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Nobody should
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:54 PM
3

You should be focusing on night game if your only goal is to fuck women immediately and have one night stands while you’re only in a city for a few days
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:42 PM
1

This is a horrible line
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:40 PM
15

More like $500
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:16 AM
25

I mean you can also just go to Vegas and pay two fine ass hookers to fuck you at the same time too. Would rather do that than fuck 2 random ugly girls
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:30 AM
7

It’s definitely not the texting bro…especially if you’re only going on 1-3 dates max with these girls before they pull away. They’re just not into you or you’re doing unattractive things on the dates
/r/seduction06/08/24 01:40 AM
5

If you meet a girl at a nightclub and all you do is get her Instagram there’s like a 99% chance that nothing further is going to happen with her and you’re just going to end up being another follower. Stop going out with the intention of collecting instagrams. It’s pretty meaningless
/r/seduction26/07/24 04:33 PM
5

Oh if the date is already scheduled and only a couple days away and you already know each other then there’s no reason to chat much before the date. Save that for the actual date. You’re not going to build any more attraction via text in the next 2 days. There’s no reason to force pointless conversation. Just send a confirmation message before the date. If it’s early in the day on Sunday you can send a quick message Saturday night. If it’s Sunday night then you can send a message early afternoon…
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:53 AM
2

How are you supposed to set up the date without texting her first?
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:44 AM
4

Pictures matter way more than bios…the bio is more about not saying things that turn women off than creating some magical prompt that turn women on
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:42 AM
1

You’re in your prime just do nightgame
/r/seduction25/07/24 11:47 PM
2

The bookstore is a fine idea…it’s fun, it’s unique, it’s something she enjoys. You can go to other places after. The flowers are just way too much too early. People buy flowers for their actual girlfriends on Valentine’s Day or bdays that’s it. It’s just too much too soon. You’re trying way too hard to impress her and shower her with gifts to make her like you. This comes off as extremely desperate and needy to women.
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:50 PM
8

The flowers is just way too much for an online first date. The whole not going to dinner on first dates is somewhat overblown too. The people that say this are normally broke ass young fuckboys without much dating experience. I’m 35 and have been doing more dinner first dates recently with super attractive women ages 26-31. And I’ve been hooking up with pretty much all of them on the first date. Lots of women love confident, successful men that actually take the lead, plan dates, and put forth e…
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:33 PM
9

Don’t bring her flowers that’s way too much for a random Tinder whore. You don’t know her at all You’re coming off way too needy and strong and trying to impress her way too much.
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:24 PM
0

This is one of the advantages of hiring dating coaches or going out with people that actually know what they’re doing. You can actually get relevant feedback
/r/seduction24/07/24 06:18 PM
28

It’s better to go out alone than to go out with friends that are taken and don’t care at all about hitting on girls or guys with no game and terrible wingmen skills.
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:57 PM
2

There’s a functioning level of Down syndrome in this sub nowadays
/r/seduction23/07/24 08:00 PM
1

WTF is this post…if you don’t want to get too drunk then just don’t drink or drink less than you normally do. Are you retarded?
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:01 PM
5

Shit gets significantly easier as you get older and have more confidence and experience. You also have significantly more options because the vast majority of women above the age of 21 want absolutely nothing to do with 20 year old children. The dating pool at your age is the worst since you really can’t date younger since they’re all in high school and you can’t date that much older. Women love older men. I’m 35 and it’s never been easier in my life to meet women
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:09 PM
9

You’re only 20…you’re a child
/r/seduction23/07/24 06:52 AM
18

You can’t be serious……
/r/seduction19/07/24 06:44 PM
51

One of the creepiest things I’ve ever read here
/r/seduction19/07/24 06:40 PM
18

Because she’s batshit crazy…you mentioned like 37 different red flags she showed in a single Reddit post. Not even sure why you’d even want to deal with this girl
/r/seduction18/07/24 11:55 PM
2

Dating apps
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:46 AM
1

The wording wasn’t perfect…you should never lead an interaction with apologizing. Talking to people at bars is completely normal not something you need to apologize for
/r/seduction13/07/24 06:15 PM
2

If you think that’s a hard rejection you definitely need to talk to more people…that’s just a standard interaction at a bar. It’s honestly insane that you even made a post about this
/r/seduction13/07/24 06:14 PM
5

Hiking dates are horrible first dates but I guess you have a motorcycle so that’s a plus
/r/seduction12/07/24 02:51 PM
2

Yea that’s not going to happen they aren’t going to come to you
/r/seduction11/07/24 05:20 PM
2

You have to actually approach them and talk to rhem
/r/seduction11/07/24 04:15 PM
0

You are literally retarded…Hinge doesn’t auto set anything you get to choose what type of people you want to see. There are filters. So if I only want to see black girls I can choose to only see black girls. If I only want to see 6ft tall girls I can only see those. If I want older women I can change the age to 40-50 and it only shows me that. If I only want to see college girls I set the age range to 18-21. And it’s the same with women. If young girls want to date men in their 30’s they set the…
/r/seduction11/07/24 06:28 AM
4

This dude is delusional…he’s a normal, single dude in his 30’s with a normal job living in Seattle who has had zero success on dating apps which means he probably doesn’t even have really attractive photos but somehow thinks it’s easy to start magically attracting hot, 19 year old college girls in their prime on dating apps where they are being messaged by basically every single attractive man humanly possible
/r/seduction11/07/24 02:56 AM
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Nothing is auto set on hinge…you literally choose what age range you want to see. I use it all the time. You just have to go to the age filters and click the box that says it’s a dealbreaker. That sets the hard filter. And I completely agree that women love older men. I’m the same age as you (35) and I’m consistently matching with women ages 26-31. I’m currently hooking up with a 26 year old that I met on hinge this month. I’m just saying that women ages 18-21 who are literally in college, livin…
/r/seduction11/07/24 02:44 AM
3

This post is like the perfect example of how so many people just shit on dating apps but put forth zero effort into them whatsoever and then just blame their genetics or the algorithms or some other bs. You literally have a comment below where you stated that you don’t smile in any of your photos because you read somewhere that it wasn’t sexy. And there’s another comment from you,where you didn’t even realize that you can change the age filters on hinge so you decided to lie about your age to ma…
/r/seduction11/07/24 02:26 AM
1

You can literally set the filter on hinge or any dating app to show you only girls in whatever age group you want Hinge also has the advantage where you can message girls without matching where the other apps require you to match first. So you can at least shoot your shot there. But the fact of the matter is most girls that age do not want anything to do with mid 30’s men unless you’re very attractive and can provide for them with nice dinners, experiences, etc. And your algorithm could be fucke…
/r/seduction11/07/24 01:59 AM
3

If a girl texts you first after a date saying she had a great time and wants to see you again that’s a sign of high interest from her. If you had a 4 hour date with her which could have gone longer it’s completely fine to tell her you had a great time. That’s not being needy. And if she’s already mentioning days she’s free to hang out all you need to do is set up another date for when she’s free. You just don’t want to seem too eager. Don’t text her every day. Don’t use too many emojis. Don’t se…
/r/seduction10/07/24 09:18 PM
29

House parties are fine you’re just limited to a very narrow range of women who are in your social circle or friends of friends. So they’re likely also hooking up with your friends and other people at the parties. Where as if you go to a bar there is an unlimited amount of never ending new options. Especially if you live in a big city with a huge nightlife scene.
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:00 PM
10

You guys both sound very mentally stable
/r/seduction09/07/24 08:37 PM
3

Yea I definitely wouldn’t wait until the day before 2–3 days is better
/r/seduction09/07/24 07:28 PM
13

You don’t know if you like someone through messages…that’s literally what the date is for. To see if you like each other. If she doesn’t want to actually go on a date that means she’s not interested in you and just using you for attention. Stop giving her attention and go find girls that like you and want to go out with you in person Dating apps are not meant for messaging they are meant for setting up dates
/r/seduction09/07/24 06:42 AM
13

Stop messaging her and ask her on an actual date. Right now you’re just a pen pal
/r/seduction09/07/24 06:36 AM
0

A drink date is not that much bigger of investment in time or money than coffee…you still have to look good, present yourself, travel to meet a girl, talk to her for a little bit. Yea I drink is maybe $10-15 vs a $4 coffee but if you can’t afford that you shouldn’t be dating. You can see if you vibe over a drink and if you’re not feeling it after 30 minutes or so you can end the date. But if it goes well the nighttime date can build into a much more fun experience where is way easier to escalate…
/r/seduction09/07/24 01:15 AM
4

Don’t do coffee dates or walks. Just keep it simple and have night time dates at bars or some other place. It’s way easier that way. It’s like people here want to play on hard mode for zero reason Yes physically escalating is extremely important and it’s way easier to do at night in the right vibe
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:17 PM
3

One thing I do know is that 99% of girls hate the constant attention and texting everyday and good morning and good night texts…it’s way too much for someone you’ve know for a few weeks when you aren’t exclusive. Even for the shy inexperienced girls. You leave no mystery whatsoever. She could just be getting bored of it. Save the talk for the dates or attraction tends to die because she’s able to figure you out and there is no intrigue anymore.
/r/seduction04/07/24 12:05 AM
25

Right but most people don’t do anything here logically….its just a random mosh mosh of things they’ve read from a variety of sources, many of whom don’t know what they’re doing
/r/seduction02/07/24 06:05 AM
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I mean it’s true…as soon as I read it was your first time on a date trying to “game” her and the fact that you were trying to treat her differently because you labeled her a a smart girl (which means nothing) I knew it wasn’t going to end well.
/r/seduction02/07/24 05:31 AM
89

You need to stop reading seduction shit online all day long and stop doing this PUA shit and just act like a normal person on dates and be yourself and be vulnerable. These posts are so cringe to read sometimes. It’s like first I had to compliment her, then mix in some push pull, then kino 4 times, then escalate but not too much, and then you gave a disqualifier for some reason after she was already weirded out. You’re treating women like robots where if you do a series of moves in succession sh…
/r/seduction02/07/24 05:29 AM
4

Bro you’re dating 3-5’s…anyone can get those girls. Also this entire post and your post history reeks of insecurity around women and dating
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:28 AM
4

Your inexperience isn’t the issue….pretty much all men at the age of 23 are inexperienced in all facets of life. Its your beliefs and mindsets that need fixing
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:21 AM
9

You need to be more concerned with working on yourself than getting women. You don’t need women. Especially ones you aren’t even attracted to. You’re looking at this whole thing the wrong way and just coming off as extremely needy and insecure and desperate and that’s why you can’t get women
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:16 AM
9

You’re way too desperate…also why do you even want to settle for 4.5’s?
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:05 AM
5

For real everyone always complains about OLD here and then nobody is actually willing to post their profile for help. And the people that do often have numerous red flags in their profiles and tons of things they could fix that would improve their results significantly
/r/seduction01/07/24 09:13 PM
2

You’re toast
/r/seduction29/06/24 07:29 PM
2

She’s not interested
/r/seduction28/06/24 04:18 AM
6

She’s an escort…it’s Vegas. This isn’t a complicated situation to understand. She got some validation and some free weed. Dude probably acted weird while high and didn’t want to fuck. Or she wanted to rob him in his room and couldn’t find anything and left. If an absolute baddie in Vegas is sitting by herself at a bar drinking and paying for herself and is immediately interested in you upon approaching while laughing at your corny jokes she’s trying to get something from you.
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:10 PM
16

Because women have tons of options and she likely just found another dude. In the end you’re just a random stranger online no matter how good you think the initial messaging is. You also don’t need to talk to girls for a week and have deep conversations. Ask them out sooner and leave some mystery for the date
/r/seduction27/06/24 02:11 AM
1

Speak for yourself
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:49 PM
2

What does her height have anything to do with this?
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:48 PM
2

Tell me you’re a racist without telling me you’re a racist
/r/seduction26/06/24 05:35 PM
1

You’re trying to date a child…Just at least wait until he’s 16 for legal purposes if you really want it. Or just date older people with developed brains like a normal human
/r/seduction26/06/24 05:33 PM
-3

Stop taking advantage of children…an 18 dating a 15 is not ok and any sexual contact is considered statuatory rape in many places
/r/seduction26/06/24 05:27 PM
3

Yes because having sex is equivalent to death. What are you talking about? 😂
/r/seduction26/06/24 04:56 PM
-1

Your approach definitely applies more to cold approach…with dating apps it’s really hard to build the same amount of interest as cold approach. Most people go out on dates within 10-20 messages. You’re complete strangers. All you know about each other are a couple photos and prompts. You can’t really build that much attraction through text. So in the very beginning you aren’t going to be that important early on. You’re just one of tons of dudes. And in the summer everyone is super busy. So if yo…
/r/seduction26/06/24 03:11 PM
8

Movie dates suck for first dates because you literally can’t talk to the girl, it’s very awkward, it’s hard to physically escalate and make moves, there’s strangers sitting around you close to you, the movie could be really bad or boring which can kill the vibe, it’s a super cliche date, etc. You’re just both sitting in a dark room for 2 plus hours staring at a screen in front of you. First dates are for having fun and getting to know the person and see if you like each other and vibe. There’s j…
/r/seduction26/06/24 07:53 AM
5

Yea don’t do that…the beach part is good though
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:59 AM
12

Cancel the movie part of the date and do something else
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:28 AM
-1

THIS
/r/seduction20/06/24 03:57 PM
2

Yea this is good advice too…if all you’re thinking about on the date is the most efficient and logical way to have sex with her like some order of operations and that’s the only thing on your mind you’re going to come off as creepy and desperate and no girl is going to want to fuck you. You need to focus on building a genuine connection and then the sex will happen naturally and these things won’t matter at all.
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:56 AM
3

But to answer your questions somewhat here goes… You should go to the bar that’s more intimate and where you are able to talk. Not necessary bar that’s more hip and fun. If the rooftop bar is loud with lots of people and music and not many places to sit that’s bad. The size of your balcony compared to a rooftop bar means nothing. Everyone’s balcony is smaller than a bar. There’s no set timeframe to ask her back. You just need to escalate to the point where you guys are touching each other and ha…
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:49 AM
4

Have you even been able to take a woman on a date and at least build enough attraction to kiss her (or fuck her) on the first date? And even if not, have they been wanting to go on a 2nd date? And if they did, were you able to fuck them on the 2nd date. Or 3rd date? That’s what you need to worry about. Women are emotional creatures not logical ones. You need to be able to build attraction first and get her to want to have sex with you. Then all of these stupid little things you’re concerned abou…
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:29 AM
2

You’re waaaaaay overthinking the logistics…what matters is what you do on the actual date. You’re looking at this way too logically like it’s some time of mathematical equation. The extra 7 minutes doesn’t matter. The size of a bar rooftop compared to the size of your balcony doesn’t matter. The price of drinks at each bar doesn’t matter. A woman isn’t going to fuck you after a specific time at a bar. The order of bars for dates one and two doesn’t matter. The order of places doesn’t matter (alt…
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:16 AM
1

Yes it’s a club thing…clubs are shit shows because again everyone is drunk as hell and also possibly on molly, blow, ketamine, acid, shrooms, weed, ghb, benzos etc
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:53 AM
6

Some girls just want to dance and make out with guys at bars and never go home with them. It’s fun for them
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:48 AM
5

Because people at clubs are drunk as shit and or on hard drugs….what happened to you is nothing. I’ve been going to bars and clubs for 15+ years and I can tell you hundreds of stories that make this look like a children’s book. Just forget about it and move on
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:46 AM
2

That’s fine…so if they aren’t your type, then why even spend a single second talking to them? Life is short and there’s literally a million better uses of your time. You could be doing new hobbies and skills, making more money, working out and getting jacked, spending time with loved ones, meeting other women etc etc etc. Just because she has hot photos online and responds to your messages? It’s ridiculous. Trust me I was young once, I get it, everyone does it. But as you get older you start to …
/r/seduction19/06/24 02:23 AM
3

You talk to other girls that actually like and respect you…months is a crazy long time to fuck around with an Instagram ho you’ve never met, that plays games all day long but never wants to actually meet up. Stop giving them attention (that’s all they want)…give it to girls that are actually serious about dating and dating YOU
/r/seduction19/06/24 02:16 AM
3

It’s not a test she’s just not that interested
/r/seduction18/06/24 10:31 PM
3

3 hours each way via train is an absurd amount of time to travel to meet someone when you live in one of the top 20-25 best and most populated cities in the whole world. Yea if you live in rural Alabama where the closest Walmart is 30 minutes away I get it. But your logic is insane
/r/seduction18/06/24 09:13 PM
4

If you’re considering upending your entire life and moving hours away just to have a chance with an online stranger you’ve never met before because she has cute photos and also likes books you’re fucking insane. He lives in London. There’s 9 million people there. Trust me you can find women with similar interests. I live in Chicago….when you live in global cities the issue isn’t finding women, it’s choosing between all of the potential options. Especially if you’re older, relatively attractive, …
/r/seduction18/06/24 09:10 PM
4

Idiotic poll for a variety of reasons…but can’t really expect much in this subreddit nowadays
/r/seduction18/06/24 02:15 AM
0

Depends on the girl
/r/seduction17/06/24 09:06 PM
3

It’s fine trying to make friends but if you meet a girl during daygame and get her number then just take her on a date by yourself. Why would you bring her to a place with tons of other dudes who will try to hit on her? You’re overthinking this way too much…it really doesn’t have to be that complicated
/r/seduction17/06/24 08:37 PM
-1

Boring low effort questions don’t deserve much more than a boring response
/r/seduction16/06/24 11:37 PM
1

This is a retarded take…but you’re also not from America
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:51 PM
0

Have a big dick
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:31 PM
6

You don’t have to literally ask “can I kiss you right now”….you can say things like “I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now” and judge her reaction
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:19 PM
0

So you decide to not take a single woman out to dinner ever based on a single article that states 25% of women have done a foodie call at least one time. Solid logic there. Good luck with girls dude. Keep ghosting women for no reason while real men take them out on nice dates and fuck them
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:31 PM
4

Nah most women and people in general that are serious about dating want to be taken on dates and not sit around spending hours messaging strangers online for days on end. The guys that make moves fast get to go on dates with them. The guys that fuck around and wait get left in the dust
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:28 PM
3

Especially as you get older too….I’m in my 30’s and dealing with women ages 26-35. And nobody has time to wait. We all have legit full time jobs, friends and families to hang out with, hobbies, go to the gym, have errands to run, things to take care of. Nobody wants to sit around all day on these dumb apps messaging 30 people for a week about how their days are and what they do for a living. It becomes a terrible part time job. If you match on an app it means you both are at least somewhat physi…
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:15 PM
-1

My point is that if a woman is saying she wants to get dinner with him that means she’s interested in him in most cases. Women aren’t just going to spend time getting ready, putting on makeup, driving to a restaurant or paying an Uber to get there and back, spend 1-2 hours eating with someone that they dont like and aren’t attracted to just to get a quick free meal. They can just get food with their friends or go by themselves. If she’s matching with you on an app, having a conversation with you…
/r/seduction14/06/24 01:55 PM
33

Guys also need to realize that dating apps exist and most women use dating apps from Monday - Thursday when they are sitting at home after work, drinking wine and watching the bachelor. And in that time frame they can literally meet 50 dudes that are willing to take them out that weekend. You have to move fast or you’re fucked
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:41 AM
22

She’s drunk and all over you at bar and you decided not to take her home that night and hook up with her, but get her number, wait numerous days to text her back and then try to set up a date the next weekend. This is all on you dude
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:39 AM
-10

This girl is crazy as shit…nothing you said is normal whatsoever. RUN! NOW! You don’t have to worry about changing anything
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:54 AM
5

Definitely seems interested
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:51 AM
1

For real lol…imagine a girl matches with you on the app, has a nice conversation for a week and says I’d love to spend an evening getting dressed up, leave my house, travel to meet you in public and spend over an hour having food with you and getting to know you better and thinking that means she has zero interest. Some dudes here are just hopeless or just actively not trying to get pussy
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:35 AM
2

It takes women a long ass time to get ready, put on nice clothes and makeup, pay for parking or pay for an Uber to get to the spot and go home, and dinners generally last 1-2 hours. Most women aren’t just wasting time and effort going to dinners with ugly ass weird dudes they aren’t attracted to at all just to get a free meal. Especially higher quality women with good jobs that can just go out to dinner by themselves and pay for it. Yes there are some crazy ass women that do. But generally speak…
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:46 PM
2

Good luck with hot, high quality women with shi tons of options getting them to go on dates and being taken for a cup of coffee or an ice cream bro. I’m literally 6’4, white, in shape, make good money. And if you try to be super cheap and go on these super low effort dates just to try to get fucked women just move onto their million other 6’4, in shape guys with good jobs who are willing to take them to nice drinks and dinner spots. But if you’re fine settling for more average women those dates …
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:14 PM
3

I’m just saying that generally speaking the women who are on Tinder, responding to thirst trap messages, willing to hookup with online strangers after 2 messages, and banging tons of random dudes with zero effort tend to be more insecure. It’s a real psychological thing. Lots of insecure people trade in their sexuality. They feel that by offering sex it will make people want them. And by creating that desire they feel more favored and accepted which offsets their insecurities. When you have sex …
/r/seduction13/06/24 04:48 PM
3

I mean if he’s never been to Chicago it’s definitely worth it to leave Bridgeview and pay for a 20 min Uber or cab to go downtown. The city is awesome in the summer. Like we said, for daygame I would Uber to the Riverwalk and check that out. Then you can easily walk south to go to Millenium Park, east towards the lake for Navy Pier, or slightly north for the Mag Mile. That whole area is definitely walkable but can get tiring if you’re spending hours there. Then as it gets closer to night I would…
/r/seduction13/06/24 04:04 PM
2

Right like I have a friend who just looks for quick hookups and flings. He’s short too and still has tons of success. Because he only uses Tinder, has a nice body and has shirtless thirst trap photos, tattoos, talks about stuff like Dom/sub in his profile, and knows his messaging strategy. This would be a horrible approach looking for a longer term relationship on Hinge or Bumble but it works for him because he knows what he wants and polarizes the women that also want that. And there’s nothing …
/r/seduction13/06/24 03:48 PM
2

No most women even those looking for hookups don’t like super sex forward messages from a complete and total stranger. They aren’t men. Just some women will not care as much if they are super attracted to the photos and extremely desperate and horny. Just because you’re getting some results with a sex forward message doesn’t mean it’s ideal. You can have way better results with a slightly less aggressive approach. The message OP posted, while it could work from time to time with certain girls an…
/r/seduction13/06/24 03:38 PM
10

I assume you’re staying by the stadium because you’re going to the 3 day concert this weekend. That area is in Bridgeview which technically isn’t in Chicago, it’s about 20 minutes southwest of the city. Nobody really hangs out in that area besides going to the stadium for concerts and events and there aren’t tons of bars in that area. I would take a 20 minute Uber to West Loop. It’s one of the most popular areas in the city recently with some of the best restaurants and like 50 bars and patios i…
/r/seduction13/06/24 02:47 PM
2

That’s not a good line at all….just because it can garner a response does not make it good
/r/seduction13/06/24 02:29 PM
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Yea but lines like this aren’t terrible if you’re younger and all you’re looking for on the apps is hooking up with girls who are complete and total sluts. Like yea you’re going to turn off higher quality women with options with messages like this, but some of the slutty, desperate, insecure women will play along, especially if you have attractive photos. And if you’re standards aren’t that high and if that’s what you’re looking for it’s a fine message
/r/seduction13/06/24 02:14 PM
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Lines like this only work on apps like Tinder with young girls who are desperate, horny, looking for hookups and if they are attracted to your photos. It’s not the line that’s working…you just have decent photos and it’s working on specific types of women. Like I’m in my mid 30’s and mostly dating higher quality women from the ages of 27-40 and really only use Bumble and Hinge and this line would be terrible in this context. But that’s why on the dating apps a good strategy is to figure out exac…
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:59 PM
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This is a real story you can Google. When Megan Fox first met MGK she said to him, “You smell like weed.” His response: “I am weed” 😂
/r/seduction13/06/24 04:25 AM
1

It’s because you’re collecting numbers at bars and clubs where women are drunk and or on drugs and being approached by 25 dudes a night…then they wake up hungover, embarrassed and full of anxiety, back to reality and don’t give a shit about anyone they met the night before. You need to be either taking them home that same night or having a long enough and meaningful enough interaction for them to care to respond generally…usually with kissing at a minimum. Simply talking to someone for 15-20 min…
/r/seduction13/06/24 04:13 AM
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Yea the problem is that you’re a coworker, she has a boyfriend and you’re just having friendly interactions…it’s just going to continue to push you further into the friendzone. I wouldn’t put too much thought or effort into this girl and focus most of your time on women that are single and also not coworkers. Or you end up just wasting tons of time. If this girl isn’t into you who cares just move on to others.
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:05 AM
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Probably just as friends…when women mention the boyfriend extremely early on it generally means they are happy with him. If she wanted to cheat she would wouldn’t bring it up ASAP. Especially because you’re also a coworker Also nobody knows what you said in your conversation with her or how you phrased the “hang out” or what you talked about. It’s highly possible you just gave off highly platonic and friendly vibes, only talked about work and didn’t flirt with her at all during the lunch
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:26 AM
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It’s not creepy at all to go out on your own or approach groups of girls. You’re not interrupting their night you’re making their night more fun These are all made up beliefs and mindsets in your head not based on reality. I’m 36 and do it all of the time in Chicago. People actually respect you more for going out alone because it shows you’re confident in your own skin. And women are less intimidated by men by themselves. Girls go out to bars to be approached by men and most men in their 20’s ar…
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:01 AM
3

Your friends are indeed idiots as are most men below the age of 25
/r/seduction11/06/24 05:32 PM
7

Idk maybe talk to her in person like an actual human instead of stalking her like a creep online
/r/seduction11/06/24 05:31 PM
6

This post sounds extremely made up or if it’s somehow real it sounds like a setup (unless you look like Chris hemsworth)
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:27 PM
3

Just make sure you’re just going for a drink and not dinner
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:52 PM
0

Why do you even waste time on girls that suck? Because she has a couple hot photos online? Good luck
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:43 PM
1

You’re not going to listen to me but I’m telling you not to do long distance, especially at a young age and especially as a start to a relationship. It literally never works and it’s a huge waste of time. I’ve seen so many failed long distance relationships and she’s most likely going to be fucking and dating other dudes. And you’re also going to be wanting to fuck other girls. You can’t maintain attraction with people you never see and hardly ever hook up with. It also just sucks. Being in a lo…
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:30 AM
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Zero advice was given in this post. He just said everyone here is fucked, the only way to get unfucked is cold approach (not true at all), it’s not that hard to do (despite him having to do 10,000 approaches to get minimal lays), look at me I was able to do it. It’s clickbait to draw people to his Instagram dating coach profile. At least other guys that try to sell shit here type out long detailed posts about a variety of specific topics
/r/seduction05/06/24 09:05 PM
3

Meet in public first. Use a condom
/r/seduction05/06/24 08:42 PM
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OP is also that guy that is trying super hard to be a dating coach and sell people shit but only has like 6k followers on Instagram and the girl he’s “dating” in all of his videos is a 5.5 max. Also has a Reddit post saying he has 10 plus years approaching over 10k women but was only able to get 40 lays from it. I know many guys that did that in college just by existing and going to parties. Probably not the best guy to take advice from
/r/seduction05/06/24 08:19 PM
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You really have to consult Reddit to determine if that’s an ok way to talk to women you’ve never met before? And you actually said that to strangers on dating apps and got banned? Have you been tested for autism?
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:45 AM
18

Please go up to random women and tell them they have a juicy ass and you want to fuck the shit out of them and report back here. We’d love to hear the stories. Popcorn is ready
/r/seduction05/06/24 05:28 AM
0

Yes and the vast majority of them are extremely insecure and have numerous mental health and daddy issues
/r/seduction24/05/24 07:40 PM
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