CaptainoftheVessel Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Going out in a bit and could use some solid advice Make them like you. Engage them, joke with them, get them on your side. If you're ignoring her friends then that's not going to reflect well on you, you'll come across as chasing tail instead of being outcome independent. Don't be there for her, be there for you, which means interacting with the whole group.	/r/seduction	26/05/12 02:27 AM
1	Good at social circle game, bad with new people I do this sometimes still but I've gotten over it with a few tactics. Bring your friends along when possible. If a party with people you don't know is going on, bring someone (preferably a friend who's a girl) who you are comfortable with. Break open a group of people together and start laughing, be loud and happy and people will subconsciously like you more and new acquaintances will be easier to talk to, they may even bring up topics that lead to long conversations which takes pressure off of …	/r/seduction	26/05/12 01:42 AM
22	Is it good or bad to compliment girls? Compliments should be genuine and not so common that she gets used to them: this makes you look like a puppydog on a leash, lowering your value. You should also be tailoring your compliments to the girl; there isn't one blanket tactic that works for all women. Confident "hot-hot" girls are getting complimented all the time and to not do so makes you stand out. Shyer women are not going to be as accustomed to being complimented (just like guys) and if your comments are sweet and sincere it is oft…	/r/seduction	26/05/12 01:33 AM
1	Going out in a bit and could use some solid advice Go, be yourself, charm the shit out of her friends. I'm like you, a brewery/pub guy rather than clubgoer, but it's always good to expand your experiences. In terms of club etiquette, I'm not well versed in club logic but when I go out in SF I've found it's good to assume there's going to be more of a hostile attitude than in a pub. Other dudes are usually hyper-competitive which actually works in your favor because they come across as gorillas compared to a cool, confident alpha who doesn't give…	/r/seduction	26/05/12 01:21 AM
0	What are some things you do to make the girl you're dating chase you? This response is perfect and I have nothing to add but my upvote.	/r/seduction	21/05/12 05:26 PM
7	Girlfriend gets me jealous. I don't know how to handle it/respond. She's testing you. She wants you to assert yourself more strongly. She's communicating what's on her mind (attractive potential mate expressing interest) and giving you a heads up. You're not married, she's still free to pursue other interests, but she wants you to assert your dominance more fully, otherwise she wouldn't even be giving this kind of a heads-up. How to respond? That depends on the dynamics of your relationship. If she's a romantic type, she might want more flowers and cuddly-lovey…	/r/seduction	21/05/12 05:05 PM
7	What's a classy, cool way to handle rejection? Cool man, glad to hear it. http://i.imgur.com/KkRDf.gif	/r/seduction	18/05/12 09:16 AM
2	How to hold a conversation??? I unknowingly say the wrong thing and push people away You need to have confidence that whatever pops into your head to say is the right thing to say. A friend said to me this evening: "When talking with women, it's not important what you say but how you say it". If you think the shit you say is funny, it is. This isn't to say you should roll up dropping WoW jokes or whatever on a room full of people who aren't going to get them. Find something about the girl, the room, anything in the environment, and point it out in a joke. This takes practice and…	/r/seduction	18/05/12 08:56 AM
105	What's a classy, cool way to handle rejection? You want to indicate you are outcome-independent, right? Show the rejection hasn't rocked your boat, without coming across as childish. Note that I'm not implying your response was childish. Men accept that not every woman is feeling you; boys get their feelings hurt and show it. Something like, "Hey, that's cool, see you in class Thursday", "No worries, was just testing your waters" or a similar response indicates that you were really just feeling it out rather than getting pre-emotionally comm…	/r/seduction	18/05/12 08:39 AM