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4

Chris Rock was painfully honest when he said that men are only cared for on the condition that they provide something.
/r/MensRights03/07/20 11:22 PM
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If we had a school system staffed by 90+% male teachers, and little girls were punished (and drugged) for typical little girl behaviors, and were graded more harshly than boys, and kept out of college, this would be a huge problem and we'd seek to fix it immediately.
/r/MensRights24/06/20 08:31 PM
3

How do you reckon?
/r/MensRights24/06/20 08:30 PM
3

it's not fair for people to have a sexual orientation that excludes them That's quite incredible... we all have the right to, or to not, be attracted to someone, and for our nos to me no.
/r/MensRights21/06/20 09:59 PM
4

Clutch em pearls
/r/MensRights21/06/20 01:20 PM
2

That may well be the case, but at a point, being sufficiently misleading is the moral equivalent of lying.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 08:36 PM
4

Assuming that he has absolutely no commute whatsoever, that gives him three hours to take care of sleep, hygiene, and nutrition, not to mention chores around the house and family obligations. But let's forget all that and assume he literally sleeps every second he's not on the clock, for a total of three hours per day. If you're a prime physical specimen in your twenties, you may be able to do this for a few days, perhaps a week or so at best. You will not be able to perform any significantly co…
/r/MensRights18/06/20 01:59 PM
4

Probably not.
/r/MensRights15/06/20 04:55 PM
6

It's quite easy to address that one. First, you have to agree that it would be unacceptable for women to be forced to do something that only they can do--bear children--even if it is an absolute requirement for the survival of a society and a state. As well, the extreme gender roles women are forced to endure in such a situation would also be unacceptable. Then you point out that we still have the draft. They might say that it is not used, then you say that it can be at a moment's notice, and we…
/r/MensRights14/06/20 12:04 PM
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Yeah if a 6'4" Dutch-Hawaiian multi-millionaire actor is getting bodyshamed, frankly incels have a point.
/r/MensRights11/06/20 12:18 PM
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It's very, very difficult for most men to get abs and look anything but dangerously thin. I'm six feet tall flat and a few years ago, got down to 150#... and still no abs. These days I'm in the 170s and slightly less toned, but more powerfully built, and most women say that I look slightly better than average. The fact is that it takes a significant amount of work to get to this point...
/r/MensRights11/06/20 12:17 PM
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What's insane is that people refuse to believe that Jason Momoa et al take steroids and similar questionable supplements. They wouldn't, we're told, it's immoral and they have kids anyway! A valid response is that cocaine use by supermodels seems to be tacitly accepted, although there is little direct evidence of it. As well, verified natural bodybuilders don't look have as big and shredded as modern Hollywood actors. Furthermore, if you look at Hugh Jackman in X-Men from 2000 vs. the newest Wol…
/r/MensRights11/06/20 12:09 PM
1

Surely this is satire? If you swapped genders it would sound like an incel rant.
/r/MensRights10/06/20 01:07 PM
2

He's very tropy, the wise old warrior sage who acts as a mentor to a frankly undeserving young man. But the execution is sublime
/r/MensRights07/06/20 07:29 PM
35

Yet, they will insist that feminism is not anti male
/r/MensRights07/06/20 07:26 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/cb0v65/cmv_in_heterosexual_relationships_the_problem
/r/MensRights07/06/20 07:25 PM
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That subreddit is gross and kind of sad. I'm pleased that this community does not accept them.
/r/MensRights04/06/20 01:23 PM
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It might be different in the US, since we don't have a single, coalesced culture, and since we're so damn big. It would be trivial for a few small town dudes to hop in a car one evening and be a hundred miles away the same evening, far from parents, mentors, pastors, and other watching eyes. There, they could use a Groupon deal and spend a few dollars on a far better experience than multiple dates and weeks of wooing small town girls might ever get them. In doing so, they might take a long, sobe…
/r/MensRights04/06/20 11:26 AM
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It is a cheap attempt to distract and cast blame on a group that is not allowed to defend its reputation, who no one in the goodthink crowd will support.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 12:01 PM
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If you're referring to the US, we aren't conscripted, but we may be at a moment's notice. This is not a triviality, because the same does not happen to women, and if we were to have a gender-based analogue--say, women have to sign up to bear children at the will of the state, and no it's not a big deal because we're not ACTUALLY going to do it unless we need to, in which case suck it up and do your duty--it would not be acceptable.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 11:54 AM
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Hey man, I know you're broken up and that she did not treat you right, but it's not respectful to communicate like that, and it doesn't represent our movement in the best light.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 02:26 PM
1

I agree, to a point. After all, without a lot of heat and pressure, a diamond is just a rock. But we need to be compassionate towards men who falter and even men who fail.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 02:23 PM
1

There appears to be the idea that India, as a society, hates women. This is based on the vicious Delhi rape case, wherein 5 men tortured and raped a woman to the point that she died. They also beat unconscious and broke the bones of her male companion/date. As a result, the whole of India rose in protests, hunger strikes, legislative action, tears, and prayer. The perpetrators were found, jailed, and kept in solitary confinement for their own safety, and executed a few weeks ago by hanging (with…
/r/MensRights01/06/20 02:05 PM
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I have a slight disagreement: I'd say that the false message is that only men are EXPECTED to address areas of improvement and accept criticism, because no one gives a damn if we slight the emotions of men, especially those gross fat ones.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 01:48 PM
0

It's extremely, extremely rare that a police killing that you and I would call wrong and evil, is legally considered a wrongful killing.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 01:14 PM
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Right. I agree with the spirit of BLM, although not all of the actions of all of its offshoots, so it is very disappointing to see it co-opted like this. In a way, #metoo is co-opted as well, when it is used as a cudgel with which to bash rival politicians, and when other politicians evade real scrutiny
/r/MensRights30/05/20 02:17 PM
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It is an attempt to add credibility to an argument that holds no water.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 12:39 PM
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I’m not saying that it’s necessarily an issue that men have these sort of “attention disparities,” Social inequality, and romantic inequality that forms the foundation of our societies, are issues. If they are not, nothing is.
/r/MensRights28/05/20 03:10 AM
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Got quite a few matches but I have never met up with a single person on it. What is the point then?
/r/MensRights28/05/20 03:08 AM
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Some probably believe that. To me, I'd say it's a serious form of bigotry, the bigotry of low expectations, to not hold adult women to the standards that adults ought to be held to.
/r/MensRights27/05/20 02:15 PM
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"All three years in prison" sounds like a joke
/r/MensRights26/05/20 10:11 PM
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It is without doubt women are much more fragile when it comes to criticisms. This is not a subtle difference. No not even close. Women are way, WAY more likely to go into rant or even cry when criticized. I agree, and we see it in personal romantic relationships too. How often is it that a man tries to change his female partner? How often is it that he succeeds? Meanwhile, he expected to accept scolding because he did the dishes "wrong" aka not her way, because happy wife = happy life and happy …
/r/MensRights25/05/20 10:19 PM
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“The smart way to keep people passive and obedient is to strictly limit the spectrum of acceptable opinion, but allow very lively debate within that spectrum....” Noam Chomsky
/r/MensRights25/05/20 10:03 PM
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Men are criticized for their fragility, yet also encouraged to become vulnerable and open up to their partners and society. It doesn't make sense.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 05:06 PM
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It's very sad, but honestly not surprising. I believe we will also see spikes in domestic violence and child abuse as well. The lockdown is no triviality and while I believe it's presently justified, I am very sympathetic towards those who want to protest it.
/r/MensRights24/05/20 12:23 PM
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If you think about it, if men truly wanted to subjugate and oppress women, we'd succeed. On average, we are far stronger, have more weapons, form the overwhelming majority of militaries and other armed services, etc. If we wanted to be awful to women, we would be, and they wouldn't be able to mount any meaningful resistance to it. Fortunately, the vast majority of men are decent and kind, even (especially?) to women, and we do not take kindly, or even peacefully, to those who do seek to oppress …
/r/MensRights19/05/20 10:25 PM
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It's all about power, not gender, and that many world leaders have the same hardware as me doesn't do me a lick of good, they'd throw me to the wolves at the first convenience.
/r/MensRights19/05/20 10:23 PM
1

Ah, I thought you meant, "rape"
/r/MensRights17/05/20 01:46 PM
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I can see why they might for recruitment... confused, disaffected, alienated men can all too easily be co-opted for vicious purposes. Not to mention, if you're going to be treated like a Nazi, you might just be a hop, skip and jump from becoming one. What we need to do is continue to condemn and ostracize Nazis while offering a safe space for men, and listen to their concerns, and accept them.
/r/MensRights15/05/20 01:52 AM
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Or, truly dangerous drinking games
/r/MensRights13/05/20 12:23 AM
1

Thank you for that, I agree and was going to post the same. Mother's Day is the day for mothers, as well it should be.
/r/MensRights11/05/20 08:28 PM
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Good for her, it's not an easy job! I and many others certainly appreciate it.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 11:39 PM
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I hate to say it, but it makes it very, very risky to have a long term relationship, let alone marriage, with a woman. They gain immense leverage over you based on their gender and yours and as the saying goes, power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. If you want to gain alimony, or relationship standards that suit you, or something else, it is clearly in your interests to threaten to falsely report DV, and follow through with that threat if required. You can say it's wrong, and it…
/r/MensRights04/05/20 01:41 AM
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It's literally not credible, except it is well documented... Years ago, I used to write horror stories but it depressed me, so I quit. But the truth is that I have not, nor will I ever be able to, write things so profoundly evil as what human being have actually done to each other, time and time again!
/r/MensRights03/05/20 09:07 PM
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Yes... but in fairness, these are probably not the classiest of ladies. Then again, this means that this ideology may be quite common in some social classes. I'd hate to be stuck in a social subculture, or a relationship, or a clique, where I cannot say no for fear of being shamed or worse. It sounds oppressive.
/r/MensRights03/05/20 08:25 PM
1

If you think about it, ceasing to pursue someone is a "no" in different clothes. Why is it unacceptable to say "no"?
/r/MensRights02/05/20 11:45 AM
6

Relevant Jordan Peterson: https://youtu.be/VEOHQoh82bs?t=41 Journalists are SUPPOSED to ask pointed, controversial, uncomfortable questions. Likewise, they cannot be surprised if their interviewees fire back.
/r/MensRights01/05/20 03:45 AM
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It is insane how different the standards are for men and women when it comes to the whole courting, romance, dating, marriage thing. Men have to make standards, women (mostly) just have to exist. If you don't believe me, consider how much effort a lady might have to put in to get a drink bought for her at a bar... and then consider how much effort a man might have to put in to achieve the same result. Until those real inequalities are addressed, I'm not prioritizing fighting to free the boob or …
/r/MensRights01/05/20 01:25 AM
4

This sort of rumor can take a life of its own very easily. I'd recommend either talking to the person who made the comment one on one, or getting ahead of it by proactively going to your guidance counselor
/r/MensRights30/04/20 05:40 AM
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I think it is because the modern right wing is contrarian (and in many cases trollish) so there's going to be some level of tolerance for anything that is against the mainstream media or the system or what have you. Fundamentally, though, true conservative religious types believe that men exist, at least in part, to defend women and their dignity. I dare to disagree on that front, and many many others.
/r/MensRights30/04/20 03:18 AM
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I agree. That statement works just as well for men.
/r/MensRights27/04/20 05:09 PM
4

Fascinating! Maybe it's because people who get married on under a grand actually really want to be married, whereas those who have showier weddings are just trying to be showy. Certainly there are high dollar weddings where the couples really want to be together, but there could be other causes too. There is no other cause to have a $500 wedding unless you really want to be married.
/r/MensRights26/04/20 02:15 PM
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You don't have to deal with people like her. If you ever encounter one in the wild, about face and walk away. If pursued, react as you might to any other dangerous wild beast.
/r/MensRights22/04/20 12:29 PM
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Women are the primary victims of coronavirus, as they are the primary victims of war, because they lose male relatives to it.
/r/MensRights21/04/20 03:32 PM
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It could also come from a desire to see a guy rise to the occasion and become the person/man he can be, whereas in other cases it can be a selfish desire to have services rendered.
/r/MensRights19/04/20 03:58 PM
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In general, that's true. But what you need to do is find some good friends who are there for you when things are shitty and difficult, and give you good (and sometimes hard to hear) advice. Sometimes this will be, stop crying and solve the problem, other times it will be, let's go fishing, and by fishing I mean sit around for hours and talk about things.
/r/MensRights19/04/20 03:49 PM
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Let me pull on that string a bit: What if a woman agrees to give birth to a child, but it later comes to light that she has been using contraception? I'm not in favor of requiring spousal consent for contraception, but I can't think of an alternative. Her body, her choice, yes, but people make life-changing decisions, and indeed marriages, based on bodily choices.
/r/MensRights18/04/20 11:50 PM
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You don't even have to bring abortion into it to agree that fathers should have the right to put their children up for adoption, without fear of financial ramifications or social ostracization--mothers do it all the time and no one even questions it. Which is fine! But it should be fine for men as well.
/r/MensRights18/04/20 11:47 PM
14

When you're used to privilege, equality feels like oppression.
/r/MensRights18/04/20 11:29 PM
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It's almost like we ought to have a single, blind standard of justice
/r/MensRights16/04/20 11:39 AM
1

I should have put in the sarcasm tag.
/r/MensRights07/04/20 12:54 AM
4

No one cares about mens' feelings, so it is a non-issue. And if you do take issue with it, chill out and stop being so oversensitive, and it's different to mock womens' appearances.
/r/MensRights05/04/20 12:55 PM
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It is important to publicize their absurdity and evil, so that we have a ready stash of evidence handy whenever someone asks why we are skeptical of feminism and its followers.
/r/MensRights04/04/20 04:12 AM
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"They'll go on and on about how males commit suicide at x3 the rate of women... and the do all this while implying or just directly stating that it's more serious than women's mental [health]" Yes, I do think that suicides are more important than mental health issues which do not result in death.
/r/MensRights03/04/20 03:10 AM
4

Methinks "piracy" is a fitting way to give a nod to Johnny Depp
/r/MensRights31/03/20 11:43 AM
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Check this one out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Euw3Km4ESns You've got rather large women, and men with six pack abs. It's incredible that so many people don't see what's blatantly visible.
/r/MensRights27/03/20 12:39 AM
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It is because of our polarized society... if you go against the mainstream, even a little bit, you're ostracized almost as thoroughly as actual Nazis.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 12:54 PM
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Frankly, if he doesn't trust her to be honest about this, they shouldn't be having sex. Or, at the absolute least, he should wear a condom and insist on wearing a condom, and if she doesn't want that, then he should say no to sex.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 03:02 AM
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It's not behavior that mentally sound people engage in Yeah, you've got a point... if this happened to me, I'd honestly be a little concerned, a bit for her mental health and also for my own safety. There is no good way to respond to this, especially in this day and age. I'd probably just leave.
/r/MensRights05/03/20 01:40 AM
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So using tactics like denying benefits and opportunities does not amount to a violation of bodily autonomy, but prison does? So where is the cutoff? What if we were to fine women who abort? What if we were to deport them? What if we were to prevent them from using public transit or airplanes? Where do you draw the line between "tactics" and a violation of bodily autonomy and why?
/r/MensRights29/02/20 04:50 AM
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You just skated over the draft. As well... No one ever, in any situation, EVER has the right to control We do this for the good of the general population. So, we do violate bodily autonomy for the good of the general population. We can request vaccination, we can deny benefits and opportunities to those who aren't vaccinated, but bodily autonomy is never violated because everyone still has the choice to say "no". So, if we requested that a woman not abort, and if she did, we denied benefits and …
/r/MensRights29/02/20 02:47 AM
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The bodily autonomy argument is a very strong one, but I hate that people act as if it's the end of the debate, when it is just the beginning. Bodily autonomy is not inviolable. Certainly we do it in extreme cases, such as when we incarcerate people. We also still have the draft, which is not a triviality (if it is okay simply because we don't use it, then let us have a reproductive draft, wherein women have to sign up to have children for the state, but we just don't make them at the moment, bu…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 12:45 AM
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Could require legal notice, or push the deadline until after birth. If a woman has the right to sever her obligations to a child by putting it up for adoption, or even dropping it off at a safe haven, a man should have analogous rights.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 12:42 AM
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Sure, but many people of good conscience raise complaints that women sometimes have to travel great distances, even across STATE lines, to get abortions. EDIT: if it's asking too much of a woman to travel some hundreds of miles to get an abortion, it's asking WAY too much of a man to travel thousands of miles, get a visa, learn a new language and all, to have a similar freedom of choice.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 12:41 AM
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I believe there is a big divergence in our society, with some people having a TON of sex, and most people withering away alone. It is only a matter of time, in my opinion, before something gives.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 04:44 AM
2

It seems rather intuitive to me... the takeaways are, the more casual sex you have, the less special sex becomes; and if you're used to casual sex with randos, committed monogamy may well become more difficult to achieve.
/r/MensRights20/02/20 03:36 AM
5

Now I'm curious. Can you link to the post in question, or at least the reference material?
/r/MensRights20/02/20 02:44 AM
2

What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. In case anyone isn't familiar, this is Hitchens's Razor, originally intended as a powerful argument against the existence of God and the legitimacy of religion. Read more here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hitchens%27s_razor
/r/MensRights08/02/20 05:10 AM
3

Don't bother proceeding, man. Our culture is now one of rehashes and reboots. Originality and shining effort are things of the past.
/r/MensRights08/02/20 05:08 AM
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It's no conspiracy theory nor fake news; it's verifiable, undisputed fact. https://www.snopes.com/news/2017/01/30/donna-hylton-background/
/r/MensRights02/02/20 04:13 AM
2

A temporary pause point maybe: if women enjoy sex as much as we do, what happens if we stop paying for it? Maybe we will see. I expect that dating culture is going to shift dramatically in the next few years, as it already has due to Tinder and swipe-right culture, and also due to how badly men can be demolished by divorce. Things are not sustainable at the moment. In the US, our population growth is fueled not by born and bred Americans having kids, but by immigration and some religious/conserv…
/r/MensRights01/02/20 01:49 PM
4

So a false flag op. I'm not saying that's not true, but what is the evidence of it?
/r/MensRights01/02/20 01:45 PM
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It is very sad... I supported them, in principle at least, until a major US city designated as a terrorist organization, not an actual terrorist organization, but the single most popular single-issue lobby group in America - the NRA. Now, I disagree with the NRA on many matters and they are rather corrupt, but they aren't terrorists and neither are their members. And yet, at this very moment, it seems that it might be entirely legal for San Francisco to seize guns from any and all NRA members--a…
/r/MensRights01/02/20 02:13 AM
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This may be somewhat off topic, but given the wording, and in light of recent interest in "red flag" or "ERPO" laws, I'm quite curious as to how often men have their guns seized, vs women.
/r/MensRights01/02/20 01:24 AM
3

"Husband"?
/r/MensRights22/01/20 01:14 AM
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Given the people the Women's March has selected for keynotes and other endorsed positions For clarification: Donna Hylton, a keynote speaker at the 2017 Women's March, did 25+ years behind bars because she kidnapped, raped, tortured for over two weeks, and eventually murdered a 60-year-old gay man. She has since expressed limited contrition, and most of what she has expressed on the matter has a lot of I's and me's and not much remorse. I have two reactions to the matter. One is that if we were …
/r/MensRights19/01/20 02:05 PM
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Sounds like a classic case of sour grapes to me. And frankly, I think that Hillary Clinton may have been the only woman on the planet who could have possibly lost to The Don.
/r/MensRights21/12/19 04:35 AM
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It's actually quite fascinating, to see perhaps the furthest left candidate who has a shot at Presidency, advocating for meritocracy and glossing over his own (rather significant) privilege and wealth.
/r/MensRights21/12/19 04:33 AM
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Maybe. But you cannot be surprised when people act in their interests, honor and self respect be damned.
/r/MensRights20/12/19 03:34 PM
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Honesty is an abstract, frequently used to shame people into acting against their interests. Paying less money in insurance, and getting a higher chance of being admitted into college... that's a little more concrete.
/r/MensRights20/12/19 04:42 AM
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Meanwhile, a colossal predictor of divorce is if the man/husband stops working. https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/biggest-predictor-divorce-husbands-job-employment/
/r/MensRights19/12/19 04:06 AM
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To me, that's gross and creepy.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 07:31 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like a risk for no reward. What good could come of it? And yet, someone could take it the wrong way and you could lose everything.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 02:49 AM
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Yeah, I'd be hesitant about associating with this character. There are way better ambassadors of mens' rights ideologies.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 02:42 AM
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“Have we intensified the fight against sexual harassment to such an extent that men can no longer feel free to offer a polite, kind compliment to women on a new dress, a certain hairstyle, or a mannerism or ability which is admirable?” It's interesting... this passage implies that women ought to be complimented for their dress, appearance, mannerisms or abilities. Sounds like an entitlement to me.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 02:30 AM
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women are the only people who read them Hey now.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 03:42 PM
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Frankly, feminism is a beacon for weak women that are easily emotionally manipulated. Be careful... I think this criticism could probably apply to quite a few of us around these parts.
/r/MensRights07/11/19 12:58 AM
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Honestly, you are doing more than most of us... and our greatest ally, I believe, is public awareness. Not many people WANT men to suffer, they just don't seem to be acutely aware of what is going on, and once you make them aware, things may start to change. Kick ass!
/r/MensRights06/11/19 02:43 AM
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It's almost a case study in special pleading.
/r/MensRights26/10/19 12:54 PM
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I'm not sure I agree. Sex may be consensual, but I think it's entirely improper to have a sexual or other relationship with someone if you are in a position of power/authority over them, simply because of how impressionable they may be and how easy it is to manipulate them, even unintentionally. That's why our military takes fraternization extremely seriously, and completely bans it. Any time there's a significant discrepancy in power, let alone if someone is upstream in a younger person's chain…
/r/MensRights26/10/19 12:54 PM
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When I talk to people about how circumcision of infants is wrong, they sometimes say that it's "not a big deal" or something to that effect. I then say that if, as an uncircumcised man, someone were to try and circumcise me by force and/or drugs, I would defend myself, including with deadly force if needed, and I'm quite serious about that. They usually accept that it's reasonable. So then I ask... if it's alright for me to defend my genital integrity with bullets... it sounds like it is a big d…
/r/MensRights26/10/19 12:07 PM
5

It's quite unfair... a woman who sexually harasses is treated far, far more gently than a man who does (on average) and what's more, men can both be sexually harassed and falsely accused of sexual harassment. I am not sure that I have heard of any women being falsely accused for sexual harassment, or having any harm come of it.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 02:17 AM
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Yeah man, my jaw kind of dropped when I read that. "Wait, didn't you just... but... but...!" And there goes another capillary...
/r/MensRights25/10/19 02:10 AM
5

I literally do not understand why men put up with this shit I think part of it is because in our societies in the Anglosphere, men lack advocacy groups, and in the case of white men, are expected to care for the struggles of every demographic group but their own. It's really saddening... I'm a brown man from a (forgive me) very privileged background, which I'm grateful for, which means that I have way more privilege than 90% of white men. There's also that Germany is essentially a one race, one …
/r/MensRights19/10/19 01:28 PM
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You know, if you were to go to Germany... you too would be a migrant.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 01:16 PM
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Wait a second... since the Mayor is Palestinian... you have a Jewish person telling a Palestinian person that they don't know what oppression is... Well, she succeeded in getting me to shut up (and have the surprised Pikachu face). I have no words.
/r/MensRights13/10/19 02:22 PM
3

It's honestly quite stupid. In one breath: "You are not oppressed." In the next: "Because of your perceived race and gender, you must not have a voice in your government." EDIT: Even better... the Mayor that she said was "white enough" is a fucking PALESTINIAN. And then there's this quote: ""You have not spent a day with dark brown skin and tried to walk through this society. From birth, you have been white. Why are you arguing what is a system of oppression? You've never experienced one, so shu…
/r/MensRights13/10/19 02:16 PM
4

Such a shame... and I do somewhat like her. She is an incredibly intelligent person so she knew damn well what she was doing.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 01:15 PM
22

Yeah if you work a physically demanding/dangerous career, it's wise to have a fairly solid insurance plan. That way, if the worst happens, you (and your family) will be alright.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 04:39 AM
10

Yeah, the abortion debate is very weird and emotionally charged in many ways.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 01:35 AM
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Because it's easier to say "it's those evil (white) men trying to make our decisions for us" than it is to say, "this is a complex issue with men and women on both sides, and we must examine it soberly and carefully."
/r/MensRights11/10/19 11:28 PM
4

/r/MGTOW is not without merit. I just take issue with the rampant misogyny over there, as well as the not infrequent racism.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 02:57 AM
13

It's honestly an untenable situation. Flirting and courting requires some degree of physical contact in modern/Western societies, and as long as women refuse to initiate things (which by and large is the case) you're REALLY rolling the dice if you dare to make an advance.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 02:09 AM
13

Maley’s story unraveled after she accused John of sending a threatening message while he was in prison without access to the Internet. So if she had been a little more careful... this poor guy may still have been in custody. Or dead.
/r/MensRights06/10/19 10:19 AM
6

I'm sorry you had to go through that.
/r/MensRights06/10/19 01:04 AM
8

The conspiracy theorist in me says that this is what explains much of the glass ceiling. Women MUST be included in the workplace to avoid major lawsuits; okay, so let's pack them off into HR where they can't do too much damage and leave them there.
/r/MensRights06/10/19 01:04 AM
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The primary benefits seem to be cleanliness... but in modern society, where we shower every day, it's not that hard to tell people to wash their dicks. I've seen the argument that "it's not a big deal" but that's easy to debunk. If it's not a big deal, it wouldn't be a big deal to do to unconsenting adults. On the contrary, if someone were to approach me with the ability, imminent opportunity and ability to mutilate my genitals, I would be entirely justified in responding with violent and deadly…
/r/MensRights06/10/19 12:59 AM
1

Not much communication happened and the guy has other women showing interest. How do you know? And how do you know he was being honest at all?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/19 09:55 PM
1

The correct response to that is, "So wait a second, if I'm ever murdered, you think my last words are going to be, 'Oh thank God it's by another man!'?!"
/r/MensRights05/10/19 02:13 PM
5

She continues: Since my book came out, several women have said to me, "Oh my god, I am a mother of sons. How can you be talking about this?" And I say to them, "You are more upset and disturbed at the imaginary scenario of violence against your sons than the actual violence that is committed every day against your daughters or someone else's daughter." She may have missed the memo that (for example) in Canada, as well as every other country in the world but 9, men are murdered more frequently th…
/r/MensRights05/10/19 11:45 AM
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The best way is to pursue a relationship and to use sex as a representation of love Right, but then we're back to the initial problem... if, as a man, you show great interest in a woman who reciprocates, and the two of you enter a sexual relationship and you later back out of it for a bullshit reason, I don't think there's any fault on the woman and there's frankly not much she could/should have done differently, and there's also not much that she may have learned. It's not terribly difficult to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/19 11:12 AM
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So then, how should men pursue women? Show great interest and abstain from sex until marriage, and use the dating/courting period to vet?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/19 10:27 PM
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So, I'm curious now, how should a woman react to male interest? Should she react well to a man who shows great interest in her, or to a man who seems ambivalent about her? Because to me, it seems incredibly deceitful to heavily pursue a woman under false pretenses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/19 10:02 PM
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Like "manspreading."
/r/MensRights04/10/19 08:40 PM
1

If someone makes in investment they are not getting paid for, pay them. It's not hard to find the hourly rate of a babysitter. Did some quick googling, babysitting seems to pay about $13 an hour. Here's the problem... a stay at home spouse effectively works 24/7, so that's $113k per year in pay. If you think this math is unfair, consider that babysitters get to go home and they get to quit. In fact, babysitters who do overnight shifts still get paid for those hours as they are on-call/on the clo…
/r/MensRights29/09/19 10:38 PM
2

I know (or hope?) you're being a bit facetious here. But you've got a point. I think alimony is fair in some cases, and for a very small amount of time. If you've ended your career to be a parent, I don't think it's alright for you to be left high and dry as a result of divorce. So perhaps some level of income for a few years, to help you get on your feet and start a career, would be reasonable. Perhaps it could be a specific type of unemployment assistance, that is based on previous income, and…
/r/MensRights29/09/19 01:37 PM
2

Equality under the law is a sham. We see a never ending proliferation and special programs and favors for the sake of women. Right, it's like, "Equality... nudge nudge, wink wink." Kind of like how for years, our black friends have been on the receiving end of more aggressive "anti-crime" laws and "stop and frisk" policies. A standard is not a standard when it is selectively and unevenly enforced.
/r/MensRights29/09/19 01:35 PM
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Women give birth, and have a finite amount of time to find someone to provide the genetic input to do that with, and why the hell should they choose you over someone else? It's your job to make the case that you are worthy of that consideration, or else you wont be considered. It's called competition, driven by biological realities, which is part of life. This whole passage works for men as well if you remove the first three words. Birth is obviously an arduous physical process, and women are ch…
/r/MensRights29/09/19 01:32 PM
1

I was with a girl some time ago who was talking about the troubles of being a female, and she brought up a similar story... she was using the elevator and a building security guy walked in, said hello/smiled at her, and pretty much left her be as they went up a few floors together. She said it was terrifying, even though he was an employee there that she had seen here and there a few times before. I was waiting for the terrifying and difficult part until I realized... that was it. There was no r…
/r/MensRights29/09/19 01:22 PM
2

And she asks people to listen to scientists, few of whom would agree with her alarmism (only extremist advocates may do so). Can you substantiate please?
/r/MensRights27/09/19 04:42 PM
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Funny, now that I think of it, although India is not in the Anglosphere sensu stricto, it is a Commonwealth country and, like the US and the UK, seems to have severe problems with the way it treats its men.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 05:07 AM
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It's a really bizarre argument... she suffered an event similar to what is alleged to have happened, therefore, the alleged event did in fact happen. It doesn't follow at all.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 09:10 PM
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Ehhh... it may well be that your mother had two relatively easy pregnancies. Every body is different. Certainly, some women overexxagerate the struggles of pregnancy. As well, I'm sure that many women suck it up and stiffen up their upper lips. Respectfully, based on the anecdotal and single data point nature... I'm not given to think very highly of this post at all.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:11 AM
1

You see the same exact thing, but in the opposite direction, at places like MGTOW or WhereAreAllTheGoodMen. I guess a lot of those guys are going through the anger phase of loss, the loss being a chance at a normal life.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 12:53 AM
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Gaming should be about gaming, not action figures or merchandise nor cosplay nor streaming. That's the biggest crock if you ask me... it takes virtually no effort and little cost to play video games and even if you suck, it's fun. Why would you want to watch someone else play a game? It used to mean something to be into video games, in the 90s and before, when there was a decent culture around it and it was something you did with your friends, and the rest of the society left you alone. But now,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/19 06:34 PM
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Yeah... life can be hard.
/r/MensRights24/09/19 05:23 AM
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There's that, and there's also that few would blame a lady for leaving a man who can't reproduce, or who is even unable to be a good provider. There's also the whole his body, his choice thing... he should be able to choose a reproductive partner.
/r/MensRights24/09/19 05:16 AM
1

And rightly so!
/r/MensRights23/09/19 06:55 PM
3

Yeah, how many American or coalition troops have raped women in Afghanistan and Iraq? FFS, this is not the steppes of Central Asia and they are not fighting under Genghis Khan. In fact, at this very moment, probably the top reason we're in Afghanistan at the moment is because if we leave, women in that unfortunate region will have no rights whatsoever. So you essentially have men getting shot, blown up, coming home in pieces or dead, to protect the rights of women who probably detest them becaus…
/r/MensRights17/09/19 03:38 PM
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That's because empowerment should mean responsibility.... Uncle Ben's saying is extremely relevant if you ask me. It's easy to have the rights of an adult but what separates good men and women from basically older children, is how they use their rights and how they treat others, including those with whom they disagree or even dislike.
/r/MensRights15/09/19 02:59 PM
2

I really hate to say it, but I believe that marriage really is a raw deal for men. It's a real shame, not just because of the collapse of tradition, but because we need to have functional families which reproduce if we're going to survive as a society (or, more darkly, as a species). But... I can't endorse someone taking actions that harm them severely, just because "it's the right thing to do."
/r/MensRights12/09/19 11:49 PM
2

It's a very complicated, multifaceted and nuanced issue. I absolutely agree with feminists that there is male privilege for example, but I'd also say there's female privilege in different ways. It really depends on the issue, the situation, and other factors. All that said, I'm quite happy to be a male and accept the added level of difficulty that often comes with it. After all, without tremendous pressure and heat, a diamond is just a rock.
/r/MensRights12/09/19 11:46 PM
2

I agree. Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely.
/r/MensRights12/09/19 11:44 PM
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Even if it was accidental, it does seem to vindicate the idea that men are the forgotten gender.
/r/MensRights12/09/19 11:43 PM
5

I think what's interesting about your post is that it seems to vindicate, to some degree, racist "population replacement" conspiracy theories. Now I don't think you're a racist (and I'm not either, '88 was when I was born and I'm a brown first generation American to boot, no problems with any peoples or cultures) but it's really hard to defeat racists when their insecurities are based on a grain of truth. There's also the larger, and very real danger of what may happen when thousands or millions…
/r/MensRights07/09/19 03:25 PM
1

That may be so, but we're very grateful for your help and support. Godspeed!
/r/MensRights31/08/19 07:34 PM
9

I bet there are some in the radical feminist camp who would argue that.
/r/MensRights31/08/19 07:29 PM
1

Get out.
/r/MensRights31/08/19 07:29 PM
3

He is trying to deal with it... by talking about this issue, we can spread awarness, and hopefully eventually agitate and organize to change things. If everyone took the fatalist "deal with it" attitude that you seem to advocate for, we would never evolve as a society, or as a species for that matter.
/r/MensRights30/08/19 05:54 PM
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I like this idea. Maybe fathers' names on birth certificates could require notarization? That would also provide an opportunity to do paternity testing, and (virtually) eliminate any possibility of paternity fraud. The major issue is if the woman conceals a pregnancy from the father of the child, carries the child to term and either adopts it off or raises it without ever informing the father of the child's existence, I guess like in Forrest Gump. But this is a separate issue... we can discuss t…
/r/MensRights30/08/19 05:50 PM
7

Women in general ought not accept blame for the actions of a few, as is the case for Muslims, black men, white men, and, yes, men in general.
/r/MensRights30/08/19 07:03 AM
3

Do they really have that dim a view of women to believe that men would only hire them to fulfill some sexual role? That's the really bizarre thing to me... think about it, if powerful men truly were motivated largely by sexuality, prostitution would be legal, perhaps with the appropriate barriers to keep poorer men out of it.
/r/MensRights30/08/19 06:15 AM
4

That you like "blinging" sounds and flashy colors, and are therefore a golddigger. Or. OR. It's a distraction and a way to unwind, and if you enjoy it and it doesn't take away from the rest of your life, you shouldn't be judged so harshly for indulging.
/r/MensRights30/08/19 05:23 AM
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Yes, and, benevolent sexism is... BS.
/r/MensRights27/08/19 11:09 PM
1

Men were always having to protect their women and children so their genes could continue. And back then, it made sense, because any tribe was a few droughts, or a few raids by an enemy tribe, or a few brushes with a lion away from extinction. Now, in modern, multicultural societies... it really doesn't make sense to sacrifice for women or children. I mean, the children aren't mine and they don't have my genes, and it's a very strange thing to die so that your genes can live on. And it's downrigh…
/r/MensRights24/08/19 08:55 PM
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Yeah, but it's kind of understandable... if you've got a 0.1% chance of a decent life if you're impoverished and follow the rules, but there's a 1% chance of at least having a few shining months by dealing drugs... I mean, it needs to make sense to do the right thing, if people are to do the right thing.
/r/MensRights24/08/19 08:50 PM
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It's far worse than that... women make up the lion's share of college students and graduates in general, and yet there are virtually only pushes to get even MORE women into college. It's like making a scholarship for only Asian people, who are already overrepresented at college. Someone recently had the nerve to ask me to support a women's-only educational opportunity... why the Hell would I do that? It would be one thing if women were being denied education opportunities and we were trying to f…
/r/MensRights17/08/19 05:03 AM
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Let me go against the grain a bit here, and suggest that you might avoid extreme movements for some time. MGTOW occasionally makes good points, but the subreddit is awash with misogyny and some very ugly racism as well. It seems like you may be going from one extreme to another to "apologize" for who you were, but this won't work in the long run. I don't think being for men's rights is extreme, however... all I want is to not be hated or treated differently for my gender. I have no problems with…
/r/MensRights17/08/19 01:42 AM
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South Asian in the West here, Men are the ones who are screwed, regardless of the system That's certainly true... in "old country," men are called upon to protect, defend, work for, uplift, etc for the benefit of their wives. In the West, things are a titch more subtle, but the expectation is still there.
/r/MensRights17/08/19 01:38 AM
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That's extremely extremely self-serving... she doesn't seem to care about your interests, let alone the values of fairness or justice. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with such a person, who callously talks about ruining your life so that she can be alright.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 06:05 AM
1

Absolutely true... I'm a racial minority myself, and I can't stand the idea of being given something without earning it, whether it's a job, or kudos, or something else.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 11:18 PM
1

Just another day in the Twilight Zone. It's like Chappelle (who was pretty funny!) talking about race relations and the 2016 election, when he can't speak more than a few words without dropping the n bomb.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 04:09 AM
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Yeah, and she also fucking earned it. I heard her speak at the Space Symposium last year and from watching interviews, you can tell she's damn sharp... definitely not an affirmative action hire. And that's something really insidious about affirmative action. It always makes you wonder, if you have a new female/black/etc colleague, if they earned it, or if they are simply a message. My college did not have affirmative action, so when we had black, brown, and female students, we were quite happy t…
/r/MensRights08/03/18 04:05 AM
6

Have a look at the interview... I couldn't make a parody of that. She must have been reasonably intelligent at some point if she earned a Ph.D, but what kind of a twilight zone do we live in if such people are entrusted with the education of young people? I wouldn't trust her to run an ice cream parlor!
/r/MensRights19/02/18 01:23 AM
20

Yet 98% of men do not commit mass shootings.
/r/MensRights18/02/18 10:42 PM
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Per feminists, not easy enough: https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2014/11/06/we-should-stop-putting-women-in-jail-for-anything/?utm_term=.44aa04323a11
/r/MensRights22/12/17 11:49 AM
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Clearly it is. Homelessness is very nearly a gendered issue, as 80% of those who suffer from it are men.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 08:15 PM
3

It's not just that, it's the absurdities our laws have created. Let's talk guns, for a moment, full auto guns in particular. If we lived in a sane country, there would be a straightforward way for an appropriately vetted and licensed person to safely keep and use such weapons. But in our country, you can only have it if it was made before 1986 and if you pay many thousands of dollars for it. Or, you can use a bump stock, a device which only exists because of our silly laws. Any regulatory change…
/r/MensRights19/11/17 08:12 PM
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What confuses me is that if she has a partner who she cherishes, why does she care if other men notice her or not? It's kind of like, if I go to the gym, I don't notice/care if ladies notice me because I'm engaged. Certainly I'm polite and curious to everyone, but the whole point of being in an exclusive relationship is to be spoken for and off the market. As long as your partner sees the man/woman in you, who cares if others do or don't? There's also the point that... 99% of men aren't "noticed…
/r/MensRights16/11/17 10:06 PM
2

It's not just hypocrisy, it's bullshit. Citing anonymous authorities is a logical fallacy. https://www.logicallyfallacious.com/tools/lp/Bo/LogicalFallacies/18/Anonymous-Authority
/r/MensRights07/11/17 11:16 PM
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I actually think there's a rather painful point there. While whoever made this little chart seems to have daddy issues, I do believe it's a problem that men in general tend not to verbalize "I love you" as much as women seem to. Totally my perception and experience, though.
/r/MensRights07/11/17 01:07 AM
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