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Exactly what I was thinking as well. Basically everyone in my extended family & friends who've got together met their partner at place of mutual interest or knew eachother from childhood/ school. I've literally never seen Cold approaching go well except for my extremely attractive friends. And that's not to say they don't have anything else going for them, but the person they're speaking to wouldn't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:20 PM
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"Men have so it so easy" Alrighty fella 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:29 PM
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I just don't find find that a satisfactory answer. It's not exactly some menial task, it should be a big deal. And you probably shouldn't be sleeping with someone if your opinion of them is low enough you don't even think you could approach the subject, either because you don't feel like you can do it safely or because you don't care to tell them, I don't feel like that's a high bar when sleeping around personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:02 PM
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I'm fairly firmly pro choice, and I don't really care about the ticky-tac debates over if it's a life or not. I was however quite surprised that a lot of folk I spoke to don't consider it a "bad" or morally questionable thing to have one without the fathers knowledge. Not consent, I agree that it should ultimately be the mother's choice, but knowledge of it even happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:16 PM
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Or vice versa, they could improve themselves to rise up and meet those standards. As thankfully, most people in real life who aren't chronically online don't have unrealistic expectations. Was this post actually about discussing unreasonable standards or a way for you to have dig at "women won't lower their standards for me" guys? Because it's all you seem to be harping on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:56 AM
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"hey I've seen this one this is a classic!" Part of what makes a person with unreasonable standards "unreasonable", can be attributed to the fact that you've dwindled your choices of who's eligible to such a miniscule minority of the population, under the arrogant assumption that you can simply wait and pick one of these people when they come along without any consideration as to whether they would also want you. Which follows into if you've never managed to ever get someone who fits those stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:39 AM
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I imagine this will vary quite a bit depending where you are in the world and how extreme your government (or lack thereof) is and how much it impacts you, or you think it impacts you. Personally, someone's political alignment doesn't sit on my top 10 or probably even 20 things I'm looking out for in dating, with a few exceptions of course. So if they're apolitical that doesn't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:29 PM
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I can't tell if you're just not reading what this guy wrote or are maliciously trying your best to interpret him in the worst possible way you can imagine and acting as if that is indeed his intent. Case in point: Why are men so determined to criticize women's appearance He never criticised it, simply stated it's not his preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:45 PM
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Can't comment too much about it being unreasonable or not in the USA. However here in the UK, the amount of people earning over 100k is considerably lower. Depending where you look online, the number typically varies between 1 in 10 (10%), all the way down to 2%. You then have to break that population down even smaller into people who you could potentially date (e.g. sexual orientation, single), then if you have any additional preferences or deal breakers to make it someone who you would date, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:21 PM
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Oh so you ARE in fact aware of it, you just refuse to acknowledge it. Well isn't that convenient for you. And no, I don't particularly want to argue with someone who quite frankly comes across as rude as you. Find someone else to take your pent up anger on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:47 PM
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Wonder if it wasn't for your last sentence, we'd have got a bingo with someone calling you short lol. Height is something a lot of people got picked on for (girls included), whether it's being a short stump or a lanky person. But there's no doubt the "short guy" thing is by far the most common one. And no doubt people will say a lot of guys earn that short man syndrome reputation by being unnecessarily asshole-ish about it, but let's not pretend it's only these guys who are targeted for it. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:22 PM
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No amount of "hobbies" is going to make up for it. I'm in full agreement with this over simplified cure people keep touting as if it's somehow a good response. It reads no different to "if you're homeless, just buy a house?". No amount of back patting and "there there now" from strangers online is going to magically undo +10yrs of failure in the dating market someone has lived. Unrealistic standards is a problem that is a net negative on mental health (e.g. eating disorders), not just because so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:44 AM
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You're either very new to the internet, or have a very selective algorithm to suggest the content doesn't exist. Because I can assure you, I'm not nearly creative enough to make it up. I'm not trying to "make the left look bad", I'm reminding OC that OP isn't off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:43 PM
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I have to respectfully disagree with the "conservatives do it more" argument regarding this topic. It absolutely is a both sides issue, until very recently with the "trad wife" explosion, I'd easily say the lefts message was far more prevalent and mainstreamed.The whole CEO girlboss persona was everywhere to the point becoming a mother was seen as an insult, like you were degrading yourself and other women by conforming to the patriarchy or whatever bs reason they have. Which any reasonable pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:32 PM
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Finally, a sane take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:19 PM
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People are shallow. That's an unfortunate reality he'll have to deal with. Yes while he may be proving "women are shallow", he's not gaining anything by it. The best way I've had it described to me is that most normal women don't need you to be making bank right now at present, but so long as your future prospects mean that you have the potential to grow. Doing nothing or doing something that doesn't seem like you're advancing anywhere isn't attractive period, in both men AND women. Also he's lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:48 PM
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I'm glad I wasn't the only person who noticed that. A single word, but it shows a gap in perspective far larger than can be initially imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:33 PM
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men hate women Speak for yourself. Started off strong lol. Came swinging right out of the gate with the ridiculous generalisation to justify your sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:22 PM
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Wait what? So no one can ever call you out for making a bad choice? Any such criticism levied against you can be deflected as an assault on your free will itself? How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:13 PM
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It's actually kinda sad you, without skipping a beat, demonstrated his original point. And I can't tell whether or not you've done that deliberately in some kind of self aware troll kind of way, or it somehow slipped your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:51 PM
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Really? I find it hard to believe both men and won't have been effected by the consumption of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:41 PM
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Yeah bro you're cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:36 PM
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Most people's standards have become incredibly skewed whether it be through porn or social media like Instagram. It's almost impossible to "reverse" the effect It's had on us all, the best you can hope for is to be self aware. One of the worst outcomes of this, to me at least, is how FOMO-centric dating has become.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:07 PM
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The best cynical way I've heard therapy described recently is "it's a upper-middle class solution, being peddled to working class problems". This post is such a breath of fresh air on here from the standard low quality rage baiting or same old repeated trope questions. I hope this gets the engagement it deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:57 PM
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“you know what, I was undecided on abortion but I didn’t think about women not having threesomes anymore so you got me”? Got me good that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:49 PM
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As a grown adult, you don't get to TELL what another grown adult does so long as they have capacity. Partner or not. You can ASK and explain your reasoning why you think/ don't think x, y, and z. And if you're in a loving relationship where you trust eachother, you should be able to work it out in a healthy manner from there. When you have a disagreement they make you sleep on the couch to punish you. Is this part of a healthy relationship or a serious red flag? Personally, I think that whole cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:02 PM
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It's only something I've noticed when they're talking directly to the person. Because they usually don't have any issue voicing their opinion about the person in question to the rest of the friend group when they're not around. This is obviously something you can see everywhere with nearly every friend group in some shape or form, however I do find that men generally find it easier to tell a friend they think they're making a mistake or anything for that matter that isn't just positive encourage…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:49 PM
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Careful, might catch a stray TERF label
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:27 PM
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Love this. I fundamentally believe that people aren't 1 dimensional "all or nothing" political mouth pieces, people who think like that are often so boring. Life is far more interesting when you actually view and treat individuals AS individuals. It's the sheer hubris of some people that not only believe their way of thinking is objectively right, but that anyone who thinks differently is morally deplorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:14 AM
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You literally posted a screenshot of you snapping someone, saying hi. That's you shooting your shot brother. If it works, magic. If it don't? Move on. It's not difficult, so why are you expending energy getting worked up about people who A) you don't even know, and B) clearly aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:50 AM
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There's a simple solution... Move on. Learn to care less. You're young, so thankfully you've still got some growing up to do. But why are you letting girls who you don't even know affect you so much? Time is precious, too much so to be wasting it thinking about people who aren't interested in you. So shoot your shot, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:31 AM
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You trying to oust "most women" as sexist as well? Blimey. Standards? Your dating standards are neither here nor there. You don't have to date single parents, or anyone for that matter that you don't want to. Nor do you need a reason beyond "because I don't want to". But that doesn't make the reasoning you laid out immune to criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:38 PM
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We gotta snooper! You'll need to be more specific, it's been a while since I last commented something on this sub. But to answer your actual question, would something titled "single motherhood shouldn't be encouraged" be rage bait? Yeah, pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:26 PM
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You could have just said you're sexist and saved us all the waffle. Thanks for clearing that up. Heroic? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:22 PM
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This isn't a gendered issue. Single Parenthood shouldn't be encouraged full stop. You can stop pretending to be an idiot, it's not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:05 PM
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Rage bait used to be believable. Come on, surely you can do better than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:56 PM
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Yeah there's this odd social noose around their neck, where if they "step out of line" by disagreeing with another woman on a hot topic like feminism, the amount of shit they'll get from other women is astounding. Men get lectured, more or less constantly, that they need to protect women from other men... This debate I feel like died a long time ago, due to the fact when it came down to it, women didn't want to listen to men's advice. Things like suggesting they take up martial arts to learn how…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:46 PM
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I agree with most of what you've said, but definitely believe there is a difference between feminism and misandry. Having said that I do believe it's mostly feminists fault that the view of "well they're basically the same thing" is so prevalent. They make no proactive effort to separate themselves. A lot will even defend/ deflect from the issue which is totally the wrong approach and is again part of this weird social thing women have where they struggle to simply call out other women. I do in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:35 PM
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I will say for the most part, barring the Amber Heard stuff, you're not far off. It strays into what feminism Vs misandry is though. You fall into the same trap you're claiming they do by tarring them all with the same brush. The problem is that up until recently, feminism was a fairly monolithic term and stayed as one big cohesive thing. It didn't do a very good job at self regulating. Despite there clearly being more radical people who identified themselves as merely feminist, there really isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:38 PM
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Can't be said enough how true this is. One of my best friends is one of those 10/10. And it is just as you say, shit you only ever see in harem anime that you thought never actually happened. I knew he never had trouble with women but seeing it in person was such an alien experience. I remember one occasion where a woman was over him all night and desperately trying to get him to join her group for an after party and he just wasn't interested. It got to the point where she came over to the rest …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:31 PM
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I hear you, preach 🙌 Like, wtf does "Ukrainian (pussy)" even mean? It's so comically bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:31 AM
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I've no doubt, seen some corkers already. But it was the things like "Ukrainian (pussy)" I was flabbergasted by. Like, it's so out of pocket 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:28 AM
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I've no doubt. Someone posted a profile of one actually, made me chuckle. It's more so this was the first time myself seeing one of these comically terrible bios. So I'm by no means making a claim that this is somehow the norm. But rather, I can see why some guys and gals would just lose hope if they saw enough bs like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:12 AM
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Oh no, this is actually the first time seeing a profile with such a comically ridiculous bio for myself. So she's definitely an outlier for me. It's more so, I can see why some guys would lose hope if this is something they come across me much more frequently. I don't live in a particularly populated area neither, so I imagine for people living in large cities it probably does pop up more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:09 AM
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It certainly helps the filtering process 💀 Stuff like this doesn't particularly bother me. But assuming this was a legit profile, "obnoxious" is putting it mildly I'd say. It's so comically terrible I just had to share it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:06 AM
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I wouldn't know, this is my first time seeing this kind of wild bio, so I haven't seen a trend of women like this, she's an outlier. However, it's undeniable that a lot of young men have lost hope in dating these days. And it's not difficult to find countless posts and stories of guys coming across multiple profiles like this. That is becoming a trend, and after seeing a profile like this I can see why. I don't live in a particularly crowded place, so my population sample to draw from is limited…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:03 AM
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Eh? No offense but do you not pay much attention? Every other post on this depressing sub is a guy complaining/ preaching about how hopeless it is for men and how "easy" women have it. My opinion that a lot of men have lost hope isn't from this 1 profile. Rather I see why a lot of guys have lost hope if they see enough of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:58 PM
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Upset? It's more disappointing than anything, wouldn't particularly say I'm upset by it. But it clearly contributes to the hopeless a lot of young men feel when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:50 PM
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It's probably the most popular type of cut I notice. Not that anything else in that list made much sense either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:29 PM
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She was indeed. And from where I live at least, yeah it's not uncommon. It's just such a random thing to throw in though 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:24 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:22 PM
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I'd also be interested to know. The account was verified (not that's ironclad or anything) but I've already "hidden" the profile as I'd rather she didn't pop back up for me 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:21 PM
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It's all a bit of a shit show and I don't have particularly high expectations on these apps. However this in particular caught me so off guard as I've only ever heard/ seen these kinds of bios posted online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:18 PM
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Actually cracked me up reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:15 PM
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It's more disappointing than anything but it doesn't "get to me" in that way. But it clearly gets to enough guys where they see enough of stuff like his, and just give up and get on their soap box about how this is how all women are. Which obviously isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:11 PM
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You'd have to tell me, I don't live there. But usually living in super large or overcrowded cities means there's far more people to choose from than you. And LA being the home of Hollywood where so many people are trying to climb the superstar ladder probably doesn't do any favours for average guys either. You're literally competing against celebrities or wannabe celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:01 PM
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I don't even live there and I already have an idea of how rough it would be 😭 I think maybe the misconception is: big city = lots of people, which in turn = lots of matches/ dates. When in actuality it's more like: big city = lots of people, which in turn means far more people to choose from, what counts as attractive (or 10/10 etc) becomes higher = less matches/ dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:57 PM
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Oh hell no, not implying that should be his move. Just that realistically with where he is, it's going to be tougher than usual. Also, the way a lot of these dating app algorithms work is by propping up "new" accounts, then after a certain amount of time, unless they remain constantly active with matches, they get shuffled to the back catalog. That might also be why he was getting matches and now isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:58 AM
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It's obviously hyperbolic, I don't think there is someone who would actually just take "anyone". It's not surprising that your friend is frustrated, but my dude is playing on the hardest difficulty, on what is already a difficult game, by being in a city like LA. And I hope he realizes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:48 AM
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Trying to justify feeling attracted to a 16yr old, a literal child in the eyes of the law in most developed nations, is a bold strategy. Yeah, you're a nonce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:59 PM
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I'm getting the word.... Nonce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:40 PM
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Are men and women the same in quantity, size, degree or VALUE? ... Really? You're either lacking very basic level of reading comprehension and are genuinely this daft, which I don't believe, or It took you a full day to think up the cleverest troll response you could, to which I realize I've fallen for the bait. Well done, Gr8 b8 m8 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:17 PM
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Red pill: 1) High body counts are unattractive and overall not at all appealing. 2) People are far more shallow about who they pick than they'll ever admit. There's a reason why there's such a thing as the "top 10%". Blue pill: 1) Traditional marriages aren't necessarily the best way to do it nor is it an ironclad fit for everyone. It comes down to teamwork ultimately, whichever way you play your roles. 2) Dating is rough for both sexes, they each face two different issues which often sit at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:29 PM
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No that is a limitation that YOU put on the word... Again, google the meaning of the word equal Welp, have I got bad news for you chief. Equal: adjective 1. being the same in quantity, size, degree, or value. noun a person or thing that is the same as another in status or quality Identical: adjective 1. similar in every detail; exactly alike. What was it you said again? Oh yes, facts disagee with your feelings. You can throw as much of a tantrum as you like about it but the simple fact is you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:31 PM
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Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:18 AM
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but it means the same. Being the same would make you "Identical". Being equal means you amount to the same value or being functionally equivalent. It's a subtle difference, and while they can be often used interchangeably, I'm talking about men and women while not being identical, amount to the same value. You can be equal and yet very different. That would be literally incorrect. Wrong. I already listed an example, it doesn't take much thinking to think of others but I'll give you another for f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:28 PM
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No, not just 'the same', but the same in value. There's a difference and it's one people seem to often forget. You can be equal and yet very different. As someone so masterfully put it, you can have a bishop and a knight on a chess board, they're equal in terms of points and value but they do very different things. What even is "true equality"? That something you just made up? 🗿
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:21 PM
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Think you're confusing equality with being the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:05 PM
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what should logically be the default assumption. What it usually is. That if we're dating, and you haven't explicitly, or even implicitly made it clear that it's not going anywhere or that you're also "exploring other avenues", then we're dating with purpose. And that purpose is usually to become an official couple. Is there any real need to reinvent the wheel with this? It's easy to fall back on the "oH wElL yOu NeVeR aSkEd" excuse but if someone doesn't want you to know something they'll usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:06 PM
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In the context of OP's post it's just simply about how honest you are about it. If you're upfront from the start that you're "enjoying being single" or "exploring your options" then that's fine. You're giving the person the opportunity to make an informed decision on whether or not they'd actually like to take you on a date. Not saying, then the other person finding out 3 dates in that you're also dating 2 or 3 other guys, shouldn't be a shocking revelation when the other person decides to cut y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:10 AM
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Pretty much this. I'd also say for me personally, It needs to be said fairly early on that is what you're doing in some form or another. That way I can decide whether or not I'm ok participating. Because otherwise I'm dating under a completely false notion. Obviously I don't think you're expected to divulge who/ when/ where etc and tbh I don't think most people would particularly want to know all the details. But it should be made clear that you're "exploring your options".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:46 AM
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I'm not gonna lie chief, I went to that thread and the top most upvoted comments are pretty based. Every other day on this sub I see a thread like this one. "why are men not allowed preferences", and then another day I'll see "men feel that women won't allow them preferences, where do they get this idea?". It's got to the point I don't know what to even think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:48 PM
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Usually from cesspools like Twitter or other subs here on Reddit. So it's not hard to imagine the level of interaction that goes on there; not very throught provoking stuff. I can't say it's something I've ever experienced in real life face to face personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:00 AM
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It ain't my view, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:27 PM
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It's not a view I hold in particularly high regard either. But there is some truth to the safety element. As "unlikely" as it might be, if it did happen, the first person you'd turn to is your partner in those situations. The rest is all very dependent on certain living situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:46 PM
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It's a harsh word but the premise isn't far off. The idea behind "submitting to your man" from what I've heard from TRP it goes like this: Authority and responsibility are linked. And ultimately if your man is responsible for you then he needs a degree of authority over you. If he's going to be responsible for your safety/ wealth/ health/ happiness then you need to sometimes accept things that you might not always agree about. Because if a man is ultimately expected to defend you if you were phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:51 PM
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Then let me be clear, it's a ridiculous argument to begin with that I'm not sure why someone would make "for" sex robots. To presuppose it's a "good thing", is to presuppose that it'll happen at a significant rate and I reject that very notion. Even if you wanted to specifically cover serial killers, rapists, and sociopaths, maybe it might keep a few of them off of taking it out on actual people but who's to even say it'll make it blind bit of difference? You'd have to assume they'd find a sex r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:50 PM
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It's hard to give a solid answer. As it is now, the attitude towards sex Robots and the stigma is similar to how body pillows were/ are. It's probably always going to be looked down on or thought as a bit taboo but Robots today also still don't look all that human. Not really anyway, but who's to say in 25yrs time when they look near indistinguishable from actual people, that the stigma will have lifted. What about the Jeffrey Dahmers of the world... the idea that people are sexually abusing som…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:29 PM
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Please for the love of god don't take this sub as representative of any real sizable population.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:30 PM
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Out of those who don't get divorced, I estimate that around 10-20% is miserable in their marriage but stays married for other reasons. Only 30% at best are genuinely satisfied in their marriage. Putting aside the fact you're pulling that number out of your ass, relationships are an investment. And generally speaking, if you're investing in someone, you want them also to be doing the same with you. We're social creatures, and both men and women ultimately want some kind of companionship. But we'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:28 PM
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So by definition, it's not done exclusively for yourself. Which isn't anything to be ashamed of, some people just have a really hard time even admitting what you said so I appreciate your response. Pretty privilege exists for a reason. Very true. And I think men more often than not confuse "I prefer natural/ no makeup" when what they actually praise is just natural looking makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:11 PM
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So it's for both yourself and others. Which is absolutely fine btw, I do wish people were more honest about this though. I really appreciate your answer. But we do notice how differently men treat us when we’re pretty... Every man in the world can say they hate over blown lip fillers, but women will still do it because they like the aesthetic. I do think the whole "I prefer natural/ no makeup" thing is an exaggeration at best by a lot of men. What they're really trying to express is there's such…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:05 PM
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People love to self loathe on here and act like the grass is greener on the other side. And they might even be right, in the specific topic they're talking about but it's all tit for tat. We've all got our problems and it's easy to hate people who don't struggle the way you do, and assume that they don't struggle at all because of it. On a side note though: The makeup/plastic surgey industry is huge for a reason. Men can talk about who they're attracted to all day, but women notice how men act o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:31 AM
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Partially because it wasn't me you asked, but I also get the sneaking suspicion you're not going to be satisfied with the answer I'd give. But I'll answer. And who primarily, would you say, says things like "you should be proud she groped you"? People of the not so nice variety. How would you expect a man to react if another man complained about this to him? Probably not so different to how a woman would react. But you need to be much more specific in your line of questioning. This a friend or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:42 AM
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I’d expect a woman to be sympathetic to a man who admits to her that he’s been groped by a woman... You'd be surprised at the reality then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:13 AM
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Pretty much spot on. Girls fighting is anything but pretty, and they're far more capable of doing harm than some would give credit for. Scratching, biting, it can get barbaric. Although I'd say the whole boys being friends after a fight is more of a Hollywood stereotype. I can't say I ever wanted to associate with the very few people I fought with. There's a level of civilised being young boys grow up learning to respect, knowing the capability of violence. Because it gets far uglier than just p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:32 AM
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Alright I'll play ball. Interestingly enough, the answer to your first question has changed with my age. When I was in school, below the age 18, almost every fight was between boys. However past the age of 18/19, I'd actually say most fights I've seen are between women. So I genuinely couldn't say. For your next question, the obvious answer is men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:14 PM
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I really don't like leading questions like this. Bad people exist in all walks of life, they don't belong to one group or population. As someone once eloquently put it "Knobheads are universal". To assume someone is or isn't going to be a bad person based on whether or not they're a woman or man is a very limiting prejudice to have. No different to judging them based on any other defining characteristic you want to pick out. People are individuals first. If my experiences are anything to go off …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:01 PM
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Oh well that's obviously awful. But... Well, it's not relevant is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:51 AM
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Perfectly reasonable. I wouldn't take these podcasts at face value and apply them to any sizable population though, part of their whole brand and image is being "controversial"/ opinionated. It's what gets them seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:47 AM
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The portrayal many western women try to paint these foreign women as basically "money grubbing/ green card seeking gold diggers" and claim it's out of some kind of "empathy" for the women is laughable and borderline insulting with just a pinch of an undertone of racism. Their language betrays them, it's very clearly not out of empathy for the foreign women but resentment of the men. You don't have to scroll far into these comments to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:37 AM
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This definitely isn't a gendered issue. Have you ever tried talking/ flirting to some women? They absolutely can suck at it just as much if not more than men. COVID will definitely have had an effect on young guys, especially those who were aged 14 - 17 at the start of the pandemic, missing out on almost 2yrs of everyday physical social interaction at school with their peers will absolutely not go unnoticed. But ultimately we live in a Facebook/ Instagram world where everything is done online an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:32 AM
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Basically the opposite of what women experience, kinda what you were getting at Being a virgin man beyond a certain age has a negative connotation attached to it, people might pretend that it doesn't but everyone knows it absolutely does. If you turn down sexual advances from your partner, the automatic assumption is there's something "wrong" with you. It's kind of a weird one, men are often viewed as horn dogs in a negative way by women yet when we're not acting as such, the assumption is somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:42 PM
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Men hate to be pursued... Respectfully, this is the biggest croc of shite I've read this week and it's only Monday night. In future, don't speak for "men".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:08 AM
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I'd really not want to meet you if how you act in the comments is indicative of how you are in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:17 PM
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It'll vary culture to culture. In the US, there seems to be this push where if you're not out of your parents house living in some shit hole apartment struggling to make the "American dream" come true for yourself by 20, you're a loser. The UK used somewhat similar but there's been a recent shift in the past 10 - 15yrs with the cost of living crisis. Unless you consider Uni having moved out, most people aren't too fussed about it unless you're approaching 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:25 AM
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I think people today start out with such unrealistic expectations and have a slightly higher opinion of themselves than they really ought to when it comes to finding a partner. Whether you're a man or woman, I think between the ages of 16 - 25 for a lot of people, they're far too fixated on shallow priorities that they think their partner HAS to have in order for it to work. They're also much more likely to leave and move onto the next the minute a minor issue comes up. The way I view it is, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:18 AM
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This is probably the 4th or 5th time I've seen a variation of this post. And I'm probably one of the newer people to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:25 PM
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Probably has a lot to do with how well you know the person/ are comfortable with them. If you don't really know the person, receiving an overwhelming amount of attention in the "getting to know each other phase" will probably feel weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:45 PM
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People ask the strangest things on here. "Why do men want to better themselves when they know they'll never be the best?" Really? Does the realm of common sense no longer cover such a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:19 PM
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If you want to meet someone/ interested in getting yourself out there into dating yeah, you kind of have to. The reality is the percentage of men who don't have to actually try and just have women flock to them are in the minority, and chances are you don't fall into that minority. So it's kind of up to you to put yourself forward and take the plunge so to speak. The good news is if you're somewhat socially aware, know how to strike up a normal conversation, and know when you're fighting a losin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:06 AM
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This is exactly it. I don't know anyone, and no one I know knows of someone who's made use of this liberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:56 AM
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Here in the UK, prostitution is legal. I can't say it's made much of a difference one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:19 PM
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I feel like this is the kind of question people try to psychoanalyse someone over. But my relationship with my mother is great. Wasn't particularly close when I was wee, not someone I confided in much during my teens, but have grown closer the older I've gotten. She did a lot for me I was too young to understand or appreciate, she was a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:49 PM
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I thought women made it very clear "wE dOn'T dO iT fOr YoU, wE dO iT fOr OuR sElVeS". You're also comparing "plain Jane" to celebrities, there's more going on there than just the physical attractiveness. But even putting that to one side, a lot of men will pursue the kind of woman you're describing for sex and not a lot else. Plain Janes are getting pursued, but it's not like the barrier for entry is lower of something, most people have ridiculous levels of standards nowadays that are unbefittin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:27 AM
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Older men are much more understanding/ sympathetic from my experience. Even though a lot of them are a little out of touch (and a lot even know it lol), they do sympathise with the struggles of OLD and how the social landscape has shifted between men and women. Women of my age "understand" much more in that they're aware of it all, but most aren't particularly sympathetic or care a whole lot. And that's not throwing shade at all, I don't blame them for that, just how it is as I've experienced it…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:49 PM
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Probably a good idea to take things like this with a pinch of salt and not too seriously. Men and Women are more alike than we are different temperamentally speaking. We're both shallow in our own ways and prioritize loyalty above everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:54 AM
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Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient. However that doesn't mean you can't find happiness in the meaningful pursuits of your life. It's the people and things in your life that actually matter to you that should bring you true fulfilment. It's difficult to prioritise my happiness because I don't really thing I deserve it... I am lucky in that I lucked into becoming a surgeon... You EARNED your position of surgeon. No one just accidentally lands a position that requires that much skill …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:38 PM
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Absolutely. It might be more difficult and you'll have to try a lot more but it's definitely possible. But it also depends on what you consider your "social circle". You only need a few good friends, you don't need a massive network. But on a side note, it genuinely baffles me that people make it into their mid/ late 20's and don't have a single genuine friend to their name. Like wtf were you doing all throughout school and college? School is ass, but I think there are 2 things it is great for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:51 PM
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I mean, I've seen this happen both ways and I've seen both sexes react horribly to being rejected etc. So it's not a either or issue. Do people view women less harshly than men generally? Yeah probably. You can kind of think of it like the "halo effect" but for women, where some people have this perception they can do no wrong. Is it unfair? Absolutely. Is it understandable why this perception exists? Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:15 PM
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Not sure you've quite got your set up here right. The equivalent of a girl with daddy issues would be a boy with "mommy issues". And the equivalent of a mama's boy would be a "daddy's girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:52 PM
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Just going by the numbers, most men throughout history didn't succeed in passing on their genes. It's estimated that you have roughly double the amount of female ancestors. If you were a man in the past through most of our history, your fate was likely to either die in a ditch fighting in a war, or die from illness. Nowadays your chances of either of these being your fate is overwhelmingly smaller (subject to where you live). So now with our massive population, these men aren't sent off to die i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:59 PM
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No, it's if all your relationships are with abusers/ trash men, then maybe taking a second to self reflect isn't such a bad idea. It's a response to the "every man I've been with was trash = all men are trash" rhetoric. It's a question of whether or not this is a reflection of the person. Women are the gatekeepers who ultimately choose for 90% of relationships. And if you're continuously choosing poorly, there's only so much you can chop up to "bad luck" before taking some accountability for dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:41 AM
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Yeeeeeaaah idk about this one chief. Look, there is something to be said for dressing inappropriately or overly sexual as you're suggesting if you're with someone (which Ik might immediately trigger some people just reading that), especially if it's paired with inappropriate behaviour. That's a conversation to be had sure, even though some people would like to fein ignorance to it. But the mere act of going to a social event like that ain't really it. It borders on paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:52 AM
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Here's the argument: Generally, how do men show their love to a woman? Resources. It's what men get up at 6am to work their bullshit job for, not because they want to but to provide for his partner. And how do women show their love to a man? Sexual exclusivity. This man is the only one who gets to sleep with me because I might get pregnant so I'm picking him to be the only one who gets to do that. There's also the belief around the different dynamics of male and female promiscuity which all play…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:56 PM
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And that's how mafia works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:43 PM
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Because women, and people as a whole tbh, are yet to accept that "body count" does in fact matter. And would much rather continue to pretend that there are no negative consequences to sleeping around casually, beyond the potential STI. We've somehow simultaneously lowered the value of sex, while also raising it's value and importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:12 PM
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A group can't be oppressed by their own group. Factually incorrect. Because It's a convenient escape for professional victims as you can quite literally "group" people based on a near infinite number of attributes, socially or biologically. Who gets to define what a "group" is? The Rich oppress the poor. Oh sorry does that not count since there are people in overlapping "groups" in both of those? The Nazi's oppressed the Jews. Oh sorry, both white in those groups. Don't count. The Romans oppress…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:14 AM
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I... Don't remember saying otherwise? People leave eachother all the time for a lot of reasons, groundbreaking shit I know. And that's brilliant, honestly this: "We operate as a team" is excellent and I wish you both good fortune 🙏. Don't really see how it contradicts anything I said? Relationships aren't a monolith and operating as a team doesn't have to mean the same thing for every couple. But we were specifically talking about the ideology of "the wall" and the people that buy into that line…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:40 PM
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This might sound like a hot take but I'm willing to bet a substantial amount of money that most men don't want that kind of life. There definitely are some guys who want to live that life of a hugh hefner type bachelor who never settles down. But I'm willing to bet, even for a lot of the "top 5%" or "big G's", that's not what they want. It might be fun for the short term when you're single, but most men want a woman whom they can settle down with. But you're missing the mark with this mentality.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:13 PM
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It really doesn't say a lot, that's just how the masculine mind works. That's just how it be. And generally from what I've seen for the vast majority, these men are "leaders" in almost every other aspect of their lives as well. Not all of them, but the mentality carries over into other parts of life when it's not faked. Ik people like to try and rationalize this kind of thinking/ mindset with a slightly degrading: "you must be lacking leadership in other parts of your life...". It's not that dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:34 PM
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You're leaving out half the actual point of this "wall" idea (I've heard it called many different things). It's not purely for your youth that men will want to marry you for, it's everything that comes with being younger: innocence, purity, and also beauty and fertility. Not solely for those two things. But innocence/ lack of experience is a big one because a masculine man wants to feel like a leader/ teacher in the relationship, which is also reinforced by a lot of women wanting this from their…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:37 PM
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Because it does. That's not to say personality isn't the closer. It's just as important, however if you're not physically attractive then you never get the chance for your personality to shine. "Love at first sight" I've no doubt there are far more successful men in the sexual market who are good looking but lack personality, than there are unattractive men who have a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:35 PM
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We also don’t need a man to have a child, as we can easily find sperm donors or a willing partner on any night out. Bit of an oxymoron but that's kind of how I'd sum this entire post tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:39 AM
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Plenty of men don't respect the role of a housewife. Not only I've heard many men calling SAHMs "goldiggers"... Plenty of men (and women) call women who marry into money gold-diggers, not exclusively because they're housewives. I've never once heard or seen a man call a housewife of a working class or even middle class a gold-digger. Maybe you have though so fair enough. And as I said, it's not always economically viable for a 1 parent working household and this most recent generation in the wes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:26 PM
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Huh? Marrying a woman who wants to stay home and raise our child and sees that as the most important thing she can do as a mother is a big mistake? This post was definitely not made by a man. I understand it's not economically viable these days to have 1 parent completely abstain from financially contributing in a household. But where it is, it's far from lazy and this narrative a lot of women seem to have to look down on SAHM's is honestly really disheartening. Being a parent and raising your c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:23 PM
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It was an Adam Sandler film, "I now pronounce you chuck & Larry". Standard goofy Sandler flick. Been years since I saw it but think it's where he pretends to be gay and the chick he hangs around with as the "gay best friend" ends up trying it on with him. That's literally the only example that came to mind and even that doesn't quite line up with what OP describes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:55 PM
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I've no idea what this is. I think I've maybe seen 1 film containing what you're describing and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:50 AM
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i’ve matched with people and met up with them solely due to how charismatic they were without their looks ever being a motivating factor. I find this very hard to believe. You might have matched with people who weren't as physically attractive as others, but you still thought they looked alright enough to match with them and give them a chance to show their personality. And this is the point you're missing. You're 100% not matching with guys you physically think are straight up ugly. NO ONE does…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:41 AM
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This is either an attempt at satire or you're incredibly naive. Looks play an absolutely MASSIVE role in dating/ getting laid. Your personality might be a deciding factor to whether or not they like you, but it's your looks that even get you the opportunity to reach that point. A personality can be faked. Physical attributes? Not so much. You even admit in another reply you matched with hot guys all the time 💀 yeah, you realise AFTER their personality is flat, but it was their looks that even go…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:25 AM
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Men having the level of access to sex that would even put him in the promiscuous category is seen as an "achievement" and a marker of status. Because most men don't and will never have that kind of access. Women being promiscuous is viewed as the opposite as the overwhelming majority of women already have a high access to sex. As men are typically the pursuers and women are the gatekeepers who ultimately make the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:05 AM
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I imagine there's different categories for the level of offense committed. Like the amount of straight up violent sociopathic rapists (worst of the worst) is probably around less than 1%. The amount of creepy slime-balls who likely just think of themselves as opportunists that might try their dumb luck with groping, coercion, targeting drunk girls, etc. Probably between 2 - 10%. And the amount of people who came across as creepy to a woman, while not actually having any ill intent is again proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:27 AM
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You believe in fairy tales. Ugly chaps should work on money and should work out... Wrong, I believe EVERY man should move forward with those aspirations. Every man should better themselves in every way they can, and taking care of your finances and physical wellbeing are 2 massive areas that will absolutely make you more "attractive". Competence is attractive, being physically fit is attractive. You're completely and utterly wrong on that point and no man living or dead should listen or take adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:00 AM
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Because I keep reading and hearing that unattractive men should work on their status, finances, and game ... I don't see how this is bad advice for men in general, let alone "ugly" chaps. But these wives will marry them only for money and citizenship. They won't be genuinely attracted to them. Preaching a bit of a worn out stereotype don't you think? Ik here in the west we have a rather high opinion of ourselves, but women abroad aren't uneducated, money grubbing fiends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:06 PM
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Bro what 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:24 PM
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Simple, it's recognised as an achievement because having that level of access to sex is recognised by other men as a mark of status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:25 PM
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There's 2 sides of this issue and 1 side is what you're describing. Guys who are in every measure of their lives "losers", and I don't just mean the classic American stereotype, who complain they can't get women and that they're nice guys who aren't asking for much etc etc. That absolutely exists and you're 100% right. The other side is the overly inflated sense of self importance and worth a lot of women have which often reveals itself as completely unrealistic standards. We've all met that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:15 PM
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