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People are probably forgetting that it wasn't that long ago when women were complaining about models and magazines showing unrealistic beauty standards. Now that the tables have turned, they're acting like it's no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:53 AM
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Men's attraction and women's attraction is built very differently. The traits a man is attracted to are more like things they would like to have. For women, it's things they have to have. This is why so many men see it as unfair. That they're being locked out of the dating game for just one of two basic traits that they don't have any real control over. While women can have all sorts of unattractive or less attractive traits, and it doesn't make much of a difference. I'm not going to sugar coat …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:45 AM
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Before social media, social connections were precious. You knew 20 odd people closely. Unless you put in a lot of effort to move social circles, you didn't have a lot of bridges to burn. You would build connections to different people of different walks of life, because you didn't have other options. Now days, connections are cheap. Anyone of decent popularity and attractiveness, can mess up as many relationships as they like, then find more people out of a pool of thousands. Each person isn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:36 PM
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Thats pretty much how social media has always been. It was originally pitched as a way to bring people together. But it quickly became a platform for popular and attractive people to show off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:25 PM
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I knew a woman who had a personality as deep as a puddle. Constantly looking for men, but never able to settle down with one. She was dumb, she was loud, and all she really wanted was a hot popular guy to give her attention. One day, I happened across her dating profile on an app. It was like 6 or 7 pictures, and not a single word filled out. And that made me realise that she would find exactly the guy she was looking for. A blank slate, who didn't care about a single thing about her personality…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:05 AM
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It's pretty much a given that stupity and confidence is directly correlated. A smart person will stop and think before they talk. They'll correct themselves if they do or say something wrong. They worry about stuff, because they can think about doing right and wrong. They self reflect, and self reflection leads to self doubt rather than self confidence. A dumb person doesn't stop and think. They just do. Their words flow freely, because they don't think about what they're saying. The content of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:56 AM
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I personally know someone well-intentioned who is in his late 30s trying to socialize and be included in already formed social circles, and people are very reluctant to include him. He is not really a bad person, maybe slightly neurodivergent but I can see how people talk about him when he is not around and it doesn't look good. Dang, that's really brutal. In my experience as an autistic guy, you get treated okay by fellow adults. Until you try to assert yourself, and try to make yourself includ…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:11 AM
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Here's the hard truth I've learnt as an autistic guy. Raw social skills are about 30% of the way there. The other 30% is about the energy you give off. Then the last 40% is about your superficial traits, like wealth, status, attractiveness. And, you basically need at least a passing grade of all of them, to get anywhere with anyone. Man or women. If your social skills are bad, like you sperg out on weird stuff, butt into conversations, or can't read the room, then people will think you're weird,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:18 PM
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I was gonna say something similar. Men can be really shitty and competitive to each other. Even guys that are usually meak, shy, and polite can turn into macho assholes the moment they think it will get them a whiff of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:46 AM
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There are definitely tonnes of bots online. But I wouldn't lean on that to dismiss anyone having a stupid opinion. There's a chance that whatever ragebait you see, is just pandering to comments of ten thousand bots pretending to agree. But there's also a chance that many people are that stupid, and social media gives stupid people a critical mass to feel comfortable openly expressing their stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:53 AM
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What you're describing does happen. When I was on apps, I got many ugly matches appear in my inbox. And I mean ugly. Not someone that could stand to lose a few pounds. Or even just someone obese. Like so unfortunately genetically disadvantaged. But, yeah, a woman that's unattractive, but not that unattractive, doesn't make much of a difference. You have to go down like 5 points of attractiveness before you find someone who'll be as easy as a guy is for a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:23 PM
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I mean, sure? Technology does usually have ethical concerns. But you've been watching too much Black Mirror if you think everyone who uses technology is a villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:39 AM
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I suspect they're thinking of something like a M3gan style humanoid, but obviously robot. If it were something like a Westworld style robot, that was indistinguishable from the real thing. If the latter, not only would it probably not be embarrassing to have one, but every other guy would be curious about trying it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:19 AM
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Lol, robot gfs would make a huge difference in that. I don't know how you'd think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:02 AM
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I've known at least a few personality disordered women who have said that they can be as bitchy as they want, and men will have to put up with it if they want sex. Those women will be unhappy if they have an actual incentive to work on their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:50 PM
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It's such a weird thing that I see on this sub all the time. Guys make a post titled with something that sounds like a legitimate complaint. Then the body text is some weirdly non-sequitir hypothetical, that can only happen in the depths of their imagination. It's a shame, because I do believe women are resistant to giving romantic advice and help to men, and that there are psychological barriers that explain this. But instead OP made a thread complaining that women won't fuck a guy on a charita…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:49 AM
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Personally, it's the logistics of adulthood. Freedom brings loneliness when suddenly you're no longer surrounded by hundreds or thousands of single people your age every day in high school and college, and every adult has different schedules. I feel like at some point in life, most people just close the door to meeting new people. When you're in school or college, everyone is looking to make friends and partners. You can make friends without really trying, or even without being all that socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:56 AM
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Most social revolutions come from men wanting elevate the whole class that they're a part of. Whether it's campaign for men of colour, the working class, communism, ect. This was able to happen because there were enough in that class, to create a critical mass, able to force social change. The reason this doesn't happen today, is that most of the world is a sizable middle class. People that are economically okay, socially okay, or romantically okay. Because they're doing okay, but not great, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:38 AM
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Of course not. Men are competitive, not cooperative. Men want struggles that effect other men, but not them. Anything that elevates them above other men. That's why men's rights will never take off as a movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:31 AM
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I don't know how many apps adopt this feature, but Bumble gave a limited amount of free swipes a day. As best as I could tell, it was randomised between 3 and 10. If you swiped on every profile, you would run out way too quickly. So you take the time to look at a profile, and decide if you're compatible, and if you think there's a chance in hell they'll swipe on you. Even if that wasn't a thing, maybe I want to be selective, whether I could or could not afford to be. I don't want to have to ghos…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:14 AM
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I laughed when I read "rich inner universe's" from OP. Have they ever spoken to a geek about any of their geeky obsessions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:27 AM
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These guys called boring do plenty of things they find fun. But things you find fun don't count, unless they involve lots of friends, cost a lot of money, or demonstrate social status. That's what "boring" means for men. It means low status. Plenty of women like doing these so called boring things. Playing games, binging series, listening to music. They just don't talk about it, because they don't want to build connections based on these "rich internal universes". They want to build connections …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:24 AM
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You have to realise that most people are just generally looking for excuses not to mingle, date, or socialise. Whether it's because they're too busy, they don't want to deal with the repercussions if things go south, or even if they just don't like the obligations of being close to someone. It's just another way to avoid all the little anxieties, that they have become too avoidant to deal with. Whenever someone really attractive comes along, suddenly they forget about the rule of not dating with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:37 PM
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It's pretty easy not to compromise when you're inundated with options. They don't even have to actually date those options. As long as they have thousands of guys in their matches, they can say "Surely one of these thousand guys will meet my standards."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:38 PM
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It's fairly easy to maintain relationships when you have something keeping you in proximity to someone. Work, class, living nearby ect. But as soon as the convenience goes, the relationship goes. The attempts to catch up become less frequent. Solid plans become "Yeah, we definitely have to catch up some time." Then before you know it, it's been a year since you've seen each other and you realise they're no longer a part of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:13 AM
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You'd think having hobbies helps makes it easier to have a good conversation. And it certainly helps more than sitting at home playing games and binging series. But most of the popular guys I've known didn't have hobbies, or talk about hobbies. They just worked and drank.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:28 PM
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The term "emotional labour" was used to justify why women get so unreasonably angry and stressed over the smallest amount of housework not being done. I remember the article where a wife said she had to put wrapping paper back on the shelf, and inflated it as the most back breakingly difficult task. It's a highly subjective measure of labour, when there's no reasonable way to describe what you're doing as actually labourous. A way to justify your emotional reasoning, from an emotional need to ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:53 PM
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What’s funny is that I can understand the mindset behind many “bad” or extreme groups. I can understand, at least to some degree, how someone becomes a neo-Nazi, an Islamist, a radical leftist, or whatever else. You can usually trace it back to resentment, insecurity, fear, ideology, social pressure, or personal experiences. There’s a logic behind it, even if it’s destructive. There was a Cracked.com article back when that site was around, and about the time it took a downturn towards its death.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:43 AM
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I mean, social media has changed a lot about what people consider normal and average. But that said, I agree that most of these guys aren't horribly undateable. It's just that it's so much harder to mingle and socialise with new people than it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:30 AM
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I argue every man has their match out there somewhere. It's just that so many struggling guys are introverted, and men are far more likely to be introverted. So your extroverted man can probably find a fairly even mix of men and women in his social circle. But, the introverted man is competing for the other woman in like a 5 to 1 ratio. And that's being generous. My STEM course was like 200 guys to 5 girls. That's assuming that guy even can meet women. Introverted social circles are pretty restr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:25 AM
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Most of the money apps make come from subscribers. You would have to use an app continuously for years before they made the same amount of money from you as a single week's subscription. But you're not far off. Only the goal isn't to keep people alone and using apps endlessly. The perfect app (for the developer) would give users a trickle of poor options that don't go anywhere. Just enough to make them think that subscribing would push them over the edge into finding love/sex/whatever they're af…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:04 AM
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I have no issue with women joining my hobbies. I don't have any concerns about women joining this hobbies and brigading until everything changes to cater to their needs. That doesn't happen. But I'd also expect to have some groups that are men only. Not by hanging a "No girls allowed" sign in front. Just by having hangouts where you only invite the dudes. Guys are way more relaxed when girls aren't present. When they're not worried about being attractive. The problem is that time for socialising…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:48 PM
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It's hard to say, because it's so different to the life we have now. On one hand, we have more than we have before in material wealth. But we're also way poorer in time and mental health. The cost of living is way too high, and I'm certain women still look for someone to support them when considering a partner. If we had more time, less stress, more disposable income, things would be easier in general. Now the question is, would that make dating easier in general? For some, yes. If your problem …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:55 AM
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What sort of answers would you honestly expect in a place like this? Would you expect women to come here and say "Yeah I totally hate awkward meek guys, and love tall chiselled Chads"? Of course not, no one's going to want to validate a group that's very openly hostile to them. Everything said here, is going to try to make women look good. But, you also can't trust the opposite statements, in places like TikTok or locker room talk. In those places, the loudest and most controversial claims will …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:24 AM
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First of all, it's not exactly easy to give advice to random internet strangers. Even assuming they want to give that advice. I certainly want to give that advice. But I don't know you, your circumstances, and what's actually causing you to fail. So all advice you give, would be somewhat generic. But that said, I would be able to give some good advice, even if it's generic. I am certain that most advice from women isn't made in a good faith "I don't know if it will help you specifically, but it …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:41 PM
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It's fairly easy to get burnt out from trying, and not seeing results. Hit the gym, go to classes, take up hobbies, volunteer, dress nice. Whatever your advice is, a lot of people have tried it. And it didn't work. Not as in, they didn't immediately get swarmed with women. As in no real progress what so over. No new friends, no seeing anyone outside the classes, no getting on a first name basis with anyone. You walk away from the class or whatever without a single social thing to show for it. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:58 AM
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It's not so much that these traits are too selective. Although I'm sure OP has way higher standards than they're communicating. Rather they're deliberately vague. In fact, I would say she deliberately listed traits that could apply to the vast majority of the population, like the reading of a horoscope. But she can weigh those vague traits however she likes, to justify whatever decision she has made.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:09 AM
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Not all women, women aren't a monolith, outliers ect. At the very least, you'd have to admit that the numbers aren't on the side of Moses from IT. He might rely on luck to find one woman in his circle that finds him attractive. Whereas the more normal and decently popular guy can guarantee he'll counter a handful of options on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:55 AM
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I think a good deal of single men consider themselves good men. At least, good enough. I will even go as far as saying that most women would describe them as good men, if asked. Does that mean there are lots of good men? Not necessarily, they might still be the minority. But what it does mean that good men exist, they are single, therefore there are good men available for the women who complain that there are no good men. But of course, it's not that simple. I'm not going to say that being a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:46 AM
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I would say it's pretty uncontroversial that you need a decent amount of public support and consensus in order to make change. And these sorts of posts are part of that. Both to publicise information on the sorts of support you will get, and the sorts of resistance you get to these issues. The fact that so many women seem emotionally charged to deny these issues tells us a lot. As to what to do about it once there is some decent consensus, the next step would be to discuss what to do. I would li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:41 PM
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With today's cost of living, you need two full time earners to have ends meet. It used to be that a woman needed a man to support her, while she didn't earn, or earned little. Now a woman still needs a man to support her (and visa versa) while they both earn full wages. Ug, how did we all let it get like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:07 AM
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People get mad when they perceive that there is some injustice or unfairness against them, and this injustice is the source of their misfortune. This isn't entirely controversial alone. Although the ideas born from it are. If women didn't think men were deliberately devaluing them, and withholding things from them, we wouldn't have feminism. If men didn't think women were deliberately devaluing and withholding things from them, we wouldn't have the manosphere. The controversies come from whether…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:03 AM
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Yeah, that's why I gave up on apps. I had some decent results at times. But I got so fed up with getting a trickle of matches, and then matches not responding after a message or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:25 AM
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Which I get. But then, what do apps do to fix that? It's either your single while beating your head against the wall and being constantly reminded of your undesirability. Or, you're single while saving your effort for more productive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:21 AM
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Yes, yes they are. And that is why most guys should get off apps. I can only assume they're just so desperate, they're willing to tolerate all this disappointing frustration for the slight chance at a bit of tail. Or they're some kind of masochists that enjoy the disappointment. Or they want to flood the market as a way of passive aggressively attacking the system that harmed them. Either way, if they have no business being on the apps, they should get off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:14 AM
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You shouldn't underestimate how few matches most guys get on apps. Women can think prioritising compatibility is important, because they would be wasting time on dozens of profiles if they did not. An average guy might have one or two matches a day to filter through. That's not much time wasted. That said, by swiping on everyone you are just setting yourself up for disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:32 AM
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This I don't buy. It's not fair to tell the disadvantaged party that they should just be okay being disadvantaged. Rather than working to understand and fix the broken system. If we can ask men to be okay with suppressing their desires for sex and companionship, can we also tell women to suppress their desire to restrict giving those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:06 PM
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Yep, this pretty much it. It's not really validating your experiences, when you add caveats at the end to imply your experiences really aren't that bad. To be fair, men do similar things regarding women's issues. And I totally get why. It's frustrating to be on the losing end of asymmetric acknowledgement of your issues. Only with men, it's more that they feel none of their issues are acknowledged fairly. With women, they feel like no amount of acknowledgement is sufficient. I will go as far as …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:23 AM
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This post, and the woman in this video, are 100% trolling. But, are there any women that actually think like this? Like super deliberately giving vague clues, and thinking that smiling at the guy is basically approaching the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:58 AM
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I'm sure very few, if any, so called forever alone women actually have experiences that match a forever alone man. The whole idea of "women handle it better" is comparing real men, to the idea of a hypothetical woman. I'm not going to assume they're all just pining after Chad. Although some are. But I'm sure near all of them have...something. Some opportunities, some validation, some hope that they will get something in some not too distant future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:39 AM
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I doubt there's a point where you're not satisfied, but it does make it a lot easier. I was very unhappy and depressed before I had a few flings and hook ups. But even though I've been single for years, it's way easier having that to look back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:07 AM
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If I'm not putting an effort into a woman, it's because I'm not attracted to her. Period. In which case, it would be a non-issue, because I wouldn't be dating her at all. But if I'm attracted enough to want to be with her, then I will put in effort. But that's pretty much the line. There's no correlated graph of attractiveness to effort. It's just a binary attracted = effort, no attraction = no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:03 AM
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Look at the differences in politics and subcultures from 20 years ago, 10 years ago, and now. Most likely, it will follow similar trends. Politics becomes more divided. Young men vote more conservative. They feel conservative ideologies are more beneficial to them. They're less concerned with issues in the greater good, because they don't want to support a society that they're not allowed to be a part of. Echo chambers become more intense, on all sides. The constant sharing of information makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:51 AM
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The issue is that people don't like socialising or forming bonds with people in general. It's risky, it takes effort, people just can't be bothered, even small amounts of drama is undesirable. So they make excuses for not doing so. "Don't shit where you eat", "I don't make friends at work". "I don't date co-workers". But then when someone comes along that gets through those barriers, all those rules go out the window. So I guess the solution is, loosen up and learn to deal with a bit of interper…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:39 AM
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This is pretty much it. Most of the guys I know that are perpetually single, don't have bad personalities. They're just sort of socially stagnant. They know a handful of women. Of which a small subset of them are single, maybe two or three. And there isn't mutual attraction with them. Their social circle doesn't mingle or expand, they can't approach at bars or what not, and they don't get matches on apps. Do they just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:30 AM
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When incels complain about Chad, I read it as saying that if they were tall, chiselled, and pretty, then it wouldn't matter that they're awkward and shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:26 AM
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The last few generations were sold The American Dream. Where you work hard, and get rewarded for it. But then everyone works that hard, and the supply meets the demand. Working extra hard has become the default just to survive. We know the juice isn't worth the squeeze, so we get mad. And we should. The only people who benefit from this obscene workload, are the wealthy at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:36 PM
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That's actually a pretty good point. You can choose a large number of different employers, and they're mostly assumed to be temporary. But you can only choose one partner at a time, so making that choice much more important. And, so important that it probably matters very little how that relationship began, in who made the first move. But, that's not how it works in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:50 AM
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It's like saying an employer will find the best employees if they seek them out and offer them jobs. True, but it's not how the market works. Why bother looking for a man when men line up to present themselves to you. Maybe you get good enough men, maybe you don't. But you get to pick from so many, that surely some of them must be good, right? It's clear that asking someone out is work, and leaves you vulnerable, so of course they're going to shirk that work if they can. I would, and I do, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:17 AM
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I can't understate just how starved of positive female attention so many are. When a woman takes the initiative in being flirty or asking you out, a guy's first thought is "Oh wow, someone actually likes me! Yes fucking please!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:52 AM
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Yep. You need time to get to know someone, trust them, and have them build value for you. I'm certain the women here saying men are childish, whiney, broke, boring, whatevs. Think that because they don't know or notice the men who aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:17 PM
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Thank you. This is definitely a huge issue. Not just for dating, but for socialising in general. On the occasion that someone gives me advice on dating, it's always to try some app. Which I'm getting is saying that you don't want to mix your dating life with your social circle. It's funny because someone else in this thread said they need to take time to trust someone enough to let them into their lives. Which is true for most people. But it creates this catch 22, where if you're too unfamiliar,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:10 PM
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I see this sort of thing mentioned here a lot. Some variant of men costing more than they're worth, so you don't bother. But that makes me ask, what anxiety do men cause? What it seems to be saying is there's some cost to relationships, that isn't always easy to articulate. I'm going to assume the guy in question isn't absusive or has some obviously bad character trait. Is it a cost of personal freedom, just having to share your schedule with someone? Reputation, in people now judge you on your …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:51 PM
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What I'm getting from this, is people will only vibe with others if it's really easy. Like, they need everyone they vibe with to be in the same place as they are, because they're not willing to take the time and effort to connect with someone different to them. As an autistic guy, I've learnt that you really need to put in effort to get to know people. You have to spend time and effort building a connection, and finding ways to be interested in what they're interested in, rather than expecting i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:38 AM
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You're not wrong. But I think the issue is less that there aren't places to socialise, or that no one wants to go to places. But rather that so many people just don't want to socialise in general. So, many people kind of assume "Well I can't socialise at work, bars, gyms, parks, buses, cafes. So if I have another place, I'd be able to socialise!" The issue that a lot of people like me find themselves in is being the one guy out of 5 or so that actually wants to meet new people. And everyone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:22 PM
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The issue isn't that there literally aren't any other places you can go to. The issue is that it's difficult to go to other places due to time and money constraints. A lot of these modern other places are just too expensive to go regularly. A third place is supposed to be somewhere that is cheap and convenient, so you can go there casually, without having to think of the costs. And also a place that encourages socialising. That said, there is a big issue that people apparently need these third p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:59 PM
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I'll grant that punishment might make people less likely to come forward. And, that sexual crimes are already under-reported, more so than other crimes. But using that as a reason not to punish creates huge issues for criminal justice. There shouldn't be any sort of crime, period, that we simply don't punish proportionally. It should be obvious that crimes need a deterant. If the deterant is a slap on the wrist, or nothing at all, then it provides incentive to commit said crime. That should be p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:38 PM
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Social skills matter a lot. But social skills aren't all created equal. An unfortunate thing I've observed as an autistic guy struggling to learn social skills, is you can get away with a few really big social faux pas, if everything else about you is normal. A normal person does silly things, does weird things, does dickish things, and its not a big deal for them. If they do silly things, they're a comedian. If they do embarrassing things, they're a free spirit. If it's something that people do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:22 AM
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When I was a full on Red Piller, posts like this made me realise that there is a notable emotional objection to boys and men learning how the game works. So you didn't need your parents to teach you stuff, and you don't need the rules of socialising and dating explained to you scientifically. This is probably false, you probably had tonnes of advice, direct and indirect. But let's pretend you didn't. It's obvious that a lot of us did need that sort of instruction. And so what if we did? What's i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:09 AM
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Autism, developmental disabilities, poor role models, abusive upbringings, isolation during formative years, bullying, there are a lot of reasons. Having to ask that, is pretty naive. But forgivably so. In real life anyone who struggled like this will keep it very private. You hear about these struggles here, because we can share these issues anonymously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:33 AM
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That's often claimed as an excuse. And I don't believe you. Women know when a man isn't really interested, or isn't interested in making a move. It's just an excuse not to upset the social order.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:21 AM
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Okay, what would you like clarified? I assume the terms are fairly well understood. I can only assume to disagree with the mechanisms and/or the implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:41 AM
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Yes, I know what words mean. Like the other person, you're not asking the right questions. It seems like you have some objection you want to make, but you don't want to make it overtly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:33 AM
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I just think you're looking for excuses not to engage. Which is fine, you don't have to engage if you don't want to. But if you're going to take the time to respond to a comment, you should address it appropriately, rather than attempt to go off on a tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:28 AM
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Oh, so you do know what these terms mean. Yes, I absolutely assert that women contribute. Quite significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:26 AM
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You're asking the wrong question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:26 AM
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I don't think I have to explain how isolation, social order, social status, and elevated social status works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:25 AM
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The second half is relevant to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:22 AM
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It seems pretty relevant, for the reasons I listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:13 AM
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You can be friends with someone while being sexually interested in them. I'm attracted to at least 2/3rds of the women I know. But I'm not going to do anything about it unless they show obvious willingness to escalate, and it's in an appropriate context. I'm sure most guys are the same. Yet I still hear excuses that they don't include guys, because they're afraid they'll get the wrong idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:10 AM
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Women are half the population. If the problem is social in nature, where everyone contributes by being social, friendly, and inclusive to each other, then half the population saying they're not going to help due to some poorly defined principles is a problem. It's fairly obvious that women are very social and inclusive towards other women. I don't see any practical reasons why they can't be equally inclusive to men. Furthermore, this isn't entirely innocent when women aren't friendly to men. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:03 AM
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You're right that socialising comes with very little material cost. Though it does have costs. Or at least perceived costs, which is all that matters when someone decides to put in effort to do something. Many perceive socialising as zero sum, where pushing someone else down brings you up. There's risk in being vulnerable. Eg. Opening up to someone, inviting someone along who flakes. Sometimes there is access to material things, like women, invites, other friends. Some people feel their social c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:59 AM
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Yeah. The fact that half the population tells us that they're going to isolate us out of some poorly defined principle, is a big part of the problem. I don't think it's entirely innocent either. Every schoolgirl knows how to manipulate social connections, and isolate the popular from unpopular. I'm guessing it's less because they think it's men's problem to solve, or because they fear the men might get the wrong idea, or think they'll try to fuck them. Rather it's because they instinctively don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:46 PM
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This is sort of like asking why everyone can't work together to fix the economy. It's likely doable, and would have a massive overall benefit if it occurred. But, there are many reasons rooted in psychology, personal risk, and personal risk, that explain why this doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:20 PM
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First of all, this is definitely rage bait. But let's address the principle regardless. Despite what a lot of women, and especially young women, might think, most men aren't dumb cavemen desperate for a touch of boob. Most men know that women can be toxic and manipulative, and know when they're getting manipulated. There are also plenty of actually nice women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:18 AM
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Well that's the thing. Your average man's ideal app would be one where they find women that match their personality and interests. Your average woman's ideal app is where they get to filter from the endless guys who aren't attractive enough for them. And that's what we've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:50 AM
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The issue isn't really making a new app. The issue is getting enough people to use it. Especially getting women to use it. The swipe model took over everything because women wanted to use that more than any other model. By an amount that rendered the others negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:39 AM
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Yep, nailed it. Most people will openly say that social media and apps are bullshit, but continue to use them anyway. They get a lot of flak for allowing women to select a wider range of more attractive men. But really, the big appeal is that they can keep everything separate from their day to day life. They can date around, date multiple people, have a little fun, and then call it off or move on the moment they feel like it. Social media is a little different. There, the appeal is that you neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:34 AM
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Being online all the time is more a symptom of low confidence, than a cause. It's a vicious cycle. You feel lonely. You're confused and frustrated by the loneliness. So you go online to vent frustration, find answers as to why this happens, find others who have the same issues so you don't feel like it's just you, and to just have some substitute for healthy interaction. You feel temporary relief, but that doesn't last long. Then you go back to real life, and everything is the same. You learn to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:42 AM
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It's not entirely wrong. There's definitely a relationship between how comfortable a woman is around you, and how interested you appear. If you treat them like normal people, they don't put up barriers the same way. That means normal friendly chit chat, normal greetings, normal smiles. Don't stare at them, don't eye fuck them, don't gravitate towards them, don't light up when you see them. Also, don't go too far the other way. Don't act totally disinterested like you don't think they exist. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:46 AM
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Standards are fine. Everyone should have standards. The issue is, I don't really believe the stated standards. I'm not black pill. I don't think women only want 6'3 male models. But there are so many little unspoken details in what a women really wants. Women that are either struggling in dating, or have issues with men in general, tend to set a high target in the hopes that it will fix whatever their dating woes are. Look for someone richer, taller, more handsome, more popular, and hope that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:17 PM
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What you're describing is commonly reported among autistic guys. You get on pretty well with people one on one, guys and girls. But then in a group setting, you're back to being invisible at best. Or bullied and outcast at worst. I wouldn't word it as "It's society's fault". It's more like, people are more concerned with their own reputations than your wellbeing, or company. Most of the actual bullying and gossip stops after high school. But not always. There are plenty of adults looking to push…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:21 AM
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I'm a pretty dense guy when it comes to women. But I can see when a woman is interested. All my relationships, flings, and hook ups have been when she has made it obvious. That said, it's not always obvious. Sometimes her indicators of interest are there, but vague enough that you're not quite sure. The only way you would know, is to take a leap of faith. Which I won't do, because I'm pretty risk averse. Likewise, interest doesn't always mean interest. Maybe she wants you bad. Maybe she thinks y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:26 AM
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You sum up quite a lot of it in your OP. Number one, is that men are considered a monolith. Every issue with men is considering men as one. If men as a majority, of even minority, are considered privileged, then all men are privileged. If some men are bad, all men are bad. And this leads to all the other fallacious ways of thinking. Men's problems are assumed to be their fault, and their issue to solve. They can pull themselves up by their bootstraps, they won't get help from others. They will l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:51 PM
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Because by not including "be attractive", and the traits that they find attractive, they are framing the issue as something men are doing wrong. Rather than an issue of their own desire for shallow traits above all else. Note, there's nothing particularly wrong with liking shallow traits, men are open about liking looks above all else. But acknowledging as such, does have interesting implications for women. "Why can't I find a guy that's respectful, intelligent, hygienic ect?" = All men are bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:23 PM
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As someone who struggled in school, and had shitty parents, that analogy is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:00 AM
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I know and have known many women who I'm sure are autistic. I'm convinced that autism just doesn't hit women the same way. They don't have the obsessions with technical things, or works of fiction. They don't have that whole "I want to talk about this one topic, and nothing else" thing that autistic guys have. Most of them don't play video games, let alone obsessed over them. The lack of obsessions alone makes such a huge difference. That alone makes autistic women come off as slightly more quir…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:46 AM
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This kind of misandristic gender war has been going on a lot longer than that. I grew up around crazy women, and how much they hated men was all they ever talked about. This was way back in the 90s, and it wasn't new then either. I don't think there was a single trigger point. I think it just evolved from general social activism in the 60s. It's just the thrill of fighting the oppressor that tempts them. Even as the actual oppression became less and less, and even swung the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:03 AM
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She's not the first person who has advocated for Social Darwinism. Usually it's to justify one's own privileges, to justify not having empathy, and to justify not making sacrifices to help others. Everyone who advocates for Social Darwinism does so in areas that they believe they are winning. But they always demand assistance and fairness when it comes to areas where they don't have an advantage. Not to mention, if the tides were to turn, their beliefs would become a lot more egalitarian. I doub…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:34 AM
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Most people don't immediately assume autism. Especially as you get better at socialising in general. But most people can see something "off" about you. That "something off" can result in anything from having an ick, and needing to get you away from them ASAP, to just not feeling a connection and not even considering pursuing anything with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:01 AM
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Two questions: How many of these karaoke events, dance classes, ect. Have you gone to and actually met people at? And, did you go to these things alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:20 AM
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I agree. However, once something becomes routine, it stops being effort. If you hang out every other week, it stops being a chore, and starts being part of your regular routine. No different than going to the gym. The issue is that socialising isn't considered a need. You need to go to work. You need to have a good relationship with your partner. So you'll put in effort for that. Realistically, it's not actually much effort to hang out with someone. But it's effort you don't need to do, so peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:46 AM
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There is a big issue that most people aren't willing to inconvenience themselves for the sake of socialising. Setting aside a few hours, driving to another place, maybe losing an hour of sleep. It's enough to make people just not bother. That's why these circumstances can make and end friendships. As a lonely guy, you learn that you have to put in effort. You have to schedule things, stick to those schedules, make time, go for drives, be tired at work, try things that aren't in your comfort zone…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:45 AM
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You're not wrong. It's kind of funny that we spend 40 or more hours a week in a workplace, around other people who do the same thing you do. But then people say you need another place, where you need to spend more of your precious time, so you can make friends. Why can't we just make friends at the first place, instead of needing a third?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:00 PM
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Posts like this are why I stopped listening to the red pill. Like every poster decided they wanted to be a red pill guru, so the whole subculture was flooded with these walls of word diarrhoea, saying nothing of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:15 AM
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I don't disagree that men can be pretty shitty and overly compeditive towards each other. But I have no idea what you're referring to in the rest of your post. How are men stopping other men from talking to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:02 AM
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I said I wouldn't say they swiped because of genuine interest...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:41 AM
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Okay. I'm not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:39 AM
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It would show they didn't swipe because they were interested, but they might be interested regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:19 AM
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Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:43 AM
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Yes. Absolutely. An average women is still decently attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:42 AM
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So much that she doesn't even realise she's getting all that attention. For every decently attractive girl I work with or hang out with, you almost always see someone flirting with her throughout the day. To her, it's just guys treating her like normal. But from the outside, it's super obvious when a guy is flirting with her, gravitating towards her, treating her differently than he treats everyone else. On dating apps, it's basically an unlimited amount. I imagine women get matches on 50% of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:39 AM
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Let's say all men stop chasing women. This makes women desperate. They're more open to being approached, and start approaching more. So now it's easier for a guy to get lucky. So guys see that women are easier, so they start approaching more. Now women are being pursued so they're no longer desperate and they are harder to approach, and we're back where we started... It's just the nature of the beast. Guys will approach until they either have success, or their shame of rejection outweighs their …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:29 AM
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on top of that, a big issue for women who approach is that a lot of guys will go along with it even if they aren't all that into them, because it's an opportunity to get laid that they don't have to work very hard for This is pretty much true. Even very unattractive girls can get way more attractive guys just by making the move. However, I don't agree that it's just to get laid. Those guys are just as happy if they're sought after for a relationship. But that kinda demonstrates an interesting po…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:52 AM
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If there was a post that said that women being approached by a guy they like makes them feel special and romantic, no one would disagree. If there was a post that said women are competitive against each other in their dating life, no one would disagree. Put it all together in abrasive language, and everyone tells you how wrong you are and there's no way it's true. OP, you're pretty much right. It's not the only reason that women don't approach, but it's definitely one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:27 AM
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I don't disagree with your overall assessment. But do you think this cultural divide in different men is enforced by Western society, both men and women? I've been a softy over women many times. Once I was really into a girl that I started dating. I felt a real connection, when we made out, talked, looked into each other's eyes. She called it off, and I was crushed. I literally passed out, called in sick the next day, didn't eat for a day. But I sure as hell never told anyone I did that. But I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:38 AM
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This is true, even if it might lack a lot of nuance. To be fair, most of the replies here are deliberately being uncharitable, and applying even less nuance. Women aren't only friends with guys who they would fuck or date. Women can be friends with fat guys, short guys, physically average or unappealing guys. But those guys aren't undateable. But they will exclude guys that have features that make them undateable. Which is most likely being on the spectrum, I'm sorry to say. Anything that makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:24 AM
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Yeah, this is a huge problem. It's so much easier to approach if you get actual opportunities to talk, get to know each other, get assistance from other friends. But everyone is so isolated that so many guys are forced into either cold approaching or nothing. Like what happened to people just throwing a bbq, or party, or whatever, and just inviting everyone they know to mingle?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:00 AM
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I'm pretty sure women know when a man is scared, has poor social skills, awkward ect. Before that guy does or doesn't approach. Most women give off signals to guys they want to approach them. Guys who are already unattractive aren't getting those signals, and aren't approaching, and she doesn't want them to. I imagine giving those signals, and not having them reciprocated would be pretty annoying, maybe even insulting. I've heard it said that if a woman gives off a signal, and the guy won't appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:17 AM
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Analogies, hypotheticals, thought experiments. If someone doesn't want to get the point, they will find ways around them. It doesn't matter if they're women or not. Analogies and hypotheticals sound like a good rhetorical strategy in a debate. The idea is to take something with the same logic, but in a different scenario. Ideally, a scenario that's more obvious and less controversial. The idea being that your opponent will find the argument more agreeable if it's not applied to the controversial…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:10 AM
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Women want are attracted to a lifestyle that they want to be a part of. In other news, water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:51 AM
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Once I heard someone say that they feel it's easier, and even nicer, to agree to a plan, and then back out at the last minute. Which sounds wild, because, like you said, it's so easy to just say no. Even if you just say you're busy. And it's super not nice to just flake on something you agreed to. But it makes sense with some twisted logic. If you say no right away, you give them the opportunity to reschedule. Now they've got to come up with even more excuses. But if they say yes, and back out, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:46 AM
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The issue with flaking is it has become socially acceptable, to the point where it would be considered rude to react how you should. You should be able to tell them "What the fuck guys? I planned this thing, I set my weekend aside, you all said yes. Next time you organise it, and I won't show. Shitheads." But instead you've gotta politely accept it, and tell them it's okay. This politeness has trained everyone that it's okay to do that. The problem with making friends is it's gotta be a team eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:20 AM
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In general, in the western world, adult men are very resistant to making friends. For reasons I just don't get, men don't want to make friends at work. Even guys you really get along with, there's a barrier between making actual friends. Like you talk, you laugh, you have things in common. But you will never get them to do anything outside of work or work related functions. I don't see this in women. Women make close friends all the time, even when they've only known each other for a short time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:58 AM
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This isn't a conspiracy. Very little, if anything, is caused by a conspiracy. In this case it's just the elites wanting money, which means working more, and making things more expensive. Which means people spend less time and money to do things. There are other issues as well, like the psychological effects of social media, consuming too much digital entertainment, and parasocial relationships. The elites have a hand in this. But again, it's not a conspiracy to keep everyone lonely. It's just th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:13 PM
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People want to be radicalised. It's how it happens in the first place. They get angry for whatever reason, then someone gives them an outlet for their anger. A feeling that they're at least fighting for something, rather than sitting and wallowing in pity. It's like telling an addict to just put down the crack pipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:32 AM
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Yeah...The "natural biology" was women being treated like a resource, like property. Taken and enslaved, bought and sold, gifted, rented, traded for political favour. Returning to nature ain't exactly a great argument for women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:27 AM
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I have diagnosed autism. I was pretty weird and nervous as a child and teenager. Over the years, I've improved my social skills a lot. But no matter how good I get at socialising, that barrier never goes away. I feel like it's gotten worse over the years. As a young adult, I could be pretty weird and still make some friends. Now, I can be as close to normal as I can be, and making friends is really hard. Dating is even harder. Like the standards for time and commitment are just way higher. I say…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:03 AM
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It's hard to put a genie back in the bottle. You could straight up delete all social media and online dating from the world. If you did, there would be a long time, possibly years, where people just wouldn't socialise. They would be too used to the convenient and low risk way of socialising. Socialising in public would remain taboo. Then, over time, people's friendships would dwindle. Loneliness would become the norm. Then, people would start breaking down those barriers to real life socialising…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:50 AM
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These things do still happen, in many places. The most obvious factor is economics, far more than anything else. To put it bluntly, people will do anything to make money if it's their only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:11 AM
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What you describe as being a dystopian concept, has been the reality for most of history. Remember what they say the world's oldest profession is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:45 AM
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The first question I'd ask is what she believes men actually do to support rape culture ect. Then, I'd ask what she thinks men do, that women don't do. Then, I'd reverse the questions. What would a man have to do to not support these things? What does a woman do to not support these things? There's an argument to be made that all of us that are part of a society are in some way responsible for all of society's ills. But I'm guessing this isn't what she's saying. I don't think she thinks there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:31 AM
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There is way too much with cluster B personality disorders to explain it in the single comment. I suggest looking at the subreddits for partners and children of people with these disorders. Look up terms like DARVO, and gaslighting for specifics on how they don't take accountability. It's not that people need more shame and guilt. It's that shame and guilt is a natural part of being accountable for something. If you do something wrong, you're supposed to feel bad. Then that bad feeling makes you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:22 PM
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I'm getting that you're defensive about this. Are you cluster B by chance? I'm not sure what you're asking. You're asking how to read a person's emotions and actions? I think you're missing something. What I wrote was about cluster Bs and general assholes in therapy. Not everyone who goes to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:38 AM
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It might be in academic literature. I don't know, I've never looked. Taking accountability is pretty straightforward. Admit you did something wrong, accept an appropriate amount of guilt and shame for doing such thing, make proper effort not to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:56 AM
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This is one such example: https://shrink4men.com/2020/07/03/couples-therapy-with-narcissists-and-borderlines/ More often than not, these kinds of things are with couples therapy. In their minds, they don't need it, their partner needs it, and they are going to therapy to get a professional opinion that everything is their partner's fault. Also known is using therapy as a way to lure in the estranged child or ex partner. Saying they're going to therapy to make the outward appearance that they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:31 AM
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This problem is in no way unique to women. It is unique to personality disordered individuals, or just general assholes. This is a commonly documented thing among cluster B personality types. That being sociopaths, narcissists, borderlines, and histrionics. They go to therapy because they're sad about something. They spend their time blaming their spouse, children, friends, whatever. After a few sessions, the therapist sees something is wrong. The therapist can see the individual is the problem.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:19 PM
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"Other men are pathetic, they should stop going to salsa dance so I can have all the women there to myself!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:04 PM
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Like every other business, the purpose of dating apps is to make money. To make money, they have to sell a product. That product is women. It doesn't matter how well designed the app is, or how well it achieves its advertised purpose, men will go wherever the women are. Apps adopted the swipe model, because that's what women want in an app. Apps tried using numbers and data to match the perfect couples. But data analysis revealed what's obvious now: The only numbers that made a difference are he…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:43 PM
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I'm going to say very directly, for a lot of guys there simply aren't other options. Simply put, the modern world is not very social, like it should be. A lot of guys might have a small circle of friends they knew from school, or a small circle of work friends. But they don't have options to mingle with different groups. They don't get introduced to new people. They might be part of a group with maybe half a dozen girls, and twice as many guys. If they don't have the chemistry with those girls, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:00 AM
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Money and time making it difficult to regularly commit. Worries about meeting new people. Worries that the effort will be for nothing. A constant repeat of "I'll sign up next month, once work and bills ease off..."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:28 AM
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This is a gender issues sub, so pretty much every issue is framed as "men vs women". Realistically, this issue is more "lonely people vs popular people". The answer to your question, is most men don't have this problem, and don't see a need to fix it for those that do. Getting lonely and lost guys together would probably be a solution. But if you tried that, you would get a mix of all their anxieties making bonding difficult. If there was a gender neutral place to talk about these issues, we'd p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:25 AM
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It's not about desperation or anything. It's about completely killing the vibe. If you say "Great, I'll see you at this coffee date at this time. Oh, and I expect sex by the third date, and we're splitting the bill." Yeah, that just sounds so weird and unattractive. It would be no different for a woman to sit down at a coffee date and tell you she expects marriage and children within 2 years. Open to that or not, there's a time and a place to bring that up, and on the first date ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:31 AM
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It happens, but it's rare. It's interesting how everyone in these comments says it either happens all the time, or it never happens. I get the impression that it's very region and culture dependent. Like some people see building too many friendships as a risk, and like to keep their friend groups tightly curated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:22 AM
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In order to work, communication requires two things: Forgiveness, and a burden of responsibility. You need to forgive the other person for doing something wrong, on the basis that they didn't know they were doing something wrong. Then you need to accept responsibility yourself, for explaining what is right. If someone won't communicate, it's usually because they don't want to take that responsibility, and give that forgiveness. They know that they're going to be unhappy, and they want someone to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:47 PM
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When someone tells a man to go therapy, what they really mean is "go find someone else to fix your problems, because I don't want to". Most men have practical problems. And most of those problems are caused, and thus solved, by the other people around you. Talking to a medical professional in private about it isn't going to help. What a man wants is to be part of a community. To matter in that community. He wants everyone who he's around to check up on him, ask him how he's doing, offer sympathi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:17 AM
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