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why would I want to trap a guy into marrying me for sex? Why wouldn’t I deliberately find someone who loves me and is compatible with me and isn’t just marrying me because they’re desperate to get laid ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:52 PM
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super simplistic and childish way to view the world. I’m sorry that you didn’t manage to find an equal to marry and settled for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:29 AM
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it’s been said a gazillion times before. Approach women in a non sexual context in the same way you’d like gay men to approach you in that very same context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:50 PM
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Spoiler alert for when you grow up: high value people are the ones who are authentic, sincere, and kind. It’s nothing to do with superficial qualities like appearance or bank account. All these nonsense posts are from teenage boys who haven’t figured out how life works
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:53 PM
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You don’t know any real women bro. All you have are made up caricatures in your head. If you actually knew real women in real life, you’d know that the high-value men we love and marry are funny, kind, supportive, encouraging, positive, gentle, and vulnerable. They are our lovers and best friends, and they see us for who we are, not some fake docile hentai cartoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:14 AM
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why would I look up hospitalization level abuse? is regular smacking around not reason enough to leave? Or how about just demeaning and dehumanizing comments? And no, I’m not going to assume people tell a random survey stranger the truth about why they filed for divorce.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 03:38 AM
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FYI it’s easier to say “ I wasn’t happy” than to say “ I was slapped around” or “ I was raped” or “ he had a gambling/ drinking/ sex addiction problem”
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 07:27 PM
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so much bad advice in one post. Guys plse don’t take hormones or get surgery bc some dude on reddit wrote some nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:05 PM
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obviously the second option. All of his problems are fairly cosmetic and can be quickly addressed. The first one can’t talk apparently so how can you even have any relationship with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:15 PM
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it means something to me because it is my entire life experience. And there are many many hundreds of thousands of women like me who don’t give a fuck about shallow materialistic nonsense like how tall or wealthy someone is. It’s literally ridiculous that I even have to write that sentence in 2023. But all the posts I see on this sub are just angry men who stereotype all women as gold diggers who only date 6ft pple. And then it’s like oh why won’t the women engage and answer our wise and thought…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:13 AM
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i married a 5’3” guy and stayed married for 18 years. Don’t give a shit about height. So stupid. Just like the vast majority of posters here. That’s why we don’t bother with the thought out responses. They fall on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:45 PM
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look this guy knows better than any woman what all women think ok? he is the expert and all of us, especially the slow-witted women, should bow to his superior wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:36 PM
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Another option is to outsource tasks while both people work. That way you can ask meaningful questions about the person you’re considering marrying instead of transactional nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:09 PM
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Being independent is not an insurance policy, buddy. It’s literally the floor of just being an adult and not a child. Of any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:59 AM
4

yes let’s get married to people who will have no choice but to be forced to stay with us forever. this will definitely enhance our relationships. True love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:53 AM
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Got it. If women don’t care about their degrees and careers, that’s because they’re gold diggers who mooch off of struggling men who have to work all day and night to pay for their greedy materialistic wives and girlfriends. Also, if women do care about their degrees and careers, that’s only because they’re stupidly trying to protect themselves from being broke when dumped by Chad after they get old ugly and fat. Every day the nonsense on this sub just gets worse and worse. Do you people even he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:49 AM
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nah. i’m not interested in marrying a guy just bc he can’t get sex otherwise. pretty shitty way to start off a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:50 AM
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yes - guys with nice eyes and long lashes are super attractive immediately. Don’t care about anything else. But if he has a beard that’s plus bajillion points
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:32 AM
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this is a lot of words to say “I like to pick my women from a pool that thinks they have no other choice but to stay in a relationship with me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:06 PM
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and a man chooses who he ejaculates in and that ejaculate can also result in sentient life. You conveniently adopt definitions and moral rules that place all responsibility on the other party, and yet somehow expect people to take your analysis seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:09 PM
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if you’re a man and having sex without a vasectomy you’re choosing to make a decision that creates life and links it to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:50 PM
5

I like this point even though it’s not directly on topic. We don’t have mandatory draft in USA today, but we do have laws forcing women to carry pregnancies to term. I hear you as to history though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:22 PM
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people become more attractive or less attractive the more you get to know them. That’s something we learn later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:41 PM
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if women aren’t entitled to bodily autonomy, why should men be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:37 PM
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okay buddy so no one should care about what other people think. Thanks for that insight. Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:02 AM
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men can be excellent single parents. However those people are usually good at relationships in general. Maybe work on improving that aspect of yourself before creating a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:01 PM
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lol. If women stay they’re blamed for ignoring red flags. If women leave, they’re blamed for not wanting to work it out and treating relationships as disposable. ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:59 PM
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who is this guy. never heard of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:59 PM
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it makes people feel better about themselves by labeling everyone and generalizing about everyone with a particular label. Redpilled guys can assume that they really understand what women are all about and how to interact with them. No diff that when people of one tribe or faith are taught that everyone else is just dishonest immoral etc and to act with the outside world accordingly. It makes the in-group feel smarter about themselves like they have this special knowledge which the rest of us mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:50 PM
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my high standards were kindness, humor, easy going personality, problem solver, selfless, caring etc. good news managed to find a guy that met all my high standards. These women bashing posts in this sub are totally disconnected from my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:58 PM
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most of the people I hear about pulling this kind of stupid crap are guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:51 PM
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we are both feminists because we believe in basic equality and rights for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:49 PM
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your ex was a dick and it’s always a plus when the trash takes itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:51 PM
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he was /is cheerful and funny and always looked on the bright side. Easy going and always thinking about the other person. Considerate. Extrovert and can chat up anyone. His profile specifically described him as cheerful and his pics showed him doing fun relaxing things and being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:12 AM
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E woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:02 AM
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this is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:11 AM
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my current loving husband is worth more than all the money on the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:19 PM
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the most important thing about food is how it tastes. The most important thing about people is NOT how they look. Hope this helped explain why your analogy doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:45 PM
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lol this guy will tell you if you’re happy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:20 PM
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because people with high N numbers are not necessarily the same people who are making their girl come. It’s literally what everyone has been saying to you. Think about it a bit more and it will make more sense to you. Your post is just about N count which is same as people who eat a lot of food. If your post was about guys who make their girl come, then it would have been about the cooks. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:15 AM
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This is the level of your argument: OP: People who eat more food are OBVIOUSLY better cooks. Everyone else: No there are many other factors OP: you are all so dumb it’s totes obvious that on average people who eat more are better cooks. Everyone else : pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:10 AM
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because you have no data and are just making shit up. Anything is obvious to you if you pretend it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:06 AM
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guys who have a high n count can be terrible in bed because they’re selfish lovers who keep getting dumped and moving on to the next girl. They can also be fabulous lovers who learn from each experience. Same for girls. It’s almost like people are individuals and you can’t just generalize about half the planet. I will never understand the need to label and categorize everyone neatly into little boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:58 AM
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well doesn’t that apply to every relationship disagreement though? The people in that relationship have to work through explaining how they have changed their thoughts on any particular topic. If you previously ate meat but now you’re vegan / voted democratic but now you’re republican/ were religious but now are atheist/ worked at a high paying job but now you’re a stay at home parent, you’ll have to explain how you’ve changed and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:18 PM
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ok so what is the rule here? If you’re a woman and have promiscuous sex at a party at some point in your 20s, you must always put out on the first date forever? For the rest of your life? And can never say oh let’s wait until we know each other better, because then you’ll be AF BB girl? Is that the rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:01 PM
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Nah, shitting on your ex just makes you look unhinged and petty. Most adults know this and give generic reasons for why they broke up, unless they’re speaking with a very very close friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:28 PM
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FYI: people aren’t going to share the real reasons they broke up with some judgmental jerk. Telling people you broke up because Zach worked too much is way easier than telling people you broke up because Zach slept with hookers and gave you an STD or beat the shit out of you because you asked too many nosy questions. This is true for the reasons Jessica gives for the break up and all the more true for the reasons that Zach gives. People give you a sanitized version of why they broke up because n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:51 PM
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my husband’s elderly parent lives with us and we expend our time and resources to make sure she is loved and comfortable and happy in a way that I hope my kids do for me. We are one of millions of families like this. Stop putting women into a box.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:44 PM
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do you legitimately think wondering if her guy is having sex with other pple builds women’s attraction? Every day I read more ridic nonsense on this forum. It’s insane the stories guys make up in their heads
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:52 PM
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If you want to be anti feminist then don’t complain about women relying on men financially, because that’s literally what anti feminists want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:09 PM
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your own articles and data sink your silly arguments. A third of couples have the woman making more than the man. All you can say in response is well they’re all probably miserable. Okay buddy. That’s the level of classy statistical analysis that we can expect here, along with “feminists go real quiet when the bill comes.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:04 PM
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It is a gender norm, we can agree on that. But society changes and with those changes come new gender norms. You should welcome these changes and be happy with movements that encourage women to earn more and rely on men for basic finances less. And yet, most red pillers are virulent anti feminists, another strange glitch I cannot understand. It’s like they want women to be broke and to rely on them so then they can complain about how financially greedy those women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:51 PM
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feminists turn awful quiet when the bill comes? lol. Are you the same poster who was just now whining that most of these debates aren’t fair because women are relying on personal experiences (or personal projection as you called it) and men are relying on data?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:47 PM
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Don’t you think your theories kind of trap women between a rock and a hard place? If the woman makes less than her husband then she is a greedy bitch who is financially exploiting him and if she makes more then her marriage is in trouble and she should worry about him cheating? Come on man, be better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:30 PM
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according to your own links about a third of women earn more than their spouses: The share of American women earning more than their husbands or cohabiting partners has increased steadily over the years, hitting 28% as of 2017 Do you know how many millions of people that is? A third of all couples? Definitely not an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:23 PM
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I am not an exception. My sister makes easily twice as much as her husband and so do many of my friends. We all speak from our experiences not from some NYPost article. And in my experience, women are not as singularly financially focused as you and the other red pillers claim. Women are very diverse, they are literally half the planet, and while there are plenty of women that do pay attention to how much a guy makes, there are plenty that look towards more important values. Just like there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:13 PM
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lol I am one of those couples and I know plenty of people like me. My husband makes a fraction of what I do and marrying him was the best decision of my life. He is cheerful and funny and a problem solver and makes me laugh every day. He is easy going and always thinking about other people. There are many couples like us and that’s why I think all this red pill trash is total nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:05 PM
9

so how do you explain the many happy couples where the wife makes more and sometimes way more than her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:54 PM
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how does that work in your head if the woman is financially well off on her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:48 PM
3

what puts a man above average is his sense of humor, optimism in life, patience, kindness to random strangers, easy going personality, problem solving outlook, and a general interest in making his partner happy. Nothing to do with what’s in his wallet or how he looks or what degrees he has. Stop being superficial and/or assuming that every woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:56 PM
0

this and all of this. My husband is the love of my life and makes me laugh every day and always looks at the glass half full. The smartest thing I ever did was marry this person who makes my life better in every way. He’s not ripped or rich or any of that, but I can’t imagine my life without him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:29 AM
1

I don’t even begin to understand this thread. My husband is the love of my life because he is positive, cheerful, easy going, funny, a problem solver, and always thinking about other people and what would make them happy. He makes me laugh multiple times a day. He was always popular with the ladies in dating and I was just the lucky one. Of course his personality is a huge part of why he was so popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:15 AM
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be more interesting and funny. Don’t play video games all day. read books listens to podcasts be able to have an intelligent conversation about philosophy or politics or something interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:04 PM
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