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That's amazing, it's great to see some meaningful movement somewhere. Wild that it's gaining speed on a parliamentary level. I'm very curious about what you think works with the Polish approach. In my experience the non-confrontational approach usually ends up with just accepting the narrative of the status quo to avoid upsetting people. Is it mainly the flow over effect from Ukraine or is there something special that works in how the MRM in Poland does things?
/r/MensRights25/04/26 11:02 PM
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It's pretty normal these days, yeah. And in my experience then it doesn't have much to do with how you dress, how you look, or even how you act, you're likely to be met with a hostile attitude if you're a man, either directly or indirectly. I find it frustrating too tbh, and I'm trying to find the balance of not putting more energy into assholes than they're worth, and standing up for myself when the situation calls for it. It's unfortunately a part of the culture at this point, decades of misan…
/r/MensRights15/12/24 12:58 AM
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Women do indeed have a strong in group bias, that's a well established and indisputable fact. And men don't really have an in group bias, which means that a lot of men go along with it, in an attempt to curry favour with women. But what feminism is doing, is preying on womens in group bias and certain parts of their psychology. Just like CRT is a marxist take on race issues, then feminism is a marxist take on gender dynamics and rights. Feminism have now been around long enough to have influence…
/r/MensRights03/12/24 04:41 PM
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Nope, they say that feminists represents the thoughts and feelings of every single woman, and use that incorrect claim to smear you. And you are using the exact same logic as they do, by claiming that every single woman is a feminist. And that's bunk, feminism is an ideology. If it was an expression of how every single woman thought, then you would see mention of feminists throughout history. Which you don't because the feminist ideology is barely a couple of hundred years old.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 04:10 PM
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Feminism is a very specific ideology, with a certain worldview and ideological baggage. While you're right that society has a large bias in favour of women, then you're conflating certain parts of female psychology with the political ideology that feminism is. And that conflation has implications, because if you're an antifeminist and see all women as being feminists, then the logical consequence of that is that you're against women as a gender. And that's just leaning into the whole gender war …
/r/MensRights03/12/24 04:01 PM
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Yep, was meant for them
/r/MensRights03/12/24 04:00 PM
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Hear hear, the mentality that it's okay to condemn a whole gender is one of my own principal objections to feminism. Sure, call out the ones that do wrong, but don't judge everyone who happen to share some characteristic with them, and pretend they're a monolith. That's just sexism. People are individuals, both genders have assholes and decent people in them.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 03:51 PM
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Feminism is a very specific ideology, with a certain worldview and ideological baggage. While you're right that society has a large bias in favour of women, then you're conflating certain parts of female psychology with the political ideology that feminism is. And that conflation has implications, because if you're an antifeminist and see all women as being feminists, then the logical consequence of that is that you're against women as a gender. And that's just leaning into the whole gender war …
/r/MensRights03/12/24 03:48 PM
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I'm curious, what makes Queensland less feminist than the other states?
/r/MensRights14/10/24 09:46 AM
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I appreciate you're calling out how common female supremacist rhetoric and mentality is in these spaces. It's far too common and I don't believe that we'll be able to change much before we've stopped that tendency. It's outright sad to see how many men actually believe that men are defective women. I think that there's two main reasons we see this sort of rhetoric so often: What we discuss in these spaces goes against the zeitgeist, so a lot of people who approve of the status quo actively seek …
/r/MensRights08/06/24 12:31 PM
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But she didn't tell him, did she? All she did was run to HR and accuse a coworker of sexual misconduct and destroy his livelihood, instead of actually opening her mouth and talk to him about it. Anything can be interpreted as sexual misconduct, you can claim that anything makes you uncomfortable, but that does not warrant ruining another persons employment. And if you think it does, then you seriously need to re-align your moral compass. And let's not pretend that there aren't people who make th…
/r/MensRights19/05/24 07:16 PM
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You're exemplifying the problem splendidly. You immediately jump to the conclusion that he did something wrong, broke some boundary, did something unprofessional, and you have zero basis or proof to justify making that conclusion. That's why guys are wary of women in the workplace, because it's just assumed that they are guilty and they're condescendingly admonished at best (like you're doing), and are likely to lose their livelihood, just because people assume guilt. There is a very good reason…
/r/MensRights19/05/24 03:49 PM
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I've never been sold on the idea because it has always been obvious to me that feminism has always been a project that deals exclusively with the interests of women. I do want to address your statement of Ironically, a lot of people on the left talk about how guys like Andrew Tate or Jordan Peterson are the cause of radicalizing men, but I never gave these types a second glance before. What actually ended up radicalizing me were feminists themselves. You haven't been radicalized, you have been d…
/r/MensRights29/11/23 11:07 AM
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Fair point, it could potentially foster a healthier culture and a less misandric mindset if male teachers had other males to spar with and be influenced by. I do think that it's a major problem that so many men buy into the zeitgeist, but it might work as a counterbalance if men were less atomized.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 11:03 AM
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More male teachers are certainly needed, but that's not enough in and of itself. We need male teachers who are able to be positive role models and who actually cares about the boys. Male teachers who have bought into a misandric mindset seem to be quite prevalent, which is even more harmful than female misandric teachers. It's a hard thing to change because male teachers have to be able to fit into the misandric culture in the education institutions to be able to make a career out of it.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 10:16 AM
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You're right about the indoctrination, but your timeline is off. It began in the 1960s, possibly a bit earlier. Several generations have been through the indoctrination mill at this point.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 08:52 AM
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Jordan Peterson is a very controversial figure but it's important to realize that he has three areas of subjects he deals with; psychology, politics, and raising men up (though he doesn't really exclude women so they can get something out of him too). He gives a lot of valuable insights into power dynamics and the social rules and games we deal with everyday. Those things are incredibly important to understand, as a lot of the current issues men has, stems from their opponents playing these game…
/r/MensRights21/11/23 03:14 PM
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Hard agree on all counts. Demonstrations is very outdated and is a very poor way of communicating, besides from the mentioned pitfalls. Making sound, provable arguments online is what's important right now. It's at the stage of raising awareness which is vital, because you're not going to change anything without allies and sympathetic people in positions of power, be it journalists or politicians.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 07:11 PM
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He mentioned the thing, get him! Get your torches and pitchforks here! Seriously though, you already know the main reason the phrase is used: The phrase is designed to evoke a primal guardian instinct and sympathy. Even with the great effort that's been made to change gender stereotypes, women and children are seen as vulnerable, and men are perceived as being strong. We still think of war as something men do, because of the stereotype of mental and physical strength. Women do war too, but that'…
/r/MensRights15/11/23 12:54 PM
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This is a self defeating mindset, that's veering dangerously close into a victim mindset. You're used to being demonized and can actually become so accustomed to it, that it feels more comfortable than being supported. One of the reasons we're in this mess, is that tribalistic thinking is being pushed really hard, from many different sources. People are taught to identify with their characteristics, race, sex, sexuality, general physical appearance, and to distrust and even be antagonistic to an…
/r/MensRights11/11/23 01:03 PM
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What does this say about the world we live in where this type of thing happens? It makes it feel meaningless and evil It is evil, or at least in large part controlled by people possessed by evil. It's harsh, it's unfair and it's demotivating. You are certainly not alone in feeling that. You see the world for what it truly is, and you're right to feel depressed about that. How wonderful it would be if we were born into a world of justice where people behaved civilized and spent their efforts impr…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:32 PM
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Because the good guys don't want the modern woman that means "doormat" when she says "good moral values", and have no concept of reciprocity. So the good guys have either found a good woman to be in a relationship with already, or chose to stay single.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 11:52 PM
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Daaad! rolls eyes Seriously though, that's a great analogy to explain the proper approach. Solid advice.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 05:56 AM
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Not a Brit but I hope you'll have success with this. You guys really need a counterweight.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 05:56 PM
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This is no coincidence, it's a clear example of feminism being a part of the Marxist movement and ideology I know there is quite a few members of this sub that are left-wingers, perhaps even socialists, and while it may be an uncomfortable discussion, it needs to be had. It's vital to understand the theoretical basis of feminism if you want to understand why the movement behaves the way it does. Calling out specific egregious ideas is not enough, you need to critique the very theoretic basis tha…
/r/MensRights03/11/23 05:43 PM
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While the findings are totally predictable, it's very good to get some research on it, as that makes for much stronger arguments. I see it's a pilot study, so keeping my fingers crossed that it progresses to a full blown study eventually. It's good to get the perspectives of the men through a survey, but it would be great to get some statistical data that indicates a connection between the disparaging discourse about masculinity and worse mental well-being. Of course a lot of people won't care n…
/r/MensRights01/11/23 11:15 PM
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I agree, it's essentially the "is/ought" problematic. Even if you think that men ought to be able to wear their emotions on their sleeve, then the reality is that doing so usually have detrimental social consequences. It's no coincidence that there's a stereotype of men being stoics, it's a product of evolution for men to be more stoic. It's also socially desirable regardless of whether we're talking about a CEO, a drill Sargeant, a husband or a father. Calm and collected men can solve problems,…
/r/MensRights31/10/23 09:06 AM
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Appreciate it, it's good to get a bit of positivity once in a while.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 12:02 AM
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Glad you're feeling at home and find the sub useful. There's all sorts here, but I find that it's a good place to sharpen your thinking and arguments. It's honestly the only place on reddit I really feel comfortable too, even other subs focused on men either have an overt or covert disdain for men and white knighting galore.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 10:53 PM
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If you mean the biggest men's issue that should be tackled right now, then I'd say that that's the education problem. Higher education is linked to better outcomes in health, in quality of life and (obviously) personal wealth. That issue also influence other issues, because it gets easier enacting positive changes, when you have knowledgeable men in the wings of power, in various fields. If you on the other hand mean the biggest issues regarding MRM itself, then I think it's that there seems to …
/r/MensRights25/10/23 05:27 PM
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Exactly. I was positively surprised when I first discovered female content creators that talk about men and men's issues, but I quickly noticed that they are all very inconsistent and are just saying what they think men want to hear.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 02:03 PM
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That's really great news. It's so important that the legal systems around the world recognizes that allegations can be false, and that women can be abusive too. It creates a tangible precedent that can be debated and in time implemented, in the legal systems of other countries too.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 04:35 PM
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While I'm happy to have a sensible discussion, you're welcome to block me if that's how you roll. I'm sure as hell going to speak out against hating on boys in a mens rights sub. You're saying that boys hate school and that they're disruptive and you don't blame teachers for hating on them. That makes you a part of the problem. Being a teacher is about more than text books, and boys sorely lack positive male role models that helps them develop. If you can't or wont do that, then it's good you're…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 12:23 PM
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If it's the episode I'm thinking of, then it's a couple of years back by now. But it's a very clear example of what the mentality is regarding boys. They're being held responsible for past wrongdoings, real or imagined, and are being treated like second class citizens that needs to be denigrated to achieve "justice". We really need to speak out against it, because whole generations of boys are being sacrificed.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 12:08 PM
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They’re so ready to harp on anything about boys, they hate them so much. And I don’t blame them: the boys distrupt the class, the are loud, hungry, bored, and don’t see the value of education anymore. If it’s my job to make sure they school well on tests, they become the enemy. Well if that's the perspective of a "sympathetic" male teacher, then it's no wonder boys are failing education in massive numbers, even their "allies" hate them. I hardly know where to begin with this. Of course teen boys…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 12:01 PM
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I can only say that I agree with your perspective and it's tough as nails. Finding genuine connections is difficult, and being unsupported is a given these days. The thing I tell myself is that "when you're going through hell, keep going". I'm too stubborn to give up, so I plod on-wards and do what I can to influence things in a better direction. These things are at least beginning to be talked about by more people, so hopefully that'll lead to change. But until then, all we can do is stand fast…
/r/MensRights21/10/23 10:52 AM
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This is not about me specifically, I'm talking about a pattern in how struggling men are being viewed and dealt with. Regarding therapy, it's not really about what the gender of the therapist is, it's about the overarching paradigm within therapy. Likewise, it's not about the gender of the earliest therapists, it's about the a priori assumptions that influence how therapists approach men and women. It's faulty reasoning to say that the mental health field are built on male perspectives, just bec…
/r/MensRights21/10/23 10:30 AM
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This is exactly what I'm thinking too. We can talk about the higher suicide rate, how boys and men fall behind in education, how some men now avoid women to avoid false allegations, but the reason those issues aren't being fixed is because it's become socially acceptable to hate men. So the bias needs to be dealt with.
/r/MensRights21/10/23 09:45 AM
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I'd say that women needs both. They often need to walk through all their emotions before they're ready to act. But at that point yeah, they need a kick in the pants if they begin to get stuck and just focus on talking about feelings without intending to solve anything. I'm sure that there's men that would benefit from developing better strategies for emotional regulation, but it's just almost always assumed that a man don't know how to deal with emotions, simply because he's a man. And it doesn'…
/r/MensRights20/10/23 11:21 PM
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What's needed is to accept men's emotional expression as they are, instead of constantly compare it to the female expression of emotion. There should be a much greater focus on problem solving instead of the current trend of emotional cuddling. When I've been in distress, I didn't want someone to create a long-winded wallowing session where my emotions were being dissected from all angles. I wanted solutions to help me fix the problem, which in turn would make me feel better. The problem is in e…
/r/MensRights20/10/23 02:13 PM
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Because the vast majority of men want a woman. Because it's a fundamental biological and psychological imperative to find a mate and procreate. Yes, some chose not to, but the vast majority want it. And framing things around women appeals to that. I.e. more views. It's definitely the wrong way to go about it, if you want to explore masculinity and develop your own masculinity. When men make thinking about women a basic part of how they explore masculinity, then they completely undermine themselv…
/r/MensRights19/10/23 08:21 AM
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While I certainly agree that there's men that take the MRM to an unhealthy extreme, then I still gotta say that there's a lot of fallacies in your thinking here. The term incel is indeed meaningless and pretty much always used as an insult or personal attack. If we look at the literal meaning of the word, then it just means that the person is celibate without wanting to be, and I fail to see how that's relevant to anything. If you mean that the label incel describes a certain radical ideology or…
/r/MensRights15/10/23 12:44 PM
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This is a pleasant surprise. I'm a Dane and I'd never have bet on the government actually taking any men's issue seriously. Nice to be proven wrong. I'll still be very interested in how men will be treated by staff when they're actually in the shelters, as something like this also requires the attitude of staff regarding men to change. Men are on the whole still seen as weak in Denmark if they require this kind of help, or any help at all for that matter. So I think it's necessary to put the sta…
/r/MensRights15/10/23 11:53 AM
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I agree with the points being made here. This sub is a good place to gain knowledge, debate perspectives and vent frustrations. I'll focus on point #3 though. It is indeed very important to actually use the knowledge gained here to affect others opinions. The most important thing to do right now, is to make it more socially acceptable and common to discuss men's issues and counter all the misinformation. No change will come before we can at least do that. While I agree that it would be good for …
/r/MensRights12/10/23 09:58 AM
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Well I can see why if that's the case.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 04:06 AM
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I gotta say it offends my scientific heart to see it phrased as an instance of scientific development. Imagine if once upon a time, a lot of scientists had proven gravity and that it was so well known that a not insignificant number of regular people knew about it, and a lot of them even had the education that made it possible to prove it themselves. Then, in walks Newton and goes, "Hey ho, I've proven gravity, now award me and gasp as my brilliance." That is what is happening here. You only nee…
/r/MensRights11/10/23 04:04 AM
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I think the "logic" is that a "strong and independent woman/queen/boss bitch" doesn't need a man, that men are reprehensible, so if you want to get picked by them, then there's something wrong with you, and you have "internalized misogyny". But you're completely right, it does indeed work against a hetero woman. At least if she doesn't want to be partner-less her entire life. Like so many things that feminists say, it has no logic to it and doesn't lead to good outcomes in the real world.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 08:04 PM
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Fair, that's completely valid. It's easier sharing thoughts and developing ones thinking, when it doesn't lead to a lot of fallout all the time.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 07:27 PM
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Exactly, even a hint of heresy is enough to be ostracized. Truth doesn't matter to them, only the narrative. I'd much rather have people that are questioning feminism, but haven't rejected it fully to come into this sub and talk to us, than make this into an echo chamber like the feminists do. And realistically, MRA won't go anywhere if we can't talk to people that might have opinions we find objectionable.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:42 PM
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That is a bit suspicious. There might be ulterior motives, though I can't see what they would get out of this if it wasn't sincere. But it's just as likely that OP are taking their first steps into questioning feminism and are worried about being harassed on their main account.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:17 PM
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Wear the moniker "pick me girl" as a badge of honor. Feminists hurl insults when people say things that goes against their narrative, so it just means that they consider the things you say to be threatening and feel that they have to attack your character. I honestly consider feminism to be a hate-movement. It's not about building anything, it's about tearing things down, rationalizing hate, and garner privileges for a select few. It's nice to see a woman that gets it though.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:12 PM
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Talk about an attempt at an psy up. I'm gonna pass really hard on this one. BLM, LGBTQ, feminism and anarchism isn't friendly to MRA.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:06 PM
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It's becoming hard to take the Nobel prize seriously when they hand it out for something so obvious that people have been saying for years. It will be interesting to see whether feminists and the like will adjust they rhetoric on the subject or not.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 05:48 PM
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The DEI paradigm is just a rebranding of sexism and racism. New name, same hateful content.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 09:37 AM
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It's partly the times we live in and partly what it's like to be a man. We literally have to learn to play the game of survival of the fittest, whether we like it or not. You gotta develop some thick skin on your emotions. People won't be kind, but that doesn't matter. You gotta do the best you can, from whatever point you're at in life. Yeah I get the tiredness. You need a goal to work towards, even if that is just making a better everyday life for yourself. When I get world weary, I remind mys…
/r/MensRights03/10/23 10:55 PM
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You do the only thing you can do. Recognize and accept the harsh truth that you are alone and that no one is coming to save you. When you need help and can't get it, then you do the best you can. Always move forward, no matter how painful it is. Cause it's the only option if you refuse to give up. You'll learn to accept this part of reality in time. Your feelings will protest a lot, but they'll come around eventually.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 10:40 PM
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No you got it, they're useful idiots. They want to do something similar to this subreddit, but they try to do it within the feminist worldview, which obviously only leads to them buying even more into the propaganda. Trust your gut and don't waste your time on men's lib or places like that.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 10:00 PM
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My guess is that they notice your shift in attitude and that you'll give as good as you get. They don't want a fight on equal footing, so they back off.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 06:43 PM
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No, not at all. Life has knocked the naivety out of me, and I've reassessed all the wrong teachings I was given whilst growing up. It has made me much more pragmatic and factually minded, but I haven't given up on anything or compromised my own integrity. I do put much more emphasis on looking out for myself as I know society doesn't care one iota about me. I no longer feel an obligation to sacrifice for others or work myself half to death for their benefit. When I help others now, I first do a …
/r/MensRights24/09/23 03:48 PM
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I'm impressed with this study and very surprised that such a thing exists in this day and age. It might just be a review, but they've searched a lot of databases and even searched for grey literature, and there seem to be a lot of good info in it. Hopefully others will pick up on it so we'll one day reach a point where men can be open about being abused without being attacked for it.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 09:56 PM
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Social engineering. Why are men so vilified today? Why do people say that boys and men are less mature than girls and women? Why do people assume that men are brutish and violent? Because there has been a concerted effort spanning decades to make it so. That's why you see this pattern in shows and movies. Some of the writers do it on purpose, and some are just useful idiots.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 05:46 PM
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It's a huge project to change public opinion and multiple strategies are needed to do it, as well as patience. We need to support men that are struggling and validate it when we meet men that says things that shows that they get it, or at least understand some of the issues. Feminists have a sisterhood where they support each other, we need a brotherhood. And we need the people that directly criticizes feminism and it's inherent flaws to bring the mere though that feminism is problematic into pe…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 08:19 PM
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It's always the person making the claim that has to substantiate the claim and it has to be falsifiable to even be taken seriously. Otherwise people could claim the most outrageous claims and "be right" because their clam is made in such a way that it cannot be disproved. You can't prove that something does not exist. So the next time you debate with this friend or others like her, then demand that they present hard and objective evidence to support their claim. If they don't or won't then it wo…
/r/MensRights02/09/23 04:16 PM
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Indeed it is and from an objective and tactical standpoint, it's very smart capturing the education system as the students will eventually influence the development in their fields. I think that one of the great tasks that needs to be done to see significant change is to return the education system to be about actual education where the students are taught how to think, instead of being indoctrinated into what to think. It is possible to make it through an education even if you don't buy into th…
/r/MensRights27/08/23 07:04 AM
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This is really surprising, especially considered it took place at a college, but I greatly appreciate seeing a positive story for a change. It's a very interesting turn of events, I wonder what made it possible for you to expound the facts and have them listen to it. From your post, I could see the lab setting to have an impact, that you're a female and you've added that you're well-spoken, which likely also enters into it. What do you think made it turn out like that? I'd like to offer you a li…
/r/MensRights27/08/23 06:27 AM
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I get that, it's much less stressful. STEM fields seem to be a bit more resistant to it. Yeah the ideological bias has become pretty overt at this point. Students nowadays are having a hard time if they aren't avid followers of leftist and socialist ideas and many education organizations has devolved into outright political indoctrination. I get your growing conservatism, it's hard not to when these radical and destructive ideas are being jammed down your throat.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 04:50 PM
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I'm not the poster you asked, but I think you are mostly right on that. The caveat is that we do need to look inward too and improve ourselves. But other than that, I do think that the push for men to focus much more on emotions is deeply unhealthy for us. And yes, overly emotional men goes to the bottom of the social hierarchies, which may have something to do with the reason emotionalism is being pushed on men. Of course we are emotional beings and have emotional needs too, but I personally fi…
/r/MensRights26/08/23 03:51 PM
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I couldn't agree more. It's basically a result of "the long march of the institutions" where the education systems teach the students to think in certain ways, which involves discriminating against certain groups. I worked in healthcare until recently and was actually called into a disciplinary conversation with the boss, because I had a very rational approach to my practice and would argue my treatment of the patients based on objectivity. He told me that it was offensive that I said things lik…
/r/MensRights26/08/23 03:40 PM
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The psychologist profession is sadly pretty influenced by postmodern thinking, so your experience isn't uncommon. I've experienced similar things with several psychologists, shaming, antagonizing comments, general dismissal of the things I say and have pretty much given up on using psychologists to work through things. The thing about psychology is that it's a very soft science and there's a general lack of solid objective evidence in the field, so it's very susceptible to ideological influence.…
/r/MensRights26/08/23 09:52 AM
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The D-day metaphor is perfect and there's strength in it. Puts things in a good perspective. It's gonna be a long fight and there will be a lot of casualties but those of us that realize the danger society is in have a duty to fight. Sorry you're one of those that are being harmed, you've taken a hard hit. Keep going brother, you can fight your way out of hell. You got this.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 06:55 PM
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I think it's definitely worth it. To exact any change in a society you need to go through a certain process; raising awareness -> mobilizing -> influence society -> change society. Right now we need to raise awareness and subs like this definitely helps with that. I agree that things are getting less hidden but while that is definitely a cause for concern, I think it can also prove to be a benefit in the long run. When the people that follow this sort of ideology don't even bother to present the…
/r/MensRights17/08/23 09:15 AM
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It's not sudden, it's a process that's been going on from the 1960's, maybe even before. So at this point we have about 4-5 generations that's either been working to make things like this, or been indoctrinated into thinking in this way. At this point, it's probably only the older boomers that remembers a time where these ideas were only something you found in radical fringe groups. It has been pushed for decades in the media, the education system, in modern art and in politics. So there has bee…
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:52 AM
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Damn man, that's really well put, like reading a mini "I have a dream speech", just for men.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 09:30 AM
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I have the same approach because it's necessary at this point. You gotta assume that you're behind enemy lines and vet people thoroughly for a long time before you talk about these things with them. Especially at the job or school.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 10:24 AM
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Right, you can't do anything about it and even if you could, that still doesn't mean that you should. The mere idea of judging someone solely on the basis of their sex, skin and so on, is medieval. It sounds like you're decently well-rounded and it's great to be able to be soft to kids and animals and so on, and be disagreeable and assertive in general. That's pretty good qualities for a man to have in my mind. So just shake off all the misandry and hateful comments people make. We need more men…
/r/MensRights29/07/23 09:19 PM
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I get what you're saying but do your best to ignore it. It's indeed a part of the times we live in and misandry is very common all through the west. Try and be logical about it, does it actually make sense to be ashamed of being a masculine man? I'd say it doesn't. You have to keep going and be the masculine man that you naturally are and stoicism is exactly one of the things that can help you deal with that. Some people just hate specific groups because of their sex, or skincolor, or the way th…
/r/MensRights29/07/23 07:37 PM
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Kudos, that's actually inspiring. I relate to a lot of it. Not anywhere near the finish line myself but it's nice to see an example of turning things around into success in a realistic manner.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 08:21 PM
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Bot alert.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/23 05:03 PM
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I think the base idea of feminism as: "supporting women's rights" is good As do I, provided those rights aren't about giving women legalised preferential treatment. I don't agree that that's the base idea of feminism though. I hate all this "fuck men all men are bad" shit because feminism isn't supposed to be about putting down men it's supposed to be supporting women. I appreciate hearing that from a woman. However, when you look at what feminists do instead of focussing on what they claim femi…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 07:28 AM
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I relate to that. The lack of responsibility and maturity is infuriating.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 11:19 PM
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First off all, be very aware of whether you're thinking, saying or doing sexist things. Feminism is based on a sexist mindset. Now, I'm not saying that men and women are the same, because we certainly are not. But if you're reacting differently to the same situation depending on whether a man or a woman does it, then you have to be able to clearly and succintly explain why you are. There is a slew of double standards that can't hold up to the slightest degree of scrutiny. Hence the feminist prop…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 07:31 PM
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Gen Z isn't alone in this at all. The Millennials do it, Gen X do it, the Boomers do it. These misandrist attitudes have been on the rise for decades, beginning in earnest in the 60s. The main difference between Gen Z and the previous generations is that we are now at a point where misandry is pervasive in the western world, so the Gen Z have been fed misandrist ideas from all fronts. But don't be surprised if you hear an otherwise gentle grandmother spew misandrist bs. So we need people to coun…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:13 AM
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I use the pattern of peoples interpretation as a way of gauging whether I'm talking to a good faith actor and whether I'm talking to someone able to think clearly about things. The tendency to assume the worst when presented with ideas or information that goes against their current understanding, is a clear sign that they either don't understand what they are talking about, or have ulterior motives to their response. If the situation makes it worth taking the battle, then I'll comment directly o…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 07:13 AM
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As a native Dane, I can tell you that men face the same problems in Scandinavia as in most other western countries. Men are neglected in the education system, the healthcare system (both physical and mental health), men are more likely to be homeless, addicted to drugs, to commit suicide and so on and so on. And it's not acceptable to point these things out in the public discourse, and you'll be met with the usual "but what about women" deflections. Add to that, the Scandinavian countries are ve…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 08:04 AM
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Thanks for this breakdown and for providing so specific sources so I can peruse them myself. It's so much easier to make a watertight argument when you have multiple specific studies to base it on.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 05:19 PM
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This post reeks of misandrist attitudes. It's very uncompassionate, and it espouses many of the usual devaluing attitudes towards men, just with a slight twist. There is no patriarchy, it's a made up concept used to justify vilifying men, blame men for their issues, and making women perpetual victims regardless of how many privileges they may get. Accusing mens rights supporters of wanting to outsource the tackling of the problems, is an accusation you should provide proof for, as I find it a ve…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 08:37 AM
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A thing worth noting is how a study like this has been done, the method can make a big difference on results. I see some potential bias in this study. Firstly it's done via a survey site, which means it's self reporting, which is less credible than an actual interview. The questions that are posed can in itself nudge the participants in answering in a certain way, and self-reporting is very susceptible to that. The women that choose to participate may share some characteristics, for example they…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 06:20 PM
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That's a great and precise explananation of the psychology the matter and power dynamics in general. It's probably also the reason why people often get what they want, when they don't need it.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:18 AM
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Yes, it certainly makes it a very hard to have unambiguous support for "welfare" as it's so intervowen with this kind of "gender struggle" that we see in this thread. I believe a civilized society should have those things too, how much of it and how is up for debate though. I know how your dilemma feels, I used to be very left wing but my conscience, and rational brain, have forced me to move to the right. I know about James Damore and respect him immensly for what he did, but the personal cost …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:29 AM
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Yeah, this is the first time I've seen this sub and the mental gymnastics, whataboutisms and gaslighting is outright impressive. Being "the weaker sex" is being weaponized to an extreme degree, happily supported by media, teachers and state institutions. The outright antisocial types is having a field day with it, but it also seems to me that lot of decent women are being taught to think and act in this manipulative and amoral way. And honestly, to me the ridicule and lies is almost more hurtful…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:47 AM
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Exactly, my ex did exactly this, chasing me around the house even after I told her to stop and that the conversation was over. Now shes going around telling people that I was being mean to her. My muscles was absolutely no help at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:18 AM
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