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9

I'm so disgusted. He's 37 and he wants a woman 12-28 years younger than him?! Not only that, but he is not cute. At all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:01 PM
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My fiance is fine with me keeping my name and for me, it was a deal-breaker. He didn't know it was, though, and happily didn't care. I have degrees and a career he has nothing to do with so it seemed silly to put his name on things that I individually have worked for. So yeah, keeping my name, and he's fine with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:35 AM
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I love that men think our standards are all about looks. Goes to show what is truly valued by men in relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:39 PM
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I honestly physically cringe when I think of how I used to be. Big regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:49 PM
9

Exactly. I even said "if that's the person that you think I am, I don't see this friendship continuing." Sucks, but I have to look out for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:41 PM
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Exactly. I even said "if that's the person that you think I am, I don't see this friendship continuing." Sucks, but I have to look out for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:31 PM
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One of my friend's boyfriends came on to me after YEARS of them dating and when I told her, she said I was lying and trying to get with him, despite being in a happy relationship for a lot of years. So sometimes it's hard to tell and it's heartbreaking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:18 PM
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Honestly, like a fairytale. I was out with friends bowling, he was a friend of a friend. He said he saw me, and I smiled, and his world stopped, and that it was a done deal for him. Luckily, he's still as wonderful and loving as he was when I met him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:05 PM
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Oh, gosh, if only I could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:33 PM
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I actually thought the only one that looked good was Lisa Kudrow. That woman looks sensational, and I think it's because if she had any work done, it's the least noticeable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:03 PM
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Or or, they make supercuts of Amy Schumer "stealing" jokes, when Daniel Tosh and Dane Cook steal jokes all the time and no one cares and they're free to bang teenagers and no one bats an eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:12 PM
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This happens to me all the time! I can't tell you how often I'm talking to a man and he has to try twice as hard to prove he's funnier and/or smarter than me. And I don't even care if he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:07 PM
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Another thing I always like to point out, men pretty much exclusively joke about their genitalia or sex. But then when women do it, they're like "all she talks about is sex or her vagina." Like, ok dude. It's a gross double standard. To quote a guy I went on a date with "you're not hot enough to have an opinion on that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:03 PM
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Nora Ephron said it best: "Beware of men who cry. It's true that men who cry are sensitive to and in touch with feelings, but the only feelings they tend to be sensitive to and in touch with are their own."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:39 PM
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Everything he has is great. Someone called him a "simp," and he's like "you're not? How's that going for you? My wife is smoking hot and you should ALWAYS simp for your woman."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:54 AM
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Oh, I laughed at him and said "oh, my sweet summer child."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:34 PM
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Cause it's performative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:09 AM
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This happened to me once. A guy told me that he liked girls who wear no makeup. I asked for an example. He said "Kim Kardashian." Ladies, he legitimately thought Kim Kardashian didn't wear makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:30 PM
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This is a huge problem with men! As a woman who is funny and smart, men always have to prove that they are smarter and funnier. It never ends. Besides that, when you stop being polite, you learn that most men aren't that smart or that funny anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:19 PM
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Meth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:11 AM
22

But the fact that they have to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:10 AM
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As someone who lives in FL...the amount of signs you see like this is upsetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:47 AM
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Cher also said that Tom Cruise was in her Top 5 best lovers, and I think about that a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:42 PM
15

That's amazing intel! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:06 PM
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It's ok, such is life being a woman on the internet. I don't engage, just report and block, but I really wanna say: "I'm hotter than any woman who has ever looked at you, you basement-dwelling C-cup chucklefuck." But I'm a lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:06 PM
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Sadly, same. All I did was say it was so impactful and exciting to have a VP who is a woman, and I have been harrassed nonstop. It's insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:09 PM
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This! I made a terrible mistake posting my excitement that we have a woman VP in America now. It....did not go well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:10 AM
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Among many other really dumb things. https://www.ignboards.com/threads/steve-harvey-calls-atheists-idiots-follows-up-w-dumbest-criticism-of-evolution-possible.454359132/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:58 PM
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I can't stand a person who denies evolution. It's just the tip of the iceberg of dangerous thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:35 PM
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What's hilarious is people need a gimmick, truly. I am a certified mental health professional, and I didn't get any clients until I started calling myself the "Flea Market Therapist" based on how affordable I am and where I am located. People love a gimmick! 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:34 PM
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She has a great show on Netflix called The Duchess where she navigates her life in London with her daughter, and it's definitely for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:37 AM
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The gross thing here is the comments talking about how turned on they are watching this. Like, imagine getting that close to the point and missing it entirely. Men are monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:32 PM
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Here's the thing....people who are happy and doing the damn thing generally don't need to boast about how happy they are on social media. Don't follow everyone's highlight reel when your movie is still in pre-production. You do you boo! You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:57 PM
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Also, at least in some cases, the man now feels like you're gonna love someone more than him now. I mean, of course you are, that's your child you grew inside you, and he will never be able to experience love like that either, so it builds up hostilities. This isn't always the case, but some of my colleagues in the mental health field have reported this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:12 PM
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Ok I play video games and my BF does too, but there has never been a single moment where I needed him he didn't stop playing immediately. He also only plays for one hour after dinner when I'm doing my nightly rituals and I'm busy. So maybe not the best example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:00 PM
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Omg, just today I ordered lunch to be delivered to my office, and when I went back inside the delivery driver texted me and said "enjoy your lunch beautiful" like, jfc dude, like I'd wanna get with a guy who delivers people's food in a Honda Civic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:03 PM
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Queen of Degeneracy is indeed an apt name for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:11 PM
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This! If a man wants you, you'll know. Unfortunately "He's Just Not That Into You" is still a very accurate book. My boyfriend said he knew on the first night he met me that I was the one for him, so men know what they want, if they say they don't know, it ain't you, sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:13 AM
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I saw this happen on the comment section of FKA Twigs suing Shia Labeouf, saying she's looking for a payout or fame or whatever....disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:06 AM
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And yet, if you ask a man to trim himself a little, you're asking too much. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:32 PM
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Yeah, we don't need men to explicitly tell us they hate us. We already know. We've been known. At least we have the ovaries to be clear with what we say and mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:17 PM
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My favorite thing about this is it's gonna end up on MGTOW or theredpill saying like "WHY ARE WOMEN SO ANGRY?!!!1" with no regard to the artist or the original work. It's laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:38 PM
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This is why I say sexuality can't be a choice. Who would willingly choose to be attracted to men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:42 AM
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I had him pop up on mine too! I was like 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:09 PM
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I sent you a chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:18 PM
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I considered it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:43 PM
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Tell me about it sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:18 PM
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If I knew someone like this was teaching my kids, I would be rioting in the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:02 PM
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Oh, I 100% did. Part of me was trying to glean more information so I can report him to his school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:49 PM
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And like, yeah, I look much younger than I am, and it's gross every time it gets brought up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:27 PM
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Same! Thanks to this sub, I feel like a changed woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:40 PM
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So, his profile says he's 32. Idk how many of them are lying, but (not to brag) I'm 30 and I look great. He looks closer to 42. Men age like crusty socks. Oh, and guess what else? "Not looking to settle down." Ok, bud, on behalf of women everywhere, we appreciate you making it easy for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:39 PM
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I like how he thinks I look innocent so clearly that must mean I am unsullied by other men. No, dude, this is just my genetics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:51 PM
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After this, he was shocked that I used dichotomy correctly. This man is a special education teacher. Are you not horrified?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:47 PM
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I very much see that. Men are fucking nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:46 PM
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For me, it's that if men want to see you, they will make it happen. Tell them your plans, and they will come if they want to see you. Don't change your plans for them, because they will change plans to see you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:57 AM
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Oh, my dad is awesome. He told me all the time, as soon as I was old enough to retain it: "men are dogs, they will say or do anything they can to have sex with you. Don't give a single one of them the time of day. Let them work for it." He also taught my sister and I how to: change our tires, change out oil, change our brakes, fix a belt, how to fix sinks and toilets, among many other things around the house. The goal was that we didn't rely on men for anything. Now I am very picky about men I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:31 AM
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I had a dude like that and I just stopped texting him and it drive him craaaazy. Not so cool when it happens to you, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:28 AM
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