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| – | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenI think being able to get female attention has always been praised in one way or another. It may look different today, but I dont think its ever been fully frowned upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:25 PM |
| – | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenA lot of children were born out of wedlock!!! Im pretty sure a lot of kings had more bastards than heirs. You SERIOUSLY need to go look up some history. A lot of average men, depending on society, would have had a wife and access to brothels or their equivalent. Poor men simply didnt have access. Using someone who doesn't have the option doesn't count. Im sure if they had the option, they would have. Im talking more about human nature, not the person's circumstance. I am telling you, this world … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenI urge you to look up "Quiet Historians" on YouTube and search other historical channels. You are quite wrong. Men have been incredibly perverted from what seems like the dawn of time across cultures. We might even be tame now compared to some of the shit I've heard from these YouTube channels. I think it's biological for men to find sex to be so important, and there are social ties to the biological drive. King Ramsey in Egypt had 14 wives and hundreds of concubines. Definitely not a Western so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:09 AM |
| – | Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men?Yes, I've changed since I was 18?! Are you crazy?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenCelebrities aren't created equally. If Beyonce and Jay Z split, for example, that would be a more equitable divorce. Not saying they will be happy, but they are somewhat fairly yoked. And those adopted children still came out of a woman. Thats my point. A woman had to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenLosing stuff in a divorce doesn't count because if you pick a partner who has just as much as you then youre not going to lose a bunch of stuff. Divorces aim for a level of equity and if you have one party who is a high ambitious learner and the other doesn't have a job, of course he is going to lose a lot. That is a choice he made. He could have picked a different partner. Yes, having children is a choice but that is a choice only women have to make. If children are wanted by anyone in this wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:43 PM |
| 2 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenMen have less at stake than women do. Im not really sure why men thing otherwise, but they don't have less. Assuming the end result is marriage, the couple will likely have kids. Who bears the burden of having kids? The woman. Whose body goes through all the changes? The woman. Who is now seen as "less than?" The mother. Whose career is likely taking a hit? Most likely, the woman. What do men have at stake? Men are expected to be providers... okay? Him working in a relationship is attractive. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men?This is so predatory. Leave younger people alone. Going from being under your parents watchful eye to "on your own" within the span of a year does not mean you know shit and its gross that you try to justify it. Thats why people look back and usually chuckle at themselves in their 20s and even their 30s. They know they lacked the knowledge and experience they have now. Knock it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Being horny is not being lonely.Do you prove my point then circle back with womansplaining. Lmfao. Like you just stated, you can still be lonely while getting sex. Sex does not cure loneliness! Stop the BS! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:02 AM |
| 1 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.It's not. When you go into a situation with a curious mind instead of an accusatory one, it is completely different. We obviously cant express tone over the internet but I was genuine in my question of why multiple women are nagging you and even added that I know some women do nag just to nag. But multiple women is a pattern and its fair to ask deeper questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 08:11 PM |
| 0 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.If a woman was getting beat up by multiple men as an adult at different times she is part of the problem. Even is the problem is she is drawn to abusive men. There is something she needs to take accountability for to change this. The same goes for men that complain that they keep dating gold diggers. What is about him that causes him to keep choosing those women? Is he going for really hot materialistic girls? Maybe he has a mommy wound. Victim blaming is telling someone they are at fault for a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.Honestly, if a woman was getting beat up by multiple women I would actually think she either is the problem or part of the problem. That goes with anything. Assuming she is an adult, I would have additional questions for her for sure about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 08:03 PM |
| 0 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.Why are multiple women nagging you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 08:02 PM |
| 2 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenIm asking for education. Your response didnt do that. Its not about what I think, its about what I deserve. Touching genitals doesn't give you a deeper understanding of someone. You won't know them any better. The elements that are involved in connection are not there. Now sex with someone you ALREADY started connecting with is different. But its all the other stuff that lays the foundation and sex is a culmination of everything that happens outside of the bedroom coming together. Sex on its own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men?No, but it indicates it, and someone who is younger hasn't had the same amount of time to learn and grow as someone who is older, which is why it is predatory. Younger people are less likely to see red flags and have a full understanding of the situation they are in. That was my experience. It is predatory. There is nothing you can do or say that will convince me otherwise. Couples with huge age gaps are predatory, and the best I can hope for is that it is mutually predatory for both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 07:58 PM |
| -1 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.Also, most people don't start off nagging. You get to that point. And the fact that more than woman woman has gotten to this point with the other commenter leads me to think its more than just a woman nagging to nag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 07:53 PM |
| -1 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.He said womEn.. plural. If multiple women are nagging him I think its fair to ask more questions. If multiple men were having the same problem with me it would be fair to assume I am or at at least part of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 07:52 PM |
| 0 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.It's not victim blaming if multiple people are having the same reaction to you. Where's the accountability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 07:51 PM |
| 1 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenIdk if that counts as biological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Being horny is not being lonely.False. I dont feel lonely because I have plenty of friends and I don't fuck any of them. Lack of sex is not directly linked to loneliness otherwise sex workers would cure that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 07:48 PM |
| 3 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenAh! Sex with someone you already love. Meaning sex with someone you have already connected with. Yes, I fully agree that sex is not involved in the actual connection process but do think it brings people who are already close even closer. But most men don't operate like this. They want sex after the first couple dates if not the fist one. You cant know someone in that amount of time. I could easily pretend to be anyone for a couple of hours. So can you educate me on that as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 03:18 PM |
| -5 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.🤣 I can't with some of these people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 03:14 PM |
| 5 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenI fundamentally think one of the big reasons for sex is a way of connection and understanding another person. This is more of that PR the other person was talking about and im going to start calling this mess out. Can you please educate me? Can you explain how you feel connected to someone when you have sex? And I mean specifically thay person? How does touching their body and either being inside them or them inside you make you feel emotionally closer to this person? Can you explain how sex giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 02:53 PM |
| 11 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenA lot of us are happily single. The problem is a lot of these issues impact our lives outside of simply dating or being with a man. There seems to be a growing level of random violence towards women. Maybe the media is just focusing on it more. Maybe it is growing. But as someone who is happily single, I am very concerned about that. A lot of what I've read and heard suggests the increase in random violence is due partially by women starting to opt out of dealing with men. Some of us are even wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 02:47 PM |
| 8 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenI dont think it is. I see a lot of men lose all motivation to the point of not even wanting to be alive over this. Your body wants to keep you alive. I think this is extreme social pressure and maybe some ego in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 02:41 PM |
| -2 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.Ohhhh you may have called yourself out on that one. I fully agree that some women nag to nag... but it seems like this is common for you. What are you doing to make multiple women nag you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Being horny is not being lonely.Loneliness is not caused by a lack of sex. That doesn't even make any sense. You don't make any sense. Notice how you also changed the word from hunger to loneliness... even though you clearly misspelled horniness/lust. Hunger is caused by a lack of food. Lack of sex means you are horny, not lonely. Im pretty sure people who use sex workers do not get their loneliness "fixed." Nice try, though. Not having a partner can cause loneliness, though. I agree! Look at that! The broken clock got somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 02:36 PM |
| -1 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.The problem with this mentality is sex is all most men really care about. Men don't seem to care if a woman is high earning, as long as she has a little something. Men don't seem to care about her accomplishments. Men don't seem to care about talents of skills of women. Men may care about cooking and cleaning, but those are acts of service which would make them just as much of a user as you are talking about AND cooking and cleaning isnt likely to happen any time soon AND a woman who cooks and c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men?It does matter. Not everyone has the same maturity and it can be predatory. Turning a certain age doesn't magically prepare you to deal with certain scenarios. As someone who used to be in an age gap relationship, its predatory. My ex was very predatory and took advantage of my lack of experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men?Maturity gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Being horny is not being lonely.Im sure you think you did something there, but you didn't. Hunger is definitely caused by a lack of food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Being horny is not being lonely.Depends on how you go about it, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Do women even want to meet men?Relationships are conditional. You cant expect participation without reward. Every living thing operates this way. I dont care what people think about me as long as im getting what I need. I cant pay my bills with opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?Im not sexually attracted to women, but I'm down to have a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Polygamy is actually very ineffective as a reproduction strategy for humans.Since the world is very modern now I cant say for certain, but from what I've read the problem is we are mixing patriarchy with polygamy and youre also being selective with your example. Let's be honest here, Elon Musk could have 30 baby mamas and fully provide for them. Those women would be better off with Elon than being 1:1 with a poor man in terms of resources. So quantity matters here. Also, in the cultures I've read about that were polygamist, everyone worked together. You couldn't really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyIf passport bros took the opportunity to learn the culture, attempt to learn the language, and respect the woman, I would fully support them. Unfortunately, most of what im seeing is sex tourism, and using those women as objects and their poverty makes them more susceptible to it. The other reason im not a fan is I think it's dangerous for men. Im second generation, and if I heard a man going to where my parents are from, I would be nervous for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?Juice has to be worth the squeeze for me to use my energy for it. I've never seen a man I had to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men?How much younger? I'd be grossed out once the gap is more than 10 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | People who believe women can’t love men move the goal posts of the definition of “love” or “true love” in a way that allows them to maximize self pityLove is conditional. The sooner we all accept that, the sooner we can move forward accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:57 PM |
| – | Why are women who talk about 'decentering men' still using male owned businesses?Decentering men is about putting myself first. If using a male owned business benefits me, hell YES I will be going to that store. Decentering isnt a protest against men, it just means my wants and desires are first and I live my life for me. If there is a man that has something I want thay benefits me I am all for that interaction. As soon as it stops benefiting me it gets cut out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:50 PM |
| – | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Like I said, thay shouldn't be a DATING requirement. It has nothing to do with women. Men should seek that out on their own whether they are single or not. And what the hell do you mean by unsafe? Are women harming men who show emotion?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Being horny is not being lonely.I dont don't know what study she is looking at, but last I checked it was 1 in 3 and that including everything from moderate verbal sexual harassment to rape. So, idk. Thats just what I've seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Do women even want to meet men?The ONLY reason I would get into a committed monogamous relationship is if the man was generous with a lot of money. That doesn't mean I might not want something super casual at some point where we hook up a couple times a month and live our lives outside of that with minimal contact. Im not backtracking. And the amount needs to be a lot based on the area we are in. I cant throw out numbers without context. If I say a man who makes 500k a year, I sound ridiculous. But if I tell you I live in San… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:56 AM |
| 1 | The idea of "settling" is male projectionDads more involved than ever. Okay. So that is a comparison statement... If they are more involved than before, that don't mean much consider the gender roles. I want to see equal participation. Then let's see what the data looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Being horny is not being lonely.The man vs bear argument has nothing to do with quantity. The question is would you rather be alone in the woods with a bear or a man. That's it. Its a 1:1 ratio. The thought behind the process is women accept that the worst outcome with the bear is a painful death. Women cant even begin to imagine the hellscape that awaits them with men. So picking the bear limits the hell they may experience. Realistically, both the man and the bear are likely to leave her alone unless it's a polar bear and ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 02:06 PM |
| 2 | The idea of "settling" is male projectionThis isnt true at all. I am in women's spaces regularly and I believe the number one complaint now has shifted from money/communication to an imbalance of household chores. Yes, some millennial women do not know how to cook. A lot still do. I do. I also clean. I also work. I definitely had an imbalance of work in my relationship. Thanks God I didnt have kids. Leaving my useless ex was the best thing I did for my life. I have LESS work and stress with him gone. That shouldn't be happening. The ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 02:01 PM |
| 6 | Do women even want to meet men?Exactly. I would not enter into a committed relationship without money being part of the equation just as im sure most men would not enter into a relationship if sex was not part of the equation. Otherwise, it's wasted energy. Having a hot man around isnt going to make my life easier. Me spreading my legs for a man isnt going to make my life easier. Me liking a man isnt going to make my life easier. None of those things will feed me, house me, clothe me, or quench my thirst. If it does not have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:55 AM |
| 5 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostIm not romanticizing anything. I am bringing up facts. We were hunter gathers before farmers, especially on a macro level. A village doesn't have to be large but it is more than just the immediate family. And idk what you are using as a metic of success, but if the society no longer exists as it was, it failed. And me wanting to live with the group depends on my circumstances. If I was a mother, then I would as I do think "it takes a village" is accurate and beneficial for children. Otherwise I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:52 AM |
| 0 | Being horny is not being lonely.Does it improve what? Child abandonment should be classified as abuse. My point is that of course women abuse children more when they are around them more. Last I checked I think something like only 4% of households don't have mom present but closer to 15% - 20% don't have dad present. So... ya. I would have to agree that women would abuse them more considering men aren't even around. But if we did count abandonment as abuse, I wonder what the results would be. And the bear vs man question is st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:47 AM |
| 7 | Do women even want to meet men?Im celibate, so... no one? I dont intend to engage with men. I dont see the point. I was just saying the only way I could see myself engaging with a man again is if he is generous/has a good amount of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:42 AM |
| 2 | The idea of "settling" is male projectionYou do you. It feels pretty good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:40 AM |
| 2 | The idea of "settling" is male projectionRevenge is better than sex. Best thing I've ever experienced in my life thus far. 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:34 AM |
| 2 | The idea of "settling" is male projectionIt wasn't. And I got my revenge with more on the way. It was a good lesson and im glad I learned it young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:24 AM |
| 5 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostEstablishing paternity was not as essential as you think. A lot of communities just take care of their own. There are cultures where brothers would take one wife to avoid splitting up the land. They usually wouldn't even know who the dad is and probably didn't care. They wanted to keep their land in fact. Kinship is important, but thay would be happening in a lot of these villages. So paternity wouldn't have the issues we have now. Not to the same extent. Also with people tending to look like ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:24 AM |
| 0 | Being horny is not being lonely.You have to actually be around kids to abuse them, so... there's that for the dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Being horny is not being lonely.I think the stat is 1 in 3 women experience some sort of sexual misconduct, which includes rape. I dont know about rape itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Being horny is not being lonely.It kind of makes sense that women would try offing themselves more in a patriarchy, though. What's going on with men with that? Also, what's up with the type of violence men inflicted on others? Happy people don't do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Being horny is not being lonely.How do men show love? How do you feel it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Being horny is not being lonely.What do you mean romantic relationships CAN fail? Most of them do if you include bf/gf and marriage. I've had some friendships for over a decade. I've only managed a few years in a long term relationship and it should not have even been that long. If people made different decision, friends could buy places together. Its something one of my friends and I have discussed for plans later in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Being horny is not being lonely.I think OP means actual sex. Wanting a relationship is a form of loneliness but a lot of loneliness is explained as a lack of sex online. And I agree that's not loneliness, that's just being corny. If you want the full relationship, not just sex, then I agree that is loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Being horny is not being lonely..... but it is, though. That's how hunger works. Your body is signaling it needs food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:08 AM |
| 2 | The idea of "settling" is male projectionA lot of women don't fully understand the expectations and the dynamic of a relationship. I was one of those people. I did not settle for my partner. He also didnt show me who he really was until it was too late. And then all the damn work I had to do. Dead lord. I got the hell out of thay shitshow. Had nothing to do with settling and everything to do with ignorance and manipulation on his part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:02 AM |
| 2 | The idea of "settling" is male projectionYoure missing the points about all the work that is expected of women. I wouldn't care how hot a man is if im always cooking, cleaning, being a human incubator, and popping them out. That doesn't mean I settled for my partner, that means im burnt out. I would want to see why the women are dissatisfied instead of just stating they are. The lack of sex also doesn't mean anything. Referring back to the above, I'd rather sleep than have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:00 AM |
| 4 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostThat's not true. Reproduce for what purpose? What's the point? To continue the species? Okay? And then what? What's next? Whats the point of that. Whether there are traces of me here or not, it does not matter in the grand scheme of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 05:56 AM |
| 4 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostI dont think you know much about humans historically. Humans typically lived in villages. So the notion thay children were on the brink or survival is not true. More specifically, children tended to be raised by villages of women. Some cultures had an equal mix of men to women, some had a few men to many women (which by the way seems to favor biology. Men are significantly more fertile than women and could have tens or even hundreds of kids in their lives, while a woman would be lucky to have ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 05:54 AM |
| 1 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostPretty privilege? Do you mean your friend is hot? That explains it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 05:46 AM |
| 6 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostNo you didnt. You just listed some wonderful accomplishments! Having a woman or not should not define your accomplishments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 05:45 AM |
| 6 | Do women even want to meet men?Having standards is a good thing. Good for you!!! I think a lot of relationships breakdown because people settle and then start to seek the attractive person in porn, work, really anywhere. You won't have that problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 03:15 AM |
| 8 | Do women even want to meet men?But im not, though, because I don't pursue men for money. Im not pursuing them at all. Im just saying that is the ONLY reason I would date one. People expect to benefit when they enter a relationship. You would expect sex in a relationship, right? So, do I call you a sex-digger? Like, wtf. This isn't a charity. If someone is in a relationship, they should benefit in any way they see it as long as it is consensual. If you want to call me a gold digger that's fine, but im not using anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 03:12 AM |
| 12 | Do women even want to meet men?Yes, but only to myself. I dont really deal with men at all. Im just saying that is the only way I would entertain a man at this point. Not much different than men's expectation of sex so I would appreciate you not being a hypocrite. Women like resources for biological reasons. Men like sex for biological reasons. Let's not shame. 👌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Do women even want to meet men?... idk, a few years? It's an IUD, so low hormones. I didn't notice any changes since it was put in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 09:41 PM |
| 10 | Do women even want to meet men?Birth control. If you're going to imply it affects my libido, it doesn't. I just take care of it myself. Something has to be worth your energy for you to go get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 09:38 PM |
| 17 | Do women even want to meet men?I can't speak for all women, but honestly, no. I don't really don't see the point in being in a relationship with most men. The only thing I really care about right now is money. Unless a man is willing to offer me a lot of that, I don't have a use for him. It just sounds like id be wasting my time and energy to be left unfulfilled. I get my emotional needs met by my friendships with women and sex is usually meh so im not interested in seeking it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Yes but women don't get up in arms (as a whole) when being told they need therapy or to connect with their emotional side. Men do. In fact a lot of these responses that I am assuming are from men are talking about men being told to be like women. No, not true. Emotional intelligence is a trait that will help with self-control. Self-control is a maturity trait, not a feminine or masculine one. I've never seen large groups of women getting defensive about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | You should sleep with a woman before taking her out on a dateThere are several issues with this. You don't seem to grasp the concept of supply and demand. Imagine you are looking for a job, post your resume online and then have 50 employers reaching out to you asking you to work for them and they all offer various salaries and benefits for slightly different, but mostly the same type of work. You would likely string some of them along too and may ghost others and be indecisive about a few and you may even decide to not go with any because if the market is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 06:12 PM |
| 11 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.The difference with that is a lot of men seem to deal with a lot of anguish from not being in touch with their emotions. That shouldn't be a dating requirement, that is something men should do for their own benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone been personally harmed by the tea app?The consequences of the defamation are low, though. Yelp allows businesses to get reviews, which can directly affect how much money they make. How is this worse than that? The odds of several people telling the same lie are slim to none. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 07:58 PM |
| -1 | Has anyone been personally harmed by the tea app?And this is why I think these apps are more good than bad. The argument is essentially hurt feelings vs actual danger. Danger wins and the apps should stay. If anyone's business/earnings is being affected by lies then take it to court. If your dating is being impacted... oh well. You aren't entitled to anyone in the first place and its usually the men that get SEVERAL women saying similar things. One or two people shouldn't impact your dating experience unless they are saying some absolutely cra… | /r/MensRights | 22/07/25 05:29 PM |
| – | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.Single would mean not looking for a relationship. They would probably say celibate if that is what they meant as that is single and no sex. I've never seen a woman whose intent was to stay single complain. The ones you are talking about tend to be women who happen to be single, but want a relationship. I dont even see men who choose to be single complaining. That doesn't even make sense. And men and women aren't the same so you can't look at them the exact same way. I'm sure the study was critic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.You're bringing up a completely different issue. I have NEVER seen females be violent. Ever. Not ever. Not even once. Has it happened? Probably. Can you show me where you've seen this, because I've never even heard this before. But it's well known that incels have promoted violence. I don't need to convenice anyone. The only reason why I couldn't link to it is because all of their subs have been banned or privates to my knowledge. The crime thing is a random thing you brought up that is irreleva… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection..... where do you see women choosing to be single complaining? It doesn't matter if single women can still hook up or not. That's not really her problem that men are still sexless for whatever reason. She is still overall happier single. Even if that's the main reason why, then so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.Only the last bit is an issue. If a woman can get money out of a man who gives it to her, that's perfectly fair. I wouldn't call it rape of a woman slept with a man and it didn't turn into a relationship like she wanted. She consented to the sex. The man freely paid for the meal or gave the allowance. I have never seen women talking about robbing men at all, let alone with a weapon. I won't say it doesn't happen, but that's incredibly rare. But the incels who promote violence are not rare. They'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.The only reason why incels are looked down on is because of their tendency to promote violence. Like, I've never seen anyone talk down about MGTOW even though they are tangent to incels. It's because MGTOW isn't violent. I also know there's a mix of men who can date but choose not to as well as men who struggle to date, but overall, not violent. And I've genuinely never heard anything bad about them. Only incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.Statistically speaking the overwhelming majority of people in relationships are of similar economic status so the men should stop capping about that. That's simply a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.There's a difference between someone who has made the decision to be single and someone who happens to be single because they simply aren't in a relationship currently. Between the men and women that have made the decision to be single, women tend to be happier statistically speaking. People actively trying to date don't really have the mentality of a true single person with the intent of staying that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 04:57 PM |
| 6 | How can I stop seeing myself as post-wall?Babe, a 22 year old can't even compete with herself. Time comes for us all. Have you seen some of these 40 and 50 year old ex tradwives being tossed out and replaced with 20 year Olds? Can you imagine? Unless someone has a fountain of youth, the only difference between you and them is they aren't there YET. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/24 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.... you are having one night stands and expecting a relationship?! You've skipped like 10 steps? You need to get to know someone. Find common ground. Compatability is important. Friendship. Your dick isn't going to keep anyone around. Dick is abundant and therefore low value. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Financial imbalance in relationship causing insecuritiesI always hate bringing up my past as it causes me trauma, but I hope it can help someone. My ex rushed into a relationship with me. He was much older than me. There were also financial red flags, but better hidden... or maybe I was too naive to notice. To cut to the end, he had major financial issues on top of unresolved trauma from his past that I had to deal with. Things got fairly scary for a minute. It turns out he was trying to financially scam me. We had a joint bank account and he hid the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/24 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areThis is underrated. I do believe a lot of men are unattractive BUT it's due to their beliefs on care. There are plenty of men that is they practiced regular hygiene, got decent clothes that worked with their body, hit the gym, ate better, Had a skincare routine, got a haricut/style that suited them... that could easily move 2 -4/5 points but they just won't. So I do think men on average are less attractive than women but it's their own doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areHonest question.... Men care about a woman's drive/finances? To what degree? I've heard from men they don't care at all... they don't even factor it in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 02:43 PM |
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