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| 12 | How often do you spend time with your spouse?Out of a year, I'd say 350 days. Unless she's having a girls' night, we're together. We've been together for 16 years. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/25 12:12 PM |
| – | Stay at home wife but don’t want kids?People will judge you for sure. You're staying at home to basically do house chores that take a couple of hours a week. You'll have no education or career. If marriage ends, sure, you'll get alimony, but how much? What if you can't survive off it? Good luck getting a job as a 30-year-old with no job history. Before you say your marriage won't end, check data online. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/23 03:51 PM |
| 45 | Do Men Find Cuddling Effeminate?No. But I get hot easily and can't sleep with someone on me. So I'll cuddle my wife for a bit, then roll over to go to sleep. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/23 03:53 PM |
| 13 | I (26F) received the bill from my BF (26M) after our trip and he proposed that we should split expenses from now onAdvice is used to help improve a situation. That's not what she's looking for. She's looking for validation as to why he's wrong for not "treating her like a lady." She's not compatible with him. She's looking for a traditional relationship, and that's not what he's willing to provide. She got that advice in her other post. She's here for validation that she's "right" when this is not about right and wrong. It's about compatibility. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/23 12:06 AM |
| 14 | I (26F) received the bill from my BF (26M) after our trip and he proposed that we should split expenses from now onDidn't say it was a problem. But I'm sure you can see what she's going for. She posted in a sub about relationships and didn't get the feedback she thought she would get. So now she tries somewhere more conservative, where she hopes more people will agree. It does nothing to change what's happening in her relationship. They're not compatible when it comes to what they think a relationship is. She's simply hoping for validation, which, again, does nothing in her relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/23 09:49 PM |
| -1 | I (26F) received the bill from my BF (26M) after our trip and he proposed that we should split expenses from now onThis didn't work out for you in the relationship sub, so trying it here? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/23 09:41 PM |
| 11 | How do I help my husband who is obsessed with his muscles/body?He is taking care of himself physically. He is not neglecting you or your child. Also you say "In the last few years he has really pulled the pieces of his life into place. He got his master’s degree, has a great job in finance which takes care of us to where I don’t have to work anymore"... Followed by "He’s become obsessed with his body. It’s like because he doesn’t have an education or career goal he can put all his attention into" The man got a degree and has a career. You no longer have t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/23 07:54 PM |
| 34 | Giving boyfriend your card under the table so it looks like he’s the one payingIf my wife handed me her card under the table, I'd laugh. I'm more than ok to admit that I'm with a woman who can afford to pay for dinner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/23 09:20 PM |
| 8 | I’m overweight need to be skinny to be allowed to travel and get married.You should ask this in r/diet, I'm active there and can provide help here. 110 lbs in 4 months is very unrealistic. The healthy way is to lose ~1lb per week by dropping your maintenance calories by 500 per day. Don't listen to your fiancé. You don't have to just eat meat and vegetables. The only true diet advice you'll ever get is...calories out > in. That's how you lose weight. You can eat carbs. They're not the devil. Download myfitnesspal pal. They have a free version. Plug in your informatio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/23 12:14 PM |
| 7 | My ex-boyfriend says things will not be the sameHe wont change. Don't be foolish. You take him back and you will deal with this for even longer just end up right back to where you are now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/23 07:50 PM |
| 8 | My Husband (43) of 7 Years Won't Remind me of Things I (43) Said I'd doI agree wth this, but your post talked about how he cleaned it before YOU could. Not her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/23 12:30 AM |
| 9 | My Husband (43) of 7 Years Won't Remind me of Things I (43) Said I'd doWait. Are you, while yes, you're doing so "kindly," complaining that your husband actually puts things away and helps to clean? I have no idea how old your child is, but the only way this is an issue is if she's old enough to clean her own messes and you are doing it for her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Should the man still pay the bill if a woman asks him out on a date first?I'm bad at checking what sub posts are on lol Didn't even notice this was on RPW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Should the man still pay the bill if a woman asks him out on a date first?Before we moved in, we set what chores we were responsible for and what finances were responsible for. I'd never move in with someone without something like that setup. It's worked for us for 15 years so far. We never argue about chores or money. Unlike the 1,000 posts on Reddit saying the man works and that's it. No help around the house. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 04:11 PM |
| -3 | Should the man still pay the bill if a woman asks him out on a date first?If I take the trash out, you do the laundry. If I clean the house, you do the cooking. Etc. Financially, it's prorated contributions. If I make more, I pay for more. However, you're also paying bills based on what you can afford on your salary. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 03:55 PM |
| -2 | Should the man still pay the bill if a woman asks him out on a date first?If you ask me out, you pay. Should you ask a man out seems to be another topic now in this thread. That depends on who you're looking for. If you want the old traditional relationship where the man takes care of you, etc. He'd likely not like it. I'm not traditional. My now wife initiated contact with me, and it was a breath of fresh air. I don't date to take care of a woman. I date to find a partner that will equally contribute to our relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 03:12 PM |
| 36 | Was it me?I love that feminists have ruined dating for him. Yet, he doesn't even want a traditional relationship lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/23 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Would you marry a man who divorced 10 years ago because of infidelity?But I am not a lady and I did not bad mouth or insult any RP user. Noted, though. 3. Do not insult the community or its members RPW values truths, even harsh and unpleasant ones, over comforting lies. Do NOT insult any RP user or community in the network. Calling others out for bad or foolish behavior with the intent of helping them improve is encouraged. Harsh speech and direct insults for any reason, are not allowed. Ladies, do not badmouth your men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/23 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Would you marry a man who divorced 10 years ago because of infidelity?How is this even deserving of a question. He's shit. You know he's shit. Yet here you are doing this question. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/23 03:40 PM |
| 34 | I think I’ve been alpha widowed at 32So he is RP but was fine with you paying? After it he just cannot handle not being a "man"? You got taken for a ride. That's the price you pay when you are looking so hard for a "captain" instead of a partner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually care about n count and what is the standard usuallyI do not care. I've never even asked any of my girlfriends, nor my wife, what their count was. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/23 02:03 PM |
| 10 | How would you handle?This isn't for you to handle. This is for your bf to handle. If my mom invited my ex to something she knew we were attending, I'd have this talk with her. "You can obviously invite who you want, but if you invite ex, then girlfriend and I won't be attending." | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/23 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Thought experiment about arranged marriagesWe don't choose our family and absolutely don't need to love them just because "they're an extension of you. " Shitty people don't deserve me. Back to your original question. I'm friends with a few Pakistani people and an Indian. I've not heard one of them speak highly of their wives who they were arranged to. While my mother may have known me growing up, I'm not the same person I was. She has no idea what would make me happy in a relationship. Marriage before living together, having to talk abo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | early dating stages, got concerning info from a mutual friendConflicting information means you have to decide which outlet of the news is more reliable. Even after that, you might choose the wrong one. Which friend might have a motive to embellish or straight-up lie? Maybe they're not lying but are passing 2nd hand information. You just can't know. It's not a huge deal. Keep dating him with a watchful eye over his behavior. If you start to see the poor behavior or get a bad feeling, dump him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/23 12:13 PM |
| 2 | “The Wall” - can it be avoided?Genetics are #1. This you can't change. What you can do to help is diet, exercise, minimize stress, minimize drugs and alcohol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 03:34 PM |
| -1 | Boyfriend won't give up porn unless i give up instagramFor telling me I cannot watch porn. As long as porn is not impacting my sex life with my wife she should not care. My wife knows I watch porn. It is no problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/23 05:01 PM |
| 11 | Boyfriend won't give up porn unless i give up instagramThey are not remotely the same thing. Especially since you book work via IG. He likely knows damn well you won't quit it, and since he won't quit porn, it's an easy out for him. Personally, I would've just dumped you after your request. But since he instead chose to lie to you, it's up to you if you want to dump him or just deal with the porn watching. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Am I a low value women? Would any man want to marry me?You don't have to worry. Plenty of red pill men are complete hypocrites. If they find you attractive, they'll put aside that you're 19 and have a child. They'll make some some excuse as to why it's ok for them. If you're willing to date outside red pill men, you'll have no issue at all. Although some more progressive men will find the fact that you want to be a SAHM for a big family, a deterrent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/23 02:43 PM |
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