CaptainShagger Archive

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182	Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do? Personally, I’d never advise on going after a chick who’s got a BF. It can get messy for both parties. I currently have a GF. But whilst I was single in University, I’d always avoid girls who have a BF solely out of respect. Don’t be a home wrecker. I can remember this one girl that lived in a flat above me during university. She had a BF but would always hit on me and try to come back to mine after flat nights out and talk about how much she was bored of her BF. The moral is, the relationship t…	/r/seduction	06/09/21 01:52 PM
25	What to do to escalate after sex? Just talk it out. Ask her what she’s looking for and just roll with it. It’s important not too put too much pressure on the girl and come across as needy. Just ask it in a relaxed way when the mood is right or when it comes up in convo.	/r/seduction	27/07/21 09:48 AM
1	100 approaches and still nothing Regardless of the outcome so far, don’t you feel like an overall stronger person? Like you’ve grown through this process? If so, good. Think of how much better you’ll become by the 1000th approach. This is a game of improvement and you’re on your journey. Keep going man, keep believing and it’ll happen. Just a pointer, it sounds like you’re highly attached to an outcome/have an agenda. They can smell this from a mile off. Tone it down and just enjoy the process.	/r/seduction	19/07/20 03:21 PM
1	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day No worries mate! You‘be taken the first step on your journey. Now go and make it a story that you’ll be proud of. Let’s go champ!	/r/seduction	14/07/20 09:47 PM
2	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day First off, great job on taking the plunge and attending your first date. I know it’s tough but you’ve done it, you’ve pushed yourself comfort zone. It’s honestly a numbers game, you need references and experience. It always gets easier the more you do it. Just take a look at how much experience you’ve got from that one date and how much great advice you’ve received on this thread, it’s all due to you finally taking the plunge. It’s all part of your story. To give some advice: As everyone’s menti…	/r/seduction	14/07/20 08:52 PM
3	If Anyone has this video! Shout me. One of RSD’s Realist and most Life Saving Videos. If you don’t have it, then at least Upvote this. A Video we need back as a community. If anyone could share it. Would be a solid gesture to help your brothers. 🥴 #RSD #GETTINGOVERYOUREXMANIFESTO Wow I can remember watching this video when I was like 19 and had just broke up with my ex. Helped me so much. I can still remember chunks of the vid and some of the pointers I absorbed: Go cold turkey. Completely cut off from your ex. Delete them off everything. I’m sure Julien even mentioned pretending like you were mourning them. Whenever you think of them you look at it in a positive light instead of a negative. Be grateful that you even got the opportunity to experience being with them. It’…	/r/seduction	29/06/20 10:55 PM
2	How do you start tinder conversations Umm texting is fine. I just said WhatsApp or snapchat as that’s what I usually use. I find Snapchat is good because the girl feels more comfortable because the messages delete in 24 hours. They usually end up sending nudes as well through snapchat. It’s probably worth you adding them on both apps, or if you have a good Instagram profile add them there. The more places you add them on the mire reference points they have and they don’t just think of you as that guy off tinder. They think of you as…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 11:47 PM
3	How do you start tinder conversations I think this is just an excuse. If no one else does it around your area it’s even better for you because you’ll stand out in a good way. If all the lads your competing with on tinder are taking mirror selfies and you come in with a high quality pic of yourself it’ll do wonders. “I feel like it would be awkward” is an excuse. As long as as you say it with confidence to your friends they won’t see anything wrong with. In fact they’ll probably secretly admire you for even asking the question in the…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 11:44 PM
2	How do you start tinder conversations Obviously it’s tricky to judge your photos as I haven’t seen them. But, I think as a general guideline you should have photos of you smiling and enjoying. Some photos with friends. Maybe a photo of you doing a hobby? My front cover photo is my lifting weights (cliche i know but fuck it, it caught my good side lol). My other photos are me with friends etc. But all my pics have been taken with a good camera. Just make sure your front photo is as clear as it can be and shows you in a good light.	/r/seduction	29/04/20 10:11 PM
14	How do you start tinder conversations First off sort your profile out. Your photos are everything. I’m a photographer/videographer myself so my profile photos are high quality and it makes a massive difference. When you’re out and about have your mates take a photo of yourself - the happier you look the better. The photos make a huge difference as they sort of cut through that “creep radar” women seem to have. If you have shit photos you’ll come across low value in my opinion. I usually have girls open me and say they like my photos…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 09:22 PM
1	25F- i want to improve my sex skills in bed. Well guess who didn’t read the initial question correctly...me :)	/r/seduction	27/04/20 04:00 PM
10	25F- i want to improve my sex skills in bed. As much as I agree I think it’s also worth mentioning that some women will legitimately struggle to orgasm by you just “being in the moment”. You can definitely pick up techniques to help improve your situation and give your partner a more enjoyable experience. It’s much easier to make a women orgasm using your hands than it is through penetration. It’s definitely worth knowing the ins and outs on how to make a woman cum just by using your hands. Google is your friend...	/r/seduction	27/04/20 01:41 PM