Caqumba Archive

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14	Men who get one-night stands, how do you do it? Every person finds their style tbh. After you see enough cues, you're already in, you just need to keep escalating. Prolonged eye contact? You can probably go for a kiss at that point, and let hands go where they may from there. Just find a way to initiate kissing (as long as the cues mentioned above are present) and you're golden at that point. Kissing leads to touching, leads to sex. That part is simple. The hard part is finding the person who wants to do it and building up the interaction to …	/r/seduction	13/10/25 02:16 AM
12	Men who get one-night stands, how do you do it? What's missing is likely your ability to close, more than anything else.	/r/seduction	13/10/25 01:33 AM
19	My best tips to get pretty girls to chase (been doing this for 15 years) In short, maintain an abundance mentality.	/r/seduction	10/06/25 01:48 PM
1	Too old at 43? Did you read the "unless it's sexual" part of my comment? I didn't say it was never gonna happen, lol	/r/seduction	09/06/25 02:03 PM
2	Too old at 43? Too old for what exactly? There's nothing wrong with putting yourself out there at any age, but your expectations have to be reasonable. Are you too old for 20 year olds? Yeah, probably, unless you're pursuing something exclusively sexual, then some will be into that. You're definitely not too old for most women in their 30s or older, so there's no problem, really.	/r/seduction	09/06/25 12:44 AM
8	Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first date Well, sure, but the real message there is they want a guy to show he's invested upfront. The best way is obviously to get to know a person before becoming invested. Interest can be mismatched (as it often is) leading to an unpleasant dynamic. Also, throwing money at a person is both a waste of resources, and it can occasionally backfire by making the person feel uncomfortable about not wanting to continue the interaction. It just introduces way too much risk. Nevertheless, one can't be too bothe…	/r/seduction	24/05/25 07:23 PM
4	Why I Refuse to Choose Between Casual Sex and Monogamy This isn't really anything new. Everyone understands that monogamy, non-monogamy, casual dating, etc. are options. People tend to hover more towards monogamy or hooking up because those are the things that make the most sense to them among the available possibilities. There's a reason these are part of the social norm, they fit the most people. Sure, some people benefit more from a nuanced, different path, but societies are but to benefit the majority rather than each individual.	/r/seduction	24/05/25 09:51 AM
1	The feeling after your first approach is so freeing Pretty sure that's just part of the seven stages of grief.	/r/seduction	23/05/25 08:03 PM
3	What are your guys favorite conversation starters to use? Honestly, that's the mark of a good storyteller/charismatic person in general. This advice isn't just good for "picking up women." It's just how to be a more interesting and likeable person to everyone.	/r/seduction	22/05/25 03:34 PM
31	What are your guys favorite conversation starters to use? I think conceptually, it's relatively simple. Don't ask her math questions or propose philosophical dilemmas. You're not there to show her you have interesting questions or intelligence. Instead, ask her how she feels about something in the environment or something she told you about.	/r/seduction	21/05/25 04:49 AM
11	Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7? Multiple things can help: 1. Looksmaxxing, though this would technically increase your ranking. 2. Personality. Having an attractive, magnetic personality (e.g., being charismatic, nice, funny, smart, charming, confident) can be a substantial asset. 3. Nichemaxxing. Similar to personality, but this is more about the vibe you give off. If you're a 6-7 nichemaxxing, some women who are into the niche you choose may view you as an 8 or 9. 4. Obvious, but social status, which of course includes money…	/r/seduction	20/05/25 06:27 PM
194	Why are women physically attracted to guys with a porn star profile? Physical traits of masculinity are a primal attraction. Consider this: modern gender roles are relatively newer things in the grand scheme of human evolution. We love to believe we are evolved and beyond it, but what excites us hasn't changed much over the course of our development. We are curious about mysterious things, we fear danger, but we also find it exhilarating to an extent. Women like muscular (not excessive ofc), fit men. Men like curvy women. This will never change. Sexual interest i…	/r/seduction	20/05/25 04:16 PM
1	You’re Not Bad at Flirting - You’re Just Learning It the Wrong Way The man, the myth, the legend	/r/seduction	04/05/25 04:12 AM
1	You’re Not Bad at Flirting - You’re Just Learning It the Wrong Way It would be if my second point didn't exist. The logic is more sound on mine because it is also in keeping with the character of the person behind the quote. This is why it's important to understand where quotes come from and how the people who say them tend to think.	/r/seduction	03/05/25 09:57 AM
3	You’re Not Bad at Flirting - You’re Just Learning It the Wrong Way Most quotes tend to be vague and left open to interpretation. Logically, any martial artist should know that doing the same exact thing with no variations of that thing a million times would be a waste of time and effort since he has limited himself to the point where his practice has become useless.	/r/seduction	03/05/25 09:44 AM
3	You’re Not Bad at Flirting - You’re Just Learning It the Wrong Way This quote captures that. It's not saying to use the same kick in the same context every time. If you read between the lines, you realize that one of the reasons practicing the same kick 10,000 times is so much more valuable is that you master it to the point where you can apply it across multiple contexts. For example, any kick could be shot high, medium or low, and from various angles, and in response to different attacks. It's still the same kick you're practicing, but the application varies …	/r/seduction	03/05/25 09:16 AM
95	You’re Not Bad at Flirting - You’re Just Learning It the Wrong Way "I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced 1 kick 10,000 times."	/r/seduction	03/05/25 08:28 AM
3	Women's respect It's simple in concept. People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. If you don't want to be treated with disrespect, don't allow it. Will some people leave your life if you create that boundary? Yes, absolutely. But let's face it, you never really wanted those people around anyway.	/r/seduction	01/05/25 11:44 PM