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I know bro. One of the things I realized too late in life was that in a group of X people I was always worrying about what X-1 of them was thinking about me. But what the hell did I expect they were thinking about? Every one is the center of their own little universe. I barely matter. For a brief moment, she mattered to you (because of where your focus was). Not meaning to be insulting, but you didn't matter to her. In all likelihood you were forgotten shortly after. This can be either painful o…
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:53 PM
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Says more about her internal state than your external state. People are ALL self centered. She ruined your day and probably damaged your week to come with two words. Did you ruin hers? Well, it was probably already ruined. But she might be on reddit right now writing about 900 different "traumatizing" things that are central to her life and the guy she told to F-off when he gave her a compliment probably isn't one of them.
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:46 PM
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It's the not the impediment you think it is. Show up at the bar on your crutches. No self loathing. "Funny story, I ..." Use said crutches as a prop. Be big and silly. You are literally showing the ability to overcome hardship and adversity while also looking like a (temporarily) fix me up guy. I had: A recently stitched up scar on my chin. A missing tooth with a temporary replacement (removable for lulz). Crutches. Foot bootie. Gorgeous woman was staring at me, and I crutched slowly across the …
/r/seduction18/05/24 06:21 PM
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Sing Auld Lange Syne at the top of your lungs. Wait. That's New Years. Just be normal. She's gonna have all of her friends there and be preoccupied. Be normal to them too. You're going to have more interactions with friends to impress instead of her unless <she> gives you opportunity to interact with her directly. Don't try to force the birthday into a 1x1 date because it's not. It's an opportunity to interact with a group like a regular person.
/r/seduction17/05/24 09:57 PM
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Because it's instagram and you're not a celebrity.
/r/seduction17/05/24 08:15 PM
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You're her support blanket. She loves talking to you for emotional support, though I'd wager the guy she was getting over didn't provide it. And now she's comforted by your blab sessions, knowing you're there. That's actually bad. So a lot is being said, but what is she doing? Not devoting time to being with you, that's what. You'd probably drop anything to spend time with her, and she's choosing friends and making choices to leave whole country. Interested women don't make excuses (that much). …
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:07 AM
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I stopped at "cut her arms to prove ..." Setting aside the cheating (which I didn't even get to first pass), that is not not not the sort of coping mechanism you want in a partner.
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:20 PM
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Fascinating that women these days aspire to be a "bad bitch." I search for the other two things. But the trend has made it much more difficult. Don't presume that just because you met a woman at church or the theater that you've located a good girl. Have conversations about morals and values early. Have strong boundaries that could cause bad or bitchy reactions. And use the "friend" rule. How would you react to her behavior if it came from a friend instead of someone you're attracted to?
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:12 PM
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What I'm saying is that if the women who dated you "made an exception" for thing you think is an issue, why not expect that to continue? I suspect they're not even noticing. But even if they did, they got past it. As should you, brother!
/r/seduction21/03/24 02:30 AM
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every single woman that has been with me probably made and exception for me. Well, there's your answer!
/r/seduction21/03/24 01:49 AM
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Can't help you there. This isn't a dating board. Where I can help you is that I think you meant to say Atlanta "Metropolitan" area instead of "Metro Politician." Hope that helps you with the geographic aspects of this very difficult search.
/r/seduction12/03/24 12:36 AM
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Highly likely. Own it. The only people who will find you are also on Tinder. Unless you're a politician or a priest it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction09/03/24 03:39 PM
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Look up major histocompatibility complex (MHC). People want people who smell different from them, but not too different. Think pheromones in animals, even though we haven't found those receptors in humans. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5006172/ Deodorant masks this. Interestingly, hormonal birth control makes women like the smell of men they don't like when not on the pill (and vice versa). Wear whatever scent you want. But let them experience your natural odor eventually. Some wo…
/r/seduction06/03/24 08:34 PM
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Art openings are my go to walk and talk culture. Know the crowd and I'd do it anyway. Toss in figure drawing for mildly titillating, but socially acceptable nudity. Make her my sous chef for cooking for gustatory pleasure. I got most of the wild out of my system, so if she's not into events of that tempo, we're probably not a fit. Sign up for a bunch of lists for out of the box events wherever you are. But still, throw something physical on top of that so she knows your capable. Sailing for me. …
/r/seduction05/03/24 09:22 PM
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I do. Close friend just married a woman he took skydiving on a first date. Being attractive is her job, so I'm sure he had a lot of competition. His opinion, she wouldn't have remembered him over drinks. She doesn't realize that, because the experience and the man were stuck together. Neither of us are gonna mention that to her. I found skydiving to be too short a thrill for the boring time floating back to earth, so it ain't in my repertoire. And I like bookish nerdy girls, so it'd be overkill.…
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:50 PM
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She doesn't have to be into it initially. You do. Obviously, finding mutuals is great, but it's not a necessity, if it's actually fun. The ideal would be skydiving or roller coasters, because the brain conflates danger and yes even fear, with excitement. Though dancing's probably a better fit with most women's interests, if you're able. All you really have to do though, is create the opportunity for movement between activities at multiple venues.
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:09 PM
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You're already running late. Touch to emphasize points if you're on dinner dates, but cut that out. Do something that involves activity, proximity and preferably adrenaline on the next one.
/r/seduction05/03/24 02:13 PM
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Thanks mate. Yeah, your desirability to most women is only going to go up for the next 17+ years if you stay healthy and productive. A whole 'nother lifetime. So your goal for now shouldn't be to <get> girls, it should be to <get better at> girls and better at life. I mean, go 'head and get em, but focus on your skills and you'll be a menace in your prime.
/r/seduction04/03/24 08:48 PM
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Guys are notoriously bad at rating other guy's profiles. Maybe the IDGAF photos are the best ones for girls your age, but I ain't one. So ask one. But if you really wanted to have like 6 perfect photos for an app, you'd take 600 and throw away 594. Quality of these gives the impression they're all you've got. Take a lot lot more pictures, or more precisely have your friends take a lot more pictures. Don't worry about the pictures themselves as much about what they say about your life. Yours say …
/r/seduction04/03/24 07:43 PM
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I'm not an expert on IG game. My friend who uses it best isn't in fantastic shape. But he's constantly doing awesome stuff surrounded by ladies. Self fulfilling prophecy. OP is young. If he's in excellent shape and pursuing women who are his peers, sure. Being surrounded by women in the pics would help. A lot. But DMing attractive IG "influencers" with followings? He'd be smoked by my 5'8" slightly out of shape friend, 100%. IG is just hypercompetitive in terms of status for men. Real world is l…
/r/seduction04/03/24 04:43 PM
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Not for you, sadly. The male equivalent of a woman's bikini pic is a picture of a dude in the context of a life of plenty. Could be boats, girls, restaurants, trips, baller hobbies, whatever. Think the picture of the Tinder swindler on a private jet. That's how he swindled. You ain't there yet. Go to college. Enjoy real life.
/r/seduction04/03/24 03:06 PM
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Just so you know, lots of guys do swipe right on all the profiles (or so I hear), BUT the app algorithms track selectivity, so if they say yes to everyone, the algo views them as non-picky/desperate/whatever and deprioritizes them. Doesn't show them to the highly ranked women and vice versa. I think swiping right on people you're not into is cruel. At least they're not being rewarded for their behavior. Just a shame the app sends the wrong signals.
/r/seduction03/03/24 12:22 PM
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Your accent will help. A lot. Height won't hurt either. There are more women than men here, though the women have seen it all. Where you go is the bigger factor. Find a good match between your interest/energy and the location. If you dance, you'll be in heaven in deep Brooklyn or downtown. Bars will be a little tougher, though your age group will be out in force Th/Fri/Sat.
/r/seduction02/03/24 04:22 PM
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They're busy and distracted. Many dudes blowing up their phone. No time to keep up with all the messages, so they drop off unless it gets their attention in the moment. Just the way it is.
/r/seduction02/03/24 04:18 PM
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Yup. Put your focus elsewhere. Every thought that runs through your mind about her is training your brain to get better at thinking about her. Neurons that fire together wire together. Do other things. Get exercise. Hang with friends. When the thoughts come at you, acknowledge them, but then stand up and do something else. You'll hang with friends and your unhappy brain won't even let you enjoy them. For a while. And then one day, you'll find yourself enjoying it again.
/r/seduction01/03/24 04:11 PM
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It depends a lot on where you are. Tinder is the worst in my area. It's a hookup app with gold diggers and green card hunters who pay to pick my city even though they don't live here. Prefer Hinge by a mile. That said, in my city, 40 is not an obstacle. At all. Might be different in small towns, or if you reference your kids.
/r/seduction24/02/24 07:47 PM
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Let's go with she wasn't the woman for me. And you're right, that story didn't end well for her either. But she's not the only woman I've heard complain about a bad bad man she couldn't stop going back to, and I'm not gonna call all of them mentally unwell. It's a feature, not a bug, though this case was extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:18 PM
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A woman I really cared about once dumped me to go back to her sociopathic ex (and that's not hyperbole, he was subsequently arrested for white collar fraud). She had nothing but negative things to say about him while we were together. Biggest player I know was comforting me afterward. I told him how badly she spoke of her ex so why would she do this? He said, everything that she ragged on did drive her crazy ... but also crazy with desire. Genius tier insight. The thing that confuses guys is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:14 PM
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Your mother insisted on video game T-shirts? I think she knows better and may be actively sabotaging your dating to keep you invested in her. I assume you're quite young, but look at how the guys who are with the women you want are dressed.
/r/seduction02/01/24 05:39 PM
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Women care about status and wealth <much> more than men. So the guys know a status mismatched woman might not be satisfied. Is that "intimidating?" Let's flip those metrics. Women want tall guys. Men usually don't care. So a woman who's 6'1 probably wants a 6'4 guy. That disqualifies 99% of men. BUT that 6'4" guy is going to be desired by women 5'-6'. All of them. Her being 6'1" isn't more attractive to him than a 5'4" bikini model in all likelihood. It only made her pickier. And he's got option…
/r/seduction27/12/23 01:01 PM
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Orders of magnitude more difficult for most men. Even for guys who can get the date, ladies can just bounce at the slightest issue. Optionality has increased. Just 5 years ago, online dating was <somewhat> stigmatized. Pandemic changed that. It's probably here to stay, as the average girl would rather match/sleep with an exceptional dude and delude herself she's got a shot at a relationship than date an average guy she could settle down with. Swipe swipe swipe.
/r/seduction12/12/23 06:57 PM
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We have a grade inflation problem. If all the men online are lying by 2-3"+ (anecdotally what I'm hearing from women), then honesty is punished in the swiping market. In reality, I find that there are two markets anyway. Stats and swipes vs. reality and presence. I'm fortunate enough to be 6'1" and the number of women who can perceive the difference in my height when I'm wearing dress shoes that add probably 1.25" inches vs. my "barefoot" 0.125" shoes is zero. Consequences from a distorted marke…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:14 PM
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Damn it. I was hoping ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:50 PM
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This is so well put. You have an insight that's sadly rare in this day and age. Somewhat selfishly, I deeply wish there were more like you out there today. Each gender is a reflection of the other. We have no choice. Social media has ruined the dating market by amplifying our worst impulses (on both sides!), and now TikTok is revealing the extent of the ruination. It will take a long time to heal, if it ever does. Either way, congratulations on suppressing the bad impulses that won in your frien…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 01:11 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. You located the problem, which was that he's still tremendously hurt by his loss from the ex wife. It's not fair for you. The reason these videos resonated with him was because he's learning something (from women!) he never had access to before. No, it doesn't apply to all women, for sure. Just as the way female TikTokers speak about "all men" doesn't apply to all of us either. But by 2023, a lot of good men have been dumped by a woman who got "the Ick" precisely because…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 01:00 AM
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It definitely depends on what you're looking for. The supermodel talent is pretty much gated behind private events, members clubs, and thick velvet ropes. If you've got an in, it's a lot easier when you're there. Guy I know who goes out nonstop is extremely hooked up at the spots and has dated 5 girls at at time for the better part of a decade. But he's built his life around it. The harder part is to meet a woman who isn't jaded, because they've seen it all, and many of them have already been th…
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:39 AM
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