CareerBeta Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Constant Internal Struggle		CareerBeta	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 12:26 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Beta boy songs Jim Croce - "Operator" & "Tommorrow's Gonna be a Brighter Day"	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/19 06:43 PM
69	Women and the workplace - just shut your mouth I hesitate to engage in the newly prevalent non-sexual-strategy posts, but this seems like an important misconception to address. Avoiding women professionally is a poor strategy for your career. In a modern professional environment, you will be judged on your ability to "work well with others." Being avoidant is just dumb. Avoiding women in particular will get you branded as a sexist eventually. The guy in the story fucked up because he verbalized an opinion that went counter to the dominant na…	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/18 03:40 PM
15	Women will always cover their own ass, no matter what There are a lot of really fucking autistic comments here gentlemen. It is NOT going to help your career prospects to be butthurt about the women around you taking advantage of their gender. Being distant is a bad strategy. Being resentful is a bad strategy. Being butthurt is an AWFUL strategy. If you hope to have a successful professional career, you're going to have to change your mentality, big time. I'm a decade out of college, and I've worked as a contractor with hundreds of corporations and…	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/18 11:36 PM
1	Constant Internal Struggle Thanks to everyone who responded. When I said, "I know what the answer is" I obviously missed "STFU." I'm only going to get the answers I'm looking for after putting in the work.	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 01:36 PM
1	Constant Internal Struggle Excellent point about the idle threats. I know I've currently got myself anchored to a moral framework that would have me feeling too guilty to cheat. Still part of my "nice guy" world view. If I wasn't willing to do it, I shouldn't say it. In other words STFU.	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 01:12 PM
2	Constant Internal Struggle Thanks for the thorough response. Honestly the "kid gloves while pregnant" thing is tough for me. I've been so engrained with "men and women should be treated as equals" dogma, that I'm still holding her to expected levels of rationality that I know logically are unrealistic. There's so many areas where I'm still playing out of the old rulebooks. I am where I am now. I did trigger a shit storm. It was less than ideal timing, but I own it. Ultimately I needed to go through it anyway to test my re…	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 05:25 AM
2	Constant Internal Struggle I don't really. I did. But now I don't. It's been 3 years of near constant low-level criticism and mind games. I guess I am still raging more than I realized.	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 05:11 AM
3	Constant Internal Struggle Thanks. More than anything the personal stories from guys on the other side are helpful.	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 05:07 AM
2	Constant Internal Struggle Being selfish and manipulative are the characteristics of villains. I'm so fucking far gone that asserting what I want feels like bullying. It's fucking disgusting.	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 02:10 AM
3	Constant Internal Struggle Yes. I know full well I suck. I suppose my mistake is blaming my wife for why I suck. I feel like a junkie who keeps getting pulled back and wants to break it off cold turkey. It's not her fault she keeps dealing the goods, it's mine for continuing to pay such a high cost.	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 02:05 AM
4	Constant Internal Struggle It's the only value structure I've ever had. "Play by the rules, be a good boy, people will like you and you can have a nice life." For some reason I'm resisting using "what I want" as a north star for decisions that involve other people. I've broken past the point of "I know what's best for me" but don't yet have a rational framework for "I know what's best for us."	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 02:00 AM
2	Constant Internal Struggle So many fucks.	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 01:55 AM
2	Constant Internal Struggle Thanks. I honestly said it only after getting to the end of my rope of supplicating. I know I wasn't Outcome Independent for a divorce until after having to have the fight I caused. I probably still have a twinge of desire to keep it together for the kids, but I'm pretty comfortable I'd be better off with a fresh start. I think a lot of it comes from other outcomes that I have wanted to manage. I haven't wanted to be considered a prick. I don't want people saying I'm a narcissist, that I was abu…	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 01:18 AM