Candor10 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach. At most I would ask for a number. Don't know if that counts as a cold approach, but otherwise it's unlikely we might cross paths again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 03:54 PM
–	Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach. Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but isn't a cold approach just trying to meet someone to see if you might be interested in asking them out? Are we saying men shouldn't even try to meet and get to know women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 03:45 PM
2	Having women as friend makes your dating life significantly easier as a man Women like who they like. It's not affected by grooming, lifestyle, confidence or demeanor. Each woman is different and there's no rhyme or reason for who they're drawn to or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:07 AM
–	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Speaking for myself, after the first "no", I'm gone. I don't ask a 2nd time let alone a 10th.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 04:46 PM
5	Having women as friend makes your dating life significantly easier as a man I don't think it makes any difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 03:36 PM
0	Women, when you ask a man to take out the trash, what is the time limit for the man to do that? If it's Thursday and trash pick up is on Friday, why does it matter if it's done within 5 hours or 10 hours?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 03:56 AM
1	Women, when you ask a man to take out the trash, what is the time limit for the man to do that? Maybe OP thinks that their city gives out medals for putting trash out earlier than pick up day? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 03:54 AM
2	The reason men get "friendzoned" more than women is often because there's a Masculinity + "Does he say / do the right things to turn me on" component to women's sexuality that eliminates her male friends from contention. male	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 05:49 PM
2	The reason men get "friendzoned" more than women is often because there's a Masculinity + "Does he say / do the right things to turn me on" component to women's sexuality that eliminates her male friends from contention. IKR? Men are such losers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 02:59 AM
0	The reason men get "friendzoned" more than women is often because there's a Masculinity + "Does he say / do the right things to turn me on" component to women's sexuality that eliminates her male friends from contention. Attractive looks + fun personality = ???? = friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 02:57 AM
1	It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.” Did I claim I claim I won't or couldn't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 02:22 AM
3	It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.” Because I like to travel and I hate having to pay double occupancy rates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 07:08 PM
6	Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women That's a woman's choice, yes. I fully agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 07:39 AM
5	You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating. Because being a bully isn't a dealbreaker?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 08:35 AM
34	Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women We're not desirable to older women either. What else is new?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 10:07 PM
–	Why specifically would you dislike the blackpill going mainstream? It's getting more popular. The end goal of blackpillers? I can only speak for myself. I think the end goal is to redirect our attention away from seeking dating and relationships towards pursuits where we have potentially better chances of finding happiness: developing and enjoying friendships, community involvement, hobbies, professional development, social causes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 09:59 PM
–	Why specifically would you dislike the blackpill going mainstream? It's getting more popular. What harm do blackpillers commit that you'd equate them with skinheads?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 09:53 PM
9	Women will never be stuck alone. Or they have standards no different than anyone else?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 07:00 PM
3	Most of women's dating issues are due to the fact that they are all chasing the same top 5% of men. Change my mind. This is why I stopped trying. I figure they'd be happier with a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 03:29 AM
2	It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcohol Bigger problem I see is if both parties are drunk, only the woman is seen as being the victim of unconsentual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 03:02 AM
0	Men and women do not live the same life 60% of men have not died in war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 01:00 AM
0	Men and women do not live the same life Historically, 40% of men have reproduced vs 80% of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 12:56 AM
1	Men and women do not live the same life A large portion of 40-54 women are perfectly fine living single and don't seek relationships with men	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 12:53 AM
4	Approaching random women is a waste of time Ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 02:46 AM
1	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? Understood, but therein lies the difference. Even limited to OLD, women generally have more options than men. You don't need to know more people socially in order to get dates/relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 04:39 PM
1	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? I think antisocial/introverted/homebody could still have an outlet via OLD. Do you think you'd still be a virgin if you only used OLD?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 04:03 PM
20	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? 56M. I returned from a 7-day cruise as a solo traveler. Woman co-worker noted that I've done a number of those over the past few years, saying I've been single too long and asking why. A back & forth ensued where I related that I haven't been successful with OLD, singles events, losing motivation, etc. and didn't want to continue letting my status hold me back from traveling. She said the most important thing I could try is to stop complaining. I said nothing further and returned to work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 03:31 PM
1	AI robotic girlfriends, absolute and best path, with almost no draw backs. All are far more expensive than an AI companion that goes for what, $10-15/month.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 06:54 PM
1	It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spell Women more than 10 years younger. I would literally date anyone outside of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 06:16 AM
2	AI robotic girlfriends, absolute and best path, with almost no draw backs. Well, in fairness, I said most of what they're looking for. The prevailing advice though is that women shouldn't have to settle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 04:31 AM
3	AI robotic girlfriends, absolute and best path, with almost no draw backs. Long term arrangements with an escort isn't like hiring a gardener and still wouldn't be close enough to a girlfriend experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 04:16 AM
3	AI robotic girlfriends, absolute and best path, with almost no draw backs. Well, they don't come with wallets, first off. Second, there's a glut of available men that would fulfill most of what women look for. If women don't want to have to waste time & energy digging through all their options though, I suppose an AI boyfriend might be appealing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 04:14 AM
0	AI robotic girlfriends, absolute and best path, with almost no draw backs. I agree with you that for some/many men, this would be a crutch that would enable them to continue horrible personal behaviors. However, there are perfectly decent people who for whatever reason can't find companionship. It may not fill the need for some, but I think for many it would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 04:07 AM
–	Men have more agency than women. If we're not the same, it makes no sense to pretend that we are. Maybe lower the age of consent for males to 16 and raise it 30 for females(?)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 02:55 AM
1	Can’t ask a fish how to catch fish. Women’s dating advice is pointless I'm not talking about some bitter incel or someone who openly says they're so desperate that they'll take any woman. I'm referring to something as simple like if a guy asks for advice on how to improve his profile verbiage or pics, or if a community college class is a good place to meet people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 10:06 PM
2	Can’t ask a fish how to catch fish. Women’s dating advice is pointless Tbh, I don't think it even has to be someone who's a regular asker. Simply asking for any advice probably conveys an air of weakness or lack of confidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 07:21 PM
2	Can’t ask a fish how to catch fish. Women’s dating advice is pointless Do women really want to date the sort of men who would be seeking advice though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 05:01 PM
–	What’s your opinion on the friend zone? If you develop feelings down the line and can't put away those feelings after a rejection, then yes you should end the friendship. Why put up a pretense? Your crush may try to shame you by saying that you're a jerk for not settling for friendship and accuse you of only wanting to get into their pants. Don't buy into that. You don't owe anyone your friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 06:03 PM
3	Would you switch genders if you could? Ah, such innocence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 03:19 AM
1	Women have male-like sexuality when they attracted to other women I'd be tempted to ask women that but I don't care to be yelled at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 02:38 AM
–	What’s your opinion on the friend zone? That's fine. By the same token, she's not entitled to his friendship if that's all she wants the relationship to be. It doesn't make him a jerk if he wanted only a romantic relationship or nothing at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 10:59 PM
–	What’s your opinion on the friend zone? Don't allow yourself to be in the friend zone. If someone wants to put you there, end the friendship. Sure, no one owes you romantic feelings, but by the same token, you don't owe anyone your friendship. The person might call you a jerk for only wanting a romantic connection and not settling for friendship. Don't fall for the guilt trip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 10:53 PM
1	Men don't understand that not only women compare them with each other, but they also have fixed standards. Well yeah, if one girl turns you down, you try asking another one out, lather, rinse, repeat. Are your daughter's classmates supposed to take a vow of celibacy if they get rejected?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 10:48 PM
–	Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improve No, even that's no assurance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 04:47 AM
–	Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improve Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be alone no matter what.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 04:23 AM
2	Why do toxic guys always seem to have girlfriends, but normal guys struggle? If there are, I'm not finding them or they're not looking for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 03:51 PM
2	Why do toxic guys always seem to have girlfriends, but normal guys struggle? Since you asked, greater Los Angeles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 03:24 AM
1	Women generally have it harder than men. TIL at least half of all men are murderous sociopaths. Tks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 07:25 AM
4	Genuinely, if a good portion of women fear and dislike men as a whole, why should men interact with women? Some perhaps. Most understand women aren't into us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 01:16 AM
0	Genuinely, if a good portion of women fear and dislike men as a whole, why should men interact with women? That you live in constant fear every moment of every day?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 10:17 PM
1	The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argument Well if you say so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 03:37 PM
1	The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argument You're right. A man should have full rights to renounce any & all responsibility for a pregnancy as well as the ability to reinstate those rights at any point thereafter if he changes his mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 07:52 PM
1	The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argument Sure... Davis v. Davis (1992) Mary Sue and Junior Davis created seven embryos via IVF during their marriage. When they divorced in 1989, they could not agree on what to do with them. Mary Sue wanted to use the embryos herself to become pregnant. Junior successfully sued to prevent this, arguing he should not be forced into "unwanted parenthood". Torres v. Terrell (2020) Ruby Torres, a cancer survivor, wanted to use embryos created with her ex-husband, John Joseph Terrell. The Arizona Supreme Cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 06:36 PM
3	The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argument Parentage is assumed at conception for the woman too. She only has the additional reproduction right of abortion because gestation takes place in her body and not the man's. There are cases where an embryo is outside the woman's womb, and at that stage both the man and woman have equal rights as to whether it will or will not be gestated until delivery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 07:51 PM
3	The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argument Barring instances of fraud, you can't come back and claim ownership of a car after the title has been transferred regardless of what they do with the vehicle. With a child, you actually can. You can come back a year or 10 years after birth and claim you weren't in the right state of mind when you relinquished your parental rights. You can claim that the woman is too abusive or destitute and that the child's best interest warrants the reinstatement of your rights. Even without that, there's no ef…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 05:34 PM
8	The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argument Because you essentially gifted your sperm to the woman, which resulted in a child. If you can prove that the woman poked a hole in your condom without your knowledge or consent, then you'd have a case to avoid financial responsibility though it could be argued that even an untampered rubber isn't 100% effective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 11:13 PM
5	The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argument In your scenario, the man doesn't have the same ability. If a woman aborts, that's an irreparable decision. She can't change her mind a year or 10 years down the road. Even if a man formally forfeits parental rights before birth, he can still come back at any point and make a case that he wasn't in his right mind at the time he made the decision.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 10:00 PM
18	The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argument Here's the difference. Bodily autonomy applies for men when we control the location of our sperm, so that means when it's ours within our bodies, or collected & maintained it in a vial or a wad of kleenex. If you ejaculate inside of a woman, or you flush or throw it away, it's no longer yours. You've essentially abandoned it and you no longer have autonomy over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 09:53 PM
3	Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist? I meant about the value part, generally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 05:13 PM
1	Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist? Biologically what would be the point of a female only group? I don't think anyone was arguing that ONLY men should be saved in a catastrophic event.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 05:33 AM
3	Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist? That's what I tell my sons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 05:30 AM
10	Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy? We know women don't care. This isn't meant as a middle finger to women. It's an avenue to make life bearable for a large portion of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 03:03 AM
7	Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy? It's either a bandaid or nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 03:01 AM
-1	Thoughts on shy, no-experience men? Brad Pitt and Henry Cavill would die virgins if they didn't get out of their comfort zones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 07:27 AM
1	Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why? I think far more often the reaction is "He's doing it wrong".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 06:34 PM
–	Men attach their worth to sex-having becasue sex-having as a man is attached to your worth. Disagree. Men who who are stuck in celibate existence need to find ways to cope with it, or if they can't, well they should self-delete.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 10:48 PM
2	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men Yes, which is different than median.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:59 PM
3	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market Right. My point is that even those things are less accessible for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:57 PM
1	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men No argument from me. I think all women would be better off if they weren't in relationships with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:54 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men Almost all men are really way below average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 01:52 AM
7	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market I don't think it's only sex, though. It's also companionship, whether longterm or for just an hour. A shared meal, even a just a conversation. Not the case for every woman, but on average much more accessible than it is for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 12:10 AM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men My personal experience isn't substantial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 11:53 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men They will not settle for men making average money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 11:24 PM
–	Cold approach is a 0 sum game especially for average & below men Probably best that he doesn't reproduce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 02:02 AM
–	Cold approach is a 0 sum game especially for average & below men He mentions an arranged marriage. Probably Indian, so one may assume both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 01:49 AM
1	Black pill = bull shit But there are lots of losers with girlfriends and no shortage of random hookups.	/r/seduction	18/05/22 09:54 PM