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Cantloginhere/r/seduction29/10/16 10:38 AM
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Cantloginhere/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 11:08 PM
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We legit need a video of you getting this reaction to critique. Alternatively could be something like halitosis.
/r/seduction11/11/18 01:27 PM
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Most people have a real fear of psychology not really sure why, I find it fascinating but you don’t have to take everything said as fact, just stuff to try and have fun with. It is just verbal kino. Some noteworthy technics IMO to build attraction and an emotional bond are taking conversations to a deeper emotional level. A good tip to do this without coming over too needy or confrontational yourself is to divorce it from you with a preface of something like ‘I read in a magazine that... So I sa…
/r/seduction21/09/18 08:19 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUFY8Zw0Bag
/r/seduction02/09/18 06:33 PM
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Been acting like I don't give a shit for years. The only interest I get are from women that weigh more than me, and I'm 80k. Sounds like 'Just say hi Dude' advice to me. http://i47.tinypic.com/5s9y8.jpg
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 04:49 PM
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These are NLP conversational commands. You are Ross Jeffries and I claim my $5.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 04:50 AM
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What's a tall boy, some sort of euphemism?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 08:53 PM
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Depends what it intentions is. Aim for seeing if they have the same sense of humour.
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:33 PM
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Some great titles listed. Here are some (other) old time classics to add to the list that expand the mind. The Naked Ape. Games People Play. The Interpretation of Dreams. Lateral Thinking. 1984. I Robot - the Asimov short stories one! The Outsider - Albert Camus.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 12:48 AM
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Ask her to bring some friends.
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:48 PM
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Petshop? Google day bang pdf.
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:29 PM
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Jesus how many shill accounts do you have?
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:12 PM
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Also from personal experience, SMV for men does increase with age standing still simply by maintaining your BMI (and ideally hair). Competition falls by the wayside but another primary variable in the figures is women are perfectly happy to date 20 years up but only 5 years down. That's a big spread that puts middle aged men in the best position to capitalise on the dating market.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 02:54 AM
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Day game is the real man's game. And just like video games you can respawn unlimited amount of times.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 11:45 AM
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TV, movies and especially video games satisfy desires for achievement, they'll also give an easy dopermine hit that becomes addictive. All from the comfort of your armchair. The reality is you've learnt and achieved nothing and your life will stagnate if you don't restrict exposure.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 10:01 AM
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If you want to be more confident and interesting take up some manly pursuits, weight lifting, rock climbing, shooting etc.
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:54 PM
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It's not my OP so I don't have to provide links to anything. Learnt about bell curves 25 years ago and don't need a refresher thanks. But for those that do the figures should be in context, men this and women that is not good enough.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 11:55 AM
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Your examples are a bit all over the place. Hunter gather societies which is how humans lived for a gazillion years didn't have a very high fertility rate. Rather than empathy a better description might be fairness. While men did the providing women will have done the sharing of the spoils. A disposition to fairness would see everyone in the family getting enough. You also need to provide some numbers for context. Are all women more empathetic, twice as much as men, ten times? Or is it no differ…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 12:26 PM
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Fake it till translates to practice and become familiar. Familiar things don't make you anxious.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:15 PM
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I can't argue with that, the only solution is to challenge it.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 10:25 AM
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Does this sub dislike female imperatives? Those that advocate plating seem to say very little about fidelity, only mention information on it in the context of interest in them waning. The side bar makes known hypergamey, it doesn't seem to judge. There are many AWALT posts on that back of that which have an undertone of resentment, but this sub is called the Redpill for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 07:59 AM
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I bet they get more than most.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 09:21 AM
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Yeah that's why I said one notch more formal instead of always formal e.g. throw on an Oxford instead of a t-shirt.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 11:33 PM
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https://youtu.be/HoPwqkyhYk8
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 11:29 PM
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Bin the jeans and t-shirts, women find men in their 40s most attractive so why dress like a student. Leave print for the ladies, stick to classics. Suits and jackets make women wet, at least be one notch more formal than all the other guys. You'll be the best dressed in the room.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 11:25 PM
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Makes me depressed when people think white male privilege is something to aspire to.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 11:08 PM
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What does a liberal progressive feminist want?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 09:58 PM
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Feminism exists because distribution of roles and responsibilities between genders that worked well for one period in time became no longer necessary (because technology like you say). And half the population being resistant to change, as is human nature could not let go of tradition. This is also importantly in the context that both genders have historically been severely oppressed. Feminism was part of a wider wave of individual and group liberation from that oppression (working conditions, hu…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 12:58 PM
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It is inevitable that everyone will be mixed race one day, all societies will go through westernisation, feminism, shrinking population, and probably become one country. You'll be dead by then anyway so stop worrying about it.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 03:42 AM
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'Some' women. Most are not feminist at all, 40% of women voted for Trump. Just like men they vary, aptitudes and attitudes overlap between genders too. Wanting equal opportunities is not penis envy, it's just being fair. Having said that feminists wanting quotas and unfair advantage is wrong, but that's just an inevitable minority of people looking to gain advantage, not 'women'.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 03:16 AM
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I don't think so, the studies I've see show little difference in teens. Ones for adults vary, either no difference or with the flatter wider bell for men, at least in mathematics.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 03:01 AM
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Not sure about embracing rejection, accepting it is a better approach. 95% of rejections are you are not what the're looking for (or not looking at all), not that you're not good enough. Accept that, and also they are most likely looking for the wrong thing. The remaining 5% is buy some deodorant or smile more.
/r/seduction08/08/18 12:47 AM
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Doesn't sound like you have done out wrong, based on what you said anyway. She likely has toxic friends, you should tell her that. If it isn't that maybe she just went cold, it happens especially when you like them a lot unfortunately. Regardless say you are cutting all contact no friends BS because you had deeper feelings but are now moving on.
/r/seduction03/08/18 07:06 AM
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It's called game rather than sport because unlike for example track sports where you cant train to be the best and win every time, it is more like a game of poker. Some poker players are better then others so there is skill and strategies, but fundimentally it is a game of incomplete information and subject to chance. You are never going to win every hand. So my point was it is a little narcissistic to assume you are able control the outcome of every interaction with a woman. You have no idea ab…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 01:49 PM
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Maybe... it's not just all about you.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 04:11 AM
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Fairly sure everyone got extra time, but the motivation was to help women get top grades. By all accounts it only helped those at the bottom get slightly better results.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:54 PM
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This is fake news for sure, did you read the other link where 'professors' want to redefine physics because of white male privilege? Apprently 'the laws of nature' imply a male law maker indicative of the white patriarchy. I kid you not. This either a troll site or spoof.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 07:39 PM
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Google it, maybe you've been programmed. Lift the curtain.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 09:45 PM
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I can never find it but one similar Buddhist quote I read once was along the lines that enlightenment is the acceptance of others / the world without feeling the need to change them / it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 09:41 PM
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Would recommend psychedelic truffles over LSD, mushrooms are good too but dosage can be problematic. Truffles can be ordered by post (Europe anyway) with instructions and are more controlled. Even with very small doses that just feels like you had half a bottle of wine there are observable beneficial effects on the brain that last about 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 08:58 PM
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This is hardly news and the main reason most women don't identify as feminist. IME those that do are either living in the past or have some grievance with a man / men. I would add that a lot (not all obviously) of women are naturally very entitled, more so than men and not to be confused with ambition. For example just walking down the street I notice they will expect you to move out the way for them, not think to hold a door for you etc. Feminism plays to this feeling they are special. I also g…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:57 AM
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https://archive.org/details/princemac00machuoft
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 09:20 PM
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Took this on holiday last year and was somewhat underwhelmed. The historical stuff was interesting but is hardly a page turn'er and certainly no masterclass in manipulation like it is sometimes portrayed. Most of it just seemed like common sense given the times they lived in. Marcus A Meditations is much more Red Pill but also hard work to get through. Graeme Green is a better choice or classics like The Naked Ape or Games People Play, old but still insightful.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 08:30 PM
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Whatever you say will sound weird and creepy with the wrong body language and tone. Those are more important than what you say. It takes years of practice to fake them so don't bother. Just focus on having happy genuine intentions and your good to say anything.
/r/seduction24/07/18 01:58 PM
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Economic migrant is a bit of a blanket term. While there has been net gains to the economy through more traditional and controlled channels in the past, the jury is still out on large numbers of asylum seekers and refugees.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 12:23 AM
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Best way to get a girlfriend at college is to hang out with couples. Get to know the girlfriends and I guarantee one will set you up with another shy girl they know.
/r/seduction22/07/18 10:50 AM
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Women value comfort, men value sex. But if either are given too freely you're instinctual labelled slutty and low value.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:10 PM
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buy a squat rack/Power rack and Olympic Weight Set Finally decided to splurge on both yesterday, delivery this week. Watch Dr. Layne Norton Literally stumbled on that an hour a go too. But to tell you the truth his form looks really bad like he's over loading to impress and bending too far forward. And he doesn't come across that well. Maybe it's the 'storage wars' editing. I've an old back injury from yes, squatting badly. Can you recommend anything more 'serious' for want of a better term?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 10:29 PM
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http://www.beyondtalk.net/fractionation/
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:33 AM
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D- Demonstrate Value E- Engage Physically N- Nurture Dependence N- Neglect Emotionally I- Inspire Hope S- Separate Entirely
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:30 AM
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Pfft, start slow rambling is fine focussing on now. Be low beat and comfortable, build some rapport. Don't get personal till at least 5 mins in. Then start with some stories, make them up if necessary. Not to impress just hint that you have a life, but mainly to evoke some emotion, take on a journey. Once she's involved make your excuses to leave with her wanting more, but ask for number obviously.
/r/seduction13/07/18 11:09 PM
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Be more original, better yet forget the compliments.
/r/seduction13/07/18 09:36 PM
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I know a girl with red hair, every couple of hours someone will walk up and insist on telling her how much they like it.
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:17 PM
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I concur, this lust for anorexic's is fuelled by the media which in turn is sourced from the catwalk. The catwalk 'models' are fashion designer's fantasies, which is why they all have the body of a 14 year old boy. GAF.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 04:21 PM
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You will feel comfortable with a girl with less sexual history than you. So your options are up yours or put more effort into finding a virgin.
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:35 PM
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Agree on experience but no harm in learning from other's too.
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:34 PM
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Day Bang is a template for indirect street.
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:33 PM
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Maybe you are being too direct which is fine for night game or your interactions are too short, another difference between the two. Day game is about selling your self as interesting rather than f closing. The latter comes off creepy daytime and you have to be subtle, almost mysterious.
/r/seduction29/06/18 03:41 AM
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Step one be a woman. Step two be attractive.
/r/seduction29/06/18 03:30 AM
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Fetishes result from personality disorders. When you're young (and normal) a hole is enough. The older you get the the more baggage you will accumulate. Just give it time.
/r/seduction29/06/18 03:25 AM
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I knew a guy who fed off catching up with old class mates for years. But pinning your hopes on one specific person doesn't usually work out, it's a numbers game.
/r/seduction29/06/18 03:08 AM
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Where I work there​ are two organisation tiers fairly low paid relatively dirty ops work, and office based. As you might guess there's a problem recruiting women into ops. When the annual company the pay gap figures came back it was like 15% in favour of women. The 'women's network' was triggered big time, after much hamstering and finally accepting they were not 'plain wrong' they decide they are skewed and must be adjusted. Arguments ensue and one guy says that it is men that need most help to…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 12:58 AM
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It's not fuckerounditus it's idiotitus. The average person is not that bright and half of them are less so. They don't have a clue and won't try to learn. Go ask them some questions about their routines, oh how you will laugh. One I hear a lot is they don't want to use heavy weights because they don't want to get too big. Like that's ever gonna happen, lol.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 09:13 PM
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Looks make it easier for reasons I will explain. But they can also make your own expectations higher too. On a looks level only, everyone wants a partner a little more attractive than they are. Mutual attraction occurs when both think they are getting a good deal. You can compensate with personality and status but people also have certain tastes when it come to looks. You need to find that more attractive person that has a taste for your look and style. But another thing to consider is that good…
/r/seduction24/06/18 12:32 AM
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For real? Women are by far the most privileged in modern society. Social Bias - Stay at home mom, fine. Get a job, any job fine, in fact you will find plenty of women's networks to help you. Police always side with women. Men get heaver prison sentencing for same crimes, women automatically get child custody etc. Health - Live longer, work less, less likely to have a work related accident. Less likely to be victim of violence, but try to find a men's shelter in your town. Women and children firs…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 11:35 PM
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This. Plastic containers (bottled water), food wrappers. Hormones in meat and dairy. Animal waste used as fertilizer entering water supply. As a result men are full of estrogen. It's not a mystery, it's proven.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 10:38 PM
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Just think about the next guy. The one who is a lot shallower than you and cares less about her but has more self confidence than you. Think about him banging her, that should help.
/r/seduction09/06/18 11:18 AM
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Agree that looks can be overcome, but let's start with the fact women rate 80% of men below average looks. To get away with just no red flags even the average woman (a 5) is expecting an 8 to 10. If your not 8+ you need to offer something in the personality department, and I don't believe IDGAF is going to cut it. IDGAF dozens of women a day, it doesn't help.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 08:34 PM
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They are just camp extraverts, it's like cat teaching a dog to meow "just be more cat bro".
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 10:19 AM
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And are physically attractive... Not caring 'being yourself', DGAF, abundance etc, does not get results in anything, anything. At best it might remove some self defeating obstacles. But for your average Joe it's bad advice.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 09:24 AM
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Some of Tom's are fake, actresses, doesn't detract from the content that much but it's there. The boot camp ones on you tube seem more genuine if a little cringy. Would like to see more indirect methods showcased.
/r/seduction28/05/18 01:03 PM
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Seeing as most posts are 'move on' let me expand. Shit tests are good, you have passed test 1 (looks). Fact is women have options, more than men, especially attractive ones. For evolutionary reasons genetically they are hardwired to seek out higher status mates at the very least higher than themselves. Aren't we all... but for men looks and hygiene about does it. For women they want someone more alpha for want of a better phrase, a leader, someone more important, or at least the potential to be …
/r/seduction27/05/18 12:30 PM
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It's a shit test about who's time is more valuable. The only way to pass is to let her know yours is. Sounds like you failed.
/r/seduction27/05/18 10:34 AM
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To look more masculine workout, lower body fat, dress and act accordingly. Wear less androgynous clothes preferably black. There are a few movies in which guys transform from nerdy to edgy with just hairstyle, clothes and body language. Christine is a good example.
/r/seduction27/05/18 10:20 AM
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His father being beta is a bit harsh. He was whoring around himself till he was in his 30s then spied his current girlfriends 19 year old virgin sister a (Taylor swift lookalike of the day). After knocking out a couple of heirs he picked up where he left off with mistresses.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 02:13 PM
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I like the Taylor Brad analogy, I would choose the lookalikey. Then again is that because I want to be the dominant one? Another thing to consider is that if I was a rich as Harry I'd have banged hundreds of Taylor's already. So his head might be in a different place to you or I.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 12:05 PM
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There is opportunity in chaos and no one is forcing you to live a certain lifestyle. What's your problem?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 09:29 PM
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So I googled, the actual studies in this vary from testing 15 Mongolians to world wide sampling. Interpretations of results vary too including ' twice as many female ancestors' i.e. 50% women 25% men being propagated as only 25% men had children. The 1 in 17 results related to a specific turbulent point 5 to 8k years ago as societies were transitioning from hunter gathers to farming. This is the first point in history you can really get wealthy, and support more than a couple of children. Before…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 12:35 PM
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This 20% of men bred thing just sounds like a total croc. I can imagine a high mortality rate for males and the old back door guy, but it still doesn't add up. There are plenty of stone age tribes in the Amazon etc. But this is not apparent in any of them? Even prima nocta would not account for those numbers.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 10:42 AM
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Man hands 😊 they act like they don't care, takes about 2 days for them to come up with you having girl hands.
/r/seduction06/05/18 07:40 PM
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Bet her that Dustin Hoffman was in Star Wars, the loser pays for dinner.
/r/seduction06/05/18 04:17 PM
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Go out every night, make it a habit. Get 3 or 4 different sets of friends if necessary. Second thing clothes. Don't underestimate the importance and go your comfort zone. Always be the best dressed, good style is a chick magnet.
/r/seduction05/05/18 09:57 AM
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White slavery was a thing too you know. Everything from next doors tribe, Roman society, Vikings to industrial scale slavery ports in North Africa, the Ottoman empire, and up-to-date just a couple of hundred years ago. How does that fit in with your evolution? Truth is its social economic and culture that's the issue, on both sides. Which takes a dozen or so generations to fully eradicate and achieve full integration.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 09:20 AM
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Read this at least 10 years ago and used it for my work spreadsheet to-do list ever since. Spend 5 mins in the morning adding new stuff and re-sorting with a macro. Then crack on with task A1. A's are meant to be today's jobs but I generally have too many A's of which I manage to do half of. B's are 'not yet' that urgent. Sometimes move an A to a C if waiting for someone else's input. Makes you way more efficient. If I didn't do this I'd waste all day doing the easy stuff and stressing about wha…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 09:40 PM
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Lot of posts saying they've seen this before, I have too plenty. But ever notice how in the movies it never works out like this? The mother always re-marries a CEO with a big house who somehow is a beta that doesn't have to spend much time at the office. The ex husband lives in a bedsit and pines after her. Guarantee that was what she thought was going to happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 09:16 AM
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"A man without a plan, is not a man." Friedrich Nietzsche
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 10:34 AM
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The only thing wrong with you is you have social anxiety, your post screams it. On the plus side it sounds like that's the only thing left you need to take care of. So focus on that, read some ways to get that in check, there are plenty, NLP, meditation, baby steps etc. Do some reading write out a plan, commit. Give yourself 2 or 3 months to nail it. You can't change who you've been most of your life because some guy said just 'dgaf'. Takes time and effort to reprogram your brain.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:52 PM
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As alluded to someone famous once said all complex things can be broken down into a series of simple steps. Buddhists say your path to the top of the mountain is only visible in its entirety when you reach to the top. Another similar theory I've come across is the brain is a problem solving machine, all you have to do is feed it questions and wait for results. But it's a blunt instrument, 'you are what you think' and for good mental health you need to make sure you're asking the right ones.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 10:23 PM
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You practically described a mentoring scheme. Suggest that one will benefit the company.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 04:36 PM
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Majority of jobs get filled internally and are often not advertised. Try getting a foot in the door further down the ladder. You can still continue applying. Or try networking and sending CV to companies on spec whether they are advertising or not.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 04:32 PM
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They are more akin to self flagellation and nearer an indicator of a disorder than a discipline.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 11:42 AM
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In the workplace men generally easily organise themselves into a text book definition of heirachy (a system in which members of an organization or society are ranked according to relative status or authority). I'll avoid being blatantly rude but ration my attention of subordinates and prioritise cos I have to get shit done. I'll prioritise demands of anyone higher up the chain and respect their authority. Exceptions might be the lower status guy or gal that demonstrates some real competency in w…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 10:33 PM
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There are loads of ways to instill attraction, improving appearance is good place to start. NLP tricks like fractionation, being interesting (stories), push pull, touching, being more manly, invoking strong emotions, talking about you as a couple, qualifying yourself with other women, being good at something, mysterious. Do some reading, start with the art of seduction. People are biological robots subject to stimulus and response, just don't expect a 100 percent success rate.
/r/seduction18/03/18 10:44 AM
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Be sensible. Meetoo means don't escalate in the workplace, that includes servers etc. Just ask out before getting physical. Fair enough IMO.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 06:40 PM
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I did an A Level a few years ago and no one mentioned them as laughable. As far as I know psychoanalysis is still a thing?
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:01 PM
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I have noticed that the US has a very warped opinion of Freud. Presuably this is a non-secular brain washing thing. His theories are groundbreaking. There is a lot of insight to be learnt from his books.
/r/seduction06/01/18 03:48 PM
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Alpha is not the biggest guy in the group, hasn't been for about half a million years. True some women will still use size to make a judgement without any other info to go on, but first impressions are superficial. Once hominids developed language, the first thing they used it for was to make a pact to take down the the silverback together and divide the spoils. That's how intelligence evolved. That and cooperation is why all the other human subspecies mysteriously vanished. Alphas are not jacke…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 09:12 PM
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My advice would be break it down into more than one encounter. Guys get scared easy and freeze up. Make conversation, keep it light then walk away. Go back another time or later when they have gathered their thoughts.
/r/seduction07/10/17 12:50 PM
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I mean women don't like needy men, they are attracted to mysterious independent ones.
/r/seduction30/09/17 01:07 PM
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Failed the potential stalker test? Got a better offer, busy, family emergency, lost phone, who knows. Try calling?
/r/seduction30/09/17 01:00 PM
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This is my local rag: http://www.yorkpress.co.uk/news/15142043.Misogyny_now_a_hate_crime_in_North_Yorkshire/?ref=rss MISOGYNY will now be considered a hate crime by North Yorkshire Police. In July last year, Nottinghamshire Police became the first force to classify unwanted sexual or verbal advances towards women, including catcalling and wolf whistling, as hate crimes, in a move to tackle sexist abuse. The crime will be defined as any criminal offence perceived by a female victim or any other p…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 09:08 PM
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This is already a law in the UK, I don't know whether to laugh or cry: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-nottinghamshire-37405732 Martha Jephcott, who has trained Nottinghamshire police officers on how to deal with misogyny as a hate crime, said: "Recognising misogyny as a hate crime is important because it acknowledges the world in which women live and the everyday nature of these sorts of incidents." Fifteen police forces will attend a conference in Nottingham on Wednesday, looking at the p…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 08:49 PM
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Just stop doing it.
/r/seduction16/09/17 01:56 PM
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Stop viewing women / people as individuals and open the door to social mastery. Specifically I am referring to cold approach and there after. Consider this, people are a sum of DNA and experience and more alike than anyone will care to admit. In modern times you will find people living the same narrow mirrored lives side by side. The odds of a unique reaction to almost anything are very low especially within demographics. Humans are sickeningly predictable. Start viewing women / people as the sa…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 04:48 PM
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Both sexes have the same skin tone until puberty at which point males develop more melanin. Females don't because they require more calcium and vitamin D during pregnancy. So across the races paler is imprinted as more female and darker as masculine. This explains why darker men are also seen as more masculine.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 06:47 PM
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This is depressing as hell.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 12:35 AM
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IMO women's shit tests are about status and shame stemming from deep insecurity. Both want sex it's biology. When guys interact with a women they naturally think 'would I banging her?' and that's pretty much where it ends for most. For women the question is slightly different, 'what would my friends and other people think of me for banging this guy?'. They verbalise potential criticism in the form of shit tests to verify their doubts and world view. This gives you the opportunity to draw her int…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 08:00 AM
1

Sounds like you are too much of a nice guy with girls you like a lot? Also, try to be a little more mysterious maybe, skip the life story till after the nuptials.
/r/seduction17/08/17 12:03 PM
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Most of this is misogyny and borderline personality disorder, not RP. You may need help.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 10:01 AM
1

Your post on desires was insightful but I disagree with this one. Realty is not as subjective as you are suggesting, if at all? The means of perception have no bearing on the truth of realty. All sensory inputs have a physical source. The evolutionary aim of consciousness is to predict cause and effect by allowing a predictive model to be created in our minds. It only gets complicated when we try to predict the future actions of other people because data is incomplete.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 01:52 AM
3

My take on this is it's a bit like sleeping. Make a habit of skipping it and you won't function well, extreme deprivation can lead to a mental breakdown. But 24hrs a day is hardly productive either. If only there was a 'middle way'...
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 01:31 AM
1

First off space isn't really empty (not even outer space), everything is just a big soup, of various types. Simarly is focusing on now really just a different method of thinking, one which produces less stress related chems, or allows more clarity of thought? Or a more instinctual mode? I wonder if there have been any scientific studies that show this as advantageous.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 11:01 PM
4

This is literally the opposite of mindfulness and what the OP is suggesting lol.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 10:53 PM
5

This is how I think I kid myself I look in casual but smart mode, which is most of the time. Add about 15 years to the model's age though. And less chest showing. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/22/89/6d/22896d14acb56ce6feef75755b86490d.jpg Black, grey and blue combos with black or brown belt shoes or boots are best options. I aim to stay with classic looks. It associates you with established icons and fosters familiarity. Hands down get most attention in public wearing a suit, es…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 03:57 PM
-1

'Extremely extroverted' translates for me as 'annoying'. Maybe this isn't a gender thing and you just need to chill a little?
/r/seduction08/08/17 11:48 AM
2

As soon as he started using 'on average' he was digging his own grave. Same with trying to bring in politics (why?). He had real numbers to hand, should have just presented them.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 11:32 AM
1

TBO you can pick up whether to move on to Kino easily from their eye contact.
/r/seduction08/08/17 06:27 AM
1

Classic push pull innit u idjut. Listen to other's conversations, naturals do it all the time, it's called flirting. When you get a little rapport going use the same technic to plant sexual images in her mind.
/r/seduction07/08/17 05:33 PM
-1

Wtf, hands and shoulders at meeting, back, upper arms on first date, 8 hours for 'intimate areas'.
/r/seduction07/08/17 01:10 PM
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You gotta sandwich it and fractionate. Hey, I know hot girls are dumb but i need some advice.... Wow nice legs, but those shoes suck, etc. Or throw it in between random sentences. Always balance it and never wait for a reaction. Obviously nice shoes but your legs look fat won't go down well so temper the push back ;/
/r/seduction07/08/17 12:49 PM
1

Get mad thinking of all the uglier and stupider guys banging women you should be because they dgaf. And are laughing at you. Also, don't anticipate having to do all the work. You want a woman to submit to you, if they don't show signs of that by contributing to the conversation, move on you are wasting time.
/r/seduction07/08/17 10:08 AM
1

All you need to do is say hi and smile. If they smile back it will be buttery. If they don't, nod and move on. You can worry about conquering the difficult ones once you have a few easy runs under your belt.
/r/seduction07/08/17 09:09 AM
1

Good title, steeply down hill from there with flawed logic and jumping to conclusions. Annoying overuse of the word odd. 3 out of 10, sounds more like belongs in shower thoughts.
/r/seduction06/08/17 03:57 PM
2

That sounds like good advice. What would you tell the fat guy?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 02:37 PM
2

Your problem is you are applying macro advice to the micro. There are too many random variables in play to anticipate having a definitive answer for specific circumstances. You can't expect to win every hand of poker but that doesn't mean you should give up on a tested strategy.
/r/seduction05/08/17 01:51 PM
1

Who here hasn't seen a Melvin with arm candy and thought WTF. Yeah kid yourself he's loaded or built like a donkey. Two things actually 'Trump' everything in this world, entitlement and motivation.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 01:36 PM
1

This is categorically wrong on both fronts.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:00 AM
-1

She's paid to be nice you, don't be that guy... Hospitality workers are off limits.
/r/seduction10/07/17 11:43 AM
1

Those all the things Buddah was opposed to. Suggest you do some reading.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 11:57 PM
1

Yes it is a survival mechanism of the primal brain. But realising that they are a projected illusion, focusing on the present moment and viewing the situation rationally will subdue them.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 04:55 PM
3

Buddism is not a religion in fact fairly anti religious. And it teaches that freedom comes from letting your fears go, not facing them.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 04:50 PM
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Tldr: Attachment leads to grief. Siddhartha promotes detachment because all things are fleeting (it just your turn). This will free the mind to become conscious and fully enjoy life. He gave up his princess wife, the throne and his young son, in order to reach a permanent state of bliss.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 07:32 PM
1

I'd say yes. The thing about meditation is it's a bit like exercise, its not working out that makes you stronger, it's the healing between workouts. So don't expect revelations during, the benefits materialise later.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 09:53 AM
1

[quote]How do I train my brain[/quote] Imagine a situation in the past when you were feeling likable and confident, visualise it intensely. Now pout your lips. Do that once a day for a week, then every time you are feeling needy pout.
/r/seduction12/05/17 11:00 AM
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There is an example and more context here: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5yviv6/stop_trying_to_prove_to_women_that_youre_a_good/?sort=confidence
/r/seduction29/04/17 03:43 PM
1

Imagine they have a dick, unless you have a thing for trannies. Makes you less outcome dependant...
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:11 PM
1

Have you even watched it? It's a love story between two men. No homo but sometimes I think that gay men might be the only ones that can find true love.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 01:30 PM
3

The Fuck Sandwich. Drop something sexual in between sentences. You don't have to get a response, just a statement will do then say the next thing. It will create an sexual image in her mind and she will associate you with sex. That simple.
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:57 AM
1

Brokeback Mountain is about Men not women. Also, the entire OP can be summed up as the desire to be important, a primary human motivator (Freud). The same motivator behind both your post and possibly the anecdotes.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 09:49 AM
7

Its horses for courses, the below vid is an interesting insight into how different women perceive the same thing, and it's impossible to spot who will react how. Be interesting to see correlated with the menstrual cycle. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQslJWKeS2M At the end of the day you will never win a lottery if you don't by a ticket.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 09:25 AM
1

Re 2. As an older guy the only time I get attention from younger women walking down the street is when I'm suited and booted.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 07:46 AM
1

Isn't all liquid viscous?
/r/seduction07/04/17 10:52 PM
1

You need to switch the power balance, clearly she is the one in control. Best done by resetting the relationship. Women have goldfish memories so easy for the past to be forgotten. Start by going completely cold emotionally, do things out of character, dress a little different / better, and present abundance. Be more aloof, stand her up, stop sharing info, go silent etc. After a couple of weeks she should start being the more submissive and seeking your validation. From there start turning on th…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 10:13 AM
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There is the possibility she thinks you will be jealous, and or is letting you know she is sexually desired. Women are messed up like that. They see Chad banging other women as upping his smv and mistakenly believe guys think the same way. When in fact a woman talking about another guy or being a slut actually has the opposite effect.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 12:54 AM
1

What do you mean track you down, find out where you live? If so then why is that so bad, also takes about 5mins on google with basic info.
/r/seduction20/03/17 02:28 PM
1

Sounds like you talk to girls the same way you talk to guys. Friendzoning yourself. Try to be more confrontational with women to spark some attraction. With guys it comes off as being an asshole but women see it as confidence. That's why so many date assholes. You only need keep it up for the first few dates.
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:29 PM
8

Worked with a guy once who had an Asian wife, by all accounts she was hot but older, had a daughter nearer his age than she was. But Asian wall is somewhat different. Married her to guarantee a green card. Worked all hours to pay off credit cards she constantly ran up, debt agencies calling up most days. Supported her through college. As soon as she qualified he had to drop everything because she wanted to move to the city and be nearer her daughter's kid and find job. Bluest thing I ever saw.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 07:00 PM
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Funny this should come up today, was at a Beatles museum earlier and the film footage of literally hysterical girls, thousands of them, at the concerts, airports and even in the streets was a real eye opener to female psychology. Another weird thing was that right from the start the one with the biggest fan base, especially with Americans was Ringo, WTF. Ringo hardly fits the alpha male stereotype, perhaps explained by the fans age, picking the least sexually threatening? Another nugget was inte…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:52 PM
2

While much of the OP is true the only real way to overcome anxiety, for anything in life, is familiarity. There are no tricks that will help in the short term. Repetition creates comfort, practice results in skill, that is the long and short of it. It will be hard at first and may take six months. Plus like fitness, gains will be lost if you take a long break and lose momentum. Set goals, have a plan, work at it, that's what winners do. Also, who doesn't like being on a pedestal? Women are weird…
/r/seduction26/02/17 09:19 AM
1

Have known girls get their friends to come on to me in the past as a 'test' of fidelity before.
/r/seduction23/02/17 11:52 PM
5

When she looks away, if she looks: Up, she thinks you are a Beta. Left, (slightly down) she never noticed you (and never will). Right, (slightly up) she is imagining a life with you. Down, she wants you baaad (in a good bad way). Left and right at the same time, you are in a dream, wake up before it goes zombie. For clarity it is 'her' left and right, and Earth's gravity up and down. I may have missed some directions?
/r/seduction21/02/17 07:15 PM
12

Everyday someone unknowingly does the biggest poop in the world that day.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 07:01 PM
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All a woman has to do to illicit desire is touch a mans leg. That simple. Be warned though it will scare the shit out of the majority of men, but you just have to wait until the next encounter for them to have gotten it together. Edit - also bend-over in their vicinity.
/r/seduction12/02/17 01:52 PM
2

Don't agree with the approaches described in the article. Escalating is a form of approval, bantering is entering her frame and ignoring alone too passive indicating weakness. Women or men for that matter should be shamed for this type of immature behaviour. Pause the conversation and look them in the eye, indicate disappointment, with them. Then continue where you left off but draw the conversation to a close maintaining strong eye contact. This conveys worth. This is much how you would treat a…
/r/seduction12/02/17 11:23 AM
1

Read something, anything by Freud. A lot of Americans have a hard time with him presumably because of religion but he is pretty much accepted as lifting the veil in Europe. Also The Naked Ape by Desmond Morris, which is an easier read and very insightful on human behavior.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 11:48 AM
0

High nitrate diet https://i.imgflip.com/nkocs.jpg
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 10:53 PM
3

That was an interesting article. When I was younger late teens early 20s I was especially logical, carefree, I felt totally in control of my emotions. Now I am older I often feel overwhelmed and stress can cause anxiety. I believed this was likely testosterone related, but looking back it was a period that I took magic Ms, when they were in season. I was aware of the referenced cancer patient study and I ordered some truffles a few weeks ago. First batch was stolen by the courier grr. Second arr…
/r/seduction06/02/17 06:35 PM
5

This is as old as the hills but I've been doing it for years and it works. Can vouch for power poses to manage hormones and working out in front of a mirror too.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 11:54 AM
3

Jobs are for suckers.
/r/seduction02/02/17 08:43 PM
2

That was actually quite good, better than the usual 'use open questions'.
/r/seduction02/02/17 08:42 PM
1

How you chose to spend your leisure time can still impact other areas of your life. Trouble with video games is they satisfy you by providing false achievements. That can inhibit motivation to achieve in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 01:36 AM
2

I knew immediately it's a great line, but the movie was actually quoting Genghis Khan too lol.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 02:52 PM
2

With all the down votes seems these guys are more alpha than Genghis.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:54 PM
2

Good feedback, you are correct I suppose that you need to pick your characters carefully. Ones that even in older films still look modern rather than of the era - and good! Hoodie example was only really added because a suit may not be appropriate if OP is 15. There is a lot more slim-fit available off the shelf these days, but it is still difficult not to have tight shoulders or baggy midsection for most stuff.
/r/seduction23/01/17 12:03 PM
1

For clothes go for the classic looks, you only need 3 or 4. By classic I mean what lead characters wear in the movies year after year e.g. blue jeans leather jacket, suit, hoodie etc. First off you are taking advice from top designers, secondly women will recognise it subconsciously and associate it with a good looking well dressed guy. Restrict yourself to a few minimal looks and make sure the clothes, shoes, accessories (not too many) etc are top quality. There is nothing wrong with having mor…
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:30 AM
3

I'm usually the first to post the 'It's easy bro' handsome guy meme , I have been cold approached by a woman literally about about twice in 10 years which probably puts me in the average bracket (I know v attractive guys that get hit on daily at the supermarket etc). But to add credence to the post I have on occasion noticed women that make an effort to be near, take seat on a park bench, sidle up in the book store etc. This sort of thing happens when you least expect it, lost in thought, when y…
/r/seduction23/01/17 10:36 AM
2

Some that is extremely enlightening. Do you have more on stacking frames?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 12:50 PM
1

Its a mask, they smile to hide their fear. Be relaxed and draw them into your frame.
/r/seduction17/01/17 11:07 PM
2

Protection from what 'ze germans'?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:00 AM
1

It's obvious, online women are choosing you, offline you chose them. Fact is all men up to age 40ish can and will date women down to 25, but women will only date same age or older. The result is women in their 30s are in a bad position statistically (as are men in their 20s). That's why they are online. You are a hot commodity to that age group. Anyway, personally I reckon women nearer you own age or even a bit older are more interesting and fun. Plus in their 30s they are peaking.
/r/seduction05/01/17 09:11 PM
1

You are thinking along the right lines. But you should have gone to the dinner to hit on other women in front of her. Soft next her. That would both polarise her and potentially get a new girl, win win.
/r/seduction05/01/17 08:45 PM
3

Depends on your definition but I can think of at least a couple of my kid's friends that are naturals. Aged 6 or 7 staring me the fuck down answering the door! Bossing the other kids around and them not minding because of natural charisma and NFsG attitude. Nature or nurture is difficult to determine because in each case one of their parents was simlier. Even at a young age they have reputation with the girls even though they are no oil painting.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 03:57 PM
1

Great post, love the clear nlp examples. Any more to add on physical escalation?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:51 AM
1

This still sounds like a bad idea, if you don't acknowledge failure how can you hope to improve. It only makes sense to ignore an outcome in situations where your actions have had no affect and results are purely random or independent of them.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 03:41 PM
7

I don't buy the just have fun and it will happen stuff. All the examples given including yours are anecdotal. Are there any evidence based studies that prove not having an objective improves results, at anything?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 12:20 PM
10

I peak at the flexi doll stuff, where the women's expressions are fixed and they don't react. Their boredom and despondency is actually a massive turn on.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 02:21 PM
59

Have you seen porn? It's pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 01:19 PM
3

Humans are a mix of indicators compared to the animal kingdom. For example males are bigger than females indicating male poligamy like gorillas or herding animals like deer or lions that have alphas. But unlike those human males have massive genitals comparatively, way bigger than gorillas. Alphas enforce exclusive rights in their harem by force. Massive junk evolves when females are promiscuous and we need to up our chances by going deeper and saturating. Chimps are bigger even than us, and the…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 02:24 AM
0

Stop saying Snapchat. Whenever I see it in a sentence the voice in my head reading the words becomes camper and camper.
/r/seduction29/12/16 02:03 AM
4

Who asked you cheese-breath.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:04 PM
15

The OP makes a good point, I would estimate that 60% of the time a person's reaction to you is not especially relevant to your behaviour. It is easy to get tunnel vision on your own narrative and forget that everyone has one of their own. People are highly influenced by brain chemistry by which I mean mood. Adults are generally expert at disguising their moods and it is almost impossible to read accurately unless you know them well or are an expert in body language. Obviously if you are getting …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 03:03 PM
2

Sounds like you are aiming too low.
/r/seduction24/12/16 02:55 AM
2

How many guys that look like these are really needing pick up advice?
/r/seduction23/12/16 06:39 AM
0

Never use a phone they distort features, for example they will make your nose look 30% bigger. Only deformed people look good on phone cameras. Secondly, all women use software for their profile pics, fact.
/r/seduction23/12/16 06:26 AM
4

In my town (UK, 100k) the local rag has featured at least 3 rape trials in the last month or so. Two were one night stands where they even admitted giving consent before hand, yet still put these guys on trial because they regretted it. The other a 14 year old stalker angry at getting told no. Luckily all the guys were exonerated in full because they had witnesses. What if anything happened to the women as a result of false allegations was not reported. Not that long ago there was also town wide…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 05:36 PM
1

When I think of the women I've rejected it is usually includes a feeling of respect that they took some action.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:53 PM
3

I read it all, and I for one welcome our new machine overlords. As long as the unemployment benefit matches minimum wage anyways. Seriously though about the machines evolving intelligence which is kind of key to your end game. There are two schools of thought on consciousness. Those that think it is an inevitable byproduct of sophisticated inferstructure with a high enough number of independent parts e.g. the number of neurons in higher animal brains. Those that, well don't think self awareness …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 05:04 PM
2

The one that is the most relaxed is the one in control. Always be more calm than them.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 11:00 AM
3

Maybe they've been burned so bad in the past they feel the need to maintain some control to protect themselves.
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:01 PM
2

Change your goal from trying to impress a woman to something else. Whether that be getting rejections, or building experience, or giving the girl opportunity to pursue you. Changing perspective like this takes away the anxiety and actually makes you more successful too. Essentially you are trying to find someone that likes you as much as you like her. And when that happens it will plain sailing. So to start with just go for Hi's and a smile with the expectation that anyone that doesn't respond w…
/r/seduction11/12/16 02:26 PM
3

Farming was the catalyst for trades, professional armies, cities, longer lifespans and being able to support more children. Hunter gathers were nomadic and restricted to what they could carry and support - a couple of kids at most. I don't buy into the polygamy thing totally, more likely it was Henry the 8th lifestyle. A distinct set of higher society re-marrying a fresh crop every couple of years cos they could - 18 months is the usual honeymoon period. Plus female slaves will have been popular…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 02:25 PM
1

Google Kino Guides
/r/seduction24/11/16 01:30 PM
3

Agree, all these tall good looking extroverts do well with average women by just standing there and think they have some special insight. Saying just be yourself or use natural game is the usual giveaway.
/r/seduction02/11/16 02:24 PM
3

Sounds like a date to me, just let her do the talking she already has it all planned out.
/r/seduction31/10/16 03:15 PM
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Jesus this is a tough crowd. The guy wanted one example I gave him one of how simple it is and opens doors. I promised a conversation hack not the holy feckin grail.
/r/seduction29/10/16 10:36 PM
6

Sounds normal. Practice and or familiarity is one cure. Drugs or testosterone boosting activities are another.
/r/seduction29/10/16 09:36 PM
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OK, here is an example. Spied hot girl at work while making coffee, asked her what she did the weekend, she says 'I went clubbing'. Now I can say where'd you go?, she will say 'Xclub', I'll say oh was it good?, 'Yeah', I'll say oh.... I went there once blah, blah.. Etc. She's giving one word answers and I'm coming over needy and boring her. Lets be honest frankly I couldn't give a ff about her weekend but I want her to like me so I can increase chances of getting in her pantz. So all I said was …
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:34 PM
2

I understand what you are saying and agree that normal people these days would sus this from an AI quite quickly and think it was odd for a person to do consistently. I just gave the AI as an example of how simple it can be. As you are alluding to, showing empathy it is just a small part of good communication.
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:13 PM
6

Here you go son, it was actually just a short scene in a doc called HyperNormalisation on bbc: http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p04b183c
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:04 PM
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Pathe1 has given a very good example. Another thing that demonstrates is mirroring the use of language. I used to believe that using an extended vocabulary was a winner with women, based on that clip of Good Will Hunting they always show where he says 'language was invented to woo women'. Actually unless you are dating an English Lit major it will work against you. Studies have shown a much deeper connection is perceived if you use the exact same words as the other person. So you don't have to w…
/r/seduction29/10/16 01:51 PM
3

You say it only works on daft people....? I don't agree. Also much of how we communicate is flawed, language can be ambiguous and misinterpreted. This technic if nothing else offers the opportunity for people to expand and communicate more concisely. The main point though is as I said to build rapport with people and to get them to open up more.
/r/seduction29/10/16 01:36 PM
2

Oliver Reed has to be in your short list. Paul Newman, Steve McQueen, Yul Brynner, Jack Nicholson, Richard Burton, Bruce Lee, James Cagney, Richard Burton, Clark Gable...
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 07:42 PM
0

Once a week! 48hrs is my all time best, once a day is normal for your average libido person surely, even 2 or 3x a day is not that excessive. If most guys went a week they'd be like this: https://youtu.be/BYT_lBxf380
/r/seduction31/07/16 04:25 PM
1

Move on and talk with more interesting people.
/r/seduction25/07/16 10:04 AM
0

Platonic relationships are a bit like communism, logical and great on paper. In practise human nature being what it is, one of you is gonna end up wanting to bang the other and fall in to the nice guy / gal resentment spiral.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 09:38 PM
3

If you had to re-live your life a thousand times over after you die, would you live any differently?
/r/seduction21/07/16 01:50 PM
1

Winter is here...
/r/seduction27/06/16 05:36 PM
1

The id is the impulsive (and unconscious) part of our psyche which responds directly and immediately to the instincts.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 02:46 PM
2

Agree Mr brain does not actively seek to make you unsuccessful, but the primitive part of the brain evolved in much different times danger abound and you didn't know where your next meal was coming from. Primary urges being avoid unnecessary risks - which is basically activity, gorge on highly nutritious food - junk food and sugar.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 02:45 PM
1

Asking someone out or for anything for that matter can come over as desperate and needy, equally it can sound exciting and elicit desire. Comes down to delivery, tone of voice, body language. So ask out but do so confidently intentions clear. Err on side of aggression over politeness, but grin too. Be a leader.
/r/seduction27/06/16 11:50 AM
1

I would start by learning how to give a good hand job in bed. Or at least the beginning of one.
/r/seduction21/06/16 09:59 PM
1

It's also about trust in yourself and your continuity. Trusting that you need no effort to cope with what the future will bring, near or far. The same way you are coping with now, because it is and always will, only be now. Also letting go of the concept that the you is a construct of past, and as mentioned, future illusions.
/r/seduction21/06/16 09:51 PM
3

Sounds like The Tao of Steve strategy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWGSEBdyhn4
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 07:41 AM
2

50% of this is a little off the wall but the other half is pure gold, think how you don't have to be a monk to be a buddhist, 99% are not. Eckhart offers the best glimpse into reality and mind control I've come across. +1 audio version, his voice is a trip in itself. link:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQZsM86Y89c
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 07:35 AM
1

Sounds more like what you go for. On average men are 15% bigger than women. Because body size is generally inhereted from your parents that pretty much proves men of average size are getting the most tail?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 08:56 PM
3

OP is implying you need to be big to be attractive. David Beckham is 6ft 75kg which is middle of BMI so bang on average. I expect he works out, but clearly cardio biased.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 08:44 PM
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No. 3 seems irrelevant, (unless you are on grinder looking for betas) take a look at the top 100 voted sexiest men. They follow the bmi bell curve, think of Tom Hiddleston, David Beckham or Leo DiCaprio, none of them lift? Although not totally irrelevant, women do have types they are attracted to but sexual dimorphism is a bit of an evolutionary throwback not really applicable in a general context like say good hygiene.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 06:11 PM
2

That you don't need to be a beast. Women are looking for someone on the same level. That's all you need to aspire to.
/r/seduction04/06/16 12:57 AM
1

Two reasons, one she doesn't see it as a date, second more likely given you said you were in a rush, she is nervous meeting up with a stranger on her own. Could be she's always hooked up with people she's grown up with in her social circle and this is new to her. Consider it an indication of interest and she's offering an opportunity to seal the deal. What have you to lose? If it happens next time you ask her out though things don't look positive, or maybe she only feels comfortable in a group.
/r/seduction30/05/16 10:09 AM
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Humans look for patterns it's what we do, it's the foundation of consciousness to be able to predict the future. We build an internal model of the world and warg into others before and during interactions as part of the process. If you meet someone that is not familiar or acts in a way you do not understand the ability to model is under threat, it results in either fear or interest. The former for the less sophisticated, that's why they may call others weird and try to distance themselves. Imagi…
/r/seduction24/05/16 08:10 AM
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So was Voldermort.. And Tywin Lannister.
/r/seduction23/05/16 05:36 PM
1

Try a Myers Briggs personality test, INxx's are usually the weird ones. Then take a look at the more 'normal' ES type descriptions, which basically boils down to being more present and reactive, think zombie like. http://i.imgur.com/QcW7fDO.gif
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:33 PM
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You get labeled weird by people that can't work you out. Probably means you are a little deeper than most. If you are worried about it try connecting with other 'werdo's'. You'll find they are much more interesting and easier to get on with.
/r/seduction23/05/16 08:25 AM
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Based on evidence presented, don't want to sound too brutal, but indications are she did not find you as attractive after speaking to you. Your comments about being upset she liked someone average looking make you sound superficial and immature, perhaps she picked up on that too? Of course for all we know she could have met someone better 10mins after getting your number, or decided she was gay, who knows. Life's too short to dwell on past mistakes. But if you really want to learn and grow, ask …
/r/seduction21/05/16 03:40 PM
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Seems like we can't let a day go by without someone promoting Models. For those that have read it yet here's the short version: Tell every women you fancy that you do until you find one that seems happy about it. Which is great if you are a virgin, which I suppose most on here are.
/r/seduction14/05/16 04:24 PM
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Focusing on my breath makes me feel anxious, always had done, like I'm not getting enough oxygen. Can't be just me that feels like that. I prefer to feel more present using my eyes and ears. Listening to the hum you usually zone out, or silence. Noticing everyday object's colours, what people are wearing, the buildings. Being alert, that's what brings me into the present, keeps me both calm but fascinated if that makes sense.
/r/seduction14/05/16 11:51 AM
0

Ask her if he's her soulmate.
/r/seduction13/05/16 09:16 PM
1

Who keeps posting links to this guy? Oh right. Also, STOP SHOUTING!
/r/seduction07/05/16 07:23 PM
1

There is a danger ime that you can miss opportunities if you are too formulaic. Every woman is different and has her own speed, so need to watch closely for signs to switch up a gear. Has been at least one occasion I put failure down to being too pragmatic, missing signs and letting things go too cold.
/r/seduction06/05/16 08:30 PM
1

Recommend reading the art of seduction. Slowly seduce them.
/r/seduction06/05/16 07:23 AM
1

Read once that this is a sign of being deceptive, hiding feelings. Lost out on a couple of opportunities thinking women were being duplicitous / two faced. Realised later that yes it's deceptive but they are more likely just trying to hide feelings of attraction. For example running into your crush unexpectedly usually has a similar result. Although I'm talking of an obvious smile, not a smirk.
/r/seduction05/05/16 02:56 PM
1

Yes. Women aren't property.
/r/seduction03/05/16 01:55 PM
8

I would disagree, older women lap this up too. Thanks to OP.
/r/seduction03/05/16 09:49 AM
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Watch Christine: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0085333/
/r/seduction29/04/16 09:05 AM
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Has been a while and cant recall all the details but I had the ideal opportunity to test some of it out. Car sharing with a hot Milf a couple of days a week. She was tough but I just kept hammering away in 30 minute sessions for weeks. Got almost no feedback and felt like giving up a few times. But after a couple of months she just cracked, confessed to having developed romantic feelings and drove us to her house...
/r/seduction25/04/16 09:53 AM
1

Wtf is a 'Mack'. Is that the same as a Fluffer?
/r/seduction23/04/16 03:11 PM
1

That's a difficult post to follow. Sounds like you are terrified of any criticism or rejection that might challenge your self perception. You judge others, keep interactions shallow and put on a front. Try googling overcoming fear of failure. e.g. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/201306/10-signs-you-might-have-fear-failure
/r/seduction23/04/16 10:57 AM
1

I like Johnny Berba, down to earth, does some great coaching series vids: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MaAEEJff5UA
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:34 PM
1

If she is not responding to my texts because she explains to me that she preoccupied with study and employment, does this implicitly indicate she is not interested? -- YES!! If you must, leave the door open with one more text but give the girl a break and move on.
/r/seduction18/04/16 09:54 AM
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Mixed signals can often mean , wait for it... mixed feelings. Think about why they might be getting them. Sounds like a pattern with more than on girl indicating the problem is with you. I would guess you are coming across as needy, looking for commitment a little early.
/r/seduction18/04/16 09:33 AM
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It works for women because it qualifies you as desirable in their eyes. Often women try it on men thinking it will have the same effect. It doesn't, most men interpret it as a brush off. If you can see through that it can be a good sign to hear women telling you about other men.
/r/seduction14/04/16 09:57 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/SvRbXLK.jpg
/r/seduction12/04/16 06:25 PM
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BS aside that was fecking great!
/r/seduction11/04/16 09:43 PM
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People don't think about you when you're not there, really they don't. 99% of the time they think about themselves, the other 1% is thinking what others think of them. It's quite liberating really.
/r/seduction11/04/16 11:45 AM
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http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q40/annet013/animatie1-05.gif
/r/seduction09/04/16 09:55 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/zj1hJyM.jpg
/r/seduction09/04/16 09:29 PM
1

Scientific data with everyone from Joe average to hardened police officers have found that spotting if someone is lying is a 50/50 guess, same with a polygraph. Guess they should have tried 'all girls' instead?
/r/seduction09/04/16 04:56 PM
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Quick Definition: Assuming that you knew the person for a long time and treating them like a good friend. - See more at: http://www.pualingo.com/assume-familiarity/#sthash.RJ69zbWN.dpuf They will most likely mirror you. Be casual about it though on first encounters i.e. don't be looking for more than sharing the moment, else you risk appearing manipulative.
/r/seduction08/04/16 03:53 PM
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Intelligent peeps are often insecure and can project being intimidating coss of it, and appreciate someone down to earth more than most. Assuming familiarity is a good approach to relax them.
/r/seduction08/04/16 01:46 PM
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