Careful-Inspector439 Archive

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5	Are men who never had sex immoral? Divorced guys who obviously at least got to shove it in a few times can be as bitter as the average shut-in, often more so for obvious reasons. Some Chads can be really disillusioned by women when they realise how easy it is to get chicks to cheat on their boyfriends, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 08:52 AM
2	Are men who never had sex immoral? The mass of the population (not just women either, plenty of men do this too) deep down perceives male sexuality in a very primal, primitive way. If he's having le sexy time, he's obviously genetically fit and a good person. If he's not having it, he is le dud and a bad person, and we should bully him out of the ape troop. This is ultimately what it comes down to. They're not even doing it rationally, it's entirely subconscious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 08:49 AM
1	What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t? The big one is just not putting themselves out there. People who really want something will actually try to get it. If a man really wonders how good a relationship he can realistically have and decides to sit on the side-lines, that's one thing, but most of the complainers are actually not doing ANYTHING that would get them towards their goal. They're like those guys who complain about being unemployed but don't actually send out any CVs or feel out any job contacts. Again, in the modern social …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 12:29 PM
–	Why do some men care so much about body counts? I agree that consciously thinking about the opposite sex this way kills the romance. But let's face it, men and women both do it. It's crass to explicitly say you want a young women with less milage on the clock, but I don't see how it's any worse than women explicitly talking about how they want men with comfy jobs who can be a good provider or whatever rather than how much they like his personality or charisma.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 10:04 AM
1	Kids effect men and women differently on the dating market place. A man that makes 200k a year and has 2 kids will still be better off and have more options than a woman with 2 kids even if she has the same income.The Affect having kids has on women is far more dire. You'd be surprised, some women are incredibly jealous of attention a man will give his children from another woman. It's a massive and in many cases unsurmountable red flag for an awful lot of women, which is a bit ironic given how many women themselves resent men ruling out single moms. To be fai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 08:30 AM
1	Men attach their worth to sex-having becasue sex-having as a man is attached to your worth. This is 100% pure bioscience. American colleges are full of 130+ IQ spergs building the future who don't get any, meanwhile there are drug addicts and wasters all over the place who get ass like a toilet seat because they have a social lifestyle and know how to act around other people especially women. Sex has little to do with being productive or useful (cause or result), and everything to do with acting normal, and secondly looking like Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 05:39 AM
1	Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issues Pretty sure there was a skit about this. EDIT: Found it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bM5x6ixSbQQ	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 12:47 PM
–	Men need to understand the rules of the game they are playing PRIOR to joining Spend time with pick up artists, create fake online dating profiles. Do your research on the marketplace. Then make an informed decision on whether to participate or not. That's market research 101. Sounds very romantic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 08:42 AM
–	Q4W: Are you aware that most young men these days are deeply ashamed of their sexuality? Part of it, quite frankly, is that people (not just women) find it harder to be mad at people they are a bit turned on by, even if they shouldn't like them. For a slightly different example of this kind of thing, just see the ridiculous crush right-wingers have occasionally had on the likes of AOC or Anna Kasparian. Obviously it seems deplorable that this tendency goes so far as to totally ignore abusechads and shit on the little guy, but there's also something strategic going on here. When peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 06:12 AM
1	What does someone finding you attractive feels like? It depends on how much attention you're getting (or whether you feel like you need validation or not). It's like being headhunted by employers. If you're a bum on the street, a guy in a suit coming along with a business card to offer you a new start would probably seem like an angel. Even if you have an okay job and don't want to move, a boss going out of their way to show interest in poaching you might well be a novel and flattering experience if it doesn't happen much. But if you're actually i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 05:25 AM
0	What does someone finding you attractive feels like? The most obvious is them smiling at you when they see you. Also, going out of their way to talk to you or get in physical proximity to you. Stronger attraction bumps it up a notch or five, compliments, sexual physical contact (from women to men this usually involves somehow getting their breasts to touch your body), compliments, gifts... Think about what simps (or, putting it more judgmentally, creeps) do around women, and just genderswap it, basically. The only differences here are that a) wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 05:10 AM
1	When it comes to preferences and standards, men should handle them the way women do—by being subtle, selective, and unbothered by societal judgment. Some men just can't or won't do this. Many would rather suffer almost anything than to basically act like a woman to appease society and maybe make it easier to get what they want sexually without facing a backlash. You also have the problem that there are too many of these men being stupidly honest, so it won't be possible for men as a whole to collectively manage the female sex in this way, the way women do men. There will probably always be too many men going full incel for this not to end up…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 01:04 PM
7	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. I'm not sure I agree. Totally ignoring your flaws and deficits can attract attention to them: it's the equivalent of when fat people wear tight clothing or balding dudes grow a power donut. Especially when it comes to things that can't be changed or at least are hard to change, it's best to appear like you are dealing with the situation... well. Being too self-deprecating is not a good idea, but a mild, sincerely humourous ruefulness often comes across as the most secure. An old man that denies …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 12:54 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. Somehow no man wants us because we are not young and fertile. But at the same time it’s impossible for women to have trouble with dating all of always have a line or orbiters. I mean, settling is a thing. For both sexes. Turns into a bit of an argumentum ad absurdum, since obviously we all can't marry movie stars and models or whatever. At the same time, we can frankly admit that there are unfortunate people who do have to basically cling on to whoever will take them if they don't want to be alo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:54 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. It's hard for people to be honest about this topic. The real truth for old(er) men is, unfortunately for them, that unless they're exceptionally great, both women themselves and society are not going to be enthusiastic about them trying to get with young women. This is rooted in deep, primal biology: the subconscious instinct is, Why should this valuable fertile womb be seeded by this doddering old man, rather than a young, virile youth? Deep down, it's not about power gaps or any of that (mostl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:46 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. Older men may legitimately be sore at how society seems to be deliberately trying to demonise them and make their dating life harder, especially if they're trying to eat fresher than is the norm (although, while sharper than was the case historically, it's difficult to argue that doing so wasn't stigmatised in the past as well, because it was). That said, if you can follow Rules 1 & 2, this won't matter. It is a universal law, after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:25 PM
1	Q4M: Would you prefer to date in the West or in the Middle East Arabia is. So is Iran. East of Consta Istanbul = Asia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 06:03 PM
4	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Dating apps have a massive impact on dating, like it or not. Even if you aren't using it, other people are (and at the very least know they can). This has all kinds of effects on human behaviour and by human behaviour, I mean feeeemale behaviour). Dating apps put Chad cock on speed dial, basically: to think this doesn't change the average slob's chances of flattering chicks is delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 05:30 PM
7	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Historically, feminism in Korea has had a strong xenophilic flavour to it, though; Western men have often been praised as a sort of contrast to Confucianist orthodoxy (this has been one of the causes for particularly strong animosity towards male expats in Korea from local men). That said, a) some of this attitude is wearing off as awareness of how widespread anti-feminism is in the West is spreading in South Korea, and b) Korean society is very online, so Internet-accelerated hoeflation is as s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 02:32 PM
7	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man There are trade-offs either way. Stay with the natives, and you're largely under their thumb. It's not the 19th century anymore, so your local consul isn't going to come to your assistance cracking a whip (let alone call in the gunboats down the river) when they give you trouble (and they are more likely than you'd hope to do so; the unpalatable reality is that the native in foreign climes tends to have chuddy, illiberal, and unsympathetic views of the white man coming over to poach the game in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 11:49 AM
16	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man TBH, it always baffled me when Western guys in places like Korea (or Japan, or China, or anywhere really) often got so indignant and bothered when their spouse wasn't necessarily willing to pack everything up and move to Europe or North America overnight, or at least had reservations about making the move. This was a big issue in the early 2000s. I mean, there are Asians who do really want to move out - a lot (the meme that Asia is just romping over everyone now and is the new centre of the univ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 11:42 AM
9	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man You hear of a lot of salty local dudes especially in Singapore who say you can just show up and JBW, but I suspect this is exaggeration. Especially for the trad crowd actually wanting to get married and have a family or whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 11:27 AM
2	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man If they had ridden the CC, they wouldn't tell you. Asian women are a lot more careful about that shit than Western women, even if they want the freedoms Western women have, they want to keep their reputations cleaner to help them hook a beta provider when they get older (and Asian men will to an extent help them collectively launder their image for the same of ethnic and national pride).	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:27 AM
3	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man I've heard there are more and more Chad foreigners going anywhere and everywhere (including SE Asia) to escape the hoeflation pandemic in the West. There are going to also be rich/successful/attractive local guys anywhere btw, although obviously Western guys will have a certain advantage in every Asian country because of the height advantage and the bigger dick thing, but this will only get you so far if you're not Chad obviously. Korea vs. Japan: I agree with you that the Charisma Man thing has…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:19 AM
3	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Yeah a lot of young people there just don't tell their parents about who they're piping/getting piped by at all to avoid the 20 questions/interrogation about whether they're wasting their time, do they have a future etc. because the social norm/rule is you're supposed to be dating for marriage but people aren't really so they just lie about it by omission to save face. It turns into a don't ask don't tell thing. It is the Asian way after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:15 AM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man I don't know how many expats are marrying in developed Asian nations anymore, same as in the West (even places like Singapore where the expats are a cut above, the whole social scene is very much like the West which means marriage is becoming obsolete for the usual reasons). I think it's more likely to be a thing in Third World countries, because there you're more likely to feel like you can be in a secure situation socially and financially, and play the big white bwana or whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:12 AM
2	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man the lesser amount of fetishization of White men(lower than SE Asian countries and other Asian countries) This is and isn't true. For example, in South Korea, there are a lot of local women who are strongly attracted to foreign guys (those who are dominant and attractive, obviously). It's essentially common knowledge that this is considerably supressed by stern harsh mate-guarding on the part of local men. There are a lot of Korean women who absolutely despise Confucianism, and some who even want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:07 AM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Dating apps have a bad reputation in many asian countries. Dating apps have the same effect and the same reputation everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:01 AM
-4	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Cope, even women people not on dating apps know they exist and how they work and how they change who wears the pants in relationships. This is obviously true in the West... the shitty part of this that OP is ignoring is that the same is true in Asia. Time was as an average foreign guy you could rock up in an average expat dive bar where all the local women who were into your kind gathered and you were bound to meet someone into you just because of the numbers game. Well now women everywhere have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 08:58 AM
7	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Hellow handsome boy ,are you interested invest in the crypto? It is more easy than u think~	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 08:52 AM
2	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Dating in Asia (e.g., Japan): You receive hundreds of likes each month, primarily from women who are slim, fashionable, and educated. Women may text you first or even initiate date plans, creating a more balanced exchange of effort and attention. You have numerous opportunities to go on dates. This doesn't happen for the average dude in Asia though. You have to be Chang Thunderwang with an 8/10 face, big muscles, the usual, a celebrity, or (maybe) a foreign man (and being a foreigner won't work …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 08:47 AM