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Exactly, fuck this is refuse to just let women be when they can also put no effort and get everything "handed" to them. This is the good old shitty grindset trope for you. Fuck this shit man... The only thing i'll be grinding or mildly trying for is myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:27 PM
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"sometimes" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:12 PM
1

I totally empathise with him but the other guy might not be totally wrong. It is likely that OLD won't help at all, i think that people should see it as an ultra low interest index fund. You could rely on it at some point but at each instant you realise that this is clearly not viable. I am like him, i stopped to go out of my way to talk to girls, i've had 3 girls who had picked interest on me but i was focus on school. If i want the situation to change, i have to get back on track and change it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:24 PM
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What do you mean by treating ourselves well? I can't talk about my projects with myself, i can't hug myself, i can't kiss myself, i can't give me head unexpectedly, i can't hang out holding my hand.... All those things aren't possible or as great than if they were done by a SO. Sure, you are partially right, we should tend to feel good alone but we can't be contend all alone for the rest of our lives. We are social creatures and we are meant to be attracted to others. Having friends is good, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:19 PM
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It is off topic i know but it would be interesting to me to see how things would go if you do a 180 and started sexting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:44 PM
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And i'd like to add that some those who also do this are people who've somewhat resigned themselves, they prefer to wallow themselves in their virtual harem. It's been ~1 month since i last watched porn (i relapsed recently with instagram model pics) and it's still appealing to me. But after ejaculation, i just felt pathetic and bad, i won't ever have this kind of sex with these girls. So i just focus on myself now. It IS more boring, slow, i struggled to get off on my own but i feel better now.…
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:16 PM
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This guys here love the idea that they always have some sort of control on that aspect. Yet all we can do is trying to not ruin the initial attraction girls have for us and let it grow by being more and more intimate.
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:02 PM
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It's good if you're fit but keeping building muscle isn't attractive to a certain point. Make sure that you're in the standards. There might be another problem, like maybe are you needy? Do you have hobbies so you can meet people(men and women) and be satisfied with your social life and so your life, since you will not longer feel the urge to get girls? I struggle with the latter since my studies take most of my time and i have a hard time with the idea that i should fake an appreciation of girl…
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:55 PM
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This the simple reason it happens IS BECAUSE WE ARE WHO WE ARE ! As simple as that...
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:43 PM
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I am talking about rejection because that's what the "no thanks" is. I meant that like every habits you adopt the feelings associated with them attenuate over time. Rejection stings at the beginning but it's almost nothing when you do it frequently and even less when you grind. And that's what i'm aiming to do, approaching every day if i feel like it but in parallel getting more friends to have a good social network since i'll leave my country soon.
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:04 PM
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Just bend your knees to not eventually mess up you back?
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:47 PM
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I don't know if i'm a sociopath but i am certainly not gay just because talking to random girls isn't the most sensational thing i've ever done. Because talking to guy isn't more satisfying. And just because a random on Reddit says so? Generally when you have to repeat something with your end goal in mind you don't always have this special motivational feelings or the satisfaction. Sometimes it is satisfying, sometimes it is annoying, sometimes it's just "boring" you don't get your feeling invol…
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:44 PM
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If you run out of things to say, just don't say anything next time ;)
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:22 AM
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Yes you're right i never give myself credits for thing that i juge normal for others. I am working on that. And i'm learning from each approach i did in the past, and still, i don't feel satisfied by all of that. I won't stop because i want to try again and again i like to talk to girls actually, i accept that i will be rejected but it's not something that i will try to appreciate in a strange far fetched way. I will learn from it, the more i tried the more i felt okay with it at some point but …
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:37 PM
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But you don't lose ANYTHING lmao, even if you don't do it every time you get to approach other girls and even try again next time, what do you actually lose uh? Tell me !
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:30 PM
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I'm satisfied to not be the only one who sees that !
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:27 PM
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This is the perfect exemple of "if it works for me then it will work for everyone, stop making excuses". It's good for you but i don't feel any better after cold approaching women, i don't feel bad in fact but this isn't a satisfying process in my opinion.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:25 PM
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I don't agree with you, i don't see why the person who approaches actually wins something, and yeah there's the gain in experience (which is not satisfying if it is in this context of rejection) whereas the person who got approached will remember it especially if the said person does not receive this kind of attention. In my opinion this is not a win/win situation that's why i was fed up with cold approaches and i ultimately gave up temporary. Maybe i'm just too pessimistic but the approached pe…
/r/seduction01/05/22 11:07 PM
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I think that thinking about some sort of revenge is counterproductive, he needs to move on, life's like this. Just chase success for you OP, to find your inner peace even if you have to quit this state to forget all of that. If you still struggle therapy might help i guess.
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:48 PM
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So much this!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:15 PM
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I feel you, the girls who are able to make you feel this way are so rare...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:43 AM
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They definitely are, the last time a girls tried to approach me she was with her group of friends and it was actually one of her friend who was talking to me. I would've definitely liked it if only she tried on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:10 PM
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Fax.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:40 PM
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This but you know, you shouldn't make excuses and waste your time first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:05 AM
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And if she was struggling to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:49 AM
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You're right it's not unique to a gender. I also think that chase people above your league is a problem. I personally try to find someone at my level of attractiveness or at least what i perceive. If i were to choose i'd like to go to your college, unfortunately i live in french west indies and it's always the same type of people who get the girls easily. Until the girls start to be "serious". So it's normal that our points of view differ. Also I might be biased, it's also possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:37 PM
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I was what you called an "emotional extremist" if i didn't make mistakes. And i understand what you mean and yeah it could be the more likely to happen. But, I find it quite intriguing that they never think about other's mistakes about dating. Is it really necessary to go to bad relationships to bad relationships for years to understand at the end that it's not the good way to go, and ONLY then consider an other way? They want to experiment i understand but i find it quite hilarious that they se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:22 PM
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Thanks, i feel like it's likely to be some cherry-picking but i'll read anyway and make my own opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:15 PM
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Can you link them please? I really want to read that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:07 PM
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If unfortunately they really don't, the girls will let them know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:06 PM
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D'accord. J'aimerais bien visiter le Quebec et manger de la poutine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:36 AM
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Hmm yeah sorry my english have flaws, i'm french after all. But don't pretend that you can't understand i single word. It's just an excuse because you don't have anything interesting to say other than your masculinity trope...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:31 AM
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I think that you should always hit back unless you'd end up in a worse situation, ie fight with someone with a knife/gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:47 AM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:43 AM
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And why can't he knock her out to defend himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:41 AM
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Thanks i hope too ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 09:02 PM
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Okay i'll try that thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 08:39 PM
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Okay but what do you mean by "had confidence" it just seem like the "just be yourself"; "just be confident bro" trope. But it doesn't work for me in anyway unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:23 AM
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Oh really? And why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:06 AM
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I wouldn't be able to make a better answer. Well done man! I'd to add something about the incel part. You're right, society think we deserve nothing, because of course we're not owed nothing. But i think you mean that they want nothing to do with us, like if our presence is just annoying, and having attraction for women is like a crime for us. And it's right, we just have to exist to disgust. According to the others there are solutions for us like being confident, take shower, brush our teeth, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:20 PM
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If you don't want do say anything interesting don't message me please ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:57 AM
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I don't ask an essay, just few points. I just don't see right now what are those "many" options. Once i know few of them i'd be able to find others. And i know : "i'M nOt OwEd ANyThInG", i'm just asking, if he doesn't want to answer he can say it or ignore my message(s). Just like he did. And please, when did i say the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:46 AM
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Thank you very much, i will try to read at least one per month
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:40 PM
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Lmao it's funny i'm learning English and i'm French, bonne chance à toi ! <3 So well i don't read very much beside science things and books for school, i'll try time will tell. For now i can't travel and my studies take all my time, i never thought about it because i find that useless i wanted to save in order to buy lathe, CNC machines, etc... So it will be for way later i think. Thank for the tips ! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:21 PM
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You're right i absolutely agree with you, but my problem is : how to be interesting? My hobbies aren't that interesting to the average woman so what should i do? Faking is not a solution for me, and i think i won't find any girls who share my interests or be interested in me soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:08 PM
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Yeah, sure ... ;) So there's not "many" options after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:18 AM
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"Many" list them then, i wait for more than 5 independants options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 11:17 PM
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Can you develop please i don't see how it is more complicated. The global tendency today is that people just think about them, especially when dating is concerned, there's litteraly no mercy there and we just want to have our fun and chase the confort when it becomes harder or when we've "matured". Some have they SO earlier but i don't think it's the case of everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:32 PM
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Yes i think i would, i think about the dynamic in a relationship just as you. I usually don't go spontaneously after interests that are really far from science or sport but if i'm introduced to it, especially if it's my hypothetical SO, i'll invest myself a little bit to see if i enjoy or not. It's good to have common interest but it's better to discover things and make your SO discover things too. And both would be even better. That what i'm aiming at, but times are hard for me now i do my best…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 04:58 PM
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Thank you ;) you too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:24 PM
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Yeah i can't agree more! You're right i hope i'll find the one who'll be like that then. It won't be really bad if because i'd like to discover new things with her too. But for now i'm just invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:16 PM
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Sure this is the only solution i have unfortunatly. I will just take it and see if it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:57 PM
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Low level computer science, electronics, mechanics not just repairing cars and whatnot i'd like to create engines, planes, rockets, submarines all types of drones, etc... from scratch. I don't have money and nearly no free time, so i just learn now, on my own and at school too. I also plan to learn more about chemistry and geology, and biology later. I like sports too, like calisthenics, basket ball, and martial arts. I just fit into the nerd type and my social inneptness doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:44 PM
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Since i'm a child my parents never let me get out of the house, unless it was for school. They always wanted to control my life because "they know things, i don't, friends don't bring anything good, but hypocrisy etc..." So i'm not very good at starting conversation and keep them. I progress, but it's not enough women don't want anything to do with guys like me despite the "there are girls for all type of guys" And i hate the fact that i have to show that i exist, if some girls were realy into m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:17 PM
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Neither is that one imo. Or only if there's a chance to find a good relationship but i don't even see one until now 😧
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:50 AM
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Lmao so much this 😂 But at least he can have fun frequently i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:14 AM
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Do you mean that it's pretty hard to find the right ones for us? Then yes i definitly agree with you ! But i feel like you also mean that it will be hard because PPD males are ruining it somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:45 PM
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"...society doesn't even tell them to compromise..." LMAO 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:07 AM
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I think so lmao They are always so evasive when they talk about the game i would like to know what it is exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 12:01 AM
1

Yes you're right but in my case it wasn't really a turnoff it was just an interest to be shuned about than just a turnoff. We'll never know if we could match the other people just avoid you, because of the peer pressure i guess. It sucks that just because you have this or this interest you won't deserve to even talk to a certain person. But this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:24 PM
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Yes in my opinion they are, i don't see what's wrong with these hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 07:22 PM
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In my opinion yes, i think they're quite good hobbies that you can expect from a 12-18 yo. It's better than playing games all day long. But you can do better hobbies after this period. What are great hobbies to you? Which ones did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:52 PM
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Lmao it's not gaming, it was into computer science, playing guitar, i was starting to watch some anime and i started to get some interests in engineering too. It was few years ago. Now on the top of that i'm lifting when i got some free time, trying to get a broad knowledge in order to not get "absorbed" by science, you see? Yes there are other ways, especially spending some time doing fun things with the person. But am i supposed to dodge the question when the moment of trying to know if we hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 12:24 PM
1

And how are we supposed to send good energy? Use our nen or something like that? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 11:50 AM
1

The fact that people who do this suddenly avoid me once they know my interests and project my personality from assumptions. And it's funny when they are surprised when they finally make the effort to really know who i'm It's maybe because i'm young but it was always like this. Even if it was just conversations between classmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:31 AM
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I mean you're not rejected because of you, but instead because of how she think you could behave or be like, just because you have certains hobbies. It's unfair (to me at least) because it's not always accurate and you can't show who you really are despites having these hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:08 AM
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I mean not in this way, sorry i wasn't clear, vetting people because "this hobby is for losers" or whatever nonsense. I find this so childish to reject people who could be "the ones" just because they had these specific interests and not because you didn't like them(the persons and the hobbies)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:43 AM
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So much THIS, i hate how your worth as a partner can be juged on what hobbies you have wtf is that...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:07 AM
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Oh i see now and yes you're quite right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 11:50 PM
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I don't understand the "easily manipulated to get what they want" could you explain it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 11:44 PM
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Too bad, no answer ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:30 AM
1

Okay but what effort do they do in comparison other than put themselves out there? I think that the core of the problem is that if you have to work hard to create lust, she doesn't really likes you, especially if it's alway rainy as fuck when there's chads around, but no she seems to really "like" YOU some people just don't like to play the bufoon to get nothing most of the time or only what is convinient for her mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:18 AM
1

Dude you nailed it. But no we should somehow find a way to be satisfied in a mediocre relationship/situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:37 AM
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Of course you didn't say that but he's not totally wrong here. Some women here (i say some because i don't have the time to read every posts about relationships and standards) say that they're aren't interested in people around their age(when they're young at least) because they don't have their thing together, they only want sex, aren't mature, etc... I think that he thought that you were spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:54 PM
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Because sluts lie about their past?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:46 AM
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No one actually i wasn't clear in that part sorry. And i was wrong by talking about nerds it's intead the loser who show how he's actually nicer, will treat her like a human, be genuinely interested(not for popularity reason or whatnot), and when the girl understands that being with the jerk is not a good idea after all. He might be annoying, dangerous, treat her bad. Who knows why she's with him? It's cliché but maybe because every other girls fantasize about him. The loser that try to seduce h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:14 PM
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Thanks i'll check it. And for my parents i'll tell them that the next time, i don't like to argue but you're right they deserve to know what i think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:58 AM
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Unfortunetely my parents never valued friendship, having crush was "forbidden" for us when we were young, they always made bullshit excuses to never take us out or let us have social life other than the one you have at school, never invit friends, no party(or just family :) ), etc... How could you call it other than forcing us(i know, not all the introverts/bellow average guys) to become like that? Plus add the bullshit thing that was told to guys like me : shallowness is not good(but people see…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:45 AM
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On the top of that,(i might be a severly autistic) by experience women tend to not participate a lot in the conversation if you're unattractive to her, we can actually say to them because if you suddenly have success after you've looksmaxxed that means that a lot of girl actually like the same thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:24 PM
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From my experiences you'll just stay friends lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:08 PM
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Yeah it's totally the kind of people i'm. Now that i think about it i personnaly grew up in a recomposed family and i was the 3rd kids over 4. When i was very young i didn't give a fuck that we didn't were considered evenly, i was the one for whom the situation was convinient. After i saw my dad act unfairly with my older sister and brother i started to feel bad and really aknoledged my privileges. I started to "flatter" myself, stop asking things to my parents, be more kind and very empathic. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:46 AM
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I'd like to know, which advices are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 05:06 PM
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I think that the type of guys who do nofap in general fap too much until they can no more i guess. And by experience you can feel repulsed like that. But if you do it just when you want it'll be okay i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:13 PM
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Because they've matured
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:57 AM
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I started to do the work on negativity i feel much better, i go on this sub fewer and i stop arguing with people i just don't agree with. But this conversation is contructive i think. For the second paragraph i understand what you are saying and i'll try this. Thanks for your suggestions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:36 AM
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I don't really agree with you. I'm the kind of guys who's often bitter and nearly always hate the fact that i'm the rejected guys that women just don't want to approach for stupid reasons imo at least. And i have been quite lucky with my relationships and even have 3 or 4 chances with girls that i missed due to my social ineptness or bad timing with last rejections. I still have problems but my situation isn't that bad, maybe i'm not totally angry, bitter, or whatever good for me. I don't know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:49 AM
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I worry about that because i don't want to be fooled and give a women what she want while i'm trapped because i don't want to destroy my family. I don't have anti-woman sentiment i just don't appreciate what they could do. You're right i have no involvement with them and that's one of my problem with what they(not all i know) do. I'm the kind of guy who get rejected everytime and it hurts to feel like that last people that they'd like to date, that only when it'll be convinient for them they wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:15 PM
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Yeah why not? Just like it's reducing the whole relationship to how she wants to feel loved, cared for, and what not, just what makes her feel good. Men just want what make them feel good too in the relationship female just have it all. Guys don't want sentiments and butterfly everywhere ONLY. Girls just don't want to understand that. Or they just feign that they don't? I don't know. But you just seem like : nooo, look! Sentiment, connection and all the things that i value very much sould just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 01:34 AM
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Yes i haven't been maried, so what? I just don't want to be deadbedroomed, i don't have kids for the moment and i actually want to date girls but, you know, i can't for the moment and my studies will take very big amount of my time for 2-3 years. And you're right, i struggle with sex and i got things to fix i'm working on that in order to reach my goals(like putting off this fucking scarcity mode), but for now yes i'm an incel with an obsession with sex because i'm "starving". I don't know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 01:06 AM
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Yes i haven't been maried, so what? I just don't want to be deadbedroomed, i don't have kids for the moment and i actually want to date girls but, you know, i can't for the moment and my studies will take very big amount of my time for 2-3 years. And you're right, i struggle with sex and i got things to fix i'm working on that in order to reach my goals(like putting off this fucking scarcity mode), but for now yes i'm an incel with an obsession with sex because i'm "starving". I don't know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 01:04 AM
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Yes you're right ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 11:01 PM
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Listen, i don't know what you mean by "zoomer", a gen z people i guess. So yeah i'm a "zoomer" actually according to wikipedia. But who cares? The guy was right, 1) They got rejected no matter what they do. 2) They get easy and quality fap on porn and satisfy their sexdrive with it. 3) With time more porn platform will see the day and with more qualitative stuff on it, and so on till today with onlyfans, mym, etc... But you just take it backward, or at least millenials got trapped but again than…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 09:10 PM
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I don't think so. He just wanted the same thing. He doesn't want to be just an easy retirement plan for her. He wants her to bring her best to the table too, in this case the best kind of sex she can give and willingly consciously gave, and not come up with bullshit excuses to not do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 08:11 PM
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You're right for me at least. So the fact that girl don't talk at all to these men i'm talking about or just when they need something, make them socially inept? Or you're talking about the fact that they don't know to recognize these type for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 07:56 PM
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Because they used to fuck with them sometimes prior and they know how to spot them. For the average guy who's nearly never talked to in an interested(in relationship or sex) way by a girl, he'd just think that this is his chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 06:53 PM
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Lmao no, in my opinion it's not maturity, it's a conscious decision and when you look at it you can cleary see it. Switching to good guys only when you live now on your own, you want more money to have a lifestyle more enjoyable thanks to the money of your "SO", and your own too, i know, and beeing treated really well, is just being an opportunistic people. I don't agree at all with TRP about this. They just want these chads, douchebags, or whatever for the fun, they always know the risks, and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:18 PM
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Why? Just because not every men can do a one man show every time they talk to a girl and especially at this age or be exactly what they are attracted to(it's also funny how it's often the same type of men they chase or litteraly nobody), it's our fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:42 PM
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THIS! He just doen't want to understand. I'm a "Millenial" and even if i have free porn on my laptop, pocket, etc... I want real relationship with real women even if i find that i would give a lot more to satisfy a girl that she'd be willing to do. Yes porn is great but not fullfilling, a lot of guys around my age know it but we just have that like you've said, we have no other options untill we have a total control over our lifestyle(when we can finally quit the mom and dad home).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:34 PM
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Okay my bad, but i don't understand. You ask way before and after seeing the results you decided to just use "signals"? Or you ask them out not very long before the covid and you plan to just go with "signals" in order to put less effort and maximise the results according to girls and RP? I don't know toward which men you go,but i'll admin that some have a chase attitude, are fuckboys that want challenges stuff like that. To be honnest i don't know which tips to give you if the (absurd imo) "sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:38 PM
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"Women aren't meant to ask out men" LMAO Stay alone then, you don't seem willing to put in little effort to overcome your bad situation. You're waiting for your perfect men on a silver plate lol. With your mentality you're likely to stay invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:07 PM
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So why don't you answer? If you stay at home a good amount of time in a day, know nobody, and don't even use OLD apps, of course you won't go anywhere... At least go out and ask few men out if you have it so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:54 PM
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It seems like we have a misunderstanding lol. I thought that you wanted women to "befriend" guys with all the cons(for the men of course) and the pros for the female(again of course) that comes with that. Actually i totaly agree with you, it's never worth the effort. Girls just take adventage of these situations in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 10:51 AM
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"JuSt Be CoNfIdEnT bRo!" "Don't change anything you're perfect the way you're" :D"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:36 PM
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Don't they already do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:21 PM
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I'm probably wrong but, why do you talk as if not appreciating being kept around like that is ruining it for them? In my experience, yes, when women "befriend" it's as if they just want you by their side because this would be good for them to do so. Of course i'll refuse if it would happen, i can choose after all. It's really like, they don't value the so called "friendship", as if they just want a safety net for every situation and that we'll be these people who'll provide her that untill she "…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:54 PM
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I know but nobody would like to be part of these bad experiences. Unfortunately it happens anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:45 PM
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Then please could you tell me how the women's attraction is expressed? And also why some women don't realy mind fuck with ONS, if is just fictional shit that we see on porn. I don't think that women are devil just for that, but yeah we are deprived to experience this since the kind of men who get the easy sex with hook ups, ONS, FWBs are, from what i've seen, favorised by women. Or maybe you'll say that we are lucky to get only "romantic" relationship, to get starfish sex and some too, despite a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:18 AM
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Me too i don't neither, for the moment. It's a pretty good techique but we men don't like to experience the consequences of the actions of these men. Unfortunately women have to do it to prevent themselves of being pump and dumped. I don't know if it's a common technique that a lot of men use, but women frequently talk about those fuckboys and i don't know how many times they've been lied to by them but it's for sure a minority that mess up everything for everyone to get what they want. I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:41 AM
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No i'm not into that don't worry ;) I mean enthusiastic, active and energic sex meanwhile i feel like over time i'll just get starfish sex once a month because of loss of libido, hormonal variations, etc.... I'm not for the moment searching for dates but if i'll be unlucky as i always been before. I'd not like this aspect of the relationship and it could legitimately make you feel trapped since don't get something that you always wanted frequently in a relationship and i don't know if it'd mess …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:19 AM
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I understand their strategy, but i just don't like the fact that they want sex quite quickly with ONS or FWB but not with the, hopefully, future LTR if he's even good looking what would be the problem? Why is it better when things go slow because it's serious? Imo it'd be better to know if we could know as quick as possible if we are made for each other or if i'm making useless efforts to finish in the friendzone or nothing. At least both of us would got laid and i think that it'd just be like w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:32 PM
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Yeah it's true, but for the girl? If she feels like she's settling down, why not date slightly better looking people or at least keep searching for one?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:36 PM
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Honestly i don't think so. We just want women that doesn't whithold sex if she willingly gave her best sex to previous partners or even ONS before. Why do it differently anyway? I just don't understand if you know where and when to find serious people they won't 100% of the time dump you after, they'd appreciate that, i'd as least lol. If she genuinely like that, it's ok, i just stop dating her or i respect her choice (i think that i wouldn't like to wait to much, but i'm not in a position to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:29 PM
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Yes that's it !
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:11 PM
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Like we used to say, ask the fisherman how to fish not the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:58 PM
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I think that, maybe because of religion, reputation, their families, the fact that BC maybe weren't as common as they're now and also the fact that it's tipicaly the man who were the breadwinner, the CC ride were very restricted when the elderly people you know were young. There might be others factors, but i think that women didn't suddenly started to think about marying good man only and right after their generations the problems that we know well toaday started over again. They did for a reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:44 PM
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Yeah sure, i might have missed your comment about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:13 AM
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Imo they're not all taken as seriously as you think. Take a look at the tipical blonde who is nearly exactly like you decribe these people. They don't have nothing to offer and are not that attractive because of that. But of course there's some cases when they just have it all and at this point they are better everywhere and at this point the admiration of everybody around them puff their egos and there's nothing to do about that unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:27 AM
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No it's not, imo i just want to date girl that won't act as if i was a rapist or a fucking player all the time. I want to fuck like the chads before me, i don't want to always prove that i won't go away after because as the fucking naive little bitch she was she got pumped and dumped. And unfortunatly nearly every time by the same type of men. Why not give a chance to the ones that want to do the good actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:25 PM
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Lol i'm misreading? I never said that there id no point at all to ever try stop inventing or at least quote the lines where i said that... Yes there is no guarentee you said it and when you don't succeed at what you want and you're at your limits there's no point to try hard to go further you because you won't succed. In THIS CASE WHAT IS THE POINT??! Me i'm working out i know that i won't be like a bodybuilder, i just like giving my best and lifting weight and see where my limits are. Becoming …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:58 PM
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Me? I'm starting to get hostile? Look at your your answer lmao. Yes i understand what you're saying and yeah you said that you play with the hand you got but isn't that an expression to talk about genetics and socioeconomical factors that made you become who you're? I mean yeah you can try to improve things that you want to improve but you won't be able to overcome your natural limits set by your genetics and if you need a lot of money your socioeconomical state too will limit you. Yes you can p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:32 PM
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I was asking why in your opinion, complaining about not get a good amount of sex in a ltr is like when women when they complain that their chads don't marry her? But they obviously won't because he's a chad... And imo sex is expected in a ltr. If i don't get it i think that there is an imbalannce in the relation. I don't know why it'd be a crappy deal since she never mind about this kind of things before but only when she settle :thinking:. I think that it's not really the same. I'm saying that …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:04 PM
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I totally see where you're going but it's just what i've heard everywhere like if the women questionned tried to stay vague. Fear of jugement maybe. I'm only 18 maybe after i will have more straight forward answers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:42 PM
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I understand but why do they always implied that? Why not say it clearly? And if it's so basic why is it sometime the only thing they mention as if it was the only thing important?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:28 PM
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I think it's true and we can see it in our daily life, maybe my view is restricted since i'm a man but, women are not some rabbits that get caught against their will (at least not every time) so if you think you can get relationships with chads, players or fuck boys it's your problem. If they never commited to anyone, you think that they gonna do it for a random average girl? Lmao seriously it's just giving a weapon to get killed. It is your fault at this point. If they are praised it's because …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:11 PM
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Okay i got what you're saying. And you're right there's nothing else to do. If i'm not satisfied i can just stop dating or what not. I don't don't know why you're comparing risking to get divorse-raped by a women while you and live with her without marrying and just getting sex since your "SO" loves you genuinely and so much why the hell the tipical betabucks will end up deadbedroomed? It's a case where the guy don't want to risk his possessions for a girl he doesn't see his whole life with or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:55 AM
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Yes i know right. But still, the feeling don't and won't go away. I work for the other things that i want and if i'm good i get them, if i don't, i work on it if it's worth the hard work or i give up. As simple as that. Yeah women do whatever they want too, it's okay but they shouldn't pretend that they somehow found people serious after years of research and take accountability for their past since people deserve to know if they are with the town bike or if they are just the betabucks and won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 10:43 PM
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I understand your point. But how to not be bitter when women always go away with their opportunistic behaviour? And when the only way we could have a relation ship is to get betabuxed and renounce to sex because woman only want what we can provide to her? Plus the fact that this is encouraged by society, and woman sexual leberation too. But when men want it so bad too it's only shame that they receive. We should accept too that we'll never get what we want from this relationship and we should be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:53 PM
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I think that this is not the fact that people don't choose unattractive people. Or at least not only that. I'm pissed of because they act as if they had the qualities that they search in a partner but never go after them and maybe tell them they would never do and claim that it's been said because they weren't "mature", it's an slutty phase, etc... And then go back towards them when they got money and their shit together, and act like hypocritical people. Just to have their cake and eat it too. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:33 PM
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I think that it's the A then because she does willingly the same "mistake" and never try with the serious young guys. Or only when she has "matured"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:36 PM
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Lmao THIS !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:07 PM
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Lmao but it's the case a pussy feels better, a woman mouth and her soft tongue too, when you jizz in her too. All of that you won't feel it on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:03 PM
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Lmao but it's the case a pussy feels better, a woman mouth and her soft tongue too, when you jizz in her too. All of that you won't feel it on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:02 PM
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Lmao but it's the case a pussy feels better, a woman mouth and her soft tongue too, when you jizz in her too. All of that you won't feel it on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:02 PM
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Yes you're right i should stop making assumptions from nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:24 PM
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THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:14 PM
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THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:14 PM
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THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:14 PM
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Thank you and good luck to you too for the future
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:07 PM
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Ydah of course but i won't concentrate on that because i don't think that being stable is hard at all and for me it's a normal state that i will go back on if i'd like to but i don't think right now that i'll do it. Let the futur decide. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:55 PM
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Ikr but the problem is that i don't eat much and even if i'd like to choose less calorific food i can't for now but it's not a big deal i don't have to much weight to lose compared to others. I tried to completely shutdown the "useless food" for some months but i didn't felt so good at a point where i thought that i was overtraining. Thanks for your tips i will follow them. By reading your last paragraph i realized that i belived to much on the "old version of the alpha " and trying hard to show…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:11 PM
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Yeah think that you're right. I started to workout , i live with my parents now so i can't drop my bodyfat to seem more muscular since i have a fair amount of muscle mass naturally fortunately. I'm going to do engineering studies so i hope that the money won't be a problem. For the so called "game" part I don't have a clue for how should I start. And i was thinking a day that maybe the human being behaviour would change. Espacially the women's hypergamy since they don't really need the alpha any…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:35 PM
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Okay but why does they have to behave like that towards "weak men"? I assume that everybody that has the rp beliefs think that it's all biology but every fucking day we learn to don't let the biology dictate our daily lives. So why don't they do the same? Is that so hard? I got urges to fuck every nice ass that i see on instagram, school, street, do i impose myself on them because of biology? Of course not. And i'm fully consious when i feel good when i see them. So do they, so do everyone besid…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:01 PM
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Yeah you're right. Plus the fact that they think that just because they can have a brand new face with their magic make up that artificially and temporary improve their face that they have a bigger value than an average men. I don't get this. But fair enough they know generally how to dress pretty well but, we guys don't bother with that because at the end of the day we're the same with or without good fit clothes. If they didn't have any of these shit they wouldn't be "better". A lot of women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:28 AM
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Hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:32 PM
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