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Why do you feel the need to remarry or reunite your life with someone? Is it not ok to just enjoy your life how it is? Does your new girl want to combine lives with you? Do you feel that pressure to do so? I'm just asking to see if maybe you're putting too much on yourself. Take your time.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/26 07:40 PM
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People determine what's toxic to them so that would look different for different people respectfully. Idc about what you think of my opinion. It's mine. We are not a monolith. You inserted yourself. I gave my opinion to the post. I'm not here to debate my thoughts and opinions vs others. It's mine and that's ok. 👌🏾
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/26 11:13 AM
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Who cares. As long as they like it, I love it. 🥰 no one should be stuck in toxicity.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/26 02:39 PM
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So will staying if it's toxic. And of course. Everyone does them.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/26 02:30 PM
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If you study the brain you would know what this "toxic period" of your life can do to it. I wouldn't recommend one day being in toxic situations. Respectfully. You can if you choose. That's why we are different. I wouldn't want my children to go through one day of toxicity just because I chose to stay in a toxic situation. It's one thing for me to be in it, another to subject others to it as well. But I wouldn't want it for myself either.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/26 10:54 AM
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Also staying in toxic relationships harms children as well.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/26 10:35 AM
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You sound sexist. I just expressed my opinion. He nor you don't have to agree. That's ok. People are different. But how do you know if the roles were reversed that the same would happen. If it were reversed I'd still feel how I feel if he bought the house and spent the most money pouring into it.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/26 11:04 PM
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A rant doesn't stop people from giving advice. You could've journaled or vented to people you know personally.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/26 12:00 AM
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Umm duh it's my opinion. It was my opinion when I first commented. You just carried on. We aren't a monolith. And it's not my situation. You posted in a public place. I gave a public answer. Also seems pretty convenient that it's a little to negotiate because if that were the case what was the point of this post to ask for advice?
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 09:27 PM
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Your contributions as a husband and father absolutely have value, and they shouldn’t be dismissed. But that doesn’t erase the fact that she assumed the initial financial risk by purchasing the house before the marriage. If marital money and effort increased the home’s value, then it’s reasonable to account for that. That still doesn’t necessarily mean the entire asset should be treated as if it started equally.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 09:17 PM
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I never asked if it's typical. I'm saying she paid for it and sounds like she paid most into it as well. Everything else could be equitable.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 08:04 PM
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Doesn't really sound that way according to the initial post. If you didn't feel somewhat wrong, why did you post?
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 07:54 PM
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I think the house part is unfair. She bought it and invested in it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 07:35 PM
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Let it go brother. You definitely haven't been "blindsided" as you've mentioned you've been a shop without rudder for a while. How does this equate to being blindsided? You sounds like you still expected her to stick and stay no matter what. No need to be angry. Prepare yourself to be a better person so this doesn't overflow to your children and next partner in the future.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/26 01:45 PM
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Block this guy.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 09:55 AM
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I won't call her a hoe for moving on. I do think she's irresponsible and putting your child in danger. Perhaps get custody of tour daughter.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 02:47 PM
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It's pretty weird that she gets a new man and brings him around the daughter so soon. But more weird that she's allowing him to sleep with her daughter. There are so many weirdos out here. I wouldn't trust that as a mom. Strange.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 09:43 AM
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Can you take the baby until she gets on her feet if you said they would live in a car?
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 01:59 PM
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I would believe her personally. Also and watch signs of his behavior and see if it aligns but I wouldn't dismiss the warning.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/26 12:49 PM
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I am and I answer the people who I choose to who are asking random questions.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 11:51 PM
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🥰
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 11:26 PM
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I apologize I just passed by and saw it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 07:50 PM
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I'm a 28 year old woman who wouldn't look at a 49 year old old man.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 07:44 PM
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That's what all predators say. Whatever makes you sleep at night.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 10:27 AM
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I think it's weird when older people are seeking much younger people. Age gap relationships presents a toxic power dynamic into most relationships unless you're mentally childish as the younger person you're seeking. Shows how much these people lack of maturity. A lot of people like control but also a lot of people are aging yet aren't actually growing up. When you grow older your attraction should grow as well. A lot of people stay mentally in the same place unfortunately. If you have to seek a…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 10:03 AM
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I apologize I didn't know. I know now.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 06:31 AM
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Leave him. Run. 🏃🏾‍♀️ He's weaponizing religion to coerce you to do something you didn't sign up for.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 06:06 AM
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Do not marry into this or you will regret this. It's best you both go your separate ways. The ideology is too hard to get out of.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 11:21 PM
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If he loves his wife it should be a good compromise or she may want to use condoms. They need to meet in the middle.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 09:58 AM
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If he treated you very well would you have even written this post?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 04:50 PM
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Why did you comment this to me instead of directly to OP? Your comment has nothing to do with me? Do you think you're correcting my view point? Because Obviously I have a lot of likes so it must be somewhat true or at least OP believes it. But if you're here to debate what I know to be true. Or disagree just know, If red pill were simply “true,” it wouldn’t require framing women as a monolith or men as victims to make sense. The fact that loving, committed relationships contradict it is exactly …
/r/ExRedPill13/01/26 11:55 AM
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If you feel you must manage your husband, motherhood will overwhelm you. You shouldn’t become a mom while already being the only adult in the room. Be careful not to confuse ‘relief from responsibility’ with actual safety. If your nervous system only calms down when someone makes decisions for you, that’s not femininity. Sounds more like emotional dependence. Children won’t eliminate that anxiety; they will magnify it. Make sure you’re healing the root, not the fantasy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/25 10:00 AM
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It sounds less like misandry and more like incompatible boundaries. If you don’t want her commentary, stop offering material that invites it. If she asks where you’re going, you’re allowed to give a short answer that doesn’t open the door to discussion. You can’t control her worldview, only your participation in it. And if it's so serious I believe you guys should be looking for different living arrangements.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/25 01:25 AM
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This is funny to me that you're describing the very soil that this ideology grows on. I agree that insecurity isn’t a single emotion, it’s a network of distrust, fear, lack of connection, and unprocessed experience. Those complexities are exactly why Red Pill takes root so easily. Ideology fills a gap that healing and self-reflection should address.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/25 02:15 PM
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You literally proved my point. “It’s often a lack of trust in people.” Exactly... insecurity. Unresolved wound. Fear turned outward. Red Pill ideology feeds distrust, magnifies it, and packages it as logic and masculinity. It’s an emotional bandage wrapped in faux philosophy. A man with a secure identity doesn’t need Red Pill thinking he has no wound for it to attach to.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/25 01:13 PM
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With all these paragraphs you're sending just know I didn't read. It sounds like red pill makes you feel seen, not healed. And those are two very different things. You need a hug. 🤗 anyhow blessings. 🙏🏾✌🏾
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 04:15 PM
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Struggle isn’t shameful. The question is whether men want growth or comfort. Red pill gives comfort. Accountability gives growth. Red pill confirms struggle. It doesn’t cure it. Red pill doesn’t cure loneliness, it breeds it. Then men try to get scraps of attention from the women they claim to mistrust.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 03:59 PM
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Red pill resonates with men who struggle in relationships. Your Negative karma and downvotes suggests you might be proving that point, not disproving it. Ok brother
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 03:43 PM
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Ok brother. I'm a bot. lol 😂 I'll take it. 🤷🏽‍♀️Men on Reddit always deflect instead of sticking to the point. Debating a bot that has more likes than your comments is diabolical. Debating a bot but can't dispute that what the bot 🤖 is saying isn't true. Ok brother. Let me go do what bots do. Whatever that is. ✌🏾using bots to discredit bots is wild. Losing a debate to a bot is even wilder.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/25 02:49 PM
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Red pill resonate with insecure men because it gives them validation, not truth hun. Calling a harmful ideology a "response" is just a way to avoid accountability. Men aren't silenced. They just dislike being challenged. Women calling out misogyny isn't a double standard. The truth is healthy relationships require mutual respect, not content rooted in resentment of women. You seem pretty neutral about red pill for this to be an ex red pill subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/25 02:10 PM
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You're obviously trolling and hating. lol. Hope you have a good one. Truth hurts doesn't it.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/25 01:43 PM
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Interesting 🧐 that you can't discredit the information but want to say I'm a bot. 🤖 you know even when people use Ai it's a tool. They have it to explain the thoughts that they enter so it's more organized and plain, right? The people liked it because it's true whether I use grammarly or not to help me make it more professional the point is still the point. Imagine needing an AI detector because a woman makes a clear boundary. lol 😂 please let's keep the main thing the main thing. Which is the p…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/25 11:44 AM
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I understand your concern. Unfortunately. At least you can see it's just how people are in general. No matter where. This is how they think so you can protect yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:35 PM
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Red Pill content doesn’t ‘resonate’ because it’s true.... it resonates because it gives insecure men a place to put their pain without growth. It frames women as manipulative and men as victims so they never have to examine themselves. The danger isn’t that he watched it once. The danger is that he agreed with it. That means he already has unaddressed insecurities that Red Pill ideology is validating. You cannot fix this for him. You can only observe whether he chooses partnership or propaganda.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/25 12:08 AM
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The issue isn’t that men don’t understand women... it’s that many don’t listen to women when we explain our experiences.🫤🙄 The question was directed to women, yet every time women answer honestly, men jump in to debate, redirect, or tell us what we “really” mean. That alone proves how exhausting dating becomes for us. If men actually listened instead of defending themselves, the dating world would already be easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:39 AM
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Even if they are. No one cares. Save them. Why must it be announced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:06 AM
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Run 🏃🏾‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/25 05:09 AM
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It would be sad but I'd definitely drop out of both of their lives fast 💨 and in a hurry. 🏃🏾‍♀️ I can't even fathom having an associate who would deal with that nonsense let alone someone I call my best friends. I've cut off family members for less.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/25 07:20 AM
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Yes. I hate men who ignore the things that are feminine. They're supposed to have a balance. But the ones that feel like they are only masculine I will not date. We love a good emotional intelligent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:24 PM
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Without a romantic relationship. I'd much rather friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:02 PM
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So what. That's their prerogative. Funny how men complain so much about women but their every thought is about a woman. That's diabolical. 🤦🏾‍♀️😒🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:43 PM
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Let it genuinely happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:49 PM
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Funny how I went back and forth with half the thread, but somehow that’s ‘contentless.’ Guess challenging the narrative doesn’t count as content here. Seven people thought what I said was worth debating, but one mod says ‘contentless.’ That contradiction speaks for itself. But ok 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:40 PM
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When people stop marrying. Until then why are you asking me. Don't get married and you won't have to worry about divorce. Problem solved. The irony is you claim to want fairness, but what you’re really saying is you’d rather see a woman and her children suffer than accept she has the right to leave you. That’s not accountability, that’s control. I left everything behind and rebuilt my life — if men respected accountability, they’d applaud that. Instead, they cling to ownership. That’s why divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:22 PM
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Personally I have. Left everything. Gave it all to him. And split 50/50 on the kids and started from the bottom. No child support. Went back to school and feel so much better without him. Put my children through college and private school all without a dime from him. So me personally yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:20 PM
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I was being clear, but I see how easy it is for people to hear through defensiveness instead of listening to understand. My stance hasn’t changed: generalizing hate onto all men or all women isn’t fair or productive. That’s not an attack, it’s just consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:13 PM
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Fair enough — but recognizing reality doesn’t mean excusing it. Yes, selfishness motivates people, but that doesn’t make it good for relationships or society. If anything, calling it out is how we avoid normalizing harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:54 PM
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I get what you’re saying about hypocrisy, but my point stands — generalizing bitterness onto all women doesn’t make sense. We can acknowledge bad experiences without turning them into an excuse to hate half the population. If we both agree it’s wrong to generalize ‘all men’ or ‘all women,’ then why defend it here? My stance is consistent — I wouldn’t hate all men if one mistreated me, just like I don’t think men should hate all women. So I’m not sure where the hypocrisy is. If we both agree it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:36 PM
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Then why would he hate the entire sex. I would never hate all of a group. If I'm rejected I look at it like the quicker I am rejected the quicker I am to get to what is for me. But that's just my positive spin on it. But to each its own. I will never be a "woe it's me" type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:04 PM
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Selfishness can feel good in the moment, but that doesn’t make it healthy — addiction feels good too, and look how destructive that is.If your definition of happiness requires someone else losing their freedom, that’s not happiness — it’s exploitation. But ok. I agree to disagree. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:07 PM
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It's not that I don't like it. I'm saying selfishness doesn't equate to happiness. One person being selfishness and trapping someone won't make a happy relationship which is why I stand for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:42 PM
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That's selfishness. Calling selfishness ‘happiness’ doesn’t make it less selfish — it just shows how low the bar is for accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:31 PM
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I think that's pretty sad. Because I could feel that same way if u think of all the things in past relationships men have done to me. But I don't play the "wow it's me". I just move around and seek kind people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:04 PM
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I don't think most people have families to make them happy. I see so many women baby trap women to make them stay. So many marriage traps on either side. That is not necessarily for happiness. A lot do it for pure selfishness. They want a lineage. Even if they're not necessarily mature enough or financially capable to even have a marriage or family. I don’t think most people actually start families for happiness the way it’s often framed. A lot of people do it out of pressure, control, or legacy…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:01 PM
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All women have treated you poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:47 PM
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I never claimed it was the majority. My point was simple: people do change, and when that happens, marriages and feelings can shift too. Ignoring that reality doesn’t make it less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:44 PM
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At this point it’s not about the debate, you just want me to keep talking to you. You could’ve saved us both time by admitting that. 😉. Just say you want my number already — all this back and forth for what? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:02 AM
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I'm pretty sure you mentioned it in one of your comments. It was your second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:56 AM
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You don't care about women's opinions but want to debate me. Yet you're a feminist. lol 😂 ok. ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:52 AM
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If you truly didn’t care about women’s opinions, you wouldn’t be in here debating mine paragraph after paragraph. The fact that you are proves my point: you care, you just don’t like that I won’t bend to your narrative. That’s not strength, that’s resentment. You wrote a whole essay to respond to me, a woman, while saying you don’t care about women’s opinions. That’s the contradiction right there. If you truly didn’t care, you wouldn’t even be debating me. Actions speak louder than your words — …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:51 AM
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You keep proving my point — undervaluing talent is literally what I said bias looks like. You just put it in numbers. Thanks for agreeing, even if you don’t realize it. 😴
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:44 AM
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Ah, the classic ‘if women don’t like it, fix the whole system yourselves’ argument. Women already start businesses, but guess what? Studies show women entrepreneurs get less funding, fewer loans, and less venture capital because of—you guessed it—bias. You can’t tell women to ‘just start businesses’ while ignoring the same structural barriers that exist in corporate jobs. That’s not a solution, that’s shifting blame. If the system undervalues women, it undervalues them everywhere. Try again. Gn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:41 AM
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the entire thread is literally about men’s jealousy toward women. If there’s “no problem,” why are men even in that subreddit venting about women? That contradiction trying to erase the issue while simultaneously proving it exists by their own obsession with debating women. I don't understand it. But I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:32 AM
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I'm debating like so many people at one time. I'm sending the wrong comments to the wrong person my bad. But trust me nothing dumb over here. But I'm going to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:27 AM
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Exactly — you just called women ‘undervalued talent.’ Thanks for proving my point. That undervaluing is what I’ve been saying the entire time — bias still runs the system. Now you're saying I'm dumb. As I said before if you hate women just say that. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:25 AM
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you needed 30 minutes to type an essay and still missed the point, meanwhile I’ve been cutting through in real-time. Sweet dreams love. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:18 AM
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As a so called "feminist" you saw me, a woman, debating 4 men in this chat 💬 and thought 💭 let me be #5 is diabolical. And disagreeing, but really just circling around semantics and trying to “logic” away systemic bias. What you're saying is basically: “If women don’t like it, they should just switch industries, start their own businesses, and stop complaining.” I'm not complaining. I'm trying to figure out if they're making more money, why are they making jealousy post about women. That’s not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:13 AM
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The fact you’re writing essays to prove women don’t face bias kinda proves the jealousy/resentment point better than I ever could. I’ll let you sit with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:46 AM
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I just noticed I’m debating an incel. No wonder there’s bias. This wasn’t a debate, it was me trying to reason with resentment. I’ll pass. Sweet dreams. 😴
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:45 AM
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Nobody’s saying women get handed a smaller paycheck for the exact same job at the same desk. The gap comes from who gets promoted, who gets leadership roles, whose work is undervalued, and which industries are respected. If it was as simple as ‘just hire all women for less,’ every company would be doing it. But they don’t, because bias still runs the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:41 AM
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Funny how when women point out disparities it’s ‘systemic doesn’t mean anything’ — but if the numbers were flipped, you’d call it oppression. That’s the double standard I’m talking about. At least admit it. But I do appreciate the facts however. There's no debate without facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:34 AM
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Good points, and I’ll acknowledge that education, occupation, and overtime do factor into the pay gap. But those “choices” don’t exist in a vacuum: • Women have been historically discouraged or excluded from those higher-paying trades (construction, trucking, welding). At the same time, female-dominated fields like teaching, nursing, and social work are undervalued and underpaid because they’re women-heavy. That’s not “choice” alone — that’s systemic bias. • Yes, men work more paid overtime, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:30 AM
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Who cares isn't it the men in the group that are debating me and even talking in here asides for me? Please stay on topic. Getting into the semantics. Deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:18 AM
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How is this hate? I don't have any hate. I'm here wondering why the whole title has hate in it. Speaking of jealousy of women. You're proving my point. You guys may be better and paid more and that's fine but then why are men still jealous? All the whiney people in the comments without facts moving the goal post is getting ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:13 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/56ce8sochusf1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0e3196493e442551f60de79f0ca6e81cce6894e4 Why not because you men needed this education. Please spread truths and stop speaking from your feelings. If you hate women just say that. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:57 AM
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I pay for it so I have advanced with articles. Do you want those? I'll wait? But where are your facts. You can google everything I'm saying. I can send them if you like but all of your commentary is based on your feelings. No links no nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:53 AM
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Exactly — even after adjusting for job type and hours, the gap doesn’t disappear. That’s proof it isn’t just about choices, it’s about bias baked into the system. Thanks for confirming. Even when you control for job type and hours worked (which already ignores a ton of systemic differences), there’s still about a 5% gap. That’s not “nothing.” That’s billions of dollars of lost income across women’s lifetimes. You guys act like 5% is too small to care about — but if men and women were switched, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:50 AM
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<image> You can never win off your feelings without facts in a debate. I'm coming with facts. But do carry on in your feelings. 😇😌
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:46 AM
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Your initial post was basically bait — it framed women as either lazy (“have it easy, don’t think too hard”) or fake (“makeup hides their true looks,” “gossip,” “seduce people”). It wasn’t a genuine question; it was worded to provoke resentment and validate the anger some men already carry. I'm sorry I had to step in and give a woman's point of view. But I assume this is for educational purposes and whoever is reading can understand both sides. 😊🫱🏾‍🫲🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:42 AM
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Women aren’t simply “choosing to work less.” The gap comes from a mix of factors: job segregation, societal expectations around caregiving, discrimination in promotions/pay raises, and undervaluing of female-dominated industries.Even when working the same hours and same jobs, women often face a pay penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:34 AM
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No this doesn't sound shitty. Just there's so many subreddits posted towards women I begin to think men have nothing else to think or talk about. Which makes me feel like that in itself is the root of the problem. They have no alternative good friends or community because this is all I see when I go in men spaces. Vs women talk about everything even just randomly talk about animals. I asked because I think men are just wired differently. It's like they care about only two things where as the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:28 AM
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Doesn't matter it says on average. Meaning generally all men are paid more than women. You're being specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:25 AM
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What data are you looking at. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:21 AM
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So you want to know why someone hates a woman? What would be the reasoning for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:18 AM
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I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:15 AM
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This. I was just thinking this is such a weird question. Like is the author trying to stir up hate. Is this a hate train 🚂? And as a woman I know I'm not out here feeling I have it easier because we have to work harder for respect. We get paid less so we work harder. Sounds like a hating ass question. But I love the way you answered it. Real man energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:05 AM
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Not necessarily true. You could think you were happy in the beginning and find out the truth later on. People change. Feelings go as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:32 AM
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I had a type but I was saying you can't choose to be happy if you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:08 AM
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I honestly think people can't just choose to be happy if they're not. They just rather stick it out. A lot of times it's more convenient because most people don't like change because it requires you to grow. Start over. But deep down they're miserable and forcing it and ignoring a lot of things to keep up the facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:02 AM
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Depending on those challenges honestly. But if it makes me lose my peace I'm gonna leave. But since I believe in choices I believe you should have the right to leave for whatever. People know their limits. They shouldn't be forced to stay past that limit if they don't want to and can't show up as the best version of a partner. You do not own your husband/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:12 AM
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Happiness plays a huge part of responsibility. If you're not happy you can't have a healthy relationship with anyone. Everything effects everything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:08 AM
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No. Everyone deserves the right to leave and have happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:50 AM
1

Double standards are real unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:37 PM
1

I swear this purple pill subreddit revolves around women. Do y'all have nothing else going on? Is this a woman hate train? 🚂 all the posts mainly are this way. I go to women subreddits and we talk about all types of things. I think if men stopped revolving their lives around what women do, the world would be a better place. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:02 PM
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As a woman I agree. I've been around women all my life and I only heard one woman say that and I looked at her like she's a weirdo. Men say that way more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:59 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. I was being sarcastic. Which is why I put it in quotations. The OP is framing consent as if it’s some barrier that “ruins the thrill,” instead of seeing it as the foundation that makes intimacy possible. When someone talks like that, it often reveals they’re more interested in taking what they want than in mutual desire. Notice how he Describes consent as “boring,” “a checkbox,” or “just the law.” Puts way more focus on women being “turned on” by danger than on women feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:19 AM
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Exactly!! that’s what you’re missing. All so-called ‘rape fantasies’ are consensual roleplay. If it’s not consented to, it stops being fantasy and becomes an actual crime. Women aren’t turned on by real assault, they’re turned on by the illusion of danger within the safety of consent. If you can’t grasp that, you don’t understand the difference between sex and assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:03 AM
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Consent isn’t a turn-off, it’s the baseline. If you think women sound ‘reluctant’ about it, maybe that’s because you’re treating it like some chore instead of the foundation of trust and safety. CNC fantasies work because they’re rooted in consent. Without it, it’s not sexy, it’s assault. If you find women’s boundaries boring, that’s not a problem with women — that’s a problem with how you view respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:40 AM
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Attract is one thing. To be in a relationship is another. Be a trash person and see how long that works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:01 PM
1

There's no need for men to feel they need to be only a provider. Provide emotional intelligence and support. Help out. Money isn't the only thing needed for a relationship to work. The patriarchy made us think this. It's simply not true. Billionaires get divorced. It's easier to make money than it is do be loyal and disciplined and emotionally intelligent. Today money isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:00 PM
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