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Here's a few studies in regards to this subject matter that kind of speak for themselves don't you think? Recent Quantitative Studies (2020+) on Household Labor in Dual-Earner Households 1. Pew Research Center (2023) Sample size: 14,758 married couples (American Time Use Survey, pooled 2016–2021 data for the time-use analysis). Population: Married heterosexual couples where both spouses worked and had similar earnings. Findings: Women averaged 42 hours/week of paid work. Men averaged 40 hours/we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:14 PM
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Since I'm not particularly shy I'll answer that question. I masturbate every day with long edging sessions. I don't have a particularly narrow view in regards to what sex is and how it should be done. I'll eat the booty like groceries I'll peg a dude. I don't have a whole lot of things that I don't enjoy or at least try once within the realm of a monogamous relationship. Of course I get sexual urges just like anyone else but just randomly fucking someone, I have no desire to do that. My brain do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:22 PM
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No, I'm not arguing that women have the same exact sex drive as men do. Our sex drive is different overall. Many of us need to have more than I want to fuck just to have sex with someone, we need a connection. That doesn't mean that we have low drive. It just means that we work differently when it comes to sex. When I'm in a relationship with someone I want to have sex with them on an incredibly frequent basis. When I'm not in a relationship with someone I still want to have sex on an incredibly…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:43 PM
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No I have a libido naturally, just like the vast majority of women out there. If we didn't have a natural libido why would people invest so much money in creating different sex toys for us? ETA: it sounds like you just want to create your own reality devoid of facts. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:48 PM
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Hi there I am a woman who enjoys sex on a very frequent basis. The thing is I need to be in a caring relationship to enjoy that kind of sex on a regular basis. It doesn't matter how horny I am I'm not just going to fuck some random dude. But in a loving relationship I want to fuck minimum once a day. No past trauma, no influence by other women. Just an incredibly healthy sex drive I've had since puberty hit. I'm in my early forties and I don't see this changing anytime soon. You can try to put w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:42 PM
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All I hear is you don't consent to practicing self control. That checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:47 PM
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Have you tried self control? Or are you just a slave to your emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:39 PM
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What sounds depressing is the amount of men who are overly concerned with their dick. Thus far I haven't been in a relationship with a man whose dick I didn't want to ride. They come in all different shapes and sizes, but the most important part of them is the man they're attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:17 AM
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Exactly, because girth matters more than length when it comes to stimulating nerve endings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:34 AM
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Women shouldn't submit to any man, that's some old school misogynistic bullshit. It's honestly disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:27 PM
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Everyone is different for fuck's sake. There are some women out there that want to be pounded all the time there's some woman out there that want the session to contain some pounding but not the entire session and there's some women who don't enjoy it across the board. A lot of people like variety, is it really that hard to wrap your mind around?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:06 AM
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I think the pounding is hated when it's a man's only move. But different people like different things overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:46 AM
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Yeah but if you were single and a random guy sent you a picture of him masturbating wouod you find that sexy? I like dirty pictures from my significant other too, videos as well. But a random hot guy masturbating or dancing naked in front of me doesn't do it for me sexually. I need a formed connection to find someone sexually desirable. A lot of people need more than visual stimulation to be sexually attracted to someone. Once I'm in a relationship with a loving significant other who wants to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:14 PM
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Nah, I'm all about figuring out exactly what makes my significant other tick sexually, it brings me pleasure to give them pleasure. I require a partner that feels the same way. The dead bedroom sub is not indicative of the population at large. But there's a ton of legitimate studies about the orgasm gap. Try again bud, this time with a legitimate argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:41 PM
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The longer the relationship the lazier they get. Whatever bullshit he gives you in the beginning ladies it's not going to get better from there it only goes downhill. If he doesn't care about your pleasure as much as you care about his, fucking run.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:05 AM
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It's proper fucked to be honest. The practice should have been shut down a long time ago when it was found to be completely unnecessary as far as hygiene is concerned. The vast majority of people who were/are all for it in the United States were/are very misinformed in regards to the hygiene argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:41 PM
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Compassion is much different than pity sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:06 PM
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Girl, same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:27 AM
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I mean I would stay with someone who lived through an extreme accident, but I could never get into a relationship with someone who doesn't engage in sexual activity. Personally I think a good sex life is a fundamental part of a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:25 AM
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Estrogen regulates collagen as well as other repair systems. Estrogen isn’t just about reproductio, it ipregulates collagen synthesis which equals better skin structure, it Improves vascular function which means better blood flow and nutrient delivery, it acts as an antioxidant which reduces cellular damage, it modulates inflammation which slows tissue breakdown. Overall studies show that women age better until they hit menopause just like the person stated above you. Partially because of what I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:34 AM
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Then why do they always quote that completely defunct okay stupid study?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:36 PM
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So woman being able to be equal in the workplace is considered women being masculinized? This has to be rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:27 AM
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I'm sure an AI companion would do an amazing job raising a child and they absolutely wouldn't have any issues because of it...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:59 AM
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I'm 41, younger men will not leave me the fuck alone. I prefer to date men in my general age range. These men who are often times young enough to be my son, think they're that one special man who will change my mind... they are wrong. I swear it's caused by some kind of milf porn brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:42 AM
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I mean Alaska has the highest rate of reported rape incidence in all of the USA. They've also got grizzlies and polar bears too. So if anyone was going to weigh in on such a ridiculous thing, Alaskan people might be the authority on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:54 PM
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Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. We have nerve endings that go into the vaginal canal but the highest concentration of those nerve endings is where the clitoris is located. The size of a penis has very little to do with clitoral stimulation. Personally the only time I have ever orgasmed from penetration my clitoris was also being stimulated, be it from me being on top or the many other ways a person can stimulate a clitoris during PIV sex. A penis with a thicker circumference may …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:57 AM
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I’m not blaming men for being harmed. I’m distinguishing between types of risk. Explaining why harm patterns differ isn’t the same as saying people deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:54 AM
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I'm not sure they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:17 PM
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This argument only works by redefining safety as who dies more, and then ignoring everything else. Men die more largely because of risk taking, dangerous jobs, and male on male violence not because they’re broadly more vulnerable. Women face different risks (especially sexual and domestic violence) that are less likely to kill but fundamentally shape day to day safety. You’re mixing voluntary risk with targeted harm, public violence with private violence, and mortality with overall safety. That’…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:02 PM
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It was around half of white women in both elections. Younger women and women with a college degree tend to vote Democrat by a solid margin Older women, women without college degrees and women living in rural areas tend to vote Republican. So the overall near 50/50 results is the average of these two very different subgroups. Women without a college degree who live in rural areas and are religious tend to overwhelmingly vote Republican, especially older women. So if anyone here is looking for a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:51 PM
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Sexual assault is widely underreported for men as well as women. Ideally, anyone who comes forward should be taken seriously and supported instead of shamed. Most male victims are assaulted by other men, which can clash with social expectations around masculinity. So if they come forward it's like they're putting their masculinity on trial. When the perpetrator is a woman, men often face disbelief or have their experience minimized. Coming forward does not make a man weak or less masculine. It s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:05 PM
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For real, I don't need a man to be wealthy to love him but he does need to be able to do basic adult functions like provide for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:45 AM
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There was never a problem there was me weighing in on a post. You ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:22 PM
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Yes because I've been married and I didn't have a wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:28 PM
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I never had a wedding fantasy and I've been married. I think all of that shit is a waste of money. Money that could be utilized towards a home or home improvements etc. The thought of being the center of attention for an entire evening is very draining to me. I believe in the sanctity of marriage but weddings are just not my style.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:51 PM
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I agree, there's also a large amount of studies done that show the vast majority of women prefer an egalitarian dynamic. It's almost like we're our own person and it doesn't make sense to be led.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:21 AM
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My mother ruled the house with an iron fist, if it weren't for my father's intervention, the consequences of my actions would have greatly outweighed said action. During my childhood some of my friend's mothers let them get away with more than they should have. In most cases it was because their father had an incredibly poor temper and the mother was doing her best to shield her child from the father's insane overreaction. I understand those mothers were trying to protect their children. But tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:14 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:18 PM
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Your point is weak, your argument in its entirety is just preposterous. Instead of trying to refute any of my evidence or the vast amount of evidence out there that proves you wrong, you continually cling to outdated concepts and information that doesn't apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:40 AM
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Charles Moser applied a survey inspired by Blanchard’s autogynephilia framework to cisgender women, and many people like yourself have cited the finding that 93 percent of respondents would qualify as autogynephilic. This claim is highly misleading. The survey was designed to measure self directed sexual arousal, which is a normal and widespread aspect of female sexuality, not a pathological condition. Women’s sexual fantasies often include imagining themselves as attractive, sexual, or desired,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:20 AM
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The claim that women are not naturally attracted to men and that female heterosexuality is merely social performance is contradicted by modern empirical evidence. Large U.S. surveys, validated measurement tools, and neuroscience consistently show that heterosexual women have genuine, intrinsic sexual desire directed toward men. So let's just get into the facts: National U.S. Data Show Intrinsic Sexual Desire The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, a probability-based U.S. sample of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:03 AM
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Are you basing that off those bullshit studies? I'm guessing that's where you're getting your misinformation. There's nothing wrong with dating someone with a baseline standard of attractiveness. About half the men I see on dating sites are attractive enough to date. But that half gets whittled down due to incompatibilities. There's nothing wrong with having standards. It seems many men on this subreddit would prefer that women have no standards at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:35 PM
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Oh yes one paragraph is a very long way of saying Chad. I'm not sorry I only date men I'm attracted to. Do you consider dating people that you find ugly? Or are you just ugly and mad that attractive woman won't date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:31 PM
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I filter for looks and personality. If he's attractive and he has no content to his profile I swipe left. If he has similar interests or seems really funny and he's average looking I swipe right. If he's ugly it doesn't matter what his profile content is. I only date people I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:30 PM
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I support people being responsible to the best of their ability for the children they created.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:29 PM
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Usually they will base his child support on previous income. If he decides not to pay depending on the mother's income she can get public assistance to help with support. Arrears will accumulate from non-payment. If he ever gets a job many states can dock his pay to go towards child support. In some cases they can go after his tax returns as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:36 PM
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Your position isn’t legal, biological, or practical, it’s ideological. Marriage does not create parenthood, causation does. A child exists because two people participated in conception. Pretending conception is “meaningless” is just denying the reality that produced the child in the first place. This also wasn’t a unilateral decision. Like I previously stated men have agency before conception, whether to have sex, whether to use contraception (condoms, vasectomy), and with whom. Every sexually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:26 PM
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I'm using a logical argument. I would love to see a well thought out rebuttal. Don't worry, I won't hold my breath on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:05 AM
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Calling pregnancy a “unilateral choice” ignores male agency before conception. Men choose whether to have sex, whether to use contraception (condoms, vasectomy), and with whom. Everyone knows sex can result in pregnancy. Consent to sex isn’t consent to marriage, but it is consent to the known risk of creating a child. Once a child exists, responsibility follows causation, not relationship status or hindsight preferences. No one is being forced to pay for someone else’s decision, they’re being re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:04 AM
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Society already supports children when parents can’t. That’s widely accepted. Child support addresses a different situation, when a parent can contribute. Public support and parental responsibility serve different roles. One ensures children aren’t harmed by hardship, the other ensures responsibility remains with the people who created it. Removing that distinction doesn’t strengthen support for children, it weakens accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:49 AM
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Universal healthcare does not incentivize illness. Universal child support would incentivize abandonment by removing financial consequences for capable parents. I don't want to punish anyone for having sex, sex is awesome. But if a man wants to punish himself by having sex resulting in a child he didn't want, that's his own problem and his own responsibility. He could have prevented it by having a vasectomy not having sex or using a condom with a trusted partner who is on birth control. Your arg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:24 PM
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Universal healthcare covers risk. Universal child support would cover avoidance. Everyone gets sick randomly. Not everyone creates a child and then refuses to support them. Healthcare spreads unpredictable risk across society, child support enforces responsibility for a known outcome. We don’t make drunk drivers insurance claims universal just because accidents exist, we hold the person who caused the harm accountable. Same principle here. If a parent can’t pay, public assistance already exists.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:35 PM
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I don't care if they give a shit about the kid or not, they made them so they're responsible for them. If they didn't want to make children then they should have gloved up or got a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:29 PM
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We all pay for public schools is a category error. We all pay for police too, that doesn’t mean if you commit a crime the government covers your fines or restitution. The state enforces responsibility, it doesn’t absorb it. Child support exists because a specific person caused a specific obligation. Turning it into a taxpayer expense isn’t progressive policy, it’s privatizing freedom and socializing consequences. Welfare is for when parents can’t pay. Child support is for when they won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:17 PM
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The government or other taxpayers money should not have to provide for your family if you can afford it. That's ridiculous!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:03 PM
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Why should a parent who can afford it not provide for their own child?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:43 PM
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It's clear to me you're just vain. If you work on your self esteem you won't care as much what your girlfriend's friends think about you. Of course you should probably consider changing your attitude to acquire said girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:43 AM
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Another man in the sub telling women how they think. Sad, but not at all surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:34 AM
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I don't know man ,I personally have never cared if my significant other's friends found me attractive or not because I wasn't interested in them. Not everyone is going to find you attractive and that's perfectly okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:25 AM
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For my group of friends my best friend loved shorter dudes with Dad bods and big arms, other close friend like supercut dudes not bodybuilder but like supercut which makes sense because she was heavy into working out. I like thin men with lean muscle. These are just a few different examples in my group. Personality wise our taste in men doesn't differ quite as much. No one's worried about anyone taking each other's man because we're good people with morals and values. Even if we all have the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:22 AM
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Why do you prefer that? Why does it matter at all if her friends find you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:13 AM
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Yep you've got a great point, not sure why you're aiming at me but hey still a great point. That being said I don't think the vast majority of sexually active women would agree with op's statement that most heterosexual women consider having sex with a man as disgusting as a straight man having sex with a gay man or however she put it. That statement sounds like it could come from someone asexual maybe, or a lesbian who hasn't quite realized it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:33 PM
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If I see an attractive man I definitely notice him, shoot if I see an unattractive man with a nice butt I'll notice him. But just looking at attractive men doesn't get me wet. Looking at erotic pictures of men doesn't do that either. A nice sexy picture from my significant other will though. Also sex is awesome! I consider it to be a vital part of a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:40 AM
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Bad sex would be with someone who only considers their needs in the bedroom. Or thinks that because one woman likes something that all women like it even if I say that's not my cup of tea. I think that pretty much covers it. I'll give you an example: If someone only jackhammers away and I mention how I enjoy a variety of positions we don't have to do them all the time but there's more to life than just jackhammering. But... that's his only move and that's all he likes so my needs continually go …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:57 PM
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Okay then we agree, My initial point in this post said that if a dude is inherently selfish after I communicate with him in regards to a poor sex life and he continues to be selfish, then I'm out. No amount of attraction is going to make me want to stay with a man who is inherently selfish in bed. I think the vast majority of women would agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:42 PM
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I wouldn't know I've never had casual sex. Of course I do know that having sex with someone I love makes it better but being bad at sex due to selfishness isn't going to make the sex good. You can argue with that fact all you want but you'll be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:29 PM
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If the food looks good it doesn't matter if it tastes like shit..... Anyway pretty sure this is an alt account from OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:14 AM
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No dude I'm in my early 40s so I have a bigger scope of understanding when it comes to sexual issues. Sex isn't the most important part of a relationship, but when it's lacking due to incredibly selfish behavior hell yeah I'm outie. With the vitrol you're spitting, I wouldn't be surprised if you haven't heard a lot of women "nagging" you about selfishness in the bedroom. As far as your disbelief in my communication skills, I don't care. Stay mad bud, keeps the good ones away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:12 AM
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Dude are you serious right now? Demanding checklist efforts and constant adjustments? I don't think reading comprehension is your strong suit. You've got to be a troll, either way I'm not going to feed into your delusions anymore. Good luck with your mindset, I'm sure it'll get you exactly where you should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:05 AM
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No, when I say a guy is selfish in bed I mean that he doesn't give a fuck about anything but his own orgasm. Or he doesn't care to learn the simple things that get me off. I consider a good sex life to be an incredibly important part of a healthy relationship. Another incredibly important part of a relationship is communication. I have no problem clearly communicating my needs in and out of the bedroom. I don't expect a man to know every little thing that makes me tick immediately. But I very mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:15 AM
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Lots of things make a person special. Being in the limelight makes a man a nonviable candidate for me. Just like the poster you are responding to, I would have zero interest in dating someone who can't go out in public without people bombarding them. As an introvert by nature that is a nightmare to me. It doesn't matter how "special" their profession makes them in your eyes, to me that is a no go. You not trusting women because of some illogical scenario you've made up in your head says more abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:50 PM
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I would run just like I did from the men who didn't pull their weight. I'd rather be alone than deal with that level of bullshit. My point doesn't completely align with yours but is adjacent to yours. I understand if someone doesn't value home cooked meals then another person saying that's what I contribute doesn't hold as much weight. What I'm saying is the basic things that need to get done around the house need to get done regardless. Even if people have different cleanliness levels the trash…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:55 PM
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If a woman can't keep up with a physical labor of the job she shouldn't do the job. I don't think physical jobs should be altered for a woman to be able to do them. Like for instance female firefighters, if you can't pass the test of men do then you shouldn't be doing it because it puts others at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:44 PM
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If you have a co-worker and you both have the same job title and you work on the same team but you're continually putting in 80% of the effort when the team is set up to do generally 50/50. But every once in awhile out of their 20% effort they work on a hard task would you consider that equal? Or would you be irritated and burned out from doing your work and most of theirs? See if I'm in a relationship and I'm the one doing the vast majority of the cooking and the cleaning, the daily upkeep and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:38 PM
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Of course that occurred to me but I'm not talking about people disagreeing I'm talking about people spewing hatred towards one particular gender. The Men who come in here and decide to trash women as a whole as opposed to considering some self-reflection. If you don't see that on an incredibly frequent basis in the sub, get your eyes checked bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:21 PM
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Statistically people tend to date and marry within their looks match. I think some incredibly delusional men in a sub think that women hit 30 and just start dating a whole bunch of uggos because that's all they've got. For a sad bitter person I can see how this might make them feel better about it all. But sad bitter people tend to think with too much emotion involved and not enough logic. If you're only looking for a hot woman with a good personality and you can't get one, you're probably too u…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:33 PM
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Your point is wrong, if you actually pay attention to the vast majority of posts made in this sub. It's a haven for women haters. All you have to do is scroll through the headers of the posts to see a whole bunch of toxicity pointed towards women. ETA: I know facts make you mad. Sorry about that, I'll leave you alone with your delusions now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:15 AM
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My dad was an awesome human being, not only did he teach me about kindness and compassion and all that wholesome stuff. He taught me how to fix things and the value in being able to do things yourself versus paying someone else to do it. He never once gave me shit for being interested in things that were typically male dominated. If any of his friends ever said a harsh towards my interest in those things he would fiercely shut it down and he's a real big burly tradesman, so people didn't tend to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:41 PM
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No dude I'm specifically talking about the way the vast majority of posts in this subreddit generalize women. That was my point from the very beginning, I'm guessing you missed it or you just wanted to argue. Either way good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:21 PM
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Just based on studies that willing people participate in. But by your last statement I can tell the one thing you care about the most when it comes to relationships. As a very high drive woman I put great value on a healthy sex life in a relationship. But I also understand that if other parts of a relationship aren't going well then often times sex is going to be lacking. If sex is the main reason you get into a relationship, you should seriously consider never getting into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:19 PM
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I think many people will be materialistic to a certain degree. What I'm specifically talking about are the type of women who only care about those things. The ones that are almost constantly discussed on this subreddit as if they represent women as a whole People here tend to blame the entirety of their issues on this small subset of women who won't give them the time of day. In reality the vast majority of women aren't going to give men with such toxic beliefs the time of day. I'm attractive an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:47 PM
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I don't do casual sex, that's a big part as to why they had no appeal to me. I did give in to two different younger men at one point in my life. Mainly because both of them said they're not looking to have children. Also we both had a similar drive and I'm not talking about life goals here. With both of them I was done when they gave me different variations of "We would have such pretty kids together". Yeah dude that's totally going to make me want to pop one out in my early 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:58 AM
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I don't surround myself with women who are obsessed with those kinds of things in real life because I don't care about them either. People who are average and below average in looks, height, income etc end up in happy relationships all the time. The internet is a very convenient place for like-minded individuals to create an echo chamber. In some instances the echo chamber can be a bunch of shallow materialistic women who want everything without bringing anything to the table. In other instances…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:46 AM
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Yeah the amount of men that hit on me who are close to or are young enough to be my son is unreal. I just assume they watched too much milf porn growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:28 PM
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I’ve been in the position you described in your last paragraph. I told him something to the effect of, I deserve to be judged by my actions, not punished for another woman’s sins. Like you've stated in short. The problem arises when someone is so deeply affected by a past relationship that they begin to draw connections where none actually exist, projecting the harm caused by an ex onto a new partner who does not engage in the same toxic behaviors. For instance, maybe your ex was chronically lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:25 AM
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I mean most of the time people are being nice but some people just age better than others. I took my teen into the spa a few months ago and the lady asked her if her friend was coming in with her. She said that's not my friend that's my mom, the lady looked at her like wtf really???? Just the other day the cashier at Dollar tree asked us if we were twins. I'm 41, so regardless of if these people are blowing smoke up my ass or not, imma take the damn compliment :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:01 PM
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Unfortunately your well thought out response will probably get downloaded to Oblivion. Too many of the posters here only agree with scathing words that vilify women, even if factual evidence proves them wrong. They're not looking for any sort of deeper understanding, they're not interested in any logical reasoning that might change their perspective. They're just here to blame an entire gender for their own shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:24 AM
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I think it's more so that for many men, anger was the only emotion that was okay for them to express growing up. I'm not sure about other generations but I'm a millennial. Growing up, I can't tell you the amount of times I've seen a dad tell his son to toughen up or tough it out when his child was expressing sadness due to an injury, or sadness due to emotional turmoil. I saw this on field trips I saw this in coed sports, at the park, etc. It was so normalized that most people didn't even bat an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:18 AM
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I mean there's a lot of data to back up women carrying the emotional burdens as well as the housework. Not sure about your other points because I've not looked into it nor do I push those narratives. Here's the thing, people are not perfect and many relationships don't work out for a variety of reasons. But the kind of people that pit men and women against each other, the kind of people that like to blame one entire gender for their own failings, they are defective human beings desperately in ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:50 PM
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I wasn't ignoring the data and clearly you didn't get the nuance in the word "bud". Stay mad bud, keeps all the good woman away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:38 PM
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Both of which can easily tie into getting married too young and progressing things too fast. When you don't get to know a person well enough beforehand, you don't get to see their true personality come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:33 PM
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Sorry bud, the studies don't have any correlation there. If you want to hate on women, maybe pick legitimate reasons. That way you can argue facts :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:31 PM
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I don't think it has any correlation. There are studies out there that show lesbians tend to move relationships quicker and get married at a younger age. I think that's a pretty big factor in why their divorce rate is so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:58 PM
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I never had to approach men because they tend to be more thirsty. Before I got the thought in my head they were already approaching me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:05 PM
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There is an exuberant amount of data out there that shows women are still doing the lion's share of the housework and child rearing in two income households. But don't take my word for it just do a quick search.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:17 AM
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I'm not sure what doi stands for. The only "anecdote" I've included is my own opinion toward the bottom of my initial response to this thread, which I clearly stated was based on personal experience. Yes, people are marrying less overall, but they still tend to pair within their own socioeconomic strata. Don't tell me that you are so willfully ignorant as to disregard the multitude of legitimate and well recognized studies conducted over the years. Don't tell me that you've read my lengthy, care…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:24 PM
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The vast majority of people date within a similar socioeconomic status. Look up assortative mating studies. If you do your research, you’ll find this has been a pattern for quite some time. Now I would like to delve into your Doctor example for a moment. In the United States, from the 1950s to the late 1960s, around 0.150% of the population were doctors. By the 1980s, it had risen to 0.202%. In the 1990s, it was 0.291%, and in the 2000s, 0.294%. Fast forward to the 2020s, and we’re at 0.302%, ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:44 AM
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I agree with your points wholeheartedly. Also it seems most of the posts on this subreddit have something sprinkled in about how men are unfairly shamed. It's a very unfortunate and common theme here. Now I feel the need to whine for a minute. I get that, biologically, men are usually stronger than women. I would never argue such a fact. But as a woman in the trades, I cannot tell you how many grown men look absolutely shook when I pick up a 50 lb load with ease. It's like they’re watching a liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:58 PM
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Personally I see women dating down far more often than men. If I'm dating a man that is much more accomplished and driven than I am I'm going to go ahead and assume that having a woman in his life who has a similar drive and accomplishments is not a priority to him. I've never been treated poorly by men who have a higher status in life than myself. If you're speaking solely in terms of looks I don't have any experience with a dating man who is arguably more attractive than myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:24 AM
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I'm in the age group your referencing. I don't care if a man is bald but I certainly don't want a man with a beer gut. I choose men my age because as I age I find men in my age group the most attractive. It has nothing to do with stability I'm speaking purely from looks alone. When I was in my early twenties I thought streaks of gray in a man's hair, eye crinkles when he smiles and beards to be so incredibly unattractive. Now I find those things to be eye candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:22 PM
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Nearly 1 in 3 adults (30.7%) are overweight. More than 1 in 3 men (34.1%) and more than 1 in 4 women (27.5%) are overweight. More than 2 in 5 adults (42.4%) have obesity (including severe obesity). About 1 in 11 adults (9.2%) have severe obesity. The percentage of men who are overweight (34.1%) is higher than the percentage of women who are overweight (27.5%). The percentage of women who have severe obesity (11.5%) is higher than the percentage of men who have severe obesity (6.9%). Y'all compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:29 AM
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Exposing yourself in public is illegal for good reason. In many cases it's also illegal to do online depending on where you live... Also with good reason. You're basically asking how is going out in public in tight clothes different than going out in public naked. If you don't understand the difference I don't think I can explain to you any better.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:30 AM
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Look, if I'm speaking to a man via text or on whatever particular application and he just randomly sent me a picture of his dick I'm going to be like what the fuck you fucking weirdo. Even if we were flirting beforehand I did not consent to receiving explicit photos so they're not going to be well received. In some places sending unsolicited dick pics is considered sexual harassment. Even if the dude has the most beautiful penis I have ever seen I am still going to think what a fucking weirdo an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:15 PM
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Maybe you don't see men sporting plumbers crack because you're too busy looking at women wearing clothing you clearly find offensive.... Because there's an awful lot of it going on everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 11:04 PM
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I mean for every obese woman wearing revealing clothes, I'm sure there's an obese man with his gut hanging out of his shirt and the top of his hairy ass crack hanging out from his pants. Personally I'd rather see an overweight woman wearing revealing clothing as opposed to seeing anyone's ass crack in public. But then again out of shape people in revealing clothing isn't offensive to me. People should be able to dress in whatever way they feel comfortable (within the confines of the law). If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:58 PM
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I don't see any women in this thread saying it's okay for men to run around nude unless they're in the appropriate place. I do see a lot of women stating that it would be a non-issue to them if more men were scantily clad in public. Sending unsolicited dick pics is not equivalent to wearing something like skin tight spandex that highlights a mans package.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:12 PM
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We don't live in the 50's anymore. Most two parent households have both parents working.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:11 PM
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What are all the things that your parents did for you when you were a child growing up? Can you imagine how exhausting it would be for an adult to have to do those things for another able-bodied adult while also doing those things for their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:39 PM
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From my personal experience men tend to be selfish in bed. Oftentimes it's a hit to the ego if I tell them something they're doing is having the opposite effect of what they think it is. Not only that but they tend to get lazy once they get comfortable in relationships and all of a sudden I'm doing all the work around the house as well as in the bedroom. I've dated so many men from all different walks of life, different professions etc that end up exactly this way. Men who are otherwise kind and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:24 PM
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Lol stay in the dark bud, seems to be working out for you really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:32 PM
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I like studies that are well documented from legitimate sources. Studies can prove anything and they can absolutely have a narrative to prove. But that doesn't mean they should be completely discounted as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:31 PM
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I mean if you look up any legitimate studies they reveal that men tend to bully more from youth to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:13 PM
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If you haven't seen many of the examples that I'm referencing then I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're new to PPD. But you can go ahead and search yourself on PPD there's a search bar on top, it's pretty easy to find numerous examples. You'd have to try pretty hard to believe the context behind the comments was anything other than a man saying something to the effect of I was told women only cared about personalities and I'm butt hurt that they care about look so muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:34 AM
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Maybe they're referencing the overwhelming amount of men that post about it on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:56 AM
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That depends on a number of factors like how often we see each other during the dating stage (I like to date one at a time I've got no time to juggle a bunch of first dates with different men). How much we're on the same page about things that I value in a significant other. Also when I say build up an emotional connection I don't mean something to the effect of fall in love in a month I just need to see that there's a potential for a future together. Thus far I haven't had a man yet who took is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:46 AM
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Superficial specifically means caring what's on the surface as in looks. You can define it however you like, but your opinion is not factual information in regards to this particular word.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:15 PM
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I love sex in conjunction with a healthy relationship. I can't fuck for the sole reason of getting off, I need an emotional connection to have a satisfying sex life. Satisfying for me being ideally at least once a day. That being said, if I end up doing the lion's share of housework while we both work full time (without any external circumstances keeping him from pulling his weight) then I lose interest in him as a partner and therefore lose interest in sexual relations with him. Also I've found…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:01 PM
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You clearly have excellent social skills. This alone makes you overall more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:13 AM
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Exactly, it doesn't matter how handsome a guy is if he doesn't understand social dynamics and keeps staring dead on at me then he's going to come off as creepy too. Numerous studies out there show that more attractive people are treated better regardless of their gender or the gender that is treating them better. When I was single I was aware that I was treating attractive men differently because I was attracted to them. I wasn't treating unattractive men poorly I just wasn't flirting with them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:15 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:35 PM
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But that's exactly what the poster above me did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:02 AM
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I said for my own personal experience.... I didn't say overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:24 AM
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I never said anything to that effect. Please don't put words into my mouth especially such vile assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:17 AM
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That's a very big assumption. It speaks volumes as to the kind of person you are. Anywey, I was speaking in regards to long-term relationships in which I broke up with them because of legitimate reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:16 AM
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Meanwhile from my personal experience, the men who treated me the absolute worst were men who were not attractive by societies standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:22 PM
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I don't want my naked body on display for the world to see. The thought of doing something like that makes me incredibly uncomfortable. I already get enough looks wearing regular clothes and that alone makes me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:36 PM
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No and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:46 AM
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You know they're having a hard time everyday. That level of spite and resentment doesn't come from a mentally healthy human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:16 PM
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Please don't come at me with pitch forks if I tell you I'm a caramel kind of gal :).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:17 AM
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Same, also I hate chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:08 PM
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There are an exorbitant amount of well-documented studies out there that show that people tend to date and marry within their own socioeconomic group as well as their looks match. That means on average, average women are dating and marrying average men. But don't take my word for it, do your research :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:18 PM
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Your stats are correct but you forgot to add the part where 78% of sex trafficking victims are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:49 PM
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Yes I mean that I regularly see women with the type of physical features that don't require makeup to look attractive partnered with men who are unattractive by society's standards. I live in a low to middle class area, so based on the amount of occurrences I've seen combined with the area I live in I'm going to go ahead and assume what I'm seeing on a regular basis is not a sugar baby or trophy wife type of situation. To be clear when I say unattractive men I'm speaking specifically about facia…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:34 PM
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I only see the complete opposite of what you see on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:56 PM
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Yeah I think you misread my last one. I don't know any woman that don't as in do not approach men because they happen to be worried about other women. As to the rest of your stuff I'm not feeding the troll anymore. If you're not a troll you need some serious help bud. Regardless, there's no point in debating with the type of person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 12:32 PM
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Lmao, you are just hopeless dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:10 AM
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I don't have a problem approaching men, nor did I imply that I do. I'm also attractive by societies standards so I don't have any issue with men approaching me either. I don't know any women attractive or unattractive that don't approach men because they're worried about other women. OP's conclusion is based on their own perception it certainly isn't based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:29 PM
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Nah dude it's cuz they don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:51 AM
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Okay but those studies (two of which I actually looked over) incredibly small in numbers didn't stay anything about women feeling insecure in regards to approaching men because of other women. They just talked about insecurity in interpersonal relationships. I could see a woman not approaching a man because she feels insecure. But not because she feels insecure because of other women. The only way I could see that play out is if a woman had a crush on a dude that was used to dating incredibly at…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:24 PM
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I've never heard of this theory from men or other woman. I'm pretty sure you couldn't find any evidence to back it up. Many women don't approach men because it isn't necessary for them to approach men in order to find a significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:31 PM
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I'm saying it's not a round about way of saying anything because I literally said what you said in other words. Again you clearly want to argue for the sake of argument. ETA: a bitter attitude gets you nowhere in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:13 AM
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It's not a round about way of saying anything. You just want to argue for the sake of argument eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:25 PM
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I bet they aren't either because they weren't into approaching the guy first. Often times the person that asks the other person out tends to pay for the first date. Not sure how that gives them leverage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:05 PM
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There's a lot of truth in that. I've met numerous women who like to pay every other date. So clearly they have no equality issues there. But they still don't want to be the ones to approach men first. There's nothing inherently wrong with choosing equality when it comes to paying for dates and preferring to be approached for dating without also doing the same, as long as you're not doing things that way while stating you want equality across the board. Because then you're just venturing off into…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:41 AM
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I think your response kind of proves that last bit of what I've said. I hope you get the help you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:51 PM
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Why can't some men learn to read body language like the vast majority of people? It's a pretty important thing to know. Generally women take no issues with speaking up when a man approaches them. I'm not sure why you feel the need to infantilize women, other than some underlying issues of your own. But if you were to learn to read body language you would be able to tell if your approach was welcomed from the get-go. Not only does it benefit you to understand body language when it comes to person…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:01 PM
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There are a ton of books out there about reading body language if it doesn't come naturally to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:42 PM
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There's nothing wrong with wanting someone who looks attractive. But don't get into a transactional relationship and expect to fall in love down the line. That is the complete opposite of logical. ETA: because talk to text change the word wanting into running.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:17 PM
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Of course there's more to relationships than just love. It takes a lot of work to make a relationship function properly. But a relationship without love is just a friendship at that point. Or something transactional. Again just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:06 AM
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I'm going to take a stab at it here even though I'm not the person that initially wrote it. looks unintelligent/like I would be easily bored by them •I don't know about this one because a good portion of the men I know who are highly intelligent essentially dress like homeless people when they're not at work lmao. jock/player types •The dude bro look man. The guy that makes the gym his whole personality. Or he ONLY wears sports apparel and makes sports his whole personality as well. Probably hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:57 AM
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Yeah again I can see if that's a satisfying life for a person, if that's what makes you happy then do what makes you happy as long as you're not hurting anyone. As much as I can empathize with the hardships of dating and just overall shitty things that happen to people in life, I'll never fully understand relationships that are completely transactional in nature. I guess maybe if you already have deep loving relationships with your family and friends then maybe you don't need that from your sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:55 PM
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If you're into that kind of mutual relationship I can see how that could be ideal. But personally I've always wanted a man who could see me for more than the sum of my parts. Just like how I think most men out there would much prefer a woman who loves them for them, far beyond what they can provide financially. The kind of relationship you're talking about doesn't have much depth to it. Like if you're loaded and you're regularly sleeping with a gorgeous woman who is with you because you're loade…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:13 PM
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Okay her point still stands if she changed it to most men. You're hung up on one word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:46 PM
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No, the equivalent that was made was excellent. Your equivalent makes no sense nor does your argument about perspective. Just like OP's post you're arguing with a sad amount of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:04 PM
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Because he's bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:44 AM
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Oh I don't think any of it's happening anytime soon. But more states might get on board about not making someone financially responsible when they're found out to not be the biological parent. I'm not holding my breath but out of the two things I mentioned that one is more viable overall. Also I think people on both sides would take issue with giving out their DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:52 AM
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I feel like nobody would see it as a big issue if it was just made to be mandatory in the first place. Personally if I'm in a healthy long-term relationship with someone and I somehow get knocked up (which mirena is 99% effective so I'm not worried) I would be livid if my significant other asked for a paternity test. Asking for such a test would imply that he has no trust in me and trust is part of the foundation of a healthy relationship. So yeah I would be questioning what made him feel that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:46 PM
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Apparently you have reading comprehension skills. The man I quoted didn't say that the size of a mans dick was of zero importance. He was merely stating that the connection, the experience is the much more important than dick size. Which I absolutely agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:14 PM
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Stay in the dark then bud. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:04 AM
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I'm sorry that you have to live with such delusions. I hope you come to a better understanding of reality at some point in your life so you'll be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:59 AM
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" Women care about the experience of sex more than the size of your dick my guy, and tongues hit the most sensitive first inch the best anyway." This guy gets it. Maybe you should listen to him OP, because you clearly aren't listening to all the women who are chiming in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:42 PM
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You know it's some bullshit like tik Tok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:39 PM
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The vast majority of posts and answers by a lot of men in here like to tell women how we feel. Or quote the kind of studies that would have your professor belly laughing at you if you were trying to use them for a research paper in college. Or better yet they saw one chick on tiktok or Twitter say it so every woman feels that way. Lucky for us, these chronically online men with warped perceptions of reality don't reflect the general population of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:34 AM
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I'd like to think I speak for the vast majority when I say, most of us aren't seeking sexual validation. I certainly wasn't correlating sexual validation with women needing to work on their personality when I wrote that post. Overall people who suck at communicating usually suck at relationships. That's a damn good reason to cut your losses right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:46 AM
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I can see how that would be incredibly frustrating. it does seem to be a common theme amongst some women. This isn't something that I just see men complain about online. I've heard similar complaints from male friends throughout my life. Some women are just sexually repressed. Maybe some want mind readers? Or they've grown up in situations where they have been taught to put their needs aside. Whatever the reason I can understand the frustration behind it. I personally can't imagine being comfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:29 AM
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Most of the men that I have been with who absolutely sucked in bed definitely had a lot of experience under their belt. So it wasn't lack of experience making them awful, it was them caring about their own sexual experience as opposed to both of our sexual experience together. It was selfishness that made the sex horrible. I've never had trouble explaining what it takes to get me off. It's not particularly hard to do, I can orgasm quick or I can take my time, I've got that shit on lockdown. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:46 AM
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This sounds like my exact experience with men, from my first sexual experience all the way up until my mid 20's. Especially the part about men thinking I don't know what I want and I must like it because their ex liked it. Like who the fuck are you to tell me what I like? I know what I like and I've never been shy about explaining it. I also absolutely agree with your sentiment in regards to the best sexual partners. You've covered ALL the bases in excellent detail with your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:31 AM
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No they didn't believe in that whole alpha beta insanity that a small amount of people put way too much weight into these days. My grandfather was a welder a mechanic a body man and owned and an excavating company on top of all that. By the standards in his day my grandfather was considered to be a man's man for what it's worth. My grandmother didn't want a man to run the show she wanted equality she wanted her voice to matter as much as his did. She wanted her children to marry men and women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:44 PM
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Right because there's a big difference. Regularly disrespecting your partner in public regardless of gender is a huge sign of a very unhealthy relationship. Disagreeing with your partner is just something that happens. Not everyone is on the same page at all times, that's just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:17 PM
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I may be an only child but I come from a very large family. None of my uncles or my father are running the show behind the scenes. My grandfather ran the show and my grandmother made sure that none of the fruit of her loins we're going to put up with that absolute fucking bullshit again. She may not have been strong enough to stand up for herself but she sure as shit wasn't going to let history repeat itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:14 PM
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I don't have any literature to back this up but I got to tell you I've only came across a small amount of women in my life who are happily submissive. History tells me we were pretty keen on working towards equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:37 PM
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Some women have more room than others. Some women have different depths than others. Some women have larger or smaller clitorises than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:07 AM
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You are absolutely right about that. My initial point still stands, there are numerous well documented studies that prove the vast majority of women cannot orgasm from PIV alone. Because no matter how many nerve endings we've got going, the clitoris reigns supreme. Yes I'm talking about the little button not the part of it that isn't visible to the naked eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:25 PM
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My most recent ex was thinner than average. He's the only one I've been with that was built that way. Overall his dick was less sexually stimulating. But the build up before sex combined with how in sync we were made him incredibly irresistible. But if you want another point of comparison I would personally rather date a man with a 3.5 inch cock and an average girth than a man with 6.5 in and a noticeably thinner girth. But again cock size is much less important than the man wielding it. How int…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:29 AM
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I don't see anything in that screenshot you posted that disproves the studies that show around 80% of women can't orgasm from PIV. We only have so many nerve endings at the entrance. So if you're not hitting our clitoris during PIV most of us are not going to orgasm. Why do y'all think cowgirl is so popular where a woman is sliding back and forth on you as opposed to bouncing up and down. She is sliding back and forth so she can get some goddamn clitorial action for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:10 AM
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I mean I would rather have a talented man in bed who has a small dick than a guy with whatever the perfect girth is to me. there's so much more involved in these kinds of things than size, you know? When I have gained interest in a man the size of his cock doesn't deter me from continuing to explore our potential. We are so much more than the sum of our parts, you know? The only caveat being if he is too large or if he has a micropenis. Because I very much enjoy PIV sex and a large cock or a mic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:18 PM
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We've got a whole lot of nerve endings at the entrance yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:48 AM
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Don't worry, they're in their teens. I'm not prepping and 8 year old for adult dating :). If you're trying to guess my age based on theirs, I had them when I was 26. Keeping it vague because nobody ever wants to get outed on Reddit. I appreciate your compliment towards my argument. I think one of the hardest parts about arguing a point is trying to articulate yours without spitting vitriol. For instance you can make a legitimate point and someone responds with something that is absolute trash. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:39 PM
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I agree with what you're saying. There will always be outliers but some generalizations have facts to back them up. We are all more alike than we think. Although I do think that this Sub in particular has a tendency to generalize men or women into categories based on their own personal experience versus what numerous studies have come to find. We are ALL more biased than we would like to admit. Like the amount of men who come on PPD and say why do fat ugly women only want hot guys. Then they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:50 PM
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Although I don't agree with some of the points in your OP, there are numerous studies available that backup what you've stated in regards to the age gap. Looks like it's actually gone down from around a 2.4 year difference to a 2.2 year difference on average. Of course there will be outliers because not everyone meets the average. From my own personal experience I've had a lot of younger men interested in me for long-term relationships. But as I've aged I found that my taste in men has changed. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:19 PM
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But if they can't blame the women they might have to look inward and hold themselves accountable. The loud minority of men complaining about this kind of stuff would never subscribe to any logical conclusions such as that. ETA: you can downvote the truth all you want but it's still factual information.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:00 PM
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If it's tinder they probably aren't reading your profile at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:00 PM
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You will see different comments from my myself that speak in regards to the different depths and sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:36 PM
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And Men play until the female insecurity by using horrible slang for their vagina like meat curtains. Some people are assholes and they try to hit you hard with their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:35 PM
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I'm going to have to go ahead and disagree. I've had big I've had small I've seen a lot of different dick features in my day considering the fact that I'm an older millennial. I would prefer anywhere between 4" to 6" lengthwise. It would be nice if he was a little thicker than average. But that's not imperative. Also I prefer uncut but I live in America so that really sucks :(. Those are just preferences though. The best dick is the dick attached to the man I love. Probably because I cannot sepa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:23 PM
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I've dated so many men with six packs. Unfortunately for me the vast majority of men that find me attractive are in incredible shape. It's unfortunate because I prefer dad bods. I also prefer the kind of men who understand that I have my own thoughts. The kind of men who value my thoughts and don't tell me that I'm lying and actually I think in whatever convoluted way they've come up with. So yeah I'm an attractive women who prefers dad bods. I don't really care how tall a dude is. I don't care …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:17 PM
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That's not how they work. If they're tighter when they're aroused it's because she's purposely squeezing the muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:13 PM
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I've never heard size queen taken as a positive. Back in my day when that term was used more frequently it was a subtle way of implying that a woman was a ho. Usually the kind of men that talk about wanting a super tight vagina are the kind of men who are insecure about their cocks. Although that's just from my own personal experience. Also the other ladies that pointed out vaginas tend to loosen up when they're aroused, pay attention to that information as it is vital when it comes to learning …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:10 PM
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Yes most people will pass the metric. But I'm trying to say is most of y'all act like your penis size is such a big deal. But it's a big deal to you not to us. I wish men would quit trying to make this a thing so that it wouldn't be a thing anymore. Nobody cares about your dick more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:04 PM
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Like 80% of women can't orgasm from just a dick inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:36 AM
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Yeah dude those are just two people in a sea of human beings. One article doesn't do anything to prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:28 AM
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Different women have different tastes and preferences of course. But most vaginas are only so deep. From my experience size doesn't matter unless you have a micropenis or a porn level penis. When it comes to sex I'm less concerned with a man's penis and more concerned with how he operates in the bedroom. Size queens are in the minority when it comes to women. Sometimes it's a *loud minority but it's still the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:17 AM
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If a woman is constantly dating assholes she probably have some mental health issues and you should avoid her anyway. The truth is lots of people date and lots of people find out during the dating process that the person they are currently with has a fundamental difference they cannot contend with. Then they break up and they go their separate ways. That's just life man. If people believed everything on PPD we would all just assume women are crazy emotional idiots who only go for assholes and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:21 PM
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I think it's common enough for a lot of people to be overly emotional. Women tend to express their emotions through different channels than men do. But just like I wouldn't hang out with a dude that expressed all of his life's frustrations through anger, I wouldn't want to hang out with a woman who expressed all of her life's frustrations through crying. Both of those people sound like a real trial to be around. Thank goodness none of my friends are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:27 PM
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I don't know a lot of women that cry over trivial shit so I can't really relate. ETA: now if you're saying being with an overly emotional person can be exhausting I completely agree. But from my understanding your initial post said that you can't be comfortable with a man showing emotion if he doesn't show you his masculine side first, that was my point of contention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:07 PM
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Also a woman. Men don't need to prove their masculinity to me. it's baffling to think that they should. The best kind of men out their know their worth is not based on bullshit gender rolls that society has pushed on them. If a man is crying in front of me for a legitimate reason it makes me aware that he is in touch with his emotions and he doesn't bottle shit up. These are huge positives in my book, green flag status. Because the kind of men out there that think anger is the only emotion they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:04 PM
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"Also is this some form of rage bait? either that or a really stupid post lol" I mean you could ask that question about the vast majority of posts in this subreddit and it would still be applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:38 PM
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