Candle_Jacqueline Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the end Yeah, I've had a lot of trouble engaging in the conversation for this exact reason. A dent that huge? Really doubt a guy with a shopping cart could cause that. Makes it harder to discuss all cases of this happening, because then everyone's primed to search for inconsistencies and ways to disprove it 🤷‍♀️ Rather than, you know, the actual problem	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/21 08:13 PM
25	Always felt Electra complex had something off about it. Now it makes so much more sense. I feel many other women can benefit from knowing this anecdote. From "Why does he do that?" By Lundy Bancroft. I've always thought that the "Oedipus complex" (which is such a poor name for it, Oedipus literally stabbed his eyes out when he discovered he'd been fucking his mom) is actually from parents projecting their own preferences for a partner onto their children. Daddy likes compliant, sweet, dependent young women, so he encourages and rewards that behavior in his daughter. That special attention leads the daughter to enjoy the company of her father more than her mother. If the mother has internaliz…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 07:58 PM
104	Men 👏 Dont 👏 change 👏 EVEN FOR THEIR DREAM GIRL. FDS works ladies. Left my NVM fiancée 4 years ago and he immediately started dating the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My heart was broken then, but this is them now!! No shade at all on anyone who enjoys these things, but the "adventurous" dudes always rubbed me the wrong way. Not adventurous in the actual meaning of the term, but the sky-diving, rock-climbing, and "getting lost" types. I'm not necessarily averse to these activities, but isn't it a bit odd in the context of OLD? I'm not jumping out of a plane with some guy I barely know to prove that I'm "exciting and spontaneous." First date, I don't want to be rock-climbing in a gym somewhere. Even after th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 07:32 PM
83	Walk away! Men spent all of history making art, writing poetry, and devoting themselves to creation and enlightenment and philosophy and complex theological thought and math and science and engineering and medicine and agriculture and navigation and psychology and anthropology and music and linguistics and history and suddenly, SUDDENLY, your average man is a braindead caveman who can't communicate basic concepts, figure out common sense problems, or execute simple tasks like laundry, cooking, or basic hum…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 06:06 PM
9	Another old man was being a creep and taking pictures of an 19 year old, guess who the internet blames. (Also love how Karen has gone from a term for racist customers, to a swear word for women who stand up for themselves) I think "Karen" needs to be discussed and analyzed more. Its the not the first term of its kind to go from a DESCRIPTIVE terms for a very specific kind of situation, to a PRESCRIPTIVE term to police behavior. From my experience, it had its origins in that image macro of the lady with that one haircut. It was more associated with upper middle class, somewhat neurotic and controlling white women. It originally had little to do with racism at all; it was more focused on customer service and entitle…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 08:00 PM
44	No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER. Nothing makes me not-cum faster than "cum NOW!" 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 11:11 PM
31	Men are oblivious to how they ruin their families with their porn-soaked sexual greed. Dude asked why his wife appliance broke. Saw this gem in the comments. He spent hours on Tinder, but he had no time for helping his kids with their homework and now he wants he wants HER to "act like an adult". I wanted to participate in that thread so bad but I knew I'd get too angry. His defense was "it was JUST talking and there was NO physical contact and its closed now so mind your business!!!" Why was an open relationship even something you were concerned about or discussing, not only in the middle of a pandemic, but during a time when your kids need you, you work long hours with a long commute, and your wife has been diagnosed with anxiety and depression? I don't care that it was never fucking c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 08:29 PM
133	A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation. Its a false premise. In any culture wherein FGM would be practiced, accepted, or encouraged, there is no way for women to "choose" anything. When a culture excuses or encourages violence towards anyone, they don't actually have autonomy or freedom; they are simply choosing the option that reduces the amount of violence they will be subjected to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 11:22 PM
6	Literally the “sex posi” movement in a nutshell This is absolutely the unfortunate truth, and I admit that as a person who was sexually abused and am now into BDSM. I got molested at six and by seven I was like...having my Barbie dolls tie each other up and by ten, I was fantasizing about being kidnapped and raped by villains from movies. And my abuse wasn't violent per se, and it was one occurance. But it irreparably changed the way my developing mind viewed sexuality.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 02:55 PM
85	Imagine finding out this is what your husband thinks of you It must be so exhausting for them to be so dictated by women. Seriously, they are in a constant state of shift between hyper-fixation and complete detachment from women. They really can't develop healthy relationships with anything.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 07:27 PM
46	Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man out Doesn't help that every two minutes there's a "Men of Reddit, what weird thing do you like in women/wish women would do more/perform as your perfect bangmaid more?" thread, with the top answers always being "aSk Us OuT mOrE. rejection scwary :((((((" Reading those things completely sabotaged my attempts at dating from 18 to 21. I thought I was really being smart, gathering intel, lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 07:24 PM
4	Male med student wants to be able to examine female patients against their will. LVM are everywhere. A simple solution would be to let anyone deny any doctor for any reason. Why shouldn't the patient have that decision? Doctors won't have to cater to racist patients, traumatized individuals don't have to relive their trauma, and sexist, invalidating, overbearing twats like this will get rejected left and right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 07:39 PM
10	Is the myth that “men who are attractive will women badly”,spread by unattractive men who are just trying to manipulate attractive women into giving them a shot? Its because attractive men actually interact with women, in both romantic and platonic relationships. Unattractive men watch from the sidelines and grow bitter, and often "learn" about women solely through media. You can tell a man's particular brand of misogyny through the surrogate media he uses to mimic relationships. Men who obsess over anime get into the concept of purity and virgins, for example.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 02:43 AM
2	The danger of becoming embittered and losing trust in women Don't know if I've really got the right to talk about this (since I'm female), but here goes: Unfortunately, I know exactly what you mean by "if it's you against a female member of their clique, you're screwed." While it's certainly more extreme if you're male, if you're a new female member to a group or are simply a little different from then, they can all turn on you real fast. I don't understand the group mentality of it yet; for some reason, when certain types of women get into a social grou…	/r/MensRights	24/09/14 02:25 PM