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For real, like have you gone outside before? Plus it says more about them that they think everybody conflates their worth to what type of people want to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:17 PM
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This is such a sad way to live your life. Get outside, talk to people (including women), get hobbies that will get you socialize in person because commodifying people like this is just antisocial behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:37 PM
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Totally true. I think people just think what they see the extreme wealthy and famous and think that’s real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:25 AM
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Shitty Good looking rich people, no matter what will always find someone (who is probably shitty as well). That is not a gendered thing. most people aren’t that good looking and rich though. But also, in this situation, the shitty opinion I’m talking about surrounds around being bitter because you aren’t having sex and that’s the reason to not care about a whole gender losing the right to control their own body. So that doesn’t even apply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:14 PM
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God some of yall really don’t see us as human, huh? Losing the right to chose if you want a pregnancy or not is not equal you not getting ass. Views like this will cement your fate on never getting any female attention. If your biggest concern in life is not getting attention and sex from the gender you are attracted to, consider yourself very privileged. also, both of these situations do not represent not having sex (which even if it did that’s still not remotely an equivalence). The people wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:04 PM
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Yea this and the online dating subreddit seem to replace a certain forum for those type of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:48 PM
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Turned on lol. But mostly proud of him. I don’t want a guy who purposely picks physical altercations, but I like to defend what is right and I’d like him do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:14 AM
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The “criticism” is usually saying women are expired after 25, are gold digging high body count whores, etc. If you think that is productive and doesn’t clearly show your anger rooted in insecurity, idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:52 PM
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They don’t lol. I’m saying people like this are seen as freaks in general so everybody would be grossed out from them, not that men would protect women from them. And If you talk to women, ask them who protects them in public from men groping them, harassing them. Most of the time it’s not men. They honestly tend not to notice and some not wanting to get involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:44 PM
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Oh jeez. Yea this sub is FULL of delusional, unsocialized men who hate women due to their insecurity. It’s so embarrassing and they are wasting their life by being miserable. If they talked like that in public, they would be ostracized by the general public, even by men that are moderately sexist. I’ve never heard/seem dudes like this in real life. Maybe the only time I experienced similar men are the guys who became aggressive and followed me after I politely said I’m not interested. Not all me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:42 PM
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Oh for sure, and yea I think it’s awful to shame the parent that stayed! It’s wild when people shit on single moms, like what about the single father who likely ditched his kids or at least not want to take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:46 PM
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Yea some people don’t realize you are really becoming part of someone else’s family and that’s a lot for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:19 PM
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I personally wouldn’t date a single father. I’ve heard both single mothers and fathers bitch that people won’t date them but being a parent is a whole other lifestyle that many don’t relate to or want to get involved with. And honestly many of them expect some responsibility from you, financially or literally parenting/babysitting them. I’m Not going to risk it, Ain’t gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:38 PM
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Im not sure how im dancing around the point, you talked about many things in your post as did I so it’s just hard to get it straight. Tbh your (and my) opinions and some life experiences don’t over ride consistent statistics which are less reliable as they deal directly with people compared to hard sciences as I know from working in clinical studies, but is still more reliable than baseline opinions (if it’s consistent, reliable sources). Less men are abused and raped and they are usually not se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:28 PM
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Personally I have not seen that and tbh as a woman, I likely known and talked to more women than you have. Same as the other way around for me as you likely have talked to more men in this capacity. I haven’t seen that in my personal life unless they have some serious issues and that’s not common. These sound like super specific circumstances to your life and the women you surround yourself with. Also studies do not support that the idea that the majority of women are unhappy being alone. If the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:53 PM
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I wouldn’t take Reddit as a good representation of the population. People of both sexes cry all the time on this subreddit and others about shit that is likely due to their own issues. I also see men online all the time and sometimes real life that look like stubbed toes degrade women that are way above their level. There will always be people that see themselves more highly than they are. Let them, why care. Beggars can’t be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:22 PM
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My values are reasonable but there’s always going to be someone who doesn’t find them to be so. Obviously having requirements/standards will cut your potential dating pool and you have to recognize that and be realistic. If you are so strict, you should be okay with the possibility of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:09 PM
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Of course, honestly what I think needs to happen more are singles events, which are becoming bigger. Clearly there is something wrong with how the dating world is now. Yea you’d think a bio would be, a bio? Lol. And thank you that’s really sweet! I appreciate you hearing me and being friendly. Take care!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:26 AM
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Hey I mean who wants to be with those people anyways. I do have a lot of “requirements” but it’s more important values I have, and wanting someone in a similar position as me. I will say there are tons of guys who will say the same saying what they want the woman to be like, which I find odd because you can just swipe left if you don’t like them. I’m bi and I personally don’t see a difference in the profiles on hinge, but who knows. You are lucky you are married because we all are getting way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:13 AM
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Hey I mean who wants to be with those people anyways. I do have a lot of “requirements” but it’s more important values I have, and wanting someone in a similar position as me. Not talking about the unreasonable and mentally unbalanced women, but I think sometimes guys need to know for many women they are competing with their peace that they currently have being alone. Lucky you you dont have to date anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:06 AM
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A man is SIGNIFICANTLY more likely to be raped than be accused of rape. False accusations are evil but the false accusations for rape is the same percentage for most crimes. So that’s one thing. But also I would not trust a man who doesn’t trust me and if anything it sounds like he had accusations and is wanting a way to get out of it in the future. For example, that can be used as evidence if they decided to be violent with you and they won’t stop, but according to the paper you consented to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:56 AM
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I think there’s a bad culture of dating rn with the ease and the lack of emotional attachment. But I mean if more than one women word for word say they deserve to be treated like goddesses, maybe don’t date those types. Sounds like you went on dates with freaks tbh (same though).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:55 AM
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Yup, it’s almost like you should genuinely like and want to be friends with the person that you marry lol. It’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:52 AM
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Yea i literally say, please no right wingers, yet i get them all the time. Like Im just not in the mood and it goes against my values. Go find your own kin. Not my problem that theres less conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:17 PM
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A few things: it’s overwhelming, there are too many guys. Another is that so many don’t put effort. Biggest thing is I’ve had some shit experiences with them, and I don’t know one woman who hasn’t. The constant sexual harassment and men greeting it like DoorDash for sex makes it completely turn you off from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:11 PM
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A guy told me I was ridiculous when I literally said it is not high standards to expect a future partner to have the same values. Like I’m concerned that’s not part of your standards??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:50 PM
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Well the patriarchy does hurt men. Why men are ridiculed by both men AND women for crying, being open for mental health, and in this case ridiculing abuse and sexual assault. I wouldn’t say that this aspect “benefits” women, more that this benefits abusers. Women are statistically more likely to be a victim to sexual assault and abuse from a man, but sexual assault and abuse to a man is not a negligible number and should not be ignored and should be treated as the crime it is at the full extent …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:45 PM
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In this economy, no. I want a house one day in a desirable area and ideally would like a guy that at least has good upward mobility in salary (just like me) to be able to do so so we can buy one together. Especially if I wanted a family, where these days people are using 60% of their paycheck for childcare alone. I don’t know anybody who wants a guy only for them to buy them Birkins and Chanel (but I wouldn’t be friends with a person like that anyways).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:51 AM
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I’ve never met these people in real life and I know and talk to a lot of women lol. If this loser exists, who cares. It’s like when an homely unemployed dude living in his parent’s basement thinks he deserves a Victoria model and shits on all other women. People like that embarrass themselves by just existing. It’s beyond not the majority though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:45 AM
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Relationships are complex and most healthy relationships involve sex of course, it’s more about if a person only wants sex and not even getting to know or respect another person. There’s just a lot of that in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:31 AM
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Weird I didn’t say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:14 AM
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I’m not talking about all men but some of the guys that post here, which I said. Again, if your number one priority is to fuck women and not mention your desire for a relationship, you are gross. High or low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:11 AM
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Yea clearly you didn’t read what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:56 AM
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Honestly, you are doing this in an unhealthy way. You can Decenter dating women in a healthy way, instead of just avoiding women just because you give up and are defeated. More like stop putting such focus that you will not have a good life without having a successful dating life. You need to be happy on your own and work on yourself for yourself. It is concerning that this post and many others on here are complaining about dating but only reference to sex. Not even a goal of a loving fulfilling…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:59 PM
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I’ll say there are always men and women at a disadvantage looks wise. It’s not fair but sadly reality. Some will have a harder time than others, that is totally true. But just thinking you are doomed is not a good way to go about life. Rarely are people considered so ugly that most won’t find attractive by looks alone, but even then many have been able to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:34 PM
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Honestly if you are dressing well and not crazy over dressed, that is cool. I definetly would get involved in cool hobbies in general. Volunteering also can help you meet women, most volunteers are women. Like at an animal shelter, plus can meet friends. Again, don’t do it just for women. Many can sense desperation and it’s not attractive. Good luck!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:23 PM
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Not that abnormal! As long as you want to be in good physical shape for you, go for it. Rooting for you dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:14 PM
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Oh don’t do it just for women! Unless you are obese (which let’s be real, most men and women aren’t attracted to), I wouldn’t focus on that. Do self improvement more for you, not for anyone else. But if you want to kill two birds with one stone, I’d get into interesting hobbies (other than working out and gaming) and get outside to socialize. And unsure how comfortable you are with women in general, but I’d talk to them like a normal person without the goal of asking them out to help practice yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:12 PM
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I’m talking about body builders. Above average muscles can be more attractive in men just like a bigger hips/butt/boobs can be more attractive in women, to an extent. But the only women I hear that say it is important is if they are fit themselves, which a big reason for that would be wanting someone with a similar lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:59 PM
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It just sets them out for failure as they likely won’t hit those metrics and will think they have absolutely no shot. And if they do and find someone who truly only wanted those things, they will also be miserable in that shallow relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:39 PM
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Yea lol. I don’t want to hear of those dudes preferences for women. Devoid of anything but looks and submissiveness. Also, I don’t know one woman who wants a dude with huge muscles. And especially one that is very assertive/physically dominant all the time. Who wants to date the fucking hulk lmao. They’ll never listen and keep chasing that dragon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:04 PM
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Yea sure, men know more of what women want and their “nature” lol. Are you a young woman and have you been platonically friends with many (or any women at all) and talked about this? You are likely never going to listen and respect any woman by your responses, so this conversation is a waste of time. Toodaloo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:58 PM
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They say the same thing and it many times doesn’t even make sense as a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:42 PM
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I am one, and if you are a man I can almost guarantee I’ve known, talked to, and have been close to many more young women (and women in general) than you. Out of all the women I’ve ever known, I knew one woman okay with it but the man also at least had a $10mil net worth and started an international exotic car parts company and owned a race track. So to sum up, it is certainly not the norm and many women on this post alone are saying the same, but live in your delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:39 PM
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Agreed, it’s funny when I mention shit like what this OP said to my mom and she cannot contain her laughter lol literally the opposite is true. I think men like this have an obsession with objectifying, belittling, and making revenge fantasy scenarios about women to cope with their insecurities, lack of satisfaction and success with life. I really don’t feel bad for these type of men because they are the cause of their own struggles and attempting to inflict others with their pain when they lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:53 PM
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I always think the idea that younger women like much older men so funny. They look at good looking, rich, famous men and think they are on the same level. Reality is most young women think dating older men is gross, always exceptions but this is the case most the time. Also that men get better with age is hilarious. Again, you ain’t George Clooney my guy, most men don’t age very well. A bit cruel but I think we should just let the bitter ones believe that they will get a “superior product” when …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:11 PM
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That was an incredible analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:29 AM
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Yea debating with you is not productive and a waste of time. that would only work when you actually want to understand the other person and most importantly have reading comprehension. Toodaloo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:02 AM
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My only opinion is that i know some people are sad and some people need therapy instead of obsessing over validation. Especially people who obsess over others people’s theoretical loneliness and trying to make the minority experience to the experience of the majority to own a certain sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:57 AM
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I can’t speak for them, there’s always going to be lonely people desperate for attention for women and men. I’m talking about majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:47 AM
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I said flings and serious relationships. And honestly, most young women don’t like much older men either and the idea that men’s “desirability” increases with age is also not true. I’m telling you from someone who is friends with and talked to many women in my life. But honestly idk why it matters, not everyone is going to like you whether you are young or old, even if you are hot to most people. If it were true that not many men would find me attractive after 30, that’s fine. I would be glad I …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:08 AM
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Yea dude, idk how many women you talked to or are close to but the attention from men (whether just flings or serious dating) never ends. Whatever your age preference is is your preference (obviously only if it’s 18+), but this is our reality if whether you believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:48 AM
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lol Idk what woman wants more male attention since it literally never ends. 18-80yo (actually starting way earlier than that), it never ends, from old and young men. Idk why this fantasy that woman are completely unwanted by the majority after 30. It doesn’t make sense that in one moment this is said and then another that women have such an easy time in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:42 AM
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It’s like wanting a trad wife but bitching they don’t have a salaried job. Dude that’s what you wanted? Lol or mad a super model expects you to have money to spend on her when you are 4/10 on a good day. I think people, men and women, need to know where they stand in values and looks and stay in that lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:19 PM
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lol i would love if being rejected and alone was the most of my worries in dating..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:42 PM
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I’m sorry that happened, people can be so awful. It’s scary and depressing but you’ll never truly never know. I mean some people are married to rapist and serial killers for decades and never know. Some probably think somethings up but people hide this shit well. I dated a guy for 8 months and he randomly told me one night he wanted to kill a random dude, unknown why. Proceeded to tell me a way too detailed plan and was dead serious. Immediately blocked and now I’m slightly suspicious of people …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:54 PM
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Yes I’m clearly very emotional right now lol. Don’t care to argue with ya on those rants, just perplexed and concerned by how charged up you are. In all seriousness, please take care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:07 AM
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“Sex drive” waxes and wanes throughout peoples lives due to hormones, medical issues, age, life circumstances,etc. you are not ever going to be able to handle a long term relationship if you think you guys are going to always be fucking like rabbits till you are in the coffin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:55 AM
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lol….Just take a breath and maybe some Thorazine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:53 AM
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100000%. Recent example was an extremely hot man was hitting on me but he was grossly narcissistic and also creepy. Looks only go so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:47 AM
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Yikes dude, who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:42 AM
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