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| 1 | PPD Dating Advice vs 8ball, which is better? | Debate | CapitalForever45 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:19 AM |
| 0 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious Diseases | Debate | CapitalForever45 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:52 AM |
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| 2 | Anyone else (all genders) get torn between wanting to be a slut and actually having something serious with one partner?Bruh exposing himself as a playa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 09:50 AM |
| -2 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesIf there are some randos living elsewhere “involved” in the relationship that did not have the kids they might use them as ransom or something to “get back” at others if they get in relationship conflict | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:36 AM |
| -1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesI see an insane risk for child abuse with unrelated partners… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:30 AM |
| 0 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesWhy not married to everyone in the relationship? Seems like the marriage is kind of trivialized if I can just join without any vows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesIt’s just an anime girl and not even that young looking But by all means make up exaggerated claims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesPossible Which is why I can’t generalize it to everything but it is still interesting to note | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:48 AM |
| 0 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesThe world isn’t ready for the idea of pre marital kissing ban but maybe in 10 years that can be within the realm of convincing people after the collapse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesIt’s more of a risk assessment correlation. Yes being “pre marital” doesn’t guarantee it will be causing disease but it is much more likely to be between people who know each other less with undisclosed sex history/untested diseases | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | The future is female.I just thought the title of this page was funny, thought this was Star Wars for a minute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesPre marital doesn’t always go marital (IE: pump and dump) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:39 AM |
| 0 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesHmmm Might have to think a bit but you are right it is an inconsistency. I’d say maybe for the engaged it’s less risky and safer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesI think that is like playing Russian roulette but I can’t stop anyone if that’s their prerogative to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesOh ok I see how you are applying the definition. Maybe I should say “nonmarital”. Premarital is generalized to nonmarital relations in many religions regardless of intent to marry but I suppose it’s technically not accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesHPV is very common and is viral. Even for the bacterial ones I don’t think they are worth risking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:34 AM |
| 0 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesI wouldn’t put kissing on the same level, but I think it is treated too laxly in relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:32 AM |
| 0 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesYeah those exist, but again they are relatively rarer and not the general schema people would have when thinking of marriage so I think the edge cases are kind of pedantic. There are some people born with extra fingers but it is not the rule | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesI don’t have a source on me currently so this may be taken with a grain of salt but I did hear a seminar wherein marriages wherein they moved in and had sex before tying the not actually had lower success rates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:29 AM |
| -2 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesI said pre marital which applies to arrangements that aren’t marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesOne is more intentional than the other. People can’t always live with out having to go out of the house with the flu. I’ve never heard of someone dropping dead without sex for 3 days. That said if you minimize risk more it is certainly better, but enough people clearly don’t seem to do that with our STD rates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesI agree that pre marital kissing is an issue too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:23 AM |
| -2 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesSwingers basically may as well just be hook ups. And polyamory rarely translated to actual marriage. When’s the last time you have attending a ceremony with over 2 brides/grooms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:21 AM |
| 0 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesThey can sure but polygamy and the like is a whole nother can of worms to open and is often only found in communities like FLDS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesCurrently yes it is people’s decision. But it’s not as if in public people are randomly kissing/having sex or spitting on someone on the street to spread influenza. Having sex is a much higher risk factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesIt’s not always a death sentence but it spreads easily and can cause complications. So a lot of people are unknowingly shooting themselves and others in the foot for 20 minutes of fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesThere is a correlation yes. People who do premarital are more likely to be fine with multiple partners and hook ups in general. But obviously the more partners the more risky. What’s really eye opening are “sex webs” wherein people’s relations are connected on a chart and like 25% of the workplace/school could potentially spread diseases due to promiscuitu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesCondoms are an effective protection to mitigate risks yes but even then it’s not a guarantee like how people always say birth control isn’t 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesI agree actually. People in college would not get Mono as much if they didn’t do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:11 AM |
| -2 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesKind of fair. That is true that marriage can have cheating. I was mainly considering the ideal “typical” case but it may not always go to plan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesWeird baseless accusation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?It does negate it with that attitude if someone always is under the impression that the grass is greener on the other side | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?I suppose, but then you just become part of the issue and tacitly promote it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?I'm not a woman and I don't think that's good either. I think most relationships are dead and a sad shell of what they could be. The only fix would be overhauling the entire system from the root | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 04:27 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?Do people actually enjoy this crap? Sleeping around is so cringe. Wow I'm sure when I'm 80 all the people I developed superficial ties with and/or tricked who never show up to the funeral will mean so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?That's such a terribly pessimistic view that kills the whole point of love. If it's not genuine it is less appealing than dog poop. Sure in daily interactions there will be things that are not genuine that are a necessary part but in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:22 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?Even a very high MCAT and GPA does not always make it easy to get in, as the amount of seats vs. the number of applicants is crazy high for med as personal experience from someone who made it through the process to get in but had to deal with many late rejections just because schools are filled by many local applicants or "people who fit with the mission", etc. If anything, it is similar to Tinder in that the high competition really makes it pretty hectic and uncertain. But at least medicine pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:20 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?If you really want to deal with rejection try shiny hunting in Pokemon. With a 1/8192 chance of success you will enjoy success but expect failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:05 AM |
| 5 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?Those are much worse situation to be in imo lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:03 AM |
| 4 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?The idea behind it is really profit maximization. If someone gets little or no reward for it (revenue) they will not bother putting in the effort and energy (costs) in order to maintain the profit at a maximum. It's not much different than a company shutting down if they don't sell anything because it appears to be wasted effort, essentially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?Learned Helplessness is the closest concept in Psychology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:00 AM |
| 2 | What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders?Actual power and influence are heavily underrated. Not the stereotypical and superficial generic "alpha" or Tate advice about getting money and women or whatever, I mean having actual influence and power on people and events in the world. The idea of making a real, no-nonsense, difference to others (treating diseases, helping people having severe problems/depression to get past it, making companies) honestly makes a lot of the other stuff here seem trivial. Cool, Betty and Johnny are posting abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?I personally wouldn't trade my social life for an easier one. I would not have the resilience and boss mindset that I have now. Life isn't fair but it is too often forgotten just how much people who actually do things worthwhile and become truly successful are MADE by their difficulties. Sure you could be someone who has everything easy and peachy 24/7 (and obviously you want good things in life not all bad/difficult all the time), but what's the meaning in that? What would I accomplish and what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 06:48 AM |
| 5 | People seriously underestimate negative survivorship bias in datingNgl, it’s worth drafting a backup plan because this may not go anywhere, especially at that age unless you have a really good career plan. Good to have solid friends around and self value because OLD is pretty bad these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | The root of a lot of misogyny is western society putting pressure on men to have sex as fast as they can.Basically all developed nations have a lot of regulations, not really unique to US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason.Maybe it’s different in early 20s, it’s pretty rare for me to stay around friends long after high school since they go around to different colleges and states | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason.Don’t most of them end up disappearing or moving on pretty quickly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn.If I used “someone acting like OP instead” would that be better? Maybe I let my emotions get in the way too much here I was just a bit annoyed earlier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Oh yes, I remember when I thought people cared about shit like schoolwork and wasted my time as a free homework helper to “impress” them. Cringe was ungodly Normies don’t give a fuck about that lol. I study or self improve for my own personal career now and only assist others if they a) provided some genuine good service in return or b) paid me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?To be honest it is kind of true that bad hygiene can be a thing. I got lazy on it during covid, not as if I was interacting with almost anyone anyway then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn.If any man is braindead enough to date OP they deserve what they get lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymoreGender fight are based FTFY OP 😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain sexist women?That is quite ironic for a female CEO to say honestly. Lol I see your point about politicians | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain sexist women?And what examples are you referring to specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain sexist women?How can you tell what they think of others if conservative women do not leave the kitchen lmao (For legal reason this is a joke mods) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 11:00 AM |
| 1 | What's y'all's opinion on female friends?This actually isn’t as good advice as TRP think it is. There are risks of being used, sure. But if you treat it as platonic and/or surface level you should be fine. Just be wise and don’t end up like the meme of the desperate guy who wants to bang his taken female “best friend” Honestly there are some shitty men out there who will scam and manipulate too. If you believe that just because someone is a male they are likely to be more trustworthy you are sorely mistaken. Some guys cheat or commit c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain sexist women?Lame. It’s more fun to be the problem than to clean it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain sexist women?Discrediting your own movement hard here, idk seems like trolling “Yes you see I like drinking I just don’t drink it” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Online Dating Is Actually OK For Average PeopleWithout any experimental data or profile test runs with adjusting the independent variables, nothing here is worth taking seriously. The results are much different if you switch around appearance, gender, location, etc. From my experience if you have account with western guy profile (ie: white) on international websites then women from 3rd world or eastern countries message more frequently, some being scammer asking for college money. In many other cases there are not many replies if at all. Mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 10:39 AM |
| 1 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.Another Redpiller with no evidence to back their claims just telling everyone else to try harder through guilting and calling them lazy? No thanks, my parents already do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Does the act of 'puppying' by a guy actually makes you consider seeing him as a boyfriend?I used to be that guy. It just makes you look desperate and weird with no self respect. I would presume that in male dominated places men feel more pressured to try hard and attach to a girl since they have little chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:50 PM |
| 4 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI don’t see the point trying to claim moral superiority here. Do you have some vested interest in what others decide is worth their time and effort? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldLast “relationships” I had all ended up with them trying to blackmail or stalk me or arguing all the time. No thanks bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:31 PM |
| 3 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.Authoritarianism is always good as long as I am in charge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | The women that “Bad boys” pick up are also low quality like he is ;Usually the only ones saying an assertive person is the asshole are those who try to manipulate them, unless you are just going up and being rude for no reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Would a guy getting fame solve most of his dating problems?Well anyone with many options will use criteria to lessen them in order to avoid sensory overload, this is basic principle of choice in shopping as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:12 AM |
| 3 | It’s simp behavior for both men and women to take back a cheating spouseBut if someone has indicated they are willing to break the ultimate trust, they can easily do it again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | It’s simp behavior for both men and women to take back a cheating spouseThat’s the main component that makes it dealbreaker, but I think some instances of lying are a lot worse than others, depending on who it is to and what it is about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:05 AM |
| 5 | What can we unanimously agree are dealbreakers in a relationship?There are at least some people who believe that all humans can agree though out of billions, making your statement incorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Men’s worship of women is a MAJOR problem in dating, and it goes well beyond social media likes and can honestly be seen in every facet of human interactionOr just give up, lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:01 AM |
| 0 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?Kpop proves your statement bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Sex is overvalued. Value is declining. People struggle to catch upThis debate is waste of time OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after?That will never happen though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:37 AM |
| 7 | If western dating is not working for you try somewhere elseNot really wrong, but it can work out if it stays in one place. The real issue is if OP marries foreign and brings her back to the USA (and she was just using him for cash, green card, etc)she may realize OP isn’t the best option and then the marriage could fail hard Overall it’s easier for western guys but really not a great tradeoff unless everyone knows risks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 11:46 PM |
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