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What I know for sure is that there is a strong trend for marriages (and other long term monogamous relationships) to become sexless (or close enough to sexless) after a period of time One thing that may surprise some people is that it's not always the woman who loses interest A man may simply lose all interest in his wife and instead be more interested in younger, slimmer, hotter women instead
/r/MGTOW230/06/20 10:33 PM
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Marrying a woman for sex is like buying a car for the Magic Tree air freshener
/r/MGTOW230/06/20 11:55 AM
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So basically prostitution It gives you access to more sex with a wider variety of hotter, slimmer, younger women and all for much less money than you would get in marriage
/r/MGTOW230/06/20 08:31 AM
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Marriage is for cucks and betabuxxers It really is the worst form of simping in existence
/r/MGTOW220/06/20 10:18 AM
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http://crossbones.org.uk
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 05:16 PM
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What kind of woman doesn't shower in three days? I'm a guy in my 30s and shower every day, sometimes even twice if I need to I honestly don't understand some people
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 03:26 PM
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Just trash, pure and simple In more traditional times women who behaved like this would have been social outcasts There are entire graveyards in some countries full of women considered not fit for a Christian burial But Western civilisation is functionally dead now And this type of behaviour is encouraged, not shamed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 03:19 PM
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Not forgetting New Holland and Kubota
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 06:49 PM
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Don't need cake Facial fat obscures your cheekbones which lowers your number of likes on Tinder But thanks for the thought anyway
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 10:02 AM
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It's gonna take money A whole lotta simping money It's gonna take time To cuck it, to cuck it, to cuck it, to cuck it I got my mind beta-buxxed I got my mind beta-buxxed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 07:35 AM
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Farmers Only? OnlyFarmers?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 07:33 AM
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TL;DR
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/20 02:48 PM
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Instant left swipe
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/20 06:44 PM
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Yes she's trash, no doubt about it But I'm willing to bet that many of the users replying to this thread - myself included - have never dated a woman who looks like her in their whole lives
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/20 05:48 PM
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"Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen"
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/03/20 02:33 PM
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There's all this evolutionary psychology, as well as anecdotal evidence from women themselves, explaining how many risks are involved in sex for women and how costly it is for them Even though there are real risks involved in having sex for women, getting the DNA of Chad and Tyrone inside them outweighs the risks from an evolutionary perspective, and is simply more important to women They crave sex from these alpha males during their reproductive prime - their sex drive is totally directed at th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/20 03:40 PM
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Lucky me, I've just got a like on Bumble
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre19/03/20 09:17 AM
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I'm 33 But I guess while I always knew about these ideas, I only really got into them deeply in the past year or so Last year it really "clicked" The blackpill is just another way of explaining social Darwinism Which I have always believed in since my early 20s But for me this past year I've really chewed it up and digested it and had a hard think about alpha males, beta males, and the trajectory of my own life It didn't fully click until last year But now it has If I'd known the full truth at 1…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/03/20 05:49 PM
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And they flaunt their contempt for beta males every day on social media They are proud to be sluts exclusively for alpha male cock only They love to show off their bodies to the whole world with not even a hint of traditional female modesty All over Twitter, Instagram, Onlyfans and all the rest Not to mention in real life as well They financially profit from their disgust for betas Women have no shame anymore None whatsoever
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/03/20 05:44 PM
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How old are you and what age groups would you consider "younger men"?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/03/20 04:08 PM
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This is the awful reality of what AF/BB means Thanks for this intelligently considered high IQ post
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/03/20 04:03 PM
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Based And high IQ
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/20 03:56 PM
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Female dating strategy in a nutshell: tame Chad and make a loyal beta of him That is their ultimate goal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 09:05 AM
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Women can get high value men for sex at least Fat, short, ugly and older women will go for lean, handsome, tall, younger men just for casual sex I've seen it many times
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:16 PM
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Very good question What is a high value male? Low value? Medium value? These terms are mentioned a lot but rarely analyzed in detail However I'd say a high value male is generally: Tall Attractive Physically fit with a lean muscular body Well dressed and stylish Successful in what he does Popular with other people and confident at all times Not necessarily super rich, but he isn't poor Neurotypical A low value male would be the opposite of these things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:13 PM
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Polite prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:06 PM
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AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:03 PM
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Thanks I guess
/r/seduction15/03/20 12:55 PM
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Many men are driven by non sexual factors to achieve great things In psychology this is often referred to as sexual sublimation, meaning diverting attention away from sex in order to make accomplishments Do you seriously think Immanuel Kant and Isaac Newton were driven by sex to complete their philosophical and scientific works? There are so many aspects of male endeavour that are worked on tirelessly by men, yet are often largely ignored or unrecognised by women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 08:05 PM
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I'm about 20% bodyfat at the moment Aside from that, and maybe the way my skin has aged, most of the other factors are on my side already Height, looks, muscularity, even penis size are all definitely in my favour A woman on Reddit's PurplePillDebate recently called me a 7 I can show you pictures of what I look like I know about the truth behind online dating Read the Scientific Blackpill https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill You don't need to be an incel to understand that the dating world…
/r/seduction14/03/20 06:56 PM
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Yes, that may be true as far as relationships are concerned about them being transactions That's not necessarily the case if you're talking about a guy who looks like a male model with extremely low body fat and very muscular physique These guys can go on Tinder and get commitment free pussy all the time, no transaction involved I wouldn't say the average woman reaches the wall in her 30s, 40s is more like it I'm very dedicated to my diet and weights routine and have actually got some decent mus…
/r/seduction14/03/20 05:50 PM
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How are you in your sexual prime at 33? More like your betabuxxing prime, from a female point of view Despite significant progress, I still have a long way to go before I have a truly lean body I am employed and have place to live and a car but it's still a relatively low status manual job I have few social connections outside family and work And I can see evidence of my skin ageing every day I don't feel like a catch at this point in my life except to single mothers, aging spinsters and fat wom…
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:51 PM
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I'm already hitting the gym and dieting to lose fat and gain muscle, with some success but it doesn't feel like enough Until all the belly fat and face fat is gone I won't be satisfied, I want to be able to see visible abs No idea about men's skincare I've recently changed my hairstyle and clothing quite a bit but I'm still not that stylish
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:42 PM
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Not me, I'm 33 and consider myself to be aging badly And have a picture if anyone needs to see
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:16 PM
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What if you don't want to settle in your 30s? What if you just want to fuck about forever? What if you still don't have an attractive career in your 30s?
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:15 PM
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I'm glad to hear that to be honest Every day I feel like shit about being 33 Every day I wish I was 10 or 15 years younger I'm trying to get leaner and fitter with some success But I'm concerned that my skin is aging badly as well Should I be worried about that? I have no idea tbh
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:11 PM
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I find myself disagreeing with almost everything posted in this thread My conclusions have been almost the opposite Namely that simply having low body fat and muscularity is what makes a man hot, as long as he isn't short or ugly to begin with Fuck it, I'm off to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 10:05 AM
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Every day I'm realising more and more that it's largely an extremely low body fat percentage (sub 10%) that makes a man highly sexually attractive to women Provided he meets basic height and looks cutoffs of course Low body fat and some muscularity but not an insane amount, tall and not ugly is all you need to be It's as simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:58 AM
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People are calling it the 95/5 rule now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:29 PM
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That's the evolutionary psychology take on it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 05:58 PM
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It's interesting that you mention the contrast between the experiences of older and younger women One thing that I've noticed throughout my life and I'm sure many others have as well, is that older women who are past reproductive age are often very eager to engage young men in conversation, and will sometimes approach them in public/social situations to talk to them Whereas with women of reproductive age, especially those at the lower end of the age scale, and even more especially the highly att…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:17 PM
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You're conflating income and education with physical factors such as height, facial appearance and penis size Physical factors don't really belong in the same category as economic and social factors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:14 PM
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My job is relatively low status My social connections are not great While I have been working on getting fitter and leaner I've still got some way to go yet Location may also be a factor There are probably other factors coming into play as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:07 PM
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Wrong on so many levels Women may not care about body fat percentage on a life partner / husband ("beta") But if we're talking about what women lust over sexually? Basically ripped guys who look like male models with very low body fat They appeal to a lot of women, sexually Not just gay men That should be beyond obvious by now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 09:13 AM
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If only it were that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 09:11 AM
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Realistically I get about 1-3 likes a week Many of those are larger women, single mothers, or over 35 I rarely match with women I'd describe as attractive Even average women are harder to match with now I find Tinder and Bumble way harder than Plenty of Fish was around 5-7 years ago I used to do pretty well around 2013
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 09:06 AM
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I get relatively few matches on Tinder with this https://imgur.com/a/6AzGjSb Less than 1 a day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:00 AM
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In general there is a fairly strong correlation between physical attractiveness and higher social class This applies to both sexes pretty equally Wealthier people are not only more physically attractive, they are also on average taller as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:52 PM
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Exactly Huge numbers of women watch porn and also many make porn of themselves Tall, good looking, lean ripped guys get masses of female attention It's not hard to work out that that's just another myth about female sexuality Of which there are so, so many But the truth is blindingly obvious to those who can see it now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:15 PM
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That's why I mentioned the looks and height cutoffs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:38 PM
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Or you could simply get a ripped and lean body, show it off on dating apps and the rest takes care of itself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:20 PM
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FDS simply confirms the Blackpill in the most direct manner possible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:07 PM
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Again I mostly agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:49 PM
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I'm a 6ft4 man with broad shoulders and I see small, fat, skinny, ugly, weak, etc guys with women all the time while I struggle in dating I'm not what you'd call ugly, and I do get at least some matches and dates But I still struggle in the dating world a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:47 PM
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Best post in this thread so far
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:44 PM
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Husband / life partner = beta provider male One night stand = alpha male / Chad Also referred to as AFBB or the dual mating strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:40 PM
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So it's basically above all else being lean and strong with a low body fat percentage that makes a man attractive and sexy and desirable? Provided he meets certain looks and height cutoffs in the first place, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:37 PM
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I might pass on the rest But definitely not my first fat chick 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/20 12:43 PM
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Couldn't agree with you more tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:05 PM
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I need to get better pictures soon Think I matched with a transgender recently wasn't 100% sure if was trans though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:21 PM
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Showing weakness makes you look like you have no options
/r/seduction07/03/20 12:44 PM
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I would agree with all this I think you know instinctively whether a woman is into you or is not though Or at least any experienced dater does If you act like you don't give a shit and are completely unfazed by being in her presence then she'll have to work harder and will be more attracted to you Whereas if you act like a little beta bitch then that's a big turn off The less you seem into her, the more she'll be into you The more options you appear to have, the more attractive you become That's…
/r/seduction07/03/20 10:00 AM
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This sub is gonna get banned soon I can just feel it But it was good while it lasted
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 09:54 AM
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Tyrone's kids
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 09:53 AM
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He was one ugly bastard that's for sure, she was a very pretty blonde blue eyed girl of mixed Polish and Scottish ancestry, 12 years younger than her killer Maybe this case could be the subject of a new thread - does the case of Chloe Miazek disprove the Blackpill? Or is it simply explained away by the fact that criminal and antisocial men are attractive? I literally walked past the flat where she was killed yesterday afternoon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:41 AM
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And yet they have campaigns saying things like "consent is sexy" The one thing that's overwhelmingly obvious is that women are extremely turned off by beta males and nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:56 AM
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There was a girl in my town died from it a few years ago literally less than a mile from where I live She was 20 years old I've been to her grave Do a search for Chloe Miazek
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:54 AM
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It's from a book called The Great Sex Divide (1989) by Glenn Wilson The site as a whole however is by a British far-right activist called Simon Sheppard who was effectively an incel, alt-right, pick up artist way back in the 90s Way ahead of his time that guy, I think a lot of modern incels have loads in common with him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:04 PM
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http://www.heretical.com/wilson/ddesire.html
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:56 PM
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Not sure what planet you're on to be honest if you think that online dating and smartphones haven't revolutionized the world of dating and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:18 PM
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It was the biggest game changer in the sex and dating world since the sexual revolution itself, almost exactly fifty years prior circa 1963 The emergence of online dating/smartphones has been referred to as the "second sexual revolution"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 12:38 PM
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So you're saying an attractive muscular guy can't do well at 37? Or just that he's not relationship material if that's not something he's ever really known?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:27 AM
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2012/2013 was roughly the time smartphones and online dating became much more popular
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:24 AM
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She was just overweight, not obese I wouldn't consider her so unattractive as to be unfuckable And she had a fairly pretty face But I sure as hell wouldn't settle with that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:06 AM
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I also had a like from a 25 year old single mother who was quite attractive, blonde and tall and thin Her profile read... "I have a 6 year old son, looking for a new partner, not casual dating" I decided to swipe right just to see if she would message first and to try to suss her out She didn't message and neither did I
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:25 PM
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You can elaborate on that if you like But aside from that, what I've said is basically fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:20 PM
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TRP is obviously good advice for men It's only considered "bad" because it's not politically correct and is offensive to women The ultimate goal of FDS is obvious If a woman can tame an alpha male, keep him and make him into a beta under her control, she has won the game That's what it's about: securing and keeping a high value male Being offensive to men is acceptable because of the prevailing intersectional feminist view that all men in society hold power and privilege over all women If you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:47 PM
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No, I would not I saw I had a like on Tinder from a profile that had pictures of an overweight brunette woman and the profile text was "29, getting old, need a husband, apply by swiping right, little girl is mine, oh and my boobs are real" I swiped left and I'm actually insulted that she swiped right on me Are there actually any men out there who would seriously think to themselves, "Yes, this kind of woman looks like an ideal partner to me?" Here's another perspective on this issue that should …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:38 PM
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http://www.heretical.com/sgs-2002/toa-s14a.html
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:31 PM
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You mention blue collar jobs disappearing... Since when are men who do blue collar or manual jobs appealing to women? I honestly thought that was a big turn off to a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:23 PM
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Isn't this called the "Coolidge effect"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:19 PM
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"29 and getting old, need a husband, swipe right to apply, by the way I have an 8 year old daughter who always comes first and she is my world"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:16 PM
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I would agree about the career thing But the Stacy/Becky stereotypes do exist for a reason and in many ways a sexy, confident woman attracts far more male attention than an average looking, plain, overweight female Yes, men still want to have sex with the latter to some extent and she may be seen as easier But she'll never be the glamorous beautiful woman who turns heads wherever she goes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:11 PM
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Seems like a bizarre question No one is entitled to anything from anyone else In a socially liberal society, no one owes anyone anything beyond the basic social contract of respecting others' rights as a citizen under the law You are not entitled to sex or a relationship but you're also not forced to provide those things either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:38 PM
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33, white, male, straight, Scotland Prefer white women generally and find them the most physically attractive Different European ethnicity yes, different race no Couldn't picture myself dating a non-white woman, but will chat to anyone on dating apps Fairly neutral where I live but would depend on location of course Don't understand the particular attraction to East/Southeast Asian women at all and I find them to be rather sexless A lot of the fetishes surrounding black partners seem to come fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:34 PM
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I know what I'm doing I already have a good amount of muscularity and it's not about being ridiculously strong like a power lifter It's simply about being lean most importantly, and also relatively strong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:11 PM
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That may be true for most guys But I'm fighting like a mad dog to get leaner and stronger and have made massive progress in the past 6 months So in my view it's only a matter of time before I succeed in my goals You can be hot by putting in the effort to get a good body and taking care of yourself This is provided you meet certain basic minimum requirements first on height and looks of course
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:58 PM
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It's not the same as real life And I would completely agree that they're swiping on your pictures and profile, rather than you directly And a good picture can make you look more attractive than you really are, and vice versa with a bad picture But even with those factors taken into account, looks still matter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:27 PM
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Okay, that's fair enough but doesn't there come a point where it goes too much the other way? If a woman is simply too curvy to the point of being obese, doesn't that mean that the men she attracts will be more beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:20 PM
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Utilitarianism is a fantasy a bit like Marxism which takes an extremely naive view of human nature Equality doesn't exist for any living creature on this planet - inequality is the primary factor driving evolution The laws of nature may apply in much more subtle ways in human society, but they're definitely there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:16 PM
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Well, for starters, some men will simply take whatever they can get But I do believe that men's preferences also matter If you are attracted to a particular type of woman you will make more effort to chase that kind of woman when the opportunity presents itself On the other hand I honestly say I find thin, curvy, and athletic women all attractive to varying degrees The only female body types I find unattractive are truly obese and out of shape, and emaciated and anorexic All healthy looking fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:40 PM
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Really? What makes you say that? I always thought thinner women were most in demand tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:24 PM
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So you're into 90s alternative rock musicians then I can clearly see Interesting because that isn't the perfect look for a lot of women These guys are below 6ft and fairly skinny rather than muscular Yes they're relatively good looking from an objective standpoint But many women would not idealise men who looked like this Especially not gym bunnies who want 6ft5 tall super strong ripped guys A lot of it is subjective personal taste
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:29 PM
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What is hot to you though? The usual tall, handsome, athletic, lean, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:21 PM
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While it's true that male model looks are not necessarily required, there has to be a basic minimum threshold for attraction to even begin And I know OLD is not the same as real life, but... I (33M) am currently sitting at 101 matches on Tinder My work colleague (49M) showed me his Tinder account He is fat, bald, and pretty damn ugly And he doesn't have a single match on Tinder Not a single one I saw the photos he was using and they quite reasonably represented what he looks like So looks very o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:17 PM
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Dating someone you're not attracted to... Been there, done that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:56 PM
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Let's reverse this situation - say you had a working class Chad who was tall, good looking, lean and strong but worked an undesirable job and was not particularly rich? How would he get on? What about the women on dating apps demanding someone who makes over a certain amount?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:54 PM
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I got told I was a 7 just yesterday by someone on this very sub I appreciate that one person's opinion doesn't make me an objective 7 But I definitely value and appreciate the advice given here as it's extremely insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:50 PM
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I guess it's possible theoretically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:42 PM
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I (33M) do not match with or attract anyone under 24 so can vouch for that being true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:36 PM
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Isn't "incel billionaire" an oxymoron? I laughed though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:34 PM
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What you're describing is called utilitarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:32 PM
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For right or for wrong, there are a lot of men on Reddit who would consider the term "emotionally stable woman" to be an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:25 PM
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Right okay... For each number out of 10 how many matches would a guy typically have at one time? I got told I was a 7/10 yesterday - how many matches should I have? It's not an exact system at all and it certainly doesn't use scientific methods
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:16 AM
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It’s awfully considerate of you to think of me here And I’m most obliged to you for making it clear that I’m not here And I never knew the moon could be so big And I never knew the moon could be so blue And I’m grateful that you threw away my old shoes And brought me here instead dressed in red And I’m wondering who could be writing this song I don’t care if the sun don’t shine And I don’t care if nothing is mine And I don’t care if I’m nervous with you I’ll do my loving in the winter And the se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:26 PM
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Maybe a little bit like that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:32 PM
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Thanks We use all this terminology like Chad, Incel, Stacy, Becky, 5/10, 9/10, etc But I think people have widely varying definitions of what those terms actually mean I have sent you pics on Imgur for you to take a look at from my Tinder profile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:29 PM
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Can I send you a picture of myself in a DM and you can tell me whether I look like a Chad or not? I won't send you a dick pic or anything like that I think I could meet a lot of the criteria based on what you've described there What I find really most interesting of all is that you say "Chad" has a "cute tummy" Every definition I've seen of "Chad" has him as a lean athletic guy who lifts weights Not a guy with a dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:12 PM
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Not sure what that means tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:06 PM
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You learn a new thing every day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:00 PM
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I've had far, far more than that in my life yet in my head mentally I feel like an incel I don't understand what's making me feel like this to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 03:56 PM
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But WHAT is a Chad really? We can all agree that "Chad" is a high value male, but aside from that there is a LOT of disagreement on the exact characteristics he possesses Does he have to be handsome? Tall? Muscular and lean with low body fat? Does he have to be a white male? Have a big dick? Be rich? Be popular and socially influential? Neurotypical and cisgender? Maybe he must be all of these things? Is it primarily just about looks? Is it primarily, more than anything else, about having a lean…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 03:16 PM
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I (33M) have gotten direct eye contact a few times from younger girls (late teens and early 20s) in public places a few times in recent months You can't mistake it It's like staring that only lasts a split second Yet in none of these instances did any conversation take place nor did I attempt to approach Dating apps have been a game changer as it allows people to message who they want It takes the pressure off when it comes to cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 06:21 PM
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Gotta love chess memes
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:08 AM
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Assuming that you're talking weight in fat not muscle, then a BMI of over 40 is truly obese It's possible for guys with BMI of over 30 to get some action though BMI over 40, not so much, again assuming the weight is in fat I have a BMI of 28.5 but only have 21% body fat Even if I lost 28lbs, I'd still have a BMI of about 25.5 and probably about 16-17% body fat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:41 PM
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I wouldn't disagree with that and that's why I'm continuing to cut carbs so I get leaner still
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:08 PM
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I'm only a little over 20% BF and well overweight by BMI, that's why I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 02:43 PM
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How fat are we talking here by body fat percentage or body mass index? There are different degrees of being fat to be fair Some people also have both significant amounts of both muscle and fat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 09:36 AM
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I've been cutting carbs for the past 6 months and have been doing weights and a lot of walking It's making a big difference but I'm still nowhere near my target goal And I simply do not have a big social life nor many friends of a similar age to myself
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/02/20 08:10 PM
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I need to make it work better though I'm trying to looksmax by getting leaner and fitter But my pictures are just not that good And my results are not that good I'm trying to improve the way I look so I look better in my pictures And it is awful not knowing what I should be doing to get good pictures But any picture in which I do a "Chad" pose gets better results than an average picture Lighting makes a huge difference as well
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/02/20 07:28 PM
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I'm also tall and into going to the gym and live music so I definitely relate to some of what you're saying A lot of the gigs I go to don't have a lot of young women at them though That's because I go because I like the music I don't give a fuck either and I don't buy into shitty attention seeking behaviour Almost all of the women I've been involved with in the past 5 years I've met online though I don't go out drinking
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/02/20 06:52 PM
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I'm not a Captain but always find it funny when people on here refer to me as one My username is simply a corruption of the name of a Scottish village, that's all Anyway Yeah I understand how it works Wish I had understood it better when I was younger, my life may have been very different
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/02/20 06:57 PM
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But how old is too old to be the alpha who is the main beneficiary of a massively unequal sexual marketplace? For how long can you realistically continue to be a Chad who is in high demand on dating apps? Until 35? 40? 45? Or does there come a point where it's over for Chad too simply due to age and he too must settle just like the betas have to?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 05:21 PM
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In other words, alpha fucks beta bucks, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 05:17 PM
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There is a lot of cultural and social pressure to settle down You can see the visible signs of aging on your face (I know I can) Women in their late 20s and 30s on dating apps are in their "settling down" stage Yes it's possible to lead some of these women on and obtain casual sex and not commit to them But in general everything is easier in your 20s with less pressure to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:26 PM
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Do people here seriously think that a man's 30s are an ideal time for him to be having lots of casual fun? There is a lot of pressure for men to settle down in their 30s if they haven't done so already I'm not saying casual fun isn't possible, but it's probably less easy to do in your 30s than in your 20s I would think but please correct me if I'm wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:16 PM
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This politically incorrect fairy tale should be taught to all teenage boys so they understand the true nature of women and the dating world and the life that lies ahead of them Rather than some bluepilled politically correct feel good head in the sand equality nonsense
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/02/20 04:11 PM
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This is close to how I feel I live alone and couldn't ever see an LTR happening
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:57 PM
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With a lower body fat percentage a man is objectively more handsome If your face looks chubby at all it loses its definition as the fat obscures the bones and muscles in your face You'd have to be below 20% BF max to be considered "handsome"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:35 PM
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So this is about looks and body type then basically It's a question of simply being tall, handsome, lean, and ripped and everything else takes care of itself You've got a constant supply of pussy if you have all those factors on your side, right? Or must you also be rich, charismatic, socially influential, popular ... the list goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:59 PM
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The strange thing is that there is no concrete definition of what "Chad" is I meet some of the criteria for being a "Chad" especially factors such as height, muscularity, jawline, voice Yet in other ways, I meet some of the criteria for being an incel or at least a "failed normie" I guess you have to meet all the criteria to be a true "Chad" and that would include both the physical and social aspects of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:52 AM
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No one finds these men sexy though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:11 AM
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I've had sexual conversations on Tinder and Bumble and all the rest, plenty of times I've had two this year so far alone that I've had those kinds of conversations with quite extensively Yet quite often sexual conversations are just that, conversations They don't always lead to actual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:07 AM
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A lot of the time I'm not even sure where I stand But this sub is one hell of a depressing read that's for sure, one of the worst I've seen on Reddit "Chad" is both a meme (as in r/virginvschad) and a concept In some ways, body fat percentage, and possibly age including the skin ageing that comes with it, are the only physical factors stopping me from being "Chad" and I realised this last year If "Chad" is simply a case of getting a lean and ripped body then it's achievable with hard work and de…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:03 AM
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Basically what toolate4redpill said above without mentioning suicide
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/20 04:22 PM
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Six decades after the sexual revolution of the Sixties, this is what we've come to Read this poem: https://www.wussu.com/poems/plam.htm
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/20 04:20 PM
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And six different fathers as well, quite possibly of several different races?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/20 07:31 PM
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Depends on the individual woman My job involves basic manual labour, although some of it is skilled and it certainly isn't the lowest paid I've been unmatched on Tinder for telling them what I do for a job But others weren't even remotely bothered by it at all and were more interested in me as a person The one I met last night was an attractive slim 32 year old woman And she wasn't bothered by it despite having an office job herself and we are still talking So it's clearly not all about money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:19 PM
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Exactly, I've been focused on self improvement for a long time and it does pay off If I was just sitting around at home drinking beer and eating pizza every night and I wasn't a regular gym goer she probably wouldn't have been interested in me in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:14 PM
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You know something you're totally right I'm 33 and I'm going on a date with an attractive 32 year old slim, blonde and blue eyed woman tonight Instead of regretting shit that's happened in the past, or shit that hasn't happened I should be thankful about what I've got and the fact that she's interested in me We've already had chats about sexual subjects quite extensively as well and shared a few pictures with each other The fact that we've both told each other some of what we're into sexually do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:07 PM
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The way I see it is like this As a guy in your 30s you are well placed to be able to date women in their 20s, 30s and 40s whereas in your 20s you can only date women in their late teens, 20s and early 30s However there is also much more of a pressure to make relationships serious, and to settle down and marry and have kids Your peak "having fun" period is mainly 18-25 and certainly by 30 that's that time of your life gone Am I wrong? I would like to hope that I am, especially given that I wasted…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:20 PM
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I'd actually first gone to the gym aged 16 But didn't get really properly into it again until I was nearly 31 At 33 now I kind of can't help feeling that my peak dating and having fun period should be over Even though it's not And I've got a date tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:00 PM
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How late in life did you pick it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 10:06 AM
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I just made my thoughts clear in this thread in a separate post Basically I've had casual sex in my life on a fair few occasions But there are also long periods of time that I've not been having any sex What I couldn't understand is what its it's like to be the guy who gets casual sex all the time I can get quite a few Tinder matches fairly regularly with average to below average women easily enough But that doesn't always translate to actual dates let alone sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:25 PM
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I'm 33 years old and have had 16 sexual partners in my life, have no idea how my experience fits in here compared to others here All but one of those were from one night stands or short relationships lasting less than 8 weeks So there is definitely quite a bit of casual sex happening no doubt about that at all But I've also had time periods where I've gone through a sexual drought with no dates or sex sometimes lasting months at a time This is probably because I've had less serious relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:21 PM
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Isn't that just called serial monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:06 PM
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This entire sub in a nutshell: Life is awful for men It's depressing Even though I do get Tinder matches and do get dates and have one planned for this week This sub still depresses me And I know I'm welcome to leave but I'm always interested in the truth no matter how awful that truth may be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 01:23 PM
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Stop drinking. Seek medical help if necessary. That's the first thing you have to do. Everything else will fall into place later, the immediate priority is to get off the drink The longer you go without alcohol the less you miss it - the withdrawal at the start is hard but then it gets easier I was 25 when I quit drinking It gets better
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:32 PM
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I've seen tall, handsome and well groomed fat guys with slim hot women before but probably not your average fat guy tbh
/r/seduction02/02/20 11:19 PM
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Didn't believe it ten years ago, sure as hell don't believe it now There's no logical reason to believe it There's no evidence to support it and plenty of evidence that suggests the opposite It's just another example of people saying things because they feel good with total disregard for truth or objective fact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:55 PM
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Also known as Chadfishing
/r/MGTOW30/01/20 06:25 PM
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Yes I definitely know about the first type of guy you mention This talk about "explicit social permission" would presumably include education about rape, sexual harassment and suchlike? Or what else do you mean about the "explicit rules" of the blue pill? So the second type of guy lacks confidence for what reason? Is he... Afraid of rejection? Afraid of being accused of sexual harassment? Does he believe that women should approach him first? That they'll have no chance anyway because they're not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:17 PM
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What do you mean by "following the rules"? Could you give any examples? But yeah, I completely agree that there is a lot of bullshit out there that shouldn't be taken at face value I'm completely opposed to political correctness in all its forms It promotes telling lies over truth just because it feels nice to do so I'm old now (33) but basically the truth is something you have to discover for yourself, no one will tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:39 PM
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Equal rights do not lead to equal outcomes People may be equal under the law, and supposedly have equal opportunities, but the reality is very different This is because like all other forms of biological life, humans are innately unequal according to evolutionary principles Inequality is the driving factor behind evolution Equality is literally in direct opposition to quality Quality implies that something is better than something else, and thus that inequality exists
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:22 PM
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"Mr Right" is simply a betabux That's all he is
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 10:09 PM
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But then online dating also has its drawbacks and plenty of people say it doesn't work for them
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:50 AM
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Nearly 7 in 10? I'd have expected more like 8 or 9 out of 10
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 03:04 PM
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Better pick fast before Greta Thunberg forces you to choose electric
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 01:27 PM
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Most "radical feminists" look like that creature on the right They despise both men and women who are more attractive than themselves
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 01:21 PM
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Funny, but also depressing I've never been in a long term relationship lasting more than a year so couldn't speak from personal experience about what goes on, although have heard plenty stories
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 11:06 PM
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Think it's about time I weighed in on this subject I do know about the things that are going on in the world today, I'm not naive And the world has changed one hell of a lot since I was a teenager 15 to 20 years ago Truth is, the cultural and technological changes of the 2010s are what has made this all possible I imagine many users here will have had Boomer parents who had a certain set of values that they passed down to their children and tried to instill in them Do well in school, study, get …
/r/MGTOW22/01/20 07:54 PM
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There are no words Are there actually white "men" out there who would want to be in a relationship with a woman like this, in all seriousness? Even if you paid me twice my monthly salary to date a woman like this, I still wouldn't want to
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/20 06:08 PM
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Morality is a social construct And the sexual revolution has made human society return to a much more animalistic sexual and mating hierarchy With one of the most fundamental tenets of civilisation destroyed in the form of the death of lifelong monogamy, pure social Darwinism is what prevails now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/20 03:58 PM
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Sure, I may have talked with single mothers on dating apps, but I've never so much as been on a date with one, despite 40+ dates over the past 7 years of online dating I'm not interested in single mothers, not interested in women looking for their "Mr Right" (which is synonymous with betabux), not interested in marriage and children, not interested in women who ask what I do for a living in the first couple of messages I unmatched with one today because she asked me what I did for a living. Ther…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/20 03:49 PM
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No way, I just spilled my coffee as well
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/20 03:42 PM
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Couldn't agree more The idea that all women prefer older guys is bullshit It's something that a lot of young guys think to themselves When the truth is it's not really age that's the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:03 PM
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All I will say is that I sure as hell wouldn't wait months I was seeing a woman in 2017 and on the fourth date I went back to her place She wouldn't allow me to sit on the same sofa as her, no hugs and no kisses Needless to say, I wasn't interested in seeing her again If there's no sign of anything happening after the second date I feel like I'm wasting my time Many other women I've been with it's gotten sexual on the first or second dates
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:59 AM
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Everything about every aspect of biological life on planet Earth is unfair The principles of evolution, survival of the fittest and sexual selection apply to all living creatures And humans are just as much a part of that as anything else So it's not any more unfair than any other aspect of that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:18 PM
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Yeah you're right of course I've always found that the times in my life where I've been more socially active I've also been more sexually successful
/r/seduction09/01/20 08:43 PM
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Thank you The internet has been a massive eye opener in particular When the true nature of female sexuality is revealed it's anything but innocent or sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:37 PM
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I don't think that women are inherently any more or less sexually deviant than men are to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:36 PM
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I don't buy the thing about overweight women at all really They date skinny women because it's the socially acceptable thing to do But are attracted to fat women more?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:34 PM
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And once you've attracted her and committed to her Pay for everything, no exceptions Surrender your personal freedom completely and let her make all the decisions in life Accept that after a while the sexual element of the relationship will decline to virtually zero Sounds like a good deal to me, don't know about you
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 03:47 PM
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I don't get Instagram at all and never really got Facebook either Never really used Instagram and despise Facebook Everything is way too public and all your family members, old friends, work and school and university people can read it I'm probably too old to be part of the Instagram generation anyway
/r/seduction06/01/20 02:35 PM
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I'm 33. Reading this, is there any point in me even trying any more? I may as well just give up on life now I wasted my 20s, especially my early 20s Because I didn't know or understand any of this stuff at the time I made the worst possible decisions at the time, and there wasn't the same information available
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:17 PM
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These "financial dominatrixes" are all over Twitter A lot of them post screenshots of their "tributes" although there's no way of verifying if they are real or not as screenshots can be faked Twitter is drowning in a sea of shit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/20 09:14 AM
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Everything about what is being discussed here is depressing But I don't think I'm as "low value" as many people make out or expect the average guy to be I'm sitting at 89 matches and 19 likes on Tinder, I've been talking for several weeks with one on Bumble and the conversation has been fairly constantly sexual I updated my pictures in December and my matches shot up back then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:11 AM
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Some of the books and other stuff I've got on my bookshelf I feel could be a potential turn off for some women That is if they ever bothered to notice it and were intelligent enough to understand (many are not)
/r/seduction30/12/19 12:32 PM
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How come someone hasn't noticed that I'm dead and decided to bury me, God knows I'm ready
/r/seduction28/12/19 06:59 PM
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If you want you can elaborate and explain exactly what you mean and tell us about the situation
/r/seduction25/12/19 02:26 PM
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She hasn't replied to my last message which she left on read which I sent at 5pm yesterday It is Xmas day and she is seeing her family I'll message her later on but you would think that if she was interested she'd at least text me Especially given it's Xmas day I don't know for sure if it's the job that's the issue I don't know why she's been quiet or if she's losing interest Very difficult to know for sure But it's hard not to suspect that she wants a wealthy guy to go on expensive holidays wit…
/r/seduction25/12/19 02:13 PM
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Even though I'm a skilled manual worker, as soon as you say you work in waste and recycling your sexiness factor pretty much disappears It's not even the worst paid job either, but it's just such an unglamorous thing to be involved in And when I'm talking to women who are like postgraduates and may have jobs in things like banking ... it's just such a massive negative I'm not bad in terms of height and looks Could stand to lose a few pounds and I'm trying my best to but also have decent muscle S…
/r/seduction25/12/19 12:59 PM
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It's sad but true As soon as they sense any sign of beta-ness it's pretty much over I was doing well, now I think I've been ghosted for telling the truth about what I do for a job Or maybe she's just busy with Xmas and stuff
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:46 AM
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I bet he must be not only very tall, but also extremely good looking and with a very fit body and his pictures will also clearly show that I'm just average tall, moderately good looking and actually I still have a lot of work to do on my body despite huge efforts to become stronger and leaner
/r/seduction25/12/19 12:14 AM
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Thanks, hope that's true
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:34 PM
1

Nine women in seven days? Sounds crazy, were they prostitutes? How good looking, how tall and what age is he? Two women in your life? And eight women in a week also sounds crazy, how do you explain that?
/r/seduction24/12/19 04:43 PM
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Thanks At this stage in my life, I honestly think that the least attractive thing about me is the job that I do If the job you do isn't perceived as attractive you're basically not far from being incel as a result of it Especially as you get older
/r/seduction24/12/19 02:36 PM
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I've had at least 40 meets from online dating in the space of the last 7 years I've had sex with 7 women that I met online and done other sexual stuff with 2 or 3 more Talking to one at the moment for the past week from Bumble and we've had a few chats already about sex she seems to love talking about it Experience has taught me before though that talking sex doesn't always translate to it actually happening in real life I am not naive ... I'm 33 for fuck's sake, life has made me jaded and cynic…
/r/seduction24/12/19 02:32 PM
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The truth is depressing I'm well above 6ft tall, and some people have said I look good, and I do get matches on dating apps But I think I fail in other areas How many Tinder matches does a "high quality male" have? What would his number of sex partners be by age 25? 30? Truth is, if I'd known what I know now at age 18-19, I could have given myself a much better chance in life At 33, the fun part of my life is almost over
/r/seduction24/12/19 02:22 PM
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See she seems to kind of have you on a stick there as she's using her sexy pics in order to get you to do what she wants I'm going to be honest and say you probably didn't miss out on as much as you think you did
/r/seduction23/12/19 12:47 AM
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The one I'm talking to that I matched with on Bumble is a 6ft tall brunette with a big ass who constantly talks about sex and says she's horny all the time I've only had her on WhatsApp for 4 days and I'm struggling to keep up with all her messages I know she's legit as she added me on Facebook and seems 100% a normal person just with a very obvious high sex drive that's not being satisfied The sex chat started on Thursday night and hasn't stopped since There have been a not insignificant number…
/r/seduction23/12/19 12:03 AM
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I honestly just find that on Tinder (as well as Bumble and other similar apps) every now and then a girl comes along out of almost nowhere who seems super interested and we hit it off and start talking a lot This happens to me on average maybe once every few months, maybe every few weeks, it can vary quite a bit. Sometimes I'm talking to more than one at the same time, other times I can go months and barely talk to anyone I'm talking to one on Bumble right now who seems a bit sex crazed and up f…
/r/seduction22/12/19 07:34 PM
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Been there done that It's me that's the gold digger 😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:34 AM
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Also known as "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" Or "breadcrumbing" Being too keen or desperate is a massive turn off and bombarding someone with shitloads of messages is a really bad idea If they don't respond then fuck 'em
/r/seduction20/12/19 10:33 AM
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Thanks In my original post remember I posted about a girl from Bumble who I thought ghosted me after I sent her a pic? We've just hit it off big time tonight with the kinky/dirty talk and the conversation has turned explicitly sexual She is a tall curvy brown eyed brunette who lives in another city and is 5 years younger than me Suddenly life doesn't seem so bad now but whether our chats will actually result in anything happening remains to be seen
/r/seduction19/12/19 11:27 PM
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I just said I was cutting carbs out of my diet, and pasta is a refined carbohydrate So right now yes I would refuse a lasagne, much as I don't like having to do this The truth is I do have some things that make me happy, but a lot of them are not stereotypically what the average woman would be interested in I am well aware that a lot of the things I like are despised by women or just irrelevant to them I still need to lose some face fat and belly fat before I'm completely lean I am 33 and I'm fa…
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:46 PM
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What's getting me down in a nutshell Regret over the past, wasted years and opportunities The fact that I'm still not at peak physical fitness and as lean as I should be even though I've been making huge efforts to cut out carbs, do weights at the gym and do loads of walking The fact that the job that I do is seen as badly paid, unattractive and undesirable especially to career women, despite it being well above minimum wage Don't think the girl was actually underage and the fact that she looked…
/r/seduction19/12/19 09:30 AM
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I think you have to find a happy medium On the one hand, you can't be boring or too nice, that is a big turn off for most On the other hand, if you literally start every conversation with "suck my dick right now bitch" you'll probably be blocked by most Somewhere between these two extremes works best - you have to be forward and sexually suggestive but don't make it completely blatant from the start
/r/seduction18/12/19 10:37 PM
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Another classic from the female dating strategy sub 😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/19 04:08 PM
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There are no reasonable arguments to be had anymore as everything is based around the idea that the social justice bullshit that has eaten away at our societies like a cancer is always right If you're a straight white male the argument is already over as your opinions, perspective and reasoning count for nothing
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 06:13 PM
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Do you have good pictures? My pictures are terrible I only have one selfie and I hate the way I look in most pictures 1 female match a day is still pretty good going and certainly better than I'm doing at the moment Do you live in a major urban area or close to large population centres? I'm quite rural in relative terms And finally I just feel it's too late for me At 33 you're practically an old man in online dating terms Wish I'd gotten fitter and lean when younger instead of wasting years bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:59 AM
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And I don't do that well with women and nor do I have a lot of sex Things are not as they seem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 01:00 AM
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I've got a long way to go before 10% if I indeed ever get there Difference is I've already got some muscle just need the extra fat to melt away
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:50 AM
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What in particular about your body type is not appealing to women? I'm a white male, 6ft4, 33 years old, broad shoulders and prominent jawline, BMI 29.9 with 24.6% body fat, do weights at the gym regularly I have more than 90 matches with 10+ likes on Tinder (not including those who have unmatched or disappeared) and used to have some success on POF as well between 2012-16 I know my body fat percentage is my worst physical feature and I'm fighting hard to reduce it But at the age of 33 is it wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:44 AM
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I'm 33 and also not a big Instagram user But whatever the platform, the same principles apply One thing I learned back when I was about 18 was that if a girl is kind of friendly / flirty with you then usually that means she does want you but you just have to keep pursuing her until you get it
/r/seduction10/12/19 10:30 AM
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It's possible to pass the looks part yet fail in other areas such as money, status, personality and charisma etc Truth is sometimes two people just have nothing in common and it's not meant to be
/r/seduction09/12/19 12:23 PM
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The fact that you have a 31 year old GF at 54 actually gives me a lot of hope because getting older makes me think that I've wasted too much time already
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 12:22 PM
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Do it for yourself Exactly, nail on the head there
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:25 PM
1

The same principle is true in reverse as well Less attractive women will do anything to hold onto a more attractive guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:46 PM
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That's pretty much been my experience I get matches on Tinder, some of them unmatch or don't respond Have conversations with some and occasionally get a date with them I've only had 3 that I've taken things further with and ended up having sex with I've got 96 matches right now Problem is I don't know what really makes a good picture and profile as I only have one selfie For me the world seems to be divided into "Instagram perfect" people and "one selfie" people You need to have good photos othe…
/r/seduction05/12/19 05:36 PM
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http://www.heretical.com/sgs-1995/bigsis.html
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 08:56 AM
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I've never heard of them and had to Google who you were talking about (not American here) I think it is important to consider that different people do like different things even if some things are more popular amongst the general population as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:06 PM
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I'm a tall guy who has been doing my utmost to lose weight this year and get fit as well, and I've had some degree of success. Have my efforts all been for nothing? How fat are we talking here though? You could have a masculine tall chubby guy with broad shoulders and a deep voice and he'd still be attractive to some women, but in my experience it tends to be larger girls that couple up with larger guys rather than fat and thin together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:35 PM
10

And that's the awful, depressing truth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:28 PM
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Problem is nowadays people feel the need to match on a dating app to confirm interest Instead of getting out there and reading the signals the old fashioned way
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:27 AM
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How does it differ from the regular direct look?
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:11 AM
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It happened to me twice in a week last month with 2 different tall blonde girls in local supermarkets One was talking with her friend then turned to look up at me directly in the eyes then walked off again and continued her conversation The other one was older and curvier but still very much attractive and kept on looking at me as I walked past in a supermarket aisle The younger one was about 20, the older one was about 30, I'm 33
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:10 AM
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I had this twice in the past month from girls and I could tell straight away they were showing some kind of interest by giving me a direct look straight in the eyes You can't mistake it
/r/seduction01/12/19 08:12 PM
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She has "trash" written all over her face
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/19 05:57 PM
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I have my own place and I'm already a regular gym goer doing weights and on keto diet I already have good muscle, just need to get rid of the layer of fat and make the Dad bod to Chad bod transition and I've already lost weight in the past 3 months At peak physical fitness (10% body fat) I'd be a 9/10 Chad at least physically as I'm tall with broad shoulders, strong jawline, deep voice, good eyes But I do not have Chad personality I don't have a great social life and my job isn't anything specia…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:29 PM
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My number totals in at 16 lifetime sexual partners at the age of 33 and lost my virginity at 18 so have had 15 years of being (intermittently) sexually active, no idea what that makes me I don't feel like a Normie as the majority of my sexual success wasn't in a relationship context, I haven't had the level of success of a Chad, and I'm certainly not an Incel But I'm losing weight and building more muscle now in order to improve my looks, in the hope that it will improve my success rate My match…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:53 PM
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When you make all these comparisons between "Chad who gets laid at 15" and "Normie who doesn't get laid until his 20s" it's hard to tell where I fit in on that scale If I first got laid at 18 and have averaged slightly more than 1 woman a year since then - what label (of the Chad, Normie, Incel type) would apply best to a guy like me? I think a lot of these factors are very real especially in American culture, in other countries some of them are not quite as strong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:32 PM
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I've never lived full time with someone in a relationship and honestly couldn't see myself doing so I like my own space and freedom too much and hate anyone telling me what to do or meddling in my affairs If women don't owe me anything, I owe them nothing either I do get a lot of women on dating apps talking to me looking for long term though More often than not it's the men who are scared of commitment and the women who are desperate to secure it and establish a family Yet some women are also a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 10:14 PM
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I'm not sure I want to fully go down that route but I don't think commitment to marriage, children or a serious long term relationship is worth it from my perspective I'm happy to have more short term things if they happen but that's it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 10:05 PM
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OnlyFans should rename itself OnlySIMPs Putting pussy on a pedestal is pathetic beta male behaviour - all these "enablers" who give these women money for fuck all are nothing more than doormats I'd rather be an incel than be a betabux, honestly Most men in relationships and marriages are basically financial slaves I'd rather just be single for life and do my own thing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 10:00 PM
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If it's looks, money, status then surely looks would count for more for a fuck, and money would count for more for a relationship (betabux) with status lying somewhere inbetween
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 04:06 PM
2

What is a Chad to you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 03:33 PM
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Who the actual fuck are the stupid cunts that enable this behaviour? Go on Twitter and look up findom, enough said What demographic is responsible for giving them money? Lonely older men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 03:29 PM
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The first one (on 10th November) was walking out of a supermarket entrance as I was walking in, she was tall and slim and young with blonde hair and blue eyes and was walking with her friend As she was talking with her friend she averted her gaze from what was in front of her to look up and look me in the eye directly for a split second before walking off again There was no way I could have had time to even talk to this girl as she simply stared at me for a second then walked on, plus she was ea…
/r/seduction26/11/19 09:23 PM
1

What I will say is this: during those times in my life when I was most active socially in terms of going to parties and bars and stuff, that was when I was having the most luck with women I don't do any of that stuff anymore and I'm not as successful now I have some matches and conversations on dating apps but it rarely leads to anything I've had some luck with them in the past but they are still not that great It's definitely true that the more active you are socially the more likely you will g…
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:14 PM
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It's sexual signalling http://www.heretical.com/sgs-2002/toa-s11b.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:25 AM
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What does that mean? Is it kind of a similar concept to being "emotionally unavailable"? Where you're showing yourself to be desirable then making her work hard for your attention? Or am I totally reading this wrong?
/r/seduction24/11/19 11:52 PM
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A lot of Zoomer girls seem to look like this Women of my age not so much, things were very different in my day as I was a teenager in the early 2000s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/19 10:38 AM
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What annoys me is that I could be a 2 but I'm not in shape enough. Working on it. Really trying hard to work on it. But at nearly 33 is it too late? Too late to compensate for all those years I was overweight? Don't get me wrong I still got some women but it's depressing even thinking about how much better I could have done if I was lean and athletic from age 20 I mean sometimes I was just normal weight but other times I definitely put on the pounds and never was I completely lean and athletic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 03:38 AM
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If the first sexual revolution was in the 1960s which saw the dismantling of traditional Western sexual morality based on Christianity, then the second sexual revolution happened in the 2010s, in the form of online dating Hypergamy is not all that different from animal breeding where the best males are selected to mate with multiple females, and the rest of the males do not Summed up perfectly here: http://www.heretical.com/wilson/mbc.html
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:35 PM
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Because women say one thing and mean another
/r/seduction20/11/19 07:10 PM
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A lot of incels are non-white, especially Indian and Chinese descent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:21 PM
4

I love Virgin vs. Chad memes And I don't fit the stereotype at all if internet nerds are supposed to look like the "Virgin" character
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:16 PM
8

Essay writing could be seen as a form of meritocracy that benefits those who are gifted at putting thoughts into words; many people are not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:17 PM
5

2007 was when the first iPhone came out Smartphones as we would think of them today didn't actually become popular for about 4-5 years after that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:08 PM
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TL;DR she's looking for a betabux I avoid women like this on dating apps now Not interested and especially not interested in ones that already have kids I don't consider her unattractive looks wise but you can generally see right through their shit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/19 11:42 AM
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One thing I would say is this though: a person's pictures are not an objective measure of how attractive they are. You could be more attractive and worse at taking good pictures, or vice versa Even if you're relatively attractive (7 or 8 on the decile scale) if you only have one selfie you'll struggle to reach 100 matches
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 01:02 AM
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Pretty much This is just my experience but online dating in 2019 is about ten times harder than it was in 2013 I used to have really in depth conversations in the hey day of POF with loads of girls, that's all dried up now I get likes from below average women on Tinder, I'm maybe about a 7 at the moment but should be an 8 with increased weight loss and being more toned which I'm working on at the moment And even then I guarantee I'll still get mainly fat and ugly women and aging single mothers w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:14 AM
3

I have no idea what counts as a good opening line in 2019
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:00 AM
21

And yet modern society abhors physical violence
/r/BlackPillScience17/11/19 09:42 AM
2

All I can say is have you seen Love Island 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:09 PM
1

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-50137960
/r/seduction13/11/19 09:00 PM
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Scotland is not an independent country, but if it was, it would easily be one of the top 5 most cucked countries on the planet, up there with the likes of Sweden What makes it even worse is that a lot of the population of Scotland, including most of those who use Reddit, fully support that kind of politics
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:51 PM
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I know that and I wish I was joking But a man was recently arrested, tried and jailed for making "pick up artist" videos in Scotland
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:47 PM
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In Scotland you would be jailed and put on the sex offenders register for making this video
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:18 PM
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My texting is shit these days Honestly I barely even know how to open a conversation nowadays as they often don't even respond to the first message
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:10 PM
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Not all guys are the same - some of them do like to take a woman's pleasure into account You talk about the risks associated with random hookups, but that doesn't stop women who want to have them from doing so Women can and do have random hookups and will even go on sites and apps for that specific purpose sometimes What the guy you mentioned said is ridiculous, no doubt about it There is also the fact that some women don't orgasm from vaginal sex But like I said, some men are less selfish and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:30 PM
2

Chad stride? If you walk confidently it makes a big difference I also find wearing shorter t-shirts where my arm muscle is visible helps
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 01:00 PM
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I already am on the keto diet I go to the gym to do weights but should probably get back to doing cardio again I also like going to music concerts, and driving in my car, and going to the gym regularly I should also add that my job is quite average and would not be attractive to most women although it's well above minimum wage What sort of music are you into?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/11/19 01:55 PM
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I'm trying to get in good shape with some success so far But low body fat is really what I'm looking for That sounds like a good profile to me I think I would struggle to create a profile as good as yours to be honest but I'm trying my best What do you say you are looking for? Simply because a lot of women are on dating apps to find a husband and children How do you filter out the ones looking for long term commitment?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/11/19 01:35 PM
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That's great but how attractive are you and how good are your pictures? What about your profile? I'm sitting at 86 matches on Tinder, how well do you think I'd do on Bumble?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/11/19 01:22 PM
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Really? I need to get on Bumble soon with good pictures
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/11/19 11:18 AM
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Not only should you not care if you get rejected, you should also put yourself in a position where you're able to reject women under at least some circumstances as well If they're not up to your standards or you simply feel that it wouldn't work, why bother taking it any further?
/r/seduction08/11/19 08:53 PM
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25 is too late, I was already a mess by then I was a mess at 21 actually I am a much better person in every way now than what I was at 25 I'd say to my 20 year old self Go to the gym and do weights several times a week Eat a low carbohydrate high protein diet with good fats and green vegetables Don't drink alcohol at all, not even in moderation Find a job or career that is suited to your skills and talents Take the time to do things you enjoy in life and spend time around people socially
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:16 PM
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Never heard of Raya But I take your point completely It's about filtering out the average and below average men, more than it is about anything else The "80/20 rule"
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre08/11/19 03:18 PM
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This is a long read for sure by Reddit standards but nowhere is it TL;DR I think you've nailed it perfectly - the way in which Tinder dupes men and women alike for profit Question is, are other dating apps any different? Or are they all much the same? The Australian tourist/ageing bald guy distinction is a pretty much perfect example of the difference between alpha/beta males The former gets to fuck and the latter is more of a provider/husband type
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre08/11/19 12:15 PM
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I would agree with that - I have plenty of strength in my muscles but I'm also far from thin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 11:50 AM
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You're right in a way But let's just say you both go and see a band at a live music gig The singer of the band is like the alpha male and you are like the beta male for taking her to see him Alternatively if you were to do your own creative stuff that could be seen as much more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 11:31 AM
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Like I said, I'll use dating apps or talk to women in public if there's a reason for me to talk to them But cold approaches to random women in public places are just not my thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 11:09 AM
1

Under some circumstances they love that, but it depends on how they take it It could be well received or it could come across as unwanted attention Oh and are you aware of this story? https://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/news/4805513/addy-a-game-youtube-glasgow-pick-up-artist-panorama/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:05 AM
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See that's the problem I only talk to them online because I don't want to approach them otherwise For the most part I would never really make a "cold approach" to a woman in real life I would always have to have a reason to talk first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:48 AM
1

They used to say that a picture paints a thousand words, and that has never been more true than it is today in the era of online dating Having good pictures is the most important thing on dating apps and is actually more important than your objective actual level of attractiveness when it comes to getting attention and likes You could be a tall good looking guy but still get few matches if your pictures are shit Good pictures are everything And for those without good photo skills it can be very …
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:07 AM
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Dating apps are full of plus size women in my experience anyway Most of my dates from POF and Tinder have been in that category - not all but most But Tinder to me is dead now I need to find out which online apps are actually active with a significant amount of female users The girl in this article is a perfect representation of my upper limit in terms of the size of woman I'd be willing to date: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6138125/Size-22-woman-claims-shes-FITTER-slimmer-friends.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:21 PM
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Haha not where I live - maybe in America but not here Don't get me wrong larger women are definitely out there but no organised events I like big women up to a point, but extremely large women are a turn off Anything up to about size 20-22 is probably fine with me but no bigger than that And if she is going to be on the large side she better have a pretty face and weight distributed mainly to her boobs and ass and not her belly Otherwise I would simply reject her And I have already done that in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:15 PM
1

I go to live music events as well but the gigs I go to are often either old man bands from the 70s or Gen X hipster indie groups from the 90s/early 00s I did meet a 44 year old woman at a live music festival last year but she lived hundreds of miles away and we never met up again, I was also seeing another woman at the time who was 37 and I had to end it with both, I was 31 then and nearly 33 now I don't mind dating women older than me and/or plus size/curvy - I often find they are more down to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:03 PM
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My career is nothing special just an average working man's job but one that offers some opportunity to progress at least Social circle isn't that great although I'm far from completely isolated Apart from the gym most of my hobbies are passive and I know that being creative is much more attractive than passively appreciating someone else's work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:57 PM
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I don't drink and I'm pretty strict about that What kind of social events? Actually there have been times in my life when I've been relatively more successful but suppose you could say I'm just not that social a person Definitely it seems to be the case that socially isolated men are unpopular with women Women want a man who is popular with people generally
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:55 PM
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One of my best mates is a 58 year old former dairy farmer who is married with 2 teenage sons One of my other best mates is a 37 year old guy with 4 kids to 3 different mothers and they all hate him and he's always broke and smokes weed every day and despite all of that he's with a new woman now I'm almost 33 My social life is not the best as you can see I know people but I don't really have a big social circle and I don't drink I was an alcoholic in my early 20s for a few years so had to give th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:51 PM
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So basically as long as you're below 50 it shouldn't matter that much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:41 PM
1

15 years to settle down or I'll be forever alone? Or 15 years in which I can still freely date casually and not settle? Hope I can find this thread I've actually dated a lot of women a little older than me in my life and honestly that hasn't bothered me Whether I will I still feel that way at 40 remains to be seen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:38 PM
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I wouldn't like to be 5ft4 that's for sure But to be honest I'd be better off just losing that extra weight so I could do even better which is exactly what I'm trying to do Some women do like guys of a larger build but they are mostly larger women themselves, and also they tend to see larger guys as betas who would be fine as husband material, but they are not usually seen as alpha males or Chads I've had "rugby player build" before but the truth is that most professional rugby players are Chads…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 04:41 PM
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What would you consider "scoring on a fairly regular basis" and what would your main methods be? Tinder seems pretty dead to me these days Will be joining some new dating apps soon when I get some new pictures of myself up I don't have a massive social circle and I don't drink or do drugs, although I do obviously know some people that I could call friends and I have family as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 03:43 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 03:35 PM
1

Agreed I have no intentions of giving up with my goals at all - I might change my methods as part of the process of trial and error of finding what works and what doesn't but will not change the pursuit of my goals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:35 PM
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I'm going to reduce the amount of saturated fat in the diet and continue with low carb, it's the only thing that works for me I'm going to keep eating avocados, olives and fish no matter what anyone tells me And plenty of green veg of course Don't get me wrong I have had some success with women just not as much as I maybe could have done I haven't been on a date in 4 months or so and Tinder is pretty much dead to me now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:26 PM
1

In a nutshell I was overweight throughout most of my 20s, not morbidly obese by any means, just overweight I still am overweight (only just) but I am also tall and masculine and relatively strong and relatively good looking I have had some success with women obviously but nowhere near as much as I could have had if I'd been on a lean low carb diet and going to the gym all that time But back in 2007 none of that shit had really taken off the same There weren't even smartphones, dating apps or soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:14 PM
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The truth is that I did have some relationships and sex, they just weren't all that satisfying and the women weren't that attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:42 AM
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Three years ago I was stuck in a relationship with an extremely overweight omega female who I wasn't attracted to I ended that relationship, bought some new clothes and went back to the gym a few months later The truth is that I'm a 6ft4 white guy with a deep voice, strong jawline, masculine, decent looking I'm stronger than most of the young skinny boys in the gym, only really the ultra ripped guys who use roids are a lot stronger than me I've got a fairly decent selection of brand name clothes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:41 AM
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What you're describing there is the woman that goes for alphas/Chads in her youth before she finally picks a beta to settle with in her 30s There was a post on this same subject just the other day The awful truth is just really depressing I could have done much better in my 20s than I actually did, my early 20s especially were a disaster I'm only trying to really get fit and lean and strong now at nearly 33 but I feel it may be too late for me to really benefit from it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:01 AM
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I'm a guy in my early 30s and in my experience I've found that women in their late 30s who are of a larger, curvy build are fun to date and enjoyable to be with in the bedroom But I'm also under no delusions at all that their lower status in relative terms is the reason I keep matching with them on dating apps I'm not matching with young slim sexy women on dating apps because they are much harder to get with and higher maintenance This woman sounds bitter as fuck and clearly is like almost the f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/19 10:56 PM
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This is what I suspect would be the case In the postwar years when the Boomers were being born (late 1940s - mid 1960s) families could often have 4, 5, 6 or more children and afford to pay for all of them AND a house and sometimes a car and often only the husband would work! Unthinkable now That being said the 1950s housewife stereotype isn't always entirely accurate as many women did have part time jobs that were fairly low paid and fell into the category of "women's work"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:07 PM
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This is deeply depressing from whatever angle you want to view it But yes, I've encountered a lot of women aged between about 27-40 on dating apps who show this kind of behaviour My attitude now is that if they are desperate for marriage and babies that means they see you as a beta male Which means you should run a mile and focus on self improvement Alpha fucks, beta bucks
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/11/19 11:19 AM
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That's exactly the point I'm trying to make - that things are not equal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:35 PM
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I hear a lot about hypergamy on here Hypergamy (and with it, de facto polygyny) is an inevitable long term consequence of the sexual revolution of the 1960s, which was made possible by increased social freedom for women and increased social liberalism generally as a result of increasing secularisation in Western societies Basically the rich and the good looking take more than their fair share of women, and the poor and the ugly take less - this has always happened to some extent but in the era o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 11:41 PM
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Thanks for reminding me that I'm nearly 33 Sometimes I doubt whether all the looksmaxing and gymmaxing is really worth it Am I just trying to over compensate for missed opportunities when I was younger? I'm full of regret about how I spent my twenties, my early 20s especially Just utterly wasted them and went from a young attractive guy into a fat alcoholic loser dropout And then I had to rebuild my life again and I'm still doing that now Wish I could go back in time and do things differently
/r/seduction04/11/19 11:27 PM
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I feel it's true That's why I'm so desperate to reduce my body fat percentage at the moment I've already got the height, muscle tone and reasonably good looks - I just need to keep on losing that extra weight and get to my target of 10% body fat which I hope to have achieved in a year My sex and dating life has mostly consisted of fat and chubby women I just hope that at 33 I'm not too old to be able to enjoy the benefits of getting a truly fit and lean athletic body with low body fat
/r/seduction31/10/19 08:56 PM
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Is that the one with the bars up and down the side to keep it still? Where you can place the weight in sections up and down the bars? In my experience that is easier than the truly free bench press What about deadlifting, overhead lifts and squats?
/r/seduction29/10/19 10:42 PM
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I'm just doing weight machines at the moment but doing at or near the maximum on most machines and some of them with weight added on, doing all different machines to work all different muscles of the body and plenty of reps I do intend to return to free weights at some point but in my experience it's generally harder to bench press the same weight you can do on a machine as the machine provides stability as it's on a pulley whereas a free weight moves about and it's harder to keep still
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:03 PM
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r/chadmaxxing Simply adopt a keto diet in order to drop your body fat and do weights at the gym 3+ times a week and have good Tinder pictures This is what I'm doing at the moment I have a long term goal of 10% body fat I've dropped 4% body fat in 2 months I already have considerable muscle and I'm gaining more I expect to have reached my goal within a year Only problem is that I'm kind of already old and wish I'd done this chadmaxing thing when I was younger so I could enjoy the rewards
/r/seduction29/10/19 07:17 PM
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How do you get access to that data?
/r/BlackPillScience29/10/19 12:36 PM
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At least if you're single you're only a slave to your own needs, if you don't count the taxes into the equation which go to welfare for raising jobless single mothers' kids Whereas if you're a beta provider male married with kids then you work and don't even get to enjoy life as everything goes towards the wife and kids Working full time and being married with kids sounds like a living hell on earth to me I would rather be an incel, volcel or a gay man than be a betabux - at least your free time…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 04:08 PM
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I am reminded of this article: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/201103/are-all-women-essentially-prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:14 AM
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The only way you get confidence is by not giving a shit Really just don't give a fucking shit That's the only reason I've ever had confidence my whole life Be yourself and if they don't like it they can get to fuck What's the worst that could happen?
/r/seduction22/10/19 08:15 PM
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Interesting, thanks
/r/BlackPillScience14/10/19 08:48 AM
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None of this advice is anything I didn't already know, although I may have the advantage of being older and more experienced than some here In particular, the bombarding with texts and calls thing strikes me as extremely beta male behaviour that smacks of desperation and fear of being alone You're far better off simply not to give a shit If a woman displays shitty behaviour then I'm quite happy to let my involvement with her end, got no need for that in my life There is also the "treat them mean…
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:43 AM
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It would be interesting to know what percentage of people are actually swiping left on you But Tinder doesn't provide that information It's also frustrating not knowing exactly what puts them off and exactly what constitutes a bad picture - there is a lot of trial and error involved It's often said that dating apps have become simply a way for the most attractive men to meet as many women as possible, with the less attractive men losing out to a much greater extent I'd say the key difference is …
/r/BlackPillScience09/10/19 09:02 AM
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It's entirely normal all right - except in Scotland where you can potentially go to jail for it: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/sleazy-pick-up-artist-addy-20175411.amp
/r/seduction09/10/19 08:34 AM
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