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I understand. Just cut those out that bring negativity to your life. If they don’t see you that way, then you’re better off moving on. I was in the same situation a long time ago and it didn’t get better until I cut her out of my life and met someone else.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 03:23 PM
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No need to become a villain. Just work on yourself and be the best you can be. Work out, develop real social skills, and work on getting a good career. Instead of caring so much about women, make more friends. You should try new hobbies and or do new healthy activities. A good woman will come once your life is on the right track. Women can sniff this shit from a mile away. It wreaks of insecurity. What’s attractive is a man that has a good life and knows what he wants. Definitely, don’t be frien…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 02:45 PM
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Sorry , but you're dead wrong here man. The US accounts for 70% of NATO's funding and most of the weapons sent to Ukraine. The US hasn't cared about Vietnam since the '70s and Cuba is just an afterthought now. Korea is still important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:36 PM
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So it's NATO arming a proxy to fight another power? It's even more than a proxy war then. I agree and it's the right thing to do , but let's not act like this is some far away war that the US isn't interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:47 AM
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Of course. But when the two biggest nuclear powers ( US and Russia) are engaged in a proxy war ( that’s what the Russo-Ukrainian war is. The US has basically supplied the Ukrainian military) then tensions are at its highest than the Cuban Missile crisis. If Putin, decides to use any kind of nuclear weapon in Ukraine, it’s WW3 and we’re all screwed. We are not far from annihilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:48 PM
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Given that we’re in another Cold War where nuclear war is a real possibility and economic chaos, yeah most of not all people feel like nothing matters anymore. So that’s reflected in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:17 PM
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I totally agree. That’s why nostalgia is popular in pop culture now. Music today seems like you put the 70s-2000s in a blender. Movies are the same too. Everyone in the West is just angry and bitter. People are much more distrustful and afraid of each other. That goes for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:03 PM
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Self improvement is not manipulation at all. That's a good thing TRP does even if how they say it can be problematic. What is manipulation is like telling your girl not have have an instagram because it is considered " cheating". Or deliberately targeting her insecurities to make her feel bad and then tell her compliments. Another one I've heard is never being emotionally vulnerable with her because it's the " alpha " thing to do. These are all tactics I've heard from guys like Fresh and Fit and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:12 AM
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I just do. We genuinely love each other and accept each other. I am who I am. She is who she is. We both have our boundaries and self respect. And it works well. I don't need to manipulate anyone. If you feel like you have to manipulate someone, they're not for you. I had an ex that was highly manipulative and it was very unhealthy. These red pill types are teaching cheap mind games that anyone that is somewhat intelligent can see from a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:56 PM
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Bingo. Basically this statement is the beginning and end of this conversation. These guys can just focus on their own mental and physical health in a healthy AND eventually get the results they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:21 PM
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I agree with some of TRP, but this is where it gets silly in my view. No healthy relationship resorts to manipulation and power games. Women also do this a lot too ( in past relationships I have seen for myself). You will be able to keep a woman around in the short term, but the relationships will fall apart. These power games are toxic. You will not find a good woman while acting like this. Any woman with self respect would reject a red pill dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:15 PM
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Abby is fine. I would annoy me if I were Jack, but if I’m Jack, I’m also doing the same. Explore all of your options until you’re exclusive. She’s just horny that’s all. Us men do the same. I just don’t wanna know about it. When you’re exclusive, then all the normal relationships rules apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:36 PM
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It’s not that women are the problem. If they’re not attracted to you, it’s because of you. Something about you is unattractive. It could be looks, social skills, or you don’t have your life together. But, you need to take ownership of your own shortcomings and try to improve yourself. Going overseas won’t change that. You’ll get rejected there too. And if not, many of those women are self interested and want to take advantage of a western man. They most likely want money or marriage. You need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:21 AM
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In my teens and early 20s, I was undateable. I’m relatively decent looking and I had some cute girls throw themselves at me and I either didn’t notice or I didn’t believe they would actually like me. I struggled with self esteem issues, so when a cute girl flirts with you subtly, you just don’t believe it. It also doesn’t help that women can be extremely subtle when flirting. You can risk wasting your time and getting rejected if you misinterpret their flirting, but you also risk losing out on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:09 PM
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Yes. The fact that she’s a single mother has nothing to do with it. I’ll admit that dating a single mother is not preferable. I’d rather date someone with no kids. But if I happen to fall in love with someone who has a kid, then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:25 PM
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Holy shit what kind of hateful garbage is this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:22 PM
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What if you actually love a woman and you’re willing to help her raise her child? Or is everything about “ chads” and “ Stacy’s” and cucks? Some people are just willing to sacrifice because they love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:21 PM
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Most men are able to attract women at least once in a while. If it was the way you say it is, then the human race would die off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:15 PM
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Women definitely enjoy sex. They do just as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:12 PM
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Women will send you signals that they are into you. It can be more than usual eye contact or they will speak to you first. It’s not that men don’t approach women anymore. It’s that the “ cold approach” is a lot less common because there’s costs to it. Now, depending on the situation, it may be justified or not. But, because there is a greater awareness to sexual assault and/or harassment, men are afraid that anything they say could be twisted into severe consequences for them. So us men think tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:54 AM
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This is a pretty awful view. Just having children and then abandoning women is indefensible. I understand that things happen, but “ making other men Step fathers “ is an extremely immature view and it’s hurtful both on the woman and the child. I cannot see why someone would see life that way,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:47 AM
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Zeta, Delta, Omicron
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:41 AM
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Are you being ironic here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:41 AM
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Blue collar workers usually are unionized and make pretty good money. The jobs are usually rough and women find that attractive. Now, service workers aren’t seen as attractive because the pay is low and the service industry is spit upon by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:03 PM
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Ideal woman would be: 1- Not religious or conservative. No right wingers. It’s fundamental to how you see the world and it just wouldn’t work with my values. 2- Easy going and happy personality. Doesn’t take life too seriously and can just relax and have fun. 3- I am physically attracted to her. I like all kinds of women so there’s flexibility there. As long as her face is pretty and she isn’t obese or extremely thin, that’s OK with me. 4- She has to be open minded with sex. It’s OK if we don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:51 PM
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TRP is an ideology that is a reaction to modern dating and feminism. There is legitimate reason for men to fall prey to this ideology. However like FDS, it is toxic in nature. I agree with your post that empathy and alternatives should be the reaction to FDS/TRP. Insulting people only hardens their positions. I believe that most men in the TRP mean well. Their isolation and lack of affection leads to a disillusionment with modern dating. If you couple that with the harsh nature of dating apps, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:47 PM
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Vaush said that it was gender norms that exacerbated the problem that red pill’s worry most about. He also said that it’s an excuse of Incels to not work on themselves. I think the whole dating app argument they use is a phenomenon that’s specific to dating apps. When you swipe on a screen and only have 200 characters of a profile, of course the most attractive people do the best. Reality is more complex than that.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 02:04 PM
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Vaush has a solution for the red pill problem when these red pill idiots spend most of their time worrying about it while Vaush barely thinks about it. Red pill is just right wing chauvinism for the internet age .
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 01:29 PM
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It’s pseudoscience BS. It’s easy to sell an ideology to vulnerable people. They exploit these men. They tell them it’s all society’s fault. It’s hard to be honest and own your shortcomings. Change is hard. But complaining? That’s easy. And their little red pill buddies just reinforce their worldview. They will never get women or the women they want. What they will get is attention and being part of a hateful community. They want that more than success in dating.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/21 03:02 AM
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The red pill is garbage. It’s based on lies and pseudoscience. It’s we’re a bunch of hurt men take out their pain on women. Its not gonna make you happy dude. You’re only gonna feel miserable
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 05:02 PM
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“ The wall” lmao. That’s just aging. You act like men don’t hit the wall either. When you age, it gets harder to be attractive. The red pill is just a cult.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 01:37 PM
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You’re not a dumbass. It’s normal to feel dumb after a bad experience with a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 12:58 PM
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The women that “ upgrade” while in relationships are the ones that aren’t for you bro. If by upgrading you mean that they get a richer and better looking man , then that woman was never going to work out with you. If you mean that she finds a man that’s more caring or is a better partner, then you need to address your own problems through positive self reflection and improve yourself. I understand the insecurity. I try my best in my relationship and I feel like there could be a guy who is just b…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 12:44 PM
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Someone was literally in his house though. Just to make sure his belongings are safe and this stranger is out of his house, he needs to go there. It’s beyond OVER with the chick though. Just make sure not overreact and make this situation isn’t violent or tragic.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 12:39 PM
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Being someone that has lost someone due to cancer, I know that being cheated on is an exaggerated fear.You can always recover from that and love again. If someone cheats on you, it’s their fault. Also, cheating is a symptom of larger problems. Maybe you didn’t do enough as a partner or maybe the relationship was built on a shaky foundation and was doomed from the start. Either way, infidelity pales in comparison to actual life and death circumstances.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 12:36 PM
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Wow a person that actually uses their turn signals.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 12:32 PM
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How about Queen Victoria controlling the biggest empire the world ever knew with imperialism and violence? Men have been in much more positions of power ( that’s unfair of course) so of course men have committed more violence. That doesn’t mean that women can’t be equally as shitty. What about women that were proud slave owners? I can go on.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/20 02:54 PM
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