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Awesome post. I think a lot of men growing up never had a father figure they could look up to, or a father who had these traits and so they've grown up not knowing how to take the lead. All of my success has come down to initiating the first move and leading them into whatever it is you want to do. If they want to join or follow then they will. But they won't follow or join a man who isn't taking initiative. There's no room for hesitancy. Women can read this from a mile away. I recently missed o…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 03:53 AM
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No. It's because filthy rich businessman can afford to get divorce raped with a branch swinger and still have a sizeable bank. On the other hand, the man who works at average job with median pay has more to lose, i e. the single house, mortgage, personal finances, alimony and so will be hit harder if a divorce is thrust open them. The wealthy man will lose more, however he won't be borderline homeless. He could marry another 5 times and still be happy. So wealthy people have more financial lever…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:25 AM
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Just drop her 100% from everything. No explanation. She's not worth the time. Just know that many woman will say that they're giving you their all but in reality they will also go behind your back and act differently. Sorry to hear about your situation, I honestly can't imagine what it feels like to be cheated on like this and to see it actually play out in front of you.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 07:00 PM
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6"3? You are basically in the top 25% judging by height alone. Most girls won't date a guy who is at the same height or even just a little bit shorter than them. Studies confirm this. You are already "in", all you need to do is seal the deal. Girls will judge you based off height alone in some cases, and usually is the first thing they look at after, if not before face aesthetics. The tall friend in our friend's group had always been thin and lanky and he always at least 1-2 girls a week he coul…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 04:25 PM
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So people can identify with and vote Democrat.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:37 PM
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Do you reckon if a girl asks for a guy's number first that it's a sign she has issues? Just curious because it's the first I've heard of it.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:50 PM
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This sounds more like an issue unrelated to TRP and sounds like a more deep-seated psychological issue and trauma that stems from your adolescence. Some people go through hardships and they suffer and many never overcome them or simply learn to live with it. If you are willing to speak to a professional that may help. I would also recommend Stoicism but a lot of it is just cope and suppressing emotions rather than actively dealing with them in a positive manner to overcome them. Don't want it to…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:41 PM
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She probably has issues. Similar thing happened to me after a ONS. Chick completely broke down, tried to comfort her but she kicked me out. It's half wanting to be loved/being with someone and half questioning it and becoming emotionally overwhelmed. Not your fault.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:04 AM
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I think you're concentrating on the absurdity of life because you haven't quite found something to live for, so everything around including your life become questionable. Do what you want man, life is your oyster! Would you rather spend your time wondering about why we're here or simply living your to the fullest? For example, I made a decision that commenting to your post is worthy of using my time for. I find some value and meaning responding to something like this. Everyone's different. That …
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:34 PM
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Sounds to me like you are highly disciplined, perhaps too much so. A lot like someone who saves up every dollar and has a scarcity mentality. I wouldn't be able to last that long even if I tried, so kudos to you that's an awesome achievement to stick by your goals like that. I can relate to your feelings of loneliness. I'm 26 and 5'7 and basically what you need to do is get out there and socialize. A great way to do this is to go to a bar and simply start talking to another guy who is sitting al…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 10:06 AM
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I realize that but thanks for pointing that out for me.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 09:38 PM
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I'm in a LTR of 3 years and this is what I'm most concerned about. My father recently died and shit's been rough. Most, if not all, of his assets will go to his partner I'm not blood related to. And as for my relationship feels like we are becoming increasingly detached but hanging on by a thread and there's hope. There's more to that weak side, like heavy mental health issues I've never brought up with her. Part of me feels like I need to tell her for the sake of honesty. F***, maybe it's becau…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 09:05 PM
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Yes, I'm sure they realize. I have had some women who perceive themselves to have a SMV higher than me call me "the nice guy" and give me the "you're such a great friend" line. Those are two lines that you don't want to hear if you're looking to get into the bedroom. However, if they were desperate... Then there are women who have a lower SMV and they will view me as alpha because maybe they don't see some my insecurities or they think I'm better than what they think they can secure. If that mak…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 04:37 PM
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I think you misunderstood what he said. He is happy where he is at despite not being able or not wanting to call anyone his friend. Many people who are successful and content with themselves are at this point where they don't want to be weighed down by others. This doesn't mean he won't make friends later or find a good woman later who won't bring him misery. He doesn't want to be tied down by others and that's a type of freedom. Maybe he will feel like he needs more support and company later bu…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 02:37 PM
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I can relate. One of my parents just died and I'm in the same boat. Of course, we need friendships. Surround yourself with friends and family who want the best for you. Still go to party's for social gatherings and whatnot, don't completely cut yourself off, for example one of my good friends is stuck in the mud at the moment with no employment, this and that, he isn't completely where he wants to be but he is the person I have the most fun with and so it's good to have that support system. Your…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 02:20 PM
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Told her I liked spending time with her.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 08:51 PM
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If my LTR goes afk for more than 1 day then I know something up. Last time it happened her parents split up. I can't imagine going 7 days. After 3 I would've given her a call at least to see what's wrong. I'd find it disrespectful. I don't want to forecast the weather but after 7 days... That is like a hurricane and a half. I wouldn't end it immediately, perhaps ask her what's up, and you feel like ending it then end it. 7 days is total disrespect, and it's likely she has moved on. That's the to…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:45 PM
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Stop comparing yourself to others. That's your first mistake. A lot of people do that and give up on things that would infinitely improve their lives. My friend gave up playing guitar and his logic was "why would I try learning that when there's a 7 year old Chinese kid who can do it perfect?" That's sort of like the reasoning you're using. Isn't it? It's a defeatists attitude. Not trying to be harsh or anything. Just direct. Sometimes I compare myself to others and think "damn I'll never be tha…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:54 PM
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Fake it till you make it. It doesn't mean to be artificially fake or a robot that's copying someone else's behavioural characteristics, its developing a side of you that may be lacking, especially if you don't have a normally developed social game for any reason. It's the same with any job or profession as well. If you had a bad foundation then you'll have to start at the bottom and rise up. It's the same with any hobby or even body-building, you need to find the right resources and then practic…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:40 PM
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Probably insecurity or others said. My girlfriend did this to me early on. Basically she wants to see how you react and truly think of her. She wants you to elicit the lovely jubely stuff so she knows that she's yours, to make her feel secure. It's a double edged sword. You keep her around but you're also letting your own guard down because you're releasing your true feelings (or giving the impression that you are if you're faking) and that opens you up for more shit tests for her to push perhap…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:29 PM
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Date them sparingly, if at all. I once slept with a girl, who by the end of the night, was such a chaotic mess that I honestly felt bad for her. I doubt she can pair bond at this point. Sometimes the dishonest ones try to give the illusion of innocence and purity to attract you, but the honest ones don't give a f*** and they'll straight up tell you how many and they usually forget some. Basically it boils down to their inability to pair bond and so their potential to stay in a secure relationshi…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:24 PM
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Good point. However judging by the disproportionate amount of black-on-white hate crimes, mostly assaults, and the last 10 years of seeing innocent whites being randomly assaulted on public cameras in the US and the farm murders in South Africa, it's definitely underreported in the media, and when put in the media it is never used or framed as a massive black-on-white killer conspiracy like what happens in reverse. And of course, I'm not saying this specific one or that one, and in the event of …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:19 PM
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And you wonder how many innocent white Americans have already been bashed, robbed, assaulted, had their businesses destroyed, and even killed already in revenge attacks, which will go completely unrecorded by the same media which emotionally exploits black Americans to continue looting and rioting.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:47 PM
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She's only going for the social media instagram good girl brownie points and virtue signalling points. It's the "cool" and "trendy" thing to do, right? My views are probably a lot more similar to yours, however I wouldn't go as far as giving her an ultimatum. Unless she talked about BLM every day throughout your relationship then that would strike me as strange. Maybe it's an American thing? If she can separate the destructiveness of the rioting and looting from the peaceful protesting then that…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:43 PM
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A walk through a park with a takeaway coffee or a cheap $10-15 meal. You don't want to overthink it. I remember I took a girl out to a $100 per head restaurant (we were both working in hospitality and knew people who worked at this restaurant), but I could've had just gone to any little cheap takeaway and would've had the same result/outcome. We've been together for 2yrs now. But yeah, if you don't feel like spending too much you can just say something like you've already ate, or you're dieting …
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:00 AM
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When I was dating my girlfriend I didn't feel the need for pornography at all. As soon as she left the country I felt pretty alone, obviously from not having her around, and turned to pornography to substitute having her presence at home. I've never joined any subreddits associated with porn or even read what other people comment about or what they like or have a preference for, I don't waste my time on that. There are many circlejerks of people with the same fascination, obsession or interest, …
/r/askTRP25/05/20 01:11 PM
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Watch out for STDs. Once you contract it it's there for life. How are you going to tell your future wife? Don't give in to them.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:02 AM
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After every workout I feel jacked, haha. It depends on your progress and what you consider to be "jacked". If you are starting from scratch then you'll probably see good progress a few months in, that's how I felt and I was noticeably bigger and my friends and co-workers would comment on my body. I wasn't by no means "jacked" but I had done enough progress for others to notice a difference and that was a good step in the right direction. I don't see myself being jacked in at least 1-2 or more of…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:22 PM
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I lost quite a lot of power when I moved in with my long-term girlfriend. The dynamics are much different when you're living with your SO and dating with them staying over at your place occasionally/overnight but not constantly. Beforehand I was fairly in charge of most things whereas it's a lot more balanced and it's been difficult trying to sway minor things back in my direction. As long as you don't move in you will always have the upper hand when it comes to most things I've noticed as their…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 06:14 AM
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My LTR is a foreigner and I was hoping to move to her country for a year but with COVID-19 our plans have been severely messed up. Been almost 6 months away now and neither of us can get temporary visas for each other's country. It's pretty difficult but it is what it is and we have to accept that. She is pretty mentally strong in general but it's affecting her more than it is me. As for communication we message every day and usually have a video call every night. For Valentine's Day I planned a…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:22 PM
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Cool story OP. Sometimes I have to return here to this sub to read personal stories like this for motivation since I can be on the right track 100% and take a negative turn from time to time, which affects my daily routine and structure. I agree, the negativity probably stems from some not doing what's needed or they become tired with the process of self-development, but it's a constant ride and sometimes we all can't be on our A-game 100%, but if they're here and they're making the right decisi…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 11:47 AM
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Are you putting on this 'mask', so to speak, so you can pretend to be this outgoing character since it's not who you truly are deep inside? IMO, socialisation, needs to be done on your terms. You shouldn't have to be faking anything, instead it is more about integrating certain characteristics that are beneficial to your own sexual strategy that may not otherwise come naturally to you and seeing that integration process as a positive one. You should be leading the conversations and interactions …
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:44 AM
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Personally I'd file a complaint against her. If you can make the complaint compelling enough to make her rescind her statement or even apologise altogether, since she is making a false claim to begin with, I reckon you could pretty much retain your position. It also depends who your manager is, what your relationship with them is like and how you can make your case. If you have male co-workers, and possibly female co-workers, who can also provide character reports and statement on your behaviour…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 07:43 PM
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RED FLAGS! Personally, take everything that I say with a grain of salt I'm not an expert on life or anything for that matter, but perhaps you were looking for love in the wrong woman. She is pretty, she knows and understands her worth. Sadly, the most attractive women are going to be pressured by other attractive women to engage in these moneymaking half-whoring prostituting-like activities because there's a lot of money to be made. These types of women deliberately objectify themselves and turn…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:55 PM
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It's good to have both inner confidence and strong physical characteristics. Relying too much of one or the other is not overall a bad thing, having really great handsome features will increase your physical attractiveness and also give you the confidence to develop your inner self and qualities that you may have lacked when you had low self-esteem or felt bad about your outer looks. Same goes for the opposite. Having a strong inner confidence can definitely help look for a girlfriend and attrac…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 07:03 AM
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