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Capn_Budder/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:19 AM
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Always ask questions and unpack those questions as much as you can. I also try to keep a fact that theyve said in the back of my mind if there’s a down moment to comment on.
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:15 PM
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When ever you feel like it, if he finds it weird that says more about his view on the relationship then yours.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/21 09:39 AM
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Having a relationship should be having a best friend who’s boobs you get to play with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:43 PM
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As with everything it’s preferences. I’m not going to say that women look better without makeup because that is just wrong. However for me i think a little is what makes a girl look good. Honestly if she doesn’t look good without it what’s the point, you’re going to see her more without then with in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 12:45 AM
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2 months... I haven’t had a good run 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:20 PM
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To a certain extent I can agree with the point you’re making. Personality and looks are still an important part of the discussion. I personally would go for the barista in the argument, because a person being kind trumps everything else in the argument for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:13 AM
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Honestly that’s a large problem I have with a lot of people here, they don’t see relationships as a unit but as a person they can get something from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:59 AM
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I’ll just add that I’m young (23m) but I will not date anyone who doesn’t have a job or is not in training at all. Sex is Important and all but I don’t want the prospect of having to completely support someone while I’m still in training myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:57 AM
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Agree with this. Also I think most of the time the issue with the friend zone most of the time is feelings are one side and people get salty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:46 PM
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To be honest that’s my plan when get a gf. I want a nice gremlin gf to join my gremlin ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:54 PM
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Sometime the dick don’t work and sometimes the pussy ain’t wet and that’s ok. Be an adult, sex isn’t a magical thing that works 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:43 AM
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Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:59 AM
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Disclaimer I probably couldn’t be player even if I wanted too, I’m not attractive or have enough of a outgoing personality to do so. I’m saying that I have no desire to “pump and dump”. I want a connection with a woman and to build something. Putting my dick in a warm hole is part of having a woman but it’s no where near the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:43 AM
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Honestly I don’t see this as a gender thing, this is more that it’s a lifestyle that crushes people in general. Both men and women need a career. Some will like it but most absolutely won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:36 PM
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Being average is fine, you just have to find someone who like your type of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:32 PM
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18 - 30 is the range I have experience with. Beyond that is a little past my knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:04 AM
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I mean I don’t think you’re wrong. The problem is that it’s very difficult caring about anything when you know that you fit the label of mediocre. I think I’m on the same path that you went on to fix your shit. Hopefully it works
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:19 PM
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I just wanted everyone to lay things out on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:27 PM
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God damn it don’t give me hope that someone could like my mediocre ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:27 PM
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I was asking how old everyone was on here, I’m just a dumb 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:09 AM
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Remember having things you want you want in a person is perfectly valid. As long as you’re realistic as to what it’s all fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:15 AM
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fairly reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:55 AM
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I agree %100. I think a lot of the people here don’t grasp that enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:42 AM
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Short term yes, not everything is about sex. I want emotional commitment and all that good stuff. Long term probably not, I want kids and I might be selfish but I don’t want to adopt if I don’t have too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:17 AM
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Do you think of men without their utility to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:04 AM
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Relationships breakdown for so many reasons, it’s important to remember that their will always be two party’s at fault in a relationship breakdown. Anyone who says that is more men’s fault or more women’s fault is biased against another gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:29 AM
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I would like to add that this happens in the other direction as well, the amount comments that I get from female friends of mine for “looking tired” or “Are you feeling well”. I just don’t have the option to put on makeup without get shit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:58 PM
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I’ve meet enough poor unattractive people over the years to show this is the case in some regards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 02:16 PM
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Just be yourself is a common one. Over the years I’ve worked out it’s more about putting the best parts about yourself forward but still acknowledging the parts you don’t like. People can see though someone who is fake and will generally like someone who is wired but real then someone who is a complete fake. Wear your interests on your sleeve and let them filter people. If people don’t like it they can fuck off, there’s another 4.5 billion people of the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 02:13 PM
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Pretty much me to be honest, I’m really shy around people until I get comfortable around people. Funny enough looking at gender stereotypes on of the main reasons I liked my ex was she actually let me talk and listened.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 02:07 PM
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😢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:48 PM
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Honestly decent take
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:14 AM
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The caveat to this you still need a personality to add to it, otherwise there’s just nothing about you that has any intrigue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:01 AM
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Bro just wanna hommie who I can cuddle with and bang occasionally. Is that too much to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:54 AM
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I will add that from the perspective of a male that wants a relationship and isn’t really too interested in the sex bit that OLD has had a been a fairly negative thing. Most of the girls I’ve seen online have only wanted to smash and that even then they only want the finest cream, which is fair enough. I think most people are still going to meet an actual partner in their day to day lives and not online. Plus I’ve heard being a girl in dating apps is wading through a see of shit trying to find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:04 PM
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