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Have you met most women in the world and asked them what they want in a relationship? P.s this is a forum for EX red pill, you are clearly still super red pilled so either leave or stfu and LISTEN to women so you can get de-programmed
/r/ExRedPill21/06/26 10:51 PM
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Excuse me who tf are you to tell me what I want? How dare you? You don't know me and know what I want! The AUDACITY
/r/ExRedPill20/06/26 12:16 PM
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looking at people does not equate to sexual arousal. She can look at whoever she wants to. It's not like she's saying 'wow I want to fuck that guy!' she's just using vision. she likely looks at lots of people, ugly men too, women, but you only notice when it's a good looking guy cuz you're insecure. if you are super insecure in yourself then sure, you can make up stories in your head such as 'she is looking at another man who I deem to be more attractive than I, therefore she is definitely going…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/26 11:21 PM
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You go to therapy
/r/ExRedPill14/02/26 10:59 PM
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Completely untrue. You observe the person over time and assess that way if they seem to be chaotic or mentally ill or destructive. If so don't date them. Ask for an STD test before you start new relationship with them. It's as simple as that.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/26 02:59 PM
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I am sooo proud of you!
/r/ExRedPill14/02/26 12:16 AM
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Who cares. If that's what she wants then fine, but she's not the one of you
/r/ExRedPill14/02/26 12:14 AM
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Omg no is arguing that people don't have a preference, people have a preference because we live in the patriarchy. There ie not one study that states safe, consensual sex has a negative affect on anyone. Body count matters to insecure men who want to make up stories in their head and hurt their own feelings. It doesn't matter to people who practice logic. Nice try tho.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 03:32 PM
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Titled of the peer reviewed study to support your claim?
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 06:11 PM
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Potentially yes. Maybe call a shotline for domestic violence and ask for advice then?
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 06:10 PM
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Honestly call the police and get them to do a wellness check because she is in a domestic abuse situation and is not safe.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 03:15 PM
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i'm so glad! maybe you can go for a walk with them or go on a day trip. go out for coffee and chat. sounds like they are a great support
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 12:13 AM
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Do you talk to them about this redpill stuff and your anxiety?
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 09:49 PM
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I suggested lots of other activities too. Do those
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 12:08 PM
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The read a book. Draw. Talk to your parents or family members. Genuinely ANYTHING you can do that doesn't involve being on the Internet. What you're doing now will only perpetuate your depression. P.S It was -15 degrees here today and snowy and I still put on my winter coat and wrapped up warm and went for a walk. Even 20 mins a day will help. Go see some trees
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 11:30 PM
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Because why would it? Logically? There is literally no Logic to the belief that someone having a lot of boyfriends in the past means she wouldn't be a good partner to you now. The ony way to determine if someone is a good partner is getting to know them. Are they kind? Thoughtful? Smart? Interested in you? Funny? Do you have fun together? If so, then great! You found a good partner. You can't judge who someone is before you spend time with them and get to know them. Past sexually activity doesn'…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 11:26 PM
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It absolutely DOES not reflect her commitment to you. Are you kidding? How doee her having a lot of boyfriends in the PAST reflect her commitment to you, she literally didn't even know you?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:29 PM
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Yee I agree. This is really bad for you You need to take a social media break. Don't you have parents? Can't go you for a walk with them or go on a day out?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:27 PM
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It doesn't matter. Redpill bros will lie and pretend it does because they want to shame and control women. Women can have as much sex as she wants as long as it's safe and consenting. It has absolutely no bearing on whether or not she will be a good partner in the future.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:26 PM
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I don't know. I was saying you will find a girlfriend and wife one day
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:23 PM
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What
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:21 PM
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You will find one! You seem super sweet and smart and curious
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 09:36 PM
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I would absolutely want a man who's shy and sensitive. I would only want a man who was sensitive. You said something before about 'dominating his environment,' what would that mean for a relationship? You storm into the living room and say 'make me a steak! Take off your clothes!' Is that what you mean? Because that's absolutely horrific and no woman deserves that
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 09:33 PM
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I've been taking time out of my day for the past week to try and chat to you, show interest in you, and try to help you. So what do you think that action says about me? Maybe I'm a helpful person who's trying to show compassion? You are right, the only way to know who anyone is is to observe their behaviour over time. Every man and woman is an individual, right? So my whole point is that you need to get out and meet women in real life and see what they're like. Some women will be selfish and rud…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 09:27 PM
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I already answered that question. Please listen to us. We want a man who respects us as am equal because men and woman and completely equal in value.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 01:03 PM
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The word 'dominant ' that the redpill use is deeply toxic. They mean a man who wants to control women and that women should not have their own desires, needs, wants, choices. It is really really dangerous. Women want a man who seee her as her equal. Please stop consuming their content right now. Get off the forums. Go outside. Go talk to someone in real life or read a book
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 11:59 PM
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I'm going to give you the answer right now and it's pretty simple. You listed all the specific ways you wish to improve yourself and then hopefully you will become a partner that a woman would want to be with. Sure. But you literally didn't mention the most important solution: Go to therapy. Not a dating coach, an accredited psychotherapist that deals with building self esteem. That is your starting point. All the gym and money in the world won't make you a good partner if you have zero emotiona…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 11:45 PM
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Out here begging men to see us as human beings 😭
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 11:30 PM
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You need to get offline and stop posting about redpill ideologies for a while. Go read some books or paint or write or something. Digital detox. You need to start letting these red pill voices fade away.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:52 PM
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The only standards anyone should have in a relationship are respectfulness, kindness, shared interests, humour, thoughtfulness etc etc. Why do women get shamed for having a sexuality but men don't? That double standard is redpill idealogy used to shame and control women. Stop reducing women to vaginas. We are human beings to just observe the person in front of you and see if they match your values. Stop hurting your own feelings with stories you made up in your head.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:50 PM
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The only way to determine if someone is impulsive or reckless is to observe them over time and get to know them. The only way you can determine who anyone is is observation over time. Maybe her 100 sexual past lovers was her exploring her own body? Exploring her own pleasure? Maybe it was curiosity? Trying out different kinks or different types of sex or sexual partners? You literally don't know what the reasons were and it doesn't matter. All that matters is who she is in the present so just li…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:44 PM
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It's still toxic to even care. Why would you care how many people she slept with? If a woman says I've slept with 50 men, all that means is you're suddenly comparing yourself to 50 other men and 50 other dicks and wondering how you'll compare. Then hurting your own feelings for no reason. When you start a new relationship, both get STD tests so you're having safe sex, then just get to know her. If she's everything you're looking for in terms of personality traits and you have fun together then c…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:39 PM
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Everyone is over in r/exitredpill and r/exitincel because any former redpill bro has since spent time in the real world and has met actual human women. These interactions are actually just listening to women was enough to get me out. I realised it was all utter BS and that I was blaming my insecurities on women instead of just going to therapy to work on how to stop hating myself. It worked. I learnt what it actually means to be a man that a woman would want to be with (newsflash, it wasn't gym …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/26 11:57 PM
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So glad you're in therapy! It's gonna help so much. Red pill relies on men absolutely hating themselves. You gotta learn to like yourself (which therapy will help with) and start challenging those negative thoughts. For example, 'All women want super good looking men.' 'I know that's not true because I see loads of not so attractive men in happy relationships' and 'women prioritise a man's character and behaviour over looks' or 'women are individuals who each want individual things. ' I also sug…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 03:55 PM
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Do you wanna send me a PM? The only antidote to redpill is human connection with real women do if you want to chat, I'm here!
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 03:25 PM
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Plus women date ugly guys all the time. All women don't hate ugly men, look around. But all women hate misogynists who refuse to work on themselves. Almost as if someone's positive characteristics and personality traits and behaviour in a relationship far outweighs superficial things like looks and money. I know average looking guys with an average income but have nice girlfriend because they are thoughtful, kind, intelligent, patient, honest, supportive etc. So guys, listen - the red pill does …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/26 09:08 AM
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Plus women date ugly guys all the time. All women don't hate ugly men, look around. But all women hate misogynists who refuse to work on themselves. Almost as if someone's positive characteristics and personality traits and behaviour in a relationship far outweighs superficial things like looks and money. I know average looking guys with an average income but have nice girlfriend because they are thoughtful, kind, intelligent, patient, honest, supportive etc. So guys, listen - the red pill does …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/26 09:08 AM
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I live in sweden and both parents get combined 18 months parental leave when a baby is born. So literally every dad in sweden has been a stay at home parent for 6 to 12 months, even more if there's multiple kids. So yeah, half the adult population here lol. It's so normalised
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 08:55 AM
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You should be super proud of yourself for breaking out of that toxic sphere. You see them for what they are - deeply insecure and lonely men who blame women as a whole for all of their insecurities. Go to therapy. Take responsibility for your actions. Treat women with respect, learn how to express your emotions in a healthy way and you will be fine, kid! I think you will make a great partner one day !
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 08:52 AM
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Why are you in thid group if you're still an incel? Read the other posts in this group, they'll probably help you. As everyone keeps saying, the only way to know what a woman wants in a partner or is seeking in a relationship is to ask her directly. That is literally the only way. I for one have literally never dated a muscular gym bro in my life. I have gone for men who were funny, open minded, smart, thoughtful, shared similar hobbies to me. But that's just me.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 08:34 AM
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All human's values and focus tend to change as we mature. When I was 21 i was dating guys and girls who also lives with their parents and were in college. So i probably chose partners who were kind and respectful, but ultimately I probably also wanted someone really fun that liked partying as much as I did. I didn't need to seek out a rich man or woman cause we all had shitty weekend jobs. Looks were somewhat important but not really, I've always cared way more about personality. Now I'm 31 and …
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 08:25 AM
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What you are calling 'misadrist' views are merely an appropriate response to shit storm of misogyny we've been dealing with. Men calling us whores, gold diggers, body shaming, men expecting sex from us, crossing our boundaries , sexual harassment, being raped. You know the first time i was sexually harassed by a man I was 11? And the second time was last night in a fast food restaurant.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 08:08 AM
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Hi! I know therapists that work with deprogramming men who were red pilled. She said one of the things they do is strongly encouraging meeting and talking to women in person. I know you said you work in a male dominated field but seek out female company, i.e volunteering in your community with women, joining classes or hobbies, inviting your friend and his girlfriend over for dinner etc. Plus i can be your friend ! DM me if you like!
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 07:30 AM
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