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No thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/26 06:51 PM
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This could turn into a bad situation. He sounds controlling with money (using it for power) and very tit for tat for general. Tbh it sounds like there are still a lot of unhealthy dynamics in this relationship. You deserve help and support, regardless of how much you are or aren’t making.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/26 01:22 AM
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I’m not sure how well this idea will go over in this sub, but I believe that we subconsciously emanate a certain type of energy based on our past experiences and expectations. I think we attract people and situations in our lives because of certain cues that are often subconscious. Because you had to defend yourself against your father, rather than feel protected by him, I’m guessing you have a sort of masculine energy about you. It’s not normal for these situations to ever arise. I have never e…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/26 07:50 PM
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Most successful self-made men lean right. If you want a liberal you need to find a rich tech or corporate guy. I also think it’s a generally bad idea to optimize solely for looks or solely for money. You’re setting yourself up for heartbreak, IMHO. If you view him transactionally then he likely views you the same way, but unfortunately the balance of power lies more with him. The focus on wealth may be an out of balanced response to the frustrations of your first marriage, but the truth is there…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 11:32 PM
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I was hot when I was younger, got cancer in my 20s, lost my boobs, now dealing with another chronic illness and have puffy under eyes. It sucks but my husband still loves me. I’m harsher on myself about my looks than he is. Most changes happen gradually so you have time to get used to them. The other thing is that plastic surgery can be really good. I’ll probably get my eyes done at some point. Overall, that’s part of getting old - appreciating your body for what it is while also learning imperm…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 10:49 PM
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I don’t know what Laura Doyle would do but I would tell him he hurt my feelings and ask what’s bothering him. I would not pretend everything is dandy after being used as an emotional punching bag.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 08:23 PM
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They consider this forum “hate speech.” Wackadoodles.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/23 03:11 PM
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Wow I’ve never even been to that sub and I’m banned! Lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/23 03:08 PM
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And he may have been talking w other ladies! If she’s wrong for being active on the app, so is he.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 08:08 PM
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Why should a woman (or a man) stop talking to other people if one party has refused to explicitly say they’re exclusive?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 07:00 PM
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If you’re not exclusive, you’re allowed to be on Bumble. End of story. ETA: it would be helpful to communicate more in the future. For example, this whole situation could have been avoided by honestly answering that yes, his non-committal answer did bother you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 06:53 PM
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Your therapist shouldn’t be giving you advice but helping you figure out your thoughts and feelings. There’s a lot of really bad therapists out there. Have you tried journaling? Writing a page or two a day can really help you process through everything so you can figure out why you feel the way you do and what you really want in life. Ultimately only you know what’s best for you. People can give you advice / stories either way, but you’ve got to listen to your gut. The depression could be tellin…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 11:18 PM
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Testosterone levels among men are plummeting. Many men are now feminized.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:27 AM
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Ew. That’s nothing to be proud of. You’re a predator.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/23 05:22 PM
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How uncomfortable! In this situation it might be best to have your SO talk to his father and set some boundaries. I’ve been overly blunt and willing to address issues in the past and I’ve found that in my personal experience, it helps to go through the chains of command, for lack of a better expression.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 09:41 PM
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My husband and I have a joint account and separate personal accounts. (My personal account is very small and only funded by my currently tiny side hustle.) I have small investment accounts, my husband has a 401k. We each manage our own accounts. I pay the bills from the joint account, which is essentially the money he makes and that I contribute to when I make extra. I have a personal credit card that I’ve had since before we were married. I charge household food and supplies, home upkeep things…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 08:33 PM
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Crop tops can be super cute with high waisted bottoms. The high waist means you don’t show any skin. Of course, high waisted cuts or the look in general doesn’t work for or appeal to everyone but I personally like it. Dresses can be nice. I also like midi or long skirts with tank tops or short sleeves. You can do cute rompers or matching fabric short and tank sets. I have a pair of high waisted paperbag shorts that I absolutely love from Sezane and tuck a cute tank or short sleeve top into them.…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 08:17 PM
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Was this post written by AI?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 10:55 PM
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It’s their agenda. How is cooking and caring for your family radical? They want everyone ordering Uber eats after a stressed out day at work because it’s “empowering.” They want everyone working for some corporation that’s in bed with the government because then they can control you. Happy, strong family units are a threat to liberal power structures because these political movements destabilizing society thrive on chaos. And in their chaos, they create reliance on the government, and that’s wha…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/23 07:46 PM
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Embracing your true nature is not a limitation.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 05:17 PM
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Hey have compassion for yourself. This guy is manipulative and emotionally abusive. Maybe there are some valid things to take out of this, but I wouldn’t try to pick those out while you’re still healing because it will slow down your emotional healing process. You need to first focus on what a loser he is and how you deserve better and identify what red flags you ignored along the way to end up in this situation. Do some inner work to heal yourself and elevate so you don’t attract or attach your…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 05:09 PM
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With age gap relationships there are often hidden power dynamics. You will see yourself as his equal but he might not see you that way. Often the implications of these dynamics aren’t visible until far in the relationship when the honeymoon phase has ended. Not only that, but it seems very transactional. I could be wrong but is some of this coming from the male RP perspective? For example hearing that a woman’s value peaks in her 20s seems like a sad statement. What do you think happens after 25…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 05:01 PM
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The truth is that women end up doing most of the cooking and cleaning and general remembering / organizing around the house. That’s a job that benefits the husband and the wife. It makes a lot of sense for the man to contribute more financially to the household when the woman contributes more energetically. Otherwise she is coming home from the same long hours as the man, only to cook, clean up after dinner, organize the house and do other random cleaning. This is why feminist ideas became so po…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 08:14 PM
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For sure. Some men who enjoy being providers take pride in the fact that their wife doesn’t need to work. I am an accidental stay at home wife for now. I cook and clean and take care of us. It’s nice. But whatever you want, there’s someone out there who wants the same thing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 08:01 PM
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He was triggered by something in himself. It has nothing to do with you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 08:55 PM
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It would help your anxiety to have a conversation with him to find out what he wants in life, and if you are on the same page as to what you want and if you want that with each other. The Wall is overblown IMHO. Women have biological clocks yes, but you easily have another 10 years of childbearing ability. Healthy men don’t expect women to look anything other than their age. Plenty of women are gorgeous in their 40s and beyond, especially if you take care of yourself. You don’t have to look 22 t…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 09:13 PM
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Beyond selfish. You don’t think women want to experience life? You think most women are okay just being Susie homemaker to a guy 14 years who’s already experienced the same things he expects her to miss out on? People like you are why feminism exists and why everyone is so messed up around gender roles and relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 09:02 PM
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So highly desirable he’s late 30s and single 😂 okay dude. You need to get off the internet and go touch grass or something because you are out of touch.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 08:52 PM
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There are plenty of stay at home wives without children. Check it out on YouTube / Google. Someone staying at home adds a lot of value to a marriage. You can cook, clean, and create an inviting refuge from the world. It’s not the most common thing, but if that’s what you want, be honest with the people you’re dating, and I’m sure you’ll find it. I ended up a stay at home wife accidentally but some I’ve heard some men actively look for this.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 07:47 PM
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I mean the good news is it’s 2023 and you can do anything your little heart desires, even as a woman. Lots of single women out there to build friendships with, even if you don’t get married. Find fulfillment by finding out what matters to you, whether that’s a job, a cause, making art, having a garden. Get involved in things, with your community. Highly recommend the book Man’s Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl. But seriously, if a philosophy or way of being isn’t making you happy, it’s not fo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 10:29 PM
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There’s a lot of research out now that shows mental illness is more nurture than nature. Epigenetics, the science of how life choices affects gene expression. It runs in my family but guess what? So does trauma, pain, ways of seeing and interacting with the world. Even physical things like diabetes and often cancer have predispositions, but whether the genes are expression or not to create the illness is largely nurture. There’s even a big review of studies showing there is zero proof for the ch…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 09:11 PM
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You sound like a great person who will make some guy very happy! To me it sounds like you’ve maybe been a little sheltered and if so, it would make sense that you feel insecure about your place in the world. A lot of this is natural when you’re young, especially if you’ve had a heavy hand guiding you and you haven’t had much to figure out on your own. A lot of your work is to see your own value. Exploring clothes and makeup can be such a fun form of self-expression. For skin care, all you really…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 09:01 PM
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That’s funny. I met my husband when I decided to be a bitch because I noticed all the guys liked bitches. He’s a great guy. Potentially for me it was just about being a normal person and having standards because before that I was a little clingy.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 08:54 PM
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The root issue is your insecurity and the more you try to salve your insecurities by being controlling, you ironically worsen your insecurity. And jeopardize your relationship. None of these measures will make you feel better, they will only make you more insecure and worried. You need to heal the pain of being cheated on. That is the only way you’ll be able to have a healthy relationship going forward.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:09 PM
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Empathy and being an empath are not the same things. Is this another AI-written post?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:04 PM
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Fascinating. I’m curious how you know it’s AI? Don’t think I’m ready for this coming timeline.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:00 PM
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I would write out all of your concerns in a list. For every item ask yourself - 1. Is this true? For every item that is true, ask - could I deal with this? Is there another way to look at this? For every item you can’t deal with, ask - what workaround or solution is there for this? For example maybe you can hire help to clean your house. For the things you’re still stuck with, talk with your husband, item by item until you feel at peace. Don’t take your perception of things as truth. Ask how he …
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 12:09 AM
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I might not be the best person to answer this, but I came from a quasi-neglectful household and because of an illness have embraced more feminine, domestic pursuits like cooking, becoming more high maintenance about my appearance and self-care, etc. Even though my husband also provides for us and I do most of the house things (he does no chores 🙃), I must admit I cringed a little bit when you mentioned your husband complained that he leaves the house without breakfast. I would also feel really r…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 11:46 PM
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