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I agree that it's probably not a physical problem at your age, but nonetheless here are some basic ways to maximize erection quality in general. Clean diet and lifestyle Plenty of sleep Cardio, go hard Angion method If that doesn't work, try 5mg tadalafil. As others have said, it's probably more mental than physical. The best way to neutralize the performance anxiety is to talk to your wife openly, outside the bedroom, and let her know she can talk to you too. Sometimes women assume it's their f…
/r/RPChristians08/03/26 12:16 AM
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Recently read The Brothers Karamazov, loved it. Strong Christian message that stuck with me.
/r/RPChristians21/02/26 09:19 AM
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I shall. Thank you again.
/r/RPChristians20/06/24 10:44 PM
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You are right that she is content with the arrangement and has no real motivation to change. But how would you reconcile your advice with 1 Corinthians 7:5, "Defraud ye not one the other..."?
/r/RPChristians20/06/24 03:14 PM
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Thanks for the response, Chuck. I should have clarified that the decision was to rent a (expensive) place near my kids' school where I can have them 50%, as opposed to moving back closer to my work. The trade-off is this way I can raise my kids myself and make sure they learn the Good News, but between work, commuting, and raising kids, I have very little time left for working out, education, etc., and after paying rent and commuting costs, I am just breaking even. I am willing to live with my w…
/r/RPChristians20/06/24 02:39 AM
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Poor girl. Try this. Pretend you are a gigolo hired by some desperate housewife who can't get the sex she wants from her retarded husband. Ask her in your best Richard Gere voice, "How would you like me to **** you tonight?" If she only wants starfish, try to upsell your services. "Can I interest you in some oral first?" Say it all with a completely straight face. Watch the movie, and wear a tuxedo if you need to. The psychology is similar to a parenting trick some parents use with a defiant chi…
/r/RPChristians19/06/24 11:31 PM
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OYS #11 50yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF ~15%, Wife 41, 4 daughters 8, 9, 18, 21 BP: 205 SQ: 235 OHP: 130 DL: 260 BR: 150 Reading (finished): MRP sidebar, RPC 100 level Reading (current): Ezekiel, Greater Than the Sum of Our Parts After briefly moving back in with my wife, I moved back out at her insistence, rented a place nearby, and negotiated a 50/50 schedule. This decision has been costly to me, but I have seen my daughters grow and heal from the dad deprivation I let them endure for years. I think tha…
/r/RPChristians19/06/24 02:56 AM
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OYS #9 49yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF ~15%, Wife 39, 2 daughters 8, 9, (Ex-wife, 2 daughters 17, 19) BP: 205 SQ: 235 OHP: 130 DL: 255 BR: 145 Reading: The Curse of the High IQ, by Aaron Clarey Money I began executing the joint family budget on the first of the month. There was a lot of confusion because I failed to provide the wife a foolproof process to follow. I worked most of the day yesterday getting her stuff figured out. Working on smoothing out these wrinkles as we move forward. Muscles I signed u…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/23 12:14 PM
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True. There were other, more trying tests, but I chose that example because it related to the pushback against the housecleaning. I will try not to take any of them too seriously. Update: This morning I found her cleaning in pink short-shorts, and I took the opportunity to bestow a double helping of praise on her for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/22 08:41 PM
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I am grateful for all this great feedback. I think there is something to what you guys are saying about the apolo-DEER as a plea for validation and comfort. Let me provide a little more detail. When I came home, I found her already frantic about the laundry. I did not criticize her. She yelled at me, and I just kissed her and said we could fix whatever was damaged. Then I went and took a ten-pound shit. When she came back to me to apolo-DEER, it went like this: "Did you need to use the bathroom?…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/22 01:04 PM
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Not unless you go by what Tyred says. But I'm sure I have a lot to learn. She was lovey dovey again this morning, so I guess I passed.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/22 07:09 PM
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I don't feel fear so much as annoyance at my wife's behavior. An example will serve to illustrate. I returned from work and errands this afternoon, and I found my wife frantically picking at an article of clothing, muttering curses. When I approached her, she scolded me: "You can't keep doing this!" I looked closer at the garment. It was covered in what appeared to be the fibrous remains of a disintegrated piece of toilet paper. According to the story my wife related to me, still in a distressed…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/22 02:24 AM
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I am not completely sure I understand what I would be asking him to do. I have never encountered that term outside of RPC, although I understand that it is an important part of what you do. Do you mind if I DM you for more details?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/22 06:03 PM
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Thanks for asking. When I originally read that you read the Bible every day with your wife, I thought, "That sounds great, but my wife would never do it." But then after I started attending the Bible study I mentioned, I asked her to arrange to do it once a week with me and the kids. Now I am working up to once a day, usually in the evening, at least the two of us. She won't do it every time I ask, but every time she comes to me with a problem, I suggest we pray and read a passage that seems rel…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/22 04:13 AM
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OYS #8 49yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF ~15%, Wife 39, 2 daughters 8, 9, (Ex-wife, 2 daughters 17, 19) BP: 205 SQ: 235 OHP: 130 DL: 255 BR: 145 Reading: Rationale Male v.1 Money I went back to work Monday. It's a new crew, but right away, several guys came up to me, guys I have worked with before. The extra effort I put into my work years ago is coming back to me now. I'm positioned for my highest income year yet, and with the new budget, the money could stack up fast. Muscles I failed to follow even my re…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/22 02:11 AM
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That's an excellent point, and I thank you for the warning. My wife suffers from extreme anxiety. In the past I was more worried about the effects this had on me and the kids, but now I am able to pity her, and I am trying to get her help. I believe that assertiveness training will help because one of her methods for reducing anxiety is to avoid conflict at all costs, through typical "nice guy" behavior. This always causes more problems than it solves. We have had some good discussions recently.…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/22 04:40 AM
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It's actually pretty comical sometimes, listening to two people run broken record on each other. But in this case it's worth the price, because I need her to be more assertive.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/22 04:45 PM
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OYS #7 49yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF ~15%, Wife 39, 2 daughters 8, 9, (Ex-wife, 2 daughters 17, 19) BP: 205 SQ: 235 OHP: 130 DL: 255 BR: 145 Reading: Sidebar x1, x2 WISNIFG, NMMNG Money I accomplished my goals with the budget meeting and have moved back in with my wife and kids. I planned the meeting, found a spreadsheet to use, gathered all the information, and gave clear instructions to my wife, so she could basically just fill in the blanks. I had us each prepare our separate budgets first. Then I ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/22 12:56 PM
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Crack me up, bro. You're mostly correct, though. I will use broken record until my wife agrees to let me haul her junk to the dump. I want my meat.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 11:34 PM
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You and I talked about my situation two years ago (on RPC -- I had to delete out), and you asked me the same question then. I do not currently live with my wife because 1) she is a complete slob, and 2) she is a nervous wreck. However, I am still legally and spiritually married to her because 1) I enjoy making love to her, and 2) the relationship allows me to have the meaningful influence upon my children that I described above. (Those are the best two reasons I can think of, at any rate. I know…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 09:15 PM
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You are absolutely right, unfortunately. The dynamic you describe is part of what Chuck and company call "Churchianity." It has infected every Christian community in this country, and it's the reason (one of the reasons) I was so blown away by my friend's Bible study, and the harmony in his family.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 03:45 PM
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Warning noted, with gratitude. I only mentioned it because I thought it was funny. A minute before that she was insisting that we had to be equals, and that she would never acknowledge me as the leader of the family. Then I took leadership, and she followed. I was amused by the complete verbal-vaginal inconguence. The lesson I took from it was 1) never try to explain game to a woman, and 2) watch what they do, not what they say. If you really want to see my friend's Biblically ordered household,…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 01:57 PM
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OYS #6 OYS1, OYS2, OYS3, OYS4, OYS5 49yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF ~15%, Wife 39, 2 daughters 8, 9, (Ex-wife, 2 daughters 17, 19) BP: 205 SQ: 235 OHP: 130 DL: 255 BR: 145 Reading: Sidebar x1, finished WISNIFG, re-reading NMMNG Money I am still recovering from surgery, and on pace to go back to work after New Year. Using my downtime to do some training and work on some certifications. I planned a Dave Ramsey-style budget meeting for next weekend. I am sequestering information this week in order to make th…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 12:13 AM
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Hm. Since I am retarded and autistic, I hope it won't seem odd if I fail to understand. I wrote a draft, read it back to myself, and realized that much of it was BS. Then I remembered a particular occasion on which Horns had called someone on his BS in something like that manner. So I applied the same technique to my earlier draft, and rewrote it without the BS. You can call it autistic, but I just thought of it as learning from someone who is good at something. I can be my own mental point of o…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/22 12:53 AM
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Thanks for pointing that out. I guess I didn't think I was self-deprecating, but merely giving an honest assessment of my progress. I thought, "What would Horns say about this post?", and then I wrote that. I then went back and rewrote the paragraph on my social life and personal network, taking what I thought was more authentic ownership of my situation. But I thank you for pointing out Rollo's Iron Rule #9, and I will try to do a better job of keeping my head up.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 05:20 PM
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OYS #5 OYS1 OYS2 OYS3 OYS4 48yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF ~15%, Wife 39, 2 daughters 8, 9, (Ex-wife, 2 daughters 17, 19) BP: 205 SQ: 235 OHP: 130 DL: 255 BR: 145 Reading: Sidebar x1, re-reading WISNIFG & NMMNG per /u/redside_up, bought Audibles membership to hasten progress Money I got sick of not making much progress on my financial goals, so I moved out of my apartment and outfitted my truck so that I can sleep in it. This enabled me to put most of my rent into savings, which has already turned into a …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 03:27 PM
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Not entirely sure, no. For example, I am having a hard time understanding your sarcasm. I did not claim to have any Red Pill revelations, just some observations about my own life, and about autism, and its opposite. But if it helps you to forgive my ignorance, please feel free to diagnose me however you like. But in that event, please make your comments comprehensible even to an autist like me.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 08:10 PM
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OYS #3 OYS 1, OYS 2, OYS3 48yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF ~15%, Wife 38, 2 daughters 8, 9, (Ex-wife, 2 daughters 16, 18) Lifts: (5x5x) BP: 160 SQ: 190 OHP: 105 DL: 200 BR: 125 I had an interesting conversation with my wife this week. I asked her which of the various new sexual activities I had introduced in the past month were the most and the least effective in arousing and exciting her. Then I shoved my tongue in her ass and listened patiently to her response. Her responses were somewhat surprising. Som…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 12:45 PM
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The purpose of prayer, as far as I am concerned, is not to convince God to do what we want. The purpose is to convince ourselves to want what God wants us to want. That is why we pray, "Thy will be done." In the cases of the individuals I was praying for, they did not need oxygen. They needed a change of heart. But even if they had needed something material, prayer would be a good place to start, because as I said, it makes it possible sincerely to desire good for another person. Then the materi…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 11:12 PM
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OYS #3 OYS1 OYS2 48yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF ~15%, Wife 38, 2 daughters 8, 9, (Ex-wife, 2 daughters 16, 18) Lifts: (5x5x) BP: 160 SQ: 185 OHP: 100 DL: 195 BR: 120 I am still a long way from where I want to be. For example, I have a great sexual relationship with my wife, but not a great marriage yet; a great relationship with my coworkers, but not a clear career path. I still lift like a girl. So this week I want to try to get a better understanding of the unexpected consequences that have resulted fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 05:57 PM
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OYS #2 48yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF% ~15%, Wife 38, 2 daughters 8, 9, (Ex-wife, 2 daughters) Lifts: (5x5x) BP: 135 SQ: 135 OHP: 95 DL: 185 BR: 105 After taking a week off due to COVID, I returned to work. They made me a foreman. I attribute this to the changes I made recently, described in OYS #1. After I ceased to be afraid of my woman leaving, or being in control, my insecurities ceased to get in the way of my career as well. Also, dropping my ego defenses has enabled me to see power relationships mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/22 01:18 PM
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It probably sounds like a trivial realization, but for me, it required facing my deepest fear. Going forward, I want to find what I really am and what I can be.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/22 12:15 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 10:09 PM
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One thing I am working on now is teaching my wife to be assertive. She is actually the "nice guy" in our relationship. That's another reason I think it took me so long to make progress. I thought I had natural dominance thing down, but it was really just selfishness and insecurity. Likewise her submissiveness to me had less to do with my great leadership than with her own weakness and fear. Excited to imagine the people we might become now.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 10:06 PM
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I'm not sure how you got any of that from what I wrote. The whole process took three years, and the critical change was deciding that I valued her happiness more than I valued fidelity to our promise. That might sound like a small change, but it wasn't for me. And I did not make the change for her; I made it for me. There was a part of me that could not stand being what I had become. So I had to change.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 09:55 PM
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OYS #1 48yo, 5’-11”, 175, BF ~15%, Wife 38, 2 daughters 8, 9, (Ex-wife 48, 2 daughters 16, 18) Lifts: (5x5x) BP: 135 SQ: 135 OHP: 95 DL: 185 BR: 105 I struggled for a long time, making very slow progress. Then, two weeks ago, I had a breakthrough. I still don’t completely understand how it happened, so I want to own it here, in hopes that you men can help me understand it better. I came to the conclusion about three years ago that I had got myself into a horrible situation, and that there was no…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 01:50 PM
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