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How hot was the Ecuadorian woman? She about an 8? Also don't let other people being around deter you. If you act like what you're doing is wrong you and her might think the same way. Plus chicks dig a guy who shows balls like that.
/r/seduction17/06/26 01:42 AM
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Possibly just slut deflection. They maybe don't want to seem to eager or easy and don't want to come off looking like a slut.
/r/seduction06/06/26 06:02 AM
6

If she's holding eye contact she's staring too. The point is if you look away first she'll probably see you as weak. But whatever, keep being like every other guy and play it safe. We wouldn't want to offend anyone with our eyes.
/r/seduction26/05/26 02:32 AM
18

If you do make eye contact with a woman, apparently you should never be the one to look away first
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:43 AM
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If "anyone" could emulate it you wouldn't have so many people having trouble getting women. You can't fake confidence, well at least most people can't.
/r/seduction23/05/26 03:16 AM
4

That's a pretty narrow point of view. Sometimes a women isn't interested for a multitude of reasons that will have nothing to do with your approach.
/r/seduction25/04/26 11:42 AM
39

Her having a feeling of safety is a really big one too.
/r/seduction16/02/26 09:06 AM
8

They might to you. Mr good looking
/r/seduction07/01/26 05:12 AM
2

Once or twice every few years isn't what I would call, quite often. Even for a man getting approached.
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:54 AM
0

So has telling a woman everything about you before a date worked out well for you ?
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:02 AM
4

You're getting rejected by guys?
/r/seduction13/12/25 10:50 AM
18

She's 23, why shouldn't she? The bigger question is:. What are you hooking up with while she's away? Instead of worrying about her you need to be doing your own thing.
/r/seduction13/12/25 10:03 AM
2

Doesn't matter how long it is. As the man you shouldn't look away first. At least that's what one dating coach I know preaches.
/r/seduction07/12/25 07:28 AM
5

I had two women literally laugh in my face. I was in Japan and don't know if they spoke English or totally understood what was going on so there's a possibility it's not as bad as it felt but it still was soul crushing at the time.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:07 AM
6

And don't forget board games.
/r/seduction31/10/25 09:52 AM
2

Sooner or later you'll hear compliments from enough people. Generally it won't be from single women that could lead to any opportunities, it's usually going to come from people you meet and are introduced to, the occasional stranger or customer service people. You'll also often hear it enough from the same sex as you be they straight or gay. One thing about it is, it never gets old, except maybe for women lol.
/r/seduction09/10/25 09:39 AM
1

You really need to figure out what that book was.
/r/seduction26/09/25 09:13 AM
3

They make women feel something. If you can affect a woman's emotions the right way, it doesn't matter how ugly, broke, or dirty you are, she will get with you.
/r/seduction26/09/25 07:47 AM
1

Well I imagine you have to at least be mildly attractive to normal looking also. It could also be that you felt confident but your body language wasn't projecting it. At any rate your experience is what's known as an outlier. Confidence is one of the absolute requirements to successfully and consistently attract women as stated by women and every dating guru or pickup artist all over the world. And no offense meant on the normal looking comment, I was a freak show myself in middle school.
/r/seduction26/09/25 05:04 AM
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I got no issue with you not wanting someone vaccinated. I get it that you see the child could be tainted from it. I do disagree with you saying people who took the vaccine are all sheep. A lot of people did so against their will because their jobs were on the line or they wanted/needed to travel. Yes a lot of people took the government's stance and even criticized their own family and friends like true sheep but not everyone who took the jab did so without trepidation. I also have an issue with …
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:47 AM
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From my experience it's just the opposite. Confidence is super important. And when has anyone ever said women aren't attracted to confident men? At the same time I do think a guy's energy and vibe play a big role as well, neither of which will be in sync without confidence.
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:11 AM
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I had a similar experience in the Philippines. I mean it wasn't close to no 300 likes but it was definitely a stark difference from what I've ever experienced on a dating site. Put it this way, I actually had to shut down my account because of over abundance and not enough time to execute with all of the options.
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:52 AM
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Can you blame them though. Half the guys saying hello are only doing it to see if she reciprocates so they can then try to pick her up. Better to come off rude than have to try and deal with something guys can probably only relate to when Jehova Witness starts knocking on your door.
/r/seduction06/09/25 05:14 AM
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Guys often give the advice of "just be confident". As accurate as that advice is it's actually not that easy at all, especially for guys who aren't used to talking to people or in this case talking to attractive women. Women are also experts at picking up on guys faking confidence or any slight insecurities they're trying to hide. In order to actually gain that level of confidence guys have to go out and put in the work. That's why so many dating coaches number one step is having their guys do h…
/r/seduction06/09/25 05:08 AM
2

Don't know that one either.
/r/seduction06/09/25 04:46 AM
2

Maybe not being at work meant you had more time to be around women and thus, meet some.
/r/seduction19/08/25 02:17 AM
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I agree that at some point she'll probably ghost. Your best bet though is not to look thirsty so definitely don't text her first while you're still out of the country. Also if she does text you keep it simple and mysterious. If you try to get to know her through texting you'll friend zone yourself and blow the opportunity. I'd probably just say something like I'll hit you up when I get back and maybe we'll do something then. Don't make it sound like she's definitely in there.
/r/seduction10/08/25 11:05 AM
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A woman is a woman. What difference does it make of how old she is? If you know how to please young women you should know how to please older ones. In fact that's what you should tell her. That it doesn't matter how old she is, you have experience pleasing women and you're going to make her feel like a young lady again after you wear her ass out.
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:51 AM
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Then answer sarcastically. Tell her you're super inexperienced but make it like a joke where she hopefully won't take it seriously. Then make a joke about her maybe teaching you some stuff.
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:31 AM
4

I definitely wouldn't advertise it if she doesn't ask. You'll look like a leper if she finds out you're inexperienced and you'll probably lose your opportunity.
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:15 AM
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If you're not getting tangible results or improvement from it, I'd say the program sucks. My advice would be to do some research and find one that has a better reputation or results. You're lucky, when I was going through this issue there was no Reddit, pick up communities or dating coaches. So it took me many wasted years to figure out what I was doing wrong. You've still got your youth so I'd say do all you can to achieve this goal for yourself and don't give up, go harder.
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:20 AM
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What's the point of you debating right here then? If you have counter points I'd love to hear them, otherwise I assume you're just being emotional about the whole thing. What I don't get is you are self proclaimed so hot that girls try to pick you up all the time, yet you come off so upset about a simple difference of opinion here.
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:11 AM
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Are men not monolithic when it comes to attraction? We're attracted to physical appearance first and foremost and women are the same way in what they find attractive. The thing with women however is there are so many nuances to their attraction that they won't always see eye to eye but there are definitely certain traits their attraction is monolithic about. Confidence, preselection, mental toughness etc.
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:04 AM
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You're absolutely off base here. Women initially might notice if you're hot but if you display a lack of confidence, know how, game or abundance they'll instantly be turned off. Before I got stuff figured out, I can't tell you how many females who were initially attracted to me but immediately lost interest when I approached them with bad energy, no game and low confidence. I've had females who definitely thought I was hot but wouldn't give me the time of day because I had no game and some would…
/r/seduction10/08/25 08:58 AM
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I doubt getting a girls attention means he's banging them. These insta chicks are getting bombarded with so many dms the minute they find a guy they're interested in he's getting ghosted a day later for somebody she likes more. For him to say his friend is average looking makes it seem even more improbable.
/r/seduction10/08/25 07:01 AM
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Wait a minute. How good looking are you? Because the chicks on Insta get tons of hook up offers and if you're constantly bagging Instagramers you must be way above average looking, or have some stellar texting game.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:56 AM
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I disagree that all guys brag. Some guys keep their info to themselves. And it was already mentioned in his original post how attractive his friend was.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:52 AM
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No, no need to lie about it. Those in the know will know what soft and sweet mean, those who don't know will wonder: well why isn't she texting/calling me back?
/r/seduction14/07/25 02:44 AM
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I don't think it's coming from his own mind when those same women break contact and ghost him right after giving him that amazing compliment. Would you rather a woman call you nice and never contact you again? Or call you an asshole but keep coming back for more? There's an old saying, don't listen to what a woman says, watch what she does.
/r/seduction14/07/25 02:41 AM
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Are you a woman? It's basically being called a nice guy. Only thing I find weird here is he's supposedly sleeping with these women before being rejected which I find hard to believe.
/r/seduction14/07/25 01:27 AM
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Lol at her saying a woman calling us soft and sweet is a good thing. Yeah, if we enjoy being in the friend zone.
/r/seduction14/07/25 01:22 AM
1

Flowers? Sounds like some nice guy "I saw it in a movie" type ish. Do you know if she even likes flowers or are you operating under the women are a monolith line of thinking?
/r/seduction17/05/25 12:16 PM
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But it should be for coffee. You know, because she sells tequila.
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:34 PM
1

Only if you have nice calves/legs.
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:25 PM
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I just started wearing sweatpants. Chicks dig sweatpants. Only if you're a show-her.
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:15 PM
1

I definitely never changed much. Took in a lot of info over the years that helped me correct and understand a lot of what I had been doing wrong but as far as becoming the kind of guy who would approach on a whim... never became that guy.
/r/seduction16/05/25 11:25 AM
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Women are tied to their emotions. That's why being rational with them doesn't work. Even they don't realize what turns them on half the time which is why there's a stark difference in what they say they like and who they'll actually sleep with. It's all about their emotions and a guy's ability to affect them.
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:35 PM
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Fake account warning
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:34 AM
2

If you're keeping her for life you may as well go with the prettier one. They'd both stop putting out eventually so you may as well have the trophy wife.
/r/seduction25/04/25 09:30 AM
2

I've had this happen a few times too. In particular a chick I used to work with was mean to me for some reason. I realized later it was her frustration because I wasn't making a move or giving her any attention. It happened with another female at a business establishment I would visit. I would actually see her face go from normal to angry when she saw me but she was never rude or mean. I could just tell she wanted me to talk to her or make a move but she just wasn't my type at all so I never did…
/r/seduction23/04/25 09:30 AM
3

Well at least you got a laugh out of it right? I'd tell you to have a nice day and move on.
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:56 AM
2

Lol.
/r/seduction21/04/25 03:08 PM
23

„And I hope to never see you again“ or something similar would be my reaction "Well I can definitely help you with that" would be my final reply as I turn and walk away.
/r/seduction21/04/25 02:16 PM
280

A better reply for hey I wasn't even looking at you is: well you're looking at me now...
/r/seduction21/04/25 08:00 AM
1

Another fake account
/r/seduction21/04/25 07:56 AM
3

You seriously need to follow some pick up artists and dating coaches because if you still think giving random gifts is going to work you have a lot to learn, and unlearn. I suggest girlschase.com and the unapologetic man podcast/YouTube.
/r/seduction21/04/25 12:38 AM
15

Hey. It was a scientific study ok? With drinks.
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:03 PM
18

"He knows how to treat a woman, by taking her to the toilet to make out."
/r/seduction31/03/25 12:15 PM
37

You sure you don't or didn't have bad breath? Could explain the kiss dodging. Either way that sucks. Someone doing that to you with no explanation is a real ego killer. You should text her again and ask for an honest reason for the change of heart. Let her know if the situation was reversed she would feel just as shitty and would likewise want to know what the issue was.
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:27 PM
1

I live in Japan and Americans are much easier because they tend to speak English and making a point to not make eye contact or show attraction isn't a part of American culture like it is in Japan.
/r/seduction18/03/25 02:29 PM
1

You should look into getting a dating coach if you can afford it.
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:51 PM
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Fake profile
/r/seduction05/03/25 02:33 PM
1

I'm confused by this. You say don't be yourself. So what do you do personality wise if you're not being yourself? What is your technique there? You also say it's your face, but my good looks have done very little in helping me get laid. I mean the ones I did get had a lot to do with my looks but I also missed out on a lot more because my looks weren't enough.
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:46 AM
4

All's fair in love and war; eh?
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:40 AM
1

There's more to it than just going out. You could go out hundreds of times but some people go out and don't socialize the whole time. You actually have to put in some work by talking to women and putting yourself out there because just going out doesn't mean it's going to just drop in your lap.
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:39 AM
2

I believe a player isn't only the negative version you described but also that positive version that you represent as well. IMO there are good players and bad players.
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:33 AM
3

It's kind of a cycle. Obviously when you don't get laid, you're going to be a bit desperate. The key is the ability to not let it show which is twice as hard because after centuries of evolution, women have nearly perfected a sixth sense for smelling that desperation on men.
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:27 AM
1

Did you actually bag most of the women that approached you? I would imagine a lot of them didn't work out if you lack confidence. In fact I find it surprising women would even approach a guy who lacks confidence as they can usually see those traits in his mannerisms and how he carries himself.
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:21 AM
9

It's both if you want to be with good looking women. Many good looking dudes are very dry and they still spin plates and then there are dudes who rely on charm to get some here some there. No that''s actually not true. It's all about charisma, confidence and the ability to communicate effectively with women. I'm fairly attractive and I can honestly say I didn't come close to landing even a quarter of the women I attracted due to lacking most of those other qualities.
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:15 AM
3

Seriously? That scenario seems far-fetched? I suck at picking up chicks have zero game and even I managed to pull it off occasionally. On the other hand I am on the good looking side so where I fail in the confidence and game area I managed to either fake it well enough, catch women who put looks over other things and...no, now that I think about it, it was pretty much always a woman who was attracted to me. For the record this was always done at night clubs. I never frequented bars or pubs.
/r/seduction21/02/25 04:55 AM
0

Uh this doesn't work. While you're sitting there ignoring here pretending to have other options she doesn't care and moves on because she actually has way too many options.
/r/seduction15/02/25 05:55 PM
1

"I don't know man, that sounds like a lot of work."
/r/seduction15/02/25 02:56 PM
3

I'm 6 ft. and can't think of one girl ever giving me a green light based on my height. One perceived negative quality will no more disqualify you than a perceived positive one will get you an in. Have confidence and belief in yourself, there are lots of women who don't care about height and lots of others who only think they do but can be convinced otherwise. If you go around projecting that being 5'4 is somehow a negative quality you have, I'm sure there are lots of women you would convince to …
/r/seduction03/01/25 02:03 PM
3

When I was in military tech school there was this guy from New York who became impossibly popular in just a matter of weeks. It wasn't like you were free to go and do whatever you wanted on this base and yet everyone knew and loved this guy. I never saw him particularly making moves on any women as it couldn't necessarily be done out in the open then and I also didn't spend much time around the guy. All I do know is to me it seemed impossible to be that popular and well known in that kind of env…
/r/seduction24/12/24 11:41 AM
2

On your way to where you're going do some warm ups. Just speak to random people (guys and girls) on the way even if it's just a hello. Make the interactions longer the more interesting or natural they go and by the time you get to the club or wherever you're going you should be more comfortable with doing approaches, or at least that's what I've heard. I've never actually tried this myself but the theory sounds sound.
/r/seduction25/11/24 09:16 AM
1

Basically there is no way. You're either born with the attractiveness that makes women stare at you or you just have to catch those few random women who will occasionally open up to you for whatever reason. Be they attracted to you, your personality or whatever.
/r/seduction12/11/24 05:43 PM
0

When they're that direct you need to be equally direct but fun and flirty with it. Do not try to build rapport and get to know her, or she WILL ghost you.
/r/seduction29/10/24 02:44 PM
1

Why not?
/r/seduction29/10/24 02:40 PM
3

I agree with this. A couple people mentioned you need to slow down whereas I think you need to speed it up. Find the chick who came there alone and after breaking the ice get right to the point about going back to your place for some cheaper drinks. I was at the club with my cousin once and saw him walk up to some random chick, whisper something in her ear and watched in amazement as they walked out of there together. I always wanted to know what he said but never did ask him.
/r/seduction19/10/24 10:26 AM
2

Aww man you didn't know that profiles with facial pictures only means they're fat?
/r/seduction18/10/24 03:11 PM
1

Am so.
/r/seduction28/09/24 04:38 PM
2

Of course because you know everything about everything right?
/r/seduction28/09/24 04:23 PM
11

Yeah I'm attractive too. And you're right.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:08 PM
43

I once had two chicks laugh right in my face. Talk about demoralizing.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:02 PM
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