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women your age will tend to be at the swanky cocktail bars rather than so much the club, hit those up and see what you find, also I find women past their twenties love places with live music ? do what you will with that info, stay confident king your a well educated bachelor!
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:54 AM
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I have to disagree with this post, bettering yourself will definitely improve your chances , but unless you go out drinking alot or you attend alot of social areas, hobbys, activities etc that has a decent amount of female attendance then your results are gonna stay near the same. for the simple fact that women will very rarely approach men. I'm 6'1 88kg (200lbs) in an athletic build , and I'm a pretty decent looking guy. if I didn't pursue women, would I still get lucky ? yes BUT alot less and …
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:58 AM
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gimme a description of these 'cold reads' i don't know the word jargon that some of you game guys use ahaha
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:04 PM
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in England we call em 'Johnny's' aha
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:54 AM
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I prefer giving them your number in irl approaches plainly for the fact that then the balls in their court, if they text you they're interested, if they don't then no time wasted!
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:26 PM
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honestly from my experience the more you think about it the more the anxiety builds , we've all done it before , you see a girl you like the look of and you look to see if she's noticed you hoping you get a significant eye contact to convince yourself she's noticed you and is interested. but the reality is you need to go approach the moment you get the chance , a second later and your anxiety will take hold , wether you think of something to say on the way or not , just go over and say something…
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:07 PM
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yh we just relaxed our restrictions so you don't need a vaccine just a negative test !
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:59 AM
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thats crazy man you can get a goodlooking girl for a £100 here
/r/seduction04/03/22 11:48 PM
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yh its illegal here too but not finding a respectable establishment is obviously a problem , maybe make a trip out of it and take a weekend somewhere nicer aha
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:03 PM
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whats stopping you ? is it the stigma that surrounds prostitution ? its the oldest job in the world bro ahaha personally i think everyone has to pay for it atleast once just to experience it so sink a couple beers and get yourself to the nearest place my guy! ahaha I wanna see an update from you !
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:20 AM
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well done bro , regardless of the rejection a part of her will admire your confidence , now time to move onto the next!
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:04 AM
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your overthinking it brother, just be honest regardless of if you like them or not , but liking the same music is a huge bonus and creates an easy route to connect to someone about something you both like , and if you both like opposite music styles this is a chance to have a playfull joke or tease at their expense or choice of music if this makes sense.
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:47 PM
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glad I could start it off for you man appreciate the comment brother
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:24 PM
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personally I think this would work more in a context of someone you've never slept with before and have building sexual tension with for a while , for a casual fwb situation where they've had sex a dozen times it would be more applicable to literally just say 'come here and gimme a kiss' then obviously be grabbing her ass during and keep moving your hands all over for aslong as you kiss. if clothes don't naturally find their way off just give a cheeky smile and ask 'are you horny' , or 'turned o…
/r/seduction20/02/22 12:37 PM
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yh that sucks man, I'm from Manchester UK and I find depending what area I go drinking changes the scope of the women , one area is stuck up Instagram bitches and others are student areas then you have like the indie vibe places which are Usually a more down to earth calibre of woman
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:27 AM
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sorry man I promise I'll put more effort into my English next time aha.
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:32 PM
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this is a perfect summary of my point so I can see you understand what i'm talking about , but yh approaching in person in my opinion gets you immediately 10x more interest as opposed to being another dm in their inbox that they just ignore
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:32 PM
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yh I imagine a place like LA is incredibly centred around your social media status as opposed to taking someone as face value , you have 100k followers on Instagram in an La hey your somebody , you go to a small town bar someplace and reveal this to the girls there and they more than likely don't give a fuck , which is the woman I prefer everytime
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:30 PM
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oh so using your logic the only reason for this forum is to complain? ahaha man noones complaining its an OBSERVATION to which some people reply with valid comments and observations of your their own, however you have just taken it that I'm complaining and are telling me tonget to work 'being that guy' I have no Interest in 'being that guy' on social media , I prefer to show my personality in person , in summary your digging way too deep into this aha
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:28 PM
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ahaha 1 noone is complaining dumbass 2 I work full time as an engineer , go to the gym 5 times a week, learn 2 languages and the piano so it's really just a case of applying proper written language when i feel I need to , writing a post on a reddit forum doesn't come into that category for me but hey sue me bro
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:01 PM
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HAHAH that gave me a laugh but your probably right
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:26 PM
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bro who the fuck is complaining, ever heard of An OBSERVATION , i know what it takes to have an appealing social media presence but u don't have the time effort or desire to do it, I'd rather just stick with approaching in person.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:54 PM
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so thats how those work ! thanks bud
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:32 PM
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aha too kind sir
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:32 PM
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yh but a young rookies initial instinct in this day and age would be to go straight to online approaching so in fact this observation and your comment below it could reiterate in their brain 'hey maybe I should forget this shit and focus on IRL game' see 'delicious ad' theres always a silver lining aha
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:23 PM
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ahaha yh its not that I can't structure my writing its just I'm too lazy , it is infact the inner monologue of a 22 year old who drank a cup of tea lol
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:21 PM
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yh good point man but yh I feel like you have to be a certain type of person to be that into self promotion
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:20 PM
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so you commented without reading it ahaha ? I dunno wether to be disgusted or impressed but shit you do you bro ahaha
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:14 PM
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man please re read the post ahaha I'm not making any excuses, I'm making an OBSERVATION tbqh I couldn't give less of a fuck about social media approaching , I prefer approaching irl always have and always will but I was making an observation , get it?
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:12 PM
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I can't see any fault in your logic , but honestly I don't have the necessary desire to build my social media presence enough ahaha so I'm just gonna stick with my irl game.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:09 PM
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ahahaha , yano what I can't argue with that logic
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:04 PM
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stan , brother stop hating on reddit forums and crack a smile or something jesus I can feel your negativity from here
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:02 PM
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I completely agree, IRL game is worth more in my opinion
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:01 PM
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stan , brother , your in like 6 dating communities on reddit ? so yh I'm sure you've seen just about every point been raised a hundred times ahaha come on man your too old to be online complaining about people's content.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:00 PM
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a great example of what my point is ! you understand it man aha yh the social media game is not for me , why be a part of a pile of dm's when you can be on your own in approaching her in person right
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:57 PM
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cenasmackdown, your groups include , seduction ,tinder, money, funny and jokes , and your telling me I get no action from bitches ? get the fuck outta here bro you play too much ahahaha
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:56 PM
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ahaha I wish I couldve experienced the time when approaching in person was the only way
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:54 PM
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you keep questioning and denying whatever I say but you aren't bringing anything of substance so the table? use your brain and put it into words , I'm all ears.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:34 PM
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I appreciate your comment man thanks for bringing a valid opinion to the table some people on here clearly don't know how to do that , but I agree the over entitled social media self proclaimed queens are alottt of hassle in my experience.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:30 PM
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ahaha sorry man I'm lazy when it comes to writing structure. secondly I don't think you grasped the concept of my awfully written opinion aha , what I'm saying is the average guy with a basic social media presence who really doesn't care about uploading his whole life (guilty) has less of a chance because there's a thousand guys out there although they might not look as good or be as interesting as the first guy, they all love and know how to portray a higher image of themselves online, catch my…
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:19 PM
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this pretty much somes it up perfectly
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:55 PM
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who's bitching aha ? it makes no difference to me i prefer to approach in person , but like I said noones bitching bro its called raising a point where people can share their opinions on if they agree or not? like are you okay
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:54 PM
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I had a similar experience a few weeks back , I spoke to a girl a while online organized a date , she pulled out a week before and blamed work commitments but said she still wants to talk to me in the meantime , I essentially said thats nice but its abit pointless if were not gonna meet within the next few weeks, theres only so much you can talk about with someone you've never met ? she understood and I stopped messaging her , in the coming weeks she would forward my photos to me and compliment …
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:16 PM
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agreed man the amount of work we have to put in is pretty ridiculous , and I blame technology wholeheartedly , infact I'm gonna make a post about this in seduction and see who agrees
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:57 PM
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there a few natural instincts everyman is born with , not thing that he is taught or learns in life , things he is BORN wanting to do , EAT, SLEEP , BREATHE , USE THE BATHROOM and HAVE SEX , its not unnatural to want to fuck just as much as you wanna eat breathe or sleep aha
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:24 PM
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dude what an insight! you should be a life coach
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:48 PM
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omg @lilzster what a funny comment lol! you should do comedy ! sike guess what noone gives a fuck go find something that makes you smile , your negative ass is boring noone thinks your funny or cool
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:47 PM
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she looked around the smoking area (it was just me and her) i assume this is what she was checking for then her exact words were 'fancy a cheeky kiss' this will sound weird if your not from the UK but I asked 'how cheeky?' and then she just went straight in to 'make out' with me as you'd say in the states
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:30 AM
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though I should clarify she was wearing the ring I just didn't bother to check beforehand , I feel like that ring check will become natural when I get older.
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:53 PM
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if she doesn't respect her own then shit is there a point anymore ahaha
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:51 PM
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thanks bro I like your breakdown, also I'd say I'm atleast okay in looks but yh I'm like 6'1
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:40 PM
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outcome indepence , has a nice ring to it aha
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:27 PM
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of course , the threshold just differs from person to person, but looks is a constant man , beside things like how you dress , haircut , physique etc , your genetic physical appearance is a constant you can do little about , accept that and look at the variables eg how you talk to and treat a woman
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:34 PM
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yh I wish it were that obvious to the majority but the world isn't that considerate unfortunately :( aha!
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:30 PM
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strike up a conversation on the topic of dating maybe ask a harmless question like your wondering what the dating world is like at an older age like does it slow down etc then say something about how maybe you find girls your age immature etc and that you think you'd prefer a woman a little older than you ( if she's interested in you she will take this as an IOI) If needed reiterate this in a way that she could interpret as hinting to her or flirting , let the conversation flow then ask on her o…
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:00 PM
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thanks for your input its super reassuring to have a woman who's been attractive through multiple decades confirm this! its nice to see a 'girl guru' i wish there were more aha! I'll make sure to follow your Instagram
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:47 PM
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I get what your saying , but if you try to be as genuine as possible then you may give off the impression your aiming for , in a social setting an easy one is to simply ask how the girl or girls are doing , how their night is going, ask them wheres good to go to drink or dance , i go out in Manchester England so there's alot of bars and clubs densely packed so I often ask groups of girls where they like to go out and they oblige by telling you their opinions on these places then just make the co…
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:43 PM
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a shit test ahaha I like that , thanks for the input bro
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:52 PM
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yh agreed the guy I see that have success with the style are always naturally cocky people so I guess in a way they're just being themselves too lol but I myself find a laid back approach better for me , especially if you have a friend who likes to use strong come ons because when they don't work women can see the laid back guy of the group as safety and before you know it they're hanging onto you for dear life aha Its probably close to a dozen times I've had my friends failed pickups come seek …
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:16 PM
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this whole comment got me chuckling bro ahahaha your funny man , but no my friend is just tall and slim i don't think he's goodlooking but the girls do so shittt, and the other friend isn't a cripple ahaha hes just fat with a shaved head lol but honestly man if you think you have to be rich or have high status to get girls your fucking crazy and your focusing too much on whatever rich High status guys you know that get girls, if your telling me you don't know atleast one guy who is a fucking los…
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:09 PM
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thats a great question and a tough one for me to answer as being a guy I never know if a girl is acting genuine in a social setting or if she's changed her behaviour for me but I wouldn't see why not ! countless times I've had casual encounters with women and it left me wondering 'I wonder if she's into me' cos they've given no indications , which has led to me pursuing them to find out aha some of them I wouldn't be interested in if they came straight onto me but because they didn't initiates t…
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:58 PM
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yh women are really good at sensing alterior motives so I find the comfort building approach actually creates some rapport and chemistry then from there flirting just happens , this is just what I find works for me I know guys out there that or on the opposite end of the spectrum and are what I call 'cocky types' and they have great success but women either love or hate this type of guy I could never do it , it makes me cringe to watch but if it works Hey fucking send it boys
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:50 PM
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I mean I agree women will make excuses to an extent for a goodlooking guy but I've seen goodlooking guys get told to fuck off for some light come ons and I've seen some fucking horrible looking guys my friend in particular who is like 260 pound and balding at 22 get goodlooking girls just from being confident and having some substance about him , do looks come into seduction of course they do you'd have to be an idiot to say otherwise but never underestimate the need to have good game , the ugli…
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:47 PM
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agreed , you need GOOD conversation and more likely than not you need them to be somewhat attracted to you on a looks basis , ps I do not look like Harry styles one bit lol. and in regards to the looks she could find you attractive and you could open your mouth with some cringey come on shes heard a million times and you could immediately fail so it is more than just looks in my opinion
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:22 PM
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I won't disagree with you on the old ducks comment because its highly but I have done this on hot 20 year old girls and it has worked , again i'm not saying this is a golden rule by any means just that I've found its worked for me , ESPECIALLY with better looking girls believe it or not because they're the ones that get hounded by guys when they go out, so a guy making casual conversation could be somewhat refreshing? but hey I'm no expert
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:18 PM
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couldn't have said it better myself
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:13 PM
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please show me where I tried to make this a rule for anyone 🤣illiterate fuck
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:10 PM
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anyone wanting the full story after telling me she was married we spoke casually for a few minutes before she asked if I had a girlfriend and went in to kiss me after I said no , I am by no means saying not coming onto women strong works all the time because that's bullshit their all different but personally I know some women I'd say the hotter ones feel more at ease and comfortable when your not blatantly trying to fuck them because they don't feel a need to put their defense up , ONCE AGAIN th…
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:09 PM
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everyone on here thats like 'dudes just saying be yourself what kind of shit is this' HEY ASSHOLES if you can fucking read it was a question of has anyone else found this ? it wasn't a statement you fucking idiots
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:05 PM
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go talk to women any women and all women! and if your worried about doing it with girls on campus build your confidence elsewhere , I got my confidence high by talking to women when I'm in shopping centres or (malls) if your in America , so pick a day you wanna go to the mall to buy something however little , you can be alone or with friends , make the effort to look good that day , put on your favourite outfit cos feeling like you look good makes the world of difference and when you see a girl …
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:33 AM
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imagine your the cool guy in a movie scene , she'll only find you as attractive as you find yourself, sounds crazy but it works for me
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:43 PM
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exuse me I'm lost , im looking for .... your number ? more comical if anything aha
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:08 AM
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