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Thank you, I will switch to free weights. Didn't know that it make that mutch difference.
/r/askMRP23/03/22 08:31 PM
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I know the ILYBINILWY Post: That's what you really want, right? Your wife is 95% fucking someone else, 5% thinking about fucking someone else, and 100% has someone that she is wanting to fuck other than you. I think she belongs into the 5% thinking (when giving she speech) about fucking someone else. This someone was her former lover, who pumped and dumped her. But I don't think she did it, It's to long to explain why. You already have a read a shit load of MRP and RP books. How about instead of…
/r/askMRP23/03/22 12:20 PM
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Thank you, I will look into the book and videos. She's regretting giving me the ILYBNILWY speech, she tells me today the relationship was in a bad state at that moment and that was the only reason (I don't believe her). I'm glad she did it, I finally woke up. It was a turning point in my life, because I found TRP.
/r/askMRP23/03/22 12:08 PM
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Sounds like you know what to do. I think you should aim to leave this woman. It's far easier to find new girls than it is to turn this girl's impression of you. Yes, I think you are right. It's far easier, but I want to take the hard way. When it doesn't work, I had 12 more months of self improving. It's also far easier to self improve when you don't have a shrew tearingyou down every time you have sex. That shit will hold you back mentallyif anything. I'd rather go monk no sex than have that ki…
/r/askMRP23/03/22 11:58 AM
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As next reads i recommend Pook and Poon. Thank you, I will look into it. Are you lifting ? You mention the gym, but make sure that you don't fuck around there. Make the best of your time. I'm using machines to prevent incorrect execution. It's a premium gym with a great staff. I will slowly switch to free weights in a few months, I want to build a solid base first. Do you want to stay with that girl ? Do you have a reason to ? If youbelieve she's an alpha widow, don't have kids or financial ties…
/r/askMRP23/03/22 11:35 AM
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There is a better solution than TRP - Therapy. Couples therapy if both of you really give a shit. The girl has issues, probably so do you. It seems to me that regardless of how much she talks with you she isn't honest about what's actually not working for her, sexually. One time she tells you it's not important, the other time she cries for two days because it's important. maybe she feers offending you, maybe she took you as a way to forget her ex and now wants to stay with you but can't figure …
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 08:03 PM
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Thank you. A had the fear I will get such a response. The sex things are bad, no question. And I think I could not commit to a marriage, when i do not feel a real desire for me over a long time. I write everything down what bothers me about our sex life, but not what is good in our relationship. She cares deep about me, cares about my health, inspires me a lot, makes litte gifts, I love our deep philosophical talks, she is always happy and I am more happy with her than alone, my family and frien…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 07:45 PM
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Have you tried to work on your own attractiveness? Mostly physical appearance - get in shape if you havnt not already done so and wear flattering clothes goes a very long way. Aftershave, be well dressed, and be “busy” doing yo own thing. Basically make her part of your life, not the focus of your life. Still try to make time to do your own stuff that attracted her in the first place. Yes, that are the things I am working on now: - get muscles - loose weight - meet new people - try more things -…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 06:17 PM
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details are now in the main text.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 06:11 PM
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Thank you, it took me some time to write it down.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 06:01 PM
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I was in CBT-therapy because of other issues for many years until last year, my insurance will not pay a new therapy until 2022. My therapist told me there is nothing left that is problematic to the point, I would need a therapy. I dont want to discuss the issues with someone I know personaly, because I fear they may think bad about my girlfriend. Thank you for your comment, can someone answer the question if it is allowed to discuss relationsship problems and find alternative solutions to TRP-r…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:24 PM
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