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Yeah I knew that which is why I didn't ask that question. Obviously, they still want to go there. The truth is a lot of women suck and you need to be very good at catching red flags early on. I blame men for not walking more In fairness, women on reddit are probably introverted and in the higher end of the bell curve in intelligence. I mean, what percentage of women would rather have an anonymous intellectual debate on the internet over posting on snapchat and staring at instagram? These probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 02:48 AM
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Yeah, women are attracted to muscular handsome dudes who can hold a conversation and water is wet. Sounds like you've never had a woman be in love with you before. When a woman is in love with a dude, it's like she's damn addicted. she could get offers from a guy who looks like brad pitt in troy and she'd turn him down because at the moment she sees you as her 10, like you're the only guy in the damn room. Sucks that so few guys will ever experience that. Sure, she can fall out of love and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 02:06 AM
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What if he messages you? Asks for you number? Asks you on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 12:37 AM
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Yeah obviously, hence why I don't use the apps. Women know they'll match with everyone. There's also about a thousand guys in a given area at any time. The algorithm places you in the pile based on your swipe score. Even if I'm better than 900 dudes (top ten percent) she'd still have to swipe through a 100 profiles to even see mine. I don't wanna swipe through 100 profiles, why would an attractive woman with unlimited options?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 12:24 AM
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I'm referring to after they've already been hooking up or dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 11:52 PM
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Obviously talking to a girl about her life, passions, and interests after you've been hooking up with her isn't a death sentence. But every guy agrees. The women they weren't that into stuck to them like glue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 11:50 PM
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Is this really how things typically are, or are you suffering from selection bias? I definitely have some selection bias, which is why I asked. I recently looked at a co-worker's bumble account, I'd probably rate her a 6 and would have no interest in dating her. She had 400 matches. I also mostly interact with millennial 8's and 9's with decent social circles, since that's who I know and who my friends date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 11:42 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 11:27 PM
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I mean none of these guys have problems getting dates and getting laid. But i've heard them all complain of ghosting, getting flaked on, and getting the "i'm just not looking for anything serious" lines. I'm sure they've shown signs of neediness or insecurity at times, no guy is made of stone. They're probably also going after women too attractive for them also. I just get annoyed hearing women complaining that men just want sex and women are these sweet, hurt puppies who just want a guy to care…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 11:18 PM
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Absurd, yes. Not true? debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 11:05 PM
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I mean if you think 2 recent med school grads, a financial advisor, a phD student and a military officer are irresponsible, dumb, immature, and poor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 11:04 PM
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My experience dating as an attractive woman is that men who are genuinely and earnestly interested in me as an individual are rare and special. Not something that comes by easily. It appears that when men show a genuine and earnest interest, a woman's attraction for him goes down
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 10:58 PM
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I know a lot of guys getting flaked, ghosted, and pumped n dumped themselves in todays SMP. Clearly they're attractive enough to get the dates and sex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 10:53 PM
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Do you think having the options available decreases the amount of "dread" in your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 10:39 PM
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Quick question for you. Have you ever met a person in your entire life that isn't better than you in some way? Better than me in SOME way? Yes...I'm talking about better as in more attractive, bigger social circle, more resources In your grandmothers era she probably only interacted with a limited number of men before she met your grandfather. It's easy to be content when you only had a few options. But trying to choose from hundreds or even thousands? My grandma stayed married to an abusive alc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 10:36 PM
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Why is the description of men so black and white. Like either 6’4’ model handsome rich dude with exciting life or 5’6 chubby average boring guy. I’ve seen women branch swing to uglier guys and more boring guys. Chad is whoever she “thinks” is chad at that moment And just like women shouldn’t accept being number 10 in line from chad, men shouldn’t accept being number 2 from Stacy. Don’t be an orbiter. Get better and only date women who think you’re the prize
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 03:21 PM
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Never read that. But I am a history nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:29 PM
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I'm as declawed as a modern man can be. But at the end of the day I can't actually assert my physical dominance, or i'll go to jail and no woman truly NEEDS me for any resources, she can make her own money and rely on the state
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:15 AM
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false
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:01 AM
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I don't underestimate women in modern society where men are basically declawed cats
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:46 AM
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I have a younger sister. Between having a strong caring father figure and strong caring brother figure my sister has the least daddy issues I’ve ever seen. This definitely impacted her growing her. She only dates good quality men who treat her very well. But she’s also not very feminine, rarely wears makeup, and does not need much validation from men etc. Since she’s five years younger than me, she had very little impact on my behavior, if at all. maybe feeling like I need to be a “protector” a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 08:45 PM
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Throughout time women were never left to decide what males got to reproduce and had no say. They were basically just receptacles. In pre historic times this was often the biggest, strongest male like in the animal kingdom. In ancient times, sometimes this was a physically smaller but much higher IQ male who figured out how to kill all the other competing males through the invention of tools. (Hence why humans have evolved to be more intelligent and not all 6’5 beasts) as we formed tribes a wide …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 07:18 PM
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Ignore it. If she was actually feeling insecure about the relationship due to me being busy, distant, or too much dread and was employing a comfort test, she wouldn’t be asking for flowers, she’d be asking for more of my time or emotional reassurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:26 PM
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I like how all these blue pillers are giving answers that are literally trp and pua advice on how to have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:09 PM
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No, I mean guys who have written successful red pill books, manosphere websites, and aren’t pick up artists. Not angry incels and mgtows that post on reddit It’s not actively looking for a LTR, it’s being open to one if the right woman pops up. And that happens for most red pillers while spinning plates eventually. It’s also called “dating” and most normal people do this Like I said red pill discourages getting drunk to be able to talk to women, it’s a crutch. It also discourages hooking up with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:59 PM
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TRP actually encourages not to do that and instead tell women you don’t want to be monogamous if that’s the case. It honestly sounds like you’re hooking up with too many chads, not just red pill guys. Try dating in more towards to 20 percentile SMV and you probably won’t have these problems
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:51 AM
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Lol most of the famous RPers are married. “Spinning plates” just means going out with someone to determine if they have the qualities you want in an LTR and if not, keep them as a FWB. The terminology just sounds harsh. I’m also pretty sure TRP explicitly discourages hooking up with girls who have had a lot to drink
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:40 AM
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And most guys do. If you ask a guy three to four months in to define the relationship and he won’t give you a straight answer, that is his decision. For some reason, you’re not LTR material. But unlike women, we still have sex with women were not super into and don’t see any future with, so you stay a plate. Women, on the other, will pretty much lose all interest in that, and won’t keep a guy around for anything if they don’t want a LTR with him after 3-4 months
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:31 AM
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Most guys who aren’t top 1 percent alpha fucks who never commit to anyone or bottom level beta niceguys are pretty up front about their intentions. They want to have sex with you and keep you around for that but are open to LTR if you continually show traits and behaviors that warrant it. Most women just eventually fail before they prove they’re anything better than a plate. I’m not being lieing when I say “let’s see where it goes” I literally just want to see where it goes and see what you’re a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:00 AM
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My own theory is that the decline of America and the West has been happening for decades and was only sped up by the technological age but its not the historical way we think of a decline and there will be no anarchy or poverty and people living off the land. Russia never stopped fighting the Cold War, they abondoned military tactics to focus entirely on technology, spying, and infiltrating our government. Divide and conquer was also the plan. America is already a conquered nation, we just haven…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 05:33 PM
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Have you ever thought that maybe you just naturally have low social anxiety and the self confidence to pull your own strings? Maybe this doesn't come naturally for some guys, especially young ones. Maybe you also got lucky and found a good woman with traditional values, but not all male experiences with women are like that? I also doubt your wife would complain if you put on 10 pounds of muscle. I think the current mass media, pop culture, narcissist social media world is moving away the focus o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 07:02 PM
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All situational. The stoic, intelligent, articulate young professor will be much more attractive giving a college lecture than a fun, cocky, outgoing, average intelligence guy attempting a lecture. But who do you think will be more attractive at a bar crawl or house party? I have been told Justin Bieber, Obama, Atticus Finch, Conor Mcgregor, Paul Rudd, and the Rock are all extremely attractive by women. That's a whole lot of different personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:42 PM
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Pretty awful ideas all around. And truly sad that so many guys will never experience a woman being truly sexually attracted to them, so they'll actually believe this. Explains a lot of men hamstering "duty sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:14 PM
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I will never understand the level of scarcity a guy has to be at to take back a woman who cheated on him. The situation is irrelevant. I'll walk after the slightest hint of emotional cheating. Hell, disgusts me if plates want to hook up with other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 05:42 PM
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Bodybuilding is caring about your health an appearance. Most women are more attracted to guys who looks like they takes care of themselves. PUA is basically just risk exercises in rational emotive behavior therapy which is very effective in helping people overcome social anxiety and become more comfortable in their own skin. Alot of the tactics are just to make guys "feel" less nervous, like they have a set of instructions. In reality they get good with women because they've overcome their socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:54 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen lots of introverted girls behave this way with girl games, most of them just get really drunk to be able to compete on the extrovert level. You probably could be naturally good at them as an extrovert, you just don’t like them so you don’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 03:50 PM
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God women have the most annoying social skills. I barely understand being an orbiter for sexual goals, but orbiting for friendship? It’s also annoying listening to a woman talk shit about a friend behind her back for weeks and call her annoying and then drunkenly hugging, screeching, and acting like 15 year old bffs out. I genuinely feel bad for women. I hate shallow, fake interactions...must suck to have most of your social life based around them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 10:43 AM
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If you are top 20% appearance wise, no woman is going to think you're a creep or rapey by starting up a normal conversation or saying hi. If she is not responding positively, you politely stop trying. No harm, no foul. I'd even argue that as long as you're not extremely strange looking, and she's not an awful bitch, you will not seem creepy or rapey starting a normal conversation. Now if you walk up to a chick at a club and say "damn, nice ass," or yell something sexual in a public place, if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 01:43 AM
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I was being facetious, but you know what I meant. I have never seen a woman truly love more than one man at a time. Take alpha widows with a new boyfriend. Yea, she might "like" things about her new boyfriend, but she's still only "in love" with the guy who widowed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 04:42 PM
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No it's not hypergamy because men have no light switch effect. A man can cheat on his wife with a hotter, younger woman and then still love his wife. If there were no societal restraints he would keep both, i.e polygomy. We still see that today. Alot of high SMV men have a hot mistress on the side, very few leave and forget their current wife for the mistress. Most men won't drop all of their plates just because they got a new one is the hottest. Women can only give their undying affection and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 03:46 PM
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I think for alot of red pillers AWALT is just a meme for hope for the best but expect the worst. Outcome independence. But blue pillers only see the "expect the worst" part. I would hope my partner wouldn't branch swing if something bad happens to me or a better option popped up, but I won't be surprised if she does. AWALT. Blue pillers expect the best but then are shocked when the worst happens. Fake red pillers expect the worst and are then still shocked when the worst happens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 07:05 AM
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It's always funny seeing the difference between the average man and "woman average." it's even funnier the moment you realize the difference. I remember in high school, I knew in a room of 100 guys I was facially better looking than about 80 of them. But I was skinny and not the most masculine looking. I had no shortage of girls interested in me and had no problem with women whatsoever. I thought this was because I was hot or very attractive. But in reality I just had high school social status, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 01:38 AM
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you could still WANT to, you just can't in the genetic lineage sense. But you could still have a family and adopt kids. Your circumstances don't define you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 12:30 AM
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yeah, to do that without a blip you'd have to be atleast in top 1 percent of income if not higher. But any decently well off single guy could do this. I also don't understand how it's so weird, untested, and like to screw up. There are thousands of single dads who raised great kids. They have shown statistics of children of single father households doing much better than in households of single mothers. It's exactly the same thing just intentional single fatherhood instead of by windower, divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 04:11 AM
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some were amazing and caring...until they weren't. some it was bad timing. some I fucked up/was too immature. the ones I still think of fondly probably ended prematurely so things never went south. I haven't completely ruled it out (why i'm not 100% red pill) , it just seems like poor odds and too much risk at the current times
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 04:04 AM
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No, i'd intend to do most of the raising, nanny would have the most use before kids are school age when i'd need someone to watch them while I work, help with feeding, changing diapers, etc. Once the kids are middle school age i'd probably have no nanny in the picture at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:16 AM
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I mean the divorce rate is 50 percent. and that's including older generations where divorce was much more frowned upon. plus it's religious people who got married as virgins keeping that number even respectable. People who get married who both had N-counts over 10 have something like an 80 percent divorce rate. What percentage of 25-35 millennial women have an n-count lower than that? And even with all of this there are still people who don't have the balls to cut the the tie for various which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 01:46 AM
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I've never heard of any nanny or housekeeper making anywhere near 100k, but maybe closer to 40k. but you're also offering her room and board. Plus once the kids are school age, you'll need alot less of her services
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 01:38 AM
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I'm assuming you're blue pill and probably got married 20 plus years ago. Women just don't have that "build a life and stay by your side" belief in this current generation. There are still great women out there, I've had STRs and LTRs with amazing feminine and caring women. And i've experienced their complete devotion and love and it's one the greatest experiences man can have. But even so, that love and devotion is only temporary. Her love is conditional. The good times can't last forever and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 01:31 AM
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lol most mothers aren't nurturing once the kid can talk back and isn't cute anymore. suffocating, babying, and nagging maybe but very rarely nurturing. Plus they are usually awful at discipline. Some fathers can be very caring and have way more empathy than the mother. When a little boy has a bad dream who do they look for, mom or dad? When a teenage daughter gets dumped who does she run to, mom or dad? I'm obviously discounting abusive, aggressive fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 01:18 AM
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Almost every person I've met with no father figure is pretty fucked up. Only known a few kids with no mother, but all were pretty well functioning people. Kids only really need a mother for feeding, bathing, etc. etc. once a child is old enough to form their own opinions, I'd say a mother is a hinderance to personal growth if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:57 AM
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Why is a single father with a nanny a broken home? One of the most mentally stable and successful guys I know was raised by a single father after his mom died. Many well off children are raised by a nanny while dad works his ass off and mom is out being a trophy wife spending his money. If the wife wasn't in the picture he'd probably need to work less and could spend alot more time with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:34 AM
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Seems like a cop out, man because it's "too hard." Props to you if you really feel that way deep down, would make life alot simpler
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:30 AM
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"Hey just letting you know I have cameras around to check on my house and kids when I'm not there. Here's a legal consent form that I need you to sign. You don't have to sign it, but if you don't i'll find another employee who will" Plus the most expensive thing in my house right now that isn't locked up is this laptop, which might be worth 500 bucks now. If someone is willing to risk a nice livelihood over an easy 500 bucks I'd want to know so I don't have really stupid employees. That's also l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:26 AM
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Yeah I want to feel better that I walked away at the right time. I also do wonder what I did wrong and if there’s anyway to avoid it in the future or will this always happen at some point. You can bang 1000 trashy girls you don’t really care about much, over 10 years but the second that “one” pops up you’ll eventually lose your edge, start to care, and she’ll get bored
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:22 PM
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My mind frame just sorta changed from “you’re holding a bomb that could explode an anytime proceed with caution” to “this woman loves me and I can trust her.” I did not become needy, the week the change started to happen she texted me three days in a row, me none but then was a little distant in person. The last week I only called once to find out plans for Saturday, 5 min phone call. Now, internally I felt it but I kept my distance and never showed it. She even said to me two weeks ago “you’re …
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:14 PM
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https://www.artofmanliness.com/2016/11/14/hector-achilles-two-paths-manliness/ aom not always great, but a good read on the topic. chad has existed since the beginning of time
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:50 PM
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I know it sounds kind of lame, but has anyone considered the foreign women route? Or maybe at least other countries to move to? Maybe even just moving to a small town in the south. I don't really wanna live life having to replay every encounter I ever have with women in my head or looking over my shoulder thinking "what if". MGTOW just seems like a cop out and a waste of hard work.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 08:17 PM
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I think it would have made your dads life to have known that this is how much you cared, respected, and valued him. That alone, I’m sure, made all his sacrifice worth it. I’m sure on his death bed, he doesent give a fuck about his lazy aging wife or his “accident” of a daughter. He cares that he had a son, and someone to carry on his last name. Don’t ever expect women to have empathy, they have none and never will. Biology has trained them to just pick up and move one when the provider alpha mal…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 04:53 PM
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All true, and a pill you must swallow. I myself have always been a good friend to other men especially high smv, good wing man and good person to confide in. So I’ve befriended many chads has bee the years as both close friends and drinking buddies. Take solace, all chads time in the sun eventually ends. Best friend in high school, 6’3 looked 22 at 16, captain of football team. Today is fat, married, and has to bang call girls. Room mate in college, 6’5, model good looking, looked at weights and…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 09:02 PM
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They will never end. But you will get better at handling them and most will start to just brush off you like nothing. Things that I would have once gotten angry or annoyed about now i just instinctively amplify, laugh off, or shoot back a witty comment. Eventually you start to not feel like your being “shit tested” by equals or superiors but instead feel like you’re in a room with a bunch of children
/r/askTRP13/11/17 04:02 AM
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yeah, this is why people get alpha and obnoxious douche confused.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 05:48 PM
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I’ve actually wondered about this. I’ve had an interest in joining for a while. My grandfather was a Freemason. Does this mean I’ll have an easier time starting the process of joining, like getting a sponsor and everything? My dad didn’t like it and says it’s just a bunch of old men, what would your say is the ideal age to join and be a part of it?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 02:11 PM
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You won’t because true alphas treat everyone petty much the same. They don’t put women on a predistile and they don’t put other alpha dudes on a pedistile. People confuse “alpha” with “obnoxious douche” a lot. You are only the alpha when you can pretty much control the frame of the situation whenever you want.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:25 AM
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Most trp are against marriage but if you want to be a father its kinda hard not to. Even If it is just “your turn” imo you can find women who are intelligent, kind, have good jobs, and want to be mothers. But be very selective. Obviously you don’t believe you’ll live happily ever after with some bullshit soul mate romance but if you view marriage as more of a contractual agreement like they did 100 years ago it’s do-able. It’ll probably end in divorce at some point by if you can get 15-20 years …
/r/askTRP12/11/17 02:52 AM
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Sex, love, attraction, and protection are all tied into one for women. If they lose one they lose all. It’s biological evolution to make sure they only reproduce with the best mate. Once they deem you an unsuitable mate for any reason, there is no reason to keep you around. Hence they have no hang ups about leaving you in search of what biology is telling them is a “better mate than you.” Men don’t have this same connection, they are not all tied in, so we lose love, we can still be sexually att…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 04:39 PM
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Your mindset should not be “aw man she canceled on me an hour before our date, how do I still get a date with her?” It should be “she canceled on me an hour before a date, that is really rude. Next” if you get canceled on your response should always be “i understand” and then never initiate contact again. unless she profusely apologizes, gives a valid excuses (had to take someone to the hospital etc etc) and asks if your free another night to make up for it
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:19 AM
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Feminism when they want it, chivalry when they don’t. You handled this as good as possible but it’s an unwinnable situation. Don’t get me wrong, I’m completely against men paying especially that early and in this current hyper-feminist culture . But It’s best to just avoid it all together, no meals for a first, 2nd, 3rd, or 4th date. For a first date meet for a drink. Get there first and order your own from the bar, take it to an outside table to greet her when she shows up. Pay problem solved.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:21 PM
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No, that will not solve anything. Lift, do other shit, repeat
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:56 AM
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It’s not a downer. People have emotions, you can’t destroy them, but you can do things to control them
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:29 AM
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Oneitis never goes away, we are not robots. It always has the capability to ceep back up with any girl. I have three plates right now. 1 i like more than the others. This is oneitis but women only take up maybe 10 percent of my life. So she takes up maybe 5 percent, so if she left tomorrow it’d have a pretty small impact on me. Your oneitis is so crippling and your so depressed but this girl basically consumed your life, she played a huge part in your life, you spent hours of your own time talki…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:11 AM
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I’ve honestly never had a girl suggest a second date during the first date and then had her flake or ghost me. This is a fake problem. You set up plans, and after the date 0 contact until maybe two hours before the date, unless she initiates something. Don’t attempt to look busy and aloof, actually be busy and aloof. I’m not too busy to throw a girl a bone on a date if I’m enjoying her company and say “okay I’m kinda busy this week but come over Saturday night around 8 or so” and set it up since…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:54 AM
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Just stick to basic topics. “Did you do the homework?” “What do you think of xyz teacher?” For openers. Try keep open ended questions that require a longer answer once you’re in the convo “how do you not like xyz teacher, he’s so funny” also try to be the positive one in the topic while also disagreeing. This allows you to be challenging without sounding like a dick. You’re in school so most likely the convos will be limited in length by teacher involvement. Speak up in class. Not to tell a dumb…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:35 AM
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Honestly, ive noticed trp kinda sucks at giving hs advice. I’m guessing it’s because most readers didn’t come into their own until after hs so thinking about hs just leaves a bad taste in their mouth. HS can actually be the easiest and best time of your life, if you workout, dress well, are clean and can hold a conversation. you’re literally in the top 1 percent of guys your age. Stay focused on yourself but take advantage of the logistics of your situation. There will never be another time in y…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:50 AM
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Lift for two years or more, dress well, look presentable, and be over 5’8. Boom, 20 percent. This means that you are in the group that women find visually appealing and evolution tells them they should be attracted to. the “20 percent” is just a metaphor for appearance. That’s the first step, get looking good out of the way. Being in the top twenty percent does not mean you have won the game and will now get laid left and right, it just means you’re now capable of playing. I lift, go to the barb…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 12:27 AM
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I was never ugly but I went into high school weighing 96 lbs. after years of lifting I just make it into the top 20. I am not a chad and have never been one. Yeah, you need to be in the top 20 percent that goes without saying. But ANY dude can get there unless you have some kind of medical issue. 1 percent of guys are chads but I’d say more than 1 percent get with hot women. They just have to work a little harder. “Game” doesent exist in the sense that some of you view it like magical pick up ar…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:10 PM
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You hate the song and dance because you suck at it. Talking to women should be fun because you’re fun. Talking to women sucks if you’re solely invested in the outcome. If you KNOW you’re charismatic, funny, and interesting if the conversation starts to suck you know it’s not you, she’s just a bitch or not interested. You’ll just happily move on to try to find an enjoyable conversation with the next one. If you’re insecure every interaction will feel like a battle
/r/askTRP09/11/17 12:16 AM
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I’ve read quite a bit on it repeatedly. It’s a hard concept to grasp tbh, and even harder to internalize. I feel Like I’m getting it confused with “playing it cool and not showing that things phase you” I’ve used that russel brand video as my example. I know “read the side bar” But is there a huge difference?
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:46 PM
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Read through your post and have a questions about a Gronk. I have a home gym but use my neighborhood gym maybe three times a week for different equipment. It’s usually almost empty but Often times there is a gronk there. Hes in average shape, blasts his music out loud, wears one of those high altitude breathing mask things while working out, sings along to his music very loud, leaves his weights out, just all around inconciterate. I just put my head phones in and ignore him unless he gets in my …
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:06 PM
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Go on the date (get there first and order your own drink or something inside and take it to an outside table you’re not paying) when she shows up work the magic, escalate with her. If you rope her in, make her a plate. If she was just looking for an orbiter, no harm no foul, never speak to her again
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:12 PM
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You knew about all the orbiters, you still stayed. She sexted ex’s, you still stayed. If she was a plate, you would’ve never known she was doing this shit, but she was a girlfriend and you let her misbehave. If a little kid misbehaves and you say “that was very naughty” they will just do it again and not think twice about it. If you put them in time out for an hour or spank them, they won’t do it or atleast be very cautious. She may have played like she was sorry but you have her no real dread, …
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:11 PM
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Good job man! Don’t get guilt or “nostalgia goggles” as long as you have absolutely 0 contact what so ever , within a moth you’ll have moved on and be very happy.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:04 PM
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Good job man! Just avoid guilt and “nostalgia goggles”. Within a month of absolutely 0 contact you will move on and be very happy.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:02 PM
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Always weird when dudes on trp refer to other guys as hot
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:13 AM
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Exactly but if you ever quote this in normal society you’re a sexist mysogonist woman hater who is also a racist that worships Donald trump. So we’ll all just just keep doubling down on a system that sucks for everyone
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:05 AM
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I said that’s how it used to be and was one of the factors in why dread was sort of “built in”. Most women don’t actually want careers or to be leaders or to pay for the meal on a date they want the OPTION to do those things. Actually doing them makes the majority of them miserable. Even career women are much happier when they have a family, the husband works, and they move to working part time.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:13 AM
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Nah man. Race is a social construct. There really is actual no such thing as “race”. There is no actual biological reason for any race to do things different from one another. However women and men ARE biologically different. Their strengths and abilities evolved differently to keep the species alive. But you sound like one of those propaganda machines that automatically associates the entire red pill with the alt right and racism even though I never see anyone post shit like that. I voted for B…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:26 AM
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Yeah man it sucks. It’s society now a days. 100 years ago if a woman got cheated, got a divorce, wasn’t a virgin or wasn’t married by 20 she was basically damaged goods and no man would want her. Plus a woman’s place was barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. Most rarely left the house and their whole live revolves around their husband and family. Most women didn’t even the option to attempt hypergamy. So basically what we call “dread” was sort of built in to their life. “Dread” was sort of set u…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:58 AM
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No, women will literally spend their entire lives doing everything in the book that goes against feminism while wearing a “future is female” shirt. It is all a shit test, literally laugh at it (to yourself not out loud) you cannot sit their and rationally explain it because women function on emotion. Every time you hold frame against a sjw, and don’t give a reaction, you’ve helped fight against it. Every time you alpha widow a girl, you e helped fight against it. But no, you can never explain to…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:26 PM
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Zyzz
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:09 PM
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Yeah, make it clear from the beginning which behaviors you will not accept and walk away if they’re violated. That will limit most shitty behavior but you can’t prevent it all. I could date a girl, do everything right, have a frame like a steel wall and she runs into some rich, handsome celebrity who offers her a million to fuck him. But I know if that did happen, I’d just walk away and if I was in the same position but with a female celebrity, I’d do the same thing
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:13 PM
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Jesus man, everything about this girl is awful. Move to a new address, dump her over text, and have her number permanently blocked. And no you’re not too kind, or too good, but you are soft and self righteous. Volunteering, taking care of a sick relative, and mentoring an underpriveledged kid make you a good, kind person not staying with a physcopath because you like how she looks naked or taking shit from other people for no reason
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:45 PM
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Not sure how reading a bunch of stories of how women were awful and caused guys to still have a chip in their shoulder will keep you OUT of anger phase but It’s all about acceptance. It’s not that women, or even people in general are shitty. It’s that all women, and all people really, are CAPABLE of being shitty. That’s the way it is. And it’s not their fault, it’s your fault for allowing them to be shitty. Women have done bad things to me, but I’ve done bad things to women too. Just tell yourse…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:28 PM
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This is one of the issues I have with TRP. They act like being an “interesting” person is a one size fits all. Do certain things and you’ll magically be the most interesting man in the world. Yeah, “rock climbing, surfing, mma, alligator wrestling, and yacht partying” are traditionally ”cooler”. You have things you enjoy but want to change so others will then just know you’re interesting without you have to actually be interesting. Russel Brands hobbies are meditation, and reading and I can’t th…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 01:05 PM
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Safe: career, college, mutual friends, hometown, college major, hobbies, etc. basic background things. These are good for the first 10 minutes or so. It allows you to get a profile, break the ice, and start to feel comfortable Low risk: light teasing like “haha can’t believe you were a sorority girl. You paid for your friends?” I’m insulting but it’s something she did along time ago and probably feels it was a waste of money in retrospect. I wouldn’t insult her career choice now. Disagreeing wit…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:18 PM
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Honestly it’s a tight web to weave. I have worked hard at it and I don’t doubt there are some women out there who legitimately hate my guts. But being polarizing will work much better at actually getting women attracted to you. You have to say confident and good at handling shit test because they will come flying. I was friendly and stayed away to triggering topics for a while in college, longest dry spell of my life. Some Chads can get away with just being nice and boring because their appearan…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:13 PM
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Work on finding “your place”. Like an area with a few resteraunts, pubs, outside sitting areas etc that you like going to. Then try to make that your default. You can move from location to location easier and even just walk and talk if it’s going well. This way when you’re out on the date you feel comfortable with the setting, plus you know where you’re going at all times so you can be the leader. Will make showing your confidence and escalating much easier.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:26 PM
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Sounds like you have no capability of balance. First you were trying to be mr popular and letting your friend dictate your life and now you’re gonna try to become a recluse. Be social, have friends, hook up with girls and set aside time to study and lift ever week.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:01 PM
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Rule of thumb, apologize if you really fuck something up and even then do it light heartedly with confidence. This is for life situations, like if I screw up a work assignment or sometming. Still don’t say “I’m sorry” I usually say “my bad” or “yeah that was my fault.” And then just move on like it never happened
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:52 PM
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Yes, yes they do. Obviously it’s better to be short and jacked than short and skinny. But women are cruel especially about height. I honestly think you’re full of shit because I’ve never met a single 5’5 Guy who’s done well with women. Maybe 5’8 who lies and says he’s 5’10 (short women won’t even notcie)
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:36 PM
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“Go lift, change how you dress, make money, up your smv. But don’t try to help your height just be yourself.” Fucking do it man, I’m 6’ft and only wear big ass boots with lifts when I’m out, makes me like 6’2. No one has ever noticed except a close few guys friends who now do the same thing when we go out (one of them is 6’4 wanted to be 6’6). You think when you take all of your clothes off a girl would even notice, she’s got her heels off too. Many will argue with me but I truly believe height …
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:28 PM
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Jeez you high schoolers are the worst. This is literally the easiest time in your life especially socially. Its all there, set up for you. I was 100 lb goober in hs and probably got laid the most in my life. No other time in your life will girls literally be forced into the same room as you, where they basically have to sit next to you and interact . As long as your funny and not hideous you'll do just fine. Its only gonna get harder from here when you get to college and have to compete with gro…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 07:30 AM
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Looking like channing tatum or brad pitt. Obviously the generic "up your smv: lift, haircut, clothes, etc" comment. Or if you're just not super good looking figure out your "niche". If I had a man bun, tatoos, and worse skinny jeans I wouldn't go to a sports bar. I'd go to a hipster bar. Its also probably the places you're going. When I go to college bars girls are younger, drunker, less guarded and I stand out looking like a man so more IOIs. At a coffee shop with people in their early 30's alo…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 01:16 AM
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Yes, you got the itis. Cut all communication. Within a month you'll no longer care at all. And having those feeling isn't because you used to be blue pill. Those feelings happen naturally when you put too much energy in one girl. Diversification, and if one of your investments keeps going down, cut your losses and forget about it
/r/askTRP05/11/17 01:04 AM
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Not even, it's more like top 10 percent now. you need a 10/10 pic of your face. 10/10 pic of your body (not a selfie, needs to be an outdoor activity taken naturally) and a 10/10 pic of you doing something awesome or with a dog. But even then ymmv. I had a friend who was pretty much a Chad, at one point I think he had like 1,000 tinder matches and most were pretty hot. He still gets more matches than all the other guys I know but he says it's like 1/100th of what it was. Basically all the pussy …
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:53 AM
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Thanks, mate. Some really good stuff there. But it still just grinds my gears that all these extra precautions have to be made in our current culture. I haven't been alone in a room with a female co-worker under 50 or female client period since I started for this very reason. I used to love meeting women at bars, now it's tainted. I just know these weren't constant things that my father's generation and grandfather's generation of men had to worry about on a regular basis, if at all and I think …
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:17 AM
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I love what I do. It gives me a real sense of purpose in life. even if co-workers are less than ideal and my side business only supplements the income. plus I know I'd miss it. I see happy masculine men as well, but not that many and most are divorced or over 45, usually both. I see almost none in my own age group except the occasional oblivious 6'4 250 lb good looking dude. Hell we have a subreddit with hundreds of thousands asking for advice because they don't even know how to be that kinda gu…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 11:26 PM
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My bad I'll make sure my next post will be asking for advice on how to get over my ex girlfriend, what split will get me jacked the fastest, or some big long detailed story asking how I "failed some girls shit test" when she just wasn't that interested in me. since that seems to be where this sub is going
/r/askTRP04/11/17 11:15 PM
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not preaching. said it once in context of a convo, did not go over well and i've learned my lesson. I work in a field that is 80% female dominated, I hear the hamster of what they think all day long irl. Jeremy Piven, Ben Afflack, and George H.W. Bush are currently defending their reputations over "sexual harrasment." My entire news feed was "me too" for 48 hours. I have since deleted all social media. If that doesen't atleast concern you, a guy who posts on TRP, I can't imagine where society wi…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 11:02 PM
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Sit in a room full of people and say "i think we should encourage young boys to show their masculinity. boys will be boys" see how well it goes over
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:47 PM
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Obviously, but this isn't about trying to convince other guys where their thinking is wrong. Guys are blue pilled and most wanna stay that way. This is dealing with these situations for myself. I view it as practice for non sexual relationships that I'm going to have to deal with. When it's girls i'm dating or something, I've let them into my world so I can just take them out if i don't like something. But I feel like the worst shit tests come from women you work with, girlfriends friends, frien…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 08:25 PM
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That's exactly more or less how I handled myself, "jeeze for someone who hates it so much you seem pretty obsessed with it" but then another shit test "yeah (insert room mates name) isn't fucking you." It's just usually after enough tests they eventually quit tell my friends something like "he's an asshole but he's pretty funny." But it just didn't seem to be working. Do i just double down and eventually she'll crack first?"
/r/askTRP28/10/17 08:23 PM
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