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Hope whoever the new one is has nicer real tits for ya so
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 05:01 PM
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Brutal but true
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/25 08:49 PM
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Sad truth is there is no working this out mate. You can allow it to be on her timeline allowing it to further deteriorate your mental helth and self worth or you can get ahead and speak to a lawyer tomorrow. I did the couples therapy, I stayed for 1.5years. The cheating, the gas lighting, the financial abuse all continued. I hope you make better decisions than me. Good luck, we'll be here for ya.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 12:28 PM
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If you do manage to stay in the house with her I've seen it recommend here to get cameras in the shared spaces and you're own room if you have one or wherever you sleep. This will protect you when she says you hit her and tries to have you arrested. You're ex is a liar, when she learns you're not just gonna roll over and do what you're told she's gonna get nasty, it's a tale as old as time. Don't do what I did and think this won't be like others, she's not like that, this will be different. It w…
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 04:09 AM
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I went through similar, I remember I spoke to my therapist about it but kinda struggling as to what she told me, I think she said what was happening was basically a panic attack in the middle of the night that was waking me up. Best way to deal with the panic attack was to open my eyes and breathe through it, deep breaths to calm down, count to ten and when I've calmed down I would fall back asleep. She also then went into me trying to direct my dreams by consciously thinking about the dream whi…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:40 PM
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Suicide is the biggest cause of death in men under the age of 50 and around three quarters of deaths from suicides each year are men. I could have been one of them but she cheated on me and 3.5 years later I am a hell of a lot happier now that I've left her, no longer being emotionally abused. ​ People will say things about me, should have been stronger, shouldn't have left his son, shouldn't have done this, that and the next thing and FUCK every one of them. I did what I needed to do to survive…
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/23 05:36 PM
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"Once they got the ring" This stings. Too true, ouch.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 12:32 AM
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Almost 3 years after moving out and only started to date recently. My advice is to just take all the time you need, don't worry about what she's doing, it's none of your business now, you just worry about you.. And you're going to wonder so remember this, abusers need somebody to abuse, victims need time to recover. You've got this..
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/22 09:53 PM
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3 years after I moved out and she still says she's not seeing anybody. I'm as confused as you, it's like she stopped wanting other men AFTER I left.. How does that make sense lol.. Anyway, I've just started dating the sexiest little blonde I've ever come across, buying a beautiful house and I'm happy as a pig in shit. Hope you are too brother.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 02:05 PM
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