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| 1 | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.I already very kindly broke down my comment, literally nowhere did I shame you for your experience. I literally just asked why you're labeling women who have kinks as "fetishizing." you might have an actual problem here if you think that this is how you are communicating, none of this took place. This is a delusional fabrication and the evidence is literally in text. You never asked me anything and I never said that women who have kinks are fetishizing. You literally might have me confused with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a need.well I do, I can walk away at any time. but I don't lol no one to blame but myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesas real as your misogyny. the next time you drop a fun little gem like this When women are truthful about what we want, we're called vapid at best, assaulted at worst. remember that you also went out of your way to drop this one you just telegraphed your shame over being a submissive. and this Okay repressed ronda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:28 AM |
| – | Sex is a need.i mean..... we all know we aren't here to become better people through enlightenment and revelations. Your point is solid! But man do we love to roll around in shit. We jumped into this piggy pit voluntarily. People, am I right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesjesus dude. the internalized misogyny on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.My comment wasn't an invitation for some random woman to shame me for my sexual experience. You are in the wrong here. You responded to a comment, that wasn't directed at you, with cruelty and dismissiveness. You are now trying to argue with me that I shouldn't feel the way I feel about it. That you 'did nothing wrong'. That I am being too emotional and you should be able to say what ever you want. You were just joking right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:18 AM |
| – | Sex is a need.Its like I am sitting with my out of touch mother in law as she explains why it was absolutely necessary that she report her landscaper to ICE because of a missing lawn gnome. Sure, the lawn gnome was later found in storage, and Enrique was in fact an American citizen after all. But it was the principal of the thing, Karen had every right to completely disregard the wellbeing of those around her so that she could weaponize her pedantic thinking. She NEEDED to after all. You are the one who has n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesnot nearly as much as you need to learn to think before you speak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.You are trying to explain my own sexuality to me. Mansplainer. I know who I am and I am fully versed in the intricacies of my sexuality. I understood what you said. I understood what I said. Stop infantilizing women and dismissing their experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesyou came after me dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.Girl what are you trying to unpack? You didn't even ask a question you just telegraphed your shame over being a submissive. Idk what brainwashing you've been through but it's not "fetishizing" to have a safe, sane, and consensual kink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesmisogynist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.I read what you wrote and I'm reading what you are writing. You're a hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:56 AM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.you just did the same thing to me when I was honest about my sexual desires so stfu and in a comment that wasn't even a reply to your comment. You went out of your way to attack me for my opinon on MY sexuality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:52 AM |
| – | Sex is a need.what OP responded to this comment with is all you are ever going to get out of this person. There is either an actual phycological issue here or they are an expert at trolling. Obviously we know that we shouldn't feed trolls, but we also shouldn't feed psychopaths. If this person isn't trolling, we should all thank our lucky stars that we don't know them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferenceswow you are kind of a shitbag. Women really do shame other women for being open about their sexuality. Well not all women, just women like you huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:42 AM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.yep. this is literally an interaction most women have had. When I was 16 I worked at a pool. Middle aged men hit on me a lot and saying things like 'i'm 16' literally didn't work. Telling them I am not attracted to them was not an option for 16 year old timid me who was afraid of confrontation. But guess what always worked? What always works for women at any age? "You are going to be held accountable for your behavior by another man" my dad is on his way to pick me up, my brother wants to talk t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencessorry can we unpack this? the elite invented it (slut-shaming) to control mate selection because top competing men were hoarding land and women lol. Joe Dirtboot didn’t invent anything but women seem to insist he’s historically been Stalin and i don’t understand that I know a lot of women fetishize rough sex. I do. Can I tell you why I think I do this? For me, the idea of surrendering control is very hot in a fantasy scenario (ie. the fantasy is about guy I am attracted to). Let me tell you NO O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:18 AM |
| 2 | If all men became athletic and lean, hypergamy would not have the average woman's standards suddenly raise to re-exclude them.agreed, thanks for the response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 02:47 AM |
| 2 | If all men became athletic and lean, hypergamy would not have the average woman's standards suddenly raise to re-exclude them.why write it like this though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 02:42 AM |
| 1 | If all men became athletic and lean, hypergamy would not have the average woman's standards suddenly raise to re-exclude them.with online dating women tend to be uncharacteristically authentic would you say this authenticity is a positive or negative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do women always seem to have a problem with another woman at work ?"you must be the other guy" Lmao Love this movie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 02:32 AM |
| -1 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.I would date and attractive, kind man. I would not date an unattractive, kind man I would not date an attractive, cruel man. I had to write this out for you. My god | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.don't be ridiculous. We are all wasting our time here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesIt’s not that I don’t think that community of people exist it’s that I wouldn’t use the worst examples of humanity to base my opinion of all people on. People suck. I mean we all suck. It’s part of the human experience. But regardless of the interactions I have with men in this sub, i don’t think all men are the same. I love and appreciate so many men in my life. I guess I just don’t understand how it falls on me to explain the actions of women I don’t engage with. But it does. I’m accused of ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.Doesn’t matter though does it, you couldn’t articulate an argument anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesDude, no one is forcing you to read anything. What’s wrong with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:50 AM |
| 13 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.You’re so defensive. It’s not that I think you want to enslave women, it’s that I think you’re completely ignorant of the deeper implications here. Every single need that has been brought up as a comparison has been a HUMAN need. Medicine, water, food. Something that all HUMANS need and benefit from But OP is talking about something different here. It’s not just a need that is unique to men but also requires the participation of another human. I notice that OP hasn’t even thought about addressin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.LOL ok I’ll think about my behavior and get back to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesso weirdos like you can get off on reading it i guess? you scrolled through all these comments just to say something shitty? Am I feeding your kink? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:31 AM |
| – | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Ya, the "answer my yes or no question!!!!! I will accept no answer but yes or no!!!!" yuck, sorry but I am not gonna participate in your weird little ego game. I said what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:30 AM |
| – | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.you pretending not to understand is really low | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:27 AM |
| 7 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.This is wrong. This sentiment and argument are deplorable. Its even worse that you and OP performatively feign ignorance as to the underlying meaning of this assertation. Of course you don't want to explore the deeper meaning behind this post. You can't defend it. So you pretend that you lack the common sense necessary to infer the broader implications of this kind of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:26 AM |
| 7 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.You don't like what I am saying because it makes you feel bad. you SHOULD feel bad. You are talking about women. You are talking about me. I am not a fucking commodity. Women are not consumables Maybe, rather than getting mad at people for taking what you say seriously, you should think more deeply about your words before you throw them out. You know what you mean. We know what you mean. And we know what and who you are talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:23 AM |
| 8 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Blood and plasma are donated and benefit ALL humans. Men, women, and children Donating blood doesn't come with the risk of pregnancy and also doesn't require someone to strip down and be used for another person's pleasure. This is gross dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:19 AM |
| 6 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.cute but you can't talk about a man's 'need' for sex and completely disregard the human required for meeting this need. A man NEEDS access to MY body because he wants to cum? no. this is dense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:15 AM |
| 15 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.I really despise this argument. Your refusal to acknowledge the elephant in the room makes your position so much more disturbing. Water isn't a human. HIV medication isn't human. Healthy food isn't human. When you drink water, another person isn't required to strip down and allow you to use their body in order to drink. When people are supplied with HIV medication, no human is required to strip down and risk getting pregnant in order for a person to benefit from the meds. Healthy food is availab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.monks represent a lot of different religions. Its a name for people who give up worldly possessions in order to focus on religion whether that religion is Christianity, Buddhism, Hinduism, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:59 AM |
| 13 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.this is awful. The idea that men will die if they don't have access to a woman's body is abhorrent especially considering that its factually inaccurate. This 'need' requires another HUMAN supply their body to satisfy this need. You getting off is not more important than my autonomy. What are you talking about here? Have you thought about the words you are saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:50 AM |
| 23 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true." I like what women have to say as long as they tell me what I want to hear, if I don't like what they are saying, they are lying" ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.yeah, I don;t doubt that you combed through my comment history instead of educating yourself on your own argument. I get the overwhelming sense that I am very lucky not to know you. Have a good night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:33 AM |
| 23 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.what. the. fuck. You don't like what women have to say? Don't get mad at women for keeping their thoughts to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencessince women mostly prefer and practice deranged sexual acts/roleplays, It never occurred to you for a second that this is incredibly demeaning and disrespectful? How dare you. To reduce my sexuality and the sexuality of ALL women to this? To a weird anecdotal and raunchy tidbit that caught your attention. And then to have the audacity to expect a coherent response from me? and then you drop this gem and since you get behind the idea that women aren't necessarily supposed to share their sexual pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:28 AM |
| 23 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.but that's the whole point. We aren't lying. We have been shamed enough that we know not to be open or honest about anything to do with our sexuality unless we can trust the person we are opening up to. People don't like sexually confident women. We stand to gain nothing from exposing our intimate desires. Why would we acknowledge a kink here? So we can be blamed for the treatment we receive. Like really have you thought about this? Every single chick I know who is honest about them being sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.bwahahahahaha!!! I did not in fact look to Wikipedia for this information. I am starting to feel a little bad here. Why do you refuse to look into this? Like, just look it up and read about Maslow's hierarchy of needs from other websites than Wikipedia. Or don't, I mean I don't know what it would do for you at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.haha oh so you're that guy. im not shocked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:06 AM |
| 6 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.no, I've never had any meaningful interactions with that user. Its just that more than one person disagrees with you. Well and I mean because you are factually wrong. This shouldn't be a huge shock right? You are misrepresenting information that is readily accessible to every single person you are talking to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:05 AM |
| 3 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Just reiterating that I never replied to your comment in this thread. hmmm you..... literally have been replying to my comments. I would post the link but we saw what happened when we linked a source to your own argument regarding our favorite subject, Maslow's hierarchy of needs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:59 AM |
| 4 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.LMAO if you are doing this on purpose, I tip my hat to you. This is so funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:55 AM |
| 10 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.sober up lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:54 AM |
| 12 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.because you referenced Maslow's hierarchy of needs which you also, hilariously, have no understanding of. Maybe you were thinking of a different hierarchy of needs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:52 AM |
| 10 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.ya you responded to my comment where you thought I came up with Maslow's hierarchy of needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:50 AM |
| 18 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.this isn't my argument LMAO this is Maslow's hierarchy of needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:46 AM |
| 19 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Physiological needs (food, water, shelter, rest) Safety needs (security, stability, freedom from fear) Social and belonging needs (friendship, intimacy, acceptance) Esteem needs (respect, recognition, status) Self-actualisation needs (achieving one's full potential, creativity) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesmaybe. lets start over then I haven't answered your questions. If you don't mind, please restate them here and I will do my best to directly address them. I assume it has to do with the idea you talked about with the gendered kink imbalance causing distress to men. Go ahead and ask me what you want to ask me from a fresh palate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesyou assuming I am too stupid to understand the conversation is projection. Its the reason you can't seems to argue your point compellingly. You lack imagination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencessure thing, have a good night buddy, sorry about.. your situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesYes i do, i cant help it 😳 okay? Gosh stop pushing my buttons I shouldn't keep responding, but when I deal with creeps like you in real life, the ones who mouth breath and glare as they stare? This is the venting I want to do. The things I say to other girls after we deal with people like you. I know its falling of deaf ears but its therapeutic for me. Everyone sees how you behave. They are just too polite to call you out in person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:35 AM |
| – | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.haha omg my bad. you have no idea what the quote means. I wasn't trying to bully you, its just when you throw around the names of 19th century authors, I assume you have at least average reading comprehension. I get it, you didn't understand what you were typing. Don't be embarrassed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesI don't argue that women are victims. I never said any of that. You can't hear a word I have to say here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesya,? you get off when people use big words? You like being dominated by women huh? After all your talk about Would you leave your child with someone who watches pedo porn but says i wouldnt try it! you then debase yourself in order to what? What point are you proving with your repulsive little comments? That you aren't any better than the people you judge? That you get off on trying to make women feel uncomfortable? Maybe you should check on your parents, I imagine the basement you live in doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesYour what? This is important to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.good lord you guys never fail to disappoint. You drop a really shitty quote about women, a quote that you probably never thought deeply about before you impulsively repeated it, and then skirt away when asked to defend YOUR comment that YOU willingly offered. Yeesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesI sure can, but not before I put you in your place. I know guys like you, every woman does. sit down son | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:13 AM |
| – | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.I don't think you will have the courage to respond to your own can of worms so I am gonna go ahead and double reply here. You giggling to yourself over the ignorant comments of an author who was basically a nepo baby is funny to me. You can't even defend the quote you were so eager to share. Maybe don't say anything at all next time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:09 AM |
| 4 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesstop... You're making my skin crawl Between your comments on women, your judgement of people who are open about their sexuality, and your creepy little comment to me here, I think I have a pretty good idea of the kind of guy you are. gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:09 AM |
| 6 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencescringe. You know that the c in cnc stands for CONSENTUAL but you refuse to acknowledge that and instead hyperfocus on the nc (non-consensual) part. This is a you issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.A man who pretends to understand women is bad manners. For him to really to understand them is bad morals. Can you articulate your understanding of this quote? What does this mean to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:55 AM |
| 4 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferenceswhat does that first c stand for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesThanks Judge Judy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:37 AM |
| 7 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesWhY DoNt WoMeN ShArE ThEiR SeXuAl DeSiReS WiTh Us oh I don't know, GRAND INQUISITIONER This is the most uncomfortable thing I've read today and not because the person you are responding to is open and honest. Its you. You are making this weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:36 AM |
| 7 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesthat...can't be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:32 AM |
| 0 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesI did read it. I don't think you fully understand what you are communicating here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:22 AM |
| 7 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesmen learning through experience that their partners are likely into choking, spanking, and generally rough sex. and what are women learning through if not experience? this is the problem Is it to imply there’s something morally wrong with enjoying spanking, or getting sparked? Obviously not but if you go into the sexual experience assuming all women are this warped version, you are adding to their experience too. If a chick enjoys BDSM, I hope to god she gets to enjoy it with someone she trusts … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.c'mon here. This is my own argument. I know exactly what this chick is talking about. Men with easy attitudes, a quick wit, and who are not threats, who are safe. And yeah, they're also attractive. Attractive people get to capitalize on these personality traits. All around. Men and women. I addressed that kindness has to come with attractiveness for it to be seen as sexy. You said The discussion (at least on this particular comment chain) is not really if men are upset that kindness isn’t gettin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesCan I ask where you live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferences"So you think that women demanding degrading treatment conditioned men to act in a way that degrades women?" Yes, LMAO. hold on while I get to the rest of your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.I am saying that kindness is not all that is needed to be attractive to women, or men for that matter. Big forehead slap here. It does matter unless you yourself don't want a kind partner. Nobody has ever told men that kindness is what makes them sexy.” I am saying that’s wrong Right but that's the off-putting part of your argument. I didn't say this. I have never heard any person who thinks that kindness alone will make them attractive. In fact, if you are acting kind just for benefits, you are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesewww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesmen, in general, are evil because they pressure poor, innocent women into doing degrading sex acts against their will, because of patriarchy YOU wrote this. But I'm the crazy one. If you don't understand what I am saying you don't have to work yourself up and hurt your brain. Just walk away from the conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesThis comment doesn't ring like you think it does. Thanks for the attempt but me musing about why its hard to have online conversations wasn't an invitation for your creepy advice. I think its the expectation of familiarity that puts me off. Like why would you say this to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.The original argument of “People never equate kindness to sexiness” is untrue. People absolutely do that, and I agree with you that they shouldn’t. You should be more concerned about your own understanding. This opinion that kindness is useless to young men is very strange. Being a good person is a net positive. Contributing to community, being trustworthy, supporting your family and neighbors. These are prized human traits. This compartmentalization of basic human decency, where lot of men on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesand yet you give it freely and unasked for. Sorry you're mad at your mom. These feelings will pass I promise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesAnd you sound hysterical What are you talking about? Why do you think this has to be a ALL WOMEN or ALL MEN thing? Admitting that women should.... WTF?? This isn't my responsibility or stance. What are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesI don't know what to tell you if you think all women are evil. Its wrong and delusional but if that's what you think, I have no power of influence here. I only hope that you will eventually get to run in the kind of circles I do where people don't hate each other as a rule. The gender war is an online thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.people in general literally never equate kindness to sexiness. Good! some things don't need to be sexualized. Some things can just be human things without this weird, sexual, violent, transactional paradigm. There is more to life than getting laid. Kindness is such a fucking gift and if you're just looking to get your dick wet you really wouldn't appreciate it anyway so why lament its absence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesyou're kinda shitty. Someone took the time to talk to you and you throw out a bratty ipad kid reply? Go to bed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesAW30+ who? this means nothing to me. The men vs women spat will end when people develop empathy and patience. So.... It is what it is, I think part of the reason I get so mad is because I am desperate for connection and conversation. POSITIVE connection and conversation. And it just never happens because social media is toxic. Its a vicious cycle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:24 AM |
| 11 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesSo you think that women demanding degrading treatment conditioned men to act in a way that degrades women? If women are freaky, its societies fault. Of course it is. How fucking weird is the conversation around female sexuality. How many men can you count on one hand that all a. believe that women like to have sex b. believe that women have a thoroughly developed sense of autonomy c. believe that women are diverse and varied individuals who will have different expectations and desires depending … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:21 AM |
| 5 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesacting poorly consistently. Routinely proving to the social group you interact with that your interests are rooted in your own pleasure rather than the good of the group. People who lie, steal, cheat, and harm in order to serve themselves get bad reputations. Outliers exist too obviously but I know this sub doesn't like to be charitable when it comes to misunderstandings so its probably not worth bringing up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:09 AM |
| 23 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesYou aren't entitled to the intimate details of someone's sexual preference. What is actually wrong with the lot of you here? The things you guys are saying are cartoonishly privileged and ignorant. No woman owes it to you to be honest about their sexual preference unless we are talking about a specific scenario like, she was lying about being gay for 20 years of marriage. But things like porn categories? This is private goddamn information and its so so weird that you all are offended that you d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesLOL 'about WOMEN'S dishonesty!" come on, you have to see why this comment is so out of touch. Men and women have honest conversations all the time. In private. After they have gotten to know one another. If a woman wants to tell you her kinks, great. If she doesn't, she isn't LYING TO YOU!!! Withholding personal information isn't lying! What universe do you live in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:02 AM |
| 6 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesomg dude. Stahhp Men get bad reputations for all sorts of reasons and the majority of the time it isn't some grand conspiracy, its because he deserves a bad reputation. You're reaching here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.this isn't a woman lying. This is certain men failing to understand nuance. Its like that trope where a woman says, oh I love a man in uniform, and the man who was eavesdropping suddenly shows up dressed in a janitors jumpsuit. I know exactly what this chick is talking about. Men with easy attitudes, a quick wit, and who are not threats, who are safe. And yeah, they're also attractive. Attractive people get to capitalize on these personality traits. All around. Men and women. A hot chick can be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 03:57 AM |
| 8 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesthis isn't a gotcha. If you weren't so hung up on your own insecurities and anger at women this would be a really interesting conversation on sexual attitudes and cultural influences. We have learned not to be too honest about our sexual desires because of the treatment we have all experienced regarding sex. Just look at the mess that this sub reddit presents. Men can't decide if they hate women, want women, or, (a fan favorite) both! The truth is, no one owes you honesty when it comes to their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Married men live longer, and so do married women (Although the benefit is larger for men than women). However, the argument that marriage benefits men more than women falls flat, when healthier and wealthier men are simply more likely to be married.In my experience, its the families that push for big luxurious weddings. Its a status thing, not a gender thing. Regardless, at any point in the process, the man still has full autonomy so I don't think its fair to use wedding planning as an example of nefarious female scheming. Most people don't view weddings this way. Yes most divorces are initiated by women but its a causation vs correlation thing yet again. Women's income drops by almost twice that of men after a divorce. Women are more like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Married men live longer, and so do married women (Although the benefit is larger for men than women). However, the argument that marriage benefits men more than women falls flat, when healthier and wealthier men are simply more likely to be married.Look at conversations surrounding pre-nups on women centered subs There's your first problem. I doubt you are reading through these subs because you share a commonality with most of the posters. If you wouldn't want to spend time with the person, don't take their comments to heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Married men live longer, and so do married women (Although the benefit is larger for men than women). However, the argument that marriage benefits men more than women falls flat, when healthier and wealthier men are simply more likely to be married.right.... now about the whole "the bride's family pays for the wedding" How does this fit into your argument? And with her planning the whole thing? "Her" day is a big show she and her future husband has to put on for the benefit of her relatives and future in-laws. Its a cultural expectation that both genders have to navigate. You also seem to be completely ignorant of the depth and nuance regarding a woman's experience. Its so shallow. I mean all of it. Its like you haven't developed theory of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 04:22 AM |
| 5 | Married men live longer, and so do married women (Although the benefit is larger for men than women). However, the argument that marriage benefits men more than women falls flat, when healthier and wealthier men are simply more likely to be married.this is a rich person's problem not a gendered problem. You could almost argue that the wedding is actually for the benefit of the family. You do know the bride plans and orchestrates most of the wedding right? And traditionally it is her family paying for it as is representative of a dowry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 04:10 AM |
| 11 | Married men live longer, and so do married women (Although the benefit is larger for men than women). However, the argument that marriage benefits men more than women falls flat, when healthier and wealthier men are simply more likely to be married.rich coming from a guy who cherry picked the evidence for his argument and failed to show a basic understanding of both sides of the argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 03:39 AM |
| 2 | (Traditional) marriage is outdated and should dieThis hit pretty hard. I knew, you know? That children and families are discouraged in a way in modern society. But holy shit did you just paint a picture (very articulately btw) that i never considered. These kids really had a whole year of their education skipped. Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 10:19 PM |
| 5 | (Traditional) marriage is outdated and should dieThis is a you problem. Don’t project | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 04:17 AM |
| 3 | (Traditional) marriage is outdated and should dieThe arrangement we need is that neither party should be punished for starting a family, how ridiculous is it to impose penalties on people for reproducing and then complaining about how people don’t reproduce? Clearly producing offspring has long term economic benefits, so why are we aggressively discouraging people from having kids? How does it make sense to treat parents and their children like pariahs only to turn around and scratch our heads when people don’t have kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalI’m not sure you fully understood my reply when I said we’ve been through worse. The norm was what you said and we persevered. We will survive what’s coming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalI hope you’re right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalWe’ve been through worse and we will survive. But I think the time for preparation is now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:06 AM |
| 16 | Why do you personally hate or dislike The Red Pill?have and will. we need to start being smart. They have had all the opportunity they needed to hear what we have to say. Things might get really bad for women in the very near future. The combination of reactivity, emotional instability, and upper body strength has never served us well. We know what to do though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalthank you for your insights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:28 AM |
| 4 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalthank you for your insights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:27 AM |
| 9 | Why do you personally hate or dislike The Red Pill?thank you for your viewpoint | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:18 AM |
| 7 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalwhen they say they hate us they mean it. We waste time engaging with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalthank you man without a pill. you believe women can't be trusted with pregnancy. its good to know this mentality expands beyond the red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:08 AM |
| 39 | Why do you personally hate or dislike The Red Pill?Its not a joke. They mean it. They believe what they say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:06 AM |
| 18 | Why do you personally hate or dislike The Red Pill?I think we should stop talking to men about any of these issues. They are clear on how they see us. Their narrative doesn't change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalit doesn't matter what I think. That much is clear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalno this is nothing to laugh about. They believe what they say. They believe that women are acting with malicious intent when we do not make men the center of our attention. They believe that women are asking for harassment based on dress. The believe this. Mark my words. They are being sincere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalno, genuinely I think women need to be very attentive here. We need to take this rhetoric seriously. We need to take a step back and start planning incase these words from men turn into action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:53 AM |
| 9 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalI hear you. I see you. We all do. Listen girls. Listen to what they think of us. They aren't joking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generali hear you. We all hear you. We see how you think of us and we see your intentions towards us. I hope the women here pay very careful attention to what you guys are saying. I think you are deadly serious in how you view women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:43 AM |
| 5 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalmen are going to respond to the birth rate crisis by restricting women's rights. This will exacerbate issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:19 AM |
| 11 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalname? who was this feminist man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:17 AM |
| 8 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalname? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:17 AM |
| 12 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalso your opinion is that if a women cannot be coerced into abortion a man can punish her for carrying to full term by abandoning her financially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:14 AM |
| 16 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalI think women are in for a rough future. The reactivity and lack of empathy in men will ensure that issues are handled with authoritarian hand. The sentiment is that women are useless and entitled. We cannot afford to fight and if our merits aren't worth defending there is nothing we can do. i hope you are all ready for the future you seem so fanatical about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:11 AM |
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