CaptainFlippy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	It's All in Your Head - A Letter to Other Beginners (and a request for some advice)		CaptainFlippy	/r/seduction	28/09/19 08:54 PM
5	What is the antidote to "nice guy syndrome"?		CaptainFlippy	/r/seduction	12/10/19 06:18 PM
5	What do you think of the intensely negative attitude towards "PUAs", cold approach, and seduction?	Lifestyle	CaptainFlippy	/r/seduction	17/02/20 11:49 PM
5	Why do so many women have such an inflated notion of self-importance?		CaptainFlippy	/r/seduction	27/11/19 02:40 AM
3	How do I develop a stronger/less fragile mindset?		CaptainFlippy	/r/seduction	17/11/19 11:25 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	First ever cold approach If you're going to approach during the day, I think direct is better. If you just have an aimless conversation it can come off as weird and she is left wondering what your intentions are. At least if you open directly ("Excuse me, this is really random but I thought you looked cute and I wanted to say hi") she knows immediately why you are there. Your first impression is that you are straight to the point, confident, and 100% authentic. That's never a bad image to put up.	/r/seduction	28/02/20 01:16 AM
1	How do you get past the issue with 'bothering' girls by approaching? I had the exact same mental blocker. The easiest way to get past it is through positive reference experiences. I went out clubbing, and my goal was to just approach - I was expecting a lot more rejections, but I got basically none. I ended up experimenting with a lot of opens which I thought for SURE would not work, but they worked anyway. Even silent openers (beckoning a girl to YOU) can actually work. Women WANT to meet fun, cool guys. You just need to be secure with who you are - if you are q…	/r/seduction	24/02/20 05:22 AM
–	What do you think of the intensely negative attitude towards "PUAs", cold approach, and seduction? No. The key words were "manipulate" and "coerce". Sex is great, and women REALLY love it. However I have never needed to, nor will I ever need to "take advantage of blindspots" in order to get laid.	/r/seduction	18/02/20 01:29 AM
–	What do you think of the intensely negative attitude towards "PUAs", cold approach, and seduction? This is the kind of shit I don't want to associate with. This comes across as so manipulative and egotistical. I am here to learn how to form genuine and mutually beneficial connections with human beings, not manipulate and coerce girls into sex.	/r/seduction	17/02/20 11:58 PM
–	Scared of rejection I'm not over my fear of rejection, but it is a fear. Like any other fear (public speaking, heights, etc) the way past it is through voluntary exposure. Go out and get rejected so often that it doesn't bother you anymore. Don't worry about your pseudo "perfect record". A man who has never failed is a man who has never tried anything new.	/r/seduction	03/01/20 02:04 AM
0	Why do so many women have such an inflated notion of self-importance? I appreciate your unique insights and articulate writing style, thanks	/r/seduction	27/11/19 03:07 AM
–	Why do so many women have such an inflated notion of self-importance? Easy to say that online big boy, but if a dude is seen choking a girl in public he is taken to jail, no matter who started the fight	/r/seduction	27/11/19 03:00 AM
2	Daygame is the best way to meet women 4ish. your game quality may never improve, this is because the average club gamer relies heavily on alcohol to get in the mood. This is why I go out sober. There are lots of benefits to this - cheaper, healthier, you're more aware, easier to remember everything, and you're not relying on alcohol so the skills are more transferable to natural situations. Plus you can go to the bar and just ask for a coke and often you'll get it for free. Free soft drink is great. I find the environment puts me in…	/r/seduction	18/11/19 12:16 AM
7	Really struggling with turning conversation flirty I'm not an expert at all, but I had a really interesting experience with a girl who was into me the other day. On the surface, things were platonic. If you just listened to what we were talking about, you'd think it was just "interview" questions - talking about her major, my major, her work, where she lives, etc. etc. But you should always remember that 95% of communication is non-verbal. There were so many flirty looks and touches that anyone watching would have seen what was happening. Honest…	/r/seduction	14/10/19 09:07 PM
1	What is the antidote to "nice guy syndrome"? I stand up for myself when I need to. Don't get me wrong- I'm not always nice. If someone messes with me or the people I love, I will not tolerate it. But that's exactly the issue - I never have to show that side of me to someone I just met, right? In a similar fashion, I am very dominant and sexual ONCE I KNOW SHE IS INTO ME. But in order to get women interested, it is sometimes necessary to be dominant and sexual. In a sense it feels very circular.	/r/seduction	12/10/19 06:35 PM