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I dislike the negative attention it gets but a lot of the time it deserves it. I pick and choose the threads and articles I read on it because I think a lot of it is just bullshit and douchey. There are loads of things I love about it, I actually know how to create attraction now (I have aspergers syndrome so I've pretty much had to learn how social interaction works from reading and watching people). I'm not afraid of girls anymore, and I'm more confident in myself with whatever I do in life. T…
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:36 AM
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I go from cold to hot to cold (and repeat if I have time) The first hit of cold wakes you up and then when you change to hot the feeling is absolutely awesome. It's one of the reasons I love these kind of showers, the feeling is right up there with pissin', shittin', and cummin'. I always end with the cold one to then ensure that I'm sharp again. The blissful feeling from the hot part carries on through after the final cold one so you feel good and sharp afterwards. Plus, this way is good for yo…
/r/seduction25/11/12 09:38 PM
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Ok, I'll work on it. What if though, they still don't hear you or ask you to repeat yourself? Maybe i'm over-analysing it, I'm not afraid of awkwardness, I just want to have options.
/r/seduction21/11/12 08:40 PM
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Firstly, awesome. Secondly, what do you do if she doesn't hear you. I'm a naturally very quiet person, I expect people to listen to me when I talk so I rarely raise my voice. The problem is, I don't go to clubs/loud places very often so I'll regularly speak in my normal voice if I'm in that kind of situation. I'm not even sure how to raise my voice unless I'm shouting. So, if I do say that line and she mishears me, what do I say? Normally it doesn't even matter if they can't hear me, I'll just s…
/r/seduction21/11/12 08:23 PM
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I'm not much of a PUA at all but I've had success in this area. I've just found with one girl especially who I'm now pretty good friends with I just get really close to her a lot and we end up naturally touching. For example, we were in the library one time looking for books and I kept really close to her. Firstly it's kind of an 'intimate' place because there's loads of people and you have to be really quiet and I thought that was interesting. Plus, allows for whispering in their ears. We would…
/r/seduction20/11/12 10:37 PM
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Just do it anyway. Dude, I have fucking AS and I can do it. I'm not just trying to learn seduction, I've had to learn just how to interact with people in general. You really have no excuse... just keep doing it and it'll become more natural.
/r/seduction09/10/12 09:18 PM
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Tip from someone who used to freak out at any kind of touching from anyone. Just touch everyone, shake their hands, touch their shoulder/arm whenever you're walking away. Not just girls you're attracted to, all girls and guys. It just makes it more natural so that when it comes down to it the normal thing to do is touch the person instead of thinking 'oh, I have to touch her so she'll become more comfortable'.
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:16 PM
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Hey, I tried this today and I think it worked haha. Thanks for the advice, liked it very much.
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:17 PM
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That's what I normally do, I just want to cut the shit now. I want her to know that I have every intention of courting the living shit out of her. By the way, this isn't a specific 'her', I just mean in general.
/r/seduction04/10/12 09:21 PM
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That's not really my question. I was thinking more about how to make sure she knows it's a date and not just us hanging out as friends. Some good advice in here though, I like the 'you know I'm asking you out, right?' thing.
/r/seduction04/10/12 06:03 PM
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Read the sidebar, no questions about specific girls.
/r/seduction04/10/12 12:46 PM
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Women don't know what they want. No one really does, I'm not sure what makes me like certain girls and what makes me dislike others. I can have a rough guess at it but I'm not entirely convinced. It's the whole 'if you want to learn how to catch fish, you ask a fisherman, not the fish' thing. So that's one thing. Second is, they actually have a point. I don't compliment random women, that'd just be me going up to them and giving them immediate value. Plus, I rarely give a fuck about anyone's sho…
/r/seduction04/10/12 12:42 PM
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Any time you see her when you're allowed to talk to her say hi, have a short conversation, say that you'd like to continue it at some point out of class. Boom.
/r/seduction03/10/12 10:47 PM
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Dude, I totally agree. People take seduction in different ways. I find a lot of 'outer' game ridiculously creepy and borderline rapey. I agree, fuck that so much. That's legitimately manipulative (even though, ultimately it is still the girl's fault for having sex, it's her choice in the end, always). I don't read up on seduction for that sort of thing, just not my style at all and I'd hate myself for it. I'm mostly here just for inner game stuff and a little outer stuff like kino but I'm not do…
/r/seduction03/10/12 10:42 PM
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I'm a pretty big introvert, I don't like having lots of friends. That means I have to meet loads of different people to determine whether I want them as proper friends. It's normally pretty easy to tell who I'm going to want to be around and who I won't. Being introverted is kind of like being on a timer, you only have so much 'social' time before you want to be alone and I don't want to waste that on people I don't care much about. Plus, I like pretty girls.
/r/seduction03/10/12 09:12 PM
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I hate when people associate a neg with an insult. It's just banter and I think it's easier for people in the UK. It's part of who we are, we tease the shit out of each other all the time throughout our entire lives so it just comes naturally. The point of it, in my opinion, isn't to make the girl feel insecure. It's to make her think 'Ok, this guy doesn't think I'm so shit hot that he can't make fun of me'. An insult always comes with malicious intent, even if it's perfectly subtle and she bare…
/r/seduction03/10/12 09:45 AM
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I still have pretty bad teeth (not so bad nowadays but they're a little yellow and permanently stained with plaque on the front teeth. They're not too bad to look at but I've always been self-conscious of them, now I don't care. They do a great job at chewing my food so I fucking love them. If you're thin go to the gym or just do exercises in your room (I only recently got a gym membership because my room at uni is too small and my bike is at home) and eat a lot more. There's little excuse for n…
/r/seduction02/10/12 11:05 PM
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Thing I've found most useful more than anything is that people want to talk to other people, they want to be approached, even if not to be hit on, they want to talk to people because humans are fundamentally social. The problem that a lot of people without confidence have is that they think they're being a burden on other people by hitting on them or talking to them. I've been in your position 100% and it's not easy to get over (don't think you're useless because you can't do it at first, it'll …
/r/seduction02/10/12 10:56 PM
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But that's just you doing what you want. You have your own rules because essentially there are no rules. If you don't want to trade a favour for a favour you don't have to. That's what i'm getting at here, just do whatever suits you best, always.
/r/seduction02/10/12 01:43 PM
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True, and going back to my original point I guess there are 'rules' but to me they're just unwritten. The one rule is really 'prioritise yourself' but that comes naturally with what seduction promotes so to me not being a pushover is just a natural part of inner game. There are no routines, no 'go-to guides', just do what you want to do.
/r/seduction02/10/12 01:16 PM
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I just ask myself if I want to do the favour. It's not difficult, you don't need to tally up who's done a favour for you and vice versa. If you're happy to do the favour and don't care about what the person thinks about you for it then do it, if you're doing it to try and make someone like you or you don't want to do it/don't have time then just don't do it. There's no rules for being a pushover, you either are or you aren't.
/r/seduction02/10/12 11:31 AM
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Because it will be your first time, simple tips. The advice other people are giving is all legit but it's too much for you to remember for your first time. Breath is important, buy a tongue cleaner (they're dirt cheap, basically just bits of plastic, but they'll give you longer lasting clean breath. Also, they're really important for general hygiene anyway. Obviously brush teeth, floss etc. and avoid foods that will make your breath smell even after brushing. Gum isn't that great, it's awkward w…
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:29 PM
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I actually quite like this, I try to avoid chocolate though. I'm often in public tearing my way though a pack of blueberries. It could work, it's a really tiny gesture and you could probably tease her about eyeing up your food. Loads of room to play around, stick your hand out to offer it and when she goes for it pull it back etc. just silly, childish stuff. Being hit on in public transport I can imagine being quite threatening because there's no real room for escape, you've got to quickly prove…
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:15 PM
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I'm guilty of this shit too, I know what I'm meant to do but it's much harder to put it into action. Same with pretty much everything, reading is good but no amount of reading can prepare you for the real thing. I got to uni recently and fucking freaked out and all my inner game went down the shit (admittedly I have minor aspergers so the change in environment was really tough to deal with). I tried so hard to be socially perfect and it's pretty embarrassing, had a really shit first week, nearly…
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:01 PM
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but she started to rub her ass against my crotch. As drunk as I was, I remembered that it might be an IOI You don't say...
/r/seduction01/10/12 07:53 PM
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Big generalisation ahead (fully aware that this isn't true of all women, most of them though). I hate the double standards that women hold when it comes to picking up people of the opposite sex. I can guarantee that if society were different and women had to go after men this subreddit would exist for women and they wouldn't complain. Women don't realise that men actually have to actively try because shit doesn't just jump into our hands. Women literally just have to be somewhat attractive and b…
/r/seduction01/10/12 07:50 PM
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Take care of your ears my man. I'm 18 and my hearing is already damaged from being in tiny, loud band practice rooms and gigs without protection. It's embarrassing as fuck to have to get someone to repeat what they've said to you multiple times.
/r/seduction17/09/12 12:12 PM
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Lol, I'm far from an expert at seduction, I don't even use this subreddit to get better specifically with girls. I mean, I have more success with girls than I do with making friends with guys. I use this subreddit to help with my confidence and 'inner game', as opposed to using it for getting girls. Anyway, all it really is is being confident and practising. This goes for pretty much everything. You're going to fail, a lot, and it's going to hurt (literally in martial arts haha) but that's reall…
/r/seduction16/09/12 05:31 PM
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I think I agree. Too many people here want seddit to hold their hands through every interaction (like, 'what should I have said here?' etc.) I think barely any of it matters. I think the most important thing is making yourself attractive in other peoples' eyes and especially your eyes. I don't believe that people can just be better at something full stop. For example, I'm a kickboxer and I used to move and punch like the whitest little boy you've ever seen but I've practised, reflected on myself…
/r/seduction16/09/12 11:15 AM
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Some people say it should be like 80:20 but I think that's too much looking away personally.
/r/seduction13/09/12 06:14 PM
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Man, it might just be your personality. I have trouble making close guy friends (I'm a guy) but girls (especially foreign girls) love me, whether they're interested or not. It doesn't bother me that much but I don't particularly want to end up like that guy from 'I love you, man'.
/r/seduction10/09/12 12:58 AM
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The thing about just saying hi is that it allows you to go onto pretty much whatever topic you like. Opening with a comment about work can get you into a rut of talking about work too much and becoming a totally non-sexual boring thing associated with work. To be honest, at university it's hardly going to be too difficult, everyone wants to make friends and is open to meeting people. You could literally go up to someone, say hi and introduce yourself and it wouldn't seem that weird (and even tha…
/r/seduction08/09/12 11:15 AM
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Am I the only one who doesn't think opening by talking about something university related is a good idea? It's all anyone talks about to introduce themselves, regardless of whether you're trying to hit on them. To me, work and school is just the most non-sexual thing in the world, setting you up for the friendzone. People want to meet and talk to other people at university. Just go up to them and say 'hi' and watch their face light up. I like to think about how I'd like to be spoken to if someon…
/r/seduction07/09/12 11:40 PM
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Can't believe you just described introverts as beta. Now I'm not a huge fan of the whole alpha/beta terminology but you can still be introverted, like I am, and be the absolute megaboss champion. I'm a 'true' introvert. I need my recharge time after socialising and I don't like small talk (though I recognise its importance). I like to put my headphones in and go about my daily tasks often without talking to anyone. That may seem to go against seddit principles but frankly, I don't want to talk t…
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:09 PM
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Humour is kind of easy, it's all about your confidence and how comfortable you are with it. You don't need to be especially witty or intelligent to be funny or make people laugh. The trick is to use humour to entertain yourself. You aren't a comedian, you aren't there to make other people laugh so that they like you, you're there to have a good time or to have a fun conversation. You can show it in different ways. Roleplaying is a pretty big thing in comedy. People put on exaggerated personaliti…
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:51 PM
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Eh, I know a shitload more about martial arts than I know about pickup. I'm not saying don't hit on any of the girls that you do train with, just absolutely not while you're training. I don't know about dancing but I assume it's inherently quite sexual, so I think it's less of a problem there. With grappling it's just... very very weird and inappropriate. I don't like to throw that word around a lot but martial arts are different, you're learning to hurt/injure/kill your opponent. Personally, I …
/r/seduction25/08/12 10:05 PM
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Uugh, don't make grappling sexual. There are some places where pickup isn't at all appropriate and this is one. If you do this you're just distracting your partner and showing no respect for the class. Fighting is a totally non-sexual thing, despite what people might tell you. I could have a girl's tits/vagina buried in my face and still not be even remotely turned on if i'm grappling. Also, I know what women say they want isn't particularly important in the PUA community but there is actually a…
/r/seduction25/08/12 12:27 PM
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How far were you into nofap? A lot of it is going to be to do with your mentality. If you're anxious and excited you're going to cum quickly. I know guys who fap regularly and still prematurely ejaculate with their long-time girlfriends and I know people who have lasted for a decent amount of time losing their virginity whilst doing nofap. If you don't want to fap, don't do it, there's no 'need' to do it like other people are saying. If you're fapping purely to last longer during sex you're goin…
/r/seduction20/08/12 04:43 PM
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I didn't just upvote this because it could easily work, it's also just hilarious if you say right.
/r/seduction07/08/12 08:43 PM
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I've always seen there as being three different types of girls, physically and in general attitude. I see there as being cute/pretty girls, hot/sexy girls, and beautiful/elegant girls. All are good but I'm more into the first group... pretty much everyone differs though and even then, it comes down to a lot more than just looking nice.
/r/seduction26/07/12 04:54 PM
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"I told her 0, but I'd still done stuff with girls before. She asks "like what?", and I tell her to close her eyes if she really wants to find out. She complies and I go in and we start making out." You smooth bastard, you.
/r/seduction14/07/12 09:19 PM
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Refers to other guys as chodes - is one. Downvote. EDIT: Actually I want to make a point. If you have to judge other guys and refer to them as chodes it doesn't make you 'alpha' because you're afraid of competition. A real 'alpha' (and to be honest, I hate the word) doesn't give a shit about what other guys do with girls, and doesn't judge them for it, only tries to help, if anything. You may think you have strong self-esteem but I guarantee you that you're not as sure of yourself as you think i…
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:10 PM
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This is spot on. My friend (I 100% mean my friend, I'm not great with girls but that comes down more to confidence, I'm not a creep) is exactly like this. Firstly he's lacking in the looks department in the first place and doesn't help himself by exercising or just being hygienic in the first place. Then he also has nothing interesting about him, he sits at home and plays xbox all day. One thing I've noticed about me is that, whilst I'm far from good at getting girls, they fucking love being aro…
/r/seduction05/07/12 03:35 PM
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Well I never actually liked the girl's friend as anything more than a friend and they live in other countries so both those ships have long sailed haha.
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:32 PM
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Well I know for a fact (through someone she told) that she liked me and was jealous that maybe I liked her friend more. That's good advice though. I spent too long just hoping a conversation would spring up between us alone and now I realise that it was basically all my fault. I know because I had a few one on one conversations with her friend too. Maybe that was easier because she REALLY liked me and wanted to talk to me alone so it was easier to speak to her alone (I wasn't really trying, just…
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:23 PM
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