CantAbsolveMyself Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	What kinds of women have you guys struggled to attract the most or done poorly with? Nerdy/cosplay/geeky/weeb girls! First they get a ton of attention. They are super defensive since they get creeped on all the time. They have a lot of options. And a lot of them are gay or say they are. Yet i am so attracted to them. I think the very reason they are so desirable is the same reason they are so hard to get.	/r/seduction	27/01/19 06:06 AM
1	Do everyone a favor and make the first move No guy is worst than me. Iam terrible	/r/seduction	02/12/18 04:36 AM
-2	Do everyone a favor and make the first move What? She;s with someone else. Congrats you did her a favor. NEver ask girls out. because they can get better guys than you	/r/seduction	02/12/18 01:40 AM
2	Women need to ask men out more That would be incredible. Iwould want to love in such a world.	/r/seduction	27/07/18 01:21 AM
10	Women need to ask men out more IKR	/r/seduction	26/07/18 11:24 PM
13	Women need to ask men out more No offense but here is the world's smallest violin. This is pretty much what it is like for a man. Either ask out more guys, date girls, or stay alone.	/r/seduction	26/07/18 11:24 PM
3	Women need to ask men out more No he isn't	/r/seduction	26/07/18 11:23 PM
14	Women need to ask men out more I'd still prefer it if they just said they liked us outright.	/r/seduction	26/07/18 11:22 PM
2	Women need to ask men out more They should but they don't.	/r/seduction	26/07/18 11:21 PM
1	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. Sigh. You know another friend of mine just went on a instagram rant about how creeped out she is by men. I hear this all the time. Especially from my cosplay friends. She is literally the most chill person I know and has always been really flirty with me so I don't know what to make of this. And honestly I just never want to be around another woman again. :(	/r/seduction	04/06/18 11:31 PM
1	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. Thanks. Sorry sometimes I get so frustrated. I've tried and read so many books and everything and I'm so lonely. Honestly though I get too chicken and caught in my own head. But honestly women seem to really not want to meet guys. I mean just today in one of my fb groups all people were talkinga bout was sexual harassment and how men to need to stay tf back, and only girls can hit on other girls. It makes me never want to try.	/r/seduction	31/05/18 02:34 AM
1	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. I can imagine a lot baws	/r/seduction	30/05/18 02:43 PM
1	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. I DONT GOT TIME FOR DAT I would be so scared to wear that. What about an actual shirt with peacocks on it.	/r/seduction	30/05/18 05:37 AM
0	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. I can't imagine this. First, as a man, I am literally never bothered. NEver. Not ever. EVER. This sucks to the nth degree since I just feel invisible and unwanted. Its worst since I'm an extrovert that craves social interaction and love and attention. If people constantly bothered me, I would be ever so happy. I think this is why I used to love teaching, since students would always want to talk to me. I was wanted and it was incredible. In the very rare case that women talk to me they are always…	/r/seduction	30/05/18 03:40 AM
3	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. Not sure what you mean. But it isn't obvious who is single and who isn't. Besides, single girls have so many options. I can't see them as anything but annoyed by guys that approach them.	/r/seduction	30/05/18 02:07 AM
6	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. I mean but every girl always talksa bout how terrible and creepy guys are and how they just want to go out and have girls night out and never meet us. besides they have so many options. If they have just a simple hobby they can meet guys. Or go to any random bar any night and get hit on. Or go to ok cupid and get 100 messages a guy. Just they get so many offers no matter where they go. Why would they ever want to talk to a rando creeper like me. I can't see it.	/r/seduction	30/05/18 01:48 AM
2	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. You'e never seen me dude.	/r/seduction	30/05/18 01:45 AM
6	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. Like every guy I know thinks most girls are out of their league. Me included. That is super weird. It always feels like there is someone out there for a girl, but guys are left in the dust because we are weird, ugly, and creepy. sigh	/r/seduction	30/05/18 01:44 AM
3	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. omg teach me please. I can't do that. I'm so afraid they think I'm a creep	/r/seduction	30/05/18 01:43 AM
1	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. My dude. I think you took this comment the wrong way.	/r/seduction	30/05/18 01:42 AM
10	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. Really?! Why don't they ever say or indicate this. My girl friends always seem to want to never meet men. We are always so unwanted and creepy. sigh	/r/seduction	30/05/18 01:41 AM
1	[deleted by user] I think I get what she is saying. Guys initially come and just want sex and that isn't interesting. But, if she is emotionally invested in someone, she will be down for sex. Women can be bad at communicating what they want. It is up to us to read between the lines. When women say they are annoyed by guys just wanting sex, you can still get through that by being charming and offering some kind of experience. It doesn't take much. Just talk a little and enjoy the process. You need to do something …	/r/seduction	25/02/18 07:27 AM
3	Picking up girls at anime conventions. Yeah I think I get this now. I also realize that it is harder to approach during the day since a lot of them are mid photoshoot. What do you want to do. Film me. I mean if you can teach me to be more confident I am open yo.anythong!	/r/seduction	19/02/18 12:04 AM
1	Picking up girls at anime conventions. I'm a massive feminist. I don't see what socialism has to do with dating. That is interesting about activites i will think about that.	/r/seduction	18/02/18 10:24 PM
2	[deleted by user] Honestly though. With all this, what is the point in being in a relationship? If I am going to be an oak or a rock, it just sounds like a lot of giving and receiving nothing in return. So why stay with someone? What do they give you?	/r/seduction	24/09/17 07:11 AM
3	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. I think you are biasing for attractive women. Maybe 8s and above can F any guy they want but 7s and below probably have a harder time. In addition, some guys really are super attractive. The reason I say this is that we, as men, also screen for women. But for us it is more prescreening. And women don't approach us. We actually make the choices just as they do. But it isn't as if one gender has access to more sex than another.	/r/seduction	06/08/17 01:20 AM
3	THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit. I can sort of confirm this. I have made out and grinding with a bunch of girls because I can dance. And some even have gotten my number. BUT, I am insecure at all other times so it didn't lead to lays.	/r/seduction	21/07/17 05:00 AM
1	How can I have an attractive lifestyle at age 22? I like to dance. I like makeup. I like being cute. Also a lot of girls like tethys, lalum, and xianghua inspire me. Ionno. I feel like life is short and I want to be a dancing flower fairy with sparkles and magic. I do other stuff. And I cosplay other things. Currently planning Exia, Orga, Laura Rolla, Shinra. I'll probably do more male cosplays in the future. I have this crazy idea to rent an audi R8 for Nyx from Kingsglaive. And I don't know. I'm super busy with my carreer rn. But in the futur…	/r/seduction	11/04/17 05:30 AM
1	How can I have an attractive lifestyle at age 22? Dressing up like cute anime girls	/r/seduction	11/04/17 03:11 AM
1	How can I have an attractive lifestyle at age 22? Shit I'm 30 and I want an attractive lifestyle. Right now I am hunkering down to further my carreer. But deciding what to do in like 2- 3 years to be super awesome. Any ideas. ?	/r/seduction	10/04/17 05:03 AM
2	Can a 32 male date 18-23 year olds? 30 year old hear. Been hoooking up up with 18- 20 for like 2 years. I love it. In my experience, just make them feel comfortable and be charming and they will be attracted to you. And you have more money / freedom than any guy in thier age range. Super big advantage. But yeah they are great. I am so not about settling down. And they just want to have fun. Its a perfect union.	/r/seduction	10/04/17 05:01 AM