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I was lucky with my divorce then, in UK, we split after 12years, everything down the middle, half the house sale, half the savings, no alimony and shared care of the kids and even i wont get married again
/r/MensRights08/02/17 08:52 AM
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Look at all them cases where people sued for it going wrong, imagine the list for people just pissed off that they had it done in the first place.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 11:19 AM
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I always wondered about Americans fascination with lube for masturbation, never linked it to the high circumcision rates, makes sense now.
/r/MensRights21/01/17 01:34 PM
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Whats needed is a few high profile cases in the US of Children suing in later life. Glad im still intact.
/r/MensRights21/01/17 01:31 PM
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Im MGTOW, 4years in an happy with it all, no doubts, no regrets.
/r/MGTOW15/08/16 01:15 PM
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Its not a problem with women hating, if that's you thing but its effects on the persons psyche. As others have stated MGTOW is men going their own way, yes its beyond the red pill, but it doesn't mean you have to be bitter and angry, it can be solely self affirming act. Ranting and getting angry doesn't change Gynocentrism, actual action does, hence mens rights groups. A meme about something on reddit isn't going to change the world like picketing or marches etc but it can effect someone persona…
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 05:48 PM
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For us, we have opened our eyes to the nature of women, we have chosen not to play anymore, women are women, like lions are lions and vultures are vultures, no need to bother with all that, its time to pursue whatever life we want and to look after our own needs and desires. for me i try and improve something everyday with the old adage of mind, body and spirit. Mind with learning, body with exercise and a healthier lifestyle and spirit(as not religious) with the enjoyable side, riding motorcycl…
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 02:23 PM
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Like i say, my mistake, i've come through the other side and see people stuck in a cycle of negative thinking, its a psychologically well know thing about dwelling but people need to walk their own paths. Its like in real life seeing someone self harming in one form or another, and saying " dude, that aint helping, what up?", i should learn to walk past and say, "none of my business" but its a character flaw i need to subdue.
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 12:22 PM
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Hate means feeling something strongly towards them, ive moved beyond that, they exist like any other part of society, i just chose my interactions with them.
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 11:39 AM
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Loneliness is a phase, you will get through it and come out the other side. Don't isolate yourself though, hobbies are great ways to make new friends, the ones you lost aren't worth worrying about, break ups tend to cause people to ally with one side or another.
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 11:03 AM
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No, a concern troll is someone who isn't allied to your cause, im not that, maybe i shouldn't look out for my fellow man, in my nature i suppose.
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 10:55 AM
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Other people who want out, possibly?
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 10:50 AM
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True, but things can be fought on a issue by issue problem(if they can be fought at all in some cases), some things we can fight and address, somethings are out of our control. We cant chose the hand we were dealt sometimes, but we can chose how we deal with that hand, hell weve made the biggest improvement by walking away from the table and not playing in the first place. Im not diminishing what people are going through, but they way they look and deal with the crap they are facing. Attitude is…
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 10:49 AM
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we have freed ourselves, it should be a happy thing.
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 10:44 AM
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Guidance, support and help are what i think, the most important thing MGTOW can offer, an arm to help pull fellow men out of the relationship shit hole, but to pull them out and then spend months in a circle echoing what we know about how shit women are is holding them still partially in their suffering. From a psychological point of view, its best to help them address and overcome and put it behind them as much as possible and moving forward, we all need to overcome the past shit and move on to…
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 10:43 AM
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The point im trying to make is this, im full MGTOW, 4 years in, so not defending the other side, fuck that, im more trying to look out for the well being of people who are getting bitter by the day, there's ways of fighting specific areas, like specific aim groups, Fathers for justice etc maybe this subreddit isn't for me totally but until theres a positive attitude MGTOW sub then, this is all there is, this about sums it up: Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of thr…
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 10:34 AM
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Not just me who see's it then, like i say, im doing this is a positive way, people seem to have a problem with that, i'll leave them bitter and wasting their lives with hate. Me, ive decided to live free, no woman is getting me serenity anymore.
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 10:17 AM
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I have no problem with emotional support, hell us guys need to stop shutting down emotions and open up about whats right and wrong, but i think we need to have an external stoic look rather than an angry hater approach. We are all preaching to the converted in here, the ones on the outside having issues should be supported rather than a hater circle jerk. Out and proud, so to speak.
/r/MGTOW12/08/16 06:37 PM
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Always be cautious of anyone who discourages you from pursuing something worthwhile or positive, maybe the comments could be genuine advice, but unless its from a trusted source or friend why take it on board, Now if it was the other way and someone was encouraging you to push yourself into something more positive then it would be a different matter. There are a lot of bitter and resentful people out there with various reasons to keep their fellow man down.
/r/MGTOW12/08/16 11:13 AM
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Thats one type of MGTOW, But you don't have to isolate yourself from society, i prefer to do my own thing in whatever arena i find myself in. Im a lifelong Atheist, i never hid myself away from all the religious folk, why do any different now? I don't understand that way of thinking, i chose to stay single, thats something i carry with me, why hide that or myself away, the world has too many good things in it to isolate myself rom, including Facebook at times.
/r/MGTOW12/08/16 11:00 AM
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This is one county not the UK generally, think of it as some odd state law and it won't come to anything, The CPS(crown Prosecution service), have the same over what goes to court and they struggle with anything but cut and dry cases on proper serious crimes at times.
/r/MensRights12/08/16 10:33 AM
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I find it relaxing more than anything, thats its primary role to be, unwinding act.
/r/MGTOW12/08/16 10:18 AM
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Its an imgur link, try a pinterest https://uk.pinterest.com/pin/184295809729683684/
/r/MGTOW12/08/16 10:12 AM
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Yawn
/r/MGTOW11/08/16 04:54 PM
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Not a talent, Drawing isn't a talent, its a skill, anyone can draw, it take time and effort, the more time on paper the better you will be, that and studying what you've drawn and where you go wrong.
/r/MGTOW11/08/16 04:07 PM
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I've been shared parenting in the UK for 7years now, no issues, It must have been annoying for the Lawyers when the divorce split everything down the middle, house, savings, debts and childcare, think they lost out on some money when both parties agreed without loads of letters or arguing in court. Lawyers want disagreement, the stronger the better, else their fees will be radically reduced. We used a mediation service, held my guns to a 50/50, luckily she saw the sense of a long drawn out battl…
/r/MensRights11/08/16 11:01 AM
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Its not, i ride a Bonnie as much as possible and am rebuilding a 72 VW Camper, lift weights and read also, this is something for when its crap outside and i want to do something constructive in the evening, Its enjoyable and it shuts the brain down, and slows the heart rate, plus someone just offered to buy the finished item, so a bit of cash for a few hours unwinding. sold a couple of my others too.
/r/MGTOW11/08/16 10:42 AM
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Thanks Dude
/r/MGTOW11/08/16 10:38 AM
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share away
/r/MGTOW11/08/16 10:37 AM
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They always say, spend more time on the eyes than anywhere else.
/r/MGTOW10/08/16 06:29 PM
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yeah, don't miss those days
/r/MGTOW10/08/16 05:58 PM
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Yeah, i've moved to mechanical pencils, just 4 different grades of hardness
/r/MGTOW10/08/16 05:57 PM
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Still learning it all, way to go yet, but cheers
/r/MGTOW10/08/16 05:56 PM
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A little young ;)
/r/MGTOW10/08/16 05:56 PM
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Cheers Dude
/r/MGTOW10/08/16 03:22 PM
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why take up a hobby or two? because i enjoy it and can, without money or time constraints being questioned.
/r/MGTOW10/08/16 02:38 PM
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Theres also Megadeth- 1000 times goodbye about a guy being shat on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHlX6RMLy_k
/r/MGTOW10/08/16 02:35 PM
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Easy and cheap way to chill out, tunes on and unwind
/r/MGTOW10/08/16 01:34 PM
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MGTOW should be like vegetarianism or quitting alcohol or smoking etc, you dont need to isolate yourself or join in groups of like minded individuals, Its about cutting something out of your life and continuing on, Why avoid couples or male friends in whatever form of relationship they have chosen, it doesn't stop your inward beliefs that you carry around with you. Go out and enjoy whatever life you need, and like an ex smoker, the same applies, "no thanks i don't smoke/quit" argument in a simil…
/r/MGTOW09/08/16 11:46 AM
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The article makes out that MGTOW=Unhappy Men, maybe he was an unhappy MYGOWian but don't tarnish is all with the same brush.
/r/MGTOW09/08/16 10:34 AM
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For some, i thinks its how they feel about their long term ex after a break up, firstly you love them, then you hate them, then you feel indifferent. Long term for me is feeling indifferent, yeah you dont lose the appeal of the looks, we are human after all, but the average woman doesn't hit on your radar in the same way. I always think of it like noticing cars, a 1950's Ferrari passing you will make your head turn, maybe even have a couple of thoughts about what its like to own or drive(maybe y…
/r/MGTOW09/08/16 10:17 AM
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Still a long way off where i want to be, but then freedom give me the chance to throw the time into improving.
/r/MGTOW08/08/16 09:16 AM
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MGTOW Mainstream
/r/MGTOW07/08/16 06:58 PM
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42, UK
/r/MGTOW06/08/16 07:54 AM
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Find something to be passionate about, a skill, a hobby, a career that serves more than just financial gains.
/r/MGTOW06/08/16 07:53 AM
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Putting aside the risks involved with marriage or children or the risks of the psychotic or sociopathic women(that are higher percentage than you realise) the rewards/risks aren't worth it. Say i go along with you and agree not all women are like that, they are still a hassle, your plans, both monetary and time wise are tied into someone else's choices and issues, add to that the fact women age like milk and any relationship over time will mean a reduction in quantity of sexual encounters, whats…
/r/MGTOW05/08/16 01:27 PM
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Im in a similar situation, 50/50 split of our daughter with the ex wife, divorce split everything 50/50 and i get wed night to sun morning to live my own life and pursue my own interest's and sun to wed i get to mountain bike, hike or just chill watching films/video games, school plays etc etc etc with my daughter. Why would i change/risk that all that to settle with someone else? Ive never had more spare cash or time to myself, my daughter has my time,effort and concentration fully without anyo…
/r/MGTOW02/08/16 12:25 PM
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GTFO of there, Why waste anymore of your finite existence being that unhappy. Take the divorce hit, take the parental hit and move forward. Trust me, your resentment would get any better the longer that goes on. You have one life, live it.
/r/MGTOW31/07/16 04:57 PM
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People always talk about the same old arguments when it comes to circumcision, the pro and con argument is the petty end of the scale. The real issue is that some sick fucks are cutting off parts of a babies body for some sky god or for social norms.
/r/MensRights31/07/16 01:44 PM
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Yeah, the emotional thing can be an issue, i learnt that in the early days of trying the FB game, that's something that will go wrong at some point one way or the other and was knocked on the head pretty quickly. Saying that, there's something i am a little guilty of, i occasionally have a tendency to entice/tease sometimes, just at the initial interest levels, not for self esteem or to fill a void or any darker reason, I'm fascinated by what makes modern women(or women shaped by modern life) ti…
/r/MGTOW30/07/16 03:45 PM
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The studies showed an ideal of the Hourglass figure but being around the 18-19 BMI, so its more of a skinnier hourglass than the thicker end, though everyone has a varied taste, that's the most appealing statistically.
/r/MensRights25/07/16 05:43 PM
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The same way long term relationship people do, don't think that being MGTOW is any different to being in a relationship long term. Whatever you are feeling it is exactly the same as all those people in shitty relationships. We all know that feeling of the early throws of relationships, that connection/closeness etc etc well long term guys dont feel that ten yeares down the line, its exactly the same as what we are going through but worse, they may get laid once in a while with the same aging wom…
/r/MGTOW25/07/16 11:59 AM
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It can be amazing, though i was lucky enough to be born and grow up in simpler times, Now the risks far out weigh the benefits tbh.
/r/MGTOW23/07/16 04:45 PM
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I suppose seeing the reality of there being no god through logic, it wouldn't be hard to make the leap to the reality of no worthwhile woman using that same logic.
/r/MGTOW23/07/16 12:14 PM
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This is only happening in one place at the moment and its a great thing, the reason its great? Because it will bring it all to a head. At present, there's such a sometimes hidden bunch of issues or guys walking around with their heads in the clouds that a slow chip away by feminists goes unnoticed. This will be so huge that men will protest/go MGTOW in large numbers. Its like the old experiment/metaphor of a frog in slowly increasing water temperature will stay and boil, but place that same frog…
/r/MGTOW19/07/16 07:30 AM
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A good percentage of those can be cured by going full MGTOW
/r/MensRights12/07/16 04:28 PM
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My personal belief is to train whichever muscle groups you are working on until mmf(momentary muscle failure), drop sets are the way forward. If you are just doing those two things, then without your body pushing itself, it has no reason to grow. So for me, if im working my chest/shoulders/triceps, i'll start with weighted dips, then heavy bench work, once you are struggling drop weighs and continue, then i go onto dumbell incline/decline and flats always declining in weight, then onto lighter s…
/r/MGTOW10/07/16 05:19 PM
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First thing, i'd like to ask, well the only thing is wtf are you doing on this subreddit? im sure there is one more suitable sub for you, maybe r/JustLostMyVirginityAndNeedToTellSomeone or something similar?
/r/MGTOW06/07/16 02:46 PM
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I know me better, i know how i like spending time, i've reconnected better with friends, im healthier bother physically and financially and have time to pursue whatever fad or interest comes my way without taking anyone elses viewpoint into account.
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 08:17 AM
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If this was true, you watch the women when they start heading towards the back end of their 30's and their biological clock starts going haywire.
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 07:50 AM
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MGTOW is both freedom and control, simple as that. Look at the divorce rates anywhere in the western world, many hovering around the 50% mark, the ones who choose marriage are only out of the free way of living as long as either they or their partners choose, via a hard road of potential financial ruin. My destiny is mine and mine alone, im self sufficient and have the back up of friends if needed, whats pathetic about that ;) Ive been through a lot of relationships and have seen many too, once …
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 07:35 AM
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All a matter of perspective, both earning similar wages and she had a massive inheritance from her side of the family, i got half that too, so i'd say lucky ;)
/r/MGTOW04/07/16 12:22 PM
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Ah ok, yeah that makes more sense
/r/MGTOW30/06/16 09:18 AM
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This saying, or something similar has been going around for decades in one form of another, coconut and choc ice are two that spring to mind(eg black or brown on the outside, white on the inside). I've seen men do that to other men too or if a black man chooses another race of partner. Rise above and be who you want to be and do what you want to do.
/r/MGTOW25/06/16 07:22 PM
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Learn to be self reliant for everything, including your happiness and boredom levels, once accustomed to it, you will crave to get back to your piece and calm environment. Its just a process people go through. Also remember there is a chance that some of your co-habiting friends will be pining for your lifestyle at some point in the future and without being too pessimistic, some(by statistics) will eventually be joining you, most likely minus half their wealth.
/r/MGTOW14/06/16 12:04 PM
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Im one of the first of the Dad's who benefited from this 8 years ago, house split 50/50, savings 50/50, remaining debts 50/50 and childcare which works out pretty much 50/50(think i have slightly more time), its been like that since. She had an affair, i divorced her and she assumed she would be living in the house with my kids and the new guy while i helped pay to keep, luckily the right solicitor helped. My tip for anyone in this situation, get a Female solicitor.
/r/MensRights09/06/16 09:21 AM
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Came here to say the same thing, you dont even have to be MGTOW with some women, just being single and having a social life can cause these women to try and distance you from your buddy.
/r/MGTOW08/06/16 08:01 AM
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yeah i think so, shame theres not an option for men to filter women by gold digger status or batshit crazy index. I just hope that site and others like it are drying up on the men front. MGTOW must be changing the male/female ratio, or it will do soon
/r/MGTOW07/06/16 06:57 AM
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Ive been going down the route of minimalism/simple living before the MGTOW thing, its another bonus of singledom, you can chose a different lifestyle and not have to worry about someone coming in and altering it.
/r/MGTOW06/06/16 04:00 PM
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Any religious man isn't really going his own way, when his thoughts and actions are by following some or another Dogma, You don't get more Beta than being religious ;)
/r/MGTOW05/06/16 03:36 PM
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It can be tough making the move, but i divorced my wife years back, went through some tough times and through to a better life. You only live once, you have a finite amount of time here, so why waste it, if you dont make the move then you will be stuck where you are till the day you die, or possibly she may make a move when you are in a worse position. Plan, prepare and live the life you want
/r/MGTOW05/06/16 12:16 PM
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Yeah, looking back, the divorce was the best decision i made, its a stressful time, but gave me enough experience to not do it again ;) Desmond morris is a great author, more of a zoologist, famous books are naked ape, the human zoo, the naked man and the naked woman, but there are plenty of others too,worth a read
/r/MGTOW31/05/16 11:10 AM
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I've been MGTOW for the last 4years, i only heard of MGTOW a couple of months ago, I think there are many like me out there, once the name gets out there, people will identify with it and use the label more.
/r/MGTOW27/05/16 10:38 AM
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You say that your main objection to MGTOW is that it has no end goal. It isnt a movement in that sense, it is as bunch of individual men with different reasons, saying fuck it, fuck them, Im happy doing my own thing. Yes we could spend our lives fighting for equality with divorces, parental rights with children, rights to say no to a "trapped" pregnancy, etc etc etc. Some people are fighting that, others are happier just saying "im done" and enjoying a personal existence. I have more money now t…
/r/MGTOW14/05/16 06:22 PM
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“An intellectual is a person who has discovered something more interesting than sex.” ― Aldous Huxley
/r/MGTOW11/05/16 01:53 PM
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Yeah i agree with what your saying, im just saying that don't think being separate from any relationship, marriage or otherwise doesn't mean you are free from the trickery. The two major pitfalls are marriage and children from a legal standpoint, but the female game playing can still be used in both a financial and self esteem arena. I have been on the attempted receiving end of both these when they cant trick you into the other institutions. Tugging at your heartstrings or loins to improve thei…
/r/MGTOW09/05/16 01:37 PM
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Some of us MGTOW's have children, but as for the dying alone, being in a relationship or not doesn't mean that wont happen anyway
/r/MGTOW05/05/16 09:50 AM
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Many childhood was great, my 20's were great, my thirty's onwards not so much for the same reason many descent guys are turning away, women are given too much say over childcare and finances, they treat men like banks and don't even know what they want half the time. Sensible men are learning that subjugating yourself for sex x amount of times a year in a relationship just isnt worth the bother, stay single, stay financially better off and enjoy the freedom, the women can keep the players and bi…
/r/MGTOW04/05/16 06:31 PM
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Its also a control thing, look too good and you may get advances from elsewhere.
/r/MGTOW04/05/16 08:03 AM
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