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| 1 | Guys 5'4 and below who get laid without a social circle, how do you do it?Yes i did, and I didn’t lie about it (some guys will put like 5’8” but be 5’5”. Or put 6’ because that’s what women look for but be 5’10”). No think it helped that I didn’t go directly to the sexual talk. I’ve seen plenty of screen shots that it’s the first line or within the first 5 messages. I also believe consistency helped. Everyone talks about how many times they were ghosted on dating apps. I don’t do that. I’ll be direct if I don’t think we match well or if I’m available to meet/hang out.… | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Guys 5'4 and below who get laid without a social circle, how do you do it?I leveraged bumble to meet women. I’m average looking and 5’4”. I’m pretty confident and will probably make you laugh. The dating scene is so terrible that just showing them a good time has worked for me. Plan a fun date. Once things are going well it’s a bit easier. Gentle flirting or if they start then return. Ask them to get a drink or food after. Second or third meet invite them to your place after going out if they don’t invite you to theirs. Every woman I went out with off bumble I got to … | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 02:53 AM |
| 27 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?Yeah, I was gonna say zero but this is literally the only one. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 12:11 PM |
| 16 | 10 small yet important lessons an extremely toxic relationship taught me5 is also insane. The number of guys who say their wife’s shut off the bedroom after marriage or after a kid or two. Sex clearly doesn’t matter to a large portion. They would rather be on their phone or presenting the perfect family. I’ve been told by 10 ish women I’m the best they have ever had in bed. It’s one of the things I’m really well versed in. In that respect it’s a giant puzzle to figure out what turns on each different one. I’ve made women collapse to the floor in ecstasy. One says af… | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 03:01 AM |
| 12 | How much the game changes for short guys, when they gain muscles?When you have an elementary schooler you get it. | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Are there any advantages of playing "Nice guy"I’ve never had a problem being the nice guy. Yea do girls gravitate towards assholes? Sure. But I’m 4-4 in the post divorce world. I had one who just wanted a hookup. Said she was sore the next day from three rounds. Another I was hanging out with. Offered her my place to crash on nights she was working far from home to cut her commute when she had to return to the same local. One night she said she was horny, and I commented she wouldn’t have said anything unless she wanted to do something abou… | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 04:43 AM |
| 9 | Men who get one-night stands, how do you do it?Yea just go out a meet people. I used bumble to match and at least get out of the house. I had been in a 20 year relationship and my game even though rusty seemed pretty strong in the current market. I would offer to meet for food, mini golf, bowling, escape room, whatever. Offer to get food and drink after (if we did an activity), often times they would be open to second meet up movie or come back to my place. I was 4-4 in hookups after divorce. One was a 2 and done. One was 12 and done. One wa… | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Sex with older manThere’s an entire category of men who only go for 21-24/25. Once they hit the top age they move to the next one. The most prolific is Leo. | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 06:13 PM |
| 59 | Why do women like older guys so muchThis right here. Women have their peak beauty age in their early 20’s. Men have their peak earnings age in their late 40’s or 50’s. Older men don’t play games. We lived our 20’s already. Most older guys have have already gone through the suck of a failed LTR or marriage. And know what does and doesn’t work. And want they would want in a new partner. At this point some gen x and most millennials don’t have a problem seeing a therapist to sort their shit out. It comes down to stability as mentione… | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?I can reasonably get 10 in 20 minutes. I don’t know about 20 in 20 minutes. I think she would ask for a break. I have definitely done 20+ in a single session. Sessions usually last 30-60 minutes when we have time. Minimum is probably 20-25 minutes. When she’s really horny I can get multiple per minute for several minutes. I also had a previous hookup where she could orgasm super quick. She would have 2-4 in a couple minutes. And I don’t care what you or anyone else believes. I’m not over here wr… | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a girl that seems to play this game.Honestly OP its playing with fire. I was with a girl who was like 9/10. 5”8’ 118lbs blond hair, blue eye. Had every single guys attention where ever she went. Literally you know that every guy is trying to get with her. She has every guy doing whatever she wants. It’s hard to trust. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 11:32 PM |
| 7 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?Yea I also had a former partner who could compete over and over about every minute. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 12:23 AM |
| 4 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?Depends on how fast your partner can come. I can snap off 10 in maybe 20 minutes. It’s not a quickie thing. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 12:13 AM |
| 5 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?I regularly get 10-20 out of my FWB. I don’t what what else to tell you OP. You said you used the come hither motion. Have you tried making her squirt? Also often times the best orgasms are from the back. So there’s that. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 11:57 PM |
| 8 | Are athletes 6ft+ usually packing???Yea, statistics says no as well. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one that’s worried about becoming old and ugly?Yea mid 40’s here and far more action than 20’s | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you limit how many girls you are talking to? If so how many and why?When you work from home and rarely leave meeting people in person is almost nil. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Do you limit how many girls you are talking to? If so how many and why?No. Because online dating is hard to get people to meet as it is. It does get super confusing when you have 5-6 conversations going to keep it all straight. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Does bodybuilding really increase my chances twentyfold?Yeah, I agree with this. You don’t need to be a bodybuilder, but if you’re actively going to the gym three or four days a week and lifting. You will see the definition. You’ll shed the fat. You do also need to look at your diet. You will look good. You will feel good. You’ll have confidence. And muscles do attract women. Edit: don’t forget to stretch. I’m not ripped, but I can still in touch my hands behind my back in the up from the hip down from the shoulder reach. I know a few people that hav… | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | CunnilingusI mean, he was telling guys that they should only have sex to procreate. You shouldn’t be having sex for fun or because it feels good. It’s hilarious coming from 38-year-old dude with no kids. Who lives with his brother. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Why Most Men Marry the Wrong PersonYea the analysis is mostly correct. And marriage is the biggest most important decision in one’s life. I’m one of the many that fell into I married the wrong one. When she was in love with me it was good. But I made a lot of excuses for her poor behavior. And she was mean and vindictive if you were on her bad side. She said she would never divorce me so I never imagined being on her bad side. Then it happened and it’s miserable. I regret ever having anything to do with her. It’s a hard pill to s… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How is the dating world after 30?Bumble might give you free swipes still. No idea. My tinder ran out then I started getting matches. Then you can’t see them and they want you to pay. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 12:24 AM |
| 3 | How is the dating world after 30?Dating apps are terrible. I honestly say save yourself the trouble and just find places to go out and maybe meet people. Breweries, decent bars, hobbies that you’re interested in. Anything has to be better than a dumpster fire that is a dating app. Plus Bumble and tinder have become so ridiculously expensive in the last two years. At one point tinder wanted $400 for three months. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?It’s about working on your game. When I became single it took me about 2 weeks of trying to score my first hookup. She literally just want to smash and go. After that and some confidence back I had three on rotation for about 3 months. It was honestly exhausting. I was staying over at one hitting at night and getting home to shower in the morning before one showed up before she went to work. It was not every day but it was a lot. Two of them knew it was FWB and I don’t know about the third. I th… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:51 PM |
| 17 | Who else here loves casual sex?Casual sex is fun, rewarding, good for the body and mind. After a terrible divorce with a DB I don’t think I can ever go back to 100% monogamy. I also won’t ever get married again so it’s mostly long term outlook with a partner who wants similar things. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 03:04 AM |
| 10 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?You have to make contact (is she ok with your physical touch) and then proceed to the next level. You also have to be able to read the room. Is she interested in you? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 08:36 PM |
| 2 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?Yes you need to excel in bed. I had three FWB’s at one point and was getting 2-6 booty calls a week. I’m larger than average in length and girth and I’m excellent with hands and mouth. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Attractive older girl is coming over to hangout for the first time, I don’t know her at all (tinder) how do I relax both her and myself and have a good timeAsk questions that will cause further discussion. I like to ask about their favorite trip. You’re guaranteed a response unless they have literally never gone anywhere. It can lead into you telling your favorite trip if they reverse the question. | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 01:15 PM |
| 38 | Why do women think it’s weird to sleep with their friends?Right, because there are friends with benefits which is usually casual sex. This is usually I’m not ready wanting commitment in either direction. I want my freedom. I’m sleeping with multiple people at the moment. If it’s just friends she’s not into you. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 03:52 PM |
| 24 | Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculineIf you’re out at clubs and bars yes you will find the drunk, loud, tattooed, party girls. And yes they will be brash and rude because that’s what social media has done for them. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 06:33 PM |
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