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36

Money and status just get you to the front of the line. It doesn’t guarantee you any attraction from anyone. There are those that are fine with transactional relationships however, it depends what each person is looking for. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:38 PM
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But women are exciting and magical, that’s why men keep chasing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:21 AM
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What were they about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:22 AM
11

Right? Negative criticism would go along way to “improve” ourselves if is constructive and honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:30 PM
18

I would never cheat even if I had the options. I’d forgo any relationship if I wanted to “cheat” in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:01 AM
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Fitphobic, that’s a new one. I kind of like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:06 PM
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You get this across the board. If someone expresses a disinterest in something, they’re told it’s phobic. Fat phobic, trans phobic, homo phobic, etc. the best we can do is to try not to lump legit hate in with preference. It’s our choice whether or not we listen to the nonsense phobic claims on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:42 PM
1

If a shack-up produces a shacklett, it’s only fitting that I would step up and take care of them. It’s probably the only way I’d ever have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:51 PM
2

Skip straight to the waffles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:52 PM
2

Not wanting to lower one’s standards is fine, but expecting more from your partner due to bitterness and resentment is where problems start. That is if you do indeed ‘lower standards.’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:50 PM
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Might just end up seeing more violence from frustration and desperation too. Who knows. Like any other cornered beast, men becoming obsolete won’t go down without a fight. We’ll get through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:11 AM
3

I’m 36 now, but came to this conclusion around 32/33.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:16 AM
12

Some of us are subpar and don’t have the best track record while talking with women. Creepy, weird, whatever you want to call it. For me personally I got to an age where nobody seemed interested in dating with any real purpose. Everything has a low ceiling with no room to grow a real relationship out of admiration, love and respect, just convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:50 PM
1

Even though that’s my only hope, I still say it’s a terrible idea. You’d have to be extremely tolerant and accepting of everything. Odds are your partner would have more irks than quirks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:46 PM
3

I love this breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:53 PM
2

Would she prefer a dead bedroom? Arrangements can be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:21 PM
21

Duty sex… that term kills the libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:12 PM
8

I hope I lose my virginity just so I can laugh at the terrible experience and the reaction of the seasoned companion I’m with whom can’t figure out why I’m so bad at it. Virginity is something to be amused by at the very least, but yeah, it’s not something any of us poor saps advertise to the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:44 PM
5

Sometimes I wonder if these types of people are in love with the idea of a ‘relationship’ instead of the actual person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:10 PM
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It sounds like a major facepalm to me if a guy is comparing their ex to a current partner. Why do they think this is okay, it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:53 PM
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If I got attention from someone pretty, I’d at the very least be skeptical. The attention would become unwanted as soon as I found the intentions all just to poke fun of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:24 AM
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Yes. It wouldn’t be ideal, but at least then we could focus on an actual relationship omitting a sex life neither of us would enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:46 PM
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This is outrageously crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:48 PM
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30s are difficult because nobody wants to date. They’re busy raising kids and just want “friends.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:27 PM
5

Anything more that 1$ is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:54 PM
3

Sex in the air mattress? That thing would overload and pop! If nothing else it would be good for a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:50 PM
2

I have no idea, that’s why it’s a good question. I’d like answers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:51 PM
0

This is a very good question actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:48 PM
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People tend to say one thing and do another, it’s nothing new. Maybe they think a man in connection with his emotional side is attractive at first, but after they see it, they develop that dreaded “ick” thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:39 PM
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Good sentiment, but he’s probably terrible at sex and most likely flirting too if he’s a virgin. The poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:49 PM
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That’s right. I think a little bit of chase is beneficial. Nothing should be too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:10 AM
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Not always. I guess it depends on how far you’re “chasing”. I’m sort of envisioning the chase but never catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:28 AM
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True. But then he can be the simp. Eventually that guy will figure things out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:18 AM
39

If someone has to chase, it means she doesn’t really want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:07 AM
9

I’d like to thank you for the phrase: “I’d rather mop the ocean than…” of which I will be using now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:51 PM
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Correct, there’s no reason to “fix” the apps because they’re not broken. They draw money with ease. The fact that people insist on using them versus meeting organically in person is the problem. But let’s face it, society is broken, and I’m quite sure nobody will attempt to fix that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:48 AM
4

That’s just sad, but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:59 PM
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For some of them, it is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:44 AM
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This hits the nail on the head. I’m at a point where dating feels next to impossible. With no experiences, everyone just assumes you’re weird or creepy and there must be something wrong with you. Truth be told, I can understand the perspective. Who wants to dedicate their time and energy to someone who doesn’t know have the knowledge of a relationship. Teaching a 30+ year old how to date, have sex and other activities doesn’t strike me as fun. It does get old when the only responses to said prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:32 AM
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Well put. This response should probably be posted in most of this subs debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:07 PM
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The safe option is more like the backup plan to the backup plan to yet another backup plan. Who knows how far down the order it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:47 AM
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Normally I hate being arbitrarily politically correct, but “unfortunate looking” definitely makes light of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:09 PM
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I don’t think anyone realistically expects men to just flip a switch and be gay. It’s more or less that they just don’t care that many guys struggle since they don’t have the problem themselves. They’re content to have more options for themselves and don’t really know what else to tell you. It’s just another arbitrary response they give, while casting the blame on said struggling guy, all while they go out and practice faux serial monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:58 PM
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We establish our own standards just to justify the work of a relationship being worth it. I’d like to think my standards are fairly acceptable, but given my success, I guess not. Someone who has a handful of similar interests as myself and a few more that they can do for themselves that don’t include me. Someone who’s not huge and has no kids. Someone who doesn’t judge or hate base on political preferences. Someone who is more simple and doesn’t require a lot of money to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:14 PM
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Good ol competition. You’re absolutely right, everything is a competition as it should be. It just sucks being the team that finishes last in the league all the time. Showing up for participation points doesn’t get one very far.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:27 PM
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The only options I ever got were drunk women showing up flirting, showing interest, then their angry boyfriends would show up wanting to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:31 PM
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That proverbial “it” quality. Besides acceptable looks, and height, there’s more to it that, but nobody ever explains it legitimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:13 PM
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A lot of us just don’t have the qualifications for that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:05 PM
2

It was hypothetical. Many women don’t want to deal with men in this age. Their social life is satisfied with friends at work and after work and then with a pet when they live at home, alone. That doesn’t shirk their interest in sex all together. When the feeling hits, they simply hop on Tinder, figure out which product they want, order it to go, and that’s it. I was being pessimistic with that low conservative estimate of 2-3 times, but the same criticism applies. It’s similar to those stuck in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:43 PM
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It could be. Hypothetically speaking, if her libido only spikes 2-3 times per year and she’s not in a committed relationship, then it’s about being in the right place at the right time. It helps if you’re Chad because she’s not just going to give it away to a meh individual. If she’s only making a potential partner wait until date 3, that still sounds kind of quick. So we shouldn’t complain, there’s still hope!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:44 PM
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That’s true, but how many people don’t care about looks? I know they exist, they’re just marginally rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:17 AM
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Attractive people utilize their looks for leverage in most aspects. It seems average or sub par looking people preach the idea of prioritizing personalities. Let’s be serious though, both are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:48 AM
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Senility and delirium set in early on some folks I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:27 AM
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Because women are apparently empowered and men are chauvinistic. Men do everything wrong and we should probably be gotten rid of.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 01:03 AM
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I’ve always hated the generic “just put yourself out there” gag. It’s just a zugzwang scenario and a way of people telling you that you’re less that optimal.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 12:26 AM
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Whoever came up with NoFap could probably be smacked upside the head once or twice. The reality is that nobody is going to have any form of relations with most guys up on here, myself included. And if nobody does things with me, I’ve got to do it myself. So all hands on deck people, get back to work.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 04:48 PM
3

That sums it all up for the most part.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 02:50 AM
2

This is the first I’ve heard it rebranded as OnlySimps. It sounds most accurate
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 10:49 PM
10

You can try, try and try again, until you can’t try any longer. And if that doesn’t work, you’ve just wasted all that time trying to do something you just couldn’t do. People will reserve the right to complain if they always draw the short straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:14 PM
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There is merit to the ideology that you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. But unfortunately, most people (men in this case) only have so much energy to put forth “effort” and have it all be in vain. From a guys perspective, if you have to try that hard, it usually means the lady isn’t too interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:28 PM
2

That’s just weird.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 05:03 PM
2

Who cares if he’s offended, you gotta do you. If he shoots you down and is offended, that’s a him problem. Go for it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:58 PM
10

Meanwhile, most are just “any pussy declined.”
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 10:47 AM
2

I imagine the cleaning process would be a hassle.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 03:02 AM
15

Welcome to the club. But if the girls your age have seriously been the bicycle for that many riders, you don’t want them.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 09:48 PM
2

Does said dude want land whales? Seems he could set his sights on more options. Leave the land whales to the sub 6’ tiny guys.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 05:44 PM
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Because there are a lot of people in this world, and a scapegoat is needed. Lonely virgin males drew the short straw and get the hate. They blend into the incel community well.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 10:44 PM
0

If your friend is ridiculous enough to put up with that nonsense from her, then he’s got no reason to be with her. It’s therefore his own fault for being in this situation. The biggest point of interest here is, what exactly does he do to make $400k? I’d rather make that kind of cash and leave women in the rear view, no looking back.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 02:32 AM
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Weight loss pills
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 03:15 PM
2

It’s nice if they’re upfront and honest about it instead of lying or ghosting. That opens up the idea of self assessment and improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:47 PM
2

I’d be curious to know why she would want more than one husband. Does she get/give the same treatment with all of them? Or is it like a worship type of relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 09:28 PM
7

The spark can fade. Infatuation often turns to disillusionment. Looks certainly change, so that can affect the libido for either party too. Dead bedrooms are a terrible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:59 PM
12

Low libido and changing interests
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:45 PM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:18 AM
2

Only once a week? That’s very controlled and conservative of you.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 09:57 PM
-1

If it furthers your black pill views, you might consider distancing yourself from porn. I never liked it, I always found it depressing. It was a painful reminder of something I wanted, but couldn’t have.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 08:36 PM
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I’m not sure, but they’re kind of awesome. In a gaudy sorta way.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 10:30 PM
1

Well there’s me, I don’t really know why I’m not good enough for women. But my best friend, he’s a different story. He’s a straight up simp. He spent so much time fawning over this girl, whom was pursuing a different guy all together. I’m not sure how many kids she has now, but he’s gotten himself a court mandate to pay child support for 4 of them, and none of the kids are his. The two never even dated, but he spent too much time wrapped around her finger. The current legal battles with support …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:29 PM
20

Remember, Rule 30 states: “Girls do not exist on the internet.”
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:22 AM
1

A lot of the people choosing to do elective surgeries like these go from average looking all the way up to… average looking (still). I’m more interested in where they get the $10-$50,000 just laying around to pay for them out of pocket.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 04:32 PM
3

OF isn’t evil, it’s just Capitalism 101 - take stupid peoples money. If a young woman can make money essentially doing nothing but teasing guys, jump! I can’t say it’s evil, in fact I’m envious. I wish I had those opportunities myself.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 02:41 AM
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It’s a trap, run
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:45 PM
1

They’re all out of my league. But both body types certainly exceed my bar for physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:29 AM
6

This pretty much explains it all perfectly.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 06:20 PM
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If people don’t give your personality a fair shake, yet still consider you to be a “good catch.” You may not necessarily be ugly, but looks are first impressions.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 03:30 PM
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Dont get me wrong, kids are cool and all, but a lot of responsibility especially for a relationship with a much lower ceiling.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 10:33 PM
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Obesity and weed are my two icks, and pre existing kids is my warning flag.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 09:45 PM
1

Terrible idea. Drugs are bad, m’kay.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 02:43 PM
2

And tweeting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:53 PM
8

Most of the posts around this sub are about the same thing, it is a little tiring, but it’s easy to explain. Most of us have two options: keep trying to earn the attention of a girl we like and ultimately fail, or, give up and don’t talk to women ever again. Option 2 is what the women subject to these posts would prefer, but that would be admitting failure on the part of said guys. Giving up is a bad choice. Repeated failure with option 1 on the other hand just adds fuel to the fire for many of …
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 02:26 AM
8

I would never subscribe to an OnlyFans. She doesn’t see her subscribers as anything but subscribers. So many better things to invest that money in.
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 02:33 AM
8

I think Ralph Bellamy said it best. “If I can’t get the girl, at least give me more money.” Let’s make an app, title it ‘Chadsharing’ and capitalize.
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 06:15 PM
4

Let’s assume the original argument of men not caring about women for reasons other than sex to be complete nonsense. In case anyone is wondering, it is nonsense. It still doesn’t matter if incels “suffer” and you still don’t have to give them a chance. Nobody likes incels in the first place. But don’t generalize all men, everyone is different.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 06:24 PM
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I’m not sure why the guy would ever actually go in and sweep. It’s kind of a waste of time.
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 02:57 PM
2

I can’t say it’s surprising at all anymore. But I had to learn that with some trial and exploration. I do dread being told I’m any of those traits anymore. It’s a nice way of being told nobody is interested in pursuing a relationship with me. Unfortunately I’ve never been able to learn how to make someone feel that “spark.”
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 12:44 PM
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Always being turned down for dates with consistent fibs or lapses in logic. For example, I’m always described as super nice, dependable and loyal, funny, a good catch and not bad looking. None of these features are insulting, in fact they can be supplemental in a relationship. But they’re not good enough to be significant or get you started.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 02:05 AM
2

Ironically, most feminists don’t actually have balls, as it were. It would be interesting to see media and woke culture reaction if feminists were to attack Islam. It would be like the unstoppable force meets the immovable object. It just depends on how both entities rank in the lowerarchy of woke pity party.
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 10:07 AM
3

I wonder what I qualify for if I’m a 4. I bet it’s scary.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 12:14 AM
2

Maybe lust for chad, love for her kids she eventually has and then just tolerance for whoever settles down with her to help with the kids. But let’s be real, there are plenty of women that aren’t cold and emotionless. The cold and emotionless ones just tend to be the ones that more guys chase after.
/r/AllPillDebate23/03/23 02:03 AM
1

Mail order bride? So you’ll need money. If one looks like a kpop star, they’ve probably got options, but aren’t trying very hard.
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 02:41 PM
3

I’ve asked women on dates, been shot down every time. I feel like I’m bullet proof now at least. In my thirties now, the idea of dating just sounds like a Hallmark fantasy, ergo, it’s not real. I can still hope, right…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:28 AM
5

Well at least the guy didn’t have to clean out his back side. That’s something I guess.
/r/AllPillDebate13/03/23 07:57 PM
2

Race is a tool of the media, “weapons of mass distraction” as I like to call them. Most people get a rise out of ridonkulous things. Realistically speaking though, the vast majority of Americans probably aren’t too concerned about issues like race in dating, at least not as it is made out to be.
/r/AllPillDebate09/03/23 03:36 AM
1

Just the fact that I was stood up, by two different dates, left alone at the restaurant. It was terrible. However, I got a free sympathy milkshake for one of those occasions. Shout out to Chili’s for that gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:33 AM
2

Probably. I have a lot of things I’m looking for in a relationship personally. Realistically however, I don’t suspect most of those boxes will be checked. Don’t consider it “settling” if you can find just a couple of things about someone you adore. The rest, can be worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:08 AM
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Most of them won’t be able to afford a bot. More fuel to the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:14 PM
1

Self serving is a wonderful thing. Some of us have to make that method work to get any form of satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:18 AM
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Sounds like a Podcast idea to me. You can’t go wrong with a good idea like that. It does depend on the topics chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:58 AM
1

Nothing wrong with hair maintenance. It keeps things orderly and more visually appealing. It’s also more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:37 PM
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Daily 😃 sounds like a dream!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:42 PM
1

I’ve contemplated changing my style and looks for a little while now. Does the apparel a guy elects to wear really make them more appealing? That is, appealing enough to be approached… it always seemed to me that clothing style wasn’t enough to sway the minds of any girl you’re interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:46 PM
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