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| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupMany men consider themselves single when they're in a casual dating scenario or situationship, but the woman may think they're actually in a relationship. Meanwhile, in his mind he's single because he doesn't want it to go anywhere, though he hasn't bothered communicating that to her because it doesn't benefit him to do so. And emotional maturity. Men under 30 generally do not have the same level of emotional maturity as women. Heck, some men in their 30s still don't have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Do male and female PPD users use the word "women" differently?FYI he started talking about being exclusive before I did, but didn't want to pressure me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Do male and female PPD users use the word "women" differently?Lol, "doesn't have the option to date moderately attractive childless women." Grounded is the exact opposite of that statement. Men who are mature and grounded know how to handle complicated situations and not be thrown by them. They are confident and sure of themselves. They know how to read a room and work out the best strategy to navigate any situations that arise. They've done the work on themselves, for their own healthy self-esteem, and aren't afraid to express their own emotions, boundari… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Do male and female PPD users use the word "women" differently?I'm dating a very grounded guy who doesn't have kids. It's not an issue for him at all. And 100% yes, as people get older most of them will have kids, and you fall in love with who you fall in love with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 10:46 PM |
| 6 | Do male and female PPD users use the word "women" differently?I've never been into muscular men. I somehow always liked the rather thin and waif-y guys. Meatheads/overly buff guys never appealed to me in my 20s and still don't really. I wanted someone who was interested in culture, art, intellectual pursuits, avant garde ideas, etc. Meatheads tended to be overly concerned with physical superficiality in themselves and others. And apparently, I was considered good looking at that age (though I never felt like I was that attractive). I was/am not overweight … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Do male and female PPD users use the word "women" differently?Funny, I'm single and a mom, and I have zero issue getting a date. Guess I'm not "on the radar" 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What does “kind” mean to you? How are you not getting it in your present relationship? How are women “unkind” to you?Drink your incel kool-aid buddy, you poor persecuted man. 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What does “kind” mean to you? How are you not getting it in your present relationship? How are women “unkind” to you?No, for all of history, wives used husbands as source of free labor, resources, and fuel for their cuckoldry fetish. Now, we're both talking nonsense. Equality. Woah, you're deep in the incel nest! And men were beaten and abused by women, not coded into the legal system at all, since it was not a crime. See? Everyone can just come up with whatever bullshit they feel like and put it on repeat. Men could always choose not to marry, no one forced them. And they could legally choose to divorce. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What does “kind” mean to you? How are you not getting it in your present relationship? How are women “unkind” to you?Yes, open with this word; it will totally make everyone take you seriously. Thinking LMAO is a "word" will make everyone take you seriously. For most of history, men, husbands, were the ones who built the houses. And dug the wells. Houses were made from untreated wood, which is a perishable material, and had a wonderful tendency to burn down once in a while. For all of history, husbands used women as chattel, women could not maintain control of their own personal property, had children taken fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What does “kind” mean to you? How are you not getting it in your present relationship? How are women “unkind” to you?I am not interested in propagandist historical revisionism. Women initiated majority of divorces in the US as early as in mid 19th century. LMAO, I can't IMAGINE why, because men are so wonderful, do all their own housework without being asked and never abuse women. two NGO propagandists LMAO good grief, you've been listening to too many incel conspiracy channels. "One in three female victims of completed or attempted rape experienced it for the first time between the ages of 11 and 17." https:/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What does “kind” mean to you? How are you not getting it in your present relationship? How are women “unkind” to you?So, what would you tell a man who was a stay at home father with an abusive spouse who didn't treat him with respect or had affairs? Would you tell him to stay in the marriage or get a job so that he can divorce his terrible spouse? For most of history women had to stay with men they did not love or worse abused them and their children because they could not get gainful employment. A job means autonomy. It means someone can't control you by the pursestrings. It's one of the first things abusers … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:58 PM |
| 6 | Did you ever get to fulfill your wildest sexual fantasy?Well life experience is a thing. Curiosity is a thing. Not knowing until you live it is a thing. But experiencing something, knowing it feels very wrong for you and feeling gross afterward and choosing differently, is also a thing for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Did you ever get to fulfill your wildest sexual fantasy?I never wanted to actually live my fantasy. It's definitely better letting it stay a fantasy. I know I wouldn't be able to fully relax with it. It's just a cerebral concept for me that would lose its luster the minute it started coming true. I also know friends with open relationships, but I'm still not interested in being the "side" chick. I've always had pretty amazing sex. Relatively straightforward vanilla-y sex, with a sprinkle of kinky. I was married and with the same man for about 20 year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, how did you meet your significant other, and what made them/their approach different from the rest?Been seeing someone for about 5 months now from OLD and things are getting more serious. Took it very slow to start with zero pressure to get physical. He's incredibly emotionally mature and emotionally open. I feel emotionally safe with him, which I have not with most men I've dated or had relationships with. I make sure to provide that same safe space for him when he tells me very openly about heavy topics. He's just genuinely kind, thoughtful, supportive, responsible, and self-aware. He sorte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.Thanks for making my point for me! There are plenty of women dating guys they did not find initially attractive. The attraction happens when you know someone. There are so many examples of this. Look around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.Yeah because finding tall guys who are also good looking when you're a rich woman is soooooo hard. Don't bother telling me most women would find either of them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.How is liking someone's personality controlling??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive."You guys" - but I'm not a guy. Are most people sooooo hideous that they can't find one person who would find them remotely attractive? You are underestimating the emotional and mental bonds people can develop for each other. It changes how you see people. People you would not have dated otherwise, or who other people view as conventionally unattractive, you find something attractive about. Exhibit A. Pete Davidson Exhibit B. Lyle Lovett Fact of the matter is, most people aren't so hideous as to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive."Most women*" *Source: my arsehole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.You're "most women"? Is that why so many women do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.Actually, in this case, it does. Particularly if most women will go out with men that they don't initially find attractive but then get to know and fall in love with. Just because you can't doesn't mean it's "rare." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.And yet . . . Demisexuals and Sapiosexuals who can't get it up unless someone actually has an attractive personality. So many, MANY, wrong things with this post. https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/10vrv1x/its_official_im_some_kind_of_demisexual_or/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What does agreeable mean to you?Yep. I'm super affable and easygoing, but that reads like someone who may not be able to address issues and just wants a yes-woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What does agreeable mean to you?People who think that, have experienced abusive people walking all over their agreeableness. And it's insidious at first, then becomes more pronounced over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What does agreeable mean to you?It means don't question my decisions or actions. Don't disagree with me. Don't have any problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Men who are 50/50, how do you plan to compensate for child birth?I don't know how your marriage works, but if my spouse is going in after intruders, I'm right there with them using whatever means necessary to defend us both. I would not leave them alone to face god knows what in the other room while I cowered in the corner. And I don't know about you, but if there's an intruder in my home, I'd have zero trauma from doing what is necessary to stay alive and safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a man wanting his woman to remain physically fit in a relationship is a reasonable thing to want?However, I do believe that many men do not comprehend what 50/50 really means. The phrase, "Just tell me what needs to be done," comes off as "I've already relinquished all responsibility for keeping track of this house - that's your job, and if you want things to get done, you have to tell me like an employee or a child." For women, having a real partner means not having to tell someone to empty the trash when it's full, or having to tell your co-parent what needs to be done to take basic care … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 08:43 PM |
| 5 | Do you think a man wanting his woman to remain physically fit in a relationship is a reasonable thing to want?It's reasonable, ONLY if you do half of the childrearing, half the household duties, laundry, cooking, cleaning, every single day and, Voila! She's got more time to care for herself mentally and physically, workout every day for an hour, get her hair and nails done, and feel good and look good. Can't do that? Hire a maid, a nanny, a chef and a chaffeur for the kids for their soccer games. You don't get to have a working spouse, paramour, nanny, chef, chaffeur, and a maid for free. You have to ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 04:39 PM |
| 8 | Do you think a man wanting his woman to remain physically fit in a relationship is a reasonable thing to want?Can confirm. If you do half of the childrearing, half the household duties every single day, voila! She's got more time to care for herself mentally and physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 04:33 PM |
| 6 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?Well stated and 💯 true story. Size doesn't make for pleasure. The desire to please, communication, and enthusiasm make for pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you like the opposite gender?My oldest friend is a man I met in HS, he's like family to me, and I've been friends with lots of dudes. I'm pretty good at giving off bro energy so that they know I'm not into them. I have an amazing son that Im raising to think for himself, express his feelings constructively, and to question all the societal and cultural bs we all get fed. I like guys for a lot of reasons but there are soooo many selfish, immature men, and a fair number now that hold such sexist and misogynistic views towards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 11:24 PM |
| 4 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherRomance is activity that people do for each other as part of dating and being married. There's literally no entry fee to being romantic and doing romantic gestures. You don't need to be physically perfect to be hot or make a ton of money to be romantic. Literally, zero barrier to entry there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:05 PM |
| 3 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherFor many reasons, it's far more likely the numbers are much closer together than cultural gender biases would lead us to believe. 1) Sex Differences in Counting Strategies. When asked about one's number of past sex partners, women tend to enumerate or recall each and every past partner individually (Bill, Ted, Tony, Tim...), whereas men tend to "guesstimate" or give a rough approximation using large round numbers (around 10). Studies looking into this counting-related phenomenon have found when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:18 AM |
| 19 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherHumans are great at causing their own misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 03:50 AM |
| 3 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherActually, that's just what's reported and likely not the truth, due to over inflating by male respondents and minimizing by female respondents. What's really funny is #9 and #10 in these surveys. https://2date4love.com/average-number-of-sexual-partners/ In most sex studies, the reported number of sex partners by women is by half lower than that reported by men. (IPSOS) Given the fact that between genders, heterosexual individuals are represented by roughly the same share, this frequently encount… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 03:49 AM |
| 22 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherWait, so "ugly" dudes deserve to "get" "hot" girls because they want them, or they'll be depressed and lonely forever, and people should feel sorry for them? The utter lack of maturity and awareness here is astounding. The valuation of women purely as objects that need to be "hot" for guys who are self-described not physically "hot" or, in this case mature either, is RICH AF. So instead of learning to view women as individuals, get to know them and develop attraction to normal, average-looking, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.Well even de Waal notes that the original term was coined initially to discuss wolves and used in many subsequent studies throughout the 20th century. It entered pop culture most recently in 1982, but the wolf imagery was also pretty popular because dudes would rather compare themselves to wolves than monkeys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.The alphas in those studies have mastered the art of nurturing and leading by exchanging favors through various political alliances with surprisingly weaker portions of the tribe. It's not at all some kind of real dominance game. It's far more like politics than some kind of mating ritual. Primates understand that you have to treat others well and be kind to gain any real power. But the terminology does come from wolf studies as far back as the early 1900s. https://www.ted.com/talks/frans_de_waa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.You may date the 28% of liberals that don't care to scratch the surface, but on apps and in other attributes, there's a definite profile, even if you never discuss it. It kind of oozes out in the foods you won’t eat, the shows you watch, the brands you buy, and other habits. And a number of women I know won't bother with men who don't discuss politics at all because they know right-wing tactics of avoiding the topic. Instead, they'll just goad them into revealing things like how wonderful Biden … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.They're not afraid to be single and would rather be alone than with someone who would take away their bodily autonomy or who perpetuates rigid archaic models of gender in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Women ghost after sex just as often as menDon't really care. Doesn't take away from how amazing it was. Now, if we were talking Brits, I might agree. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Women ghost after sex just as often as menUntrue! That one night in Spain says differently. 🔥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Women ghost after sex just as often as menIt could be bad sex, or it could be that she was not ready for a relationship at that point. Same as anyone else. It really just depends on the woman and her ethos around sex, whether she's looking for a relationship, enjoyed herself, etc. Believe it or not, a woman may have several LTRs and then a ONS, a short term relationship, then another LTR, etc. You start a relationship when you're in the right emotional headspace and a connection is present, woman or man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Women ghost after sex just as often as menBased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you expect women to be less picky with you while you stay picky? Why not adjust your perspective? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYI wonder if everyone's mom is using it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:05 AM |
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