wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:01 PM
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That's totally possible! The refusal to commit/invest thing is covered by the fact that I'm in college so hookup culture is rampant. I'd never date a lot of the girls I hook up with, but they don't need to know that, nor do I think they care honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:00 PM
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Interesting, not sure why they were so angry then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:26 PM
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Kinda forgot what I was flaired as honestly. I agree with a lot of red pill doctrine, but I disagree mostly with the "women are basically teenagers" and other anti women things. The core aspects I agree with. So I guess technically you're right, but what I'm really saying is that yeah, you can tell if a dude is an extreme redpiller, but that's like saying I can tell who all feminists are because they are vehemently anti men. You're ignoring the large segment of men or feminists who fall in the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:07 PM
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Because no woman has ever pegged me for a red piller. On the contrary, most women say I'm a genuinely nice guy. This is a classic toupee fallacy. Obviously there are guys who take it too far, but you'd be surprised the guys who secrety even agree with red pill points without explicitly mentioning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:48 PM
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I have a couple of friends from marblehead. Whitey whiteville is an understatement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:33 PM
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I'd argue that the longer you've been unsuccessful with women or in a shitty marriage, the angrier you'll be when you discover TRP. Personally I stumbled upon it when I was 15, so the only thing I really took from it was to become the guy girls like(tall, confident, muscular, etc). So girls tell me I feel safe to talk to, and that I'm super nice, and we just happen to end up hooking up. That being said, the angry young men you talk about are probably the guys who stay sexless throughout college …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:29 PM
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100%. I've actually gotten women to tell me their body count without asking. People will say anything if they think they won't be judged for it. I'm sure the same thing goes for RP men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:25 PM
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As a women you get flooded with messages. So that's why it isn't easy for men. Too much competition
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 08:28 PM
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Oh 100%. The same friend of mine who I went to HS with got zero sex at school, but was constantly on facetime with girls from back home who were insanely hot who he had hooked up with. I gotta take a visit LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:19 PM
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Definitely possible. I've heard from my friend who is from Columbia that white people are considered exotic down there, maybe that is true in other short countries and could work for short dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:08 PM
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I'd say anything shorter than 5'4 personally. It's not like it's impossible to get girls when you're that short,but it's exponentially harder every inch past that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:51 PM
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Yeah I know that. Just clarifying to this dude why exactly it's a majority of guys who can improve
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:41 PM
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Serious question for you- is dating a man who's has a giantess/femdom fetish an issue for you if he's otherwise accepting of your height?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:11 PM
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Looksmaxxing works for your AFC's- Average dudes who are a little chubby, maybe on the short side, and arent Mr. smooth. Your average 5/10. It doesn't work for guys who are really short, really ugly, or so socially inept that they can't approach women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:06 PM
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Not at all. I've hooked up with women who've legitimately had tits smaller than mine and I'm obviously a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:44 PM
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100%. I'm assuming it's like men and ass/tit size. I've found plenty of girls with small tits and asses hot, but if it's two identical girls, one who has a fat ass and big tits and one who is completely flat, there's an obvious answer. Women aren't gonna turn you down for having a 5 inch dick, they just aren't gonna be over the moon about it in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:38 PM
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As someone who's posted on that subreddit, just because someone gets a response/ snapchat/ number doesn't mean they end up fucking that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:30 PM
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The world isn't a just place. Bad people sometimes succeed and good people sometimes fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:20 PM
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Unless you're already fucking them, absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:19 PM
3

You said Elliot Rodger. He's a serial killer. Therefore you are referring to serial killers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:17 PM
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You can smash 100% but yeah, generally there's a reason so idk why you'd ever date a homies ex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:28 PM
2

Nah they are real. But for every one of those guys there's a 100 dudes who just don't know what they are doing around men. These are the guys who give relationship advice to their crush or other things like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:27 PM
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I posted this earlier in the thread so I'm just gonna copy it. For a woman to be stronger than a man, the man must be really weak and she has to be really strong. For example, I'm a kind of strong male gym goer with estimated maxes of 255/420/470 and I weigh 235 pounds. With those maxes I'd be right around 200 on the open powerlifting rankings for women and my lifts are not even the best in my gym among men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:55 PM
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It's a combo of taller women not liking shorter guys and also guys not wanting girls taller than them. Tall women are the biggest offenders tbh. My own mom(5'11) once told me short guys annoyed her. So I really doubt she dated anyone short before my dad, who's also 6'1. Also, for a woman to be stronger than a man, the man must be really weak and she has to be really strong. For example, I'm a kind of strong male gym goer with estimated maxes of 255/420/470 and I weigh 235 pounds. With those maxe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:44 PM
2

Why would it be used as an insult if women didn't think it was a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:40 PM
2

Incel at this point just means "guy I don't like." Girls use it on men who clearly aren't virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:37 PM
2

So basically what I'm saying is that guys don't want girls who used to be groupies, doesn't matter if they didn't get literally spit roasted
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 04:59 PM
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Being spit roasted is incorrect but I know girls who've been passed around the football team at my college. And this is D3 so I bet it's way worse when you take into account the status D1 players get
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 05:46 AM
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That's true usually with tall guys with long arms. Even those guys generally are at least lean, although they'd definitely look better bigger
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 05:23 PM
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I'd love to see what your physique looks like OP. Obviously accessories are important, and you shouldn't just hammer away at the big 3 without adding any arm work or something, but I bet you can't show me a guy with a big OHP/Bench/Squat/Deadlift who doesn't look big.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 05:22 PM
1

Trust me I got pretty lucky. One of these girls told my friend he got her pregnant, then a week later said she miscarried. Made her send me a video of her taking the plan B for good reason. To make this even funnier, both girls I hit raw were best friends, and they were my 1st and 2nd time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 01:32 PM
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As a dumbass who's gone raw with 2 girls I shouldn't have gone raw with, yes, men are dumbasses
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 12:52 PM
1

100%. I only give the attention I'm getting. If I catch myself giving too much then I pull back
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 02:16 AM
1

Mentoring is obviously rewarding. It's far more rewarding when the person who you're mentoring looks, acts, and thinks like you. Me and my dad have a great relationship in part because we are incredibly similar and both think in similar ways. He gets a huge amount of satisfaction that he is giving me and my brother better opportunities than he had, and we are using them to likely do better in life then he did. That wouldn't be possible if he was raising the kids of a ONS of my mom, because the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:16 PM
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Ever heard of the comeback "still hit though"? That's basically what this boils down to. He still got what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:12 PM
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ONS is pretty annoying a lot of the time, but a relationship is also a lot of work. IMO you want a FWB situation to secure consistent sex with minimum effort
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:31 PM
1

You're skinny though, as a dude you can be well over 200 and not be fat if you workout
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:28 PM
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Yep, I actually lost my v card to a girl in an "open relationship" in the first few weeks of college. This meant that the dude presumably was chilling in NYC while this girl hooked up with at least 5 guys including myself, and that's just the ones I know about. Plus a threesome. Not sure if I even want a relationship but for now I'm just trying to secure consistent sex and it's worked pretty well for me. No point in locking anyone down at this point
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 03:52 PM
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Like the degree to which girls will avoid commitment and fuck every solid looking dude around. Not complaining personally, but I know I have a few friends looking for an actual relationship and it looks like it's just about impossible right now. It's more common to find a girl who wants to fuck and never talk again than one who wants to stick around
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 03:25 PM
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Yup as a member of gen Z in college it's actually insane. Benefits me but is gonna screw over a lot of guys who can't get casual sex
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 02:42 PM
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Yup, MJ lost a golf game and banged on someone's door at 6am till they agreed to rematch him. Plus, he acted like Barkley's friend just to win a series. Dudes a psycho and it's no wonder he's had some trouble post basketball
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:44 PM
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Michael Jordan is one of the biggest assholes in the history of the NBA. You can be famous as hell but if everyone thinks you're a douche then you're fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:41 PM
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Nah, we like girls who have casual sex but we don't necessarily think they'd be good partners. For example, I had my first time with this girl who's friend unironically said that she'd have sex with a dealer for coke. I had a good time with her, but no way in hell I'd ever date her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:58 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily consider myself looksmaxxed l because I'm around 18-20% at 6'3 235, but I will say that the difference in attention from girls in comparison to when I was like 5'11 and 145 is amazing. Girls always mention how big I am in comparison to them which they seem to enjoy. I did also get a better haircut and dress better as well. 100% worth it, and I bet if I cut down to 190-200 and lowered my body fat I'd get even better results
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:44 PM
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Gym for one. Make sure you have the ideal shoulder to waist ratio and 10% body fat. Try to go on accutane, get tooth implants, veneers, or braces, nose job, jaw implants. Anything to reduce those weaknesses
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:40 PM
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Personally as soon as I see a girl give another dude the time of day, I'm withdrawing my attention and moving on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:39 PM
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Pretty simple. An attractive dude gets horny, doesn't have any better options, and bites the bullet and fucks an ugly/fat girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:37 PM
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Still gotta be at least skinny. Trust me, I play football and I know a dude who's "6'1" and like 270 and is currently a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:41 AM
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It's definitely genetic, my dad stutters, and I have a brother who doesn't stutter too. Think it's just luck of the draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 01:56 PM
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Being a man with a stutter is 100% harder. Mine isn't super prominent so I can pass for fluent sometimes but I definitely got made fun of for it as a kid and it's one of my biggest insecurities. That being said as a tall, at least average looking guy who works out it hasn't affected my life too much, in part because of those mitigating factors that a male version of you would also have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:32 AM
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I'm about 18-20% right now sitting at 6'3 235 so I definitely am gonna cut eventually. It's gonna have to wait until I'm done playing football because I'm a lineman at a D3 school so I actually need to put on like 30 pounds in order to play. But I'll get there eventually
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 01:32 AM
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I'll definitely check out the money advice. When you say built do you mean working out wise? If so I kinda already have that handled, I've been in the 1000 pound club for a bit. Just need to lose weight once I'm done with football.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 12:40 AM
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Yup I'm 18 right now but I still remember when I was 16 and visited my brothers college and his friends sister was all over me the whole night. Found out later that she wanted to hook up and I just thought she was being nice.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 06:09 PM
1

Exactly. I've become better at closing recently but I used to blow all sorts of chances.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 02:50 AM
0

It's the same as women saying "kill all men" or "all men are trash"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:47 AM
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I'd like to add that if you're tall and muscular pussy is basically handed to you. Anyone is doing themselves a disservice by not working out but especially tall guys
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 02:00 AM
1

I've realized this pretty recently. Some girls just wanna get fucked and call it a day.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 04:17 PM
1

You aren't necessarily wrong, but for a guy whose still working on IRL game OLD can be a way to establish abundance and get the first couple hookups out of the way. Things get a lot easier after that. Also- attractive dudes with no game can kill it on OLD
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 04:13 PM
1

Also, close women friends can hook you up with their friends. That's worked for me for like half of my hookups.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 04:11 PM
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Being dark triad without being tall/hot is just being a douche, glad it worked out for you though
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 04:07 PM
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Sounds good to me my man. All I know is that if I ever knock a girl up I want abortion to be an option that's easy and simple.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 01:30 AM
1

All good points, I went pretty fast to begin with. I'm definitely planning on eating pussy first next time I see this girl, didn't think that far ahead the first time though.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 06:24 PM
2

Huge difference. For me a drunk ONS that no one finds out about I'd be ok with a 4. For a sober one a 5-6. For a FWB I'd want a 6 and for a relationship probably a 6-7 that I also enjoy interacting with outside of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 05:38 PM
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Great post. Remember the 48 laws of power- Think as you like but behave like others
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 04:48 PM
2

Definitely depends on the girl. I know one who's never used a condom and has hooked up with plenty of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 01:43 PM
1

If she's not willing to have sex she isn't actually interested. Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:17 PM
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That's what red pill guys do. No skin off our backs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:47 PM
3

Yes. Either you don't do hookups, in which case waiting makes sense, or you do, in which case you're fucking over the nicer guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:47 PM
1

Yeah you're right
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:11 PM
1

They're jealous. That simple.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:15 PM
1

Right now I'm 18 and 6'3 235 at like 18-20% which is a little overweight but I need to be that big to play football. When I started I was 15 and around 6'0 150 and no one noticed changes until I got to around 180, when basically everyone commented on it. Took around a year of lifting. To get to the point where no one called me skinny I had to be around 210 which took about 2 years. I went to a really small high school so there was a big difference in treatment from guys as I got bigger but not m…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:13 PM
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Skinny guys get laid too as long as they have game and are tall for sure. Depends on the school too. I have a roommate who gets laid despite being 6'1 145 because he has solid game and we go to a small liberal arts school where most guys aren't jacked
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 06:42 PM
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I started working out as a 15 year old, skinny as a rail with terrible form in my school gym. One thing I noticed is that the biggest dudes were actually the nicest. I didn't go to the biggest high school but the guys who were captains of the football or lacrosse team were more than happy to see a new face in the gym. Were there a few assholes? Sure, but that's true anywhere. The vast majority are just there to improve themselves
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 05:09 PM
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No shit. 1984 isn't either but that was way more entertaining
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 04:07 PM
12

Shit no disrespect but Imo nothing happened in the road. They wandered for 300 pages or whatever then the book ended
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 01:48 AM
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TRP is a sexual strategy first and foremost so yeah people are trying to get laid. You're thinking of MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 06:36 AM
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No question. However, you did say it's "Almost impossible to succeed without good genetics." To be perfectly honest, I do have a couple things working in my favor, namely my height(6'2) and slightly above average frame size (7.75 inch wrists), but I think it's defeatist to say that unless you have great genetics you're doomed to be small. Just means that you may not be a competitive powerlifter. Also yes, steroids certainly work, but you gotta know what you're doing. There was a guy on the stero…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:10 AM
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Not true at all. Anyone can have a muscular body. There's a difference between the max someone can achieve (frame size, height, responsiveness to training) saying that it's impossible to achieve a good physique without good genetics just isn't true. I say this as someone with pretty wide hips and narrow shoulders which should affect my physique, but I've still become fairly strong and muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 12:56 AM
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For casual sex morals don't matter though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:13 PM
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Because the end goal of life is to pass on your genetic material. The fact that your life partner would want to pass on someone else's genes and not yours is a guys worst fear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:06 PM
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Yes. I barely was even in a relationship but the simple fact that someone of the opposite sex genuinely thought I was worth their time and energy meant the world to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:04 PM
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We aren't. What surprises us is first, how much looks matter, and how the accepted wisdom of be a nice, genuine guy doesn't work as well as being a jackass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:03 PM
1

I have one. She admitted to having a crush on me in the past but I never realized or wanted to act on it. She has given me relationship advice and stuff and actually encouraged me to date one of her friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:01 PM
1

If you carry all the weight in your gut then that's a sign that you're fat, although it does depend how tall you are, No disrespect intended. Are you muscular at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:31 PM
1

How tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:30 PM
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I'm also 6'2 235 and I have a completely flat stomach so I'm curious if you really hold your weight that well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:32 PM
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You can definitely look ok, but for reference my brother was a college football player and at his peak at 6'5 280 he had a ton of extra fat and was way worse looking than when he was skinny. That's someone who was overweight and worked out a ton as well. How much do you weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:31 PM
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I've literally never met anyone who's naturally ripped and strong and never works out. Closest I've seen is a guy who was like 6'1 180 and ripped but he was a great athlete and trained a ton
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:28 PM
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Very fair. IMO life just isn't fair. I'm tall but I'd never get mad at someone who didn't find my face attractive or liked fat guys or something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 03:58 PM
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I can't say if it does until I see your face sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:49 AM
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Can you post a picture? If you're ugly than your weight doesn't matter much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:49 PM
1

Not necessarily regular. Just that the NFL player might be really horny and doesn't care as long as the girl is somewhat cute. Could be one time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:48 PM
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You'd be surprised what people disagree with. For example a lot of girls have told me that they like skinny guys or are scared by muscular dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:39 PM
1

No arguments here man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:36 PM
1

Not all women. Just hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:50 PM
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Done cardio and resistance training, currently quitting porn(day 16). Gained a ton of weight resulting in looking much more muscular and older. Been a part of a singing group at school, practiced to be better at the three sports I played, all varsity level. Gotten taller although I had nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:48 PM
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I wouldn't want to date a girl who was an IG model either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:45 AM
1

Other than dressing up like 95% of men do all of the things you listed. And even people who don't dress up will do so for dates or special occasions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 11:47 PM
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Depends what you mean by grooming. Mind giving me some examples of what you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:41 PM
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Do you really think that there are a majority of guys who don't shower or maintain acceptable hygiene? I've known like 2 guys like that in my whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:31 PM
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Sure. But it's definitely connected
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:41 PM
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Yeah I'd be interested too. Maybe I'm just cynical, but most of the time people don't change. There are exceptions, but pretty rare
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:30 PM
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Agreed. For me TRP is all about not being blinded by loneliness/hornyness and seeing women for what they actually are, red flags and all. For example, if I'm talking to a girl who loves to party and cheated on her past bf, I should expect to be cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:15 PM
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Yeah honestly I'm a pretty inexperienced guy so I could not imagine never being in an LTR. The way I see it, it's my job to try to be that top 10% or whatever so that a woman would have no reason to leave, and if they did, I'd have options
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:06 PM
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I guess that is the point. You can still work stuff out though in a LTR. It's just not legally obligated. And it's not assuming that every relationship will fail, but that it's very likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:57 PM
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Maybe it shouldn't be, but it's better than being lonely. And yes TRP does. IMO though as long as you know that your relationship will probably fail sometime in the future and AWALT, you'll be fine. The main issue is really marriage cause you can't end marriage easily
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:52 PM
1

That's incredibly obvious. If you have a high sex drive you're gonna want to satisfy it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:29 PM
1

In my experience, if I feel unfulfilled because I don't have a woman in my life, I feel better once I do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:27 PM
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Agreed man, I want kids at least as tall as me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:50 PM
1

Do you end every comment with bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:20 AM
1

Mind sending me a link? I'll delete this then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:16 AM
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Isn't that kinda the point? The really attractive or confident guys never need to find TRP, and the attractive girls never need to use FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:11 AM
1

Hot criminals yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 05:25 AM
1

What does a masculine fat distribution look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:28 AM
1

How common is this in your experience? I've met like 3 people like that in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:26 AM
1

Only thing that's similar is tall girls seeing a dude who's like 6'6 with a super short girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:15 PM
1

Never seen that but that's hilariously accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:27 AM
1

Seriously. Even as a YA, if I ask a BP person how to get laid they just say "I don't care if people get laid, it's not important to me." Which immediately makes me go to trp cause at least there's a solution there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:24 AM
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Nah it was this past summer when I studied abroad. Just included that example to give you an idea of what she looked like. Obviously at 20 the girl I met looks a bit younger
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:14 AM
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Yep that's the one. Also she was like 5'8 which I like cause I'm pretty tall myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:11 AM
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You can tell who has Asperger's by how they act but not how they look
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:09 AM
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Looked a lot like Elizabeth Lail if that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:07 AM
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Nah a girl who calls herself "intimidating" is usually annoying, not fun to be around, and not easy to talk to. It's not like Omg she's so intelligent I wouldn't have a shot. Maybe if she's like a 10/10 I won't bother but that's not being intimidated, that's being realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:16 PM
1

That's not toned, it's skinnyfat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:08 AM
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Never. Usually "intimidating" is used to describe a woman who's aloof and off putting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:45 AM
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You're right. My main problem is it's completely a confidence thing. I'm tall, pretty average looking, muscular, three sport athlete and smart. Theoretically I shouldn't have any problems with life. If I was short or something I'd have something to blame unhappiness on. But for now there's nothing to point to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 06:21 PM
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I mean I have friends, I've been traveling, I do plenty of thinking. I've even had a girlfriend. Just no sex. And quite honestly I can't think of anything that gives me the sense of fulfillment that a girlfriend does except maybe right after a win in an important sports game. I've been told I'll clean up at college though so maybe I'm worrying for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:51 PM
1

Mind enlightening me on what exactly is worth more in life? Just by the way, I'm technically still in high school so dating older people would be super weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:44 PM
2

Yeah but I don't want to try to hook up with or date older women so that doesn't really help me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:18 PM
1

Oh I'm not talking long term mates, I'm talking hookups. That's generally what TRP concerns itself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:33 AM
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As far as I know there's no scientific evidence proving it either way so all I have is ancedotes and observations. Maybe I'm totally wrong who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:23 AM
2

I've had girls straight up tell me that girls don't like nice guys. These girls are young so they don't lie yet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:17 AM
1

Yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 05:05 AM
3

Alright it's become clear there's no arguing with you. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:38 PM
3

Denser bones sure but trust me a 5'2 110 man is weak as fuck. And in both cases I'm much stronger than the person attacking me. The degree of that doesn't matter. Why is one ok and one makes me a psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:15 PM
2

That seems like it's punishing strong men then. Because if an NFL player does anything to someone it's gonna cause a lot of damage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:59 PM
6

Wait hold up. So that means anyone tall and big just needs to sit there and take abuse? Fuck that. If you don't want trouble, don't pick a fight with someone you know could beat you up. It's like how no one attacks the US cause they know what would happen if they did
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:55 PM
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Here's the problem though. A woman can verbally and physically abuse a man, but the instant he does anything he's liable to getting arrested. Even if he does nothing, if the woman calls the police the guy gets arrested. On top of that, if a woman gets punched by a man in public, men jump in to beat the shit out of the man and defend the woman. Flip it around and obviously that doesn't happen. And yes, women are weaker, but as a 6'2 220 guy who works out no one would say I shouldn't hit a 5'5 125…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:53 PM
2

Gotcha. He's a legit big guy. I'm not too small myself and I bet he'd make me look tiny. He's an exception though. Congrats on landing him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:27 PM
1

Wait hold up your boyfriend benches 500? That's insane. For reference the world record is just under 740. Guess he isn't fat then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:22 PM
1

Just ended my first relationship because it was like this. She was great but complete waste of my time. Basically friendzoning with extra problems because of the small amount of intimacy you get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:02 PM
3

Does your boyfriend lift weights? I ask because my brother is 6'5 and 270 and played college football and was definitely chubby so him minus 5 inches would be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:42 PM
1

Yeah I would for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:43 PM
2

How should I do that?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:38 AM
1

You're one hundred percent right. That's what I'm doing right now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:50 PM
2

It's really unlikely you'd injure your growth plates lifting. I'm 17 and I have a huge leg up on everyone because i started at 15. Being already 6-2 220 at 17% body fat when everyone else is skinny is a big advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:50 PM
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I'm not necessarily attracted to chubby women I'm saying that some chubby women have good bodies and nearly zero chubby men have good bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:16 AM
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That's definitely true for some of them. However there are plenty of chubby women with nice bodies who don't run into that problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:06 AM
1

In my experience the women who approach me are worse looking than I am. And yes I know how much approaching sucks. The average looking guy has pretty similar problems to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:07 PM
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Yeah why wouldn't I be? I also know what I takes to build a body that gets any recognition from women at all as I've done that. It takes a ton of work. For women it seems like it's mostly genetics and fat distribution which you can't really change. For men it's more muscle which is harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:34 AM
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She was fat/unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:10 AM
0

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:05 AM
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But it's not harassment. It's only harassment if they don't take no for an answer, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:05 AM
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How are men expected to get a girlfriend if they can't approach women with romantic intentions? It's not like women ever make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:04 AM
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He's right though. There are plenty of women I know who go and run for 20 minutes and have great bodies and men I know who work out pretty frequently and have mediocre bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 04:29 AM
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Damn really? I've known one who was a Korean exchange student but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:37 AM
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How many guys do you think there are that don't shower? Seems like this mythic unhygienic man gets trotted out every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:23 PM
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Well yeah you need to both be attractive and have an attractive personality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:15 PM
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You'd be surprised. There are a suprising amount of guys in great shape who are terrible with women. There was even a guy on TRP who said he was a D1 athlete and 6-3 and couldn't get hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:10 PM
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I'd say he looks like he's around 10-12 BF but 185 would seem right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:50 PM
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https://reddit.app.link/Hx0sraxtF1 This guy is probably a bit leaner and smaller than i said but he's still a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:30 PM
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How tall are you? If 5-10 to 6-2 aim for 190 to 210 and 12 percent body fat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:58 PM
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You're right, I misspoke. I meant to say that they are in it for ONS's with some girls who are looking for that, but also lying to other girls who are looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 02:19 AM
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I was one of the guys who posted pictures of himself. And I believe my looks aren't the problem. The problem isn't misogyny either though. My female friends who I'm not attracted to tell me I have a great personality. Guys I know essentially lie to women who are looking for a relationship and hook up with them and ghost them after and do well with women. I don't know what the problem is but it's not misogyny Edited for accuracy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:27 PM
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But they want women. So they will compete to earn women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:19 PM
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Very true. I'm 6-2 and my 5-11 mom told me that short men disgust her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 01:29 AM
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So basically would I date a an average looking shy athletic girl? I probably would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:07 AM
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6 and a half inch but yeah close enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:03 PM
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You know he's allowed to have preferences right? He doesn't like fat chicks so he shouldn't have to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:06 PM
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I have terrible self esteem and constantly try to improve myself to escape feelings of inadequacy. I am afraid of asking girls out/ trying to get hookups. Those two aspects of my life essentially kill the chance of dating a girl who doesn't make the first move and the first one is very detrimental to forming relationships and being happy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:49 AM
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Nah but why would you date an ugly dude with a great personality when you can date a hot dude with a great personality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:31 PM
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Depends how attractive I was as a woman. As a man I definitely have some things to offer. I'm 6-2, an athlete, muscular, and average looking facially. So if I was an average looking girl probably. That being said if I was a hot girl probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:31 PM
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People don't like it because women want the so called "natural." By that I mean a guy who just gets how to be flirty and confident and pick up women. They don't want a guy who needs to go through scripts or change their personality to pick up chicks because it isn't as authentic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:40 PM
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Being a bitch to low value men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:48 PM
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Sure, but generally speaking people want someone they are attracted to. Therefore looks matter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 01:51 PM
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Ok sure but I know plenty of nice guys who do terribly with women. And yes, I'm talking genuinely nice guys. And how is looks not mattering an opinion? That seems like pretty basic knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 03:41 AM
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Nope. TRP says that women can get laid anytime they want, but when they try to get the guys they sleep with to commit, they are unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 01:58 AM
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Well conventional wisdom is that looks don't matter and women like nice guys who treat them with respect. That can lead to not taking care of yourself and submitting to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 01:52 AM
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For sure women get thirsty. I remember my freshman year of high school I was in the musical. For one of the roles they brought in this senior soccer player who was ripped and super good looking. Literally every girl was fawning over him, even the girls who I never thought would be like that who were 4 years younger too. Female thirst is real, you just need to be top 5-10% to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 01:45 AM
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The music video to that is basically every red pillers dream
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 09:53 PM
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That might be true. But how can a sexually inexperienced guy know that until he's gotten to the other side? Nothing you can say will change that until he experiences it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:50 PM
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Stop being yourself. Being yourself is being a low value man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 05:37 PM
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Generally guys who are able to attract above average women with little to no effort are good looking. Not saying every time but it would be inaccurate to say that most Chad's are ugly. Personally, every Chad I've known was good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 05:18 PM
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Chad level success is when someone has to put in little to zero effort to attract above average women and have sex with them. Chad doesn't need to be smart, just good looking, masculine and confident
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:16 PM
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People who are attracted to me are generally less attractive than me, I'm usually attracted to people who are better looking than me. Plus I'm not the most confident guy around girls who I'm into which compounds the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:55 AM
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Oh they are interested in conversation. They just aren't attracted to me as far as I know. The people who are attracted to me generally I'm not attracted to, with a few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:32 AM
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I want to sleep with people who I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:24 AM
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I'm not saying that someone who's already athletic needs to get that 500 pound deadlift to finally get women. I'm saying the average skinny dude probably should. I also am not encouraging roid use. It may be common advice on Reddit but it's pretty uncommon in real life. And lifting is often glossed over when people say that only shallow people care about muscles and looks don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:12 AM
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For sure. Why not do both though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:04 AM
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Maybe I should have added that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:03 AM
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Hey I think I recognize you from a different thread. I know it's obvious but some people don't seem to realize it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:02 AM
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I've read that thread and I see what your point is. However the muscular nerd definitely would be more attractive than the same dude but fat or skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:01 AM
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Even then the men I've seen do this generally at least acknowledge how much of a dick move that is. Women think that it's completely fine. And shit, my friend isn't even terrible looking. He's tall, pretty fit, and a good dude. But nah just because he's not super good looking it's all good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 02:41 AM
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For sure man. I had a buddy who went abroad with a bunch of girls and they convinced him to go up to a girls hotel room from the trip saying that she was into him. They literally did that just to laugh at a below average dude thinking he'd have a chance with a girl. I'm lucky I'm average or else I might have had that experience when I went abroad too. It's terrible and the worst part is when they told me they thought it was the funniest thing in the world. No remorse at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 02:35 AM
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Right now girls around my level or a bit lower are into me so I definitely could use some work in those 3 areas you mentioned. I'm also 6'2 which I hope helps. Really just need to keep improving myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:54 PM
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I think I follow rules 1 or at least rule 2 so I'll probably be fine, but you never know. Hope that doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:58 PM
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That means that the Bluepill means never improve yourself, there's someone out there for you as you are, be a nice guy they win in the end, don't approach women because that's creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:53 PM
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It's pretty terrible advice let's be real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:51 PM
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That's what I'm saying man. "myself" was a skinnyfat dude who was afraid to talk to women. Being "myself" my whole life would straight up guarantee no success in dating. So why not go to the gym and start talking to women. Just because it's not "myself" doesn't mean it's not something I want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:51 PM
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Nah honestly it wouldn't feel unsustainable. All the changes I've made so far have definitely made my life better. But I sort of see the point you're trying to make. Not sure I agree with it though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:45 PM
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Alright but what if I'm perfectly happy with my life except for the fact that I don't have a partner. Wouldn't it make me feel proud to have a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:03 PM
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Ok but what does being true to yourself mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:43 PM
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What is your true self though? Would you say that I'm not true to myself by working out? That being muscular isn't "being myself?" On top of that, if I'm a socially anxious guy, is being social not being true to myself? Should I just hide in my room? Or what if I'm afraid of asking women out? Should I just never talk to women because being afraid is really who I am? I could go on and on with examples but do you see how sily that is? Humans are way more malleable than people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:00 PM
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No idea what your personal views are but that seems like terrible advice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:24 PM
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I've already made pretty solid gains so I have that working for me. Also I assume dosh is money? Never heard that before
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:55 PM
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I appreciate the detailed response man. So essentially this boils down to be secure in who you are. That's something I have to work on. In many ways I am the redpiller you mentioned, a boy who hasn't figured out who he is yet. And absolutely, I think that being able to be emotionally intimate helps with getting a relationship. In my experience that doesn't really apply to the women I want to sleep with. Anyways I'm still figuring stuff out so I really do appreciate this long reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:25 PM
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So essentially you're saying that men who are introverted should just resign themselves to being alone forever? So you also agree with this statement: "Extroverted women who like to party need to realize that men don't like sluts and need to be ok with that?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 11:16 PM
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It's better than being a jacked dude who is ugly. Get those lifts up and you'll be pulling
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:14 AM
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Are you losing weight? If not either pick losing weight or gaining weight and commit to one. Maintaining is a waste of time
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:09 AM
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Lift. If you're fat lose weight, if you're skinny gain weight. Don't read too much TRP shit either, it'll make you bitter unless you approach women.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:07 AM
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There are growth charts that you can look at to see how tall a kid will be as an adult. Mine has consistently been accurate, and I'll probably settle in at 6-3 and a little bit which is what my doctors have told me my whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:58 AM
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Stacies are generally nice people. However, many of them know exactly how good looking they are and use that super flirty which can get annoying. I'm not quite attractive enough for stacies so I can't comment on how they are in a sexual or relationship context.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:45 AM
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Manute bol swimming. He was a 7'7 200 basketball player with an 8'6 wingspan
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:29 PM
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You'll like this then https://i.pinimg.com/originals/c2/33/1e/c2331e3d677f0d6eae4f8b91a1d8f899.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:49 AM
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I think you are right about the height and weight, but a lean 6'3 220 is pretty damn muscular. Wouldn't say it's thin. I have a brother who's like 6'5 270 and from what I gather your experience isn't just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:46 AM
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Fair enough. Disregarding that guy I've never met a dude over 6-5 who's been bad with girls. Maybe that's just sample size
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:03 AM
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I mean not great looking but around his level
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:46 PM
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As a man you don't need to workout or do physical labor to be stronger than women. On top of that if you do work out it's basically guaranteed that you are stronger than every woman you see on a day to day basis. I'm not a super strong dude. My maxes are around 225/365/405 optimistically and I'm 6'2 205. I'm 17 and I've been working out for around 2 years. I also work out in a pretty serious gym where people squatting 4-5 plates isn't uncommon. I've never seen a woman stronger than me in person.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:25 PM
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I'm sure it's come a long way, and I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with dnd, but as far as I know he was kind of an awkward nerd. That wasn't the only thing though. He was also 6'7 and insanely skinny, maybe 170, long unkempt hair, and overall not what you'd think of if you thought of an attractive man. Despite all that he had a threesome with his girlfriend and a friend so he did fine with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:51 PM
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Well with strength it's not about being strong, it's about looking strong. Generally speaking when you are leaner you look more muscular. Also IMO I haven't seen much depreciating returns as far as height goes. The few 6'5+ guys I know all do well with women, even one who is a typical dungeons and dragons nerd- which you would expect to hurt him with women. Maybe the guys I know are just lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:36 PM
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Exactly. They crave more food so they eat more. Leading to a terrible diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 10:40 PM
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They don't talk to women. Some are even afraid of talking to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 02:14 PM
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Agreed man. I personally lift but I had a buddy who refused to lift when someone offered him a free pizza to go. Most people are lazy and ashamed of how weak they are, like my friend was. And that's in high school so I don't know how bad it gets when everyone has jobs and families.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 04:21 AM
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I have to disagree on going to the gym being detrimental. As long as you don't go overboard in gaining weight it's almost impossible to become worse looking by going to the gym. Even then, you just need to lose a little weight and you'll have improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:09 AM
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True, it does work at luring a bunch of guys. The issue is really that insecure guys will talk themselves out of thinking a girl is into them. I'm guilty of this a bunch. I'll see a girl hang out with me all night, laugh at my jokes, insist on adding me on social media, make a ton of eye contact with me and say she was glad she met me and be like "she's just being nice." That's essentially why average to good looking dudes aren't as successful with women as they want and why super confident dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:56 AM
1

Hey question for you. How is cheating on your SO and lying about breaking up with your SO to the person you are cheating on your SO with not morally bankrupt. Seriously I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:43 AM
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I think I'm good because I lift 3 days a week and don't max out very often. Plus I'm 17 so I can recover a lot quicker than a 50 year old. I appreciate the article and I'll keep it in mind when I get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 09:06 PM
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Mind sourcing that? I'm actually currently lifting weights at the gym so that would be pretty important for me to know. And yes, obviously PEDs are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:51 PM
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Yes, but I'm saying that it's pretty unlikely to have non fat non athletes so it's not really a fair comparison. A better one would be marathon runner who overtrains vs fat non athlete who eats the same and ends up fat because of lack of activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:44 PM
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That last paragraph is definitely all accurate. Only issue is most non-athletes end up being fat and so they end up with arthritis anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:42 PM
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That says nothing about weightlifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:34 PM
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Do you have a source for saying that being able to run a marathon or lift 500 pounds lowers your lifespan? How could that possibly be true. I'd understand if you said being a world strongest man isn't good for your health but deadlifting 500 pounds? That's something that isn't that uncommon in many gyms and requires no PEDs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:22 PM
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A lot of them are. Think of guys like Bill Cosby, or Darron Sharper. Two very successful guys who probably didn't even "need" to rape and could have easily had sex with many people. But they chose to rape instead. Your average incel isn't social enough to have the opportunity to rape someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:15 AM
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Because it doesn't solve anything and women don't actually want to hear it. If guys talking about thier feelings and insecurities made women want to fuck them every dude in the world would be talking about their feelings all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 01:42 PM
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Well essentially what you need to do is lose around a pound a week. You could do a half pound if you are super concerned about loose skin but you should be fine at a pound a week. I'd recommend weighing yourself once a day and inputting what you weigh into either Libra if you have an Android or happy scale if you have an iPhone. I'd also recommend doing some sort of weight training. Programs I've used are GZCLP, Lvysaurs 448 and 5/3/1 for beginners. If you haven't done weight training before do …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:52 AM
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Haha yeah I try to not be a dick when I argue here. I'm on the red side but not as much as a lot of people here. I'm also young so I'm still figuring stuff out Anyways r/loseit is a great resource for you. Also r/weightroom is great. How often are you looking to go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:45 AM
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Yeah that's a fair assumption. If you need any help finding a program or something just let me know, I'd be glad to help
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:40 AM
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Absolutely, there's no true Chad. I think it's more an idea of a guy who gets all the women he wants naturally without putting effort in. I think most guys know at least 1 or two people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:36 AM
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Alright more power to you then. Are you saving yourself for marriage or just for a committed relationship? I'd recommend working out if you don't already and if being 250 bothers you at all but clearly you're doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:33 AM
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Hey so question here, are you talking women who are attracted to you and want to fuck you or women who just want to be friends. Because there is a big difference there. I know that I used to be like 5-7 and skinnyfat and basically no women thought I was attractive, but some still talked to me. Whereas now I'm 6-2 205 and athletic and some women think I'm attractive in a want to fuck me way, and even more women talk to me. Because I think when incels talk about not being able to get women, they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:27 AM
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Yeah that's actually the huge difference between men and women. Obviously things like bone structure play a role too but the fact is women can't go below 13-15% body fat and still have periods. Men can go to 4-5%. And again, it's super rare to see a women of my size at 6-2 200 @ 15% body fat, because that would be basically their genetic potential. Add in that women are usually 6 inches shorter than men and it's basically a wrap. Not to mention that my size isn't even that huge for men. I honest…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 08:06 PM
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That's not entirely true. I go to a pretty serious gym and guys benching 315+ and squatting and deadlifting 495+ isn't uncommon to see. The strongest women I've ever seen there was doing 260 pound deadlifts for 5 or so reps. She looked like she had been training for a while and was in her late 20's or early thirties. I'm 17 and I do deadlifts with 335 for 6 reps with 2 years of experience. So yeah they can be stronger than the average fat guy who struggles walking up stairs but the strength diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 07:53 PM
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8.4 according to a pretty bad picture of me IMO. That's pretty high compared to 4chan where I got around a 6.5/7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:55 PM
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https://www.altitudelifehacks.com/blogs/altitudeshoes/the-perfect-gap-what-is-the-ideal-height-difference-in-a-relationship Women generally want a dude who's 8 inches taller than them so those 5-2 girls you mentioned would prefer guys who are 5-10ish. Additionally, the point I'm trying to make isn't that he's cursed to die alone, but that because he's short he needs to compensate for it in ways that taller people like me and my brother don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:31 PM
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Yeah I'm not sure exactly what he's tried but I assume he's not cursed to be alone forever. However, through no fault of his own he is at a huge disadvantage compared to me and my brother and that's just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:06 PM
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That's basically TRP right there. Get better so that the women you like are attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:16 AM
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It absolutely matters. I have a buddy who's 5-4 and about 150 while being ripped, facially attractive, and a super nice guy, but girls I know laugh when someone brings him up as a romantic interest. Meanwhile my brother is 6-5 270, strongfat, and maybe a little above average looks wise and has hooked up with and dated many attractive women. I'm a bit worse looking than my buddy and basically because I'm 6-2 and athletic looking more girls like me. Unfortunately for short dudes there's a gut feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:15 AM
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Yeah I guess if you can't go longer than 3 days you're probably addicted
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 04:33 PM
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I'm like 7 days in so let's do it
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 04:28 PM
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As a 5-11 150 15 year old I can pull 180x4. Probably a form issue
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 03:31 PM
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Why not do a lean bulk of like 250 calories per day. That way you gain mostly muscle
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 12:27 AM
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