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| 2 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?then tell them to stop being obnoxious and entitled about not getting men's attention. They're almost as bad as the incel dudes. My dislike only extends to that group of fat women who seem to think they're models and should be getting the same level of attention their attractive friends do, and then get incredibly bitchy when they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?right and it's always the one obnoxious fat friend. Strange how that never seems to happen when I'm dealing with groups that don't have one, and before you ask no It's not cause I randomly call her fat or something and the girl I'm talking to suddenly thinks I'm a dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Taking photos for OLD just feels lame and pathetic for a dude...you don't need six pack abs to look good with your shirt off. You can pull off the topless pool look if you're well-built and aren't carrying around a giant amount of fat in your stomach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:14 PM |
| 2 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.no, it really is a double standard women just want to pretend it isn't because it makes them look bad which yeah duh no one wants to admit something that reflects poorly on them. I don't really particularly care because all this toxic crap really on applies to social media and a bit of OLD when I'm out and about talking with normal people a girl or guy's "type" really doesn't matter as much as the vibe. We all have a physical type we're attracted to but social skills pay such a massive part that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Taking photos for OLD just feels lame and pathetic for a dude...uh it very much Is. If you're shy about having your picture taken and don't like taking up space that's extremely nonmasculine it means you aren't comfortable in your own skin consciously or not. It's like dudes who are too scared to dance. it's not a "girly" thing to be able to dance with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Taking photos for OLD just feels lame and pathetic for a dude...stop being fat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?I don't particularly about that being admitted I do care that there are a lot of double standards in dating and they pretty much all only benefit women. The classic is that a girl can tell me I'm too short and that's seen as a preference but if I turn around and say I'm not dating an overweight girl I'm suddenly an evil man who hates women. I don't need some pity party about how men have it so hard but I would like women to come back to reality about it being a two-way street. If women want to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 10:45 PM |
| 2 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.LOL, guys aren't allowed to have preferences. If you ever so much as mention liking certain types of women you start getting railed by the misogynist squad. Women by contrast are allowed to have whatever preferences they like and men are expected to deal with it. It's easily the most bullshit double standard in dating. Now it doesn't really factor into the real world that often thank god but women are very much entitled about how they should be able to attract any guy they want and god forbid he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 10:44 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedWomen are not attracted to men who aren't masculine. This isn't something that's up for debate it's been shown too many times. A kind man and a spineless nice guy aren't the same thing, but if the choice was between an actual asshole and a spineless dude in the moment the woman will biologically gravitate towards the asshole because he's in touch with his masculinity. Kind Masculine men clean up in the dating world because any sane person doesn't want to be mistreated and kind men who aren't "ni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 09:52 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedYeah there's a rampant issue of men's masculinity being neutered by society. Not even getting into stuff like how low the average man's testosterone has gotten | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 09:05 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedYou guys aren't nice. You're people pleasers that isn't even remotely the same thing. Being a genuinely kind person who's kind for its own sake and being a "nice guy" who's trying to get people to like him are very far apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 08:39 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreated“Assertiveness”, “leadership” etc., is code for arrogant, controlling douchebag, no it's really not. Most men have just become so spinless they think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 08:06 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedthat's a psychological thing and men are also susceptible to it at that point it's less about attraction and dating and more just straight psychological manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 08:03 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedyou aren't supposed to run the other way into complete dick lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 08:02 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedevery woman says this. It's statistically never been true in practice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 07:58 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedYeah, I had to train myself to stop doing that. If the girl ain't texting back immediately then neither am I. If it's a girl I have some interest in and she's not being receptive I might drop a text here and there to see if she might still be interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 07:22 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedTrash women and nice guys are a great combo they both deserve no one so they can just pair up with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 07:17 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedwe've all been there bro lol. It's a mentality shift eventually you learn to just stop caring if the girl even texts back (yeah I know easier said than done). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Is "netflix and chill" / cinema date dead?I can guarantee you the girl will want to try at least one thing she sees on it if she's not a boring bed partner. If you get a real spicy one she might just try and copy a whole scene lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Is "netflix and chill" / cinema date dead?netflix and chill is the thing I do after the date so I can get her clothes off. Toss on some steamy latin show and grab the candles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Location is more important than looks or anything else when it comes to datingI wasn't just talking about looks, but I'm also not white so going inland just amps up the dating racism for me. If you give me two similar girls the one in the big city generally has a much better world view. Women will deny it tooth and nail but boy can they be racist as fuck when it comes to picking dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success?sex is a much bigger thing for men than it is women so they do care about getting it pretty quickly. Personally if it's someone I'm actually interested I don't want her to sleep with me right away that makes me assume she doesn't see me as anything serious mostly because that's how I work. Women I want to date I tend to actually set up dates. Women I just find hot I'll try to pull out of the club that night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 06:03 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedfrom what I've gathered "being a dick" to these guys is just basic teasing so you know flirting 101 lol. They haven't managed to get past the idea that you don't need to treat the woman like the greatest thing since sliced bread the moment you lay eyes on her. Pretty sure if they saw me talking to a group of girls they'd think I was a complete asshole since teasing women is borderline a pass time for me on nights out now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 05:59 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedYeah it's all about masculinity that's what women are drawn to and "nice guys" have none of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 05:57 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedNo, women are repelled by non-masculine men. It just so happens that most self-proclaimed "nice guys" are absolute doormats with barely any masculine traits to speak of, and being masculine is basically a prerequisite to being that edgy asshole. When you run into a genuinely kind man who's also in charge of his masculinity and has a backbone women flock. It's the same thing as being the funny guy. Funny and masculine? Easy pickups. Your only brand of humor is making fun of yourself because of lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 05:56 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Location is more important than looks or anything else when it comes to datingyes, which is why you stay in the larger cities. Far more options and most of them significantly more attractive than anything you'd find in bumblefuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | The reality of dating for menYou didn't mention bars or clubs anywhere but those are decent places to meet women especially if you have friends who also like to go out and you have some game We have so much fun doing this. I don't even use the apps anymore because I'd rather just pull girls in person where I don't have to bother dealing with OLD bullshit or catfishing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Navigating the Modern Dating Market: The Uncomfortable Truth About Looks in 2023This is a strawman you came up with. You don't actually know this. No this is from someone who quite literally trains people to speak in public and to handle/acquire clients which is a much higher-stress environment with much bigger stakes than trying to pick up women. I'm getting real tired of the austim argument from you pill doomers. Both my cousin and one of my best friends are autistic. One is married the other is in a long-term relationship and before he was in this one I swear the bastard… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 07:45 AM |
| 0 | Navigating the Modern Dating Market: The Uncomfortable Truth About Looks in 2023social skills like any other skill can be trained, so yes it is something you can learn later in life. Most people who struggle with it have one bad experience and then give up so they never put in the reps. Most smooth talkers who know how to carry a conversation and charm people weren't born that way. I certainly wasn't. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 06:39 AM |
| 1 | One has to accept reality sooner or laterUnfortunately, we live in a society where even landwhales get attention they shouldn't so a lot of women have an inflated ego and think they're owed a lot better than they deserve. No honey your 300 pound ass does not deserve Chris Hemsworth I barely think you deserve a date in the first place. I don't think it's that bad if you leave social media and actually interact with women in the real world. It's VERY rare for you to just get comically blown out like social makes it out to be most are qui… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 05:19 AM |
| 0 | What are the best and worst copes?what fucked up workouts you idiots doing that it takes 4 years for you to see results lol You can literally pack on 20+ pounds of muscle in the first year | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 05:16 AM |
| 1 | I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely?I don't particularly care how a girl looks without makeup. I can safely assume she's wearing it 99% of the time anyway. Also yes. I went from Mediocre to pulling personnel trainers (so basically fitness model tier bodies) by just changing my wardrobe and getting contacts. It's incredible how many dudes are just shooting themselves in the foot and blaming genetics when they still dress like their mom picked their outfits. I'm not even in perfect shape yet I can't even imagine how easy life is gon… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 05:06 AM |
| 8 | Yo what’s up with all the Sub-7 dudes at the gym? Like they think maybe they can compensate for facial aesthetics with muscle mass/definition 🤦🏻there are probably close to 0 women who don't like a dude with a nice body. If you're lean with good shoulder and arm definition you're basically there. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Yo what’s up with all the Sub-7 dudes at the gym? Like they think maybe they can compensate for facial aesthetics with muscle mass/definition 🤦🏻Yes, they do lol. Everyone who improves themselves and figures out blackpill is a meme is a threat to their doomer worldview | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Yo what’s up with all the Sub-7 dudes at the gym? Like they think maybe they can compensate for facial aesthetics with muscle mass/definition 🤦🏻Going to the gym to look good is a perfectly valid reason. As long as it's not an unhealthy obsession. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 09:26 PM |
| -1 | Yo what’s up with all the Sub-7 dudes at the gym? Like they think maybe they can compensate for facial aesthetics with muscle mass/definition 🤦🏻Jesus christ you blackpills are pathetic | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Navigating the Modern Dating Market: The Uncomfortable Truth About Looks in 2023That's my thing about it tbh. I hate the defeatist mentality. So you do all that and still don't get a date? Who cares you walk out the other end being a much better man. Also if you actually do the self-improvement the chances of not getting at least some attention is close to 0. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Navigating the Modern Dating Market: The Uncomfortable Truth About Looks in 2023These age ranges keep moving. The other day I heard even women in their 30s won't give 'average" guys a chance anymore rofl. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 09:12 PM |
| -8 | Navigating the Modern Dating Market: The Uncomfortable Truth About Looks in 2023Mid 20s which should be right in the middle of this disaster zone because that's supposedly where girls ignore everyone but chad. Yeah the relationship may end but the logic of blackpill especially is that in my age range women only rotate through Chads until they hit the wall in their mid 30s. I may be fuzzy on what actually qualifies for chad right now but I can tell you these dudes ain't it. My point is. I am out and about in Major American cities (apparently the worst for it) I see these rel… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 09:03 PM |
| -9 | Navigating the Modern Dating Market: The Uncomfortable Truth About Looks in 2023Not really. I'm 5'8 and have a great time whenever I go out clubbing, and most of the couples I see are perfectly normal people, and some are not even that attractive dudes with very attractive women. If we used the logic of people like you me being under 5'10 just means I'm doomed forever which is really not the case lol. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 08:53 PM |
| 3 | "sex isn't everything" means "I'm a cuck"Is that really how guys are being raised now? That sucjs yeah, it's really bad. It's the whole pendulum swinging the other way where a lot of screechy feminists who just outright hate dudes kept beating it over their heads through social media and general society that going near a woman that doesn't tell you it's okay before hand is evil. Which as well all know isn't how this works because men are the ones who are supposed to lead interaction and approach women while building attraction. Suddenl… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 08:50 PM |
| 2 | "sex isn't everything" means "I'm a cuck"nah people are in general naturally quite horny especially if they're in a happy relationship. Women were just taught for years they should suppress it and in more modern times men have been taught their sexual urges are something to be ashamed of. It's part of the reason there's a masculinity problem with a lot of guys they've had it beaten over their heads they shouldn't talk to or look at women since they were kids and now they have no idea how to build attraction outside of how they see the … | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 08:39 PM |
| -5 | How to not get really sad about being genetic trash?Shave your head, Gym, Stylist. same shit as always if you're balding don't fucking stay balding that looks awful, and from this post I'm assuming if anyone does talk to you the conversation is probably not great so work on that. Yes I know "but chad doesn't have to blah blah" get over it they won a lottery and don't have to try as hard the world isn't fair. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 08:17 PM |
| -1 | All human interaction is transactionalyes if you don't provide any value you get ignored. Get over it. Value also doesn't just mean looks or money you can provide value in several different ways. The pill doomers here just happen to be bottom-barrel in every facet. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Question for blackpillers. Do you have any aspirations or goals outside of mating and dating or have you just accepted your station and are waiting for it all to end? Can be anything short or long term.I was Blackpilled then I started maxxing (I hate this fucking term) everything and it made me realize every pill is a meme tbh. Attaching myself to the "treadmill" which blackpillers seem hilariously allergic to because it would make them actually do something instead of cry was probably the best decision I made a couple of years ago. I am a significantly better person in every facet of my life now and shocker people notice. Almost like it actually works. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Why do most females hide their relationship on social mediaDo you want to deal with your whole social media following knowing you've suddenly gone through a breakup? I wouldn't post my GF either unless we've been dating for a significant portion of time. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 08:10 PM |
| -15 | Navigating the Modern Dating Market: The Uncomfortable Truth About Looks in 2023People really need to go outside and I will keep saying it because if you look at actual couples and club pickups you'd notice that the whole "it's only 5%" crap is a pile of horseshit outside tiktok trash girls who no one should want to date in the first place. Also yes your look does matter but it's not the comedic blackpill doomer of "MAH GENETICS" the amount of dudes shooting themselves in the foot I see outside are insane. Bad grooming, Bad Bo (yes I can smell some of you), terrible style. … | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 08:07 PM |
| 2 | "sex isn't everything" means "I'm a cuck"It depends on how high your and your partner's sex drives are. My last relationship involved a lot of let's say adventurous sex encounters because both our sex drives were incredibly high and we could get horny at the drop of a hat and when you live in the same spot not really much need to keep it in check. Even then sex isn't everything. Sex is fun and releases huge amounts of dopamine so being bad can and will kill a relationship but it's not the whole relationship. The funny thing about posts… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Still amazed at how true the blackpill isI really want to see where you guys live because at most the guys I see are slightly taller than me (5'8) and I only really see the Giants when I'm out clubbing. 99% of the time when I see a tall dude he's with an equally tall girl because that makes sense. Most couples I see are close in height, or it's a really short girl with a dude who's somewhere around 5'8-5'10 It is statically impossible for you to only see these guys if you don't have blinders on because the population simply isn't that … | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 10:15 PM |
| 1 | There are an alarming number of male “sex symbol” celebrities who date down, that is women older or less attractive than themEven Mendez, Kirsten Dunst and Rhianna are date downs? What drugs are you on? | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 07:54 PM |
| -6 | Does anyone hate how men's hobbies are demonised but women's aren't?They Say it because most of you use video games and anime as something to do INSTEAD of improving yourself or going out and socializing. Cutting that shit out of your life cold turkey forces you to go do something else. Also the girls super into video games and anime don't get attention from the attractive dudes if they aren't doing stuff to keep themselves in shape. I'm not banging some ugly-ass landwhale just because she loves my favorite anime. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 07:52 PM |
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